Japan & America Gay Couple | International Relationship

Come join Tokyo BTM as they interview their gay friends from Japan and America, Parris & Shohei, and ask them about life as an international gay couple! Have you ever wondered what it would be like to date a Japanese guy? Is it like a real-life BL anime? Let's find out.
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[@alexanderbinns5572]

My spirit left my body when I got to the part where Parris was talking about preparedness. THE POUCH IS READY. LOL.

[@TsahayluFa]

The sudowoodo/Brock clip was freaking hilarious.

[@bradleyf3224]

Meng! "only asking important questions..." Guuuuuuuurl :) Such an insightful vlog, demonstrating the diversity of interest with the broader lgbtq community. Totally agree that a top that has not had any bottoming experiences is unlikely to be a 'good' top.

[@TokyoBTM]

Parris always has interesting things to say!

[@thedeoreo]

Excited to see Parris again on the channel. ❤️

[@TokyoBTM]

yes he is an entertainer >

[@wabz180]

omg the pouch. so relatable. my Japanese fwb always comes prepared with this 🤭

[@TokyoBTM]

Maybe we should do a Tokyo BTM pouch! HA!

[@wabz180]

@@TokyoBTM do it! maybe it'll benefit some btms :p

[@neuromodgames]

Wish I could have a cosmopolitan boyfriend who has a thirst for life and traveling... You guys lucked out! My warmest regards and hope all your plans make you happy!

[@TokyoBTM]

Yeah, they definitely lucked out :p I will pass your kind message to them

[@jessleung83]

This is so cute!!!!! That intro was so cute!!!

[@trevorcolas]

This was hilarious! I loved the bicultural insights.

[@stretchy1260]

Many years ago when i lived in London, i met a Japanese guy in a gay club. It was the best time i ever had with a guy, he returned to Japan a few days later........ i have never loved since.

[@TokyoBTM]

Oh no! Did you keep in touch?

[@stretchy1260]

@@TokyoBTM I'm afraid not, we are going back to the days when mobile communication units was some thing you saw on Star Trek, and no internet. And it is true... i have never loved since. I am 59 now. But i still have fun. And i am hoping to catch up with you guys for a beer or two, your channel is the best.

[@danielintheantipodes6741]

This channel is so educational.

[@obiwan007]

Oh man Shohei is so my type ;) Have fun guys.

[@bryanta5678]

Goshhh they are so cute!!! 😍

[@litzalnas7466]

i hope i'll find the person whom i'll spend my entire life with 🙏

[@princegideon5185]

I enjoyed this video a lot that's why you got a new subscriber here.

[@TokyoBTM]

Awww thank you :)

[@sjffhfjcntgj9411]

2022: They are Married How time flies

[@TokyoBTM]

Yes and we are so happy for them

[@Love_TheArtist]

Wow! “Condoms?” 🤨 Japan, your on blast! I was apparently an angel when I “played” in Japan.

[@fenalraun9561]

The preparedness and lowered spontaneity seems like I great trait for me. However, I think it would grow boring if excessive. I don't think I would be able to completely kill that part of my western-ness.

[@TokyoBTM]

There's pros and cons to every type. It just depends on what works for you!

[@yeri_san5028]

This is an important question, what's their Twitter NAME I need for a project.

[@CapTVPrince]

Truly 😬 inquiring minds need to know

[@itsaringjapan6464]

His very talkative and entertaining. Enjoy gays

[@TokyoBTM]

Thank you!

[@ang5035]

Like the idea that "western" (whatever that really means) guys are open and honest and be able to talk freely about their emotions is totally false...Like shohei said, there are many ways of communicating besides verbally, I would say Japanese people are pretty communicative. Maybe not the way that non-asians find it easy to understand. Also, I find it massively limiting to talk about these interracial/national relationship through the "western" vs "eastern" lens. Like people outside of these dichotomy don't exist?

[@TokyoBTM]

Thank you for the comment! You're right, there are many more view points and influences beyond these two! Hopefully we can cover them more in the future!

[@taylorbeach5863]

Parris is so cute 😍

[@TokyoBTM]

Yes he is! ❤️

[@PhoenixFit2024]

When putting a condom in the pouch came up everyone laughed. Is Tokyo pretty much all bareback then?

[@TokyoBTM]

It's not all bare but I personally see more of it than I have in other places

[@ryle1732]

The spider fighters!!

[@TokyoBTM]

Yes haha, together they are strong

[@user-sc3oh1bw4z]

shohei 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Love_TheArtist]

Awww! I love this! I wanna call my ex-bf (Chinese American)...so hot! ...but, career first 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@toeicathome]

the couple is so culte

[@TokyoBTM]

They really are! We are jealous! haha

[@TedMeow]

ShoheiShoheiShoheiShoheiShoheeeeeeiii🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@TokyoBTM]

Parris needs some love too >

[@wjjrwjj]

Shonei is very handsome he make very sexy samurai with long hair

[@lazarocedeno5270]

You guys are soooo cute

[@marcuseldridge8675]

What!!!!!!!!! Japan love America men

[@roter13]

I could never date a bisexual or pansexual person. As a gay person, it would hurt more if they left me for a woman in the end. It's just expected.

[@TokyoBTM]

I dated a bisexual guy when I was younger and it was a fear of mine too (whether they actually would or wouldn't was of course a whole separate issue). Or maybe I was just fearing being left in general? I am not sure. Food for thought for me!

[@MidnightEkaki]

I understand the fear but its not more likely for a bisexual person to cheat just because of preferences.

[@TokyoBTM]

Fully agree! I think it is important to look at ourselves and our fears during these times. Probably has to do more with us and our personal experiences than the other person.

[@Samsok013]

the only time i got my heartbroken was with the nicest, cutest guy in the world and after we hooked up i kept texting him and he texted back but very distant.. and in the end he said please stop talking to me because i have a girlfriend and this was just for fun. I guess thats the first time i felt really low

[@vinrawat7041]

😇

[@10-OSwords]

Being a good top isn't about knowing what it feels like for the bottom; it is about being observant & deriving pleasure from knowing that you are pleasing your partner. AKA: it's about eating that @ss like you tryna get all the stuffin out the turkey!

[@digbycrankshaft7572]

It helps a lot to know what the bottom is experiencing.

[@若月裕二-e1j]

Is Shohei wanting arms ?

[@jakes9711]

I never knew I'm Japanese 😂

[@marcuseldridge8675]

Nah, Grindr is creepy af, I swear if your young at age 19 be careful some dudes, that "I thought" were good end up almost leaving me with no money☹. I worked to hard to fail Cybersecurity. I even met a famous instructor Tom Gustin and his son is Grant Gustin star host for Glee and the Flash.

[@DED_Search]

5:00 his shorts were too tight. And I love it. 😆

[@perdidoatlantic]

Shohei est tres chaude, hey!

[@TokyoBTM]

Yes he is!

[@SilverQuartz13]

Yay! Pansexual representation!

[@dilichina]

Shohei is kakui.

[@TokyoBTM]

We all love Shohei!

[@nathan87]

Close your eyes and tell me that isn't Bruno.

[@TokyoBTM]

Who is Bruno?

[@nathan87]

@@TokyoBTM Austrian character, in a movie >

[@TokyoBTM]

I'll have to check it out!

[@scottburbridge9285]

🌼💜

[@PastelRemix]

Justice for Sudowoodo!

[@bluedragonshine]

パンセクシャルとバイセクシャルの何が違うのか

[@danslaterlierderash]

日本語は母語ではありませんが、頑張ります。 細かいことのついて意見それぞれですが、大体、バイセクシャルは男性も女性も好きになれます。男性の方がいい、または女性の方がいいと思うバイセクシャルもいますが、両性好きになれる可能性さえあればバイセクシャルと言えます。 パンセクシャルはバイセクシャルとよく似ています。主に違いは、「性別を全然考えていません」と言う事です。「ある性別」ではなくて 「人」を好きになります。 昔よく話題になった違いは、トランスに向けてどうなりますか、と。パンセクシャルはジェンダーは気にしていないからトランスな人も普通に好きになれます。バイセクシャルは「男性」 と「女性」二つのジェンダーしか認めていないと言う意見も珍しくないけれど、現在、多いのバイセクシャルな人は普通にトランスな人も好きになれると言っています。その変更によってバイセクシャルとパンセクシャルの区別をつけるのはすごく難しくなってしまい、本当のことを言うと現在、人がバイセクシャルであるかパンセクシャルであるかを知りたいなら、きくしかありません。人は一番気になるカテゴリーを選んで、その名に乗りますけど、時代と国によってその二つの単語の意味と理解は異なります。

[@wjjrwjj]

Shohei

[@howard_5189]

为啥我前任没有那个小包包

[@TokyoBTM]

因为不是零号？^^

[@howard_5189]

Tokyo BTM 🤦🏻‍♂️天啦 完全没想到！！！！ 不过我是带着 无时无刻！ 🙂not always being btm though

[@micoy10]

4 btms hahaha , the sailormoon gang hahaha

[@digbycrankshaft7572]

🤡