Total honesty & raw emotion on display. Patrick overcomes the pain of his last restaurant closing.

[@MarkJohnson-ht8wd]

You are fortunate to have a wife that has stood by you through all this. She is a gem. As my Momma once told me, "when the wolf comes to the front door, love runs out the back."

[@renoreboutsikas14]

Don't be embarrassed, you are an inspiration to everyone not to quit on life. When you hit rock bottom there's only one way to go ... UP

[@TimmyCramer]

Love your brutal honesty!! I'm 59 and have been self employed since I was 18. I'm ready to get a job at a golf course so I can enjoy life....even more!! The simple life.....is the best life. Timmy C Arizona

[@halfmoon64]

Wow I am 59 and then self-employed since I’m 18 as well here in nyc Tell me about it, sign me up for golf job as well

[@charley95sheridan44]

@@halfmoon64 Hats off to you guys, small business is the backbone of America which is slowly being killed off. I can't imagine the stress involved keeping a business afloat which I thought I wanted at one time but probably wouldn't be able to handle it. At 60 and retired I'll keep bitching about my crabgrass and polishing my cars and travel and enjoy the simple life I guess.

[@voguedolll]

Nothing beats the freedom of doing what you want. Yes it's a tough road getting there but your health and life are worth more then your bank statement.

[@mikescaffo4850]

Brother your not a failure just the opposite your a winner because your willing to be truthful and not candy coat things God bless you and your family

[@Jez1963UK]

Oh man, your story and my story are soooooo similar. I’m 61, own next to nothing, and have been soooooooo happy that way for around 15 years when I lost everything (before then I was very materialistic and wasn’t at peace or happy). Only now, after all that time am I truly ready to let go of my ‘work passion’ for a whole new chapter. Brand new canvas and I’m sooooo excited. You are sooooooo right about everything you say. I believe you needed to lose that business, maybe if you didn’t you wouldn’t be here today. I believe in God, in guidance etc etc and what happened to you was for your highest good. I love you man, you are incredibly interesting and you are loved, - not just by those around you,but by all the lives you are touching with your message. What more do you need!

[@B44SB66]

Possessions are a burden and a responsibility at times and without them no one will bother you

[@wayne6066]

In a hundred years nobody is going to care how big your house or what kind of car you drive, how sucssessful your buisness was. They'll care about your integrity and kindness, love and generosity. When we are no longer and just a picture on a shelf , people who knew us will smile and remember us for who we were.

[@tracyshoemake9686]

Just keep on chasing happy places like Destin.Its a healing place.

[@DividendStreams]

Your a success dude you have moved on to living instead of misery you where probably a miserable person back in the day now you are free priceless!!

[@jacquelinesannicolas9206]

Peace & Happiness is always the goal.

[@Scott-xf5xb]

Dude you have NOTHING to be embarrassed about. You went all in and things didn't work out. You had the courage to jump into the fray. 99 out of 100 people are afraid to do what you did. Respect man!

[@JKART-do5jc]

40 yrs of sobriety here. Had many ups and downs in life. I worked for myself most of my life, not sure how I finally made my life a bit better, but it was a struggle. Had a fabulous retail store that finally failed during gulf war, so many ups and downs. Life is a constant up and down riding these waves. I accomplished a lot and sometimes do not give myself the credit for changing things when the tides changed. I know those struggles of really not wanting to go back to certain types of work that can take over your life. You and I could have some real discussions. Hang in there, it does get better. I think we can become more peaceful through acceptance. In my mind Failure is really an illusion. We just get up each day and try again, that’s all we have. And, you are right health is everything…most important.

[@airheadusmc3821]

Wow 40 years sober I'm 39 and only 34 days sober 😔 . I drank alcohol from Dec 2009 to Oct 5th 2024 😢😮

[@donaldkremin1452]

Patrick, thanks for sharing your story! You are helping a lot of us figure out what’s important!

[@tombkk1322]

I’m 65 and find your story very compelling. I think your words are very wise and true. I will continue watching your videos.

[@Liisa_011]

You've list a lot if weight. Not just from quitting drinking. You go on Keto?

[@Jimbo8012]

It's quite remarkable how much you've changed physically from the older photos. You're a lot slimmer, you look much healthier and to be honest, you're much better looking than you used to be. I've never thought a goatee beard is a good look on any man but you suit it. I had one in my teens and I looked fucking stupid with one. You suit the long hair as well. Yes, you don't have your millions any more, but you've got your health back so that's a major positive.

[@southernshooter]

I always worked for a company but I know about being burned out. I retired at 61, what a relief. For 10 years after I retired I dreamed I was at work and dealing with problems. So glad to wake up every day and know it is over. Your story is a help to burned out workers!

[@Tatman1212]

Hi Patrick. I found your channel by accident and now I am very glad I did. I am a few years younger than you and I am originally from Chicago. I am at a rough point in my life and I’m trying to get out of a hole. Financial is not my issue thanks to God blessing me that way. But I’m a living example of money doesn’t make you happy. I need to find joy again and I think your videos are going to help me get a better perspective. Amazing how God can use people like yourself to help so many others in a fall from the top of the mountain scenario. God bless you and I look forward to watching as many of your videos as possible.Mark.

[@ziggy33399]

You don’t have to think about going back into anything…you’re great just “as is”. You’re loved 🥰 now and freeEEEE! What an awesome video! 🎉

[@truthseeker8524]

I appreciate your honesty. It is a lot more useful to hear about people's failures than an endless stream of KZbin videos about how successful people appear to be. The truth is most people fail at things. Overcoming these failures is really the best information for people to hear. Otherwise, everyone feels that they are the ones doing really badly, and everyone else is succeeding.

[@ljmap2409]

THANK YOU FOR YOUR RAW TRUTH ITS VERY HUMBLING TO LISTEN TO YOUR WISDOM SIR! 👍

[@TH4Peace]

First, I appreciate your integrity to aspire to pay back those that helped you. Secondly and most interest…would love to hear you & Mary share how your commitment & respect for each other surpasses love to what is at soul level bonding of two people. This alone makes you both enriched with what few people know are likely may never know. Much love and respect to you both. Inspiring.

[@briann3921]

Patrick! Thank you so much! I just discovered your channel. I really can’t even find the words to say how much your videos touch me! I get it! From one Irishman to another…..Thank You!

[@thanewalton6740]

That's my line, I am in the forth quarter! It really hits me when I here this. Life is short and fragile.

[@PlantNativeTrees]

Love your honesty and to see you are healthy and happy now ☺️ I hope your friend Pat retires soon. It’s not worth hustling for money especially later in life and when you’re already quite comfortable.

[@beerman204]

Your last restaurant could have been too good ... not enough savvy customers? Now you are free and connecting to others in a valuable way... Many thanks.

[@JackLopez-e9k]

You are a very humble man, Patrick. Take care of yourself.

[@Brad1237202]

Great video Patrick!!!

[@Paraphantasm]

Thank you for your videos; it means a lot specially for people that are loosing everything. That’s the spirit!!!

[@markr5132]

God bless you Patrick. You are really great at inspiring and helping so many people with your sincere content.

[@BalintIlona]

Just keep it coming 🎉 you are awesome and your life hits home to millions of us 🎉🙏

[@toriwolf5978]

Always look forward to your videos ! You give me inspiration that no matter what if you get knocked down that you can come back and enjoy your life to the fullest ❤ you don’t need a lot , keep it simple stay free don’t get tied to material things…. You’re living the dream now !!!

[@GiuseppeDeMartino-o9w]

Greetings from Sydney Australia I don’t normally comment but it feels so good to see you being happy after everything you’ve been through. I love hearing your life. Story of your honesty is so refreshing. Keep the videos coming and best of luck , may God bless you and your beautiful family

[@Destin60-hm2sh]

Thanks for your rare comment and your encouragement.

[@Ric995]

Thank you Patrick for sharing your stories! IT helps me from staying off the alcohol. I am 50 now and desided that the second half of my life should be healthy so I starten eating healthy, a lot of sporting and no alcohol and sugar! Keep on going! I watched all your videos at one the I found your channel! ❤

[@jgg204]

Been following you from the beginning. We are fascinated with your life story, the ups and the downs, and everything in between and where you landed in the end. You have excellent life lessons, and watching your videos has made us take a step back and reevaluate our real estate businesses and the path forward. We are only given 1 life, and at some point money just becomes money. Quality of life, family and friends, and health are most important. We have started to evaluate an exit plan on or before 2030 and have been in talks with our accountant on the best ways to divest. We are looking forward to many of your videos to come. Thank you!

[@mikimikemike1]

im glad for you , your truely happy

[@fayyazi61]

Bro, you're a motivation for me I am inspired by you already. Thank you for all your wisdom keep up the great work.

[@kariala-leppilampi4965]

Thanks for your honesty about set backs and your willingness to accept things as they are. That is living a truly authentic life and I admire that

[@LauraCharbonneau]

Good for you dude! Honestly speak your truth! I really like the videos I’m learning things just by listening to you. Take care

[@Noname77331]

You’re a beautiful person! Stay on the straight and narrow path❤

[@tomdawson4885]

You have a motivational way about you.

[@teamginate3400]

I get your statement “ I found a freedom in losing everything “ ❤

[@Bobafe77a]

You're not alone. I think a lot of retirees have this mental tug o' war I'm in my 50s. Cooked for 38 years. Cooked privately for the stars and the richest for 7 years. Had a successful restaurant for 18 years, I was married to it! I sold it , practically gave it away because I waited for years for a buyer. Nobody knows me now. I miss my kitchen. I have to get my head around it now.

[@Canadian_Eh_I]

Hope you find your groove brother, I know what you mean about 'nobody knows me now' fair weather friends !!!

[@Bobafe77a]

@@Canadian_Eh_I Cheers mate. I'm not done yet. Currently chilling in small town Thailand and planning on working a gig on a sail yacht next year on the Côte d'Azur. Did it 30 years ago for 7 years. Good luck to you. Keep on kicking, brother!

[@jianxiong69]

I cracked up when you said "I'm damaged goods" with a big smile on your face...😂

[@janwarriner6554]

Thank you for your honesty. I too find the Big Book taught me how to not only stop drinking but how to live. I’ve often said “thank God I became a drunk.” I’d never have learned how to live had it not been for the Big book and AA.

[@lisapinto3679]

My brother & an old friend went to AA, he gave me an xtra book. I’ll read it, although I don’t drink. My brother died @ 62 of liver cancer.

[@theshack28]

I closed my electronics store back in June this year. Has been nice and weird at the same time. Opening and closing the store, ordering product, waiting for people to come in but don't anymore. I think I'll miss dealing with my regular customers. I'm still young though so one door closes and another one opens. I love spending more time with the family though.

[@jg-xx8oh]

When I drive through Destin will take you for a coffee my friend enjoy the videos🇨🇦

[@XtorLuera-zj7tz]

Hello from oklahoma! I love your energy sir!! I honestly think you can thrive in the restaurant business once you get your mental right !!!! Keep up the good energy

[@leeroyjenkins436]

Thank you for sharing your journey. I love your outlook on life. Family, time and health are what’s really important in life. Congratulations on your sobriety, keep it going.

[@peterrubin643]

Thank You I identify a lot with your story. I worked for myself; over 45 years had 3 businesses. Had my day in the sunshine, then went bankrupt in 2008. Went penniless again when the pandemic came and at the age of 65 closed my business. I started doing Uber, then became a private driver for various people. I have been in recovery a few 24's, it saved my life, and I am very involved in the fellowship. I get calls from time to time from business associates to start up my business again. At 68 I don't want the anxiety. I don't want to try to conquer world anymore. But...... that entrepreneur in me is still there. I too am in much better place with a lot less money. Be well

[@bluoval3481]

Thanks for mentioning the program. Keep sharing what's on your mind. Feel free to share any stories that will make us laugh. We love to laugh!

[@PaulAnthonylim]

Thank you so much for your honesty. I definitely will follow you❤

[@davebayley5844]

Love this guy thanks for your love for people with addition God bless your you tube channel

[@thierrybudts6687]

I learn a lot of your channel in a very good way,thank you.greetz from Belgium 🇧🇪 all the best for the USA 🇺🇸 😊

[@miguelcamacho776]

You have the love from your family and true friends and survivor.Everything happens for a reason. The only time you lose,is when one doesn't learn from the bad experiences.I survived a heart attack and a stroke.I consider myself blessed.

[@jenG311]

Heals your Soul 🦋

[@celiciathomas5013]

You are amazing and you have done the work! Inspiring.

[@von6437]

We can’t go back and make a new start, but we can start now for a new ending.

[@juliadickenson178]

You've been a breath of fresh air re addiction. THANKYOU! The pain over losing your sister is so so moving.

[@ErnestoBoots]

You are awesome, you've had enough success for a few lifetimes, do whatever makes you happy. Really enjoy your videos & channel!

[@Dmanz1983]

I really enjoy your videos. I owned a pizzeria in Skokie for 13 years and sold it last year and moved out of state to Tennessee. Our only difference is that I really disliked the restaurant business even though I grew up in it. It was great money but it sacrificed life with family. Anyways, it looks like you’re content which is key. Happiness comes in 5 minute increments. I’ll keep watching.

[@beverlycowan6025]

Been sober 28 years one thing for sure changes is inevitable,and just because we get sober life isn’t wonderful,life is messy with all its ups and downs,but the big book teaches us how to handle it better ,nothing tastes better then peace of mind ❤I also believe the big book needs to be taught in school,give every one a chance at coping with life challenges

[@Truth_Trigrz_Libz]

You, Sir, are wonderful and an inspiration to us all!!!! Been where you have been in a different industry, it was eating me alive between the booze and stress. Making money hand over fist, and miserable. Woke up one morning and decided it was enough. Now my life, like yours, has clarity, simplicity and joy back in it!!!! Thank you for sharing your story!!! Blessings to you and your family!

[@BRIANDER100]

WHAT INDUSTRY ?

[@Truth_Trigrz_Libz]

@@BRIANDER100 Tech

[@BRIANDER100]

@@Truth_Trigrz_Libz how much money were you making ?

[@Truth_Trigrz_Libz]

@@BRIANDER100 And it matters why?

[@BRIANDER100]

@@Truth_Trigrz_Libz because i'd like to know how much

[@cardinal8268]

I've been in an industry for 25 yrs and am very good at it. I know in my soul that it served its purpose and its time to move on. I'm retiring from it in 6 months and heading to a new town and new adventure.

[@charley95sheridan44]

More power to ya!

[@BRIANDER100]

WHAT INDUSTRY ?

[@danbailey4094]

Love your brutal honesty about your life experience!! Thanks for sharing!

[@askpops-c3x]

Wow! What a great video. Thanks for sharing your struggles and triumphs.

[@sunmoonstars-lb5li]

Thank you for sharing your valuable knowledge ❤️

[@susandubin3274]

Good for you Patrick!

[@martincleere4968]

YOUR HEALTH IS YOUR WEALTH, BEST WISHES, ❤

[@larrykent3568]

I started watching you and your wife videos, about, 2 months ago. Especially the alcoholism. I also stopped drinking, cold turkey. After 30 years. I went threw some ruff nights and drank a lot of Dr.peppers, and waking up,with my pillow case soaking wet from DT,s. AND the Minnie trash can at my bedside, for, Getting sick every night. For not having. Booze. Ty my freind. I think what you said, about the last 20. Helped me change. Me being 62.,again ty,

[@Canadian_Eh_I]

Wow, you look alot healthier now than in that pic from when you owned that restaurant! My parents owned a restaurant and it nearly killed them, then the guy my mom is with after my dad died was a restaranteur with 40 years experience and he lost everything just like you. I will NEVER open up a restaurant !

[@Roxy0405]

The restaurant business is brutal.

[@charley95sheridan44]

He doesn't even look like the same person from that pic.

[@Canadian_Eh_I]

@@charley95sheridan44 Yep, Ive seen it, stress/depression can cause weight gain.

[@DenverBrad]

When your industry kicks you hard in the teeth, you’ll never want to go back

[@rapid789]

I am impressed! What you said made be think....

[@jers132]

Thanks for sharing

[@lnewbury1]

“I’m in the last quarter”……damn! That stung like a wasp!

[@TacomaNick]

Don't forget that the last quarter is the best part of the game.

[@JIMDAVIS-z2h]

I said “I’m in the fourth quarter now” to An 82 year old guy that I play golf with. He said “then I must be looking at the 2 minute warning !”

[@arlenecalderon8392]

Who the Son sets Free is Free indeed. ❤ HALLELUYA 🙌 Amen. Shalom 💕🕊

[@charley95sheridan44]

You bet!

[@johnr2273]

Love the honesty. Don’t go back to the well (restaurants) again

[@johnr2273]

I am curious why you think last restaurant failed

[@bitcoinrules3971]

Love you Patrick- cousin Meg:)

[@paulbeasley3892]

Thanks for being you!

[@Destin60-hm2sh]

I’m getting pretty good at that. LOL

[@adrianward2797]

loving your vids, very positive , love forgive those that hate on you its hard but its healing , father forgive them they know not what they do is powerful healing enlightening, when young men were being blown up in Ireland with the conflicts a mother came on the news having lost her son she stated i forgive them filled with sadness of course but i was blown away by this mothers strength in not letting tragedy and darkness consume her , 🙏

[@danielleadams5174]

I have a friend that has went threw what you have. He took his knowledge and started buying equipment out of restaurants that were closing and reselling to ones that we looking to open. He has been very successful at it and still gets to be around the Biz he loves without the overhead and day to day worry. just a thought.

[@ocelotjazzz]

I’ve been a bar owner for 18 years. Very successful and I’m 48. I’ll go until I’m 55 but then I’m out! You don’t see many 60 year old plus bar owners. There’s a reason why.

[@charley95sheridan44]

I knew a guy that bought bars and when they'd peak he's sell them, does this still happen today? This was many years ago when he did.

[@ocelotjazzz]

@@charley95sheridan44 I have heard of that. Doesn’t happen in my town.

[@TRBOQUIK6]

The greatest wealth is health. Without it, nothing matters. Nothing will bankrupt you faster than health related issues... Nobody thinks about that when they are younger because everyone feels a sense of invincibility earlier on in they're journey. However, it's a double edged sword in the fact that "time" gives you everything in the beginning but at some point that same "time" comes knocking and wants everything back.. Once time strips you of everything at a certain point all you are left with is memories of a life you once lived. Nothing is promised other than taxes and death. So live your life on your terms and don't let societal influences, negativity, titles, materialistic garbage dictate where you think your life should be. Keep it 120/80 always.... Life is an "illusion"... Once that is realized, you will live in peace... Best regards....

[@charley95sheridan44]

Yep, lost our neighbor recently at 65, winning the Powerball would've meant nothing to her. Health is more important!

[@TRBOQUIK6]

@@charley95sheridan44 Sad. Condolences.

[@irishman3375]

Life is a book, one chapter ends and another begins. The story is yet to be told, enjoy the unknown.

[@robert301990]

That's a harsh one, to put your best foot forward and fail, gotta be a strong person to get out of that mental phase.

[@juantaveras3471]

Hey Patrick I really enjoy watching your videos and gaining wisdom. How long ago did you start making KZbin videos?

[@Destin60-hm2sh]

We started this February. Check out the first few videos and you get a little more of my story.

[@B44SB66]

I had an ex son-in-law that was very entrepreneurial and opened a nice restaurant in Texas City Texas and had very nice decor and food but the restaurant failed and he found out that in that working class town people were intimidated by the decor and would rather eat at a card table

[@charbvin]

As always , an excellent video

[@Destin60-hm2sh]

Thank you!

[@LeeC58]

If that's you in that picture with the three people in the beginning keep doing what you're doing you look a lot better and healthier and happier. The dude looks works for you😂😂😂😂😂 good luck dude 👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@markalley6303]

Love your take on the Big Book..it’s a design for living that really works..and can work for anybody (alkie or not). Thanks! (sobriety date 4/28/05)…

[@LovingAtlanta]

👍🤩💝🙏Thank you

[@Billg1573]

Keep on keepen on.

[@JulieLang-w9s]

I watched a some of your video but can't watch it all. It is painful. I am in a similar boat. But I know from all the hard lessons I have learned what to teach my children to look out for. Now you have the chance to really help them build a fabulous life.

[@JoeKyser]

Facts is not defamation people

[@JohnCrowley-q9y]

Wow. I do wish I did not know first hand what it feels like to go from the top to the bottom. I think I may get it back but I don’t know. Went from two waterfront homes at the same time here in Seattle to a “cozy” little 1400.00 per month apartment. One of the most interesting parts about it all is so called “friends”. My failure was grand news to them despite their condolences to the contrary. One guy who I thought I was close to told me how he had watched it all unfold on the news and Facebook. I could tell how happy he really was about the whole thing. It was so pathetic. He never called me of course when I was going down to offer even moral support. Just waved to me as I was sinking!!!

[@TheLawnCareNut]

Been watching a few of your videos. Thank you for sharing your story straight. I know that's not easy but I can see/hear/feel in the vids that it is freeing for you and that's awesome. Also, your midwest/Chicago sensibilities come through well too and that's why you are gaining an audience fast. I love seeing it. I'm 51 and the exact opposite story of yours. I spent my entire life working for others and building their companies until I was 47 and went out on my own. Funny enough, in 2005 I was a middle manager for TruGreen working out of Park Ridge and Kennilworth was in my territory. I used to drive through there and wonder "what do all these MF'ers do to afford this?" Now I know 😂 I live in Bradenton now so if you are ever down this way let's collab. I'd love to have you on my podcast, Lawns Across America.

[@Destin60-hm2sh]

Wow, what a small world. You probably drove right past Patrick and Mary’s house.

[@Destin60-hm2sh]

We’d love to set up a date to talk on your podcast. Please reach out to me to make a plan. Jeff - [e-mail]

[@mreightytwenty8709]

Your the Man...from Kiwi

[@scnason1300]

Looks like you’re doing great, happy, and enjoying your life. All the money in the world can’t buy that. Keep making the great videos! I personally think Florida is a tough market for restaurants versus up north just from what I’ve seen living in both places. I personally think you’re living a dream most would want! Look at the ocean view and white sand beach !

[@artman2606]

Retired truck driver 67, Wisconsin.in & out of AA 45 years.sober 73 days. The difference this time is I finally got a sponsor and I’m trying to believe in God and working the steps. I was an atheist my whole life,so I didn’t have to work the steps. My life now seems like an adventure and I’m sober. Still trying to get used to retirement it’s crazy. I can relate to you so much and your life ,love the channel.

[@Jez1963UK]

Take a look at the book Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsch.

[@charley95sheridan44]

Bless ya brother from walking away from the atheism myth, the devil is a pure liar!

[@lisapinto3679]

@@Jez1963UKI was given that book 20 yrs or so ago. I’ll have to read it.

[@Jez1963UK]

@@lisapinto3679 oh man it is my ‘bible’. Before, I didn’t believe or know what god is, now I am a total believer. It resonates so perfectly and literally answers everything. It changed my life, forever. It is the book I live by. First read it around 15 years ago. I also highly recommend the audio book of it.

[@mikimikemike1]

so true the clock is the enemy

[@moregoldmoregold]

Naah it’s only the beginning. It never ends

[@ticaroo]

I just wanted to say that you actually saved my mental stability. I also was a millionaire ( not to your extent, aprox 2.2m. For 23 years I was married to a women with 2 wonderful grown children now. But on my 50th birthday, I thought what am I doing? She worked in a lightly no brain job making $30k a year nd never even had to pay a phone bill, let alone too the $100s of thousands. I spent for my children’s high high end sports at the time. She drove Navigatiors, Escalades, Mercedes, million dollar home, as well as $50 k extra every year I would give her from my multiple buiss

[@ticaroo]

Added to previous reply. When I decided that I mentally needed a new start, it literally cost me 40 yrs of work. From a small town , bashing me, ruining my reputation also costing me my children’s inheritance, my reputation ( until the truth came out) but first one to mention it,,, Generally is the one to be believed. I wanted to give up. Until I watched your story. We used to spend 3 months in Florida every year. Now I’m not sure , I can even afford to go anymore. But that isn’t so important anymore now I’ve watched your videos. You obviously have a wife that truly loves you. Kudos. I ,,, only now have found my soulmate, who I’ve known and been best friends for past 20 yrs. I just wanted to once again say THANK YOU. Apologies for my 2 part message!,,, ya took my shame away, from being one of the most successful people in my home town, to being unnoticed. Which I enjoy much more than my the stress of my past life. Cheers pal.

[@martinsevic6709]

I'm in a situation like you now, i hope, that i will not making a videos and explaining to people where i do mistakes. I hope to enjoy in my mistakes and 😂😂😂 on this. I wish you all the best big man!!