Trust your struggle | Zain Asher | TEDxEuston

[@ChrisGloss]

Awesome! Love when she said “I don’t believe in competing for what I want, I believe in creating what I want”

[@stevebiaya928]

It really didn't add up to me until she related it to the A . Lincoln saying . she actually meant if you want to be become a CEO you have to prepare yourself for it.

[@the_red_warden9435]

That is works to live by now for me :), it really hits home.

[@don220486]

I loved this too, but I would like to know the steps in her creative process, or perhaps what other people have found effective in creating what they want.

[@박원기-j4q]

Vladimir W/Brother Hive ㅑ

[@the_red_warden9435]

박원기 Was meinst du?

[@victorandrew3789]

Nigerians are everywhere, doing everything possible to make it in life.

[@BlessedVivi]

Victor Andrew yes they are!!!

[@David4u2020]

Victor Andrew it define us in various ways #WeAllTheWayUp #SucessIsTheOnlyOption

[@seuna.8438]

SosoDef GTZ I'm sorry to hear that. 200 million people. Some turn out good. Some turn out bad..I hope our reputation in SA will be better very soon.

[@abdulmuhammed5400]

SEUN A. Nobody force your SA people to use drugs...

[@abdulmuhammed5400]

SosoDef GTZ Nigeria resources was used to free your bastardized citizen from the white man shackles...

[@JackieKiadii]

lf you #stay ready, you never have to #get ready.

[@BriaBarrows]

Yess

[@canaensaza1778]

I love it and it works... STAY READY and you will never have to GET READY...

[@bulelwalukhozi6150]

LOVED IT!

[@deqaful]

Cana Ensaza n

[@deqaful]

Cana Ensaza morning

[@collinsmicrosystems8010]

Watched it 5 years ago and i've never forgotten the part where she says, "Success comes when opportunity meets preparation"...it changed my life

[@thabangmthethwa7233]

trust your stuggle. have faith that someday the dots will connect.

[@susanhiuhu1701]

Thabang Mthethwa ,oh hallelujah. that one day the dots will connect.

[@phumiegee5166]

Thabang Mthethwa Yasss 🙋

[@gma904]

susan hiuhu Yessss Lord!

[@katliitokeng7173]

+Phumie Gee true indeed😘

[@deqaful]

Phumie Gee b

[@sophiyyasellsrealty]

"Your opportunity will oneday come, u just have to be READY"~Zain Asher

[@vasudevanpurushothaman2557]

👌...am waiting

[@justmylifestyle5584]

Ooh, she is Chiwetel Ejiofor younger sister, their mum did well as a single mother, by God's grace.

[@obianujuikeaka9947]

Wow!!

[@blaugranateam4035]

That's exactly what I was thinking when she was talking, you cannot get into private schools and get into Oxford if you are poor. But still, her story is very inspiring. Very successful family.

[@seanlana656]

Makes sense, same way likes like Davido will always refuse their Dad some accolades

[@vcp365]

justmylifestyle She was not a single mother. She was a widow, who lost her husband! BIG difference.

[@ColaBaby888]

justmylifestyle wow cool. Tips please mum!

[@DevonTriche]

Powerful Ted talk, this made alot of sense. We aren't in competition with each other. There's enough room for us all to make it. Focus on preparring yourself for what you want instead looking at what others are doing.

[@onewhoknowstheirpath119]

Devon Triche Truth

[@JadeCampbell40]

Devon Triche yes well said

[@JahangirAlam-dn4ux]

Devon Triche

[@ladytosha15]

Yes! Thank u

[@gregglass4796]

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[@nandantavkar]

The talk felt so sincere, with a true intent to share. It was inspirational and very practicable. Loved it, love her.

[@Maria-pu8wc]

Nandan Tavkar agree

[@samutshuma8347]

very sincere....im glad l watched it....

[@chocolatecookies6546]

Nandan Tavkar very true

[@AM-ve3um]

This is a breath of fresh air, I love her approach to success by not stepping on people on your way up. And that you should work on yourself for yourself instead of comparing yourself to people that have different journeys, struggles and demons than you. This is exactly what I needed after graduating with an engineering degree and not wanting to pursue a career in that field. Self-awareness is key and one should try to be a better person than they were yesterday.

[@joaoantoniojose74]

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[@joaoantoniojose74]

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[@onewhoknowstheirpath119]

the classic This has been my way I discovered that success is being the best version of YOU. Not being in competition to becoming the person you admire but challenging yourself to become the better U! We have to trust and love ourselves to discover our needs and be honest with ourselves!

[@jamesmoore7350]

Aryi

[@amjj9512]

the classic مياطفال يحل طن اشرب ا الحليب

[@noziphowabatagore3765]

"Success comes when opportunity meets preparation."

[@hlengekile]

Prepare for opportunities in advance, Don't start preparing when the opportunity is already there. This was indeed so powerful!!

[@pepplesarah8212]

In spite of the fact that she graduated from Oxford and Columbia Universities - two of the most prestigious universities in the world. Zain still had to do a job that was never her dream career, working as a receptionist for almost four years - serving water to anybody who came in to apply for the job she wanted. An experience, she described as 'humbling'...Read about Zain Asher @pepplesotonyeblog

[@ann-iv5db]

Me, "I can't take it anymore!" Inner me, " Then, give." One of my ways to de-stressed.

[@DoctorFashion]

I thought she was barefoot for a moment .. I was about to say “she’s bold AF” lol

[@jupitertogoe2420]

BritxBrat2Fashion lmaoooo sameee

[@tajhanderson5084]

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[@teneministries]

Their mom made them who they are today. She inculcated the foundation, hard work, preparations, smart thinking.

[@observer698]

but still some kids don't just listen how much you tell them what to do what not to do... Taking away the phone and the tv is the best strategy. Idle video watching (either on tv or internet) and video games are the number one addiction among kids (as well as some adults) It's worst than the drugs because they can't admit that they have the problem.

[@positvelyexpectant1383]

My go-to ted talk when I need to refocus, refuel and motivate myself to keep going. Thank you for sharing your story Zain!

[@eden.s.3338]

Positvely Expectant same situation, you spoke me mind too

[@Geneiveve]

She lives by faith. This is all faith based. Fantastic advice!

[@agnieszkanowicka4299]

I see ir differently... She lives by action

[@naijahairdiva8039]

@@agnieszkanowicka4299 faith without works is dead

[@hopenweke1437]

I believe in giving. Give kindness, give love, give knowledge, give money, give hope to those who need it. Thank you ma'am ♥️

[@lovemecom3832]

No matter what the hardships you are going through in life, have faith that someday the dots will connect and that everything will be fine. Challenge yourself to become better instead of putting yourself in a competition with someone else.

[@onyiistoryteller9647]

I have watched this video more than five times! I remember watching this two years ago...I look back now and my life have changed since the first time I watched this and put the lessons into practice.

[@KristieKillick]

As a singer currently sat in a tiny studio alone and having sat here for 7 hours waiting on the producer To finally turn up, refusing to buy dinner and wait until I get home to cook to save money, this video was the most important part of my day. I trust my struggle. Thank you.

[@BriaBarrows]

I could tell she was going to have a good speech even before she started. Great presence.

[@tshegomokonoto]

My sister was so bad at maths, well numbers in general, but because of all the lessons my mother took her too since she was like in Grade 2, today at age 28 she's a financial adviser for a large financial institution in South Africa and doing pretty well for herself, even appearing on our local news channels now and again. So you are so right... the struggle pays off in the end.

[@managementstrategisttraine1443]

Tshego Mokonoto true

[@thislady987]

She's so intelligent and an inspiration.

[@rommybarriga3590]

I clapped this lady when she said create instead of compete... after all the struggles she's been she did not become a selfish competitive destructive person. It reminds me one of the habits of highly effective people... win-win and the principle of abundance, yep, there can be success for everybody, we all can shine XD. She could have said "I've suffered so much, I need this for me, I deserve this more than others, me me me". I've seen in life and at work how people is struggling to be above others at all costs, a few work hard to be 'superior' (being above others instead of doing a good job) and they focus on the disgrace and failure of the others...

[@Ahmad-tv4vy]

the alternate of what she did is whats happening in world today

[@eddieokojie5425]

They have made it fashionable to justify creed. Disgraceful!

[@enouah1933]

Thanks you so much for the teach!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Anonyme67]

Nigerian!!! You have my respect from Cameroon

[@onyiistoryteller9647]

Who's watching this with me in 2020? She is amazing. A truly inspirational story!

[@Miss_M85]

Wow!!! What a magnificent speaker, such a great lesson.

[@CottonBoxer]

yes mam preparation is essential for the success that just appears outta no where.

[@jerugold50]

The car accident that she referred to involved her brother, the great actor Chiwetel Ejiofor.

[@BlessedVivi]

Jermaine Golden wowwww

[@akinloyeayorinde2264]

This is the best TEDx Talk I have listened...1. Trust your struggle 2. Keep preparing, Opportunities are coming...Those are my main takeaways....Thank you Zain Asher

[@qhaweteyise1955]

I respect this sister...#Captured

[@trangcaothu1303]

1. trust your struggle, it will finally bring out good results 2. compare yourself to other people will end up make you feel insecurity => no competitive in life as it has already been created. You create what you want to become and be a better version of yourself 3. share to be shared 4. failing to prepare = prepare to fail

[@hjbrowne3016]

Amazing within 4 years - Receptionist to CNN Host! Think of all those journalists who studied and had the experience but never got a position. So sad about her dad :-(More you give the more you get -love it...

[@gregglass4796]

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[@changungandu8289]

This is a great example that when God's grace allocates you it breaks protocol. You dnt need the papers, the degree or the experience God qualifies you for the job.

[@mmt1575]

@@changungandu8289 I believe in this so much, seeing that I recently passed an exam I wasn't so prepared for, while others failed.

[@ernestmathebula5609]

Victory loves preparation.

[@elijahbonriface5728]

thanks nice talk

[@victoryetaze8915]

ur right

[@zeasamudio7048]

oooh that's nice. thank you!

[@jaegg3907]

This resonated with me on such a deep level •

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[@user-wt3vf4ix6x]

This lecture is really unforgettable. It was so impressive to hear that success is an opportunity for those who are ready to catch it, and to prepare in advance , rather than just waiting for the opportunity to come. I also wanted to applaud the persistence of making tapes and sending own videos to broadcasting stations with the passion to achieve your dream that becoming an international journalist on CNN. And the words “trust your stuggle” was really touching. Additionally, the saying that the present hardships are become beneficial was amazing! Now, I realized that I should trust my struggle and prepare hard for the opportunity to approach me.

[@65Sakthi]

The best way to predict your future is .. just Create it... Wow.. it's Great

[@lovemecom3832]

Trust your struggle it means working hard and never stop believing that your hard work will result in a positive outcome.

[@jennifermoody6987]

*There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow men. True nobility lies in being superior to your former self.* - Ernest Hemingway - She possesses a deep wisdom that is so rare. Absolutely agreed with and loved everything she said!! The struggles are what make us appreciate the rewards and achievements more fully than if we'd just been given what we wanted right away. And it's a universal law that, to have the things u want come into your life, u have to be willing to give so that u are open to receive.. whatever emotional energy we send out into the universe is what we inevitably attract into our reality.

[@eddieokojie5425]

Wow! This is your TEDs TALK without getting unto that podium. It’s so powerful on its own, from the first line to the last. It’s fire. It hits me really hard in a different kind of way. I’m impressed!

[@jennifermoody6987]

@@eddieokojie5425 Omg thank u so much for your amazing comment! I'm so delighted that it made such an impact on u. I have so much more, like what I wrote here, that I've often contemplated sharing with people in vlogs. Your awesome feedback definitely gives me more motivation and inspiration to follow through with that dream. I sincerely appreciate u taking the time to read and comment on what I wrote. MUCH LOVE AND INFINITE BLESSINGS TO U MY FRIEND 💖💖😇😇🙏🙏🌟🌟🤗🤗💞💞

[@eddieokojie5425]

@@jennifermoody6987 Yes, rest assured, your post is certainly deserving of such praise. Over time, that’s what I find most interesting, fascinating and admirable about knowledgeable and wise people. For the most part, they are defined by their humility. Only fools conclude and proclaim they know it all! Please, keep on sharing your thoughts, insights, knowledge and understanding. There are people out there, ever so willing and happy to tap into them for further development. Much appreciated!

[@aminataswaray9583]

Gosh I love her approach at this don't compete with other what's suppose to be yours would be yours.

[@haienglish]

This is my favorite TEDtalk. I love listening to your story over and over again. Thanks for this.

[@Shekunchik]

I loved it so much, that I had to play it twice, back to back. I respect and salute her mother for raising her children this way, for finding the right approach and for teaching them how to achieve their goals. So inspiring, emotional and empowering.

[@julianne0104]

keep coming back to this since 2018

[@PdottJOfficial]

Beautiful message, beautiful lady

[@samarsingh3221]

teeke Ki knoj

[@nirmalakani2129]

Excellent!Actually I am struggling to get good score in IELTS and this video really helpful for me

[@ZONKAMANIA]

Love every gem of wisdom she shares in this video...the struggle resonates fiercely with me, and I needed this insight right now... At 41 years, I've been through a lot and have constantly wondered when the struggle would come to an end...when I would have that breakthrough I pray so hard for...well, I don't actually pray for the breakthrough, I pray for the strength to go the distance, to get through the hard times...which I know builds character...but I'm still waiting for the breakthrough, just need to focus on creating IT for myself and trusting the struggle to yield the goodness!

[@Tai_edge]

At my place of work and you just described me as that receptionist that wants more. Thanks for sharing your story, i am hopeful for better days and the realization of bigger dreams.

[@janisfkearney3000]

Wonderful story...Yes, "Trust your struggle" for me means working hard and never stop believing that your hard work will result in a positive outcome. No direct path to success for 99.9% of us - makes us stronger, our journey richer.

[@nunu22ish]

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[@qnMeanne]

I equally admire her mom. She raised beautiful people. God bless their beautiful family :)

[@appetite4chic878]

Most def! You have to prepare for anything you want in life. Whether that be an opportunity, relationship, new home etc. stay ready, so you won’t have to get ready. Be proactive instead of reactive 👌🏾

[@danielezeani753]

Lovely comment

[@ambroseokeynwachukwu1886]

Zain is from Igbo decent, a prosperous tribe in Nigeria. Very inspiring talk

[@sharigetzfit6042]

I needed to hear this. Trust that one day your opportunity is coming, you just have to be ready💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@grandymalakia7755]

“The more you give, the more you receive.” 👏🏾

[@dearheart2]

Very honest and sincere. Thanks for the inspiration.

[@sadejames8919]

This was one of the speeches that seriously impacted my life! God Bless this young lady.

[@sheech77]

there's no better person that tells you about struggle , success and giving than a person who really struggled succeeded and shared . great woman she is rich and poor in the same time very rare quality .

[@SuperStultz]

After a few years, this morning I had to revisit this scene. I listened to this a few years ago and my punch line is "Opportunity meets preparation." Can't beat that.

[@sadiobayne1642]

I can't stress enough how amazingly timely this was for me. I LOVE THIS.

[@mesunekonyan]

ALL I CAN SAY FOR THIS MASTERPIECE IS "THANK YOU"

[@nayshamutoriti]

Now that is great talking.....Life is not always where we want it to be but it can get there.Interesting how we are all builders,creators of the future through hope and faith and forceful positivity.

[@KatBird27]

she is living the golden rule--it is better to give than to receive

[@Neeshpeesh123]

Damn it sounds like her mother was trying to raise the first black female president.

[@gregglass4796]

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[@senseiplazo9544]

Agree

[@delphinenyirahabimanam.d.8510]

Their mother did an incredible job

[@ahmedantar7854]

are you racial ?\

[@cgt2816]

@@ahmedantar7854 Are you?

[@sifisombambo3344]

I got chills just listening to her story. Be ever prepared for future opportunities- Success comes when opportunity meets preparation

[@Mangacollector101]

the best Tedx talk i've watched so far

[@Cece-fr7bp]

yaay...when I was just about to lose it I met women who still believe in hardwork ,struggles and working for what they want...thank you

[@ernestinejallah8188]

The first Ted X talk that I've listened to twice. I don't believe in competition either which is why I only compete with myself. Yes, I've helped others succeed even at my detriment. Another lesson, success comes when opportunity meets preparation. Last lesson, give freely without expecting any reward. Life is a journey, not a means to an end.

[@kiswahilikitukuzwe2547]

"I don't necessarily believe in giving, just to receive." Wow, that is profound!

[@elinahaule1991]

I agree with you young lady, the more you give is exactily the more you receive.

[@todaymakeithappen9215]

ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS-----A DRIVEN Professional with a GOAL from such an early age-----PREPARATION is the ANSWER to SUCCESS----Never EVER GIVE UP... You CAN DO IT!

[@collectrawr]

"I trusted that one day an opportunity would come and I needed to be ready."

[@Abdusshakur215]

That's Called DRIVE & ambition with a determination to succeed... STAY FOCUSED SISTER... # YOUR DAD WOULD BE PROUD... Keep GOING!

[@GeraldineKoh]

Thanks Zain for your speech. It reminds me of the boy scout quote to Be Prepared. I like your approach to getting what you want without getting competitive. I find people who give their knowledge to others instead of keeping to themselves really admirable.

[@isotrey237]

Np

[@omasandikoru3656]

One of the best TEDx talks I have listened to

[@theempowermentdiaries3491]

Best TEDx talk ever. 💖💖💖 Really spoke to me.

[@BlessedVivi]

TheEmpowermentDiaries me 2

[@OLo950]

Love it, l am inspired

[@jasleensaluja5718]

What a thoughtful insight " Trusting your struggles" By listening to her , it made me realise that generally we tend to wait for an interview call then start preparing; however we should prepare ourselves each day for that right opportunity.

[@asifamibangladesh]

ONe of the best ever TED lecture.Great one. many things need to to realize from this

[@leoseojun5778]

I have been listening to this for so many years..Every time I feel down. Everytime I was deprived of the opportunity..Great talk by Zain...

[@golddust9602]

I really needed this! I admire you and your brother for trusting the struggle. Nigerians rocks!

[@hfortenberry]

Fantastic message! "Trust your struggle, trusting and knowing that your opportunity will one day come, you just have to be ready." This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you Zain.

[@shibanijadhav1986]

Loved this ted talk so much! She sounds so wonderful and has really good energy!

[@kumokundomo9705]

One of most practical advice I've heard. Her confidence and genuine story telling is engaging and enjoyable. 👏👏👏

[@CareyDigital]

Such an inspiring share, I will also refer to this TED talk especially in those moments when I feel like I am losing hope. Sometimes, we lose focus of what we want when we stare at failed opportunities and setbacks instead of pressing forward and preparing for the bigger opportunities that lie ahead. Awesome talk! Thanks Zain

[@victoryconquer4829]

Everybody and their momma will be down for you when you're successful , but your people are the ones down for you when you're in those trenches , that struggle . Those are the people you offer I seat to at your table at anytime . 💯

[@forfutureuse123]

"Opportunity meets preparation" is my takeaway from this.

[@vidyaraman]

Zain Asher has an earnest, sincere and humble presentation style. That is why she is the right messenger for this inspirational talk. Loved it!

[@kennedyvakoo]

That was an eye openner, Prepare in advance .................. Give more and you get more.

[@MardyBumGis]

I have about one year left to finish college in management like hundreds and hundreds of other people just in my country and I feel so lost because I don't know what I'm passionate about it and I'm always scared to waste more of my time, this really puts into perspective exactly that. I have to be ready, create what I want.

[@TravelwithKate]

This is such an inspirational talk!! I love this.

[@tajaforrester7407]

Success comes when opportunity meets prepartion.... I'll litterally take that into practice

[@plumafina]

I agree with her: no need for competition.

[@reg4321]

If you trust your struggle for too long, it can betray you. Each day, I find faith is reaching an expiration date in my case.

[@mariabana582]

She's Amazing👏👏

[@Tianainflow]

After watching 5 of these Ted talks in a row it’s definitely encouraging me to get my things in order and prepare for what I want and set those intentions ❤️

[@elinahaule1991]

That's very true, trust your struggle.

[@Hurtymore]

Trusting your struggles. this is a life changer

[@Funandconsciousness]

Zain, your beliefs expressed in your talk ARE worth holding. I appreciate you!

[@kristianpatrasio9834]

Kudos to her mother who has raised her and her brother really well despite the hardships.

[@VictoriaSaraL]

One of the best TED talks I've ever seen - so inspirational! Thank you for sharing your wisdom and for being a model of inspiration.

[@thandoreviews8886]

Tears tears and rejoicing. “Trust in your struggle”