UPDATE I Asked My Sister To Contribute HALF The Expenses Of Maintaining Our Mom's House r/AITA

[@ShatoraDragondore]

Story 1: When OP said My wife, and then later 'Said I am a Bad Daughter.", Sadly Mommy being Homophobic was the first place my mind went.

[@pippo17173]

That's not really surprising. All the info has hints of this and that update just proves it. 😑

[@melanellie_art]

Lol I was about to write this exact thing. As soon as that second piece fell into place the entire motive became clear

[@elaexplorer]

Story 1 if sister can't afford half the repairs now, how will she afford all the repairs when she inherits the house?

[@jettaspop]

Story 1: not gonna lie the second I heard op was a woman with a wife I immediately thought there might've been some homophobia at play but still, damn

[@Sonicanimefan1]

I am completely of the opinion that OPs mother is acting purely out of deep seeded homophobia either from her or the late father. The line about going to "real" (read: biological) grandchildren stands out

[@jspace20]

Same! I'm surprised none of the comments mentioned it as it was one of the first things i was considering. It was the only thing that made any sense tbh

[@MrJpaynebb]

Well grandma said she wanted HER money to go to her biological grandchildren and OP is helping her do that by cutting of their money train to her. Grandma's finding out what happens when you bite the hand that feeds you $24k a year.

[@pippo17173]

Ya it just reeks of it and it feels like this is a way to punish them for their life style.

[@tgbedini]

It's really telling about mom's character. She's willing to draw a line in the sand about "biological children," and of course, the suspected homophobia, but absolutely willing to take money from them. It's a one way prejudice. You're not good enough to get anything from me, but you're plenty good enough to give a hundred grand to me. She would be totally cut off, never get a cent or a kind word. I mean, what does OP have to lose? Her inheritance, which won't exist? Heck, if OP had just kept the money all those years, and the years until mom dies, they'd have a heck of a start on a retirement, and a nice house of their own.

[@iwantsifegold]

NTA Op has every right to keep them separated

[@TheHellsHobbit]

#1 NTA But the mom is, stop the money train. I love how people think they are entitled to another family member's money because they are well off. Mom should give both daughters an equal share.. That is a lot of money in the past five years to get that slap in the face.

[@ilbercgross4736]

Nope. If mom wants the house to go to her real grandchildren, that is her wish. I completely agree with stop giving her money. Stop everything. Stop having the children see her. Grandma might love them but not as much as her "real" grandchildren. If she does not see them are real grandchildren, she does not need to see them. These are just my opinions though.

[@Davtwan]

@@ilbercgross4736 - I think the saddest part is that it’s implied the sister had no idea that’s what their mom actually thinks until OP told her. She must be so conflicted.

[@CocoCece08]

@@ilbercgross4736 Then OP can (and should!) Sue the estate for that money back. I know I would. Take MY money for a house I wont even get? Yeah, no.

[@lisakaz35]

Story 1: Sounds like the mother's mask finally slipped off, which might be age or dementia. It's not about turning into someone else, in that I bet she was always like this and happy to take one kid's money but always planning on this outcome. Best to get away from this toxicity.

[@ruthbeamish8849]

This is an appalling revelation. Poor OP. I cannot understand mother 's thought processes.,At least sister was also shocked

[@fridaytax]

Story 1 was desperately sad. I feel so sorry for the daughter who so dutifully supported her mother, only to find how little her mother valued her and her children.

[@songohan3321]

For story 2, OP isn't saying no forever. OP specifically said when the brother is ready. She is letting him make the decision. She is not giving the mother a time-line nor she is not taking the decision away from him. It also forces control away from the mother and gives control to OP'S brother.

[@Fete_Fatale]

The mom still says "what else was I supposed to do with a problem child?" No witch, Oliver wasn't a "problem child", he was a child with problem parents.

[@Weirdandwonderfull19]

First story has my blood boiling. I have an adopted nephew. I don't think of him as any less family than my biological neice! He's my nephew and always will be. My mum has never played favourites with either of her grandkids and I know she doesn't view her grandson as less than because he's not biologically related to us. He is still as much family as my neice.

[@darrylblanch8463]

If someone was giving me $24k + covering medical AND maintenance/ renovations of my place, I'd kiss the ground they walk on

[@kamikazeejap]

Holy hell, the update on story1 broke my heart. After everything, the mother had the nerve to say those things. Such a horrible person. Another lunch listening to mark and trying not to tear up or choke on my food. Love the waffle.

[@OZARKMOON1960]

#2 - OP is NTA. Oliver needs to be protected from this woman. Who's to know if the problems and pressure don't start right back up if he and Mom get back together! He is not 'her precious son' - the only one protecting him is OP!

[@jemase7931]

Tell Mom to pay her own bills. Your life was built by your choices. Your sister's life was built by her choices. Let Mom go live with sister.

[@ComaLies225]

Story 1: to be honest, I would have stopped helping mom with the repairs as soon as I found out about the will. It’s not petty, she’s paying for a house she isn’t going to get.

[@kimmurphy6621]

Story 1- NTA. It was sad before update and then after update it was just so much worse.

[@hyperplaguerat]

Story 1 is awful for OP. I'm glad OP's sister isn't blaming OP for this nonsense and agreeing to handle their mother

[@Mewse1203]

Story 3: NTA it's not ex's place to say anything about the job. He doesn't get to tell her where or with whom she can work. He cut off financial support to HIS DAUGHTER and then expects OP to not take a job? Fuck that guy. He wants OP broke and in a bad position. He's also angry his affair partner list get opportunity, and maybe he's OK to be mad about that, but not at OP. Edit: absolutely fabulous!

[@mikaq19]

Whenever I read and hear these stories I’m so grateful every day that my family knows not to mess with me or I will straight up tell them to get f**ked. They know not to try and push, guilt or strong arm me in any way.

[@pippo17173]

Ya, so many stories of horrible families, you be thankful that you won the lottery of good parents.

[@heathermiller5765]

@@pippo17173 And a nice strong spine 😉

[@sarahshock6805]

Story 1: NTA. I would like to say, though, that if it _is_ dementia, that means the years of OP's mother doting on her adopted grandkids could still be genuine, I think. She could have had those problematic viewpoints years ago, but then gotten over them as she got to know her daughter's wife and her adopted grandkids. Perhaps the dementia is causing her to lose track of the lessons she learned that changed her opinions. This, in turn, would cause her old opinions to come back.

[@katwiltz1134]

I doubt it's dementia it's just the first time that she actively wiggled any when being speared for all the money to take care of Mama courses happen when she realized it sister was going to get the entire house but mom doesn't want to bother sister mom was just used to and it be that way and it hadn't occurred to her for years that what she was doing was some messed-up b******* and that she was very lucky she had a doormat for the years that she had the doormat let your mom know sisters inheriting the house it's an investment for sister so anything that other sister does is only going to help her in the end did yeah you do make money but your wife also is someone who needs to be consulted and thought about

[@tennesseedogpack]

Nah wrong. Dementia is more like alcohol to start and the filters are just dropping

[@francessmith5073]

Story One: My son's girlfriend is from Malaysia, if they have children I don't think that they will look like me but that wouldn't matter. If one of my kids decides to adopt their kids will still be my grandkids and I will love them. I would distance myself from my mother if she behaved like that. I think it is time to stop giving the mother money.

[@malcolmholder3149]

Story 1. The thing with Biological children runs deep in the older generations. My own father devided he assets into two half's one to each of my sisters with the proviso they if the older died prior to him then it would all go to the other one. Older sister had two daughters from her husbands first wife so not her blood, second sister has one child of her own. His rational was that sister one had no offspring and sister two had offspring so the blood line continued. Pretty weird but like this mother putting blood against reality adopted children are just as much children of the family. Good on OP for stopping the gravy train regardless of dementia this was cruel.

[@marinam3809]

Story 1: NTA, on the dementia note (speaking from experience), that type of attitude isn’t brought on by dementia, it just comes out when they forget about social manners and the sort. If she does have dementia, those thoughts and feeling are still hers, just not hidden anymore.

[@randomaccount-dq1jq]

If the mother can't support the upkeep of the house and thinks the sister can't afford to spend anything to the repairs does the mother think the older sister will continue to pay for all the upkeep for her younger sister until she dies ?, As for the fathers hard earned money what about the eldest daughters hard earned money that went into things ?

[@ShatoraDragondore]

Sadly Dementa can be the same "Drunk words are Sober thoughts" The mom from story one might not remember its rude to say those thing any more.

[@CooperGal24]

WOW, when a Grandma is playing favorites with her own grandchildren because they're "Not BIOLOGICALLY" her grandchildren? That's pretty despicable and appalling! But it could be dementia as OP mentioned. Either way, I'm glad OP washed their hands of this. Also, how many wanna bet that the Mom in Oliver's Story just wants her "Baby Boy" back for selfish reasons, like use him for his money or use him to be her personal "Caretaker Slave"?

[@songohan3321]

The mother really needs to "Let it Go".

[@pippo17173]

Pretty sure there is also homophobia in play. Like it reeks of it, especially on the biological children thing.

[@shebakoby]

story one: "Tell me your mother's a covert narcissist and your sister is the golden child, without telling us "my mom's a narcissist and my sister's the golden child".

[@MorgsMaintenance]

“I wanna get to the 100 one day” you did it mate

[@Mewse1203]

Story 2: NTA these are the consequences of her actions and OP is doing the right thing by letting Oliver decide 8f/when he's ready. He'san adult ffs. OP isn't keeping he from from Oliver. OP is just saying "I'm not going to help you" which she has every right to do. "bUt i'M his mOM" Lol, where was that attitude when she gave up on her CHILD who was acting our due to HER PARENTING. Edit: can we just take a minute to appreciate how awesome OP is?

[@bloonh8tr619]

I hope you are doing well Mark and I send my condolences over the loss of your aunt. Stay strong I know you and your brother can stay strong

[@browniewin4121]

3) At this point why isn't X blocked? He is an X for good reason and OP should have zero F's to give as to how he feels, what he thinks, or what he wants. He is an AH and should not expect to control OP and have any say in her life. She was told to apply for this job and if she gets it, good for her. She is not responsible for his friend relationship, and it sounds like he isn't much of a friend. NTA at all. After update: My congrats to OP on getting a job she enjoys with a good company and with a good future.

[@damien678]

wait you don't have over 100k??? I'm genuinely surprised, you've been the most pleasant reddit narrator I've listened to by far

[@abm5119]

Story 3: NTA. Ahh the story of an OP too nice for their own good. Why are you trying to protect you cheating EX's relationships? If the job is offered to you, and you want it, take it.

[@Roedygr]

OLIVER : Mom kicked Oliver out when he was sixteen. Her plan for him was to die on the streets. Things would have gone badly had you not intervened. Mom had no interest in Oliver until the divorce. Her plan is to act all crazy over him and lean on him for support. This is not a suitable role for Oliver. Even in the best of times dealing with an overbearing mother can knock you off balance. You are right to protect Oliver, without being the villain. I let two of my younger sisters come live with me free. They desperately needed to get away from my sadistic mother. They are grateful to me 50 years later. They show it with their baking skills

[@olly2027]

I love updates stories.

[@LaineyBug2020]

Last story: She shouldn't count the friend out just because he was a friend of the ex. They're not anymore so that point is moot. I say once you're in a secure position not subordinate to him in anyway, be completely open to the possibility!

[@ErdriedDeirdre]

That first story was heartbreaking. 😐

[@AJ-qe5xj]

That’s 24k a year that can be set aside for their kids now! Better money spent. (Plus my mother is retired and lives off 1200 a month, I’m disabled and live off of 1250, it’s hard but possible).

[@jacegallagher8589]

Story 1: NTA. Your sister may not be able to give an exact 50/50 contribution, but she can still help some. It makes no sense for you to pay for something you will never receive. You've always been there for your mom and she is still putting your sister over you? Reeks of favoritism

[@fakeaccount12345]

I like these updated stories much better than ones that just leave us hanging, lol.

[@MarionHogan-m5i]

Me too 💃🏻

[@untiedshoelaces2588]

Second Story: The fact that the brother started to get better once he was away from the toxic parents says it all. Life is about moving forward and I doubt the mother would know which direction that would be. OP is a great sibling.

[@susankaempfer8427]

It’s clear that it’s all about her. Not what’s best for him. Tell her he doesn’t know how to deal with “problem parents.”

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Whoever is reading this i send hugs and great vibes. Drink water, eat food, nap, take a break, take care of yourself gosh darn it. And if you don't I swear I will find you and keep you in a cottage and take care of you. 🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜

[@katiesmith2031]

Hugs and great vibes back 🤗🤗💙💙🤗🤗💙💙

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@katiesmith2031 🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜

[@jennstewart3003]

Story 1: NTA. I agree with the first commenter who said mom needs to sell and downsize. Then she can afford her own retirement.

[@taetannim3581]

Who kicks out a 16 YEAR OLD *BOY*!!! She's has NO grounds to call herself his mom! You're his mom- because you're the one doing what a mother should do!😊

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Hey you yes you remember to take care of yourself gosh darn it, you are always valid, and I love you and care about you so please take care of yourself 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗

[@FlamesofJagger]

Much love Broken 💘 ❤️ 💗 💕 💛 💙 💘. Stay positive and awesome.

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@FlamesofJagger 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗

[@paden1865able]

Hey, sweetheart, I love you and hope you're doing well. Thanksgiving went well, we made the menu our son came up with. Fried chicken, potato wedges, and biscuits, with peaches for dessert. Turned out pretty well!♥️♥️♥️

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@paden1865able heyo I'm glad it went well and it sounds yummy🤗🤗💜💜

[@jjgonzalez7703]

Hey broken! Your msgs make my day. So glad I found this channel! Have a great day!

[@GeorgiaDLee]

Abandoning a 16 yr old is illegal. Even if he was breaking laws parents can't kick out a minor without a restraining order or court order or putting them in foster care.

[@gypsygem9395]

Depends where it is. In the UK a 16yr old can legally leave home

[@susankaempfer8427]

@@gypsygem9395leave, yes, but he was kicked out.

[@maggpiprime954]

Story 3: AITA for taking a job opportunity from my ex's friend when my ex stopped paying barely-child-support over a trivial argument?

[@TheHellsHobbit]

#2 NTA, What a great sister. Mom is too toxic mom.

[@kerribottriell-baxter7345]

Nah! I don't think that was her dementia, that was her mask slipping... (Story 1)

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

1) If my mother said that about my siblings children I would completely cut her off as well and I would not be helping her with anything either.

[@lilywong9672]

Doesn't sound like dementia. It seems like she knew exactly what she was saying.

[@jamisonosborne]

Story 1: NTA As soon as OP said "my wife" I was searching for my Bigot button. Dementia, sure, that would be convenient. I've seen my share of dementia cases, never seen it make grandma slap on a red armband and start singing in German.

[@cuttycake1238]

I love watching these. I even spent the last week catching up while cooking for Thanksgiving. I just love hearing Marks positivity especially when dealing with stressful stuff 😊

[@GeorgeGiann]

Dementia? For someone who we don't know whether they are suffering from dementia or not, she spoke very eloquently about the *whys* she doesn't want any inheritance to go to OP's children and OP.

[@Cheycartoongirl8]

Hey Waffle Gang! Heading into work, another amazing video! Life (or Parenting) Hack: When punishing your kids, don't take away their electronics. Take away all the chargers and watch as the fear in their eyes as they use it less and less as their electronics slowly dies.

[@louellacharlton4425]

Mark you are so talented. And your attitude omg you are always looking for ways to enrich us. Keep the faith my friend, you're going to get there! Just stay safe and sane. hahaha. PEACE

[@AngharadMac]

Story 2: my mom still thinks I was the worse teenager ever, and I'm nearly 50. I didn't do anything except be depressed/anxious/-icidal kid with undiagnosed adhd

[@emasters8619]

You don't throw precious things away!!!!!!

[@laurenmentink7401]

My absolutely favorite update is where OP was TA and the update was "My girlfriend broke up with me. I hope you are happy." I know I was happy for the girlfriend. OP was a massively massive AH.

[@FlamesofJagger]

🎵 🎶 Am I the buuuuuttthhhoooolllleeee 🎶🎵 Much love to Mark, Poppy, and everyone in the Waffle 🧇 Gang 💘 ❤️ 💗 💖 💙 💜 💛 💘 Hope everyone has a great day and does well at whatever you are doing. Mark, stay chill 😎 and waffle 🧇 on always. Waffle 🧇 Gaaannnnggggg forever!!!

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

🤗🤗💜💜

[@cheskydivision]

I notice mom had no trouble taking ops money.

[@Mama_Bear_of_3]

Story 3. Is ex your daughter's father? If so, he has no choice but to play child support.

[@fantasea114]

It's a shame that if you do well in life, you're punished because your siblings "don't have as much".

[@TheHellsHobbit]

#3 So NTA, Go for it.

[@Mewse1203]

Great video today! Loved the updates (though the one was sad). Ha e a great weekend all.

[@cynicalminion]

just remind him that the only way you getting the job involves HIM is that by deciding not to support you and your daughter, he made getting it a necessity for you...

[@HackiePuffs]

Story 2: that mom is a POS. Something that always confuses me is why parents who treat their kids like crap and seemingly don’t want them suddenly care and want them when they’re taken away or go no contact. Do they actually LIKE abusing their kids?!??

[@katiesmith2031]

Mark thanks for the video hope you and poppy are having a wonderful day perfect timing just tucking into Chinese food

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

You too m8 and oooo yummy

[@katiesmith2031]

@@broken_queer_but_fighting8589 thank you broken it is yummy I hope you are having a wonderful day

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@katiesmith2031 thats good and much love m8🤗🤗💜💜

[@kratkartan1486]

Story1: Well, sounds like sister is actually on OPs side with this. Also the Mom made her bed, so now she can go rot in it.

[@KE-hr4sb]

Story 1: NTA and I honestly would stop helping. 90%?! You put a lot of time and money into that house for her to give it to your sister. Sure, you don't need it, but that still feels like a slap in the face after all you have done (and all your sister hasn't, done). "Mom is upset with me saying it's petty and greedy of me to ask for money from someone who doesn't make as much as we do when we could afford it." That's gaslighting. SHE'S being greedy, demanding you pay for everything concerning her house, and seeing nothing in return. That you can afford it is a moot point; it also sounds like sister could afford to pay half just fine. Mom and sister don't want the gravy train to stop. "She said she wanted her money to go to her real grandchildren and not to our children, who are adopted." But it's not her money anymore, is it? YOU'VE been financially supporting her with your money, not hers; the only reason she still owns that house is because you've been footing the bills. Tell her she owes you 120k plus interest then, and see how long she can stay in that house. Maybe she can move in with your sister and her "real grandchildren." I'm absolutely fuming right now. Story 2: She's not his mom anymore, she disowned him by kicking him out. She can't have it both ways. You've been his parent for the last three years, and done a better job parenting in that amount of time than they did in 16 years. She doesn't get to walk back in after you worked to fix all the problems she's caused, and create more problems in his life. She's also being selfish in not caring what he wants and what is best for him. Story 3: NTA, and the pair on him to cheat on you, move in with his mistress, and then call *you* inappropriate for working with his friend! He may feel like you're taking the job from his mistress, but you need to feed your child, especially since he stopped paying because he's butthurt you found out he was cheating. Fuck him (or don't fuck him), take the job, and sue for child support if your child is also his.

[@icantchange.youtubesaysine7338]

To everyone in the UK. How have the winds or storms been for you? Everyone okay? I heard from a friend their neighbours car had a tree collapse on it. Hope my UK mates are okay. Our glass table got smashed outside by a tree branch falling. Edit: I feel bad for people who lost their lives. Heard some lost their lives. Hope everyone’s okay. Hope your all okay!

[@jamiewulfyr4607]

Not too bad in my area thanks mate. 👊🏻😎👌🏻

[@icantchange.youtubesaysine7338]

@@jamiewulfyr4607 That’s good to hear. Hopefully it doesn’t get as bad as it did the other night.

[@gypsygem9395]

All okay here, thanks for asking! Woke up to everywhere white this morning though, which was a nice surprise as my area doesn't always see the snow even when the rest of the UK does.

[@alibali193]

We had a heavy coating of snow on Saturday morning. It has been really cold with a northerly wind. By this morning (Mon) all the snow is gone

[@chulutheimposter5415]

Hello Mark!! How are you doing today? I hope all is well and I wish you a great day!! Jeeze I typed this fast-

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Hope you are well m8🤗🤗💜💜

[@JudyHart1]

First story is just sad.

[@LunaMane]

Considering the circumstances of Story #1 I feel sorry for OP's younger sister. The mother will eventually turn on her because the sister doesn't earn a lot of money and can't afford stuff mother is likely accustomed to. Of course though that's not OP's problem anymore. And they should have cut their mother loose long ago. Not the arsehole in any way.

[@katwiltz1134]

She said that she could buy her mama house actually the Mom just wanted the money from the daughter who had no biological line children to go to her real children

[@CocoCece08]

I don't feel bad for her, actually. She's getting a house she PAID NO MONEY for. If I was OP, I'd sue for the 120k she was SCAMMED out of.

[@SamanthaTotimeh]

Yayy hey Mark! I always sing along to your intro hehe. Dude you will get to 100k God willing! Hope your weekend is going good. It was my birthday last Saturday and didn't celebrate. I much prefer to be in bed watching your videos. Be safe. Oh, will we get a face reveal at 100k subs??!

[@gypsygem9395]

Much as I'm curious to see how much Mark resembles his avatar, I kind of think a face reveal world be a little weird. In certain other channels one can see the narrator and it honestly feels weird to me. But that's probably just me lol

[@lunahix4815]

Story 1: The OP is a woman, right? If so, that maybe another part of it. Eta: The update, jesus christ. That's just heartbreaking. 😰

[@MysticalBlueRse]

“YOUR FATHER WOULD HAVE WANTED THE HOUSE HE BOUGHT WITH HIS HARD EARN MONEY TO GO TO HIS *REAL* GRANDCHILDREN” Jokes on you, now it’s not going to any of the grandchildren (adopted or biological). And frankly, for 100k, sounds like OP/Wife’s hard earned money went into that house almost as much as probably OP’s dad Frankly, OP’s sister isn’t just getting “mom’s inheritance” but also the money her brother has bankrolled so far.

[@Tsitak420]

I’m my grandmas biological grandchild and when she got dementia she kept reminding me and my sisters how much she hated us and wished we wouldn’t go visit anymore( my dad lived with her) and would be an asshole to my sisters when my dad wasn’t around.

[@Fortunefaded420]

story1 OP is an awesome sibling

[@Davtwan]

>Sorry for kicking him out. Good... >Admits she didn’t know how to handle a “problem child.” Shaky... >Thinks it’s not her fault. And she lost it.

[@paden1865able]

It's a quiet Saturday and our son's birthday is coming up Monday, he'll be eighteen. Wondering where the years went and how in the hell I got so old...

[@beckygarza9348]

the only update that OP didn't give was if the daughter was her exes or not. That would have cleared up some things as well. I know a commenter asked if it was OPs exes daughter and he should be child support

[@Charles-sd7xu]

Yeppp the second op in the first story mentioned she was a woman and she had a wife I KNEW all of this was cus of homophobia. As a gay dude who has been practically ignored by his grandmother since he came out I saw the signs from a mile away. I feel so bad for op this is why I really hate old people sometimes

[@FanFicnic]

Story 2: she is more a mom to him than their mom ever was. OP stepped up and gave that kid a shot at truly living. Egg donor lost any and all right to a relationship when she kicked out a child. In my head op is like a knight standing at the gates, sword held aloft, fighting the battle that her brother cannot face.

[@n2sunset]

Mark, I read a lot of these reddit post channels and the ones I tend to subscribe to, like and comment on are the ones that have stories with updates....it's super frustrating to read a story, be invested in it and then not know what happened...just saying...so...more stories with edits and updates:}

[@fcold9402]

1. NTA. Why are you paying for a house that is not yours and will be gifted to someone else. You either get your name on mortgage or you stop paying for the house.

[@erickaennis2738]

Story 1. I hate parents like this. Mom can't afford the house, she cant live there. Sisters does nothing to help, but will reap all the rewards. This happens ALL the time. Sorry, NTA. Mom and sister are wrong.

[@Mewse1203]

May the heat of the Waffle Maker feed you when you're cold I had to turn my heater in last night. I am NOT happy. Be safe, take care of yourself and have a great day.

[@maruwatchesyou8281]

What right do you have op? How about the right a loving and caring sister

[@lewischase]

Good afternoon Mark Hi everyone

[@wheelsndealz]

Story 1. I'm sorry what? How can dementia be an excuse. Does dementia cause someone to forget how to be a good person? I don't see what was said that would indicate dementia.

[@Norienful]

Dementia does in fact sometimes cause major personality changes. However, that doesn't mean that a) it is dementia b) it doesn't hurt like hell and is unacceptable to hear sth like that

[@wheelsndealz]

@@Norienful yeah, no doubt. And obvious the family would know her better than any commenter, but it didn't sound like anything said was more likely to be dementia. It's just an easier excuse than realizing their mom is a bitch.

[@JohnSmith-xq1pz]

Wonders how one maintains out a house? A like a much love, I'll definitely watch later. We're making preparation for replacement of a leaking water heater (more of a wep than a drip thankfully). This is why I bahumbug the holidays without fail something ALWAYS happens this time of year... on the plus side I have something to turn in to a diy steamroller to unleash on Katie 😈

[@katiesmith2031]

😱 nooo

[@gypsygem9395]

Oooh poor Katie!

[@gypsygem9395]

@@katiesmith2031 you'll have to think of something bigger to unleash on John!

[@katiesmith2031]

@@gypsygem9395 he always wins I almost nuked him once lol

[@JohnSmith-xq1pz]

@@katiesmith2031 alright while I take a quick break from operation hot water to speed run though my app's I'll take a moment to do this... A rusty Leakey old hot water heater filled with hot HOT water mystery falls from the sky 🌊 😈🤣🤣🤣

[@tishaw.8254]

17:29 Who else said “Hell No” at the same time too😂😂😂

[@ekjamesable]

Story 2 Just wondering if the "parents" are paying child support to OP. If his handicap is so severe that he can not function as an adult, my cynical mind thinks..... Op's mum would receive benefits and extended child support from ex if she gets him back.

[@lauraprokopetz3255]

Thanklessness IS NOT next to godliness…

[@Josku2411]

Oop early and at D&D rn

[@justjenny5437]

Hey Mark!! 💜

[@itsjustmaddisen]

It could certainly be dementia but it could also be an asshole hiding their true self. One of my disowned family members hid their true self for over two decades and acted nice to my mum’s face then talking evil shit behind her back. There’s even letters where she said she didn’t care about my mum and her “problems” but demanded my mum listen to her drama, almost predatory problems. She said that she only wanted my mum around to be her personal taxi (too much of a lazy fuck to get her license) and buy her stuff. I found out as an adult, gave her the finger, told her to fuck off and she better not ask me for money or I’ll make her life a living hell. Some people are just selfish and evil.

[@Musical_Pigeon]

Normally I'm doing normal house work or school work while watching your videos. Not today. My SO came into the house bleeding with a [insert graphic details] cut on his hand. Logically the person going to school to work with dead people is the optimal doctor. Had to pace around the house from the bathroom to the kitchen getting everything to fix his hand up. Once I got everything and was preparing to bandage it up he asks me to use new skin, the area was too big for it and it would have hurt like a bitch to apply to it, he got a water proof bandage with threat to not get hurt again.

[@itjustmemanning8441]

I really dislike the word " fault". I feel like it's used to often and used for an excuse. Oh well, have a good weekend!