My sleep pattern has totally changed (I'm 64) in the last few years. I have gotten sleep studies, taken meds...you name it. I literally sleep (like you) 4-5 hours and then wake up...totally awake for about 2 hours. I finally resigned to struggling with it which made it worse, and instead working on making peace with this new rhythm of mine. I do know after researching, that our sleep architecture does change as we age, so it is common to sleep in lighter stages longer, therefore, waking more. I like your ideas, as it is difficult to know what to do in this window of night. Thank you for your suggestions and always nice to know that I am not alone. :)
@eleanorbuck7156 сағат бұрын
Hi Margaret, I wake up about 3 am and go to the kitchen for a bowl of cereal. Then I go back to bed and fall asleep quickly. The carbs in the cereal do the trick for me. I like the pattern. Love the quiet time.
@irenesingleton34276 сағат бұрын
My mom had 10 children. In her 50's she went to college and got 2 degrees. She did all of her school work in the middle of the night. She also wrote a book, probably when my dad and the kids still at home were sleeping. Just for your information, she is in her 90's now and doing very well so it didn't seem to affect her health at all. I cant wait to tell her about this video.
@cynthiahurlburt28199 сағат бұрын
This video is packed with wonderful ideas. I ,too, wake up naturally between 0200-0300. I am guilty of checking my phone 😂 but I have learned to keep low lighting. I do simple chores, tasks, laundry,empty dishwashers, bathroom cleaning, light reading , meditation, express gratitude to my maker, reflection, praying for others, and seeking guidance on how I can help others in need. I return for "second" sleep around 0330. Yes, it is less stressful and accomplished chores, so enjoy the quiet hours while the world is asleep in my time zone. So peaceful and surreal. P. S. I learned from you to wall paper journals with cute and colorful wallpaper. Makes me happy when I open to journal, take notes in classes I attend, and give away to others who need" a pick me up." Thank you, Margaret. You are a motivator. I am thankful for your channel! ❤❤❤❤❤
@bonniemullen49903 сағат бұрын
I agree i with that pattern , i do the same thing ❤😊✅👏💞
@mariancamdenpsy.d.llclicen256415 сағат бұрын
I just read about segmented sleep myself. Makes so much sense, especially if we don’t have to wake up early for children or work.
@Kirbygal5510 сағат бұрын
Hi Margaret. My usual sleep pattern is going to bed between 9:30-10.00. I sleep very deeply and wake up around 2 am - 3am fully awake. I get up and have a cup of tea and then go back to sleep around 4am and sleep until 6 - 7am. It bothered me for years but now I just go with the flow. Sometimes I will have a nanny nap for 20 minutes which seems to be all I need.
@vickylee55794 сағат бұрын
I’m just like you. I wake up every night. I’ll stay up a few hours then try to go back to sleep. I needed to hear this. Thank you Margaret ❤
@NancyStinger-ll6wt9 сағат бұрын
Fascinating !!! I have been wondering about my sleep lately. I am up in this sleep pattern lately. My second sleep is maybe 3 or 4 am until 7 or 8 first is around 9 til 12. Oh my gosh what an eye opener . Last night I was up usual 2 am got up opening my sliding doors to feel the fresh air on my face . Being aware of this takes so much pressure off . I think for many of us now retired our bodies were so programmed from years of work using alarm clocks etc and we didn’t know our own body rhythm . Such an eye opener ❤️
@kathleenmeyer71927 сағат бұрын
I do the same, about 2:30 and listen to podcasts and sometimes fall asleep after about 1.5 hours.
@vga32458 сағат бұрын
I have done this for fifty years, I sleep for four or five hours, I get up and do a variety of things that need to be done. I empty the dishwasher, write in my journal, clean the refrigerator, clean the oven, do laundry what ever needs to be done. Then after a couple of hours I go back to bed. So glad to hear others are doing the same thing.
@deborahblackwood362914 сағат бұрын
Interesting. I also have segmented sleep. I like to put a video on but just listen without the screen. Really helps me fall back to sleep.
@sixtyandme14 сағат бұрын
That's a great idea!
@Sunluvr113 сағат бұрын
I do that every night because I too wake up at 2am .
@Purple-ws9fn13 сағат бұрын
I go to sleep at 00.00 and wake up before 04 in the morning. I get up, walk the dog, have some breakfast, read a book and then at 08 I go to sleep another 4 hours. Works great for me.
@Vera-y8m14 минут бұрын
Hello Margaret, this is the way I have survived for years. I have seldom ever been able to sleep all night even when young. This was problematic while I was a teacher and had a longish commute to the school I worked in but I really believe the harm comes from the unnecessary worry and stress of not getting enough sleep and not really from the actual deficit of sleep itself. My pets and I have enough restful sleep and quiet time, creative hobbies, and unhurried relaxing quality time to spend in our large garden...! Now retired I no longer have to worry about clock watching or timetables and schedules that would kill a horse!! We love to share the swinging seat in the moonlight as our property is sheltered and secluded from public view by mature trees and is very private and secure. My favourite quiet activity is to make a cup of tea recline with feet up pets on my knee and say my prayers. Praying and especially the Rosary is a form of meditation for me. New subscriber from Northern Ireland ❤
@jcool43588 сағат бұрын
So funny Margaret. My brother and I discuss this sleep or lack of often. We both have this same problem. I am 76 and he is 81. So glad to see we are not the only ones. 😂 Merry Xmas and Happy 2025.
@marcelitabellaesconde225813 сағат бұрын
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to You and Yours 2024!
@sandradorsey500115 сағат бұрын
Good Sunday 🌅☕ morning. Yes, that has happened to me, I just 🙏 pray and I fall back to 😴 sleep or meditate. You look 😍 pretty in pink🎉🎉🎉
@jdk53797 сағат бұрын
Sounds about right, lol. I usually go to sleep around 8:30-9, sleep til about 2-3. Awake for an hour or so, then go back to sleep.
@BlueMountain201715 сағат бұрын
I wake up around 3AM/3:30AM but I don't get up unless need to use the bathroom. I try to get back to sleep and sometimes I do. If I can't get back to sleep I start reading in bed and then try again to sleep. Once in a while I just can't get back to sleep but I won't get out of bed until 6AM. That's my rule: not getting up before 6AM. If I was to start getting up earlier than 6AM, then I feel it will become a habit. I feel that ideally you wake up when the sun rises (dawn) but with daylight savings time, it often just does not work. I dislike daylight savings time. It's always such an adjustment. Since I am retired, I don't worry about getting enough sleep. Used to stress me out when I was working because I worried that I wouldn't function well at my job. These sleep patterns didn't start until I got older. I used to sleep all night long but those days are long gone.
@janicerivera557015 сағат бұрын
I've listened to ASMR for years. Has always helped me get into sleep and back into it when i wake up in the middle of the night. Just have to make sure it's a gentle sound.
@rosieE12112 сағат бұрын
I have been doing this already. Especially if I didn't get my afternoon nap. I normally wake up without an alarm at 2 AM or so, get a little exercise walking around, relax a bit, and I am ready to go back to sleep, no problem. In winter months I get tired soon as it gets dark so end up going to bed earlier.
@jillclark913213 сағат бұрын
When i wake up about 3.30am,I listen to a talking book. Listening stops you thinking about your worries and I usually fall asleep in an hour or so.
@jennywren893711 сағат бұрын
I still rise at 5am the way I always have, but relieved I no longer have to venture out to milk animals. These days I enjoy a nap after lunch to recharge my batteries. As a carer spanning many years, I always tended my patients around 2am, and invariably wake around that time but now I can enjoy a quiet moment reading or doing soduku. For me, night hours are best for study without interruption, or just enjoying peace.
@wilmafallon871215 сағат бұрын
I think all our make up is completely different. I usually stay up as late as i can say 11.30 to 12 ish, when i feel tired. I usually sleep at least 6 or 7 hrs right through , sometimes we think we are tired when we are not . Make sure i have my last cuppa abt 6 ish . 💗🏴
@susanwilson46955 сағат бұрын
I do this too. My medical provider doesn't like it at all, so I don't discuss it anymore. I always fall back to sleep after a couple of hours and sleep very well.
@ninjanana1025 сағат бұрын
Fascinating video!
@AngelaSunde126 минут бұрын
I have read about this mediaeval pattern of sleep before. I recall that people in the Middle Ages would fall asleep early, sleep four hours, then wake at midnight for an hour or so before going back to sleep for four hours. Apparently the lack of electric lighting meant they followed their natural sleep rhythms. The midnight wake time was spent talking etc with their partner, catching up on light tasks, and some would even pop next door to visit a neighbour. Because they worked so hard, the poorer classes often only had this window of time for socialising. To the extent that working class courting couples would share a bed (with a board down the middle) and chat during this time. The young man had to start work at sunrise, so this was the only time. Fascinating. Now if I wake, I go and fold laundry or relax on the couch (with no lights on).
@tonyagarces23868 сағат бұрын
Thank you so much for this info and these suggestions. For me it’s 3 a.m. and I’m going to give your ideas a try. It’s got to be better than ruminating over waking up and not being able to sleep.
@susannegiesen211411 сағат бұрын
I also wake up at 2 am. Sometimes I'm so awake that I can't fall asleep again until I have to get up which is normally at 5.30. So I often go to work with only having slept 3 hours. To me this is terrible, because I work fulltime and it is a really stressfull job. But sometimes at night 2 am it works that I just think about something or listen to a podcast or read and after maybe 1 or 2 hours I fall asleep again. So then my second sleep is only 1 1/2 hours, but it is what it is and I gave up on worrying for this because I'm not able to change it. And I tried everything, believe me. So I also do this medieval method without knowing it😅 But it is really interesting!
@zeljkabozic15 сағат бұрын
I have often sleep like that
@roseyc.58468 сағат бұрын
I sometimes wake up at 3-3:30 AM, wanting my coffee. But, once up, I can't go back to sleep, of course. By 4:30 AM, I hear my little grandson upstairs, and, that's the end of my sleep. 😕
@ghurtadoable15 сағат бұрын
Margaret, thank you for sharing this awesome video. 😊
@sixtyandme14 сағат бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@barbaraoerding815715 сағат бұрын
Sleep patterns definitely change as we age. It makes life very difficult. I've never been able to sleep during the day, and that has not changed. Great suggestions but, not too sure any of that can work for me. 😊💗
@katherinebryan992115 сағат бұрын
I’m going to try this. I am tired of laying there tossing and turning in frustration.
@reginamay15 сағат бұрын
Great video for us ageing baby boomers
@cynthiaryan290116 сағат бұрын
When this happens to me, I listen to the radio. I have a small pocket radio with a headphone jack. It’s amazing the interesting programs that are on in the middle of the night. Just like you, I keep some water by my bed for sipping.
@jennywren893710 сағат бұрын
Yes, and lovely if I can find someone reading a story.
@ellenzfrequency2 минут бұрын
It's 2:32am.. I've been laying here & found you . 😂
@JudithSchoner15 сағат бұрын
I wake up around 4:00 am, eat a Banana and go back to sleep.
@lorrainevart882710 сағат бұрын
I do the same. I find banana get me back to sleep
@janetstonerook45527 сағат бұрын
I often wake at around 3 a.m. and I don't stress about it. I'm retired and, if I don't have anything scheduled for early that day, I know I can go back to sleep later. I often have something to drink, usually a black coffee with apple cider vinegar and coconut oil and spices. I often do a load of laundry or dishes and maybe read or journal while that's happening. Or listen to an inspiring podcast. Usually just before dawn I get drowsy and go back to sleep. I wake up refreshed and always surprised when I see all the work I accomplished in those few hours in the middle of the night. I joked with my daughter it is like the good fairies came in the night and did my grunt work! 🧚♀️ 🧚♂️ 😂
@doloresaquines152913 сағат бұрын
Sometimes I wake at 3 or. 4 a.m. Rarely. I just turn over and go back to sleep. I am a night person by nature, and do my best work then. Mornings, ugh!
@bonniemullen49903 сағат бұрын
I do the same thing Margeet its very normal , most people at first would stress over it , but just get some things done ✅ and 💤😴 again for your second sleep 😊 ❤️😴 its fine go with your body rhythm 😉🪘😊❤
@deemarch20895 сағат бұрын
🙏🏻wonderful time to 🙏🏻
@Rhetor30516 сағат бұрын
I wake up at 4 but don’t want to wake up my husband. And if I wake up the dogs, its over! Lol! But I love the idea!
@biondna79848 сағат бұрын
I like this idea. I've begun doing something like it. The 11/5/24 election was past disappointing, it's frightening. I was in my fourth round of adrenal fatigue from obsessing on all that, beyond voting, donating and writing anonymously to warn people about narcissists (I was long-married to one). I was already in a hard place with grieving my beloved second husband's death and struggling with long Covid. So, I've taken myself off all news, except for what's positive or neutral. I'm walking, meditating, doing things with friends, keeping up my dance lessons, doing yoga and deep breathing. I talk to all my neighbors regardless of what their yard signs say, and get a little more peace with these unofficial efforts for diplomacy and healing. Even with all this, at about 3 AM or so, it's bug-eyed time. So I stopped fighting it. I'm glad I don't have to punch a clock anymore (so far). And I actually get some good contemplative work done before I nod off again.
@bonniemullen49903 сағат бұрын
By the way Margret you look lovely in pink ❤😊
@doloresaquines152916 сағат бұрын
Not for nothing is it called the graveyard shift!
@cathy948513 сағат бұрын
I believe people in Spain sleep this way. Not sure, does anyone know?
@doloresaquines152913 сағат бұрын
No Cathy they do not. Same as elsewhere they go to bed not that early. I daresay some wake Up in the middle of the night and others sleep like logs.
@janieb623611 сағат бұрын
I heard start reading the Bible...you'll get very sleepy!
@reginamay15 сағат бұрын
As a retired flight attendant I remember waking up in a hotel room and have forgotten my book, I used to open the drawer and pull out the Bible and lo and behold it put me to sleep.