let me speak on behalf of all God-fearing husbands out there......THANK YOU!!!!!
@sofiagomez627872 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this!!!! My husband and I are going on 13 years married and today I'm a stay at home mom of 6 and he's the bread winner and leader of our home and my marriage. I would NEVER have it any other way. I absolutely love my life! Praise God.😊❤🙌🏻
@JtheIsraelite2 жыл бұрын
I’m 14, but I love people talking about being submissive for some reason. I wanted to ask were you always a stay at home mom or did you transition from a job to being at home? I would love the lord to bless me to be a stay at home wife in the future💕
@MetalheadChristian Жыл бұрын
I'm not married or even in a relationship but I think God is directing me to these kinds of videos to prepare me for being a biblical wife. Great video! :)
@yahushaiscoming74683 жыл бұрын
I love this💗 my experience in being a submissive wife has brought alot of joy and love in my marriage and order and peace in our home. It is wonderful 😊
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
AMEN!! Yes!! The more I pursue submission, the more beautiful my marriage becomes!! Thank you for sharing!! 💕
@richardmathew88173 жыл бұрын
I realize it is kinda randomly asking but does anyone know a good website to watch new tv shows online ?
@graysonkabir89703 жыл бұрын
@Richard Mathew i watch on flixzone. You can find it by googling :)
@Play-jv3oi2 жыл бұрын
Did submission came before marriage or after?
@Shannon.Hazleton3 жыл бұрын
It took me more than a decade of marriage to learn some of these things! Wonderful video.
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
I’m so thankful we are agreed, then! 😃 Thank you for watching and commenting!!
@mrstyourrealtor34342 жыл бұрын
This was amazing! I have struggled with being a submissive wife because I have never seen it done. But my desire continues to grow as I continue to seek the Lord daily. While on my journey to build a relationship with the Lord my mind is continuously being renewed. I believe I was led to this video and the way it resonated with my heart I know God was purposeful with me seeing this content! Thank you so much, this video has truly blessed me! Have a wonderfully and blessed day.
@WomenLivingTorah2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching! 💕
@alisonmiller2708 Жыл бұрын
I love that question of asking husband what he'd like you to do in order to get ready to shabbat services on time. Brilliant and peaceful.
@WomenLivingTorah Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching! 🤗
@Mesfin8872 жыл бұрын
Wow much respect from a Christian man . May Jesus bless your family
@MG-mj5ei3 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness! This is so much confirmation! I was praying of I was on track and what else needs to change. I can relate to all of this! I have learned so much about submission in the last few months. I have learned to view my tongue and most of the time just say ok. Be the peacemaker. I never ever thought in my life I would be the woman I am today... Homemaker... Making my own bread. Making things from scratch... The housework schedule... Homeschool my babies... Being submissive to a husband... It's crazy what God can do in us and through us if we first surrender to Him. Love this video! What are those... Biscuits? Whole wheat??
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
YESSSS!!! Amen! 🙌 YHVH is the One working in us for His glory & ours and our families’ good! The bread is technically a whole wheat sourdough granny roll, but I accidentally cooked the dough before rolling them out. 😅 (Had the dough in the oven with the light on for some heat, and then preheated the oven without taking the dough out first.) 🤦🏼♀️ So they didn’t rise, but they were very good nonetheless. Haha
@crisslee1233 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the content. Please do not mind the hostility of others about your page.. Your content is for those that enjoy what you are putting out, the world does not look the same. Thank you for bringing in the biblical submission in your content. :)
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your encouragement Crystal!! 🤗 Many blessings to you!! ❤️
@emmah68002 ай бұрын
I watched this video about two years ago, and I stumbled upon it again! You were the start of my true submission journey! Thank you so much! ❤
@stefaniedouglas65263 жыл бұрын
Such a lovely video! Recently I’ve been learning how biblical submission is so important in our walk with the Lord. Even as a single lady your video provided invaluable insight, and God willing I’ll be coming back to watch this video when I’m married! Sending you lots of love and blessings from London 🇬🇧 I hope November’s Torah challenge has been going well! 💜Shalom💜
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting! 😃 My older sister lives about two hours from London. 😉 I’m so thankful this video was helpful, and yes! The challenge is going well for me (mostly- I’ll upload a check in at the end of the month, YHVH willing). I hope it’s going well for you, too!! 💕
@analeynaguary69972 жыл бұрын
I have been married for almost 11 years... since I was 17! And I don't think I would've even understood any of this at the beginning of our marriage. Over the years of trying to be submissive but still not getting it... the more I see how going my own way not only hurts me but my husband as well, these things that you explain are sweet to my soul and brought tears to my eyes. This was a wonderful video. I loved it from beginning to end. I even loved the symbolism of creating the beautiful meal in the end. Thank you so much my sister in Christ
@WomenLivingTorah2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching, and I’m grateful the Lord blessed you through this video!! 🤗 💕
@landa1820002 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh THANK YOU for taking the time to make this video. I have wanted practical examples on how to submit for years and I came across this channel. Watching this gave me so much peace.
@WomenLivingTorah2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching!
@jessica_young Жыл бұрын
This was really encouraging, especially the part about not trying to solve every problem and reiterate my thoughts, and not always saying "why?"... oye self examination! Lord bless you!
@jessicagavia9593 Жыл бұрын
I prayed about this yesterday and your video answered all my questions. Thank you so much!! Praise the Lord ❤
@homemakersheart36143 жыл бұрын
I have just discovered your channel, and I am so very grateful. You give practical examples of what causes the friction and what can be supportive. I just love your saying " to help or suggest the little things to support his decision as much as it lays upon me." As much as my physical capiblity can do. Thank you. Looking forward to watching more as I can. (Today we made lunch together while I listened and wrote down things that spoke to me.)
@ngreat43902 жыл бұрын
This is nice. I think there's so much talk about getting married and its glamours but this one is about staying married. As a wife (single) I tell you that flesh and blood cannot practice submission. It is a function of trust in God. It's the action of the Holy Spirit and definitely the expression of the wisdom of God through us. One step to being submissive is to ask God to intervene, soften, and change your view and reactions to my/your friend's leadership. That God will help you see himself in your husband and to trust that all things work together for the good of them that love God and are called according to his purpose. With that in mind, even if your friend's instructions are problematic, know that God has got your back and that you will not be harmed. (The story of Abraham and Sarah on their road to Bethel when they were accosted by Abimelech and later Pharaoh, both of whom wanted to marry Sarah... Both times, Abraham denied that she was his wife. She went along with the plan but God protected her and preserved his promises to Abraham by making sure nobody defiled her... This is not to say that it is okay to deny your friend before people but then it is for us as women to know that our protection lies first with God. It doesn't also mean that you cannot be angry at your husband but it's for us to realize that they're flesh like us and have their fears and insecurities too.) Being submissive is about having your eyes and heart on the Lord, to trust that he's your keeper, deliverer, provider, saviour, succor and defense... Essentially, each of you are married to the Lord and living with your friend. So how your friendship thrives is a product of how you're allowing God build your trust in himself in your marriage with himself. Once one person stops growing towards God, cracks start to appear and if both parties are not married yet to Christ, best believe that marriage is headed for the rocks. So you may ask, how can I trust God when he has allowed so much hurt in my life? Well, there's no simple answer but just know that we all have passed through those kinds of experiences where we felt abandoned by God. The bible says that God's thought towards us are of good and not of evil so as to give us a future and a hope. This means that somewhere between his thoughts and the manifestation of our expectations something went wrong. Oftentimes it is wishful thinking about what we desire instead of asking him that makes us miss out. So start by seeking him with all your desires no matter how dirty, and illegitimate they may seem. He's not angry at you for having desires instead he wants you to seek him so that he can purify them to keep you from sin or straight up fulfill them. (The story of David when prophet Nathan confronted him about his dealings with Bathsheba. God was disappointed that David didn't tell him his desire...) Thanks for reading...
@gracedfavored77262 жыл бұрын
Hey sis you may not know this, but your comment was such a blessing to me I literally read the whole thing and so glad I did what a blessing so full of wisdom. You should have a blog or something if the Lord Leads.
@LLAML Жыл бұрын
Wonderful advice, thank you
@InterwebUser-ps7ju10 ай бұрын
Such a great comment to this discussion. God bless you.
@fuzakali9083 Жыл бұрын
To all you men out there wanting a submissive wife: it takes a very honest, good, sweet and loving man to deserve a submissive wife. If you are a good match she´ll follow your lead instinctively. If you´re not a good match, you probably both have some more healing to do. I am not on your biblical path and have other goals in life. But even I can see YOUR husband is one of those men. I´m sure you make eachother very happy.
@heathersnyder878910 ай бұрын
Yes. Choose wisely.
@courtneyfox24973 жыл бұрын
Thankyou as a woman who was raised in a broken home I have not had the best guidance on being a wife. I've always felt like I'm trying to be the man in the relationship but I don't want to be. Anyways Thankyou for some actual practical advice with real life examples so I can see how it looks and sounds in real life .
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!! ❤️
@Itsamantha1112 жыл бұрын
Culture does have that feministic tone telling women to do what they want and help lead.. but that isn’t the design. Supporting role not headship ❤️
@khadiah54863 жыл бұрын
What a breathe of fresh air. Thank you for the examples !
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and taking a moment to comment!!! ❤️ Blessings to you!
@AmaniiRoy3 жыл бұрын
Lol same about the cooking skills😬 One time I decided to try to make lasagna I did not boil the noodles bc I thought they would some how cook through in the oven with the meat sauce, when I took it out, cheese bubbling it looked great but when I cut into it, it crunched like crackers🤭my husband looked at me in the sweetest way and I just started crying😂 #1 was a fantastic point, let him lead! Most of the time they ask for wisdom and you feel super good inside bc they trust you. I guess that would lead into #2 to pause and be careful how you advise your husband. Love that part about asking instead of telling❤️great example for our kiddos. #5 So much wisdom, thank you! #7 Is huge, this will tear them down so much. Just thinking about doing this breaks my heart. #9 Being supportive when he speaks will provoke leaderdship. If we are constantly speaking over or discouraging bc they do not want confrontation they will go sit on the corner of the roof if you know what I mean. What fantastic points my friend😊 A sister and I have recently started reading "the excellent wife".
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Oh nooo about the lasagna noodles! Haha In your defense, they do make instant lasagna noodles that you can just bake in the oven. Haha Thank you for sharing! Yeah, I think a heart of submission is most often needed for the little decisions of life. It’s like the big decisions in life, I know my husband is going to consult with me, and I’m extra careful about being submissive in those situations. But the little situations that happen all day, every day, like when my husband says, ‘I’m going to make a new shelter for the sheep like this,’ unless I have a specific reason that he really needs to know before going through all that work, I really need to just hold my peace and not come back with an alternative way or question what he’s doing just because it could look a different way. His way of making the sheep shelter is going to turn out just fine. Haha This one is huge for me! And has made a HUGE difference in my marriage (even though it’s been good, it’s better as I pursue submission! Haha). I agree on the #7. I remember learning about this before I married, and I’ve always been careful with my tongue as regards my husband. But I actually see it happening a lot in ‘Christian’ marriages and thought it well worth saying! Thank you for your thoughts and comments!! Many blessings to you!!! 😃
@AmaniiRoy3 жыл бұрын
@@WomenLivingTorah What!? There are instant lasagna noodles! Yeah I struggle with not always having a "better suggestion",with practice and the grace of Yah we will overcome!! Be well sister!
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! Blessings and shalom to you also! ❤️
@josiesowers10583 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, sister! Really needed to hear this. Shalom! ❤️
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching! I’m grateful YHVH allows me to share here! 💕 Blessings!
@theogbabygamer2.0722 жыл бұрын
Such sound advice. One of the best videos on being a submissive wife. Thank you
@jackiesmith74762 жыл бұрын
This is so on point!! Thank you for this! It’s the best snapshot of biblical submission in marriage I’ve ever heard!! Amen!!
@KarolinaJ94 Жыл бұрын
Amazing, beautiful video. I needed the biblical submission to be said in very practical example. Thank you
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Let me know where you were at in your cooking skills when you first married!! And share any other examples of what submission looks like in your marriage! 😊
@abigail60522 жыл бұрын
Thanks i am saved 2 years ago i follow Jesus and God's word. Happy i feel the holy spirit guiding me to watch this video and do little notes i will be married soon. It's my prayers and my hope in Jesus name God bless you beautiful sister let's walk in the spirit with GRACE! HALLEL JESUS YESHÚA HAMASHIACH ❤️
@WomenLivingTorah2 жыл бұрын
Amen! Many blessings with your upcoming marriage!!
@tsukikage3 жыл бұрын
It's crazy how many of these things could be dealt with through normal communication, compromise, and give and take, rather than just submission.
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
It’s submission through our communication, compromise, Christian behavior and desiring to bless another person. 😊
@tsukikage3 жыл бұрын
Oh goodness, I just had a whole paragraph written when I accidentally refreshed the tab instead of opening a new one, but I'll re-write in a text editor later and then post it here. But the gist of what I was writing is when one makes letting the other person have their way be the default rather than just a frequently used option, it becomes very easy to stop getting your needs met, or even the needs of your children. It's one thing to not sweat the small stuff, but there's a fine line between submitting to your husband's decision making process, and letting your husband walk all over you. And with that being said, I think that anyone who choses the trad wife path because it suits them needs to also remember that, honestly like in a Dom/sub relationship, there are times where, if the husband is truly not taking the wife or children's needs into account, it's both acceptable and necessary for the wife to stand her ground and make her husband understand that he's being unreasonable. Or, if it hasn't escalated to that level and there's simply a discussion to make some decision and the husband doesn't quite realize that there's a real need on the wife or children's part, the wife would choose to not drop the issue rather than submit. Okay, so that was pretty much everything that I was writing rather than just "the gist". I think the only thing I mentioned originally that wasn't here is that when addressing being a submissive wife, I don't think you can ethically talk about this without SOME sort of caveat about remembering to stand your ground when you need to, even if you only do so prayerfully and reservedly. But a wife HAS to know that it is OKAY to stand up to her husband in certain situations.
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your perspective! 😊 To my knowledge, in ALL of my Biblical submission videos I DO specify that I am talking to healthy, Biblical marriages and have even addressed abusive relationships in some of them. But by simply stating that I am speaking about BIBLICAL submission and to HEALTHY relationships is a caveat in itself. 😊 Also, it seems you’re coming at this from a cultural ‘trad wife’ trend, whereas I am approaching submission through the lens of Biblical marriages. If you’re not familiar with the Ephesians 5:22-33 passage, I encourage you to read it!! It’s beautiful! Part of it refers to the wife’s submission to her husband- but the MAJORITY of it is speaking to the husband to cherish, nourish, love and be of one mind (one flesh) with his wife. So Biblical marriage is NOT at all about the wife being submissive to a domineering husband, and a domineering husband is not doing his part within a Biblical marriage. Hope that helps clarify my position a bit. Blessings!
@jborrego24062 жыл бұрын
Well he had to be the man , I don’t see point marriage if it all about the mans ideas an opinion . I guess he needs a yess man an someone to cook an clean
@carolinenjeri274511 ай бұрын
A smart woman +a smart man =divorce Dumb woman + dumb man =divorce Dumb/stupid man +smart woman =divorce A smart man + Dumb/stupid woman =successful marriage Marriage requires a woman to be dumb/stupid or dumb down if she's smart.That's just a fact. The bible and the quran (for muslims) are the most misogynistic books of all times.Discriminatory towards women liie they are not human beings who want also to be respected. You can't live your life to please a man for the rest of your life.Its misery
@boosgirl2011862 жыл бұрын
can you teach me more things about being a biblical submissive wife. I want to learn so much more
@Renewed85 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. The food looks really good also. I am learning what it truly means to be submissive to my husband. Look like have genuine joy when you talk about these steps and examples
@WomenLivingTorah Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching! There is peace in Biblical submission. 😊
@katieswan7385 Жыл бұрын
1.Dont sweat the small stuff. Let him make little decisions, go with the flow. 2.Pause before telling him something. Either A.stay silent or B. Rephrase how you're going to say something. 3. Stop solving problems as soon as husband mentions it. Defer to his thoughts first and then you can share your wisdom and thoughts. 4. Don't question everything your husband says. Submit to husband's preference.(christian husband.) 5. Show grace and patience in husband's leading. Not criticizing. Be support see how it turns out. 6. Have a good attitude about husband's leading. 7. Speak well of husband's leading to others. 8.Give husband your full attention when he's talking to you 9. Is there anything I can do for you today. Preferring him over self. 10. What would you like for us to do___long term goals, vision, supporting idea. Most importantly submit to the Lord and spend time with Him so He can refine us.
@chayahisrael1072 Жыл бұрын
Whooooaa HalleluYAH!!! I keep Torah as well ! May the most high bless you alll!!
@deborahcook76523 жыл бұрын
well, my cooking skills have definitely improved over the years...but we both love cooking. Loved the points and tips...learning submission has gotten better as well over the years, would say can always improve
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
That’s wonderful (on both points, haha)! And now you can teach other ladies in your life about submission through the beauty that comes of your own example. 🤗
@cbak18192 жыл бұрын
At 55 and newly married.. this really speaks truth.. and love the example of cooking!
@krazyunlimited95282 жыл бұрын
I needed this.We're newly married and we're getting frustrated I see now I am not submissive at all😭
@lydiahubbard75113 жыл бұрын
Such a wonderful video. My goal is always to be a submissive wife. A biblical wife.
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Amen. Same! Thank you for watching and commenting!! 😊
@ZYPRO973 жыл бұрын
Much respect from a christian men. Ur a great Wife. May Christ be with you and ur family forever
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@noelleditchfield9829 Жыл бұрын
Holy smokes this is convicting, and I'm not even married 😂
@juliawynm63352 жыл бұрын
Your chicken and cranberry sauce look so yummy! :)) Biblical roles and family are a reflection of Gods design and desire for His creation.. God bless you & your beautiful family... these scriptures come to remembrance ~ " Children of Light…9for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness, and truth. 10Test and prove what pleases the Lord." Philippians 1:10 That ye may approve things that are excellent; that ye may be sincere and without offence till the day of Christ; Psalm 19:14 Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer... 💞shalom 💓Strean Family
@WomenLivingTorah2 жыл бұрын
Shalom! Thank you!! 🤗
@kris92593 жыл бұрын
I live a different lifestyle than you but find your videos very peaceful and relaxing. Nice work
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Praise the Lord! 😃
@swietosawagromowadna79573 жыл бұрын
If my husband's decisions were hurtful and would cause problems to our family, do I have a right to question them?
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Your wording is interesting.... do you have the ‘right’ to question? Of course, wives have the ‘right’ to question and to speak! The Lord has created us to have wisdom, intellect, judgment, capability, and value- just as He has created males so. And a woman possessing AND using these qualities is praised in Scripture! In human value and rights, men and women are equal; equality is the only way they could be complementary to one another. So do we have a ‘right’ to question our husbands?? Absolutely!! And a husband will do well to heed his wife’s words, if she is speaking wisely and Biblically. Where Biblical submission comes into play is about the appropriate context for speaking and questioning. Should we be questioning this matter? When is the right time to discuss it? And how should we speak about it (tone of voice, body language, language)? As I mentioned in the video, I am speaking to healthy, Biblical marriages on my channel. And I am NOT a marriage counselor, nor do I presume to be. In healthy, Biblical marriages, most of the ‘everyday’ things do not need to be questioned. For example, my husband today decided he wanted to go to town for a faucet part. Town is an hour round trip, and he had other things to do here. But this is a matter that I didn’t need to question, although my timeline would have been different (and, actually, we had already discussed it the night before & I had shared these thoughts)! When all is said and done, all will turn out fine whether he gets the part today and finishes the projects later or finishes the projects now and gets the part later. You know? Questioning his decision to go to town now is unnecessary and would only be argumentative. But sometimes, we do need to question our husbands because it could prove beneficial to our household and situation. If your husband is making hurtful and problematic decisions, then yes!! Speak to him. But do it in a wise manner. Proverbs has a lot to say about wise speech. Or James 3, but special note of verse 17, explains wise speech. Or, if you are in an abusive relationship, PHYSICALLY remove yourself & any children from the situation & his home. And seek reconciliation from a distance, or under the supervision of counselors/trusted mentors/pastors, etc. (And also! Careful attention that the person being abused has a counselor or trusted person to speak to separately/privately so as not to be drawn in to what could be an abusive person’s empty words/promises!) Hope that helps. Blessings!
@quyonariley26042 жыл бұрын
This video was amazing! Thank you for your time Happy New Year 🎆 🙏🏽❤️
@chloegrundy2 жыл бұрын
This video has helped me tremendously!!! Thank you so much!!! I love all of your videos! I subscribed!!!😊
@chrisbuilt9718 Жыл бұрын
Praying that I come to fully understand submission..I have such a wonderful man. What a mighty work has been done in him over the 18 years together..I have never seen an example of submission only rebellion and I have been trying very hard to break those chains.. please sister pray I will come to fully understand.
@spocktiberius2456Ай бұрын
Watching a woman cook is bringing tears of joy to my eyes 😂
@onlyonefaith63562 жыл бұрын
pray for my wife she needs friends like you
@seni52813 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! I learned yet another deeper understanding about submission! God bless you!
@c.s.21256 ай бұрын
This video was such a blessing and encouragement to me. Thank you so much, Sister!
@adobeblue4360 Жыл бұрын
Hi I think you should rewatch this. You are giving the areas where arguments can start but for some reason, neglecting actual, specific examples. One point was not soving the problem as soon as my husband brings it up (paraphrase). You explained thoroughly what that point was but did not offer any real life exapmle, i.e. our son will not pick up after himself. Video should include what you did to address this, how your husband came up with the idea or how you got your idea accepted. Really break it down. These examples rather than just more rhetoric on why it is good to do this help solidify the idea.
@BeeHappy9683 жыл бұрын
Great advice, with impactful results!🙌🏼
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
I find it to be for me! There’s so much peace in submission! And I find a deeper friendship with my husband through friendship when there’s not arguing about nearly everything. 😊
@lewismcneil78062 жыл бұрын
Omg Good video sister . I Truly admire this video . It is so spiritual and Humble . And also By Being submissive causes The relationship to flow properly.. ❤️❤️❤️❤️Good video
@sammurray129123 жыл бұрын
I've so enjoyed the videos about biblical submission. It has been so helpful to me. I Praise Yah for my husband and am so blessed by you doing this for the purpose of implementing biblical submission, very helpful. Can you give any advice for me to give any of my sisters that either have an atheist husband or a husband that does not highly esteem Yah and walk in His ways?
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching & commenting! 😊 I do not have experience with an unbelieving husband; however, 1 Peter 3 does speak to this situation (pasted below; would recommend ALL women do an in-depth study of these Scriptures!). I would also just note that unbelieving doesn’t equate ‘abusive’ or ‘evil.’ Just because a husband is unbelieving doesn’t mean that he should be inferior in headship or that all his decisions should be viewed as from haSatan himself.... Certainly, there are abusive cases. (I suggest separation while working toward reconciliation.) And there are instances where an unbelieving husband may suggest something ungodly & Biblically wrong. (Peaceably discuss/decline!) But.... usually unbelieving husbands are not abusive and not selling their soul to work wickedness. Unbelieving husbands can still be ‘good’ men and value their wives. ‘My husband is not a believer’ does not give us permission to usurp the headship over our husbands; we are still called to submission. ‘My husband is not a believer’ does not mean he can’t make wise decisions and lead the family. The ‘ideal’ is that both husband and wife are on the same page as far as faith is concerned (the more we agree on with all matters of life, but especially the important ones, the better!), and the beautiful picture of Messiah and His Bride is illustrated through a Biblical marriage. But also beautiful is the work of the Holy Spirit in a wife & her unbelieving husband; maybe it’s not the same picture and maybe being on different pages is an extra complexity to the relationship, but it is still a marriage that can glorify the King of kings & testify of His Good News!! Hope that helps! 1 Peter 3:1-7 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: Even as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement. Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
@sammurray129123 жыл бұрын
@@WomenLivingTorah thank you for your thoughtful response, I agree and appreciate you answering! I love how this video gave some more practical examples and principles on how to submit to your husband. I feel so much for my sisters who are in marriages where they are not on the same page spiritually. It adds so much complexity to their relationship and it is hard for them to connect to their spouse. I liked your advice that it doesn't mean that he can't lead the family and make good decisions. Romans 8:28 comes to mind. Shalom!
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Blessings to you! 💕
@alexiskarin3 жыл бұрын
This opened my eyes , God bless you.
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
I’m so thankful YHVH used this video for His glory. Many blessings to you!!
@luciemunson2 жыл бұрын
Not religious here, but it's sound advice and very helpful to maintain polarity in the relationship, so thanks!
@matteonord54442 жыл бұрын
Bless your virtue and commitment to your husband!! Honorable wife!!
@superstar8404 ай бұрын
To each their own. As long as you are both agree with a system, who am I to say what is right or wrong? Personally my wife and I have been married for 34 years, and we have a 50-50 relationship neither of us is the “leader”, so to speak. Rather we are co-leaders, 50-50 getting through life together. This works for us and has strengthened our relationship with the Lord.
@Loupoonug232 жыл бұрын
-- There is no problem with submission, as long as the man respects the woman and vice versa. If they are able to cooperate together and support one another, submission is not bad. People did use it to do wrong, which is sad. But if the two individuals value one another, with truth, godliness, loyalty, love, and respect, which is something healthy in a relationship, submission is not bad. That is why knowing what submission truly is, is important and knowing when a man is abusing it or using your gift against you. And then again, you have to take into account the man’s actions and who he is. How he is with people too and with God too. In front and behind, cameras or people. -- You can be independent, have a job, be strong and still decide to submit to someone that is good and truly loves you. People don’t know the true meaning of submission. We can't change it to what we like, since it will bring confusion. You should be ready to do so with a man you love and feel comfortable with. The man should be godly behind and in front of the cameras or people. It is a natural process that we can allow ourselves or just come like that. It doesn’t mean letting a man take advantage of us in any cases or not supporting one another or both staying humble.
@jimmylittle93932 жыл бұрын
I actually do most of the cooking at our place...although my partner is getting better...I've choked down a lot of bad meals to be polite hahaha
@Sophialorenabenjamin3 жыл бұрын
Very inspiring and rejuvenating. Thanks for posting this.
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and taking a moment to comment! Many blessings to you!!
@nicolewilliams317 Жыл бұрын
Such a wonderful video thank you sister in Christ
@cailaporsch82363 жыл бұрын
Those dislikes were people pressing the thumbs up while mid back flip so they probably didn't mean to thumbs down 🙏🤓
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
I’m sure... 😉 haha Blessings!
@keshiabroadway-caraballo31593 жыл бұрын
This is good encouragement i thank the father for using you .
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting! Praise YHVH for His goodness and guidance in our lives! 💕
@jorge-7121 Жыл бұрын
Hi Raquel, where can I find a wife like you ? Honest question. I'm a emotionally mature man, never married, no kids, very successful, strong in faith and character.
@mrsglitter83733 жыл бұрын
I kept having your video pop up under my recommendations and I have avoided it for some reason for months until now....... And I am so glad that I clicked on it now I'm about to go watch a bunch of your other videos 🥰
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
I’m so grateful to have you ‘here,’ and I pray these videos can be a blessing to you!! ❤️
@mihalysuba94327 ай бұрын
So good videos! We watch these together. Are there videos about the men's side too? From your husband or otherwise?
@WomenLivingTorah7 ай бұрын
I don’t have any about the men’s side. And my husband doesn’t make videos on it either. (But I have seriously considered taping some of our conversations about the nature of men/women, marriage, etc because they’re really insightful. He has a balanced perspective!)
@tashapatton46999 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I'm finding these videos incredibly helpful and am very new to the concept and am greatly appreciative of these videos. I was wondering if you knew of any characters from books or TV shows/movies that are good examples of a biblical submissive wife. I didn't grow up with good examples and was wondering if there were any that you know are good examples.
@WomenLivingTorah9 ай бұрын
I love books my Louisa May Alcott, such as Little Women & An Old Fashioned Girl. I also loved Farmer Boy for homemaking inspiration. And then Ma portrayed in the first few seasons of Little House on the Prairie tv series was really inspirational for being Biblically submissive. 😊
@Discovering.jess.3 жыл бұрын
This is such a great video, thank you for sharing!!
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting!! 💕
@Discovering.jess.3 жыл бұрын
@@WomenLivingTorah loving your channel🥰
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
@@Discovering.jess. I’m so grateful you’re ‘here’ and that we can encourage one another in living out God’s Word!! 💕
@lovestephens44383 жыл бұрын
Hello! I know this video is older but I am trying to learn how to be submissive biblically and would love some Bible verses to study and put into practice on where to start. Any advice would be helpful! Great video!💖
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
I have a whole bunch of verses in this other video about Biblical submission: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqOwdKxjYpV6qNE
@lovestephens44383 жыл бұрын
@@WomenLivingTorah I will definitely check that out thank you! Thanks for responding 💖
@jacgrainger7293 Жыл бұрын
This is a wonderful video.
@user-le7ny8bq1l2 жыл бұрын
If a husband is an abusive one, your tactics is gonna back fire and my personal experience confirms it.
@WomenLivingTorah2 жыл бұрын
I specifically mention in this video that I am speaking to healthy, Biblical marriages.
@charlesttfr3 жыл бұрын
Showing this to my wife, thank you
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching & sharing. I pray it’s a blessing!! 😊
@thlipsislamont13523 жыл бұрын
@@WomenLivingTorah Hello I mean no harm. But I'm nearly in tears right now and I'm hurting badly. My wife is wanting to leave me because we had an argument and my voice didn't yell but it was raised more than the normal. And now she's actually wanting to end the marriage and separate from me and divorce me. I do have some flaws like all men. But I've never hit her, I've never cursed her, I've been faithful and our marriage, I provide, I honor her, I praise her out in the gates in the city, I compliment her I am home faithfully, I don't do drugs, I train my children up, I teach her the scriptures, we pray together, we read the word of God together. But I do have shortcomings. There are times when I do get angry, times where I am imperfect,. But her reason to leave me a divorce me is nothing biblical at all for no biblical reason is she wanting to separate from me. Could I get you to maybe talk to my wife or just a short while because I see that you are a lady that has learned how to be submissive. If your husband would allow it could you do it for me? Please? I can give you my email address as well and then through there I can give you my phone number so that I can talk to you and maybe you can call my wife. Please I'm crying out for help
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for the struggles in your marriage. 🙏 Are there other believers in your life that can better counsel both you and your wife? Your marriage and life with your wife is something personal, and you need to have relationship with your counselors and know them and they know you and be part of each other’s lives. Also, each of you seeking out a counselor is preferable to you finding one for her.... I am not a counselor, and I am not able to fulfill the mentor role for your wife in this situation, but I pray you and she can seek out a godly individual for each of you- or a Godly couple- that can better counsel your situation.
@jenniferlabruzzo39223 жыл бұрын
@@thlipsislamont1352 I think the reasons she wants to leave , are where your answers are. What is she feeling? What would help sooth what she is feeling, not silence what she is feeling, but trulu heal it.
@servantofthelivinggod61922 жыл бұрын
Shalom everybody. I have been with my wife for about 10 1/2 years. I started walking with God about four years ago. Our relationship was already problematic during the first six years, but after I repented and came to the Lord and changed my ways, things got worse. She has not repented, several days ago she finally admitted to me that she does not want to repent because she is afraid of change. We are always in disagreement. She always argues with me, especially when I’m trying to do something that will please God. I love her, but I love God more. And I’m starting to feel like this relationship is about to end. She even told me once that she does not love me anymore because I am not the same man she fell in love with. She told me this four years ago, and I still stayed because I know as a servant of God we must be patient. But now I am starting to realize that I stayed in vain because she refuses to come to God. I know that God hates divorce and only allows it in certain cases, and I have felt in my spirit that my case is an example of this. Over the years, she has even told me to leave. But because I knew that she gets emotional, I did not leave. But now I feel like things are coming to a head and it feels like God is guiding me out of this relationship because he knows that I have tried everything to make it work, but at the end of the day, I cannot force anyone to come to God due to free will. And if I must choose between the gospel and my wife, I choose the gospel. Our Messiah Yeshua has said that whoever for sakes their wife, lands, houses, mother, father, brother, and sister for his sake will be recompensed 100 fold with persecutions in this world and eternal life in the world to come. and God has tried me so much through this relationship. And of a truth, I am grateful that he has.
@MelissaRiccardi10 ай бұрын
Such a great video !!! Thank you
@larafuad46583 жыл бұрын
Wooow wooow woow love it💟💟🙏🙏I pray that the Lord will help you and me and every other christian women to be the perfect submissive wife through his grace and mercy thank you for the amazing blessed video
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching!! Not sure we’ll reach perfection in this age, but oh what a beautiful blessings Biblical submission is in the life of a Godly woman!!
@theparttimehomemaker2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant tips. Thank you xxx
@beautifulqueen7482 жыл бұрын
Food looks good and the video had a great message do you make videos like this often??
@WomenLivingTorah2 жыл бұрын
Hello! Somewhat frequently. I have a Biblical marriage playlist you can check out for more! 🤗 Blessings!
@andywhite5142 жыл бұрын
I need to find a good woman to be my wife like your husband found you. I was married before and she did the opposite of what you said in your video she even told me to go to hell 2 times and even beat me up over a credit card. Where can I find a good woman I don't go to bars I don't drink or smoke . I enjoyed watching your video thank you. Andy.
@gg.66332 жыл бұрын
Try church??
@sabinebonschab3522 жыл бұрын
I hope you will find. So if God want you to have a woman. Blessings from Germany.
@charleneterrell Жыл бұрын
The last time I checked, the dentist is closed on Thursday and Friday.
@WomenLivingTorah Жыл бұрын
I think you commented this on the wrong video or to the wrong person! 😊 Shalom!
@aikozoe65982 жыл бұрын
Biblical submission goes both ways: the husband is to submit and obey his wife and the wife obeys and submits to her husband. you follow the traditions of men and human opinions instead of the will and Word of God. The Bible says the husband is supposed to submit and obey his wife just as much as the wife should submit and obey her husband. the husband is supposed to put his wife first. he is supposed to DIE to himself for the sake of his wife. of course God is always first. for the husband and for the wife. there is no question about that. but in case of the husband he should put his wife first. befire himself. the Bible says that the woman is man's helper. that the very same word "helper" was used in refference to God Himself. God is our (people's) Helper. the very word HELPER means in that case that "a stronger one is helping the waker one" - the woman helps as the stronger one to the weaker one. this is what hebrew language conveys. eph 5;21 says KJV: "Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God." this verse is very simple to understand. in eph 5;25 we read "Husbands, love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her" - it is a very easy verse to understand. it says that the husband is supposed to die for his wife. as Christ died for His Bride the Church. Lord Yeshu died on the cross with a lot of pain and suffering and agony in order to serve His Bride, to save her, to make her His Bride. the same way the husband is supposed to die to himself (his well being, his benefits, his pleasures,) and always put his wife's needs, calling, well-being, advantage, progress, happiness before him. men think that they are supposed to love their wives as they please.... no. no, no, no, no...nothing like that...1 cor 13:4-8 shows HOW they are supposed to love their wives: "Love is patient, love is kind, it is not envious. Love does not brag, it is not puffed up. It is not rude, it is not self-serving, it is not easily angered or resentful. It is not glad about injustice, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. " and SUCH should be the husband's love toward his wife.... also in phl 2;3 we read about relationships "Instead of being motivated by selfish ambition or vanity, each of you should, in humility, be moved to treat one another as more important than yourself." - this is the Biblical model of treatining the wife by her husband. also in mat 20;27 we read about those who want to be first and lead: "and whoever wants to be first among you must be your slave" - The truth is that we all are supposed to serve one another, submit one to another, love one another. serving is the lifestyle of Bible believers. this is how we are to live. why? because we follow our Lord God and Savior Jesus Christ and the Bible says about Him: "just as the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many." (mat 20;28) The Bible more often reminds women about submission because it is their weak point (women are natural leaders. if it wasnt so the punishment for the sin in the garden of eden about the man's rulership (which was done away with by the redemption of the Lord Jesus) would not have been punishment) and the Bible reminds men about loving their wives because it is their weak point but both - the woman and the man are supposed to love and submit and serve one another.
@channelchanel1232 жыл бұрын
wow, your cooking looks great!
@hannahhutchison2189 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I hope I can still do this ❤
@melissai4798 Жыл бұрын
But what if you feel like your husband is making the wrong decisions financially?
@ashleydavis99602 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this teaching, thank you
@trss86749 ай бұрын
I hope you'll all read the book called the great sex rescue which is a christian book about submission.
@WomenLivingTorah9 ай бұрын
Thanks for the recommendation!
@mintentional Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this😍😍
@patriciaboswell7292 жыл бұрын
very helpful. Thanks for sharing!!
@WomenLivingTorah2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching!! 🤗
@shawncudjoe213 жыл бұрын
This video was educational. I am going to let my daughters and son watch it to see and explain the problems with this kind of thinking.
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Be sure to watch and have them watch my other two videos on submission, too! The first ‘Biblical submission in marriage’ is how I would ‘define’ it, and the second is ‘how to be a submissive wife.’ 😊 If you disagree with my stance, that’s fine. But just keep in mind that submission is a Biblical character trait for men AND women toward God, Believers toward one another, and then from wife to husband. If you and your family are Believers, there’s no getting around being Biblically submissive. So might want to be ready to explain to your children what it does mean to be Biblically submissive, if you disagree with my understanding. 😊 Blessings!! 😊
@shawncudjoe213 жыл бұрын
@@WomenLivingTorah We are atheists and I want them to understand and be able to explain for themselves why submission is not in their best interest. They have read the bible just as I have and agree that it is immoral. My position on submission is that it subjugates women. I want them to hear from a submissive wife perspective and see if they agree or not and be able to make their own choices and defend their position.
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Gotcha. 😊 Obviously, I disagree with your position. Enjoy your discussion with your children. 😊
@shawncudjoe213 жыл бұрын
@@WomenLivingTorah Thank you.
@phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 Жыл бұрын
@@shawncudjoe21 I have 2 daughters. I will not teach them submission. We are Christians but I believe these types of women seem to be brainwashed by whatever these religions are. I just can't get on board with this kind of life. You don't have to homeschool your kids or not work . I also tell my 14 yr old daughter not to even think about getting married too young or having tons of kids. You have to be able to afford tons of kids. Most of us are struggling to afford basic. Things and alot of these submissive people try telling girls get married too young be your man's servant and pop out bunches of kids.. no thanks. I want my daughters to speak up and think for themselves. And you gave me a good idea to show this to my oldest daughter so she doesn't try to get involved in this type of lifestyle. It isn't good for a marriage or anyone's overall well being or emotional state
@gemswithjubi95313 жыл бұрын
I genuinely enjoyed what you shared, but I’m also at a loss. I feel like all of these things are expected of us, but shouldn’t we expect certain things back from our husband’s as well? Respecting and submitting to our husband’s is part of being a wife, but where in this is our husband’s respecting and showing appreciation to us? Where in this is “team” or “equals” in a marriage? Do you have any insight that could help me?
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
I understand what you’re saying, and yes, in marriage, there’s mutual respect, mutual love, mutual caring for the other, etc. I will answer your question more thoroughly, but I want to just preface it by saying that my audience is ladies and not men. And so what I share is for women and ‘our side’ of things. (There are lots of ‘mutual’ things in marriage, but there’s NOT mutual submission in the same way a wife submits to her husband.) Ultimately, I cannot control my husband. I can’t make him treat me a certain way or act a certain way. I can only control MYSELF and be responsible for submitting myself at the Father’s feet and doing what HE has called/commanded me to REGARDLESS of what my husband or anyone else is doing (or not doing). So I’m not sure I will ever make a video about God’s expectations for men and husbands because... I’m a woman and my audience is women, and we can only control ourselves. 😊 In answer to your question, though, very briefly: There’s expectation for man and woman from the very beginning. In Genesis, when woman is created it is first and foremost because ‘it is not good for man to be alone.’ Husbands and wives are meant to be each other’s companion!! That goes BOTH ways because companionship requires relationship. What do we do for our friends? We go out of our way to bless them. We talk and laugh and have a good time together. We consult one another about matters. We have deep discussions with self control, when there are disagreements. We compromise (in non sinful situations). We think positive things of them. Etc etc... Husbands and wives are created to have THE MOST intimate companionship that can be achieved on earth!! We do these kinds of things FOR EACH OTHER because we are companions! (I’ve mentioned before in my original Biblical Submission in marriage video that the Scriptures liken husbands and wives as a head/a body. There’s a lot of communication/feedback that’s happening in the Body! A head would never think to intentionally burn its own hand, you know what I mean?) Also, consider that as believers, YHVH has expectations of us- to walk in His Word and as Messiah Yeshua walked!! That’s for husbands AND wives. Literally, everything the Scriptures say about relationships or about conducting ourselves APPLIES TO MARRIAGE for men AND women!! Should we or our husbands complain? No. Because Scripture says ‘do ALL things without murmuring and complaining.’ If my husband complains anyway, should I complain? No! Because I am still responsible for MYSELF and MY actions and words before God. Certainly, the Lord has expectations of righteousness for men/husbands AND women/wives.... but ALSO consider that He expected we would sin. In His Torah, he established a sacrificial system because He knew we were flesh and sinful in nature. And ultimately, He manifested Himself in flesh as Messiah Yeshua to die the penalty DUE TO ME for my sin as the eternal sacrificial Lamb. God expected I would sin. He expects I still will... (not live a habitual lifestyle of sin, but will still sin), but thank God we have forgiveness and regeneration through the blood of Yeshua and the work of the Spirit!! So... we should expect our husbands to also fail and err and sin. Do they have standards of righteousness? Yes. Should they live according to those standards of righteousness? Yes! But will they always? Sadly, no.... As none of us do. Where there are specifically instructions for wives, there are usually instructions for husbands. So yes. There are expectations for them, too. Do husbands always live out God’s expectations for marriage and as husbands? No.... but neither do we... So, grace and patience.... repeat. 😊 I know there’s more I could have said, but this is already not brief.... haha Just real quick: to be a help meet requires equality. And husbands are not perfect, and wives as fellow believers CAN approach their husbands on faults/sins with Biblical correction- just remember Scripture ALSO stipulates HOW correcting fellow believers should go! (Meekness!!! With the intent to RESTORE!!) 1 Peter 3 if your husband is NOT a believer. (And just in case it needs to be said: I do support separation for reconciliation in abusive relationships! Physically remove yourself and any children from an abusive husband’s home while together and separately, you each receive counseling and work toward a safe reconciliation.)
@gemswithjubi95313 жыл бұрын
@@WomenLivingTorah This helped so much! Thank you for taking the time to explain this to me!
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome!! 😃
@heathersnyder878910 ай бұрын
Meekness does not equal weakness. Woman was made to be an Ezer. Ezer was used21 times in the Old Testament. Two to describe the role of woman. 3 to describe Israel needing military Ezer…..help. And the last 16 were for God giving Ezer…help. Submission is not being inferior nor a doormat. The beautiful word of God explained it so well in Genesis 2.
@heathersnyder8789Ай бұрын
Biblical submission means to submit to God and then putting your spouse’s needs above your own.
@kellyorwig66533 жыл бұрын
Are we supposed to submit even when they're being controlling and not wanting you to do certain things for no good reason? Just because they're being controlling?
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
If you’re in an abusive relationship, and that’s what you’re calling ‘controlling,’ then please know I am not a marriage counselor, and I encourage separation for reconciliation! Physically separate yourself and any children from his home and reconcile from a distance with trusted counselors! If you’re in a healthy marriage, and there’s just certain things your husband has a pet peeve about or just doesn’t like- like cutting your hair into a particular style or making a specific dinner dish- then I would say ‘choose your battles wisely.’ Be willing to submit in these areas just because you love him and want to please him, not necessarily because he has good reasons and a good argument. Maybe he doesn’t know why, but he just knows he ‘doesn’t like’ that particular hair style. Is this particular hair style really worth causing tension in your marriage? Really, it’s not.... and I know I personally want to be attractive to my husband, so if he says he doesn’t like that hairstyle, it’s in my personal interest/priority to submit in that area. Though that may not be your situation, I’m using it as an example of some of those ‘every day, they really don’t matter’ things in life. Now of course! If there’s a matter that is really important to you, you can talk to your husband about it! Our husbands love us and don’t expect us or want us to be mindless robots! They want us to be happy, too! So, definitely, talk to your husband about the matter, if it’s something you really care about. But choose your battles wisely and from a spirit of humility that wants to please and bless your husband, not from a spirit of selfishness, just wanting to have our way all the time. 😊 Just my thoughts!
@kellyorwig66533 жыл бұрын
@@WomenLivingTorah I'm asking for women in general. Thank you for answering my question 😃
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
I see. If each of us could seek out trusted aged couples, they could give us much more personalized advice and counsel! 😊
@DaTechn9cian3 жыл бұрын
Also you didnt really explain what is it that he doesn't want you to do and how you came to the conclusion that it was for no good reason. I come from this standpoint as a single male but .I do understand that men and women think vastly different and come with different solutions. And that its really prosperous to reflect and communicating with one another to come up with a solution with better results.
@kellyorwig66533 жыл бұрын
@@DaTechn9cian Like if your family invites you and your husband to an event and your husband doesn't want to go. And because he doesn't want to go, he also doesn't want you to go. It's not because he has something else to do. He just doesn't want you to go by yourself. And how about if you want to go to a women's bible study and he doesn't want you to go for no reason?
@susanhaines73584 ай бұрын
Excellent
@ManeAttractionsinBowieMd2 жыл бұрын
You get a 100% score sis Yeshua
@bigNo133 жыл бұрын
Damn i still have a hard time being the one and only one that bends. Why can't he be the one that bends a little to me and why can't he think " maybe i should approach my wife differently" ???
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching & commenting. I’m sorry you feel unheard and your opinion unvalued in your relationship. 😞 I would definitely encourage you to pray about how to gently and lovingly share this concern with your husband, whether face to face or through a letter, if you think you may get too emotionally charged. Husbands are sinful humans, as we are! Sometimes, they need correction to Godliness, too! But WE must be Biblical in our approach as well, correcting in meekness and love, with a soft answer, not stirring up strife and anger, etc. The Scriptures consistently praise a woman of good judgment, discernment, intelligence, and capability, and our husbands NEED us and what we bring to the family as a woman. In Biblical and healthy marriages, our husbands cherish us and want us to be happy, too! Husbands and wives are a TEAM, offering different perspectives to different situations and scenarios that can allow for a more balanced, more well informed decision. So definitely talk to your husband about this matter.... And also, I’d encourage you to seek out a Godly, aged woman in your life that can encourage you and support you in your desire & striving to be a Biblical wife. She can give you more personalized advice than I could. Also, to speak frankly, it seems you bear some bitterness and resentment toward your husband. Please take these feelings to the Lord in prayer and search the Scriptures for how to Biblically respond to these feelings! Ultimately, we can only control ourselves and submit ourselves to God- and I don’t want YOU to experience bitterness and resentment because that eats away at YOU. I know I harbored some bitterness and resentment against my husband from when we were first married because I was working full time (& the only one), pregnant with our first and had chronic fatigue, and I was still the one serving him.... I felt like I was giving so much and receiving nothing in return. For years afterward, even when our roles did reverse and I was home and he was working, I felt that distrust and disrespect of him. I felt that anger and hurt and resentment toward him. ‘Why couldn’t he have looked for ways to bless me during that time?’ Etc... And anytime he slipped back into seasons of what I perceived as selfishness, I recalled that first experience and examined it again and relived it all.... Wasn’t healthy for ME! And furthermore, resentment and bitterness doesn’t provoke my husband unto Godliness, love, and good works! And really the ONLY way out of that bitterness and resentment was casting down every one of those bitter thoughts and memories with forgiving, kind and tender hearted thoughts from God’s Word! Truly. This comment is already getting long, but I have a video about ‘forgiveness in practice’ and ‘spiritual habits of homemakers’ that both go a bit more in-depth on some of this, just search both of those phrases with my name and they should come up. Hope that helps! Many blessings to you!! 😊 🤗 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
@bigNo133 жыл бұрын
@@WomenLivingTorah Thank you for replying. You are an inspiration and i will pray to God for help in my marriages and to help me approach my husband with more kindness and not frustration also to help my husband understand what i need from him without starting a fight. I do want a healthier marriage and you have inspired me to try harder and be more submissive. I will check out all your videos specially the one you recommended. Thank you and may God be with you, your marriage and family. Thank You!
@WomenLivingTorah3 жыл бұрын
Many blessings to you! 😊 🤗
@jessicam91212 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Thank you thank you!!! God bless you and your family. I really needed this.
@WomenLivingTorah2 жыл бұрын
I’m so thankful the Lord used this video to bless you!! Many blessings, Sister! 🤗
@jessicam91212 жыл бұрын
@@WomenLivingTorah Do you have any other forms of social media to be followed on?
@elisabetprzychodko94223 жыл бұрын
I spend many hours praying and studying I am not active as you are....I would like to change my way of worship God