This is a good tedtalk but I kept looking at the background and thinking about how much of a pain it would be to clean all those holes
@marianagella90074 жыл бұрын
We’re T We
@LughSummerson6 жыл бұрын
You can't change the facts to agree with you, but you can change yourself to agree with the facts.
@DeathValleyDazed2 жыл бұрын
Well the mainstream media is giving it a bloody good try.
@rakvian6 жыл бұрын
I'm always in that illusions that I'm very open minded, I'm not so much as I think I am. Even though I love to learn something new or realize that I had a bias I didn't see before.
@helenbothma21245 жыл бұрын
Great talk Lucinda, thought provoking. If we listened more and were really interested in the Why people think and believe what they do our world would be a much kinder place
@giusyocchipinti5986 жыл бұрын
Her speech was really interesting. Most of the time, we're not open-minded and the main reason is our beliefs. Why don't try to listen to other? Thanks for sharing.
@Msjulie.t6 жыл бұрын
These Ted videos have changed my life
@KpR3336 жыл бұрын
^You're not listening
@ikmalaxl52866 жыл бұрын
Julie Trang Truong it doesn't :)
@nurezamahendra14996 жыл бұрын
Cantik085733960734
@DeathValleyDazed2 жыл бұрын
Please be clear, for the better or the worse? In what way specifically?
@Zahlenteufel16 жыл бұрын
Listening to understand is good in theory but if you try it in the TED comments or any internet comments you will just get frustrated as trolls don't actually have a point.
@Pugpono6 жыл бұрын
Discernment is your next best option.
@Spectre44906 жыл бұрын
Sometimes i meeting people in the internet who change my mind. They do it with argue and calm conversation, it`s realy cool to know that this people are exist. But almost 80% disputes ends with no effect, because people always have own look and change it after 2-10 years.
@Pugpono6 жыл бұрын
Spectre 944 Perception and a paradigm shift is what you described in the last sentence. I love reading material from Steven Covey and Hyrum Smith whom go into detail about this kind of stuff. I agree with what you said.
@merrick9265 жыл бұрын
@@Spectre4490 that is why i spam facebook :-) i can look back at the years and see how i evolved with new information
@Lobster167636 жыл бұрын
Thank god. After a long long time here comes an intelligent speech, a true stuff worth to listen and a good/sound reason to subscribe TEDx, ha..ha.. Thumps Up, Lady! Namaste from India. 🙏
@mtm006 жыл бұрын
Really good. Thank you, Lucinda.
@XOPOIIIO6 жыл бұрын
I can change my mind if I'm wrong, but I need a proof to be sure I'm wrong. The problem is people don't want to hear facts.
@WarpathHatred6 жыл бұрын
I think this is dangerously close to being mistitled.
@AliceWooonderland6 жыл бұрын
Great talk! Haven't heard such a good tedxtalk in weeks!
@Thinkpositivebepositive16 жыл бұрын
Changing old beliefs with the new one, changing your thinking, focusin on positive thinking
@em111114 жыл бұрын
Great advert for The Conversation, but the title was clickbait.
@diegogutierrez3176 жыл бұрын
She is a great speaker, a really good one
@GailanMAzeez10 ай бұрын
Incredible talk!
@burhancelikbas66586 жыл бұрын
The concept is stunning
@samuelmello87796 жыл бұрын
As palestras do Tedx são as melhores. So que vcs poderiam colocar a legenda brasileira por favor se puderem. Nós iríamos ficar acradecidos e outra daria mais flexibilidade aos telespectadores brasileiros.
@onewomanslife6 жыл бұрын
The number one most topical issue these days. Thank you so much. Very nicely presented. Trust Respect Empathy Vulnerability Courage Quality information. A tall order- but doable. One point, though, when I emailed one of your authors on an issue- so that I would not humiliate her publicly in the comment section- where she wrote misinformation that diminished a country- where I presented the FACTS in which I was personally involved.- (my son was almost murdered in a third country) and that is more than a little memorable) THE CONVERSATION had me BANNED. So much for FACT CHECKS. PS- I was neither rude or threatening to her and she was supported without QUALIFICATION when she had misled the world on that topic). You chose to ban me from your community. SERIOUSLY. You imposed banishment- is that ISOLATION? Your turn to apply your topic.
@tellurianapostle6 жыл бұрын
Debra Smith you can ban people through emails?
@onewomanslife6 жыл бұрын
Hi Big, I was subscribed to the Conversation, emailed the author by finding her online (she was a student in England from Mexico) and wrote to her. She whined to the Conversation. They banned me.
@tellurianapostle6 жыл бұрын
That sucks Debra.
@onewomanslife6 жыл бұрын
I think it is disappointing- mostly because they never corrected the lies.
@fortunateone68576 жыл бұрын
OKAY, I’M REALLY PERPLEXED! A wonderful presentation, excellent points, nothing controversial. Everything she said makes sense. THERE ARE ACTUALLY 45 PEOPLE WHO DON’T LIKE THIS TED TALK! What’s not to like? How could anybody NOT like this talk is beyond comprehension. There is an old adage that says that you can please some of the people some of the time but you can’t please all of the people all of the time. To that I would add, if you ever do please everyone all of the time somebody…….somebody isn’t going to like it! There you have it. 45 people can’t be pleased no matter what. Don’t worry be happy. Lol J.
@drftrkjhguvgggfd6 жыл бұрын
Fortunate One Consider my point of view. I am substantially unimpressed by her. The racial torture on white farmers in SA is real. Is there any reason to believe that is not the case? There were many fake photos of children of syria, gaza as these things are flooded in social media to create a fad. Oh she is talking about Snopes oh my bleeding heart! Snopes fact checked the baby in blue t behind fence then called it mixture, instead of calling it false or incorrect. The evidence suggest wage gap is not 23% and not from oppression. Evidence suggests socialism has failed in all unsupported sceneries. We need to be curious about why capitalism works, is there a coexistence potential for good governance and profit? How can we improve work environment for women without bankrupting organizations? How do we get people who have had an actual education instead of gender studies make and talk about policy? There are thing I want to comment about this piece - a) form over content b) the virtue signalling is strong with this one ...
@DeathValleyDazed2 жыл бұрын
@@drftrkjhguvgggfd - Mostly agree with your analysis. When she moved on after explaining the injured child photo, I asked "so are you going to explain that farmer torture in South Africa is real or not?" Nope, just moved right on. In her defense she made a few solid points but overall feels more like a rah rah rah piece and if there is evidence based, scientifically proof of her concepts she did not cite references. I'm off to check here website to see if they've improved their fact checking protocols vs. being bought off or captured by contrary forces.
@AirElegant6 жыл бұрын
It's takes your feeling to change
@stuarthall25236 жыл бұрын
Quite thought provoking.
@deanjoseph1236 жыл бұрын
I am South African. That picture...yes it was falsified...but that does not negate the violent and barbaric acts of cruelty against white farmers.
@Fromdeno6 жыл бұрын
I think the point is presenting fake evidence can mislead the conversation and make both sides wrong and in turn this can lead both sides to resolve the actual issues poorly. While, yes it’s happening, mishandling facts can lead to extremism on either side. for example: one side can easily try to then sway this to try and persuade others to act cruelly in return and thus cause more innocent children harm (literally all of history;) and then on the other hand the other side can try to discredit, shift blame, avoid responsibility and hide behind ‘falsified over exaggerated’ stories.
@ЮрийГамзин6 жыл бұрын
yes this is a very unsuitable example
@jctr45593 жыл бұрын
@@ЮрийГамзин She was coming from a liberal predisposition. In other words her facts could be in question. Her clients are main stream media, so their you have it.
@snacklofter6 жыл бұрын
Some very good points - thank you.
@Rizwankhatri7866 жыл бұрын
Time has transformed we can change but currently era its very difficult specifically for destitute people bcoz they have a major problem that's ' wealth' if you have wealth a lots so many things became easy due to wealth people has forgotten their principle, values, moral so try to manage your self and don't leave your job work don't matter this job is giving you low earning but let's do it continue....
@temp4lifetv3 жыл бұрын
Great one
@terrylick59086 жыл бұрын
open mind is always the best way in life. as there's always another way to do things even better than what we have been educated to do... 👍
@zanyalchemist8386 жыл бұрын
Awesome! After all - what's the use of having a mind if you can't change it?!
@DeathValleyDazed2 жыл бұрын
Never heard this quote but love it.
@mirnacalderon93806 жыл бұрын
Amazing video thank you really true
@davidsweeney1116 жыл бұрын
I would be terrified speaking to all those people!
@michellebadillo75746 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@jawadali87296 жыл бұрын
Good effort by young intellectual lady.
@chrisvb43876 жыл бұрын
The problem isn't a lack of understanding of the opponent's argument most of the time. When people disagree with a more knowledgeable person with a well founded explanation or argument/refutation, it's just mostly due to plain ignorance, stupidity and stubbornness... usually brought forward by a religious upbringing/indoctrination. Facts speak for themselves, a working system that verifies and validates claims, what counts as evidence and what doesn't. These are things most people fail to take into account.
@er.piyushpandeytrainerb.te46616 жыл бұрын
So Great
@williamdevonshire3563 жыл бұрын
i say why argue... let the peopel who disagreew ith you disagree and let them livetheir own lives... this is why i advocate anarcho capitalism
@xxepicgamerxx55606 жыл бұрын
Once upon a time there lived in a certain village a little country girl, the prettiest creature who was ever seen. Her mother was excessively fond of her; and her grandmother doted on her still more. This good woman had a little red riding hood made for her. It suited the girl so extremely well that everybody called her Little Red Riding Hood. One day her mother, having made some cakes, said to her, "Go, my dear, and see how your grandmother is doing, for I hear she has been very ill. Take her a cake, and this little pot of butter." Little Red Riding Hood set out immediately to go to her grandmother, who lived in another village. As she was going through the wood, she met with a wolf, who had a very great mind to eat her up, but he dared not, because of some woodcutters working nearby in the forest. He asked her where she was going. The poor child, who did not know that it was dangerous to stay and talk to a wolf, said to him, "I am going to see my grandmother and carry her a cake and a little pot of butter from my mother." "Does she live far off?" said the wolf "Oh I say," answered Little Red Riding Hood; "it is beyond that mill you see there, at the first house in the village." "Well," said the wolf, "and I'll go and see her too. I'll go this way and go you that, and we shall see who will be there first." The wolf ran as fast as he could, taking the shortest path, and the little girl took a roundabout way, entertaining herself by gathering nuts, running after butterflies, and gathering bouquets of little flowers. It was not long before the wolf arrived at the old woman's house. He knocked at the door: tap, tap. "Who's there?" "Your grandchild, Little Red Riding Hood," replied the wolf, counterfeiting her voice; "who has brought you a cake and a little pot of butter sent you by mother." The good grandmother, who was in bed, because she was somewhat ill, cried out, "Pull the bobbin, and the latch will go up." The wolf pulled the bobbin, and the door opened, and then he immediately fell upon the good woman and ate her up in a moment, for it been more than three days since he had eaten. He then shut the door and got into the grandmother's bed, expecting Little Red Riding Hood, who came some time afterwards and knocked at the door: tap, tap. "Who's there?" Little Red Riding Hood, hearing the big voice of the wolf, was at first afraid; but believing her grandmother had a cold and was hoarse, answered, "It is your grandchild Little Red Riding Hood, who has brought you a cake and a little pot of butter mother sends you." The wolf cried out to her, softening his voice as much as he could, "Pull the bobbin, and the latch will go up." Little Red Riding Hood pulled the bobbin, and the door opened. The wolf, seeing her come in, said to her, hiding himself under the bedclothes, "Put the cake and the little pot of butter upon the stool, and come get into bed with me." Little Red Riding Hood took off her clothes and got into bed. She was greatly amazed to see how her grandmother looked in her nightclothes, and said to her, "Grandmother, what big arms you have!" "All the better to hug you with, my dear." "Grandmother, what big legs you have!" "All the better to run with, my child." "Grandmother, what big ears you have!" "All the better to hear with, my child." "Grandmother, what big eyes you have!" "All the better to see with, my child." "Grandmother, what big teeth you have got!" "All the better to eat you up with." And, saying these words, this wicked wolf fell upon Little Red Riding Hood, and ate her all up.
@matthewgrant27856 жыл бұрын
Truth
@sandorrezmann10556 жыл бұрын
Hey Lucinda!! Gotta research some material, I wanna change some minds.
@samjanasorup62516 жыл бұрын
so nice
@SuperAtheist6 жыл бұрын
how do you quantify open mindedness?
@woritsez6 жыл бұрын
the Hebb and Penfield's of this world are still looking into it
@Brucey6 жыл бұрын
*The answer to that 99% of the time is money, unfortunately it can change people*
@lobstercation17136 жыл бұрын
Money makes people compromise their view not change it.
@Saya317996 жыл бұрын
BruceThe OTHER say .
@Saya317996 жыл бұрын
Lobster Cation good
@claping95415 жыл бұрын
I think it’s impossible to change a mind. No one is open minded and everyone’s grown up living in a family that has been hammering an idea into a mind since you were born and for some random person to change how you think would be impossible
@SeekingVirtueA Жыл бұрын
It is possible, lots of people (myself included) have changed their mind on deeply held beliefs. For myself, I left my religion when the conflict between my values and the fact and my deeply held beliefs became salient and I couldn't get rid of the dissonance without revisiting them. It can be rate and is difficult, but not impossible.
@JuffruyBuruthuun6 жыл бұрын
Good talk. However, the example of the false accusation story closes minds for exactly the reasons you talk about in this video
@jctr45593 жыл бұрын
That is correct, her example of the young girl reflected a pro liberal bias. She should have then used a pro conservative fact check. She works for a media agency for fees from main stream media, I am assuming. So it appears on the surface anyway that she leans with a liberal bias, and then concocts her facts.
@bezersleepreia62286 жыл бұрын
This is how to change your mind--not how to change someone else's
@smitthummar68396 жыл бұрын
Thinking nececary will change our regular life fundamental
@EatinBubsy6 жыл бұрын
Especially weird comments section on this one.
@ZoeMondragon6 жыл бұрын
Chance our mind it's really dificult because we are blind to change...
@sarp26226 жыл бұрын
How can I find music in the video?
@rathindranathnag81736 жыл бұрын
Kirtan by suman
@sarp26226 жыл бұрын
RATHINDRA NATH Nag Music that plays when the video starts?
@woritsez6 жыл бұрын
attractive well spoken people are fairly easy to listen to
@Satyam-OpP6 жыл бұрын
73 views and 97 likes wow
@hissendaud6536 жыл бұрын
Lucinda Your Words are Nice Just Like You
@wayneblackraven72864 жыл бұрын
Be yourself and be normal
@vijayvarman68304 жыл бұрын
Why does it feels like she's completely nervous.. ?
@upgrade15836 жыл бұрын
Lucinda - If you struggle to undersatnd why people disagree with you, then maybe they're smarter than you.
@aanabon6 жыл бұрын
These holes are triggering my trypophobia :(
@malachiteheart16766 жыл бұрын
Aana Kotoff boo hoo hoo
@aanabon6 жыл бұрын
Lol
@AAA-du8xm6 жыл бұрын
Shut up
@aanabon6 жыл бұрын
AAA 305 lol
@carolelafolle38006 жыл бұрын
dat intro
@decube96146 жыл бұрын
Ive had a crazy grandma talk 5 2 secs ago...
@vinnyschoell16464 жыл бұрын
I bet this is for a bunch of adults, but my teacher had use do a paper on this
@daveburnham10586 жыл бұрын
Open debate
@catsupchutney6 жыл бұрын
I agree with hot scientist.
@guilhermevaz88336 жыл бұрын
Westworld
@honeypreet89086 жыл бұрын
Guilherme Vaz yes intro was almost same
@ozanerdogan99146 жыл бұрын
that background is really distracting tho
@VaughnMalecki6 жыл бұрын
Totally discredited yourself for claiming that snopes is a reliable fact checking source.
@sahilsinghrajput338411 ай бұрын
8:27
@NidgeDFX6 жыл бұрын
I don't trust snopes (her reference). It's like crooked cops but for fact checking.
@s.c.o.r.p.i.o.n.i.c12 күн бұрын
Can the woman who is coughing exit that room because god that was awful to hear in the background.
@Sudarshan_s_19976 жыл бұрын
My first comments
@daveburnham10586 жыл бұрын
Trump Trump Trump Trump Trump Trump
@unryu16 жыл бұрын
In women's case, first is listen.
@AzngameFreak036 жыл бұрын
Shrooms and a lot of pain.
@lagaman115 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, but she has obviously never tried to have a political conversation with a Trump Supporter. Don't get me wrong, every word she says is logical, rational, and makes perfect sense, but trying to use reason and logic with a Trump/Russian/Republican is like trying to build a house with rubber nails.
@DeathValleyDazed2 жыл бұрын
You inadvertently just proved the premise of her talk. LOL
@vladasbutkus97512 жыл бұрын
These are disagreements on the level of values. You consider your interests and life values to be the only true ones. Here is the answer. The glass is half full or half empty...?
@corymc926 жыл бұрын
The earth is flat. Change my mind
@EWDrums6 жыл бұрын
Steven Mcelwee No. you’re more fun thinking the earth is flat! Lol
@corymc926 жыл бұрын
Eric Wood I don't think its flat. I know its flat. You think we live on a ball. Why? Because you believe everything you're told.
@EWDrums6 жыл бұрын
Hmm, are you asking me if I believe everything I’m told, or telling me? You ended your last sentence with period. Regardless, no I don’t believe everything I’m told. But I’d love to see the science behind your belief, if in fact your telling me the truth! I was trying to be funny so I apologize if you didn’t get that.
@EWDrums6 жыл бұрын
But, to answer your question, my short answer is NASA.
@LughSummerson6 жыл бұрын
All flat Earthers are trolls. Nobody genuinely believes that the Earth is flat.
@mastercheif19893 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but I need to fact-check this.
@akarshitachandra39716 жыл бұрын
FIRST!
@aliciawatre75086 жыл бұрын
Is she wearing them Teva Uggs?
@TimmacTR6 жыл бұрын
A right-wing mind? Arguments and persuation A left-wing mind? Nothing.
@KpR3336 жыл бұрын
People who find a way to bring politics into every discussion are parasitic
@TimmacTR6 жыл бұрын
Parasitic to what? xD You can't even explain what you think.. xD Oh, and btw this video is political in case your brain didn't realize..
@KpR3336 жыл бұрын
I figured it was pretty obvious that I meant you are parasitic to HUMANKIND, guess I was wrong. This video is not political, it is informational and influential. This is from the TedTalks website itself, "TED Talks are influential videos from expert speakers on education, business, science, tech and creativity, ". Like she said some people will refuse the truth even with facts. Good day 😎
@TimmacTR6 жыл бұрын
There's nothing that proves your opinion has any value, there's no argument in it, so it's invalid.. Idiotic leftist defeated.. xD
@femiairboy946 жыл бұрын
Oh common man, did you learn anything from the video?
@xiimSid6 жыл бұрын
Trypophhobia triggering background behind
@arizonainformationtechnolo64416 жыл бұрын
Snopes! ha ted is getting ridiculous
@robertcaldwell21076 жыл бұрын
Says the guy with trump as his avatar.
@arizonainformationtechnolo64416 жыл бұрын
Robert Caldwell did u just assume I'm a GUY. I was a theybie how dare you.. wake up sister, All your friends are
@robertcaldwell21076 жыл бұрын
Marco 777 try again. This time try to make sense.
@arizonainformationtechnolo64416 жыл бұрын
Just do your own research big pimpin' and wake up all your friends when you get woke