What Is Medical School REALLY Like When You're Married?

[@BusisiweMsikisi]

I'm a 4th year medical student in South Africa and recently engaged. Seeing your videos encourages me to know I can pull through.

[@EvolvingMedic]

You can definitely do it! Congratulations on your engagement! I’m excited for you and your partner to go through this journey together and honored that my videos have been encouraging for you!

[@thenurseelizabeth]

I’ll be graduating this year as an RN!! I’ve been documenting my journey and I know I’ll be going back to further my education. I’ve just been pondering how it’ll affect me and my relationships including my family. Can’t wait to continue. Thank God! And good luck to you!

[@EvolvingMedic]

Congratulations on nearing graduation! I hope this video was gave you some encouragement on how you may be able to navigate your education and family! 🙏🏽

[@BrandonGRawlins]

Hey JR! I just got into Mayo az/fl! I wanted to thank you for making these videos serving as a source of inspiration and guidance for myself and many others. Wishing you the best as you move closer to match day!

[@EvolvingMedic]

Congratulations!! That is amazing news! Thank you for sharing your success with me and I’m so happy my videos have been helpful for you! You’re going to do incredible things at Mayo AZ!!

[@elliottslade]

Wow what an incredible and vulnerable video. I appreciate you sharing this point of view so much. Thank you ❤️

[@EvolvingMedic]

I’m so happy you enjoyed this video and our vulnerability!! 🙏🏽

[@pitokooooo]

I am a med student in Brazil, same age, and I am planning to take this big step next year. It's great to see people like you guys sharing this subject plain and clear that there are a lot of chalenges and insecurities, but a lot hope in a better future and lots of confort to rely on. Thank you and best wishes.

[@EvolvingMedic]

We’re so happy you’ve found a bit of clarity on this topic with our video! There are challenges, but it’s worth it! Good luck as you take that big step!!

[@darinekataylor5570]

Not a med student (future School Psych here), but thanks for tackling this topic! This fall I'm starting my Masters while married with a future Kindergartner and preschooler. Praying for y'all.

[@EvolvingMedic]

I’m so happy you were still able to resonate with it! We appreciate the prayers and will be praying for you and your partner too! Yall got it!! 🙏🏽

[@sunnybunni]

This is a really great conversation. I hope there’s more support groups and ministries created to support medical professionals in marriage and family planning.

[@EvolvingMedic]

I’m glad you enjoyed our conversation! And hopefully more support groups like that can be formed in the future!

[@rbellamy804]

I just started business school being a husband with two kids and a full-time job myself. Having a strong support system around you is key. You have an understanding and supportive wife which is a huge blessing and marker for success. Best wishes to you and yours!

[@EvolvingMedic]

Thank you so much! I couldn’t agree more. Wishing you the best as you navigate business school with a family and full time job! 🙏🏽

[@joseandressilvamartinez778]

Thank you for all of your videos, when I am studying for exams they really motivate me to continue in this journey to become a great Dr, Thank youu

[@EvolvingMedic]

This is so encouraging to hear! Thank you for sharing that and I’m so happy my videos have helped!

[@JayFriedrichs]

I’ll be going to NP school this next year, and although it’s nothing like medical school- it does have a lot of time management challenges too. A long with trying to date in this current dating world and grow as a person, it’s a lot to take on. Thanks for some perspective

[@EvolvingMedic]

I’m so happy this video was able to provide some perspective and hopefully encouragement for you! It’s definitely a lot to take on, but it’s possible! Wishing you all the best in NP school and in your relationships!

[@s.francis5434]

Watching your videos is truly an inspiration to me. ❤

[@EvolvingMedic]

I’m so happy you’ve found inspiration in my videos! Thank you for the encouraging comment!

[@BlanCoco808]

Can't thank the algorithm enough for this video. Could you make a video of how you balance their attachment style and medical school? The only thing keeping me from pursing medical school is the fear of losing my partner through lack of time that will lead to them feel neglected (date nights, intimacy etc.). My partner has an anxious attachment style but with a full medical school plate, I worry that I won't be able to carve out enough time for them. Thanks!

[@EvolvingMedic]

I’m so happy you found this video too! I’m not too familiar with attachment types, but I could look into it! I think if you and your partner come into medical school with a plan and the right expectations, you guys will succeed. I think Madison and I will do more videos like this to share more strategies that we’ve used to make it.

[@heatherwyman7376]

Thank you for taking the time for this video! I’m starting medical school in July and my long term boyfriend of 7 years is coming with me. Of course, I have worries about the relationship during this exciting time but this gave me some clarity of what to do to try to maintain a healthy relationship with him. I appreciate your videos and keep up the awesome work!

[@EvolvingMedic]

Congratulations on getting into medical school!! That is amazing and I’m so happy this video was able to give you some clarity on succeeding in both your relationship and studies! Never hesitate to reach out if any questions come up along the way!

[@World_core]

Good video! Keep up the good work!👍🏾

[@EvolvingMedic]

Thank you so much! Will do!

[@SyreLikeAFire]

you guys have a relationship to aspire for!

[@EvolvingMedic]

Thank you so much!! 🙏🏽

[@KookinHaole]

Mayo Clinic. Damn!

[@pinkberry04]

Off topic, but your baby is adorable. I wish u and ur beautiful family the best

[@EvolvingMedic]

Thank you so much!! He really is something special 😊

[@musacamara6865]

Wow this is inspiring

[@EvolvingMedic]

So happy you enjoyed our conversation!!

[@e.m.g3]

Madison seems like the sweetest human being ❤❤❤ , i want this from a pov of a female med student 😭 cuz i can't get my life together 😢

[@EvolvingMedic]

She really is!! 🥹 We're wishing you luck! It gets better as time goes on!

[@jarrodwoodland8115]

See, here you go again being the most down to Earth, knowledgeable, soon to be orthopedic doctor, awesome husband and dad, again

[@EvolvingMedic]

Awww this is so sweet and encouraging! I appreciate you Jarrod!!

[@darontayturner5593]

Dr. Umar face @ 3 min mark 😂

[@MDForTheCulture]

My guy I’ve been watching your videos for four years, wow.

[@EvolvingMedic]

That’s crazy!! You’re a real one! I appreciate your continued support! ✊🏽

[@MDForTheCulture]

@@EvolvingMedic most definitely king, I love your energy God bless you and your family, and much success in the future.

[@adamelias2563]

Great video! How old are you both?

[@EvolvingMedic]

Thank you! We’re 28

[@asands6029]

I would like to know more about the away rotations, is that mandatory? Why would someone do an away rotation?

[@EvolvingMedic]

They are essentially mandatory for the more competitive specialties (eg, all the surgical ones). You do these because it increases your chances at matching at your top choice programs and gives you the opportunity to experience different programs throughout the country.

[@asands6029]

@EvolvingMedic thank you, if you don't mind, could you do a video on your experience and where you went?

[@yunzhu4815]

To be honest, only struggle I’ve heard when entering any school is when you have 2 or more little kids😂

[@mystique1834]

How are you guys affording her staying home? Loans or saved money?

[@EvolvingMedic]

A little bit of both!

[@MM-ob8ti]

Do you have any young children? If so, just wondering how u manage the study and play time with them?

[@EvolvingMedic]

We have a 2.5 year old. We try to keep certain time sacred, like dinner together as a family. Consistency can be tough when my schedule isn’t consistent lol, but I just try to make sure the time I do have I’m 100 percent present. So the quality of the time spent is always high

[@monyeawilliams8646]

How old were you when you started med school?

[@EvolvingMedic]

I was 24

[@ThabieM-M]

I’m 36 y.o married with kids. One of the kids has Adhd. I cannot imagine how busy I’m going to be given my current situation. I’m interested in getting into med school.

[@dr.nouramajidallabban7707]

What's about being both medical student?

[@EvolvingMedic]

My wife isn’t a medical student. She was an elementary PE teacher but now stays home with our son

[@jamaljulien7469]

She’s a real one

[@EvolvingMedic]

She is indeed! 🙏🏽

[@dr.nouramajidallabban7707]

Medicon is also started medical school?

[@MNP208]

I’m confused… is your wife in Med school too?

[@EvolvingMedic]

Nope! She was an elementary P.E. teacher but now stays home with our child