What makes a decent girlfriend?

[@yearight1205]

There was a study done where they asked 300 men and 300 women if they couldn't get 80% of what they want in a man, would they be happy with that. All the men said yes, but all the women said no, because that would be settling. What women don't realize is no man gets 80% of what he wants in a woman. And most men are willing to settle for a loyal woman who doesn't make his life hell. It goes back to what someone told me shortly after my divorce "you don't miss her, you miss her body." And that's 100% true. The woman was a nightmare. It was the physical that held me there. Women just don't bring much it seems.

[@huMANs_channel]

Well said... i can admit that their 'physical' bodies are all I miss about my ex's.

[@lonesamurai4484]

A perfect example of women not understanding "the perfect being the enemy of the good."

[@paulking9974]

I agree. I see attractive women ... Then they speak and I'm completely disinterested.

[@jayedwards7768]

You are not wrong.

[@FirstLast-cd6vv]

@Yea Right: Perfectly said. We need more men like yourself to step forth and talk about the horrors of marriage.

[@allthingskenteroo]

1) Self aware (almost impossible for women) 2) Able to voice her needs and desires verbally 3) Not obese 4) Able to make a conscious choice to choose having fun over being a bitch 5) Able to get her head around the idea of loyalty from a man's perspective (almost impossible) In other words, a unicorn

[@alonzomosley7]

I took on a girlfriend then wife .She couldn’t cook when we meet I could coming from a single parent background ,couldn’t drive couldn’t swim, was a paralegal and couldn’t type , the list just went on .I remember meeting my neighbour over 20 years ago she was an older woman and she said even then don’t tolerate her behaviour and laziness .I can’t believe I had no list at all .Iam never carrying another woman with even basic tasks.I will never take on the role of Mr Mom and Driving Miss Daisy .I know it sounds pathetic .it’s amazing what you tolerate in a marriage.

[@davead6578]

One word- Respect. A decent girlfriend respects you and you can sense that respect.

[@visancosmin8991]

And, did you find her ?

[@davead6578]

@@visancosmin8991 I did.

[@visancosmin8991]

@@davead6578 How ?

[@Seiven2077]

1. Kindness 2. Fairness 3. Decency

[@FirstLast-cd6vv]

My needs: don't get fat, don't go crazy, don't waste all my money. Women fail at all 3. Go your own way.

[@dustsky]

The problem is not necessarily with the length of the list, but rather the fact that women depend too much on someone or something external to check those boxes. That way, in their mind, it's never their fault.

[@M-S_4321]

That is more the issue than anything else. Male values are developed from within. Females values are developed externally.

[@krushagrape786]

I think the relatively simple list of requirements men have for women says a lot. Deep down, we know there's only so much they can really bring to our lives. Conversely, women know they can potentially benefit endlessly from associating with us. WE ARE THE TABLE. Never forget that.

[@davidp2888]

When I started having and enforcing my standards with women, it was as if I'd gone invisible. A few of them said they met or even exceeded my bare minimums but it was painfully obvious they were well below them.

[@Ted1775]

Boundaries and standards are meant to protect you and to keep manipulative and dishonest people away.

[@visancosmin8991]

If men were to also have standards human species would disapper because there is almost no women out-there to meet even the bare minimum.

[@EE12CSVT]

@@visancosmin8991 Would it be a bad thing to breed out such duff genetics, such that the only genes to survive were from the quality women?

[@EE12CSVT]

But did you still get attention until you made clear what your standards were? That's what happens to me.

[@utubefreak7167]

@@EE12CSVT The only way to do it is to bring back Patriarchy and Men should re-capture complete control over their Family, their Neighbourhood, their State and eventually their Country.

[@jayedwards7768]

''More.'' That sums up women perfectly.

[@EE12CSVT]

And to put it another way, "want".

[@mountainmgtow5421]

I have two requirements from women: 1. Be kind 2. Be loyal So far no woman has been able to meet those requirements.

[@carlosdixan112]

99.9 % can’t meet that requirement

[@AC-um2mk]

That's because kindness is anathema to their need to want more ... as per this video explains.

[@Farhan_049]

I have a 3rd one - be frank. Or honest. Yeah, still don't see anyone meeting these...

[@robgoins3672]

Nope not gonna happen.

[@huMANs_channel]

Loyalty is a base requirement SHOULD go without saying... but KINDNESS?... I swear, it's ridiculous that women will scratch their heads at why many guys can't feel love an unkind wretch.

[@v.s.4166]

A little critique: a) women do not know what they want, they merely list things that THEY THINK makes them look good b) what a woman says often can be ignored because she gets charmed by a guy who doesn't even match a forth of a blackboard TLDR Gonzalo Lira ounce said: "never listen to her words, only her actions"

[@Mr._Anderpson]

I want a woman intelligent enough to have her own thoughts and wise enough to know her perspective isn't the beginning and end of the discussion. Evidently, that's a tall order.

[@sheilawhite9130]

Definitely not a tall order. That would seem reasonable. I would like the same in a man. I want to be able to respect a man who has his own thoughts and opinions, even if I disagree with them. And vice versa. Is that too much to ask?

[@SubToJinx]

I have to agree with you. I've tried for a long time to formulate my own requirements. Intelligence seems to be the common denominator behind most characteristics and the most attractive one at that.

[@OneHitWonder383]

Women complain about _"boys and their toys."_ Except that most guys really don't care all that much about having an excessive amount of belongings. _Women_ on the other hand, _"allow"_ their husband to get the boat or the nice car or the motor home, etc. Not because the women are nice, but because the women can show it off to their *_other woman friends._* Most guys will say, _"Yeah. Got a new laptop for work/home use and a new PS5. I'm set."_ But women have to have the nice living room set, the new dishwasher, the new _whatever._ It's not boys and their toys. It's really women who demand the possessions as a form of status.

[@allthingskenteroo]

Yes, our whole economy is driven by consumer spending, 80% of which is performed by women. Fear and Consumption (two of the hallmarks of being female) are the cornerstones of Cultural Marxism.

[@PlanetOfTheApes999]

People who have impossibly high standards for their romantic partners are grandiose narcissists who feel entitled to people who meet these standards. These narcissists refuse to be held to any standards whatsoever, and thus hate being accountable for what they do. The fact that so many modern women are guilty of this behavior shows you where our culture is headed.

[@andrasbaliko]

my list before my last relationship: be with me my new list: -be with me-

[@Ted1775]

“What do women want?” -- Don Draper “Who cares?... Jesus, you know what they want? Everything. Especially if other girls have it also." -- Roger Sterling

[@citizencrimson201]

Male list is not list of requirements its more list of flaws to avoid. - Not cheating. - Not promiscous. - Not narcissistic. - Not entitled. - Not parasitic. - Not ugly. - Not crazy. - Not manipulative. Mostly men want woman not to be a terrible person and not a burden to the eye. Mediocre will suffice. And its still too much to ask.

[@puremaledark8305]

“Give her the world and all she will ask for is the moon”

[@mlantieri]

“Kindness, Fairness, Decency and (the hardest thing of all to find…..one that says “She’s Sorry” about anything!”.

[@AlexioRedemption]

My list for a biological female is: Physically attractive in my eyes, Qualities of friendship, and faithfulness.

[@rickyrando3076]

The tragic part is most men are so starved of affection and attention that they just want SOMETHING. It's like a starving dog just happy for the trash donut, sure it is a moldy, trash covered donut but it is technically food.

[@peterridgway7355]

I have a story for you. For about 19 years I had an old fashioned values female work colleagues whom I could openly talk with in a way similar to that of an older grandparent and a close friend. One day having recounted my latest disappointment in another not even off the ground series of dates I asked her a question. “ ‘Nancy’, you’ve known me a long time and you know a lot of different women in all kinds of contexts. If I asked you to ignore that any of these women are in relationships or not. Can you think of a single woman that would bring something positive into my life.’ ‘Nancy’ knew me very well and probably in her direct and extended social capacity and employment capacity must have known close to 600 women well and at least a further 400 on a more tangential capacity. Out of all these women she couldn’t name a single one that would bring something positive to my life in s relationship. This was the same woman who had remarked that I didn’t have a lot of luck in relationships or even finding a suitable woman to date that would even consider going on a date with me. When you add to this a conversation between my parents where my dad asked my mum why I couldn’t find a suitable partner. The response my mum gave was priceless, ‘women these days are just not like they where when we first met’. My dad was somewhat bemused being very transitional and unaware of the current dynamics. I’ve asked my mum the same question and she has no answers. Maybe what is more telling is to ask her about the womanist movement. She gets very angry and animated, ‘they have ruined society!’ ‘they didn’t understand how easy they had it before’ are a couple of quotes. Basically gents if you want as I do enjoy the chase for what it is. Remember as a male friend recently told me (who didn’t know I was rp) ‘set a calendar event from the start of a relationship for 5 months, after which get rid of her’. He was referring to the 6 months cohabitation makes you a common law wife. As we all know cohabitation is a no no unless your the chad living off of her…. Then the tables turn and you watch how she deals with a break up. Enjoy life and as I always tell everyone male or female as I say goodbye, “ look after yourself “. Thank you huMAN

[@paulking9974]

My first long term relationship was a nightmare. She sucked the humanity out of me which only was a benefit on a battle field. It took decades to recover and develop standards for myself. My standards for women: Honesty 1st and foremost Decency: her own and to others (these two eliminate most women) Interests, curiosity and ability to use the rules of conversation. Conservative values Does not support ideologies detrimental to self, others, family, community, nation and faith. Haven't found a single woman yet but have avoided crazy daily.

[@PH-ih1pn]

Doesn't exist in 2022. Been destroyed by society and politics.

[@rocket_scientist5353]

Paul nice list.

[@latt.qcd9221]

Men have few needs, but I wouldn't consider them "simple creatures" because of it. Men are quite complex. The reason they have few needs is because men are "self-sufficient" creatures.

[@krushagrape786]

Indeed, men have many complex needs. However, only a small subset of those needs can be provided by a woman.

[@Torgo1969]

Nothing else matters!

[@EE12CSVT]

It does sound to me that what you're looking for is what's commonly understood to be an "adult". Who knew it was that simple. The sad thing is that this "more" to stave off boredom is what a child does. A child tires of a toy, so demands a new one, and usually gets it, instead of inventing new ways of playing with the existing ones. In other words, they don't see why they should put in that effort when it's easier to whine to get a new temporary thing to play with for a while. Toys are disposable. People are disposable.

[@krushagrape786]

Was thinking exactly the same thing.

[@robgoins3672]

It so cool to finally understand and put it behind me. To be free from impossible standards is great. I love my nice, simple, quiet life.

[@Boris-iz6wd]

Men love women, the love is not returned.

[@M-S_4321]

It is returned. Your turn is right now but not later. There are other branches to monkey on.

[@Jakkaribik1]

That's the Problem if you have more low standards or even nothing at all or no feel on how they are for you then for woman more woman will keep it that way and change for the worse

[@maksimfreezmaks5919]

Because it's men, who are true romantics...

[@Jakkaribik1]

@@maksimfreezmaks5919 Ok Well Yes maybe but women watch generally way more Romantic Films or Read about a Romantic Book maby they Copy more and Man do it on Their Own so there is more Fun in it

[@SubToJinx]

I don't know how true this is in the real world. I do agree that in works of fiction men seem to go to hell and back just to please women. I always end up feeling bad for the male protagonist and hope he would realise the woman's validation isn't worth it.

[@jcast23]

I need support, affection, and companionship; not nagging, flakey behavior, and shit-tests.

[@averagejo1626]

Green lights would be has a active passtime that’s not watching tv. Acts nicely to waiters and cleaning staff. Doesn’t just give one word responses constantly in texts and can hold a conversation. But something this simple is close to impossible to find.

[@lorderectus1849]

Just go your own way. And don’t look back!

[@freeman37]

True. You can 100% Never satisfy a woman.

[@augustlion5105]

The analogy of just wanting a job regardless of the pay is kinda funny because that's how I've felt in the past. I live a very minimalistic life and legitimately don't care that much about money. Maybe I've had a minimalist attitude about women too. I just wanted some fun and companionship and didn't really care about her specific attributes. Maybe that's why I've always picked substandard women 🤔

[@visancosmin8991]

They are all substandard.

[@huMANs_channel]

You and I sound very similar AugustLion, I think I did the same.

[@jayedwards7768]

''What makes a decent girlfriend?'' Fit, feminine, cooperative. That is all most men need. It is that simple yet most women cannot meet that basic standard.

[@peterridgway7355]

Well said!

[@yitz89]

Agreeableness is the only think I'd add.

[@theitalianguyde1864]

I have this on one of my instagram: "Don't tell her what you like in a woman. Let the woman show you what she is like instead." The reason behind this being that whenever I told someone new what I like in a woman, she tries to become that woman, she modifies herself to fit in. Few months down the line, she is not authentic anymore, she starts to be frustrated and resentful. And....she accuses me to wanting to change her. In reality I never asked her to change! She did that all by herself. And that is a harsh truth that many women will not accept.

[@gogo-bi9qh]

Yup - don't help her be who you want. Just sit back and pay attention to her actions.

[@PrinceRevolver]

I’ll just say fairness. I’m generally an optimistic person but in regards to most women the best you’re gonna get ends after the honeymoon phase.

[@allthingskenteroo]

Do you mean a sense of reciprocity? From women? LoL

[@PrinceRevolver]

@@allthingskenteroo I believe that word has been ban from the books good sir.

[@allthingskenteroo]

@@PrinceRevolver The "R" word?

[@PrinceRevolver]

@@allthingskenteroo yup.

[@jaodasilva7993]

1) don't be morbidly obese 2) don't be a narcisist or borderline or a sociopath. That's it

[@kagame6524]

3) hygiene

[@lorderectus1849]

There’s nothing fair in this world!

[@donh1572]

I have over 60 items on my list. My dating options went down quite a bit. But it really helped me avoid a lot of land mines and find some quality ladies

[@lordofgingers]

Thing is I don't want a woman to want me for transactional value. Respect, admiration, and desire is a good starting point. True ride or die. You take away the transactional benefits when times get tough. There are those who run and those who stay. You want the woman who stays.

[@offlier]

Being average most likely will not result in desire, respect or admiration, at least not for long.

[@lordofgingers]

@@offlier I am assuming by “being average” you’re referring to the transactional stuff like status and wealth. Again, if that’s her angle, why would I want that? It is not a privilege to be valued for that. It is an insult

[@EE12CSVT]

@@lordofgingers Correct. You're not being valued for your character, only for what material benefit and glow of social status you can bring her (narcissistic supply).

[@Space_Rebel]

More, more, more…where does it end? Forget it gentlemen. Satisfy yourselves instead. It’s better.

[@Jakkaribik1]

Even if more man will bow down in the End More and More will lead to Drug use or more bad behaviors

[@TroyMountain]

8:57 Here in Canada the law pretty much moots having standards at the onset which will matter after cohabiting long enough for her to divorce. Here in Canada Men Pay-- it's merely a matter of When she wants to bail and How Much she'll collect. State-endorsed (and enforced) polyamory. Or prostitution.

[@hiranom20]

I like huMAN's fresh new specs 👓

[@puremaledark8305]

One thing i noticed is the complete lack of team work and communication. Then, when you try to get them to do that, they get angry and say you are being abusive. Abusive? I just want to talk about our issues….. Ugh, it makes me mad just thinking about it!

[@visancosmin8991]

I wonder why they enter relations when is clear they are clueless what a relation is or even what love is.

[@stevec3526]

40 years ago I had a list of requirements. No single mothers, no druggies or drunks, no smokers, no personality disorders, financially responsible, attractive, physically fit, no feminists, she can cook, her parents were not divorced and they had a healthy relationship. Their siblings were happy and emotionally healthy, she had to be bright and intelligent, religiously and politically compatible. Not a gold digger or materialistic. She was supportive and would let me lead but if we disagreed on an issue we could talk it out in a mature and healthy way. It took me 15 years to find her and she was a foreign national.

[@Farhan_049]

Good on you.

[@johnmclaughlin4802]

May I ask from what country she was from ?

[@stevec3526]

@@johnmclaughlin4802 Japan, she was an foreign exchange student when we met.. My best bud coworker is European and he is married to a Chinese doctor. Another coworker just married a Thai woman. We are in the US.

[@johnmclaughlin4802]

@@stevec3526 Asian woman seem pretty good for the most part and are very beautiful.

[@stevec3526]

@@johnmclaughlin4802 My wife is 1/8th European, her father was a Sargent Major in the JDF and she won a local beauty pageant. She is also very bright, creative and a great cook. She is physically fit, and takes care of herself.

[@AC-um2mk]

This concept of women always wanting more is spot on. It is what makes women inherently abusive in relationships as they always push their men to do more. The trick is to not get into a relationship with them and stay at the fwb level.

[@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT]

By nature, women seek out the best men they can find. They ask for more to test your ability to provide and willingness to give. These to traits determine a suitable mate. The issue is that men while being made responsible and accountable have had their authority removed. Why would any sane man take on responsibility and accountability while having authority removed? Women take and take and take and all the while they are secretly on their phones fishing for a bigger fish while the guy they are taking from is out working for her needs. This is why society is headed where it is.

[@PH-ih1pn]

@@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT yes I agree. Its now 100% responsibility and 0%authority for men. Not a game worth playing for any self-respecting man. The men I know still getting married in 2022 are on the way to misery and they just can't see it.

[@alonzomosley7]

It’s really interesting I have an RV parked on a mates farm . I have this girl i hardly know invite herself to my place because she heard i was a good cook .I said F/O I could not be bothered with the game,lol why is it a male cooking the dinner .I never been out with one woman who can cook!! What’s going on ?

[@PH-ih1pn]

@@alonzomosley7 Well I can tell you for nothing. She doesn't want you, she wants something you have or can give her.

[@AC-um2mk]

@@alonzomosley7 For God's sake *NEVER* tell them where you live!! Live alone and keep your location secret ... it removes any ability they might have to harass you before, during or after any liaison. This is Leykis 101.

[@shnobi24]

No such thing anymore.

[@user-Wojciech]

You can have a minimum set of standards, besides looks, yet bearly any Western women will meet them.

[@animekings4990]

Human Your video cinematography is on a god tier scale. Awesome quality and nice viewpoints for talks. Love the video 👍

[@thefadedhero9824]

Is my life better with her in it? Does she give as much as she takes? Is there as much respect for my feelings as I have for hers? Three simple standards. Unfortunately after nearly 40 years of life no woman has been able to maintain them for long.

[@aninterestinglife.9748]

Thank you huMAN

[@jonathanjacob5453]

Spot on. If you are going to deal with a woman you have to come to terms with the fact that she has a bottomless pit that can never be filled.

[@SFbayArea94121]

“What makes a decent girlfriend?” …NOT HAVING ONE.PERIOD. Unnecessary Problems And Drama That Is Best Avoided

[@Ikaros23]

A female who don`t have narcissistic personality dissorder. And who are not aspiring to be a narcissist, is high in demand in 2022. Reality is that most females really don`t care what men want. If she has more than 2 points on the DSM5, then cut her out. Don`t explain yourself, simply say " I don`t think this relationship is for me. Good luck in your journey". And trust me if she has more than 2 points then good luck to you sir. Your life is going to be hell on earth. Constant nagging, entitelment, inability to see things from others point of view, shallow interests, low abillity for long term thinking/planning, imatureity. All these are huge red flags that most men need to look out for. Don`t be fooled by her beeing nice the first 2-4 weeks, this could all be " love bombing/flattery". It`s better to be single and have peace of mind and be content with your lifestyle as it is. Than to have a imature, toxic female in your life.

[@PH-ih1pn]

Uhhhh... just don't even bother gentlemen.

[@burgcarli929]

This reminds me of that joke, called "The Husband Store". For those who have not seen it, well, no nail has ever been hit more squarely on the head. I think it's as simple as this... Women aren't meant to be happy, so they sabotage themselves with endless lists and grievances. Completely self-destructive.

[@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT]

Yep. My ex even recognized this in herself. She literally told me she sabotages herself so that she can’t be sabotaged by someone else. She was damaged from past relationships. Hence, find women with low body count and low mental illnesses. I know, I know…crazy expectations.

[@donnahannaford6840]

Apple Pie with thickened cream

[@VaronPlateando]

… as for 7:00 - yes, I once made 2 mindmaps for clarifying my thoughts - one concerning ‚her‘ (7 branches), one ‚framing‘ how I‘d approach a relationship at large (7 too). both close to reading ‚rational male’ book 1, but not directly flowing out of this. first one I had a matching xx.s from dating portal read years ago, responding to her qst.n what I’d look for in | expect from an xx. she commented upon it in finding it a good outline on psy.mental health | mature xx, but in this not likely to find personally encarnated. my son (22) who I’ve been part-time dad to for 18 yrs (out of marr.) found the relationship frame rather tough, relative to the primary memes messing up his upbringing. thanks for great video, human.

[@TheBigdog868]

They can't receive from me what they won't bring to themselves

[@sirmiles5493]

More like what makes a unicorn.

[@gogo-bi9qh]

4 words all men fear: "Where's this relationship going?"

[@SchrödingersMath]

Say...still trying to figure that out...BUT not headed towards marriage....Marriage is not a destination.

[@JamesHawkeYouTube]

If they could just be chilled and reasonable that would be great.

[@huMANs_channel]

Their nagging is a stereotype that's there for a reason... they love drama, yet want stability.

[@jesuslikesmetal]

I use to be good guy that would constantly compromise and do whatever pumpkin wants to do. Until after waking up I've seen the reality what most women do. I don't negotiate with emotional terrorists anymore.

[@captnhuffy]

Right on!!! I have a few to add, and one to subtract, but your standards have a lot in common with mine: Standards!! BTW, her looks and overall behavior MUST appeal to me (chemistry) and is number one , the place to start . ... the problem women almost always pretend to be something that t hey are not... and they will keep up t he act for a long time, and then will resent you for them suppression the TRUTH about who and what t hey are. So, in short, I have a healthy list like you, but I mostly do not disclose it because I want them to be who they REALLY are, not twist themselves into shapes to SUCKER me in.

[@EE12CSVT]

1) Don't have an attitude, so be agrreable 2) Have something going for you that's a bit more than getting blind drunk every weekend, such that you're able to hold an interesting conversation with me and others 3) At least make an effort to look after your health, weight and fitness rather than scoff cake all day until you turn obese 4) Have some dignity and humility, and ability to have accountability and open and mature discussion about the relationship Point 2 is often overlooked. I've met countless women who have nothing in their out of work hours other than getting drunk, partying, going to the races. So when you ask them about their interests, it boils down to them ending up in a pub or bar and ending up wetting their knickers out of intoxication.

[@JamesHawkeYouTube]

Can you give me their numbers bro...?

[@EE12CSVT]

@@JamesHawkeKZbin I didn't bother asking for them 😄

[@krushagrape786]

Unicorn hunter.

[@EE12CSVT]

@@krushagrape786 They didn't used to be unicorns - these were the women I used to date or have affairs with in the 90s

[@krushagrape786]

@@EE12CSVT I was joking...sort of.

[@Torgo1969]

Fit Feminine Friendly Fun Faithful

[@MosesMichael1900]

Free of Debt

[@mobilemcsmarty1466]

the girls' long lists are lists of demands, not standards. standards would be something that she too must live by. us guys have actual lists of standards. they are very short and are both expectations as well as promises we keep. lest they be double-standards, a top peeve of mine 😎

[@Torgo1969]

They are like Beavis in Cornholio mode...MORE...MORE...MORE!

[@M-S_4321]

Women seem to have more personality disorders than men do. Man act them out differently but perhaps it's the 'simpler creatures' explanation. I've met more women with Cluster B personalities (dramatic/erratic) than Cluster C (anxious/fearful) or Cluster A (odd/eccentric) but it's a close thing. They're all classified as personality Disorders. This is a distinction difference at a medically diagnosable level (as separate from just 'that's her personality') The Clusters are broken into the categories they are and have different multiple diagnoses that fall under each category. B has Narcissistic, Histrionic, Borderline and Anti Social personality disorders grouped within the categories because they bare certain similarities and often multiple instances of the same behaviors fall within (or are clustered together) under the same categories. I am tired of how many cluster B types I have met calling themselves 'strong independent women'. Pathological female categorization is sadly more simple then asking her what her sign is and gives more useful information to work with.

[@user-Wojciech]

I've had a few female friends in the last decade. They seemed lovely and were a good company. Over time it had turned out (through their partners, family) they were all abusive in their relationships and registering somewhere in Cluster B. What's the chance, all of them were abusive! I couldn't believe it. And this is after my NPD ex. It taught me that you don't really know who you're dealing with when it comes to females. Now I have no female friends. The social circle has fully fellen apart. I have a theory that the UK attracts nutters/cluster B women/feminists from all over the world. Even some Brits have been calling the Isles a "mental asylum" for decades. Last place to move to when you're looking for a woman.

[@EightFrancs]

We must hold women accountable for their actions.

[@visancosmin8991]

When you do that they just leave and go for a simp that is afraid to say anything.

[@EightFrancs]

@@visancosmin8991 So what?

[@EE12CSVT]

@@EightFrancs Let the simps have them and get run into the ground trying to please them. If they kick up a fuss after holding them accountable, just leave.

[@latt.qcd9221]

Women's standards are unrealistically high. Men's standards, however, are unrealistically low. Setting standards too low and expecting a healthy, meaningful relationship to happen is unrealistic.

[@visancosmin8991]

But if you have higher standards no relation happens anyway since whimin will not meet them.

[@donmiller8152]

nicely said sir.... it is time men set standards on high to insure relationships of lasting value..... after all, we have a life too....

[@justinpatterson5291]

I don't care for dating any longer.

[@mirosgerg]

Thanks Human nice POV

[@palaceofwisdom9448]

I do have standards... that's why I quit on women ten years ago. It's all a business transaction to them, and I have no need or desire for a transactional relationship. You cannot negotiate a woman into being a considerate person with empathy for you, so why cut a deal where she maybe goes through the motions?

[@visancosmin8991]

And it is tiresome to continously educate a person that is supposed to already be mature.

[@EE12CSVT]

@@visancosmin8991 It's not our job to teach them. If they haven't figured that out, they're undatable.

[@lorderectus1849]

Men are meant to give all, women nothing at all!

[@shnobi24]

Well said

[@visancosmin8991]

Great video! That's 100% my experience as well.

[@ctfireinsky9554]

1. Have unmitigated desire for me 2. Don't be a insufferable douchbag. 3. Sexual history = Me The End

[@wilhelmkuss8626]

😂 I wish , but only on renply you get this tropes.

[@Jakkaribik1]

Sexual history = Me (Well Shieeet not going to happen) Don't be a insufferable douchbag. (That would be Fun sometimes you can sit back and watch the show) Have unmitigated desire for me (Yes but sometimes you want a Person where you earn the trust or something like that because there could be a moment where someone else will get her like this)

[@wilhelmkuss8626]

@@Jakkaribik1 ppl need to be realist. Some narratives don't help anyone. Sure don't date single mothers ever or some other takes but demanding a girl send by Angels pure that never even loved her father is not going to happen.

[@Jakkaribik1]

@@wilhelmkuss8626 girl send by Angels haha Not like the girl is one Angel good One!

[@ctfireinsky9554]

I know I'm a outlier but I managed to have just those things. I'm 42 now and I found my wife when she was 17. 4 children and 19 years of marriage later. Dating a diagnosed Boarderline for a year prior definitely gives you a very particular and useful skill set. My wife was convinced that I might have been psychic when we started dating. Women are just predictable.

[@ArantyrDarkhand]

huMAN... exactly that bare minimun human decency. And its impossible to find. Atleast in women 18 and above

[@danieljackson654]

Spot on. Bravo

[@alonzomosley7]

I introduced my ex to my father a long time ago she was pissed and abused him.I have never been so embarrassed in my life ,she was a complete grenade to our relationship with my father .she would eventually control my father LOL

[@pete7164]

A woman's list of demands is so long that you need to bring a hostage negotiator on a first date

[@tubethenoob627]

Surprised the guys filled an entire blackboard to be perfectly honest. Breathing? Speaks the same language (or only a different one haha)?

[@TheInsomniaddict]

Half a blackboard was preferred cup sizes. Just a joke, never saw that video.

[@SteveJones379]

Let's quit talking about women. Quit giving them attention, spending money on them, and dating them. Take care of the biology issue yourself. Make women work hard to get a man's attention. Men are the prize.

[@EE12CSVT]

That's the only way that this super tanker can be turned around. Sadly, too many men simp after them.

[@offlier]

Men are the prize? Nope. Women aren't either. I agree. Stop talking about women. If I have to work hard to get a man, I'll leave him where I found him.

[@keanowhitmore8009]

@@offlier 🙄typical

[@visancosmin8991]

@@offlier So you want him to work hard for you, lol.

[@seekthineselfcultivateyour3657]

More, is a word from the dialect of excess. More, is a fundamentally dangerous word, because there is no end to it. It is the literal equivalent of a bottomless pit. Always remember guys: Women always secretly want more out of life, even God can't please a woman, and I know you know this well. But I'm sure you generally want to enjoy yourself and make the Most out of life. And this is noble, and far different from the idea of always being more than what you are or what you can do, settling instead of pioneering as women often wish for you to do. What's the difference, you might ask? Making the most out of your life, wherever it may be or what you're wanting to do with it, without needing to always look beyond the horizons of your previous and rationally attainable achievements, Those things have an ending, and living in the end, the life you have now in the present moment, is a blessing. There is a cap to what is most appreciated and what to be grateful about and for. Most, is a word of abundance, which is the polar opposite of excess, that which is more. Guys, consider your desires, especially beyond women. Are your wants excessive? Do you have what you need? Or are you lingering for something else outside of your grasp that always seems inattainable, yet so close, (leaving you perfectionists, never satisfied and wanting more, this isn't something just women deal with, you might have this problem without even realizing it, best you reflect on your thoughts and actions so that you know for sure, self-actualizing), or are you abundantly happy with what you have right now, and perhaps will have 10 years down the road? You do what you can with the time you have, and do no harm to others. That's all life really asks of you, to be happy here and now, it's best not to overcomplicate such a fairly simple, and natural observation of the present moment you have now, and keep the purpose of a peaceful, pacifistic life, no matter what you may plan to do, only sorting out your own issues. You don't need a lot to be happy, this is one of the greatest lessons of life, of which women have shown us in plentiful amounts of disaster and divorce. Let's learn from them how we could and should better engage our time and efforts in this life, to never be slaves of desires of others, nor our own. I wish you all well, and Thank you Human, as always.

[@EE12CSVT]

Well said 👏🏻

[@IvanPolyansky]

Amen 💜🙏🏻

[@tomaszsosnowski9279]

Being decent enough is very simple and easy. Try negative selection. List all her major and minor flaws and if they cumulatively exceed your threshold, ditch her. If not, it's acceptable and enjoy her good qualities. And list it from the get go. It's easy for a girl to fake and sell you the virtuous and good traits, they know how to push it in your face, and fool you for a while. But negatives are much harder to disguise. So, focus on her flaws, because if she knows what you value, she will deliver, if properly incentivised.

[@DamageControlLLC]

Truth.

[@Jakkaribik1]

Truth but not at the END like after a Year

[@goast6120]

Problem is men believe what they're saying.

[@RB09X]

Justice, equality and faithfulness are only male traits.

[@williambarnes5023]

Men, what makes a decent girlfriend? What are your minimum standard criteria for commitment? • Made of TPE. No real women allowed. • Removable vaginal sleeve for easy cleaning. • Face that passes the uncanny valley test.

[@cosmicprison9819]

Some people get by with a little understanding Some people get by with a whole lot more

[@cozbox2356]

alot of women cant take a joke anymore . i told a woman she was to yung for me to get her chaseing and not be to needy . and she got so pissted off at me and did not talk to me for the rest of the night 🤣🤣😥😥 in reality i liked her 🤔🤔

[@brett6239]

Bet she was lying about her age. Hence it was sore spot. See if you can do a public records search and find her real birthday.

[@JamesHawkeYouTube]

@@brett6239 I just stalk their friends and family and gather all my intel that way.

[@cozbox2356]

@@brett6239sadly we can never tell nowadays thats y i use that joke sometimes to make sure she's of age . like most men i like yung women . key word WOMEN . too many women nowadays have that mindset of all male flirting is bad. going off her freinds she looked 19 or 20

[@davidstoyanoff]

And when you ask her how much should I give she only answers more more. It aint me, it aint me I aint no millionaires son.

[@oplkfdhgk]

Pretty sure these women can only have these ridicilous standards because guys have no standards or not enough standards.

[@PH-ih1pn]

The bl**dy simps rescue them, that's why

[@johnrider4649]

For themselves AND for women.

[@oplkfdhgk]

@@johnrider4649 yes

[@mgtowbylogic5592]

A man seeking a stable, contented ltr can’t rely on her to reign herself in. His masculinity and his standards reign her in, or they don’t. Treat her requirements as her “nice to haves” instead. You run the show, not her. Starting off with requiring of her: Femininity Integrity Intelligence If she doesn’t willingly follow your lead, that’s fine, don’t force it, just bid her adieu and move on. This determination should take no more than a few dates at the most, if you’re purposeful in your dating.

[@chrisnamaste3572]

I have a long list and I still found a few good ones. Not in the West though....

[@akreation]

If women have unrealistic standards, then are they all settling

[@huMANs_channel]

Good point.... in their eyes, they probably always are.

[@fgdavid1]

As more goes,let her earn. Dating is free trial once official she has to earn rest of the way till she becomes your wife or another's

[@sheilawhite9130]

I guess I'm more of a guy in these "women want more and more" scenarios. I think the basic standards for both women and men are: Humility, Kindness and the ability to make SINCERE apologies. And laughing and a good sense of humor is right up there too. :)

[@PH-ih1pn]

Women apologise?! You ARE having a joke right?

[@allthingskenteroo]

Are you serious? I'd say most women want 1) Tall 2) Monied 3) emotionally unavailable. These are the men that women fall all over themselves for.

[@johnrider4649]

@@PH-ih1pn Men enable women's cluelessness by not holding women accountable. Men must have standards for women.

[@PH-ih1pn]

@@johnrider4649 I agree. But society has decided to disempower men throughout society, completely remove any authority in their very own homes. You tell a womsn you are holding her accountable she is 1 phone call away from taking your house, your kids, your money, and if she feels like it a domestic abuse allegation that will get you a criminal record and a night in a cell. Western society is doomed.

[@johnrider4649]

@@allthingskenteroo That is why we have standards or they can get a cat and a vibrator.

[@lorderectus1849]

Just get on with your own life , time is fleeting!!! So stop wasting precious time on a woman that can’t and won’t fit your stereotype!!! Because that person will never tick all the boxes anyway. She is nothing more than a figure of your imagination!!!