What's It REALLY Like Being an Escort in the UK? | Full Documentary | OMG Stories

[@Arrouba123]

“She has told no one in her life what she’s about to do, but she agreed to let the cameras follow her journey” 😂😂😂

[@snorttroll4379]

So where can people order her services?

[@onesong2001]

she's tired of one night stands so she's going to reduce that down to one hour at a time. 😂😂

[@Ss-mr5pj]

What a joke

[@archibalcox]

hello i think in heaven theeres ganna be a big orgy

[@TopHatNat]

She thinks she could fight a man off her if he was on top of her @ 12:25 she's kidding herself.

[@ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293]

The pretty girl with the terrible bright blue contact lenses looked incredibly vulnerable. All I saw was her traumatic childhood still having a profound hold on her psychology. Her general demeanour seemed really dissociated, fragile almost haunted. She was the one who stood out in this short documentary. The longer you leave things, the more ingrained and profound the learned dysfunction and the harder it is to TRULY change.

[@rocoustilerocoustile4320]

Go be her therapist then.

[@ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293]

@@rocoustilerocoustile4320 I'm not professionally qualified to counsel victims of SA and serious childhood trauma. Thanks for the creepy, glib suggestion though. Have a lovely day.

[@helz0297]

Agree 100%. Her mannerisms are so off and the justification for getting into escorting because she feels unfulfilled from online dating or one night stands doesn't make sense at all. You can feel empowered and love yourself without having to sell your body.

[@amkali24]

womp womp..shes a statistic..but becuse shes pretty you have sympathy because no pretty girl should be a whore right?

[@sofiadossantos507]

She is so young 😢

[@92ifsa]

i hope alexis has left this industry she is very childlike and seems vulnerable

[@DarahWallace]

Cassandra makes me wish I was russian.

[@theresecoe1732]

You have no clue what its like as a woman to give up something like your anus or let someone penetrate your birth pocket roughly with full thrusts all the way out eclipsing the vulva for additional pleasure as you men like to do so often.. its difficult and mentally draining to realize EVERYONE wants that piece of us despite finding the very same parts disturbing. I have defecated and literally cried at the same time at the thought how my very own stools were not naturally formed due to the rough encounter I had a mere 45 minutes prior to releasing them. You may think it is privilege to make money this way, but its like BLM and or MeToo where we don't have a choice; it is simply inequity. There is a song that goes "my hands they are my own, but they're, not yours they are my own." Maybe listen to that song and rethink your outlook on how you think of these bits and parts that belong TO US (intentional caps). Song to reflect to on woman inequities - kzbin.info/www/bejne/d5fWhGamfql1nNk

[@TheGoodLifeStarterPack]

I thought the exact same thing ☹️😭

[@arinze7684]

I thought the same so sad, surely in this in internet age she can find better ways to make money

[@wl7752]

I hope Alexis left as well and think she can do better in life. I wish they would update us on where she is at now.

[@LS-eo5hg]

Does anyone think the bloke who owns the agency looks like a relative of Simon Cowell lol?

[@Mika77Top]

He is gay

[@iamnormal8648]

He's British too. There's a good chance they are related.

[@asmrambioticfluid9467]

@@iamnormal8648 haha OMG.

[@daniellekatrina]

YES was thinking that exactly lol

[@danniellejohnson448]

Simon just pimps out music artists that’s the main difference

[@breakingfl]

Alexis is hiding pain with laughter. She's so detached emotionally. She's really broken and it's so obvious. Hope she gets the help she needs and changes her view on men.

[@HopefulInterventions]

My exact thoughts!!

[@lunadog71]

That is exactly what I'm thinking. My heart is breaking for her. The 'cheap and sleazy' one is the man profiting off her, in my opinion.

[@lornahudson4454]

She needs a new wig

[@scottishguy924]

£150 mate for an hour you can ask her lol

[@pithius2191]

pain, detached, broken...really? she is definitely young and naïve. I feel sorry for Katt, she seems to be struggling

[@NuNu-cc1ed]

There is only one winner here, the gentleman who pockets 30% of their income for himself. It's almost cheeky how he sits there and talks glorifyingly about the job and the activity although he has probably never done it himself. In 10 years' time, I don't want to look and understand that other people robbed themselves of my body. It's a very sad trend.

[@standup2982]

I absolutely agree. Sex work isn't work. These women need therapy, not pimps and abuse. Very sad.

[@anyexpat]

Honestly it should be criminal. So our site sells companionship but what you choose to do is on you. 72 year old comes in and gets naked. er ok that is a tad misleading.. He clearly bats for the other team and i suspect deep down he does not like women so enjoys coaxing them into prostitution.

[@1wun1]

He's a middleman.

[@standup2982]

@@1wun1 he's a pimp

[@L6FT]

It's a mutual agreement. She has the option to work solo. I defend her right to do what she wants with her life. Am I concerned for her mental health? -Yes Am I concerned for men and women in society? -Absolutely. Trauma therapy is something we all benefit from.

[@LisaS483]

Alexis is way too mentally and emotionally fragile for this life. She can and should do better. I think all of these ladies deserve more and I hope they get it.

[@gobblelevclass3nuclearsubm393]

no she is doing the best actually compared to the poor men she exploits, she doesnt want to work for a living or become educated she is actually not venerable at all the invisible men are

[@sacassashimidrama7088]

But that’s the business. Even in marriages a woman must appear vulnerable for her man to lay her that’s nature.

[@launchpad53]

@@gobblelevclass3nuclearsubm393 she doesn't exploit men, thay willingly pay for her services, no one is holding gun to their head when they use her services. They are grown adults that can do what they want with their money.

[@Kira110lol]

No she was not. She knew fully well what she was doing. She was a town bicycle even before being an escort. She just decided to also charge money for it. You missed her own words. "I am tired of random hookups, I want more excitement". HER WORDS, not mine. You didn't listen. None of these chicks are ladies. And none deserve better. They deserve what they wished for.

[@klara7655]

why better? this is also a job, like nurse etc do you tell tell too to get anotehr job? or caregivers? caregivers work a lot and tough and destroy their body often. mentally is also a problem. Why do you think that Europeans dont do the job so often? Escort is also intimacy but in fact as a caregive you also get very near to intimate parts of the people.if the escort is mentally stable and watches her mind and does sports etc it is perfectly manageable. The bigger issue are men like YOU WHO FEEL PITY AND CAN'T ACCEPT THAT ESCORTS ARE HUMANS WITH FEELINGS! AND NOT ALL HAVE MENTAL AND ECONOMICAL ISSUES! I also do escort sometimes and men like you are annoying, I tell them that I will not justify that I do this because of fun and money. I also have a boyfriend and can love! And a normal life without drugs or alcohol. How about not judging women?? I could put some money aside like this and some clients are nice to talk to, too. Most men want conversation too and sex is a small part since most of them don't manage 1 hour of sex. If I flirt and use a bit of charm, they last longer, and if chemistry works. Full time is too much for me but if some women can do it, it os ok. I mostly don't escort full time because laws change all the time and it is judged from moral point of view. and because of men like you who pity us and also other men who hate our job but still pay for it, or f* around for free. Quite a lot of men think it is fine if they f* without any love but if women do it, they are mentally sick etc. As soon as women are not judged any more for sex , then more women would have sex for free and would not even commit to marriage. Most men would be happy. Because else there would not be dating apps full of guys looking for sex! And in clubs and in general, many men say they want to have fun only. And just work and hobbies, women only if they don't need emitional attention! When this happens, men will not need escorts any more. But it seems that more men have EMOTIONAL ISSUES AND WANT SEX WITH RANDOM WOMEN!! Many men can even have sex and more for months or years and still don't care for the woman!! Men can fake love and women orgasms. So as soon as this changes, there will be no escorts!

[@delrosario7453]

I pray that these and all vulnerable people stay safe from harm 💙

[@VioletS2Dream]

Thing is.. You don't need to sleep with someone to deserve their love... It's ok to just date someone for 6 months and just hold hands and only then decide they are worth sleeping with! Culture teaches girls such terrible norms now...

[@L6FT]

In the older days mothers would guard their daughters chastity, to save them for marriage. This culture where promiscuity is the norm is ruining the way especially women bond in relationships. Relation-ship interesting word, like a ship where both people understand their roles, on a ship there's only one captain, and every one does there part as a team.

[@NLR759]

That's exactly my opinion. I"m a child of the 80's, and never slept with anyone on first dates. I took a long time to get to know someone first, several months, before any physical intimacy. This is how you weed out the ones who only want you for sex, and also how you can gauge if you have enough compatibility for a long-term relationship.

[@moaningpheromones]

six months to find out the woman is useless in the sack - she'd get the sack well before six months. these days that type of woman is usually not going to be a barrel of laughs, red flag.

[@NLR759]

@@moaningpheromones We don't want to waste 6 months with you either. That's the whole point of my comment, to screen out guys like you. And your comment proved my point exactly. That "six month" wait period is designed specifically to get rid of you. Men like you lie that you are interested in a relationship, but you're not, you only want to use women for s*x then dump them.

[@airfixx_8952]

@@moaningpheromones- Clearly they'd have avoiding sleeping with a neanderthal like you though, eh... So that's a win.

[@Keepinitreal55]

I feel really bad for the black girl, she’s clearly just desperate for some respect and connection with a man, and not to feel used. So tragic that women have to turn to this industry because of their negative experience dating

[@TomLawrence-f8y]

I couldn't watch the black girls segment. Until you speak with a hookers off the record does one realize cleaning sewers is a better idea.

[@nicolawilson9098]

Yeh that’s horrific

[@gailainsley6939]

@@nicolawilson9098 that isn’t horrific. Would you rather be paid or do it for free? 😴

[@Keepinitreal55]

@@gailainsley6939 or there’s another option, don’t do it for free until you find a deserving man who can actually protect your heart! 🤯 it’s mind blowing that women don’t realize they have that option! be a higher caliber woman! I made my man wait and he only loved me more for it! Married for 7 years and he’s more passionate about me today than ever.

[@Mariamsadventure]

@@gailainsley6939some rather have real love, respect and marriage.

[@4850m-ve4qj]

Damn.. 150 an hour and he takes 30 percent.. so you’re doing god only knows what for an entire hour to walk with only around 100? That’s horrific. Young, sad and naive.

[@ZM-et7zt]

Exactly what I was thinking

[@TigerBoyX15]

He looks Gay as well..

[@1braverat1968]

Crazy to watch how comfortable he is taking a portion of what she earned ... no shame

[@jonathansl109]

Yeah crazy it's just pimping, I didn't know that was legal in the UK

[@CanMoose]

​@@jonathansl109 He IS a pimp , far as I'm concerned, and she's another prostitute for his stable.

[@katrinabentley9035]

Escorting is to live up to other people's expectations: its called a client. Alexis asks if its ok to not use protection with regulars, even though she was told to never do it, she probably will. Thats a worry.

[@iamnormal8648]

Raw dick feels better. The heat of the dick and the throbbing pulses of the blood flowing through a full erect dick has been described by many women as more stimulating than a sheathed dick. Alexis wants to have fun. She'll learn to be a pro later down the road, but at first she definitely thinks this is fun and wants to have fun.

[@ninahocking5709]

She's desparate for the money and simple minded. Anyone who keeps asking 'how much can I get without condoms' while being told No no no is asking for her own demise.

[@LegacyByT]

She is acting like she is about to get a 6 to 8 figure job. She is so giddy. It’s really sad.😢😢😢😢

[@yellaninpoppin9919]

With that face she can actually. She needs better hair and make up and clothing but she can push 6 figures. I've made 6 figures in the industry for 16 years. If you're facially attractive and charge 500GBP+ the money is crazy, especially if you combine online and offline work like I do.

[@LegacyByT]

@@yellaninpoppin9919 at what price? Mentally

[@MusaA]

No matter how much money you're able to manipulate out of vulnerable perverts the money on offer is never going to be enough for people with dignity, integrity and a moral compass!@@yellaninpoppin9919

[@OneAndOnlyMe]

@@LegacyByT Some of us can handle it mentally.

[@angeladibble]

@@yellaninpoppin9919 She's perfect as she is.

[@chriss4713]

Kat has made me cry so much...😢 She seems so broken and to have endured so much... It's so horrible that men use her mainly for rough and violent s**, you can tell she hates it... The way she talks about understanding that men need to use her to fulfill their violent impulses...The disappointment when she understood that her client was one of the rough ones... And then her sparkling eyes when she talks about having children...

[@Little_Sidhe]

Kat really hit me in the feels too, I hope she gets out of it.

[@gavinthomas7375]

Kat was a porn star,she has a twin sister and they went on the jeremy Kyle show,her sister wanted to get out of the industry.

[@awolf913]

@@gavinthomas7375what’s kat’s full name?

[@gavinthomas7375]

@@awolf913 kat Lee.

[@izzyx9811]

i have her twitter , she’s quite old now she used to be a porn star . I feel really bad for her honestly she seems lovely

[@francinejones2524]

Stuff THAT!! I’d rather have my low paying job. It’s not glamorous, no matter how these girls are trying to convince us it is.

[@yellaninpoppin9919]

Your low paying boring job isn't glamourous either. So? We'd rather get paid to get naked then work your whack ass job.

[@joshb7326]

I think it's more that they're trying to convince themselves so they don't feel ashamed of themselves.

[@jojo-un2qo]

Yes & they are active in the business where clients (money) will see this so how truthful can they really be. It’s like the playboy bunnies when it’s done the truth comes out.

[@MusaA]

Well said! These people are dangerous role models for the young impressionable or lazy teenagers!

[@jadewilliams6264]

Well said!

[@Malkomain]

So the title confused me. I watched 10 minutes. Im also a dad for 2 small girls, and i realized i have ONE job to do in this world. I need to hug them everyday and tell them i love them, and that they mean everything to me. Not to talk for all escorts, but i think many of them, could have benefit for a hug or two more growing up. ❤️

[@00loudog]

You're 100% right I didn't have a dad growing up or a strong male presence my life probably would've been a lot different had I had that hug your girls tight and tell them you love them just like you said

[@JamesTaylor2-cc9zh]

You got it wrong you can all ypu want when your kids are young but as adults they will do what they want to do and there is nothing you can do about it

[@NasAnas-fu4hy]

Nice

[@seadragon1456]

Girls with great fathers do not grow up and sell their gem for $$. They just don’t. Girls that are loved, taken care of, and heard during childhood, are very strong mentally. Fathers that invest time and good energy into their daughters give them confidence and reinforce that they are more than their sexual body. I’m talking about fathers that share wisdom and allow them to experience limited independence as tweens/teens. Fathers that show their daughters that they can make good choices and all that good stuff. Now I’m not saying, she’ll remain a virgin until marriage but she won’t grow up and think she has to sell it for money. Powerful girls grow into powerful women and their minds make them more money than their body ever will. So if you’re a daddy, keep showing them what love looks like and show them how men are supposed to treat women.

[@iamnormal8648]

She made a great case at 5:10 You really have to think from a girl's perspective about dating to understand why this line of business is good. Girls are getting cheated by many many men to provide them with cheap or free sex in the false hopes of getting married down the line. Your hugs won't stop your daughters from being exploited for sex. So, it's very reasonable that if they are being exploited for sex, they might as well make as much money as possible from it.

[@Mara.La888]

OMG Alexis is waaaay to naïve for this business

[@edwinov]

That's why I'd book her immediately.

[@studio54studio]

too* kiddo

[@4721364]

Ya but you hook up with a guy from Tinder you end up having sex cuz in the end that's what guy really wants and you as woman would be like oh! That's why you're with me sex. Alexis explained all clearly. She didn't sound naive at all.

[@user-fs8tl7ni1w]

Too (not to)

[@samsongomah1318]

Her big mouth, fake hair, and fake eye colour are all super hideous.

[@georgiarose2594]

"It's like s3x with your boyfriend or girlfriend, only with someone you don't know...." Is she ok?

[@yellaninpoppin9919]

Are you ok? Most clients are dating and married to Women like you. They don't feel the same false intimacy you have for them or they wouldn't sleep with escorts or cheat on your with tinder hook ups.

[@bigbadlust4403]

None of them are. Most of them grew up without a father. Daddy issues, ugly duckling syndrome and the list goes on.

[@onesong2001]

I guess sex can be a different experience for everyone. Who knows what she's experienced.

[@yiddena]

@@onesong2001, I think these women have been severely traumatized....:(

[@Mantras-and-Mystics]

She's just so used to sex, any sex is just normal for her I think.

[@bapbap22]

I’ve known a couple escorts personally, not as a client. They really enjoy the first couple months, and then a year or two into it they’ve completely lost their sense of self because they spend all their time being some stranger’s fantasy. I’d like to see an update on Alexis later on.

[@edwinov]

I'd like to see an update on Alexis once I've slept with her.

[@klara7655]

it depends if you are stable I have been swinger and am also escort sometimes. I had some issues with my life and with escort I have learned why some things are like they are and could address it in therapy. I sel-f reflect and work only when I am stable that day. I have less money from it but I have emotional balance. and being in relationship is trickier but I know what my boundaries are and also how often I can be escort. I prefer guys who want to try new fetish or are shy becuse then I can give them a chanve to try out till they maybe one day find their partner. but the rest of the clients...welll... most are ok but dont like the idea that they cheat on their wifes just for fun. and ofc have kids.

[@klara7655]

@@TartanLad regulars are not so interesting for me because it can get toxic. either the guys think it is a relationship or they get disrespectful and ask for "favours" , want it spontaneously, no condom because we know each other etc

[@patrick-bu3eq]

sounds like being in a regular job to me.

[@bapbap22]

@@patrick-bu3eq no other job has such a high rate of ptsd and mental illness. Not even combat veterans.

[@krisztidavid7725]

I am really not trying to offend anyone, and my heart goes out to all these girls. For me personally, it’s very disturbing that we do some language gymnastics, and prostitution becomes escorting, and all of a sudden prostitution becomes fine and glorified. This is not a way towards female empowerment, it’s rather enslavement😢

[@klara7655]

depends on the woman. escorts should go regualry to supervision / therapist to be always mentally fit. why is this ok for social workers and therapists? they also work with humans but they dont get blamed for all things. being therapist or nurse is mentally demanding. caring for so many people can make you sick!

[@YOTSUBA_desu]

This argument only works if you consider normal work to be slavery as well.

[@Miss.Lechuza_Chusma]

Why do you care so much ? lol They are LOVING that $ and I bet if you ask them , they do feel empowered .

[@Greenpastures79]

I was thinking the same!!

[@emmr2739]

Alexis is so beautiful inside and out. I hope everyone featured is well and feeling worthwhile.

[@maddylockhart7064]

I'm gonna sound like a nut, but I can't help thinking that Alexis getting her period right when she was supposed to start sex work was a sign from god that she shouldn't do it.

[@JewTube001]

god is made up. truth is women have periods every month it's normal and not religious

[@edwigeguerin894]

Same here. I was like, that's her body talking.

[@high.vibrational.collective]

I had the same thought

[@high.vibrational.collective]

​@@edwigeguerin894yes

[@radiantrenee406]

I immediately said that's her answer fr9m God

[@sofya6553]

Any of these girls could go to therapy for a few years and then find a partner and a new life. They have been treated badly by men bc their vulnerability has attracted the kind of men that didn't want to have to care for someone. Then their view of men is being reinforced by the experiences with the really specific group of men that use sex workers. It's sad because they all have really beautiful characters

[@zaveeramini9712]

You ever heard of the term 'accident-prone individuals'? It's basically the same with people who get abused because their personality attracts a specific type of person and they're attracted to that type of person so it's like they were made for each other, and so it is quite sad.

[@RacingPepe]

A lot of men just have weird priorities. I work in a completely different industry where 99% of my colleagues are men. They treat me amazingly well, truly. They make great friends and nothing but respect for me. But the moment I got a boyfriend I lost almost all of my supposed friends. Only then did I realize that most of these men had some sort of hopes, even if they didn't make it abundantly clear to me. They were hoping for something more at some point. Getting into a relationship has been the most isolating experience in my life. I recently broke up and changed jobs with a different company, and I have tons of "friends" again now. Even if I know their intentions are weird I'd rather have fake friends than no one at all.

[@meladversity]

it's not a woman's fault men treat them bad. some of these women experienced trauma early in life and did nothing to deserve or attract it. they were just young and men took advantage when they should've done better. in all these cases men's sht behaviour and distorted view of women is the cause. and in the end it's men again who take advantage by paying these women to get what they want.

[@bogantellectual]

are you offering to pay for their therapy? i've never been attracted to men who treat me badly and i ended up starting sex work in my 30s. my taste in men & mental state has no bearing on my choice of job. cost of living crisis/my countrymen's choice of politicians/my physical health limitations were the main drivers. most of my clients are the most normal people ever. some aren't so nice, but that has nothing to do with my self worth or taste in men, or childhood (which was fantastic btw.) when i encounter them, it's just like any other shit day at work in my other non-sw-related jobs. in fact i've never (in 3 years) had anything i'd consider traumatic - just annoying, sometimes stressful (e.g. on slow days/weeks/months), or some bookings are physically tiring. even the worst days pale in comparison to my worst days at some former jobs - a corporate job (THE WORST and if i had to name one thing in my life that cause the most long-standing mental ill effects THIS WOULD BE IT), and minimum wage hospitality jobs.

[@mf4865]

@@bogantellectualk but a few of the women in this documentary CLEARLY have deep routed psychological problems.

[@ladylady1]

Alexis didnt look soo bubbly and cheerful at the end. Quite honestly she looked like she was gonna cry and her eyes lost that spark and beautiful smile! Just sad actually!!!

[@a.r.tavares1322]

I think she cried, there were "tear lines" down her cheeks. It's like Kat, her eyes are sooo sad and she has this childlike mannerisms also (sometimes that's due to trauma in young years). Heartbreaking.

[@L6FT]

Yes it's the dissociation taking place by having sex with new men, even though she doesn't feel for it, and needs something else from them.

[@fatehab8890]

Her fault for getting into that kind of thing , there in the uk where there’s biggest opportunity for people to get jobs and they choose this so whatever happens to them it’s there fault

[@JewTube001]

she's fine. you guys need to relax on this.

[@TalLeGal]

@@fatehab8890 So judgmental about women you don’t even know.

[@high.vibrational.collective]

The manager said , " God bless you" after hugging the newbie. If you really want God to bless her youd be in a different industry .

[@eryabolonha]

Cassandra mentioned her boyfriend passed when she was 19, but somehow it was a long-term relationship, the math troubles me... She even called him gentleman

[@Mantras-and-Mystics]

Yes, that was all a bit worrying... 🤔

[@anyexpat]

17/18/19 is a long time when you are young

[@airfixx_8952]

Yeh..... Noticed that too. I have the impression that significantly older men is the norm for young attractive women in Russia.

[@tamarataylor2570]

The first young love hits hard even more so if it lasts for years. When I was 14 a year lasted forever. English isn't her first language so I think she used the term 'gentleman' meaning a kind man

[@K_Riss1]

I had the same response. I'm American so it crossed my mind that British gals might call men of any age a gentlemen. Seems a little odd to call a young boyfriend that even if he was indeed a gentleman. Sigh. All these girls worry and sadden me.

[@christinaprn]

I’m a single woman in my late 50s. Even at this age, men lie and pretend they want a relationship when they really don’t. Thankfully, I’ve never fallen for it. I’ve even dated men in their 70s in hopes of finding a mature man who wants a committed relationship. But, they’re still playing games, lying and cheating. I’ve given up, and don’t date anymore.

[@francinejones2524]

You just found the wrong ones!

[@neldakerr5201]

@christinaprn I'm the same age, I have exact same experience.. I don't date and I'm enjoying my glammbabies, and learning to love myself.

[@nigel4776]

Sounds like you're good at attracting the sort of men you don't want. May help to look at why that is.

[@LodeNid]

If they are playing games, lying and cheating even as "pensioners" most of the time it is because they are attractive in one sense or another to many women, therefore you should choose men that have less success with women and are less attractive...

[@RAralar]

Depends where you meet them

[@christinaprn]

The black girl is very beautiful, but her makeup colors are all wrong for her.

[@CATSFOREVER308]

You have got to be kidding,maybe see an eye doctor.

[@Lorian7748GenXr]

I agree with everything you said. She's very beautiful & indeed the wrong color palette for makeup. For some reason the whole light colored chalky lip look has been trendy especially on darker skin.

[@user-sy6fj2bm1z]

This job is wrong for her

[@bod9193]

User-sy6 - she’s far too vulnerable, fragile and mired in self-loathing.

[@AidaShawJ.D.]

@@CATSFOREVER308women are evil to other women! If you don’t find her attractive (because you’re like Lily white & female), move on.

[@drteaches]

Normalizing stuff like this ia despicable

[@klara7655]

then normalise that men should not be interested only in short term stuff and dont just think about how to make more money. most guys want to have uncommited stuff at least for a while!! they think they deserve it! and marriage should be ablished till men can't take women as a partner and not just fun. and then look for a perfect woman and commit to that one!!

[@jmb1666]

Not really. Oldest profession in the world. It will be around forever. BUT...trying to normalize transgender and other freaks is more alarming.

[@TheBeatle49]

Please point out the normalization - I don't see it.

[@user-sy6fj2bm1z]

She thinks she is going out to meet the love of her life. She is setting herself up for disappointment

[@aidankelly840]

Hole in the wall Bank machine

[@ScottieWallace]

​@@aidankelly840hole elsewhere, chlamidia and ghonorreah😢

[@aidankelly840]

@@ScottieWallace tiger woods

[@blossom6473]

Delusional 😅

[@HopefulInterventions]

@@ScottieWallace Exactly!!

[@courtkawaii9692]

When the woman 10 minutes into the film mentioned the amount of men that wanted her because she looked like a child... 🤢 I genuinely paid a pretty penny to get breast implants because I was garnering that kind of attention, and did NOT want it. That's just so sick!

[@Yourenotsmart1999]

Sooo many “normal” seeming men are attracted to literal children. I don’t trust a single one

[@Dimi.cosmic]

That's alarming, I truly dont get why would anyone feel attraction for a kid its truly sick

[@salsipuedes8425]

I used to be an escort and i was very popular with the men because in their words i look like a “child” you have no idea how many clients told me that they feel they were with a little girl when they were with me and pay me extra to dress and act as such it was very creepy and disgusting but i did it because my sick mom and my little brother depends on me, i dont do that anymore i struggle more now to get a decent income for me and my family i am more tired physically but before i used to be more tired emotionally im still tired 😪

[@Richie_Alpha_Rabbit69]

@@salsipuedes8425 Did you call them daddy? I love that but am not attracted to children or find ones who look as such.I think it’s a dominance thing.

[@salsipuedes8425]

@@Richie_Alpha_Rabbit69 i did if they ask me to but i did not enjoy it because they want me to perform, dress and act as a children the most extreme one i had was a man who want me to pretend to be his daugther and the worst part is that he actually have a daugther

[@faarfaat8010]

i hope i am not the only one feeling sad watching this.

[@jayabena4343]

Nope

[@swedensy]

Women be like: "Strong and independent" ;DDD@@jayabena4343

[@mariancounsellor]

It's very sad

[@blondie9422]

It’s grim 😢

[@RobertCollins-fq5tw]

Feeling sad about what.

[@zed3063]

“I lost some friends due to jealousy.” That’s a bit delusional tbh.. anyone could be an escort if they really wanted to.

[@thorsrensen3162]

I hope she earn so much she can invest and be independent.

[@king.suavey]

exactly, i laughed when i heard that. Like why would her friends be jealous shes a "legal" prosti.....tute

[@cathunter3874]

she is probably making their week's wage in an hour, that is what she means

[@jennifermarie3158]

@@cathunter3874 Nah, I heard the low rates they're working for

[@zaveeramini9712]

Starting escorting as a way to do self improvement sounds like the worst possible solution she could think of.

[@L6FT]

Yeah most self development happens when you suffer and realize that you want to get out of suffering. Some people take the hard road.

[@blondie9422]

She will be well on the road to ruin if she keeps going down that path. Poor naive girl 😢

[@klara7655]

you can still learn a lot about yourself but you must continue with self- reflection! and have a plan b. work on your security etc. a therapist would be also great to make sure all is ok. i mean like supervision, it is normal in social jobs like therapistst, social workeres, interprets. so the same should be for this branch.

[@Dave_Billing]

@@blondie9422 Many escorts do very well for themselves and provide sexual services to people like the disabled who couldn't get their sexual needs any other way. Your views are fundamentally antiquated.

[@crystall98]

This always blows my mind. As a true victim who was raped and used for many things. That was trauma I did not ask for. That went on for many years forcefully. It took a lot for me to break the cycle finally stand up for myself and speak up. I had to go through therapy, and there are some things I will never heal from. I have accepted that. All these PRETTY GIRLS are volunteering to feel that same empty hole and volunteering to feel trauma. You will become very disconnected, you will not feel butterflies, you will not be able to see men as anything else other than men who use you for pleasure. The money will be there but in the end you are going to feel like something is forever missing. And your mentor is a guy who is really just pimping you out “professionally” insane. This breaks my heart.

[@Richie_Alpha_Rabbit69]

It’s the oldest profession in the world. Today so many young men see this as their only option for intimacy which I see as sad. Men have been raised by single mothers and feel completely lost when it comes to approaching women. Men are bashed constantly and told they are toxic. I was a virgin and teased constantly until 21 and finally decided to just get an escort because I wanted to see what I was missing.

[@jasminepetal3972]

Im sorry that happened to you tho many women and men are fulfilled from doing sex work - obviously not from the job (maybe some are) but from the freedom it give you when you earn a lot n can do what you please.... i think you are still perceiving this video through your trauma.... imo its v different than what you commented cuz its by choice. Not forced in this specific doc and for many sex workers it is by choice. They get paid and i don't think anyone is anticipating feeling butterflies with a client - its a job . Not a romantic partner/friend/acquaintance who betrayed you for years.... again im sorry what you have experienced but its not the same as what you described imo...

[@jasminepetal3972]

​@@Richie_Alpha_Rabbit69 definitely agree w that... its super sad.... the intimacy/dating culture has really gone to shit.... women will and probably are already starting to miss the chance happenings of interacting w a man and im not talking about sex obviously, just like, casual spontaneous interaction when going about the day and these types of interactions probably happens way way less for fear he might get me too'd so instead will just ignore all women from fear/anxiety.... very unnatural to move that way imo n not good for the future

[@elenikominos7404]

😞

[@Zombie101]

You mean 'to fill that same empty hole'

[@kafacela483]

This 'first time' girl needs love

[@BadThrusher]

From the streets

[@anyexpat]

Fucky sucky 100 dolla

[@dwillbecancelledsoon4086]

Well she’s never gonna get it now. Damaged goods

[@JewTube001]

she found it.

[@joeytirado4341]

yeah I need love too....what? I don't deserve it because I'm a guy? lol

[@googleuser-one]

Sad trauma and financial situations put these women here in this field. Hope they find a way to overcome it soon…

[@letsplaywithmegacyborg3098]

that's a lie. most aren't traumatised

[@erikaannabosnyak9307]

Kathy looks so tired. Cassandra is still grieving. Alexis hurts inside and running away. These are the impressions i have. I don't judge sex workers. As long as it is their decision, it should be legal everywhere. But seeing their sadness is heartbreaking.

[@regularbloke7410]

i am impressed how friendly katt is

[@tamarataylor2570]

Cassandra loosing the love of her life and choosing to give 'parts' of herself to many because the grief made her feel she could no longer give all to one person hurt... Never judge, but we are allowed to feel sad.

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

But it’s not as sad as women working as doctors and lawyers and nurses and in finance, going home paying half the bills for men…. Who then go to escorts.

[@regularbloke7410]

@@nataliaalfonso2662 im trying to understand the sense of what you said but unfortunately I am not fast thinker. Do you mean that because women contribute to household choirs men have a chance to save money for ladies of the night but in scenario where women don't contribute men have to spend more money on household choirs therefore they can't afford paid sex ?

[@No1EmoD00merOnMyIsland]

@@nataliaalfonso2662They shouldn’t do 50/50 to begin with then..

[@haraldolsen8313]

I think it's a shame prostitution is glamorized like that.

[@airfixx_8952]

If you watched that and thought it looked glamorous you must be a bit odd......

[@jasmintea2132]

They were using words like "empowering" to describe it 😢

[@klara7655]

better than to be used for ons for guys who want to try around until they find the perfect girl. Educate men first !! Woemn want connection and most men cant do it. dating apps etc prove this. and guys who marry are max. providers with no emotions and wonder why the wife is pissed off. they dont take care of children and wife because of lack of time. but have time for ons, affairs or escorts!!! asa woman I prefer to be escort than marry a guy who is egoistic and thinks only about his career and freedom. most guys want only freedom and women have to comply!!

[@jasmintea2132]

@@klara7655 do you find that connection while fuckin married guys?

[@klara7655]

@@jasmintea2132 no, i tried it out so i try to find out if they are single. not easy but well... some guys unfortunately lie. that is why I dont do this full time and some make fake bookings because they dont respect us etc. and also taking uprong the money because it is a "dirty" business blabla.

[@liliesofthefield5310]

"The amount of guys who booked me because I quite literally looked like a child is astounding"

[@sunnie734]

As an A cup myself, I can tell you that the sheer amount of men who have told me they like my chest because it reminds them of a child is horrible. Normal, every day men. Loads of them. It's petrifying.

[@Daveena1008]

I found that very disturbing to watch.

[@pce12345]

🤮

[@Q_QQ_Q]

​@@sunnie734but women do surgeries because men like them .

[@Littlecrumpet]

why they all desire young skinny girls, they look as close to a child as possible men are sick!

[@bettysintheloop]

Jasmine said she 'lost friend, due to jealousy' ....no Jasmine, sadly that is not the reason

[@JustinLewis7326]

She is delusional!

[@mstt3530]

It’s sad that our generation feels the need to do this because Tender, etc has warped the way we see dating. I don’t judge anyone, wish these ladies well. It cannot be an easy job.

[@empiresrikesfat]

this is literally the easiest job in the world 😅

[@LodeNid]

You need a thick skin but that goes for many other jobs too...

[@bod9193]

Rodsnights Pretending to be turned on by an absolute stranger who could beat and brutalise you at any time? Yeah. So easy. 🙄

[@yellaninpoppin9919]

Ummm tinder didn't make us what to do this, lol. There's a reason Genz and Mininials stopped wanting to deal with Men for free. You're users. This is the oldest profession in the world. Women just don't want to be used and we need money to survive. Men stopped marrying and started taking advantage of Women's liberation since the 70's and birth control. Now they want to stop providing but want to sleep with you after a cheap date and drink. It's easy if you run it the way you want to.

[@ava9xx3js9j]

it is not the easiest job in the world. you’re devaluing it for a reason. perhaps it benefits you?

[@royfr8136]

The fact that this is talked about as if it were a career move is just pathetic.

[@rrickarr]

The whole history of the world and especially ROYALTY is strewn with prostitutes!!!!!!!!!!

[@TopHatNat]

Ikr This video is promoting sex work as a glamorous, appealimg, exciting and fun job choice. So far I haven't heard anything negative about it. What a load of BS.

[@akbarwolfram]

Exactly. Its ridiculous and infuriating.

[@jackholt6860]

To be fair, if they're smart they could probably buy a nice house after a few years of doing it and retire in a decade or less

[@alexthedeal1827]

it seems much better then washing boomers and sitting behind a register, phony job at the government

[@truthonwheels8652]

Cassandra thinking she’s saving marriages LOL

[@AidaShawJ.D.]

I know, delusional! Gurl, take your money and hush okay! 😂😂😂

[@its_Luzci-fer]

She is actually

[@kirtywright1974]

@@AidaShawJ.D. mmm H

[@its_Luzci-fer]

@@Nadia..J yep she is. Bit strange to understand but in most cases men feel less agitated once they got there itch scratched physically and mentally. Something most wife's don't pay attention to.

[@CSIS-Spy]

Because it motivates men to become more sexual towards their spouse. At the same time their heart is no longer with their wife. It’s a double edged sword feeding sexual addiction

[@jasmine.llamas]

the fact that she thinks that her friends are jealous of her for being an escort... tf

[@aksharshah8358]

Could be the money

[@johngunning2123]

What does tf stand for?

[@aksharshah8358]

@@johngunning2123 the fuck, shorthand for what the fuck

[@AmandaIsAwesome]

Could be jealous/ worried about their men meeting her and knowing what she does.

[@JoshPhoenix11]

It wasn't jealousy, thats just her line. She didn't seem to realize that in trying to justify losing some friends due to jealousy. She instead revealed the real truth in the very next sentence. If you listen again she says -"I lost some friends.. um, due to jealousy. But you lose people on the way, through life all the time. And, if I can't be.. if im going to be judged, by my own friends on my journey, then, they need to leave." She starts by saying its jealousy, but precedes to reveal that it was because they judged her while she was on her 'journey', and that it even sounds like she was the one to cut them out of her life.

[@dianecleary1054]

The first lady has made the fatal error of thinking because men have dated her and used her she might as well make them pay . Very hard to have a normal relationship after working this way .

[@vroomgc]

Not exactly true, there are many ppl in the porn industry that have relationships outside of their job (albeit usually with other ppl in that industry). The challenge for these girls however is finding someone who is willing to accept what their job is. They need to have a plan of getting out, such as going to school or something like that. Without a plan they get lost.

[@silviabarellini6041]

that shows you that she is not a lady

[@lillierose5304]

How is that a fatal error? I agree with her honestly. It's either that or keep getting used for free!

[@Chris-sm2uj]

@@lillierose5304 you also need help

[@klara7655]

why? men do EXACTLY that. they also have fun and then marry. both genders keep their roles in marriage and that*s all. I dont want marriage for that reason. men and women use checklists from the 50s and since it take a while to get such a partner, they use other people till then. most of these guys are MARRIED, have you not listened? So it is not even worth it to marry as a woman except you need a provider!! what do you mean by NORMAL anyway???? with dating nowadays you never know who has how many side peoplet etc. it is very easy to cheat. depends for men ofc how they look or how much money they have. the issue is that people like you suppose men can handle sex without commitment and women can'T! for both genders it is the same, if you exagerate then it is toxic. and if you do it because you don*t trust anyone it is also sh* many men hurt women because they got ONCE hurt by one. sorry that is so toxic!

[@blair9607]

Well … I was a stripper from 18 years old to 25 ( I’m 30 now) I made £100 regularly per 15 minute fully naked dance . No sex . I can hand on heart say I never had sex with any clients ! After commission at the end of the night on weekends I’d make £500 per night and in the weekday £300 per night ! If I was even to consider escorting it would have needed to be well over £1000 per client . £100 is so so so bad I feel sorry for them . They’d be better off dancing so they don’t have to cross that line or I suppose nowadays only fans if that’s still popular ? Maybe the money just isn’t what it used to be !

[@sleeping_sheep_slayer_9000]

if ur really honestly telling the truth blair then i have major respect for ur self discipline , your self respect for yourself is immense, it shows how extremely high intelligence you're, the fact that you can take charge and take full control of situations, the fact that you set the boundary and you never even once felt tempted, to cross the line out of greed mistakenly or slept with a client, im very happy for you, blair you're a one of a kind girl, and i know for a fact if you where to own or run a business, you'll be the best kind of manager, and if you choose to have children you'll be the best mother and best wife, and your husband will be one very very extremely lucky man, i am a british brummy myself, and i have also had several different good and bad life choices i made similar to you, but everything else i said describing u blair, im not just saying it for the sake of it, i honestly do sincerely mean everything i said about u, and i have a good feeling that, everything that'll happen to u in ur life from now, it's always gonna be good

[@kaylawarner5487]

Stripping, escorting, lap dances, it’s all sexual favors for money thrown at you for whatever sexual service you agree to do. It’s all demeaning. None of it is worth he fast cash. I choose my self-worth. I’m worth more than that

[@blair9607]

@@sleeping_sheep_slayer_9000 thank you ! Oh yes it’s definitely tempting to do that and I can understand why they may of felt like doing it . But once you cross that line there’s no going back and I just knew deep down it didn’t sit well with me personally that’s why I never did that . That poor girl in the documentary talking about failed tinder dates are the reason she’s doing it , I just want to tell her you’re no required to have sex on dates or in life in general just do it when you want too and when you’re ready you don’t owe anyone ! I never did drugs either ( other than weed when on holiday in Amsterdam) I saw a lot of girls waste money on that ( and alcohol ) and customers too , customers did the drugs as well . I wanted to keep my money and invest which I did in education and a house . Because I thought once I’ve danced naked I may as well get something out of it to set myself up for a more stable life which I didn’t come from ( my parents put me off the drugs years ago so I always knew I’d never touch it ) . I’m a mother now and I am a business owner too and a wife . It’s true that a lot of women end up spiralling downhill with this type of work or stripping but if you know yourself and your boundaries then you might come out ok . I guess I’m the exception not the rule 🤷‍♀️ It’s not something I’d recommend doing but if you can strip / model / only fans then do that before you consider escorting because I think escorting would be a lot mentally harder to come back from 🙏🏻✨

[@Januarywitch]

To be an exotic dancer is much harder, I think, it should be paid better. The competition is so much bigger, the working hours are longer. You need to tipp more people, like bar, bouncers, the DJ. You need to have an extraordinary physical stamina, you need to invest more in your grooming and your dance classes. You need to be very charming as well to be chosen for a private dance. Private dances bring the most money, but you have so many colleges around who can be chosen instead of you.

[@Melsincatuation]

I was a topless dancer at some high end clubs before the market crash in 08. One week I made 10k, Superbowl was in the town that week. I started escorting aroundn2014 with a focus on the more wealthy older clients and couples too. My recommendation to girls who want to escort..DO NOT GO WITH A PIMP!! You can easily learn to manage yourself. I actually was busy enough where I hired an assistant. She ran all my ads managed my calls, did verification of clients, etc..I paid her 20% per client plus all kinds of perks. She was amazing and as a team we made a lot!!

[@bufon63]

The word 'desperation' come to mind. Desperate men, desperate women, just desperate in different ways and the pimp is happy.

[@sebastian-rs4or]

"Desperation"?? No way, not when you live in one of the most developed country in the world. These girls do not live in Bangladesh or some other 3rd world country. They could earn a decent income by working a normal job but they dream of luxury without effort. Some people have clearly lost the sense of what a decent life is. Is not called "Desperation" when someone works for 100 pounds/hour and buys designer clothes. This girls dream of a high-life with minimum efort, while other onest girls work hard 8hours / day at some grocery store. Cutting corners in life come with some risks, emotional, physical, low self-esteem...

[@tru2harris998]

THE CLIENT WHOSE WIFE WALKED IN ON THEM AND WANTED TO JOIN IN WITH THEM, HAD PROBABLY ARRANGED IT WITH HER HUSBAND AS A FAKE ACT, AS A WAY TO GET A THREESOME CHEAPER, AS IT WOULD OF COST LOTS MORE IF PRE-ARRANGED. SADLY THE ESCORT WAS YOUNG AND FELL FOR IT.

[@samsongomah1318]

All staged for the TV show.

[@Ohhhwehere]

yes that's what I was thinking. Im sorry to hear the girl dident see through that act

[@BobRooney290]

there is no wife. these are all actors.

[@Whatever-mh5dn]

​@@samsongomah1318 What you're saying that those Escorts are just actors pretending to be escorts?

[@timjensen6968]

Experience will teach her.

[@sebastianliwinski222]

I had a work mate he was frequently visiting escorts,he asked me once do I go to see them myself. I said no! ,and I stated that I respect myself too much to be doing that despite being single! He begun disliking me since then for telling my truth! Good luck

[@Keepinitreal55]

Good for you for saying that!

[@Grace0724]

A man like you has the highest value. You respect yourself and others. Women respect men like you. I wouldn’t be surprised if you were very highly sort after.

[@anyexpat]

Had a "Friend" that loved visiting escorts and was basically a sex tourist. Much the same, he was always on at to go see Escorts. Annoyed the shit out of me, was never a close friend and have no idea what he does now. As far as i a concerned any man that goes to escorts contributes to sex trafficking.

[@shaurora26]

Real men dont need to pay for intimacy nor sex Good for you

[@missandry2669]

Males ☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️

[@helixmoore7636]

For anybody bashing the young ladies. There would be no need for escorts if the men didnt want this

[@silverlining6259]

“Ladies” should respect themselves.

[@twvdm5745]

Men should to ​@@silverlining6259

[@Mantras-and-Mystics]

​@@bufon63 Or for the men's love of "playing the field." As they say - takes 2 to tango!

[@theshiniestmermaidonearth4283]

​@bufon63 the men are deciding to do this, they don't have a gun to their head. They do it for the love of (women's) intimacy

[@anyexpat]

The women are slags, the men are losers.

[@schoomzer]

Having to be intimate with someone who you just met is repulsive.

[@watermelonineasterhay]

Some people can detach from it easier than others. It's just mechanical to some, everyone has one thing or the other.

[@alukuhito]

The black lady doesn't seem to see the irony. She was mad that she was giving sex for free, having one night stands. The fact is she had the option of saying no, of waiting. Now she's locking herself into a lifestyle where it's much more of a requirement for her to just have sex with strangers.

[@KelRagnar]

It’s disgusting that’s for sure

[@Richie_Alpha_Rabbit69]

@@KelRagnarNot really I do it all the time. A lot of women do too. More women than men these days I’m guessing . I know so many young men who have not been with anyone and reaching 30. I blame single mothers from generation X mainly started this.

[@anyexpat]

Realistically for a decent % of women this will be true and for less than 1% of men. Men do not need to know your life story if you have a banging body and are dtf. Just how nature works.

[@lucieblue2130]

I'm an independent escort of over 10 years and this is a pimp. What complete ballocks!

[@baligabalaga364]

and how's it like? are you tired of it like them or are you enjoying it?

[@cc35506]

Its a pity Alexis should have tried professional modelling. She has unique looks and good facial bone structure and slim body.

[@lahope]

That's a tough business as well and can be degrading

[@RacingPepe]

Between modeling and being an escort, the escort is definitely the way to go.

[@62artemis]

@@RacingPepe I'm wondering why are they doing these kind of jobs? Are really very difficult and kan destroy your selfestime especially when you're doing for the money! These generations of young women are destroying their chances to be loved and respected.

[@carmendelabellemotte7865]

You clearly have no clue about modelling

[@user-qt8sf7vj9p]

With a face like that - no chance

[@Nandini_1.]

Alexis needs help. She seems really damaged, this industry will chew her up and spit her out. It may be “amazing” in her first month, not sure she will be saying or feeling amazing in a couple of years. Sad state of affairs.

[@silviabarellini6041]

serve her right. She is greedy and all she wants is money - Everybody has bad experiences with boyfriends etc but you don't end up being a prostitute and saying that is she has to sleep with men then it is better if she gets paid. Although she has admitted that she was meeting men in tinder for one night stand - What a beautiful person she is, isn't she? Let's see how long that stupid smile will last in her face

[@katierojas8066]

And the “pimp” discussing this business so nonchalantly annoys the hell out of me. He’s a disgusting human.

[@atekle1382]

the digital world has isolated people.

[@staceyboyd4508]

The dog is the smartest one

[@blossom6473]

I thought exactly the same 😅

[@susanmargaretwills6432]

Together with her gay owner

[@1wun1]

For real, doggo was having the wtf typa reactions.

[@Youtubelabelers]

And the most attractive

[@joeytirado4341]

ha ha

[@MrDodgedollar]

Alexis touched on a couple of of things here; “My generation doesn’t know how to date- Tinder/ me,me,me. We don’t know how to consider others feelings and how to relate. “I part from my clients knowing that they haven’t hurt, lied and misled me.” .. Amazing girl.. what a beautiful soul

[@halfbakedproductions7887]

Online dating is a total crapshoot for both genders. It's part of the reason why ever younger men are seeking out paid sexual encounters.

[@TheTwilightBong]

She also said that all that her clients get from her is because she wants to and not because she "has" to. Which i lead about being honest to her clients but mainly to herself. She seems to be a lovely person who knows exactly what she wants.

[@Hellokittyxoxo-v2l]

I actually agree with her on this. I’ve dated a lot of guys and most were very pushy about getting physical quickly. I’ve quit dating altogether because of this but still desire intimacy. I would never do this myself but the concept makes sense. I agree when she says she felt like the guys she dated took something from her. That’s how I’ve felt.

[@cristianmusatoiu4987]

@@Hellokittyxoxo-v2l Stop waisting people's time, money and energy.You are a mass destruction weapon without even realising it.

[@ray19be12]

This breaks my heart, such beautiful women with so much potential , they seem so broken and hurt. I hope they one day realize their worth and true purpose in this world

[@michelletoop1234]

Alexis is all giddy but wait till reality really sets in and watch her mental health deteriorate more. This is the worst work you could do too, it kills you mentally.

[@Daveena1008]

It kills you spirituality too - it's soul destroying.

[@goldgeologist5320]

Scientific papers I have read based on interviews with thousands of ladies, determined there are significant emotional issues.

[@yellaninpoppin9919]

@goldgeologist5320 Been in16 yrs, I'm doing well and I'm richer. I bet you all have a history of mental illness and need to ask permission to take time off from work though.

[@michelletoop1234]

@@yellaninpoppin9919 girl, I’m not shaming it but after a while and when you get to a certain age it does and sometimes to cope you’re in denial.

[@shayfisk-steinbronn1053]

Fantastic content and very enlightening i feel so sad for kat starting at such a young age and now ten years has passed and during that time she has lost her family and has no friends and feels quite lonely as a mom made me want to just give her a hug…

[@terebintful]

Exactly… watching and listening to Kat made me very sad. This girl seems to be very lonely and broken, and still didn’t gave up dreams about starting family. And the story about trying to quit and do “normal” job, but still going back to escort 😢 the fact is, these girls mostly need therapy and support to get out, desperately

[@ellecee453]

That's one of the saddest things I have ever watched. Illuminating, but very sad.

[@tinadeelite.author9412]

Lol misty grey a true story not a love story. Misty Grey Will see you now.

[@ellecee453]

@@tinadeelite.author9412 Not seeing what you think is so funny in what I wrote.

[@tinkabell39]

My feelings exactly...

[@amandaburleson2035]

they dont have a boyfriend so whats the problem 🤪

[@louisebotos7321]

hollow😢

[@linasuleman5470]

£1000 a week means she'll need to have 10 people a week at least as she only gets £105 as the pimp takes 30%, which is £45. That is at least 43 people a month. No thanks! I'll stick with a low paying job and my mental sanity and integrity in check. She's too young to know what she's doing. 😢😢 too many of these sex workers end 🪦because they regret what they do and can't turn back time or forgive themselves. Lord Jesus protect these girls. ✝️

[@klara7655]

come on, not all have pimps! I can tell from experience. and depends on the country and if you are organised as a woman and have studies and a stable job! escort is more side job because of the society's double standards! and who cares for mental sanity of nurses for example??? in most countries NOBODY. where I live they import women rom Asian countries who do the job because you have to be mentally drilled to be nice to everyone and work under pressure. taking care of elderly people is WORSE!! tell me who cares for the people who take care of elder people 24 hours a day??? in some countries you can work as escort in your own appartment or rent appartment with another sex worker. ON YOUR OWN! and you manage your own monex then and pay rent! comdition is to not take drugs, alcohol etc because that f* you up especially as a sex worker!! I find it worse if I am a woman who has sex maybe with max 2 partners and the husband has visited escorts and had sex with various people. and you mostly cant judge after appearance! the worst are the "nice guys" or "nice women"

[@peacheskong2245]

She's so ignorant, desperate and sees absolutely no value in herself it's just heartbreaking.

[@YOTSUBA_desu]

That's maybe 4 hours of work a day (1 hour of getting dressed + commute, another of the actual job, per each client). If you can find a way to shorten your preparation/commute time then it's an even better deal. I'd do that for $1k a week if I was a pretty girl.

[@Daveena1008]

It's sad that these women value money more than their dignity. Having dignity is priceless and probably one of the most noble traits a person can posses, something that cannot be bought with money no matter how much money you have. The material world has ruined people so much that they have lost their connection to their spirituality. Once we die, we leave all our material possessions behind in the world, we can't take them with us. So why sell your soul to the devil for a little cash?

[@YOTSUBA_desu]

@@Daveena1008 define dignity

[@robyn2628]

i love kat. she seems like such a sweetheart. i hope she gets out of the business and finds hapiness.

[@seltzermint5]

she was heartbreaking to watch. I wonder about her life before and after this.

[@MrFreebrowsing]

@@seltzermint5 She was on Jeremy Kyle show a few years back with her twin sister Tried to get out then as far is i remember but hey still doing it today

[@TopHatNat]

She does seem sweet but ewww, 25 clients per week means 3-4 clients a day, 7 days a week. That's a client every few hours. In a day (24hrs), say she sleeps 8hrs a day, that leaves 16hrs, so if she gets 4 clients a day that would be one client every 4 hrs.

[@nfortehbruno2993]

It is hard to comprehend

[@regularbloke7410]

katt will always have clients because she is friendly. this is rare among escorts

[@mightyNaBoO]

How can sleeping with a lot of people be empowering or make you feel good? I would feel gross🤢 but hey, that's just me🤷🏾‍♀️

[@amysmiles9751]

How about that new escort that thinks she can be who she wants to be without making other people happy? delusional, sad

[@NataschaO]

I kind of get it when she says that most of her hookups made her feel bad and worthless so it feels better to at least get paid for it. It's still terribly sad though.

[@yellaninpoppin9919]

Ask these Men you date and marry that question. Tinder is free and sees way more seggs partners than escorts do. Whatever empowers you empowers you. I personally don't like sleeping with BROKE Men for "LOVE" and I only like wealthy Men who can afford my high price. I love my life and feel very empowered.

[@acooksla]

It’s not the sleeping with them that is empowering it’s the money…

[@mightyNaBoO]

@acooksla I guess I get that. Not for me personally, but I can see why it may appeal to some people.

[@zaveeramini9712]

Being an escort has got to be the loneliest job in the whole world.

[@edwinov]

It's lonely at the top

[@zaveeramini9712]

@@edwinov at the top?

[@edwinov]

@@zaveeramini9712 And on top

[@ambzerambzer8800]

Kat is the one who really needs to leave this life behind, she seems very impressionable, and she’s the one that seems childlike, she’s making herself like the things she doesn’t want, it’s crazy because she’s here wanting to be “the girlfriend experience with hugs and neck kisses” but the men want to be rough with her because she used to do porn? But shouldn’t she be in control of setting limits? and have a list of things she flat out won’t do. Something bad happened in her life I can tell, I think she’s staying hoping she’ll get what SHE wants out of it, but instead it seems to be just about the men, I feel like she’s doing it out of guilt or something, like “it’s okay they can hit me and be rough because it’s only for an hour” that way they won’t hit their wives

[@norat4811]

Seems to me, she is doing it for drugs

[@neffy2398]

To me she seems socially awkward and a bit lonely. It’s actually really hard for someone like that to find regular employment especially a woman

[@junelawson5100]

The love of money is the root of all evil. I truly hope all these women are ok and have managed to stop this.

[@AidaShawJ.D.]

It’s a legal job in UK! There’s no shame!

[@fetB]

more like the need

[@leniruess1719]

it's called capitalism and we're almost all slaves to it. I think these women are just trying to navigate capitalism.

[@junelawson5100]

@@AidaShawJ.D. it isn’t legal at all. I never said anything about shame. I feel for them.

[@KabirSingh93327]

No problem if you love money. The problem is when you cannot see some things have higher value than money

[@KenniCampbell-o2c]

I cried seeing this. I wish that Alexis will meet someone and have children who will never have to know nor face the ordeals their mother does, and that they will be the artists, scientists, doctors and lawyers of Alexis' tomorrow, her future.

[@anisha__xob5868]

This feels like a promotion to get into escorting...

[@regularbloke7410]

ha ha

[@michaela1541]

Yeah they're literally glamorising it so much especially the Russian woman making it out like dress up but for adults

[@edwinov]

Yeah, awesome!!

[@asmrambioticfluid9467]

it answered a lot of my questions. Its like all choices in life...neither right nor wrong, good nor bad...and choice is an illusion anyway

[@PreciousPask82]

Totally

[@yarly3180]

These stories never go like: 'Well I had a choice of becoming a doctor or a prostitute and I chose the latter' 😉

[@Katiabulks]

this and the porn industry ruin people

[@standup2982]

Absolutely 💯

[@chem3066]

So true

[@sumpplug]

Exactly, she is not only exploiting herself she is exploiting All of Us as we slide further down the slippery slope of Degeneracy

[@Richie_Alpha_Rabbit69]

I’d be a virgin still if it wasn’t for these ladies. I was teased mercilessly as a 20 year old virgin so got a nice girl to have the best 30 seconds of my life with multiple times in an hour,

[@sookie4195]

Ruins lives on either end.

[@antonydrossos5719]

Alexis' story is basically about a woman who "cut off her nose to spite her face"

[@blondie9422]

Exactly! How the hell did she think this was a better solution??

[@michaelhein2914]

gosh you guys selling your body and pretending is glam what is happening in UK??

[@NomadicNiamh]

enjoy your low paying job! feel sorry for you really

[@jayabena4343]

It's shocking

[@Jaimechann]

Nobody sells their body in the U.K. more than manual labourers.

[@rosie6]

Fr

[@kmm62627]

Worldwide on every level .

[@danadana6759]

Soul crushing documentary. I need to cleanse myself just WATCHING this!

[@Grace0724]

A ‘job’ with PTSD rates higher than the armed forces, 90% pimp-controlled and so meeting the legal definition for trafficking, where psychological consensus is that harm resulting from prostitution is comparable to that from rape or domestic violence and leads to issues such as Dissociative disorders and Anxiety disorders (e.g. fixation, memory loss, panic attacks, flashbacks) to name a few. A ‘job’ where 9/10 women would leave if they had the opportunity, 64% have been threatened with a weapon, 73% have been physically assaulted, and 57% raped, where unique health risks are rife such as herpes, hpv (which causes cervical cancer and is common amongst prostituted women), molluscum, syphilis and condoms don’t protect against any of these! Women in prostitution disproportionately have complex trauma from childhood. Have been in the care system, live in poverty and have experienced child sex abuse. Prostitution is not the oldest profession it’s the oldest oppression. We need to stop stigmatising the women and start placing the stigma rightfully on the men who exploit other human beings for sexual gratification.

[@JewTube001]

cool story

[@ciarakristos111]

Well said! Thank you.

[@MrPausenbrot]

Yes exactly, thank you 👏

[@samsongomah1318]

Riiiiight, always blame the men. That is the cheap and easy way out.

[@Grace0724]

@@samsongomah1318yes blaming the perpetrators is usually how things work.

[@theondebray]

I don't think I'm a prude, but I could not just go into a room with someone I don't know & have sex. I know other men who can, but count me out.

[@KabirSingh93327]

Same bro, I would be unable. I think it's quite normal for any emotionally well adjusted person , to not feel like acting purely like an animal

[@mikeonfreeserve2926]

Yep. It must take a certain type of man. That's not me

[@lahope]

You've never had a one night stand?

[@Grace0724]

You have respect for yourself and others. This is very attractive to women.

[@troigcyusa]

​@@KabirSingh93327 no one is sleeping with you paajeet

[@Rachel-ul8et]

I want to give these women a safe friendship space. A woman’s retreat with multigenerational women who can support them as humans.

[@whatdoyoulivefor735]

good idea

[@emmsue1053]

Its a lovely idea but their standard of living would cease.

[@Rachel-ul8et]

@@emmsue1053 friends? I hope that would change their lives for the better? They just seem so isolated

[@yellaninpoppin9919]

@@Rachel-ul8et We have our own SW private groups. Get a life.

[@Discovering_world-jj1yj]

The irony is that it does not even pay as much. 1k per week is much less than a decent job would pay. Girls imagine that instead of this shit you can get educated and have a job that pays you more.

[@12345flowersun]

What the fuck are u talking about ? All normal minimum wage jobs pay less then £500 a week

[@jrd33]

Average salary in UK is £689 per week before tax. If you are young and unskilled, £1K per week for a part-time job is good money.

[@hhuodod2209]

Thats 4 k take home. That’s very good money

[@swites]

Most of the good respectful guys, actually looking for relationships aren't on tinder. And if they are, generally they're not the guys getting any action. Tinder is just a hook up app where the top 5% or 10% of men are getting all the girls, so they have endless options. So of course they don't want to settle down or have a relationship.

[@bigbadlust4403]

@@adelineredesign The portrait of woman? It's not a film fiction, it's a DOCUMENTARY. It's how they are. Women with zero accountability, long term realistic and healthy goals and a LOVE for easy money. I hope they find a therapist and sort their mental issues.

[@powerplay8355]

Only weak men have relationships

[@Нфт-ц8и]

Absolutely 💯

[@ENachtigal]

SOOO TRUE 👏👏👏

[@troigcyusa]

Lol and women still deny blackpill

[@lynnmarieanderson1744]

I’m grateful that doctor is out there testing these women and I hope he might be attempting to talk some sense into them.

[@ikr2377]

Most drs that I know are very perverted

[@joanofarc8099]

Ha!.....he's cashing in!.....get real!🙄

[@f7e8t9i3]

How about getting to know the guy you’re dating before offering him sex first. Getting to know his personality first before acquainting yourself with his body parts. He’s not going to instantly fall in love with you after having sex….that does not mean he is getting to know what is between your head only what is between something else and that is not enough a lot of times to sustain a relationship. Unfortunately a lot of women have seen “Pretty Woman” and it has almost become a fairytale to aspire to. Sweet tempered escort meets smart, educated business tycoon who she falls in love with and he changes her life forever. That is sadly not real life.

[@yellaninpoppin9919]

Women don't offer Men sex. Men ask for sex before wanting to get to know the Woman. Now that Women ask for something for it- it's a problem. Stop the cap.

[@bro918]

Yeah, I dont know why so many women fall for that

[@TigerBoyX15]

Women need to teach Men..No there are Boundaries..In UK there is No dating...no offer of dinner date etc...the Chancer Males want everything for Free...they don't even pay for their own children .walk away.. Society here is Cheap and throwaway..🌼🏹🏹

[@Yulia.chandrika]

I comented the same, I am from her same generation and no, we don't have to act like we are some powerless puppets of whoever moves the " generation" strings, and just obey any imposed trend. You always have power of decision no matter where or when you are born. Sadly the preassure to fit in, make people lose authenticity and do things they don't wanna do. some people even think its not even possible to meet people if you don't behave literally liek a escort and give s alt first date. This is not true at all but you create it, if you believe so. I went on dates and did absolutely nothing, and with my now husband we waited for a very long time, before we did something. it's perfectly possible, and its a huge brainwash to think that somehow people are not human beings anymore and that you have to " offfer the meat " like a business, just to get to know somebody

[@Dimi.cosmic]

Exactly. She is hurt and broken, she thinks she can just offer sex. That is her own problem, not man's problem.

[@bonnie280]

unfortunately the brown girl, doesnt know her identity yet, the pale pink lips, the lighter foundation, the fake blue contacts and the straight hair. she feels she needs to be something shes not to be accepted, i understand because i was her thinking i had to be closer to white to fit in, i took me at 30 to discover me, she def needs some guidance.

[@baligabalaga364]

i thought the same

[@eryabolonha]

Not judging but Alexis and Kat should really consider therapy.

[@edwinov]

You are judging

[@stevensimon2633]

"Sorry, I'm not going to kiss you. I've got a cold..." Riiiiiiiight. Lol

[@glazersout4272]

"Don't come too close..." ***proceeds to hug her***

[@Daveena1008]

He doesn't want to give her his cold, but he is Ok with her selling her body and risking getting STDs. Don't you just love the hypocrisy. I think he is more scared that he'll catch diseases off of her than the other way round, hence why he refused to kiss her.

[@CraigMansfield]

old spunky breath :D

[@timjensen6968]

What does that mean?

[@cuteopiax1259]

This is just so depressing.

[@Ishtarthemoon]

she lost friends due to jealousy?? that's a wild assumption. what's there to be jealous of? i'm glad she's happy and enjoying it, i hope she doesn't regret the decision too much later on.

[@MauroPena-n8e]

When it's better to get out sooner rather than later, it's best never to get in. ❤

[@edwinov]

I'd love to get in Alexa

[@FSD999]

21:58.. Her saying "I slept with so many guys and it was all crap and I felt so shit... I wanna do it for money" is such a sad thing to say. I hope she found what she was looking for.

[@vaxtangbrekashvili]

Something's wrong with Alexis, she probably has some deep traumas, instead of being an escort she needs professional therapist I guess and the love for money at this level that you loose yourself is disgusting and sickening.

[@ciarakristos111]

That agency owner guy in Cardiff looks like he's had a dodgy facelift. His upper face is so tight and literally doesn't move! He looks like David Gest. 🤣

[@JohnSmith-lk8cy]

OMG she is a child. If that was my young daughter I would be heartbroken. So sad.

[@edwinov]

I'd be her first client.

[@si45megamera]

​@@edwinovshameful

[@edwinov]

@@georgina9842 We are all children. You can be an adult child.

[@timjensen6968]

Yeah. It's terrible that she's going to be able to afford necessities & spend more time with the child.

[@ginafinch3307]

To let ones body to be abused and/or beaten by another for the money (or not) is so damaging to the soul. We need to love, care, protect and listen to our body and it's visible that Kath is not looking forward to go through this experience. She shuts down her body's emotions and feelings, the most important barometer to guide her in life.

[@danip6648]

well said, I agree 100 %!

[@katierojas8066]

Exactly. No amount of money is worth someone degrading you. These women have more than likely been traumatized at some point in their lives and suffer from low self esteem.

[@danip6648]

@@katierojas8066 true, it is so so sad and so soul destructive.

[@YOTSUBA_desu]

I've paid good money to get roughed up in martial arts, so doing what is essentially very light bjj and actually getting paid for it seems like a great deal. I would do this if I were a pretty girl.

[@ginafinch3307]

@@YOTSUBA_desu there is a big difference to imagine being in this experience in a woman's body (if you're a man) and to be, like you say, "roughed up" physically as compared to being roughed up sexually. When you're in martial arts fight, you have an opponent, while in here woman gives her body to do with as the client likes. Although I understand there are some rules . We all choose our experience at soul level for it to grow.

[@NowAbundant]

Oldest profession on Earth will always have a new employee and will never run out of clients, business as usual.

[@marigolds49]

💯

[@AlexaAntonov]

I wanna be a friend so bad to Kat- she seems like the sweetest girl ever.

[@zoelafantaisie9287]

It's the world's oldest OPPRESSION, not profession. That young girl hasn't told anyone in her life about stepping into the world of exploitation and wants to have a secret "double life" and she lets a film crew follow her? Ok, sure Jan. This MUST be real! LOL OMG Stories is the correct title.

[@angrydonutface7420]

Oppression is everywhere. I don't know any women who haven't been abused and assaulted by men multiple times, and lots of employers pay so badly that people can barely afford to live. It's all oppression. Escorting is risky, but so is everything else.

[@zoelafantaisie9287]

@@angrydonutface7420 Not that many jobs where the risk is being beaten and injured for life and/or murdered. There's just no comparison to being a c*m dumpster and other demeaning jobs. Allowing yourself to be used like a toilet is the lowest of the low. I don't judge any woman for feeling she has no other choice and a lot of young girls are groomed and beaten into doing it and then can't get out but it's another thing to deny that they have horrible, degrading, empty lives. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. Men are the reason too. So when women stand up and defend mens' rights to womens' bodies, it makes me very, very upset. We should be screaming from the rooftops to make it stop.

[@troigcyusa]

Then ban onlyfans

[@JewTube001]

ban jobs and wages. you live the same system as the rest of us.

[@cookie_dough_hangover]

The fact that some feminists claim it's just a job and liberating.

[@ConsciousFilms3]

This is a very well-made documentary that enables the audience to really hear the varied sides and voices of those in the sex industry today. Well done and blessings to the women.

[@AidaShawJ.D.]

Agreed! Every one of their docs is professionally produced and reported!

[@joannahart1604]

❤

[@SamanthaYelena]

Have nothing again sex workers but I wish more for Alexis. She seems so sweet.

[@757Princess]

Morality aside, sex work is dangerous. I wonder how she is doing now? I wouldn’t be surprised if she became very successful

[@nigel4776]

Give her a few years, it won't last

[@yellaninpoppin9919]

More like what? You civilians are miserable and broke.

[@yellaninpoppin9919]

Celebrating my 16th year. Love my life and wouldn't trade it for your boring one. @@nigel4776

[@yellaninpoppin9919]

Being a mob boss is too but don't you all celebrate that? All the bank robbing shows out now in the past 4 years? @@757Princess

[@melt2947]

Alexis is in fairy land. She's very naive, I’m afraid for her.

[@sunkissed4261]

Be safe, do your own background check, and don't use an agency. Agencies are basically "pimps".

[@onesong2001]

pimps have their use if they give protection.

[@MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps]

Part of the reason people use pimps IS for safety.

[@JewTube001]

that's the whole point dummy. the pimp does all that work for them. otherwise you'll need to do checks, security, advertising, pay rent and all of that boring work

[@danniellejohnson448]

@@MeHoyMinoy-cv3psIf Alexis was to get hurt or 🪦 in the clients home what can her pimp do then?

[@Endwarpowers]

Tragic. We are living in a nightmare society.

[@AidaShawJ.D.]

Nothing tragic about this. It is the oldest job known to human history. If no one is getting hurt, who cares?

[@Endwarpowers]

@@AidaShawJ.D. From start to finish this video depicts a tragic set of situations. For example, money is valued more highly than love or relationships, purely transactional interactions are portrayed as preferable to authentic relationships, and desperation, lack of self worth and predatory exploitative attitudes are present. Many people are getting hurt, and many people care. It is not a black and white situation, but none of this should ideally be. It’s born out of suffering, greed and ignorance. Love goes out to all the people involved.

[@fetB]

you might wann look into history a little bit

[@therocknrollcook]

@@Endwarpowers Your comments are insightful. I concur with both. Peace . . .

[@Schrodingers_Kat]

Indeed. Except it’s hardly new. It has always been this way.