Who said "I love you" first?? - Q&A Round 2 - Pt 1

[@NeoKirchBaby]

Charisma blushes a lot and Cole makes her blush all the time. You guys are so cute. My husband doesn't get upset at me either. I love it personally lol

[@fionagal123]

You both are so sweet together, genuine shyness Charisma. Cole is open for you both. It takes two to argue, just communicate what you both are feeling at the given time and no issues would last beyond 2 seconds.

[@rachelr.n.3563]

Hey Neo KirchBaby ..we watch the same channels!!! I love you NK!!!

[@rachelr.n.3563]

Neo KirchBaby....Hey

[@MsChicoro]

I'm learning a lot from you. Yesterday, I saw a gentleman in a wheelchair. I made eye contact with him and I smiled and said, "Hello!". He immediately responded with a smile and a delighted, "Hello!" back to me. His beautiful smile made my day! I always equated 'looking' at someone in a wheelchair as staring at someone in a wheelchairs. I was trying to be polite by not staring, in the past. Now, I realize that it's okay to look at people and smile. Thank you for helping to demystify what life is like being a quadriplegic person. I appreciate the education and the information you provide.

[@vmmcknight2501]

Cool

[@mardyandie3027]

This is wonderful! Keep it up. God bless you😊

[@kellyboyce2180]

Ms.Chicoro that's brilliant statement. Like you I thought it was polite to look. Now because of what you said changed my outlook. Thank you

[@T3Hits]

That's really awesome!

[@colorfulcodes]

Same, I never look at disabled people because I thought it was offensive. I should be more friendly.

[@ginamcintyre806]

My 17 year old daughter has Von Willebrands disease. Ehlers Danlos syndrome and Pots. She often worries about dating. She worries that no one will want to date her with all of her health issue's. She watches the two of you and has hope that one day she will find the love that the two of you share. I love you both and you make hard day's easier for my daughter. Thank you💗

[@preciouslove1521]

She will find someone one day in Jesus name 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👍🏽

[@ginamcintyre806]

@@preciouslove1521 Thank you so very much💗

[@ginamcintyre806]

@aneshiacbundy No we don't. I'll check them out today. Thank you.

[@alicemensahmensah3147]

God will give her a kind hearted man

[@jessmbaby]

Do y'all watch Jessica Kellgren-Fozard? She has a few disorders, including pots. She's married and her videos are fun and entertaining. You might enjoy them.

[@edithlewis4]

Why am I sitting here smiling harder than C&C? Because that's what these two make people do! I love you guys!

[@oluwafemimoses]

That's what real love does lights up everything... So it's fine to smile more than them, love is infectious...

[@mirandabisnou1307]

Me TOO 😊😊😊😁😁😁😁😍😍

[@7oh7peace]

The PDA doesn't look bad on camera . Don't be embarassed Charisma, you all are a lovely couple.

[@7oh7peace]

Because you all are so compatible people don't really notice that you are doing PDA. The PDA is not more noticeable than birds flying in the trees.

[@olivemoses453]

@@coleandcharisma we love the PDA...dont stop please!!!!

[@tanikkapadgatte2685]

Cole said... I'm not use to a girl changing her hair every month 😆😆😆😆😆 Welcome to our world Cole😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😉🙌😉

[@shakiraragland625]

🤣😂😂

[@Tnc874]

💕

[@Mytake584]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nitamercado5532]

Black girl magic

[@sherh3435]

I'm italian and a little black not sure at the very moment how much percentage, I love having or needing to change my hair alot.....it's cool....,

[@anneandersen1797]

Team Cole for more PDA on camera. Plus seeing Charisma blush is super cute.

[@ireneremo7]

Few days ago, i happened to pass by your channel ...Cole and Charisma. Just by watching from one episode to another how your love story started really had a smile on my face. You both look sooo cute together. Then i also realized that sometimes in our lives things and situations happen for reasons we do not know. Probably because someone is meant for us to meet at some place and time. Despite Cole's disability, he's loved unconditionally by you Charisma. Really love knows no boundaries...Color is never an issue as long as you both love and accept each other and that's what makes it perfect. Thank you for sharing your love. God bless you both on your journey. Love here from the Philippines....

[@queenbthyfunnyself7222]

Happy 10 months Cole and Charisma!!🎉 I love you guys so much!! Keep Rockin and Rolling!!!💞👑🐝

[@kinyangbujonke7520]

I love the concern serious face charisma put on when ever Cole is answering questions. She is always concerned in everything dt has to do with her guy.

[@ruberthablackman3949]

I was part of the first Q&A so this one is was really insightful. Both of you inspire me to be a better person. I really love the positivity

[@loralee1484]

Can there be a Q&A video with both of your parents? I think it would be interesting to hear how life changed for them after your accident. And about the relationship between both families. Do the struggles bring you all closer together?

[@edithwilson9945]

Charisma, we love the PDA because Cole is not vulgar about it. I am team Cole on this, but I love the two of you. I am new to your channel, a friend tod me about the two of you.

[@loralee1484]

You two are just adorable together! Thanks for another Q&A video.

[@royhowdyshell241]

You would love New Zealand, my wife and I went there a couple of years ago and we fell in love with that country. It is a must go.

[@koopnut]

Charisma, MARRY THIS MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@nagawasharita2488]

My teeth was out for the 13 minutes. I love the editing, the light. Please I need part 2,3,4,5 of round two coz this was nice

[@nicholejoseph1780]

I am so thrilled to be a part of all this love and positivity

[@jeannieves6275]

so sweet 🌹 Mother Kelly has a lovely voice

[@misst.e.a.187]

You two are just so meant for each other. God bless your relationship forever.

[@Shannon_luvscars]

I’m a new subscriber. You two are a breath of fresh air ❤️ I could only hope to find someone as funny as Cole who’s affectionate and thoughtful and then with Charisma’s positivity and genuine beauty! You both are a God send to each other ❤️ 💕

[@kimani76h72]

I love Cole's comment about her hair, one day this look another day a different look, I laughed out loud so hard. Because that's a African American woman life, we change it up a lot, at least I do. 🎇🎆🎉 But yes to the braids🎊 u look fabulous in braids Charisma👌🙌💜

[@olafl7]

Yeah, that was funny!

[@jeannetteduette6704]

Charisma you also looked good in the natural.You have beautiful hair texture and the big looped earrings

[@redrose2499]

yes u guys will live a long and productive life together because u love, respect, and care for each other alot i just love the dedication u have towards each other its imspiring but always remember with god anything is possible . loving u guys from trinidad god bless u both

[@tonibackus1438]

Well I LOVE the PDA on camera.

[@anneandersen1797]

Team Cole for more PDA.

[@anneandersen1797]

@@coleandcharisma Go Cole. Lol. It's ok Charima, it brings more sweetness to the channel. Lol

[@valeriegonsahn9717]

Roll with Cole & Charisma Absolutely! It ingratiates you all to us even more especially when Charisma reciprocated.

[@kimberlyjohnson8078]

Charisma you mentioned that you like verbal affirmations maybe Cole likes PDA anytime. I love seeing people showing what love looks like; it is gentle, kind and sweet. Thanks for sharing that little part of yourselves.

[@nicholejoseph1780]

I say they both need to meet each other in the middle.

[@mariaelliott706]

You guys are great. Here’s to the continued growth of your relationship! ❤️👍👍

[@nnekaowens1325]

I don’t normally comment on much, but you guys inspire me so much! Keep doing what you do, keeping YOUR goal in mind. Don’t deviate from your plans even when things get tough, press through it will all payoff.

[@mardyandie3027]

Nneka Owens, great advice! Please share the inspiration with your family and friends. Let's see if we can get to 20,000 subscribers this week😊 God bless you and your beautiful week ahead❤

[@CrashN2U2011]

Ms. Kathy, here. Y'all two are really precious. Every time i watch a video I have a huge smile on my face.❤

[@triniintoronto240]

Happy 10-month milestone, Cole and Charisma!!!!! I don't comment much on videos, as a matter of fact, only started doing so through your vlogs. Just feel a strong need to share with you some impressions I felt as I prayed for you this morning. Cole, you are truly an amazing guy! Not only have you been blessed with a brilliant mind but you are a light that shines brightly. God has truly called you and is going to use you mightily as an ambassador for the SCI community. From the last couple of videos it is clear you have a great ability to not only explain the factors impacting persons with SCI clearly, eloquently and in layman's terms for all to understand (eg. use of your wrist to pick up things), but also to deal with sensitive subjects with ease and not afraid to show vulnerability (eg. dealing with depression and thoughts of self-harm). I know you would not have chosen to suffer your injury for yourself, but God is going to use it for the greater good. Look at how He has provided you with one of your greatest needs...Charisma! As you said, just as much as you put out positive energy you need to get back, He has provided this amazing soul to walk beside you and provide that support. The Lord is truly ordering your footsteps, Cole and Charisma!!!! Not to mention your wider family circle!! How is it that two family from 2 different socio-economic backgrounds, races and cultures could meet and be of such the same spirit....love and joy? God is at work. Also, should I mention the physical beauty of all...Cole, Charisma and both sets of parents? God knows that the fickle world is attracted to physical beauty so He even took care of that! And finally, from the comments, I know you are backed by a strong faith community of subscribers who are praying for you. Remember to acknowledge God in all your ways and He certainly will continue to direct your path and guide you in the way you should go! Thank you for being such a blessing! Love you both!

[@mercysibanda9332]

I am also praying for them in my prayers daily. Our God is not deaf He will hear our prayers

[@olafl7]

I touch and agree! My church and I pray for them on a consistent bases! We know God is working a mighty testimony in and through them and our excited to have front row seats to it all!

[@jeannieves6275]

Cole is crazy about Charisma Earth Angel😇

[@daanab5977]

I recently came across your channel by accident and I've been hooked. I normally don't write comments but the both of you are so amazing I love you both and I just love the way the two of you look at each other...pure love. We need a lot more Cole and Charismas in this world. #purepositivity, #dimples, #smiles, #blueeyes, #personality. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@NeoKirchBaby]

Oh wow! You have been natural for that long? I started mine February 2015. I think my husband likes me on braids too. I personally don't like braids because I am that weird one that has an itchy skulp and I literally hate that feeling. I barely braid my hair now lol

[@Aj36691]

Neo KirchBaby I had the itchy scalp problem with braids too. Try rinsing the braiding hair with apple cider vinegar. There are plenty of KZbin video tutorials. It really helps.

[@inspirebymikaeli3502]

Neo KirchBaby Hi as a former print model for Luster Pink Protection. “The Luster Girl” and licsenced cosmologist I can say try this for your scalp with natural hair. We all have oil glands sebaceous glads, but you need to massage that scalp to get them activated. Put your head between your legs while sitting down and massage that scalpfor 5 mins! Second, use 1/4 part Braggs Mother Apple Cider vinegar other 2 1:/2 parts water in spray bottles do spray on scalp message in every where especially where it itches. The Apple cider will kill bacteria and restore scalp. Shampoo hair pay attention to scalp and do your conditioner routine maybe a plastic cap so body heat can absorb conditioner. Rinse cool rinse, last one cold to close cuticle and pores. Then see the difference you will ❤️ Whether you have braids, straight hair, or curly this will help. My journey started in 2014 for natural hair, and I did no big chop. I just transitioned from relax to natural by cutting off as my hair grew. Now my hair is down to below my mid back. My goal is tail bone and one more big add so I will get in touch some good companies I use their products and get my National Magazine ad. I didn’t do it for an ad. I did it because it’s a healthy way for hair growth. I finally blow dried and straighten for a big event a week ago. Will switch up for 8 months to four straight or only when I choose straight hair blown outer I will set and get under dryer because blow drying and constant flat ironing is very damaging if done too much! Blessings!

[@Koffa03]

I love this Q & A answers! The braids response from Cole is so genuine and i love his humor about it. My 13 year old daughter goes to a private school with maybe about 12 African Americans in the entire school. She said some of her friends, caucasians/hispanic and other schoolmates think the braids is her real hair. So, my dear Cole, we understand your thoughts in that aspect. I just love your relationship, the love and respect is glaring.

[@eatfastlive2870]

you guys are such a perfect fit for one another. it is so cute watching you together. Charisma absolutely was given the right name. she is overflowing with it. she should look into doing some local acting gigs. she would be great in commercials.

[@andreawaite7978]

Smile you got that right. Eyes and personalities. You guys rock.

[@MissUmuch1000]

You guys are adorable. Love your videos. And by the way I've noticed that Cole gets SUPREME enjoyment in making Charisma blush which is so cute!😍😍

[@Jill1228]

Cole, I guess you learned that “black women do blush”, because you made the sistah sitting next to you blush a few times! California is an amazing place. We lived in the San Francisco Bay Area for 5 years and I miss it! Momma Kelly is a great moderator. Loving the Q &A. Congratulations on hitting 18k subbies. Enjoy your Sunday ❤️

[@kck9862]

Y’all are so dang cute together!

[@my-avajourney4711]

I'm glad your channel is growing so quickly! ♫

[@melvamedwinter1287]

This channel was recommended by a friend and after watching this Q&A a few minutes ago and reading some of the comments, I subscribed. Cole made some valid points Charisma. You both can't be upset at the same time because nothing gets solved that way. Also, don't EVER go to bed angry. Charisma, you should sometimes take the initiative to address the issue instead of Cole always being the one to do so, this shows him how invested you are and your willingness to make peace. I enjoyed this discussion and am curious to know the reaction of Cole's mother behind the camera. You both seem very much in love and willing to work through everything so this is great. I am happy to follow you guys on your journey.

[@madisilver460]

Hey guys. More Q&As. I love learning about you two. Yall are just too cute. Glad you guys keep some aspects of your relationship private-as you should. Nice video.

[@princeaghamiogie7154]

Cole l love your spirit. God knows why you involved in the accident. You are an inspiration to a lot of people. Kudos to both of you. Charisma, your laughter can light up a dark environment

[@Grace4DA]

Sending good thoughts and love your way. May you be blessed with many more loving years together. Love y’all.

[@alisiahood71]

I absolutely love watching ur channel. Love the positivity and I to am in an interracial relationship. Keep up the awesome content!

[@lisacox3750]

@Roll with Cole & Charisma...Charisma, if it makes you feel better I'm not big on PDA either. It's nice to see every now and then. Yet, I think it's all up to the individual. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable on camera. What you have with Cole off camera is all that matters (and he seems happy).

[@sharoncampbell3726]

You guys makes me laugh and happy whenever I watch you guys. So happy for you guys

[@fitzy2]

Enjoyed this Q&A....Charisma, PDA is only noticed when you try so hard to duck and dodge it...relax and enjoy!...And cudos to Cole’s Mom for helping with the vlogs and being so very supportive...Congrats on your ten months of togetherness.

[@dav3282]

I said this before and I will say it again. Such a beautiful couple!

[@taoismyname]

I am still with you wishing you well. And I will alway be with you all. God bless Cole and Charisma!

[@nor4277]

Her spirit seems so amazing as well as she is very pretty woman ,I can see why people love your channel .

[@tamikkabrown2369]

My wife and I have been together 10 years. And we are still working on our communication. But it's all worth it as long you continue to talk and have respect. Thank guys for sharing your lives with us. Happy 10 month anniversary!

[@candacesmith5572]

Cole is frisky its hilarious. You guys are sooo cute together. You can tell there is a friendship with respect and love. God bless your union.

[@shazj1842]

I savour these videos and make them a special part of my Sunday. I watch with a big grin on my face, then I read the comments from other subscribers and that's the icing on the cake, so generous and loving it's a real treat to read, they reflect who you are and what you share.Your families must be so proud. Stay blessed.

[@rosemarienarcisse4756]

Hello there beautiful couple! Yes, Cole and Charisma what you have between you is absolutely amazing and lovely. This is divine🌈🙏🏽 Appreciate you dearly. Cole’s mom is a wonderful mom. Love you all!

[@lindawalker5144]

You guys are so precious and absolutely refreshing to watch.

[@mardyandie3027]

19,000 down!🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈 Way to go Cole & Charisma❤❤ We are VERY happy to be celebrating with you guys.😍😍 God bless you and your loved ones. Congrats again😁🎈

[@nicholejoseph1780]

I am third.

[@melvamedwinter1287]

I am 4th

[@inspirebymikaeli3502]

Mardy Andie Mandy you are great! I have seen your diligence and effort! I hope God sends me a Mandy as we prepare for my channel reboot and lots of inspiring videos. Lots of great subbies who love to be inspired! As a believer and an artist I know it’s a blessing to lift up someone else and you do that for them. You are special! Blessings! -M

[@mardyandie3027]

Inspirebymikaeli : God bless you for your kind words💞 I admire these two young people for the positive impact they're having on the people who watch their vlogs. And I support them wholeheartedly because I believe that God's intention for their lives is even bigger than they know... I would love to visit your channel when it's rebooted😊 Thanks again💞 God bless you my dear. Be safe!

[@Lonetress]

Love from Uganda. Cole I love your positivity and outlook towards life. Charisma you are a gem.

[@sandro_m04]

Charisma is soooo beautiful!!! Her Melanin is popping!!!!!!

[@elizabethd.7662]

Love the channel! Mom asking the questions is a bit uncomfortable but cool as well. Love seeing the family support.

[@cassysmith3148]

You two warm my 💓

[@stephaniebowens9958]

......and mines.

[@gracegregory1077]

Just came across this couple last week, now I can't stop watching them. They are amazing 😍😍👏

[@Cheryl-wx8ty]

Yes...💖 like having my morning coffee. I love the way you two communicate with each other, you have amazing eye contact with each other. Especially Cole, Charisma gets the cute shy look. 😊Love the video. My favorite was the answer(s) to the i love you question 😂

[@deypeeping]

You guys always make me smile and be cheesy when watching.. you guys are radiant

[@trafficcontrol2420]

Cole is so handsome and Charisma is beautiful 😍

[@user-so6iv6wr1u]

I really really like the Q & E questions. Both you guys r right. Your intimate relationship is for both u guys, not for other to know. Also one key to a good relationship is “communications” is the back bone of every couples. 👍❤️

[@mrs.phantomhive4445]

Omg I'm from the Dominican Republic, I was so excited when Charisma mentioned it! Great video you guy's love your content always!

[@judithjackson1182]

i always smile through your videos. You both are so cheerful.

[@davidmurray2829]

love you two fellow Virginians. Your positive energy really brings a smile.

[@sandrastar8141]

Great Q&A communication is the key to any relationship and it’s great that y’all understand that love the video keep them coming.

[@claubettehudson3458]

Beautiful to hear and see you all again, you have a great spirit and love of life and each other no problem being shy makes it more awesome, ten months happy anniversary and much more in the future. You are so open and fun going but focus you all are destined for great things, it doesn't matter who said 'I love you first, once you keep saying it to each other that matters, I'm 72 years and been married for 46years my husband died last year I have been there just saying just keep on doing what you do be strong and Roll On Blessings, Love to you and your families 💞

[@jenniferlouis677]

Good Sunday Morning to all. Love you both. Thanks to you and the parents. From NY.

[@lisamarcelle4416]

You guys are killing me waiting for those videos but I’m so happy this morning to see one. God bless you and y’all family.

[@constance788]

Charisma kiss that man 😂😂😂😂 You guys are too cute & funny!

[@anneandersen1797]

Yeah.

[@lydiamacharia2443]

Love you guys

[@joycelockett7032]

You guys are just so darling together. I simply love how affectionate Cole is towards Charisma. May God continue to bestow his richest blessings upon you!...By the way Charisma your dad( the wanderer) is so freaking hilarious!!!. Love his spirit!! #clemdaddyyourock!

[@NeoKirchBaby]

Why California? Please come to Arizona lol

[@valariegriffin462]

A beautiful video. Very honest, open and yet still private. Yes please keep your private lives private.

[@koopnut]

Obviously the love is there. The need to be together is there. Why keep waiting to marry. Enjoy life now. No one is promise tomorrow. What is the purpose of waiting. Cole, MARRY THIS WOMAN NOW!!!!!!!!!! You will never be more happy. Charisma, close this deal. We all know that smile is heart driven. GOD has your back!

[@koyaweltv9065]

For me to make me happy whenever i feel down, I used to watch your videos and it makes my day better and completely happy. Thank you guys ❤️🙌

[@nicoleflemming3362]

Blessed Sunday guys lots of love and support from Trinidad great weekend vibing positive love love Trini love and more love

[@selesteg9419]

Charisma Charisma!! First of all let me just say that you looked so beautiful little mama! Just a natural bc you don't really wear makeup... Secondly, we both have super sweet guys, but I too feel a little weird w PDA..it's ok though😉. . At church this morning, I got in the prayer circle and added you guys.. So many blessings coming... And guess what? Me and my special home health client/close friend "Scotty" decided he definitely wants to go to our State Fair this week. I don't think he would have wanted to, until he saw Cole's experience so THANK YOU BOTH SO MUCH!!😀😀😀.. We both didn't think he would be able to get on any rides (until he saw Cole) Now it's time to 🤘🤘 CELEBRATE!! Lots of love from NC!!

[@sandydunn8787]

Thank you for sharing your all's life and love story

[@thrivewhileenduring6676]

Thanks for the info. Nice Q&A. My dad has a regular power chair so it's nice to see all the options and info you guys provide.

[@mariemiller187]

Hello guys.. You make an awesome couple. The way Cole looks at you does my souls well.

[@brookegoddard4273]

You look sooooo good with braids! Def my fave of your hairstyles :)

[@kimbambale]

Aweee.. the vlog was really sweet.. we love you guys!!

[@cassysmith3148]

Good morning,my favorite couple,happy sunday,love you guys.

[@oceaniacolbert9709]

Whew !here's to Cole and charisma keep having a great life forever your loving fam fan

[@katelukwaro6797]

Love from Kenya

[@bettyk9771]

Me too!

[@janekarume83]

kate Lukwaro Me three

[@_M.K._]

Me four

[@wanjikugitonga4435]

me five

[@bettyk9771]

Hilarious kenyans!

[@mirlahernandezvera3622]

Hello my guys 🖐🏽mi favorite couple.❤️. Happy 10 months of relationship, that always have a lot of love ❤️. Those words should NEVER be missing in a relationship "I love you" so that love is still alive in the couple. I liked very much to know a little more about you two, your love is up through the air, they make a beautiful couple 😍. Cole is right no matter what others say, express your love when your heart tells you. I want to see you always together and happy and smiling. It is always a pleasure to enter your channel and see so much joy, I love seeing those looks of love and see how Cole turns all red when you say something to him 😍, you make us all very happy with your happiness. The blessing of God is always present in yours relationship and in yours decisions so that everything is as good as it has been up to now. Yessssss 18, 771 subscribers 🎉👏🏾🎉👏🏾. I love you so much ❤️🌙🔙

[@randyharrison4065]

You two are so cute! I wish the whole world could be as positive as the two of you. 😊

[@Allthingslatanya]

I love C&C. Happy 10th month anniversary🍷❤

[@shaunlundathomas9284]

I watched all your videos in one day. Charisma your smile is contagious. Beautiful couple. I am looking forward for more videos 😍

[@sugarbear9118]

What a beautiful story regarding your relationship! This is so sweet!!!

[@tanyadixon7980]

We subbies love you too! You are role models in so many positive ways; Thank you ❤️

[@MsChicoro]

Congratulations on 10 months!

[@haleybaby2893]

I love this, thanks for the transparency

[@frannygirl6045]

First ❤️ love you both, such an inspiration to many. Keep up the positive messages!! Love from London uk 💁🏾

[@fdoctor79]

This was soo cute and informative. Stay true to who you are, that's what we love!

[@paula0622]

Happy Sunday !!! Have a blessed week. Love you guys!!

[@luciedunbar865]

I just saw the Dedication to Cole video and I cried like a baby. What a beautiful community you live in! Amazing friends and family too. Has Charisma seen it? I bet she will (or did) cry.

[@omotolaniadeleye2338]

You guys are very inspiring and amazing. Love you both😍😍😍😘