Why Narcissistic Abuse Victims Feel Overwhelmed by Daily Tasks

[@Durhamcricket543]

Friends think after a year, I should be over this. They just don’t understand.

[@TimO8157]

It’s been 3 years I think. When she kicked me out I thought I was gonna be happier, but it took some time to realize that I completely lost my identity. I’ve been retrieving shattered pieces of myself ever since. You’ll get better at “your” pace.

[@spotthenarcissist]

How are you coping now?

[@ScottBecker-c1k]

It's a long journey. I didn't get this way overnight, so I'm not going to recover overnight. One of the first steps that I had to take was to realize that it was ok to be myself.

[@kiwi_kirsch]

i grew up amidst a covert sister and a grandiose father, my mother and me being autistic. what i thought was love led me to many further narcissists in my life, and at 44, i am in trauma recovery. many do not understand :(

[@ScottBecker-c1k]

Believe me, I feel your pain!

[@andreahilburn799]

I grew up being berated and abused by a narcissistic mother. And she began leaning on me with all her problems as I got older. It's been years, but I still have some of these traits! She overwhelmed me and it did a lot of damage.

[@VilleGardian]

Saaaame, except i had to be her therapist since being 4 years old while simultaneously being abused by her....years later she wondered why i have no self esteem. And after i came to see her after 3 years (events of the past 4 years) she has just kicked me out. I was at home for less than 48 hours and then she kicked me out. Now she insists i come home after 2 years like the true narcissist she is. The hate i feel towards her is indescribable

[@ScottBecker-c1k]

Oh, I know the feeling O so well. Thank God I am no longer in those situations, and I am getting help. However, I am still suffering the aftermath.

[@VilleGardian]

The aftermath, we are broken by these people. I definitely am

[@GeriRogers]

Yea. Me too!

[@spotthenarcissist]

Can you relate to this? For you, can you focus doing your daily tasks?

[@dannypolska]

fuck no

[@rocky1raquel]

This was a great compilation! And no…executive function is impaired

[@raven4090]

No, I can't focus on anything. I can identify with everything you mentioned in this video. Especially the feeling like being a burden. My family ground that one into me. Thanks for the solution suggestions.

[@weronikaasomsson2404]

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[@veronikaljungberg7149]

@@spotthenarcissist now that im Low contact due to shared custody, it is much easier. The stress and anxiety is almost gone completly! But I do struggle with flashbacks, occasionally bad ones that can disrupt a whole day. My ability to get things done are ok at this point but not where they should be ❤️‍🩹🌸

[@LadyNariel]

This sounds a lot like ADHD. I have experienced narcissistic abuse, and I also have ADHD and autism, along with a couple of autoimmune conditions. All of these conditions share similar symptoms, and at this point, I can't determine which condition is causing what, or if it's the combination of all of them that intensifies the shared symptoms. Additionally, I've had mental health issues since adolescence, specifically dysthymia (also known as persistent depressive disorder) and generalized anxiety disorder. Being alive and trying to get better is incredibly exhausting. 😞

[@dingding4898]

I just wrote exactly that!

[@veronikaljungberg7149]

I thought I had adhd or autism, my abusive friend bullied me for every social mistake i made and triangulated my peers to bully and exclude me givning me social anxiety and Low self esteem which futhered my social isolation and hindered my social experience and making friends. She would also hint and covertly insinuate that i was neurodivergent(although that term didnt exist then) . It took me 20 years to realize that she was the main reason for my cptsd (i was also abandoned and neglected/ without parental support). I thought I was the problem. Its all so crazy, be safe out there.

[@ValerieS-jq4vw]

It’s very very hard. I managed to managed 3 kids, two amazing corporate jobs full and part time. Stay positive while sleeping no more to 4 hours a night… However after everything, I am 120k in debt, alone taking care of the kids and it’s so hard to focus and just do daily tasks right now. The crazy part was, is that I felt like I have two separate lives. When with him and when without. I was so stupid to let him see me and the kids last weekend and ended up being abused in front of the kids. No more.

[@terrydyer2490]

Ive been no contact for over 4 years and still procasternate and dont have any motivation. But my story is a little different from most.

[@louiseholt3580]

Just took a blow today my mother winded me and depleted my strength

[@WildMarie4]

Also, don't forget that men suffer with narcissistic women. It's harder for them because no one really validates a man being abused. Show abusive women in these videos, not just men.

[@VilleGardian]

Absolutely, as a woman i agree too. Gaslighting is the worst thing on planet earth.

[@julieskeil3051]

It's so true!

[@dingding4898]

Sounds a lot like adult adhd overlap

[@veronikaljungberg7149]

I thought I had adult adhd because I was unaware that I had been abused. I really fear that abusers are getting away with their abuse and the victims are diagnosed as depressed/adhd/autism/generalized anxiety disorder. The abuse can be so subtle and almost imperceptible. One needs to go back with a looking glass on ones childhood and adolescens to see if there was any abuse, and the victims themselves might not know that they were abused.

[@WildMarie4]

I had a doctor tell me there is alot of overlap between ADHD and PTSD.

[@JahGirl]

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[@LeAnne-uw3wp]

❤ Hugs

[@UncleDavesKitchen]

such a freaky scary voice