Why Silence is Powerful - 6 Best Times to be Silent

[@dennelllancaster3047]

Being silent in different situations has literally saved me from embarrassment or from an escalated conversation. I view silence as my Guardian angel 😇.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@TheTasneemali]

❤! THE only thing that is saving me right now from a mental breakdown 🥺💔!

[@jennifer9528]

1. (0:15) When someone is talking about their problems with you, sometimes being silent and listening is the way to go 2. (1:15) It's better to be silent instead of blurting out some in-the-moment feelings that might be hurtful or make the situation worse 3. (2:12) If you don't want to deal with a dumb argument, you can avoid it or end it quickly by remaining silent 4. (3:04) Sometimes actions speak louder than words, and staying silent allows you to express yourself through actions rather than words 5. (3:50) When in group conversations, especially if you're not familiar with those you are talking with, it can be a good idea to be silent to observe and learn about those you are talking with 6. (5:02) Silence is often your friend in negotiations - silence can convey a sense of mystery and power since it might lead the other side to believe that you are willing to walk away instead of settling for less than the desired outcome

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Good summary

[@cgtsang]

Silence is so underrated. This is something that i struggle with

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Yep!

[@fugamundicontramundo6544]

Me too

[@moorejr894]

I struggle with being silent

[@ericblue4231]

A day at a time, bro.

[@nicole-lr5cn]

I used to be a talkative kid, but now i am very quiet and idk how i did it lmao

[@jennyhugo7531]

As a person who talks to much, the video gives practical insight as to how be more silent. Thank you

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Glad this video helped

[@queenbarbee902]

True

[@fashionwithcora1062]

😄😄😄

[@girlinthemorgue]

I’m the opposite and I don’t talk enough

[@MaJeSTiCz0]

True

[@mimisart]

'Just Listen' is one of the most important things we can do for another 🌸💜

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@queenbarbee902]

Listen & Silent are made up of the same letters. 🗣 Free game. ❤🙏

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@dlon8899]

Whaaaaaaaaaaat

[@kynathomas4809]

WHOA!!!!!💥

[@Kamone111]

Hummmmm...never paid attention to that! Good point Bee Garza

[@AbdulKareem-uy6hk]

Are those 2 words known as an ANAGRAM?

[@chrisVvV1821]

If you are silent ,the people around you are more willing to pay respect. Greetings from Hellas!

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@hermanman8235]

Agree.the more words come out of our tongue ...the more less intelligent we may appear.the strong prove themselves by ACTION rather than words

[@Jackgritty28]

That sounds dumb to me,fool✔️

[@afiahenewaa4386]

@@Jackgritty28 sounds dumb to you doesn't mean it's dumb. You seem to though ngl

[@janellarogers1117]

SILENCE IS GOLDEN!

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@ayank6164]

Sometimes being silent is beneficial which you just shown in your video. I have tried out this before for a while and noticed, people are more willing to get my opinion on things. Silence has some power. Great video. Will try it again when will feel it be the wish move.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Glad the video helped!

[@Rosemarysummers2]

Thank you. I often wish that I had just kept quiet.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@mariehaverty5809]

Silence is golden, we seem to be conditioned to think we have to speak a lot. Actually the opposite is true but hard, takes practice like everything else!!

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@KellyS74]

Your silence playlist will hopefully help me to be comfortable with silence and learn to just listen 😊.. My Daughter has said to me several times that she wishes I would just listen and not try to fix her problems.. Tough to hear and tough to do.. But I will work on it.. Thank you so much.. Your videos are amazing 👏🏻

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Glad these videos help!

[@andrewpatitucci9570]

KellyS74 has always

[@kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934]

I love this! It’s permission to just feel I need to help them by being quiet. They don’t want me to do anything but listen.. Thankyou!

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Glad you enjoyed the video

[@coolcutsgal2]

I used to be so gregarious and so outgoing and then after a couple of times of me being burned by people. now I just sit back and I just watch and like you said don't sit there and be sullen and silent where people get uncomfortable and think you're weird but interject a few "oh yeah"! "right! yeah" and a couple of comments or a little bit of interaction but reserve your personal views until you get a feeling of what the people are like

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@PowerMatrixAnime]

This goes hand in hand with your other video the power of silence. It's a great addition.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Yea, I think this video is a good follow up

[@sofiagoudaropoulou2392]

Silence is powerful!!you are the observer and the observed together!!you know when to fold and when to hold!!you act with awareness!!

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

I agree

[@Rosa-qg3xp]

Some people over-talk and actually use this to lure you into telling your personal business. I’m private so I’ve learned how to seamlessly change the subject or excuse myself from the conversation.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@julianserafica9386]

No Talk No Mistake.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@kennethapeterson7165]

I NEEDED TO apply THIS TO SELF

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Go for it

[@amotivation.7855]

"Silent" Words is so Powerful too!

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Yep

[@cherishingflo]

Mmmmm this is actually a good one for me cause I’m not good at being silent all the time. Except in that first situation. I am always silent when others talk, I never try and solve or give advice because I don’t like when people try and solve my problems.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@random1309]

I was in a meeting with several coworkers a while back where I was asked for my opinion on the topic being discussed. Well the look on the face of one of my coworkers (who talks too much and always gets our meetings off track was priceless. I guess she means well but people get tired of long winded go no where speeches.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Yea most people are not fans of long speeches

[@KeueKeU]

I just realised that I am often too silent and that I should try to speak more. Thank you

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Glad this video helped

[@kucupantenang2618]

Lets talk

[@sikkojo]

Silent becomes trendy.. Now i‘m gonna be mute

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@noregrets8404]

I used to be really silent when I was younger and now I can't shut up

[@Rachidasister]

I used to be silent and a very quiet person who listened but something changed me.

[@missybeegood5359]

Yes 🙌🏻 You are right - thanks 😊

[@diamondunicorn2421]

Depending on my mood or ability to absorb other’s energy’s... I’ll ask two questions. Are you look for a solution to your problem, or you just want to vent.. because if I can’t take anymore negativity. I’ll kindly leave their presence. I’m all about preserving me now.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@karenaltman6854]

I have listen and thought I could fix it now I know one must see how they can make they're wine change I have my own problems and even though I would like to be able to make things better I just cant do like I use too.sorr

[@fasilatsanusi7431]

I love this and I wish I could implement this when necessary

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thank you

[@TheWizxard]

So me and my family argue very easily over every little thing. And I want to stay quiet but sometimes they continue and I just want to end the argument but it ends up being worse. How could I go about to change my ways and be more quiet?

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

To dispatch arguments easier you first have to know what each side wants to get out of the argument and then maybe go for a compromise or something

[@TheWizxard]

The Life Formula thank you so much! I’ll definitely keep this in mind for the future

[@bdidit8834]

You have anger issues you should try watch videos about anger

[@TheRealBrayo]

Find a new family. Family doesn’t always mean blood.

[@kersimistry6690]

Silence is golden

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@vyas2005]

Silence is an amazing action.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@blackfire1471]

Thanks for the ultimate information of silence, pal.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@0rishabrebala602]

Keep up the good work mate, love the content

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks, will do!

[@kathrynsevers3797]

Arguments are never good ! I don’t argue but I will discuss a situation ! I will not raise my voice or get mad! I will express my feelings by vocally expressing! Nothing is accomplished by staying mad or arguing or getting mad!

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@heavymeddle28]

The bestest thing to do when someone talks to you about problems... Talk. Talk, and they'll never bother you again 😊

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Maybe

[@heavymeddle28]

@@TheLifeFormulaa 😊

[@heavymeddle28]

@@TheLifeFormulaa i hope you and others understood that I was joking about my comment 😊

[@shannonguerrero9273]

THANK YOU.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Glad this video helped

[@surimenon9260]

Brilliant... I Practice.. Silence... One can get SUCKED IF NOT AWARE.... Namasta.. 🙏

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@Wyyaa]

Very teaching video thank you 👏👌

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Glad you liked it

[@ayantikaghosh9474]

Thank you so much for giving us such suggestion which is so useful for us and i really like your video 😉

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thank you

[@ayantikaghosh9474]

Np 😉😄

[@mugiyati1111]

To me is kinda good option in the meantime I’m learning in to Dutch language.Even little bit too much but is acceptable.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Awesome!

[@willyh.r.1216]

Silence the mind is the most challenging skill needs to be performed. If it's appropriate, silence can be a fatal weapon. Why? Silence makes you unpredictable and gives you chance to decern the other side's points and errors. Silence confuses your opponent. Silence and inner peace combined give you time to focal and optimize your irreversible counter-blow, or surgical answer. No fluff. Don't be like Karen, whining like kids. Don't be too talkative for nothing, you reveal your weaknesses. Silence is gold and energy-saving, yet efficiency is at your reach.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@nicolecarnevale3226]

Excellent advice.

[@martyshousecommunityorg.2890]

Yes silence is Golden)!

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@thomashenshallhydraxis]

Staying silent when talking to police; and keeping simple yes and no answers is powerful! It drives police nuts when people do not talk; but answering questions every so often keeps them aware that your aware of their questions. Answer questions that do not have’anything’ to do with why police are questioning; and keep friendly yes and no to questions that general public would answer. Some times police can get very aggressive with questions; stay calm and chive on with yes and no... and people stop refusing to show ID; show ID and keep a smile. Talk simple fun things, like saying... today is a. Beautiful day... but stay silent with not talking randomly. Silence is ok during questions from police; but “stay silent” and show ID. Smile, say what a beautiful day, stay silent. Don’t ask police questions why they stopped a person; stay silent, let them ask questions. Then say yes and no, but not to what crime suspect they are looking for. Stay silent, stare at them. They have to prove, and saying nothing about anything keeps them from finding any reason to hold a person. stay friendly; but stay silent. Don’t hold your body in a hug; keep hands from rapid movements. Keep hands in the steeple position. Fingers together, out front. I recently had police called and I was questioned by a group at once. I stayed silent, answered general questions with and yes and no; and joked simplely: about jokes about police and weed. Kept eye contact on the ground until I answered a question and would stare at who asked question. Then looked back down to ground. Let them ask you! Use only one liners to make police laugh; no drawn out jokes, keep it simple. But stay silent after they laugh. On the police side they have multiple people talking to them on radios; so they are busy... but one good laugh works wonders in a hectic situation. But if a joke would make you look suspect; then no joking, stay silent. It works great 👍

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@curtistinemiller4646]

Sometimes being quite is quite comforting..........

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

I agree

[@amourmtungo623]

Thank you, great tips

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Glad it was helpful!

[@Doncold316]

I wish this video also covered sometimes when silence can make situations worse also

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Maybe I should make a separate video on that

[@dorothyogwago6852]

Am a blabber mouth... Being silent is an art.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Yep

[@lifesymphony2024]

Especially with those we don't like to interact and no point of interacting with them.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@Confession_Of_A_Dangerous_Mind]

Make more videos,your videos are very productive

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

I'm working on trying to do 2 videos per week

[@Confession_Of_A_Dangerous_Mind]

@@TheLifeFormulaa perfect

[@johnhill9445]

Thank you. The Soul Committee Alliance. NYC

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@emmanuel5876]

Yes

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@gasmith7486]

Excellent 😊

[@pedroroque4084]

You we're kinda sick weren't you? I can tell by your voice, unless I'm wrong... Great video man

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Don't remember if I was sick when recording this video but thank you

[@nazmin635]

You are amazing :) Subscribed

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for the sub!

[@Ray2311us]

And people that love you like their own

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@godbewithme7847]

I hate my openness. Never meant to hurt you. You are my unique person i met in my life. Makes me feel happy. I don't deny this. I am just telling you how i felt. I will always love you. My mistake.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@rolansanchez7046]

I always feel so disappointed whenever a say to a friend or even to a stranger that I am an adult orphan, maybe they are trying to say better words but to be honest not really helping I onlly ended up annoyed most of the time, I guess a sad a face and a nod will do better.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@gabe13hunt]

Love the vid!

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thank you

[@princessmaureensenoy61]

I love your channel ❤❤❤

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thank you

[@ronaldcaliva5004]

We should know when to go silent and when to speak ,words coming out of our mouth sometimes we're not aware that it upset other people around us.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Totally agree

[@ImranKhan-sj5ji]

Subscribed

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thank you

[@vihangpatait3999]

Silence is golden 👍

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@aaygrg1811]

Incompetent, unheipful people, jealous people are silent. Prove me wrong.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

There are a lot of good introverted leaders out there. Many extroverted leaders also choose to stay silent in certain situations. Are they incompetent for choosing to stay silent?

[@ericforsyth9305]

@ the Formula life i agree 100% on this

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@euanelliott3613]

Those who talk the most often say the least.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@TURTLEBonDAGROVE]

I'll have a conversation with someone about their problem to come up with a solution by them or me. I am a problem solver, not an emotional tampon. If I don't have anything positive to say about a dilemma, then silence is golden.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@ckhongsai9491]

Nice to hear 👂👂👂

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@baibureh6025]

I cant be silent I need to speaker my mind or I will feel abuse and denominated to truely feel free for me personaly I need to speak my mind when necessery .

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@shaniquawhipple6413]

I was always quiet because I didn't know how to speak up

[@africarichmineral4124]

👏👏Well Said ‼🙂👍

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@waynemoore8615]

No 7. When you can't even be bothered to enunciate your words properly, perhaps you should be silent

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

ok lol

[@waynemoore8615]

@@TheLifeFormulaa glad to see you take the comment in a lighthearted healthy way. I guess it would have been easy to see it as an insult. Cool man.

[@ye_mikael]

God gave us 2 ears and 1 mouth. even that is enough to prove silence is essential.

[@laurenmontera9516]

How about if you have issues with your vocal folds? That's a perfect reason to be silent.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Good point

[@savagedeviljho2879]

Thank you for the tips. I am a type that talks too much. The only thing i will say is a person used something that i spoke against me to win an argument thank you. After that i lost an friend

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@Ray2311us]

silence is the best policy

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@anneyenglishautodidact8456]

Silence is gold, it ain't easy to me, tho...😏

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@anneyenglishautodidact8456]

@@TheLifeFormulaa my pleasure

[@FarhiaFarah-wg5qe]

If Necessary little bit is ollright if benefits.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@tseringyangzom6813]

When you know the truth and other person is faking ☹️🤣🤣

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

That sucks

[@cd2781]

Some of it I don't understand, How can you ask if someone wants to vent or not? That makes the person mad, at times you're listening then get mad you don't say anything...

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

You just ask them if they want you to listen or help solve their problem

[@cd2781]

@@TheLifeFormulaa I've asked if the person wants a response or an 👂 ear... To listen and the person got mad at me and said Forget it!!

[@Ray2311us]

At all times

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@marykreahclar4093]

Silent means you are interested to listen from ur friends....

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@archer7291]

Practice more clear accent. We can't understand clearly some words. Good video btw.Good Luck.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for the feedback

[@leanvillegas9768]

Do you have podcast?

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

No, although I might be interested in starting one

[@leanvillegas9768]

@@TheLifeFormulaa please do hehehe

[@lancesay]

less is more.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Yep

[@NeverEnough62]

please list the points

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Someone listed in comments

[@THEMAN-ru8ek]

"Silence is a Mysterious!!"

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@lutfiynaahmed3862]

Im always talking😅ican never stay silent lol and i hate it its like something difficult to get rid of....i cantttt

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

You can change

[@krutarthshah2427]

What are ways to stay silent? I speak always But I want to stay silent

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

When you realize you want to speak, try stopping yourself

[@sonyasays7538]

When my husband says.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@Ray2311us]

All of it

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@heatherwood8106]

I'm trying,I am so misunderstood ,

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Things will get better

[@i.q.3280]

great title , in my caSE , " THE BEST TIMES NOT TO STAY SILENT , ............IN MY OWN HOME " LOL

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

lol

[@mdhabiburrahman9250]

Can you change voicer coz I don’t understand nothing. He talk by nose

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

There should be subtitles if you press cc

[@NeoAlcazar]

Good video

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thank you

[@NeoAlcazar]

@@TheLifeFormulaa you're welcome

[@SatyamYadav-vz1hh]

We introverts know all this😉 when to be silent ❤️❤️ we introverts are like this😉😉. But again whether I'm introvert..your tips will definitely WILL help anybody (introverts or extroverts)

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@yolandawalton749]

Most of the time I'm silent in my environment but nothing gets done, if I speak nothing still don't get done, I get no respect,if I go off I still get nothing done so tell me what is next please explain what I did wrong, I stay to myself, I don't make trouble, but I did have someone came after me with a knife in the building, so tell me what I di wrong

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

What kind of environment is this? Work environment?

[@yolandawalton749]

It's not a work environment, it supposed to a support housing but i think it's a shelter with people who work there

[@superfelix20]

They missed " during police interview under caution without proper representation present"off the list

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Maybe

[@superfelix20]

@@TheLifeFormulaa of course I joke. Great video thanks

[@anilaathomas]

ya in school if ur silent ppl think u r weak (most of the time)

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

School isn't the best time to be silent

[@anilaathomas]

@@TheLifeFormulaa hmm i agree

[@valik_strilets]

Silent people have the loudest minds

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

:)

[@lutfiynaahmed3862]

Alhough i do actions and talks alot😔

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

That's fine

[@agt-tamil]

I am an *ootavaayan* . Means I always talk a lot, *Always* in good situation and in bad situations too🤣 Now I know, kind of😅 when to not to talk🤐

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Nice job

[@ianrogerburton1670]

Always stay silent WHEN you meet an old friend and they say something you don´t like, as well as when making love.

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Thanks for sharing

[@sindhugopakumar2134]

If I see this video before........

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

You seen a similar video?

[@sindhugopakumar2134]

@@TheLifeFormulaa Not yet.......