Why 'Slow' Benefits YOU

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[@psalm2forliberty577]

Brilliant advice Susan. This is my problem. Praying to overcome it. Resolving to be more chill.

[@SusanWinter]

Remember that, taking it slowly and not jumping too quickly, makes you not only more attractive and desirable, but it gives you enough time to evaluate how far you should allow your emotions to go

[@psalm2forliberty577]

@@SusanWinter TRUE TRUE TRUE. It's so challenging to re-calibrate to a dating / getting to know ladies frame, after being widowed. My wife & knew each other so intimately - (32 years happily married - until Liver cancer took her) - that my skills are rusty & unrefined. Plus dating seems to have changed BIG time since 1988 when last I did it. Or so it seems.

[@johnmoreno5965]

Totally wise! Much love my lady. In a insta gratification world, patience is key. I can see what you mean. So glad I could make it back after the tuff road of last year I had to pull myself together and weed out everything in my life and am thankful for your wonderful insights y'know ❤️ that is appreciated ✌️

[@ellie-tk4jy]

I wanted to go quickly, he wanted to go slow in person but "quickly" over text. It was confusing, building false intimacy.

[@misslinda772]

Thank you! That is exactly what happened to me. He was in a hurry to get exclusive. And I wanted to date around and meet a variety of men so I could pick someone who would be a more compatible fit.

[@csmith8503]

Linda Bang-a-lot, keep pumping up that body count; It will serve you so very well as time goes on.

[@sethtenrec]

@@csmith8503wrong, you’re a misogynist

[@YouTubeUzername]

I agree but what’s a good timeframe though?

[@csmith8503]

However long you can string him along. Don't worry, he will let you know when the time is up, by dumping your game-playing a$$ and moving on to someone serious.

[@igatti9923]

It's better to play outside the chessboard, this way we can ponder and gather all the necessary info and signs to decide if it's wise to keep on investing or if it's time to let go in time.

[@sethtenrec]

Guilty as charged, I want to lock it down always. And I don’t have to, but I really, really always want to. And I’m actually standing on the diving board right now. But I haven’t jumped yet…. Although we did just meet yesterday & going on a date to a dance class with her tomorrow…

[@Lifeisworthless500]

Hey susan..... how do you not feel envious of people who just have it all perfect? Like I know a guy who met his girl at 19, is now rich and famous and travels the world with her they got married too.... it's like problems don't exist for them.... and me meeting the wrong kind of women all the time.... how do you not just get envious that you're just unlucky?

[@SusanWinter]

No one gets out of this life without experiencing pain and hardship. You cannot have all day and no night. You can't have all light and no dark. You're just not seeing it because you're focusing on two things that you don't have that you want: a loving partner to whom you're married and a great lifestyle. Perhaps you have a great career and friends, but you are idealizing this guy life.

[@Matilda130_]

Hope you'll see this Susan, I'm here to appreciate your work. I am going through a lot lately, it's been one year or more and I'm still suffering. But your videos helped me a lot! You are doing really great and i really appreciate your efforts. All the best for future ❤

[@lucyloo7457]

❤ 👏 Bravo!!!! 👏. Perfectly said, dear Susan! Much love and respect.

[@abr3712]

How to filter right form the beginning and taking ut slow at the same time?

[@SusanWinter]

By filtering at the beginning, you will take it slowly. Because you're not rushing in. You're taking your time to explore and learn.

[@jeffreycheng5984]

No one has time for anyone. People are too busy.