WHY THE NARCISSIST DOESN’T THINK LIKE YOU

[@wandaschroeder9172]

I still have moments of disbelief…..when it doesn’t seem real. In those moments, I have to be brutally honest with myself. YES, it all really happened, they never loved or even cared about me….now get back to your healing.☺️ Thank you Andrew for being here….and thank God for giving me the willingness to learn and the strength to get away. I think we must be the strongest people on the planet. Much love to everyone.❤️

[@christine11347]

Agreed it takes great strength and courage to recognize it really did all happen to us. 💪💪

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙌🙏

[@1Tmally3]

Much love to you! Stay the strong person you are!😊❤👋🙏

[@pamelalawhon3536]

Yes, all very painful to process. When it was good it was SO good…but they can’t be content with that. They have to “blow it up” as Andrew calls it. They have zero strength of character. I said to him, “You robbed us both! Of US.” He didn’t get it then and he’ll never get it, ever.

[@JohnSmith-wo7ns]

I understand those moments of disbelief. It just engulfs me. How they can treat somebody who loves them that way is brutally cruel. If not evil. Good luck to you.

[@nicolebaumgarten31]

These people learn about your past wounds only to use them against you in the future or exploit you in some way

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉

[@kareemelmougy1601]

Thank you Andrew for being such inspiration we all in one bucket of healing and growing , your insights it's just feels like so good ,all narcissistic people are the same copy and paste actions and believes ( for own benefit) and let's seek a new supply , it's so disrespectful and disgusting , I Hope to all people who got hurt to be able to move on and catch on ❤of new true love and life after Thanks

[@susanwilcox5763]

We love you too Andrew! You’re doing great work! I feel so alone, and you remind us that we’re not. Namaste

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

You Are Not Alone 💯🙌🙏

[@barbaradalziel9421]

We are not alone in this tribe. We help each other encourage each other

[@donnaengelman1171]

NARCISSISTS DON'T THINK JUST LIKE US WHO ARE EMPATH, LOVING, CARING, UNDERSTANDING, ALMOST GOOD TRAITS WE HAVE. AND NARCS ARE OUR OPPOSITE, THEY DON'T CARE, EVIL TRAITS. FELLOW SURVIVORS, YOU KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT. KEEP MOVING FORWARD AND GIVE OURSELVES THE GENUINE LOVE WE DESERVE. GOOD LUCK, KEEP WATCHING "NARC DAILY, YOU ARE NOT ALONE" BY ANDREW. GOODNIGHT AND I LOVE YOU ALL! 💖💙💜💚❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@1Tmally3]

❤U2, survivor! !!😊

[@troll23-troll23]

Every word spoken in this video is worth gold. We all assumed people are just good people and projected our own standards and values on them. Which never worked with a narcissist. And of course they could not totally hide it, but we thought we must be mistaken, and we never wanted to do injustice to anyone. So we stayed in it, gave them the benefit of the doubt. Until the moment where something broke, the final straw - I remember the moment from all my narcissistic relationships. It only became clear to me in hindsight, but the inner resolve to get out, started in that moment, even if it was a process, always dragging on. As you said, we have to do it "in our own time". We are all still here because in spite of the constant onslaught of abuse something within us did not die. Well, not everyone is that lucky. I count my blessings every day.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙌☀️🙏

[@allykatharvey]

Thank you, Andrew! This came at such a moment for me. I have just had enough of someone deeply narcissistic this past week. He’s been a problem all my life. Accepting that his needling, hurtful, untruthful, entitled, spiteful ways are narcissistic is hard but I’ve taken enough. He’s going to pester me and give me hell but I’m cutting him out of my life for good now. Thank you for such a strong and straight video. It gives me the strength I need. 💝Bless you. xxx

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙌💯🙏

[@californiacat9762]

Yes, and the sooner we accept that they don't care, and never did care, we can move forward to a better place ♥

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯😉💯

[@invincible8997]

Narcissists are emotionally one-dimensional. They lack depth, integrity, a sense of honour, and the ability to respect others. They cannot be introspective because if they were, they'd be suicidal. I've dealt with quite a few narcs, not only in romantic relationships, but roommates, family and business colleagues. They live on the knife-edge, terrified to look within because they know that what they'll see is a gaping bottomless abyss of misery. The only thing a narc willingly shares with others is that misery. That's one thing that they'll pour out in an unending supply. I intend to avoid them as much as possible. I don't want what they're selling. I've lived through many difficult situations, none of which have caused me to lose the ability to be loving and kind to others. Narcissists never had that ability and that is dreadful and shocking to behold.

[@christine11347]

Definitely a sound plan. Avoid them at all costs💪💪

[@invincible8997]

@@christine11347 Yep, do not engage with them in any way, if it's at all possible. They be dragons. 🐲🐉🀄

[@christine11347]

@@invincible8997 Absolutely 💯 Passed him on the road when he was coming to pick up the kids and I completely looked the other way as if he was invisible. They are absolutely awful people.

[@invincible8997]

@@christine11347 It must have been satisfying to ghost him in person.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@1Tmally3]

I can relate to one word text with the narc! The narc always started his texts with, hey. I knew when I got the text, hey, that there would be trouble or some kind of drama to follow. Hey- it was always something the narc needed or wanted or expected! No more texting, no more contact , no more hey-ing me! Thank God, and thank you, Andrew, and love you too and this tribe! ❤💯💯💯💯🕊🕊🕊

[@vickymoore2520]

Stacy that’s how my ex narc started a lot of conversations ! “ HEY “ it was a breadcrumb to get you to respond .

[@1Tmally3]

@@vickymoore2520 No more hey-ing, It made me feel like the narc was just talking at me, not to me. Thank you for sharing❤💯

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏💯🙌

[@kimmonks116]

Thanks Stacy for indicating the..Hey in text..I was suspecting it could be a narc trait..it can help me avoid more toxic types who try to break boundaries on messenger..lol 😆 they could get away with it too easy when I first got away from my Covert narcissist 3 yrs back after 28 yrs..not now..my walls are up big time 😄👍🧡

[@1Tmally3]

@@kimmonks116 Thank you, survivor! I had shared parenting with a narc, a nightmare! Stay strong, keep your boundaries! 😊🥰💯❤

[@lisaryckman22]

Oh yes…when they move on less than a month after you go no contact, you come to realize how they just want a warm body. Didn’t necessarily have to be yours.

[@christine11347]

Nope your 💯 right it can be anybody. The Nex is on his 15th new supply in 8 months smh it's an awful existence if you ask me. Such a horrific role model. Definitely does not think like me in any capacity. Never did and never will.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing 🙏💯🙌

[@cindyg3396]

Healing is happening in my life. This July makes 4 years since I left him. He will never find another woman like me. He had it made, but I was not enough. I gave my heart and soul. Helped him start a business from nothing, and when he became successful he told me he didn't need me anymore. When I first met him he had nothing. I helped him with so much. Now, he is remarried, living with her in my house, still making plenty of money with the business. He had a good lawyer. It's okay though, because I'm free now, and God is my source. As long as I have Jesus, I have it all.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful empowering message 🙏🙌💯

[@hotscorpiorouge]

TRUE, TRUE, TRUE "YOU ARE NOT ALONE". Thanks Andrew 💖

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏💯🙌

[@De_Los_Her]

My ex-spouse is the personification of narcissism. He would say and do hurtful things and never apologize.

[@wandaschroeder9172]

I remember saying several times right to the narcissist, “You have never said ‘I’m sorry’ to me”. He would just look at m with a blank look in his eyes. I finally realized he never would and all I needed to be concerned with was forgiving myself.💜

[@De_Los_Her]

@@wandaschroeder9172 I was in the same position. I would bring it up to his attention that he never apologized. What I said didn't make a dent. It is almost one year since I divorced him. Thank God I did. These types are toxic at every level.

[@christine11347]

If they did apologize it was faked and forced. No empathy, no soul, no place in any of our lives going forward 💪💪

[@De_Los_Her]

@@christine11347 Indeed. They have no redeeming qualities. To the contrary. They are toxic. I am so glad I divorced him and I am moving forward. :)

[@christine11347]

@@De_Los_Her Life is so much better once the toxicity is removed and you surround yourself with people who want to build you up instead of tearing you down.

[@johnbaptist5472]

We live in a machine that is designed to get us to neglect the important things in life. Narcs are KFC for the soul ! Stronger together , don't give IT another second , thought or chance. Empathy is a gift that crushes the evil. Thank you Andrew and everyone that contributes to this movement . SLAINTE!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@merlina9852]

Andrew what you say is spot on to the letter every word rings true for me The pain these narcissistic individuals inflict are like no other. your videos are very much appreciated thank you 🇨🇷 🇬🇧

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 💯🙏🇬🇧🇨🇷🙌

[@monicabelle8581]

I am 5 months in now …blocked him ..and never attempted to speak to him again… I also was the one who dropped him over a phone call..because I was engaged to him for six years and we were about to get married when I actually saw his mask fell off in a triangulation lie…My spirit had enough…and I did the crying..the ruminating…the anger came when I realized how much he took from me..my health..my money…my location …my friends and mostly my time…I trusted that I had found someone semi ok to settle down with…but he stole my years and left me alone and isolated…But you know Andrew…5 months in..I thought I was over the anger….but anger creeps back up when I realize how he manipulated me and how he took my soul..stole my ideas and dreams …anger. Creeps up…but you know what Andrew…it’s videos like this that encourage me to stay focused and realize that they are cluster B …I am trying to move forward always…but realize that I do need to hear videos like this from time to time to stop wasting one second thinking about the past and just focus on the future…🙏🏻

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙌💪🙏

[@SunShine-uw4tr]

You so speak the truth. We will recover and remember, but not forgive and forget. Focus on the lesson. Source: Pinterest

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏💯🙌

[@shad5637]

Thank you its pure hell for our kids and me you speak truth

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@bernitacenteno1326]

Part you and your kids from the hell raiser. It can only get worse until you suffer irrevocable 💔 damage. Your impressionable children are being raised in an extremely toxic environment and that will be always there in their psyche to stay, even when they are grown up.

[@coralmccrystal4606]

This one made me cry because the narcissist who was in my life the longest was my mother. When we were 17 my best friend said to me "Do you not think that really she just doesn't care?" I couldn't LET that be true. I have quite a creative brain and kept thinking of new approaches over the decades which might have positive results. I kept "putting myself in her shoes"and trying to be kinder and more considerate and flexible. I wish I'd known long ago that we thought fundamentally differently. I had worked out she liked to be the centre of attention so when she was dying I thought we could have "precious time" like I'd had with my cat when the vet advised she only had a little bit of time left. I thought as my mother would absolutely be the centre of attention that she'd be pleased. She was worse than ever! I'm not sure why - maybe because I could love people and be myself and she couldn't? It is definitely an utterly miserable way to live but others suffer so much because of them too.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Sending healing energy and strength 🙏💯🙌💯

[@amazingjane2703]

The narcissist apologized by saying I'm sorry I was just using you for somewhere to live (after my house was gone). We do not want their apologies.They are daggers in disguise.

[@christine11347]

It always comes with strings and an ulterior motives. Useless.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌😉

[@CosmicGlowUP]

They can they will they did.... WE CAME WE SAW WE CONQUERED

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏🙌💯

[@christine11347]

💪💪💪🥇

[@christine11347]

Andrew this video covers so much and is 💯 spot on with every word. You completely hit it out of the park.👏🙌👍 For anyone in a narcissistic relationship it's so important to remember that it is completely one sided. If you are giving your everything and are getting nothing in return walk away. You deserve so much better. People make mistakes and that is perfectly normal but they learn and grow from them. Narcs however keep on making the same ones over and over again. They will never change no matter how much they gaslight and future fake you. Life is so much better without them. Stay blessed and always know your worth. 🙏💪🕊️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌😉

[@candidaherron6130]

One sided Oh my goodness!!! I never would have dreamed ! Moving forward finally feels refreshing and Alive 💯 🙏😄👌🌻

[@christine11347]

@@candidaherron6130 Absolutely love the concept of a healthy relationship being a reciprocal pouring into each other. It makes it so clear how unhealthy and one sided the narcissistic relationship is. Agreed 💯 refreshing once you are out. Never again. We all deserve so much better. 💪💪

[@candidaherron6130]

@@christine11347 😊 for sure 🎉 💯💪

[@maudolsthoorn58]

Thank you again. I keep educating myself because I’m still in a lot of pain and in disbelief. You are right about everything you said. This individual showered me with gifts and false promises. Once I started setting boundaries, everything changed. It’s been only two months that I left a relationship of 9 years. I lived so many days that he ghosted me, blamed me for things and all I thought was … well … he had moment … turns out it kept happening again and again. I know I even lost a little bit of my identity and strength. But I’ll get through it. Thank you Andrew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Sending healing energy and strength 💯🙏🙌

[@JohnSmith-wo7ns]

Sounds exactly like my ex, and everybody else's on here. Congratulations on knowing you'll get thru this. 💪💪👍

[@monicafox5799]

Yes, thank you for your help. Appreciate it. I am healing from this. 🙏 Praying.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@gyongyikovacs8443]

Dear Andrew, every time I'm hooked when I listen to your video's. You're always able to find the right words and content to educate us. Right from the heart, full of love and care. I'm happy that I've discovered your channel here on KZbin. God bless you for your lightwork! 💗

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏💯😊

[@warriormom5843]

Thank God their mindset is completely different from ours, right? I am so proud of all of us here that we have remained authentic and true to our giving, caring, honest, compassionate and empathic selves, through all the invalidation and pre-meditated abuse. More strength comes in the knowing, and at that point, our exit plans and beautiful future aspirations and unencumbered life plans begin to blossom and not wither. (A reference to your daily flowers).. Ahhhhh to breath again…..And don’t worry about triggering any of us Andrew, it’s just necessary tough love and group VALIDATION which we all so desperately need, to remember that all of that gaslighting, blame shifting, stonewalling, word salad, lying, cheating, soul stealing, projected BULLSHIT was REAL AF (excuse my French) and now that we have radically accepted that they are EE’s (I coined a new term today-evil entities! I find it impossible at this point to refer to him as a person), we can forgive our temporary blindness (we are decent human beings after-all) and do the personal work toward external and internal freedom from them and perhaps also, from our own inner child and codependency (or as Dr Ross Rosenberg states, “self-love deficient (SLD) struggles. Keep the faith, my dear, and SELF-RESPECT at the helm. 💟☮️🕉💟

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙌😉🙏

[@christine11347]

I agree with every single thing you said. I love the part about blossoming instead of withering. It's 💯🎯. Thank God our mindsets are absolutely nothing like theirs. Love this comment. ❤️

[@warriormom5843]

@@christine11347 kindred spirits we all are 😇🙏🏼

[@christine11347]

@@warriormom5843 🙏😇

[@lorrainehewlett984]

I no longer find it impossible to call them human beings. They abandoned their humanity long ago. They are detached from the human race and act like predators. “Evil entities” is an interesting concept, I admit.

[@rifat1274]

Thanks for the videos. I will be watching every single of your videos and try to heal myself. Just got out of an abusive relationship with a woman who was narcissist. I still cant believe I wasted 6 months of my life. She was threatening to commit suicide everytime we fought (emotional blackmail). Now that I'm finally cut off her supply and went no contact she is threatening to hurt my family and I. No remorse about past mistakes aswell. Still blaming everything on me. Acting like she is the victim.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Sending healing energy and strength 🙏🙌💯

[@mariegallagher4725]

Thank you again Andrew. When I look back there were so many times that he appeared to be there supporting me but now when I look back I was really the one who holding everything up. Putting on a front that everything was OK but every 6-7 weeks he would start his rages over little things? He could go to sleep after a great day then wake up in the morning in a rage? I use to say you are like a Jekyll and Hyde character. I just didn't know what I was dealing with.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand completely 🙏💯🙌😉

[@ilenesteele4816]

LOOKING GOOD SWEETIE AS ALWAYS YOU CAN NOT TALK TO THE DEAD THEY ARE DEAD SOULS

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏

[@cttofl8822]

You’re being real - I love your personality. I embrace it - I enjoy it. You’re an inspiration. You are upfront honest real and have boundaries in just the way you speak!!! Youre so influential Andrew. Your words are life!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙌💯😊🙏

[@ecfernandez1]

Its so confusing bc my ex would have a lot of time to think at work and he would tell me he was sorry when he’d come home but he would repeat the same things over and over. I always believed em when he would say he was sorry and that he knew i didn’t deserve that treatment, that id forgive em. But i went thru it so much that time and time i lowered my standards, had my boundaries broken

[@christine11347]

Be kind to yourself it happens to all of us. You just want to believe them and hold on to whatever shred of hope you have. It's a neverending abusive cycle that keeps repeating until we say that's it NO MORE at that point the healing can begin.💛

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@curlygirl9023]

Since this is a safe space, i must share 😔…. So i am going thru a divorce with my 10year narcissist husband…. Was putting the pieces together.. learning, becoming awaken and aware… and I didn’t know i was being hoovered by another one of my exes… the one i was in love with in high school and college….. he came around and tried to love bomb me but was VERY short lived and poor… he blamed me for our entire relationship and the issues…. I accepted the blame b/c i discarded him… but for GOOD reasons… i was 19 and i could see his narcissistic tendencies even though i had never heard of a narcissist and what it was… i was on high alert from the beginning when he reached out to me… he tried to gaslight me when I told him what I didn’t like about our relationship,.. he disrespected me in my own home…. I discarded him again. Blocked… no contact…. Took me 3 weeks this time…. Im proud of myself…. But sad that i keep running into this while I’m vulnerable

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Sending you healing energy and strength 🙏💯🙌

[@debbiedavis6990]

Excellent Video, Andrew! Can you only imagine trying to live up in their heads for one hour?! I couldn’t imagine being that miserable every moment of my life, which, I was when I was with the narcissist! I try not to say much, because it’s been 7 years for me, and I certainly don’t want to harm anyone, just finding out what they have been dealing with. I’m completely over all I went though. I really thought that was the love of my life. I’m happy you are helping so many people! I rarely watch any Coaches, anymore, until I started listening to you, and i did subscribe to your channel, because, I know the ones that really know how to help people. God bless you Andrew as you continue on this journey of helping as many people as you possibly can! I can tell you are an amazing guy that has been through it all! 🙏😊🙏

[@christine11347]

I wouldn't even want to be in their mind for a minute.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@debbiedavis6990]

@@christine11347 that’s the truth! I have wondered so many times how they stand their own-selves.

[@christine11347]

@@debbiedavis6990 I really don't know. The best part is when you reach that point of indifference and really don't care about understanding anything about them anymore. It's strange I don't even know how to describe the feeling. It's very liberating. Keep focusing your energy on yourself and those that matter. That will help bring you much more joy than trying to figure out them. Always remember that we bring ourselves happiness. Stay blessed 💛

[@debbiedavis6990]

@@christine11347 I was with him 30 years that was way over half of my life. i’m so happy to be out of that disaster that was my life so many years. A long term relationship with one of those creatures really takes its toll on you. Even our daughter, still has problems, because he tried his very best to destroy her too. He could not stand to see any kind of happiness whatsoever. If he saw us together laughing and talking, he wound get so angry, he would scream her name, and find something for her to do. We live such a happy life now. we just talk, laugh, and enjoy our lives, it’s absolutely beautiful! We really do deserve the life we live now. i got him blocked from every thing i own, but on her phone where she has daddy, when he ever calls her, she really does have a devil with horns on each side of daddy. if she ever sees his name come up she goes into a panic, half the time she want answer her phone, if she ever does, i tell her don’t put it on the speaker, because i will never listen to his voice again. I’m so happy i only had one child with him.

[@zulemaflores1234]

They always say to write-down your goals. And I believe that we should definitely think about things that motivate us, and as we work through them, we should cross them out and set new goals. Goals were things that never crossed our mind when we were in a relationship with a narcissist. We’re free to do what we want. It’s up to us to do what we want and enjoy life to the fullest. Blessings!

[@christine11347]

🙏 AMEN 💯

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@esh3333]

Narcissist has no empathy. That’s why they can’t or won’t stop hurting you. Even if you beg them to stop.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@candidaherron6130]

The Narc will Chang e the subject when you want to reason with them about anything significant or just change the subject to anything trivial . Or will just simply say they have to go . The Narc focus is never about what is important to you or me in my own past with one . You have it right they don't think like us . Only their Own Crap ! 🤣. Thank you for another true to the bone video Andrew !!! Bless you and the whole community 💯🙏😊🙌

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 💯🙏🙌

[@candidaherron6130]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 👌😄💯💪🙏

[@OSTARAEB4]

They want attention and worship and notice they never say they’re sorry or take responsibility and takers and users are right. Inconsiderate and irresponsible like a child.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌😉💯😉

[@susiemarkle6908]

I have moments where I second guess myself and what happened, and I come here and get my necessary dose of reality. I am doing much better largely due to your videos. Thank you Andrew!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏🙌💯

[@brendanelson8669]

Hey Andrew🤗 ALL TRUE EVERY WORD YOU SAID💯%. At times I find myself going back and forth in my mind with knowing that he IS a narc and also denying that he is a narc. It's just difficult to accept at times that someone can be so void of empathy and so egregiously maniacal. This video is more confirmation that he is a narc. Thankyou so much and hope you are having a beautiful day too❣✝️🌄 💫🌺💫🕊💫

[@christine11347]

It's so hard in the beginning to understand and process any of it. I watched a video that was helpful. It was saying if you have any feeling of mistrust in a person after a period of getting to know them then it's better to move on. You need to trust your gut and the other person. If you have an uneasy feeling that doesn't subside with time then it's probably not going to get better. Education will really help you to be able to identify them in the future. 💛

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing 🙏💯🙌

[@cornishfudge39]

You’re looking healthier everyday✨ So am I, the pain was etched in my face and it’s lifting. I am looking and feeling more relaxed✨

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful growth and healing 🙏💯🙌😊

[@sheilamurry9875]

When they 💥💥💥....... We bloom ✨️ 💖 💗 💓 💛 ♥️ ✨️ 💖 💗 💓 💛 ♥️ ✨️ Stronger,Brighter,Better

[@christine11347]

💪☀️💛🙏❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏🙌💯

[@mykedoes4099]

11:10 in sickness and in health. The sick part is for the NARC and the Health part is for the Empath

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯😉🙌

[@christine11347]

Sadly the longer you stay in the relationship they are the ones that make you sick, but are nowhere to be found when you need someone to care for you. The best part though is when we leave our health returns and we no longer tolerate that toxicity in our lives again.💪💪

[@Bak23471]

I have l armed this all too well my grand children will be around a long time after my core narc family is gone I can bond them with them again they will.ne older and understand so heck with emotional family dinners ,,,!

[@lorrainehewlett984]

Well Andrew, this is an extraordinarily insightful video. You really exposed and encapsulated the Narc mindset. To empaths and neurotypicals, it is amazing and mind-boggling that someone would act like that but Narcs do. They are so incredibly selfish and self-absorbed. No wonder so many of them end up alone at the end.of their lives (or they have to guilt-trip or manipulate someone into being there for them.) They blow up relationships and they just don’t care. Then they blame you and tell you that there is something wrong with YOU. They are amazing creatures: predatory and dangerous. They are chameleons who transform themselves, like a shapeshifter, into your perfect match and then once you are committed and invested, their true nature comes out. And then watch out! This video is a great reality check and pep talk!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌😉

[@theglobalvagabond3074]

A narc is not human. They are humanoid-looking predatory creatures with no soul. These creatures are torn from the same clothes as the world's worst evil-doers.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@oliverakaric7956]

Bravo,bravo, everithing is the truth,even now after mutch time ,my brain refuze too acepted that,beaucouse is the painfol,and then I haven't kwnoleges abouth real mean word narc.That expiriences it vos in the begining, most beautiful and magical in whole my life ,then it vos like you said everithing is the truth ,in one words it vos desaster.The recovering is not easy when inside off you everithing is brocen and you haven't a strenght and feel tired for everibody and everithing.Even somme stupid thing cen you remember off that and I haven't patiens for people like this.From eyes,from voice when I feel narc I just having a need too goo.Thank you,you help people ,and I alredy said,the big thing is when somebody knows that is not alone,and too know the somebody is survived that.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌💪

[@oliverakaric7956]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone you welcomme

[@amazingjane2703]

If you married a narcissist my heart goes out to you 😁 You make me snigger. I'm predicting a big laugh in my life anytime soon.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌😉🙏

[@JohnSmith-wo7ns]

I had nothing to offer my narcissist, no money, only lived in 1 bedroom apartment, poorly paid job. All I had to offer was 100% devotion and a credit card!!!! 😯😳💡

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@onlybosslion9267]

Thank You for the message. God Bless. Blessings to everyone. For-me, I stay on the Path God has for me. wants and I believe that is the Best. Anything else unacceptable. Prayers for Guidance and Protection. Devine Timing and Discipline. I have Faith and Trust in God. Whatever he has for me is ok.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏☀️🙌

[@onlybosslion9267]

Thank You ♥️🕊

[@jonathanharrington7950]

There are so many people out there who get off on derailing you. Wake up, smell the coffee & once you have, you will be able to show the stars what it really means to shine.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@JohnSmith-wo7ns]

I wish I'd ended it instead of being discarded. Then maybe I wouldn't feel so lost. Good luck guys. X

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@JohnSmith-wo7ns]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone ❤🙌

[@AdairCty]

So true. They never cared, never loved. He was always looking for outside attention after a certain point in the relationship. When he was demoted at his job and wasn’t required to travel as much (that was where, I later realized, he was obtaining much supply from his clients!) he couldn’t bear to stay home. He’d roam around all day…running “errands” in town, visiting the retired neighbors, going out for breakfast. I had no problem with his hobbies, time with the “guys”, helping other people, etc. But it becomes evident after awhile when the narc desires to spend zero time with their spouse…unless he needs the spouse for “show” at a local event, party, social function, etc. If only I’d known about narcissism then, I’d have saved myself so much grief! Thanks for your videos!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏🙌💯

[@Claire90409]

Yes, my partner was always busy heping others, too. Even more so when I became ill.

[@Wulyf2024]

Brilliant as always! Whenever I feel the need to break no contact I watch your videos they really do help so much! Thank you 😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@arfanqurban3577]

No contact, please

[@sarahwoodward4470]

I loved the video. Thank u Andrew 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏💯🙌

[@justj4021]

Oh yeah. I found out at the end. I definitely figured out the rules a little too late and BOOM it really blew up. My boundaries are slowly getting better. Stay awesome Andrew

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏💯🙌

[@debbieramsey2696]

Everything you said is true. I feel better about myself when i hear that it's not our fault. We were used and abused, as hard as it is to except it. Now for the healing. Thanks Andrew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏🙌💯

[@degenerati]

It’s happening to me right now, I think. It’s my Sister in Law, and I can’t tell if it’s narcissism I’m dealing with, or if she’s a sociopath. Thank goodness that my Husband sees that we’re dealing with an actual monsters , and is working with me to defend ourselves from her malicious lies, and booby traps. I feel like I have been pretty smart about who I’ve brought into my life, and specifically her type of high drama liar & taker, but this one came through the backdoor - extended family. I cannot tell my Husband to stay away from his Sister because we are a close family in most ways. We are trying to keep her at a safe distance, but she keeps closing in because she has designs for her future that involves much manipulation & creation of false narratives about us, primarily me. She’s been manipulating her Brother for decades, and I am an obstacle to that , and she is not happy about it. I’m at my wits end with this, tbh. Thanks for listening.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always..😉🙏💯🙏🙌

[@thisnjdude]

Just got out of a relationship with my ex narc… I can’t fathom someone could really behave and think like this. I took her back after the discard then finally had a humongous gut feeling to break up with her and go no contact

[@christine11347]

Always listen to your gut. It will always guide you in the right direction.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful empowerment 🙏💯🙌

[@niteal1255]

Have come to the belief my narcissistic parents were mentally ill 🤒. It's amazing 2 people who were just alike found each other and multiplied.

[@steveobaby6048]

The narcissist loves to play that victim card and blame you because they're not getting the results that you are getting text messages phone calls hanging out with friends girls if someone says sorry to me I won't pity them because it's their actions and their mistakes not mine

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@suejohnson535]

Good morning ! Good morning to you & everyone here 🌞☀️ I Hoped everyone had a wonderful blessed night 🙏 The reason the narcissistic don't think like us ,it is also cause & due to the narcissistic is not normal but instead the narcissistic is nothing but satanic evil . I don't want the narcissistic think about me ,not at all & if he doesn't ,it doesn't hurt my feelings but instead it is a blessing & if the narcissistic is thinking about me ,I don't know he wants revenge ! Thank you for all your videos & everyone comments here & May you & everyone here is to have a wonderful wonderful blessed day 🙏 what a beautiful day it is going to be today .

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙌🙏💯😊

[@vickiferguson4962]

Ty for all you share! I have learned so so much! I always wondered why I was not good enough or pretty enough! All my friends appreciated me but at home, no bueno! I never understood the fits of unprovoked rage. I never knew it had a name!!!!❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏💯🙌

[@lynnfincham6839]

They are way to arrogant to accept they are wrong 😑

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌😉

[@soniaoneill7575]

Love your take on it all. Xxx

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 💯🙌🙏

[@jackreed3756]

Mine is like the "lady galatria" (from lord of the rings, the good forest witch) when frodo offers her the ring and she goes apeshit crazy. My narc is a narc-jezzebel and is ultra bipolar. Either a childlike infantile little sweet inocent girl, or a variation of manipulative go-getter who easily avalanches to different stages of violent dramatic expressions until she literaly screams in rages exactly like the "lady galatria". I gave her a name "Dragon-Doll-Z". And... yes, I married her. And yes, I am in a terrible crux. One thing I was happy to learn is to sincerily and very truly "Let go and let GOD". Now it is either go thru imigration process to divorce her after she becomes legal and able to work and travel, or divorce now and leave her with no papers no work or travel capabilities. Either way this is beyond myself and I'm very fortunate to have a strong relationship with THE SPIRIT OF LIFE AND TRUTH Who guides, protects and drives me. HE will handle this matter and instruct me along the way. A few years ago when this narc-jez situation drove me to a nervous breakdown, I did 2 things. I busted into a pack of american spirit cigarettes to stop the nervous breakdown, and then I fell to my knees in prayer and submission before our HOLY FATHER OF LIGHTS AND LIFE, and surrendered to HIM all I was and begged HIM to take charge of me instead of me. I knew YESHUA JESUS CHRIST and in HIS Name I asked HOLY FATHER and HE answered me, and HE took the situation from despair to strengthening. HE has made me stronger, wiser, more knowledgeable, more prudent, giving, patient, forgiving, also more resolute. Since then my narc goes crazy because the devil lost his grip of me. And with my MIGHTY FORTIFIER Driving me, HE steers me out of danger and out of her puppet strings. So, now just awaiting HIS instructions on the last steps to take guided by HIM. Anyway, thanks for reading this. It feels good to share this :) Look Up, Be Up, Pray Up, Stay Up, and Speak Up!!! Peace.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@dominiquec316]

I'm sorry to hear about your doomed marriage to a Jezebel Spirit but thank you so much for sharing your testimony, Jack. Happy to see that the Lord gave you discernment since you know in your heart that a divorce with her is inevitable (the children of God are not supposed to be yoked with the agents of satan). I didn't get married but in my case, I was a lukewarm believer before my relationship with the Narc, and since crying out to the Lord when I was distressed and heartbroken, I've turned into a strong, God-fearing, born again! The number of people who found God or grew in faith because of a narcissist relationship is staggering and it's not a coincidence ==> Genesis 50:20 "You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives." May God bless you brother, and may He continue to help you find solace, hope, peace and strength in Him. I pray that He guide you in your last decision regarding your Jezebel Spirit wife, soon to be ex wife. Stay faithful Jack, and like you said so rightfully "Let go and let God". Peace and many blessings to you 🙏🏽

[@jackreed3756]

@@dominiquec316 Thank you Dominique, and I also appreciate your brief testimony and meaningful insight. I like the quoted scripture. Stay Blessed and favored by FATHER. Peace.

[@dominiquec316]

@@jackreed3756 Thanks for your comment Jack and sorry for calling you John, I misread your name yesterday!

[@tonyroma7599]

Wow Andrew, I can tell you are getting stronger. You stayed the course the whole video. I hope some day I will grow stronger too. Thank you for your strength. God Bless🙏🏻

[@christine11347]

Absolutely excellent video

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 💯🙏🙌🙏

[@nancyh.570]

Thank you again Andrew….

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙌💯🙏

[@danielbelcher2700]

Wow! Thank you, your work is very much appreciated. And extremely helpful. Truth is sometimes hard to hear but necessary. Thanks again

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 💯🙌

[@lisazane3553]

🙏🦋🌺💞🙌 Thanks Andrew another great video.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏💯

[@dailybrandnew6772]

Fantastic video, Andrew...you couldn't have delivered your explanation any more accurately or beautifully. I am so grateful to hear the unadulterated truth about my pitiful relationship with a narcissist. Thank you so very much. 🌟🌷💕🌞🌴🦋

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏💯🙌

[@silviapenamaduro]

Im still in disbelief that the person I was with for 12 years was all a lie

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Sending healing energy and strength 🙏💯🙌

[@lynnfincham6839]

But you weren’t 💕

[@myst2.0]

The vows you renamed was spot on but I had to laugh all the same. Never heard the pastor say it like that. : ) Probably should.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌😉💯

[@inajansen7202]

So sad but So true dear Andrew! 😥 Thanks for the video! 🙏 ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏💯

[@Theresa1010]

You were on fire! Spot on! Thank you for continuing to be helpful and informative. 🙏🌈

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 💯🙌🙏

[@robgregovich5081]

Plainly saying it you right on point

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌🙏

[@LPea147]

You’re really good at what you do.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏🙌😊

[@serataylor772]

I'm setting boundaries with everyone now, and it feels good. Somebody messed up an appointment I had made with them yesterday and tried to get me to reschedule for when it suited them. I said no, in a direct, non-apologetic, assertive way. I'm not a people pleaser anymore. If you mess with me, I walk away. Period. Thanks, Andrew, for empowering me to reclaim myself from others who think they can control me. Right now everyone I meet that tries to jerk me around is going to get instantly cut out of my life, because dealing with my stbx narc has taught me not to let people do that to me anymore.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@susanlina1070]

Thank you Andrew!! ❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@smarternow]

Now I am educated but in the meantime I am no contact, however I lost hair, got ptsd, anxiety and anger. I am going to come out on top and look better through exercise and loving myself. He fooled me once. Future faked and on to his next shinny new thing…lol she is married 3 times, former drug addict…got pregnant by him in her teens…he says he is SO happy

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🙌

[@lindsandkev]

Not many men in this world like you Andrew, you're the best 💕

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😊☀️

[@Dreamskater100]

So true. This stretches not just to a partner but anyone. A in law, a colleague etc So much harder because you can't just walk away. You can only hope they are exposed & you can be freed or supported. & people realise the (years of) torment you've been through & the their toxic ways & character.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

[@Dreamskater100]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you.

[@sarahmyatt6156]

OH YES, THIS HAPPENED TO ME OVER AND OVER AGAIN!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌🙏💯

[@ameliaruehlen9147]

✌Exactly right. I got a heavy on the Future Faking (B.S) and a heavy on the Love Bomb. Followed by a heavy on the Discard!! Fast and furious. My mind is still blown 7 months later. 💨😲 I tried so hard to understand this person but now I know -- I NEVER will. Thank you.❣

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏💯🙌

[@christine11347]

It's not even worth the energy of trying to figure it out. When you think about it the love bomb is so strong in the beginning but starts to have holes in it really pretty early on, which looking back is so telling that something wasn't right. On the flip side when things start out with holes but then keep getting better and better that feels just as telling but in a much healthier way. No relationship is perfect, but the feeling is much different. Absolutely no comparison.

[@katyams]

I am trying to understand, looking for answers. And it's only making everything worse. I need to stop this altogether. It's making me upset, mad, and not going anywhere. It's amazing how those people make empty promises, then discard you like they never ever knew you, and completely disappear!!! No face to face conversation, and that's after promising to marry you etc. I will never understand this.

[@ameliaruehlen9147]

I had a similar experience Katya. He said all the "marriage stuff." Then gladly threw me out of the house overnight (literally) and never spoke to me again....absolutely crazy. I remember Andrew once said when they leave they also "take the hamster wheel." 💯 And you're right- thinking about it only makes it worse. I've found that when I do think about it, I journal and try to get the feelings out regarding that horrible discard day. I can say I am much stronger today than I was a month ago and the month before that. 🙏

[@christine11347]

@@katyams Hang in there Katya. It all comes down to supply. That's why this video is so great, because we don't think like them in any shape or form, so we will never fully understand. It's probably for the best. Going forward focus on you and your healing. Education, self love and allowing yourself to heal will protect you from engaging with these predators again in the future. The best is yet to come if we all keep moving forward and keep the past in the past.🙏🕊️💪

[@kimmonks116]

Ha ha..😂😂Handsome Andrew..to just throw bit of humour in here..about supply..😄they must go through masses of masks and plugs..fuses 😂😂in their lifetime..what a life..😄just another day for the narc..Blessings to us all here from the UK 🇬🇧 😄🙏😇❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏💯🙌😊

[@deanwinchest3906]

You Drew, the perfect picture; my last 20 years🧑🏼🧟‍♂️ Thank you✌😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌🙏

[@smarternow]

This is perfect. 16 years and I got used up. He crushed my family and friends and unfortunately I married him. He refuses to move his crap out as he lives with supply on Lake Havasau. She stalked my home. He tried to triangulate me! Trying hard to get out of this marriage!!!evil, selfish man. On 3 dating websites…still married to this low life.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Sending strength and positive energy 💯🙌🙏

[@smarternow]

My attorney says I cannot move his stuff. He got court order that he has a week so party at my house. Evil. Nothing I could do. The court system does not recognize narcissists!!!

[@zaitunzainuddin4654]

It seems unreal but true. After putting on an act of utterly down n out and you providing the resources,it shivers how he cld turn into Dr Jeckyl and Hyde. He wld tell lie after lie till yr resourses r almost delepleted.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand completely 💯🙏🙌

[@jude5815]

Hopefully Grace will be given to them and their eyes be opened and they will be healed . But stay away from them

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@robertlavrakas7442]

Boy you hit the nail on the head

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏🙌

[@robertlavrakas7442]

I'm dealing with one pretty tough

[@reallifeskills7640]

You look amazing! Self care and love 💯 🤍🪞fountain ⛲️ of youth . Thank you for these videos.. gotta keep the lessons and education Ive learned..these videos help so much …

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏🙌💯

[@ChangeisGoodwithPam]

Spot on 🙁

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@lindyska]

When it became clear that I wouldn't be physically able to have children due to an illness, I was trashed. For some time he continued to state that this wasn't affecting our love and our couple in any way. Words. Actually, he was rarely with me when I had exams or consultations. Actions. He even told me that we would better stop our medical insurance in order to save money because "it was useless to have it" (I had blood work and consultations every month at the time). With narcissists words don't match with actions. And, cherry on top, when I broke broke up with him, he told me that "honestly, the couple wasn't in good health when you had the miscarriages". Clearly, once more, it was all my fault 👍

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏🙌💯

[@karenzilverberg4699]

Thanks, Andrew! Excellent video.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙌💯😉

[@aliciafranco321]

Wow, thank you Andrew this one was amazing!! Keeping it real 100%

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 💯🙌🙏

[@angieRN73]

Thank you so much Andrew! I look forward to your Videos because they are so inspiring! Thankfully, I am in the healing phase from these sort of relationships and it's so empowering 💜💜💜

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏💯🙌

[@angieRN73]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 😃🙏

[@sharonshim5046]

Great Video Andrew.So true thanks again.One Love. 🇯🇲🌴

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 💯🙏🇯🇲🇨🇷🙌

[@christine11347]

🇯🇲🌺🌴🥥🥇❤️

[@pinkposey8134]

Thinking that these people can justify to themselves going from situations, scenes, is that it is (in their mind) part of a scenes in a play. Life is a play and they carry the acting role to each new act. WE all left during intermission - escaped. sans emotion sans empathy - AS in Shakesphere - All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players. They have their exits and their entrances; And one man in his time plays many parts, his acts being seven ages.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏🙌💯

[@miabrisson733]

They dont even care about any text, they just don't answer them, they have your head spin ,they make you feel like a piece of nothing.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉💯😉

[@damar921]

Thanks Andrew, am grateful for your educative videos . surely I understand now after 6 years in a relationship with a narcissist. Our thinking was different. Thank God am out of the relationship for almost 2 beautiful years! God bless you for what you are doing.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@seanmurray9757]

Laying it bare, thanks for another great vid Andrew!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏