Losing your identity after retirement is not just a japanese thing. Im a retired army officer, and I retired from the USFS as well. At 50 years old and recently divorced, i wondered around aimlessly for 2 years, lost and slowly pulling away from everything i knew. Sailing saved me. I bought a columbia 45 on an impulse buy... literally something to get me out of the house. I learned to sail and used the boat a lot in socal. I sold it and bought a trawler to explore the Pacific NW. I just sold it and bought a hunter 40. I am expanding my plan and hopefully sailing to mexico and on to the Caribbean eventually. Traveling by boat has literally given me purpose again.
@TheOKellysСағат бұрын
Sometimes getting lost is just what’s called for. Cheers!
@PanicAttackOshawa11 сағат бұрын
Thanks for bringing us along once more on your adventures and welcome back (not that you were ever gone)!
@FlesHBoX7 сағат бұрын
Love getting to see you guys just enjoying life and spending it with friends and family. Every new video from you guys is a treat. Thank you for remaining true to yourselves and being genuine!
@terryroth970710 сағат бұрын
So glad to see you again. We've all been wondering what happened. You have been missed. Hope to see more updates soon.
@DocksideCurmudgeon11 сағат бұрын
Interesting his comment about men losing identity at retirement? After 44 yrs of global corporate life, my retirement 9 summers ago was my “best career move” ever! Now retired, we wonder how we ever had time to work! ⛵️🚴👣😎 Now devoting my time to sailing, cycling, boat projects, etc. Enjoy your next adventures ✔️
@PentaRaus10 сағат бұрын
Congrats
@kkots9 сағат бұрын
Couldn’t agree more!
@serinadelmar60129 сағат бұрын
What an amazing position to be in, enjoy.
@mrblurleighton8 сағат бұрын
Japan is insane for having no work life balance. Imagine being used to 80hr work weeks for those 44 years, and then just packing up one day and never going back?
@sailingarista7 сағат бұрын
Different culture has to be considered. Good for you. The project is filling a local need.
@bobram948 сағат бұрын
I'm glad to see you guys back, and I look forward to seeing what the ultimate decision will be on the boat search.
@captainpaddy152410 сағат бұрын
Well done! A lot of wisdom. At each stage of our lives, we really should ask "what is important!?" because it may not actually be important and, as the Buddhists remind us; "Life is change".
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
Truth. Thank you.
@leslieholt81311 сағат бұрын
Welcome home O'Kelly's⛵
@lazzj49955 сағат бұрын
That was a great catch up episode. Thank you for returning. ❤
@HollyandRay6 сағат бұрын
Great video guys! Happy to see you back on the tube❤️ you’re always welcome aboard Sabado!
@mojoneko83036 сағат бұрын
Good to hear from you two again. I was beginning to worry about you. I helped a guy build a 40 foot trimaran in his back yard with the west epoxy system in Alaska back in the 70's. It took him 5 years and I learned a lot helping him out. When he finished the boat he moved it to the port of Anchorage to launch it and motored it that summer to Seattle to have the mast and rigging installed. By the time he got there he realized he hated living on a boat (he had never been sailing in his life). He sold the boat and went to work repairing boats at a yard near Seattle. I was kind of upset I never got a chance to go sailing on it. Thanks for the video. Good luck with your next adventure.
@migueldelaguardia11 сағат бұрын
What a great guy.Welcome back O Kelleys.
@peteaulit10 сағат бұрын
Absolutely agree 100% with all that. Let’s just not forget how privileged we are to be able to ask ourselves those questions and try to find the meaning of (our) life. Most people don’t have that luxury so it’s nice you’re not after YT subs and views. 👍
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
We try to never forget that. And it is all luck.
@salliewhite-bishton53944 сағат бұрын
It was nice seeing both of you again sailing with Holly and Ray celebrating one of your "Big O" Birthdays 🎈🎉
@TheOKellysСағат бұрын
Whoop whoop
@whitneylake21077 сағат бұрын
I once suggested, several years ago, that you guys are capable of building your own catamaran. I have been listing SO many reasons why it would be better: Less expensive, you have complete control of what happens and how it happens, the wait time for a production boat is ridiculous (years), the goose chases you have encountered chasing another boat, and the list goes on. Way back when you did the two-part "Top Secret" episodes I decided right then I would absolutely build my own. When I sell my property in Montana it won't be long before we run across each other. Glad to see you on this channel again !!
@TheOKellys7 сағат бұрын
Go for it. For us...we shall see...
@rew31038 сағат бұрын
👍! It was time for a re-evaluation. An evolution of plans moving forward, finding a comfort zone based on experience and maturity. We commend you on your journey and the sharing of it. There was never any doubt... thank you :)
@TheOKellys7 сағат бұрын
Thank you
@johnohare636011 минут бұрын
Very happy to have you back.hopefully you will find your dream. I will be watching.
@dadthegrappler41252 сағат бұрын
Always great to see your shiny faces!!! Your videos are the benchmark for authentic vlogging. Beautiful to see your family and friends surrounding you too. So glad you're doing well. Take care of yourselves first, and when possible take us along with you. I wish you all the best.
@TheOKellysСағат бұрын
Thank you so much!
@cathyclaypool23558 сағат бұрын
Glad to have you back really missed you guys!😊
@patrickbruce90958 сағат бұрын
Thanks for the episode. Its terrific that you went to visit Kev; It had to have have been a full-on blast of life-inspiration! He is an amazing fellow: boatbuilder, musician and humanist. I got turned onto his channel near the beginning and pretty quick, I was hooked. I hope everybody in the sailing world and beyond finds his channe, Salt and Light. Kev's commitment, skill, and humility is bound to teach you something about achieving your own goals and maybe even living your life. I'm building a plane and I find it daunting in a similar way although its physically demanding. When I get stuck (mentally and emotionally), I watch a re-run of Salt and Light Kev's perseverance stands out and lifts me up, I find.
@TheOKellys7 сағат бұрын
Yeh, I hope everyone follows along with him. Excellent human being.
@saltlightdix470444 минут бұрын
Hi Patrick, thanks for your kind words! Interestingly, my brother builds planes and I sometimes call him when I need some encouragement 😊 Kev
@andersonautomotive11 сағат бұрын
Good to see you guys, and what a great video this was! I hope to see you in an anchorage again sooner than later.
@TheOKellys8 сағат бұрын
Us too! Thanks
@LaurieShannon-gr2ts12 минут бұрын
The story telling here is top notched. No one out there can compare. I would follow you on any adventure be it water, land or air. You see life in such a real way. Great job your two👏
@davidreed998711 сағат бұрын
So glad you are back!
@DavidBauerdorf2 сағат бұрын
Great to see you again! Always looking forward to the next time
@rhyslightning337928 минут бұрын
So great to see you guys having fun again! I'm an amateur plywood boat builder myself and have been following Kev's build since the beginning - he is the epitome of the Aussie can-do attitude! I'm so glad you guys are considering a build - it's so rewarding! Best of luck 🥰
@todbot32938 сағат бұрын
Even though I do miss your (and other) videos. I do believe you two should do whatever makes you happy.
@elifromtishbe654726 минут бұрын
3 minutes 54 seconds in, I have never commented, not a sailor, 69 years old, You guys helped to start my passion for sailing 1 year ago, Retired, Re-inventing, Business owner/Carpenter, I don't know where this video is even going but I dig it. Missed you guys...SO MUCH!
@dianegriffith30067 сағат бұрын
So thrilled to see you back on the Tube here and wishing you only the best in your future endeavors. 🎉
@bearparts8 сағат бұрын
So good to see you here again.
@robertmcmahon12216 сағат бұрын
And a good time was had by all. We also enjoyed what you enjoyed. Thanks!
@Useless_Knowledge077 сағат бұрын
YOU returned with another video that seems to encompass vital crossroads in living a rewarding life. Interesting how we are drawn back to the beginnings, while formulating our future. I bet you guys felt YOUNG again!
@seasider10110 сағат бұрын
Beautiful, gentle song by the band. Thanks for the video and the luck of the Irish to you all ☘️
@timhardman47649 сағат бұрын
so good to see you guys again, thanks for sharing what's happening in your life. You are both inspirational in so many ways. Keep smiling and laughing and finding a way to enjoy the process....life.
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
A process alright. Thank you for the kind words.
@claverton9 сағат бұрын
Very pleased you found Kevin in Japan. I've been following him for a while now, top bloke and his channel is a hidden gem. A very interesting build and looks like a good performance cruiser orientated design. I calculated the displacement to LWL ratio from numbers from the designers website and according to my calcs it's a respectable 124.
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
Should be a quick boat. Kevin is a gem.
@BlueRoosterChimineas10 сағат бұрын
Look at the Wharram Tiki 46 if you're bringing crew or Tiki 38 for yourselves. The reason we watch sailings vids is because we want to afford it. You would be legend!
@robertpendzick92509 сағат бұрын
Visited Japan this spring, yes, what a pleasure. Glad to see your occasional postings.
@btrotta9 сағат бұрын
We've missed you. But like all old friends, we understand the reason for your absence - sometimes you just need to focus on yourself. Welcome back, friends. It's good to catch up.
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
Old friends. Thank you. And old friends, you can just pick right back up...
@robbief15 сағат бұрын
You got your shine back on! Congrats 🎉
@valerieb.4912Сағат бұрын
No worries. You guys are just chillin and enjoy your journey. I am grounded in West Coast Florida as a caregiver to my 98 and 95 years old parents. Then my sailing journey begins. Happy Sailing ⛵
@TheOKellysСағат бұрын
Good on ya. Never get those days back
@dianegriffith30067 сағат бұрын
The ending was so emotional-thanks for the family/friends reminder..
@carlosvallejo492611 сағат бұрын
Guauu, thanks for allow us to be part of your family. Love you guys. Cheers from Canary Islands
@TheOKellys8 сағат бұрын
Thank you Carlos. You are family.
@jamesmorken335610 сағат бұрын
I just did a search yesterday to see if you had posted any videos lately. I missed you. Glad to have you back.
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
Glad to be missed. better than the opposite! Thank you!
@gervaisbilodeau84659 сағат бұрын
Wow...what a pleasure to have watched this episode. What a feeling. All about humans and being together, and sharing good times. Merci beaucoup.
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
That's what it's all about.
@ckott997 сағат бұрын
Glad to have you back in my life!! When KZbin stops being fun, take another break.
@FunsongsMusicByPeterRahill4 сағат бұрын
14,897th tag-along looky-loo view happening. I like Kevin's enthusiasm and can-do attitude... he appears to be enjoying the journey; hope it's contagious for you two. 14:17 - now I can relate to THAT. Making music with your friends is a good retirement hobby to have. 17:37 - back out on the water is good, too.
@MrPalmguy7 сағат бұрын
Very interesting. I surely do respect anyone who can build, the way the fine chap does his boat there. It's really hugh, but It will be beautiful when it's finished. Be safe always, from the Philippines.
@sheridanlee68367 сағат бұрын
It is really good to see you again I have missed you more than I can say.
@nancyaubel42078 сағат бұрын
Love this idea! Cannot wait to see what you guys do!
@SV-DEDICATEDСағат бұрын
Catamaran building vids are the hot ticket right now. Ask Plukky.
@TheOKellysСағат бұрын
So hot right now. Lol
@jeffwatson49082 сағат бұрын
Welcome back. We missed you. Kudos to Kevin. A novice boat builder with such ambition is rare and he still has to learn to sail. I can envision you two on his maiden voyage and sail to Australia.
@TheOKellysСағат бұрын
How cool would that be
@saltlightdix470442 минут бұрын
@@TheOKellys- absolutely!
@markthomasson507710 сағат бұрын
Following him, great guy. Crazy big boat.
@hathaway572410 сағат бұрын
Wowww, thank you, stunning. Much needed. 🤗
@CrazyBobina4210 сағат бұрын
Glad to see ya again. Love your vibes
@MHow19009 сағат бұрын
Glad to see you are back
@MrJerobona28 минут бұрын
Great to see you again!
@patrickjames10809 сағат бұрын
Brilllllliant O'Kellys - thanks for sharing ⛵️ 👍
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
Thank you!
@gregdannels16999 сағат бұрын
Good to see you guys again!
@BobFirth9 сағат бұрын
Missed you guys. Glad to see you back on the tube.
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
Thanks Bob. Da Toob was calling!
@ThoughtfulWander10 сағат бұрын
Great episode! Welcome back! 👍👍stay safe and keep rolling! 👍👍
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
Well thankya!
@ThoughtfulWander3 сағат бұрын
@@TheOKellys 👍👍
@catamaranmentorСағат бұрын
Just started wondering about you both. Thanks for the update.
@maneou6 сағат бұрын
I have followed Kevin from the beginning. He's a legend! ❤ I hope you'll find away to new boat somehow through this...
@TheOKellys6 сағат бұрын
in the truest sense of the word!
@paulstephens52299 сағат бұрын
Really nice to see you guys again. Welcome back, what was the remarkable song running through the later half of the video ?.
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
El Cajon. Our besties from way way way back. They have a killer track they are going to drop in a few weeks.
@pounceonyou19588 сағат бұрын
Good to see you again.
@iznasen10 сағат бұрын
True inspiration. Been watching since day one. Sending love from Morocco!
@TheOKellys8 сағат бұрын
Thank you!
@marcellacruser95111 сағат бұрын
AWWW! So good to see you guys! Can't wait to get caught up.🫶
@barjohn00712 минут бұрын
I have missed your shows and glad to see you back, even if it is only temporary. Having owned a professionally built Piver Lodestar Tri that used the West system, I could not recommend it for the tropics. It can get dry rot and maintenance is a nightmare once it has a few sea miles. Tree spores in the tropics have a way to get intp the plywood and the outside may look ok but inside...
@juliazentner68110 сағат бұрын
WOW! I loved it! Best episode? Video? Vlog? Whatever... Best one yet!
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
Vlogisode. Glad you liked. From the heart.
@Kiwifarmerboy4 сағат бұрын
Loved the new video guys pleeeeeeeeease don't leave it another 3 months
@AlMe-d4c4 сағат бұрын
Great to see you back and enjoyed the slowed down Cranberries reference - very 2018 Mr O'Kelly! 😅 Back to first principles!
@TheOKellysСағат бұрын
Woah….you got the connect! It’s just a game to you…… cheers
@jaappiersma30205 сағат бұрын
My God, I've been having sleepless nights since you disappeared. It's very understandable as it is one reason I have never started a KZbin channel. I am glad you are back even if it is just with one episode. I also love sv delos as they are building an aluminium cat. I hope you guys will find the Drea, and perfect compromise soon. Just be grateful with what you got. I love you both!!!!😍😍
@crowdfundcrew8 сағат бұрын
Awesome project. I’ve been watching the Delos build and love the aluminum over plywood - but I’ll probably never have either so wish him the best to finish and work out how to get it out of the workshop! Donate for a Dream
@BryanHolmes-j4r5 сағат бұрын
Great video welcome back
@fxpthl3 сағат бұрын
Welcome back kids! You have been missed a lot!
@TheOKellysСағат бұрын
Awww. Thanks.
@SecretSquirrelFun10 сағат бұрын
The Men’s Shed idea that Kevin talked about is such a great thing. We have them here in Australia. Well I know they have some in NSW (in Sydney).
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
Truly. Not just a man thing. We all need in-person time.
@LouisBackover10 сағат бұрын
I think this is one of your best videos. Awesome edit too.
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
Well thank you!
@CaptPauly8 сағат бұрын
Nice, something I've found is when you get away from something like boating for to Long the interest seems to wander away. I know you guys have had some Big disappointments with finding that perfect one again. I have to tell you that 50 leopard was the funnest one I've sailed. Unfortunately they just want to much for them still. Just make sure you get back on the water as much as you can till that perfect craft becomes available. I'm 60 now and it's getting farther away from thinking about that adventure anymore. All l I do is work now 6 days a week. I feel institutionalized these days. Obtained my captain license and was ready to make it happen but then stuff happened and everything stopped. It's just a dream now. Thank you for keeping me hopeful of one day maybe getting together and back out on the water away from it All. My wife has yet to experience the Joy of a catamaran slicing thru the water and listening to the winds of freedom in some of the most beautiful places on our planet.
@TheOKellys8 сағат бұрын
The stories we tell ourselves...and we all tell ourselves stories...are very powerful. Important to be very careful about knowing where the story comes from. Without being too woo-woo, I think the heart always knows the truth, and that's always the best path. Wherever that path leads, soak it in...this is a one-way trip.
@CaptPauly7 сағат бұрын
@@TheOKellys 💕
@dougo56359 сағат бұрын
By far the best video you've ever put out, thanks
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
Wow. Thank you.
@langalex7 сағат бұрын
I‘m building a Dudley Dix design myself (just much smaller, 21ft monohull). You won’t regret it.
@traviskreger72357 сағат бұрын
Thanks as always.
@dogseathomework417110 сағат бұрын
Cool video! It might be easier for the Australian man to install a door on the other side of the building instead of building a bridge.
@marceld60615 сағат бұрын
Welcome back.
@badlater9 сағат бұрын
Cheers fellas, enjoy life 🍻
@sagiforbes50777 сағат бұрын
amazing chapter
@girishbatavi11 сағат бұрын
Commenting before watching.. got the chance to be first. Energy and enthusiasm for content creating is amazing. Keep up the amazing work!
@TheOKellys7 сағат бұрын
Appreciate it!
@jodymooney2559 сағат бұрын
What an incredible video! I can relate to the workaholic and retiring as a female. The group that was recording was amazing. Who is the group? ❤
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
June and RJ's band is El Cajon. They are going to drop an incredible track here in the next few weeks. They are on instagram. Their sons' band is great too.
@MrBDub10 сағат бұрын
We missed you. ❤
@caldepen37252 минут бұрын
Pretty cool project. Rather than a bridge I wonder if those steel beams could hold a dolly system to hoist and roll it across?
@dc15445 сағат бұрын
I have seen what marine grade plywood looks like after 25 years. It falls apart and holds mold. just the humidity can get into it and start a down spiral.
@clivestainlesssteelwomble766510 сағат бұрын
Ah i see you you met this exelent chap... an Ozzy in Japan.
@MT-cc2fzСағат бұрын
Been missing you guys.
@williamdykes27506 сағат бұрын
OK so, during the last 5 minutes of the vid I feel as though I was a taking a trip through Picasso's mind while he was painting.
@darrenbeebe8 сағат бұрын
❤
@heisenbugz3 сағат бұрын
I was playing with the idea of building a cat rather than buying, just so I would know every inch of the boat. But after seeing MJ Sailing's time investment. I think I started leaning away from that option.
@Bryan-q6s8m9 сағат бұрын
👍
@robertdowdall106811 сағат бұрын
He’s nuts but what a great bloke
@TheOKellys8 сағат бұрын
Great guy.
@rbnhood3949 минут бұрын
I’ll have to agree with Kevin on losing your identity when you retire. I tried it for two years and I was completely lost. I went back to work and it saved my life, because my health was going downhill from a sedentary lifestyle . You lose contact with your working friends. You need to have plenty of money to do anything.
@stfitts11 сағат бұрын
I feel like you've made this video 2-3 times. Eithwr way, good luck!
@RNVOS10 сағат бұрын
Great video ❤ from 🇨🇦BC
@TheOKellys9 сағат бұрын
Thank you! 😃
@pand0rium23511 сағат бұрын
few mins in... that dude has to be a kiwi
@torbjrnletrud35167 сағат бұрын
Hi. I am wondering whi Kevin need to build a bridge to get his catamaran across the channel, when there are two large H-beams suitable for h-beam trllleys that would eaily hold the weight of the boat crossing the channel from inside the room whewe he is building the boat. Hvw he not thought about this?