Why you feel so stuck in life

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@ranjan_v
@ranjan_v 3 жыл бұрын
You are one of my top 10 bald dudes
@Fillup82
@Fillup82 3 жыл бұрын
Who are the other 9?
@sakules
@sakules 3 жыл бұрын
@@Fillup82 john danaher, devin townsend, patrick stewart
@reymichaelsungazornosa4040
@reymichaelsungazornosa4040 3 жыл бұрын
Mom's doctor
@ranjan_v
@ranjan_v 3 жыл бұрын
@@Fillup82 : Joe Rogan, Dwayne johnson, Robin Sharma, David goggins, Bill Burr and others...
@dday675
@dday675 3 жыл бұрын
@@Fillup82 simon miller, johnny sins... 😏
@simonwalsh6804
@simonwalsh6804 3 жыл бұрын
“By physically travelling to new places, you mentally travel to new places..” - we all know this intuitively and yet it can be so hard to act on it. This sage advice
@5784Eva
@5784Eva 3 жыл бұрын
yes dream on LOL
@darrenmcintosh8471
@darrenmcintosh8471 2 жыл бұрын
the best place to travel is within to many people looking outside the box
@excalibur_k
@excalibur_k 10 ай бұрын
If I had money to travel
@gabrielagreste5504
@gabrielagreste5504 8 ай бұрын
Jesus said whoever is thirsty of water come to me and I'll fulfill you
@sneakerbabeful
@sneakerbabeful 8 ай бұрын
You can mentally travel to new places by reading a book. Your local library has a few.
@leloupdessteppes3228
@leloupdessteppes3228 3 жыл бұрын
The pandemic made me realize that I can’t live in a big city anymore. I feel like a hamster in a cage. I felt anxious all the time and smoked far too much. I decided to move back to my parents in the country side one month ago. I’m a new man now. I wake up early, I work out, i quit smoking. I have a new look on life and I feel at peace and relaxed. Working from home in these natural environment feels like heaven to me.
@Velhost
@Velhost 3 жыл бұрын
Dang ur living the dream
@staycool4349
@staycool4349 3 жыл бұрын
We are the products of our environment.
@thelonercoder5816
@thelonercoder5816 3 жыл бұрын
I like a mix of both. I moved to a mid-sized city. I love nature but I couldn't give up the good things about a city: better dating, better food, faster internet, closer stores, more things to do, etc.
@alexlloyd2154
@alexlloyd2154 3 жыл бұрын
What do you do to be able to work at home?
@Onwardsandupwards2023
@Onwardsandupwards2023 3 жыл бұрын
I love this, good for you 🙌🏾
@G6Radio
@G6Radio 3 жыл бұрын
Who else is grateful for this channel? 🙌💜
@limeleff8334
@limeleff8334 3 жыл бұрын
Me, high-key. It's what motivates me to i.e. work out, and be productive overall.
@scythe6517
@scythe6517 3 жыл бұрын
Me :)
@Mcdollibee07
@Mcdollibee07 3 жыл бұрын
Meeeeee
@christiandecastro3360
@christiandecastro3360 3 жыл бұрын
this is one of the few productivity channels that actually manages to teach me something new. Also he has a calming voice lol
@thelookingcat
@thelookingcat 3 жыл бұрын
Meeeee
@Mikegudmann
@Mikegudmann 3 жыл бұрын
Bro, the timing couldnt be much better! Thank you
@SamuelHalder
@SamuelHalder 3 жыл бұрын
But your music genre makes my day. Listening to it for the last 5 years, keep up your work, you are making many people's day.
@seamonkeyluver
@seamonkeyluver 3 жыл бұрын
how are things going for you now?
@DaveDisci
@DaveDisci 3 жыл бұрын
Your videos always know what I'm going through! 😳
@DaaWood998
@DaaWood998 3 жыл бұрын
Same. His videos always weirdly match the time when I need them the most.
@solracv8528
@solracv8528 3 жыл бұрын
So true
@frederic6998
@frederic6998 3 жыл бұрын
As he explained it's because you're into the KZbin circle algorithm.
@frederic6998
@frederic6998 3 жыл бұрын
It's the KZbin algorythm who know.
@tarunyavagal6600
@tarunyavagal6600 3 жыл бұрын
Or maybe he’s experiencing the same things as you
@NasrAllah9988
@NasrAllah9988 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your continuous inspiring content 👏
@nour_hisham
@nour_hisham 3 жыл бұрын
يا دوك انت هنا؟؟❤️❤️❤️❤️
@إذاعة12
@إذاعة12 3 жыл бұрын
الدوك العالمي
@belalhoussameldin
@belalhoussameldin 3 жыл бұрын
Doc ❤️
@samehemad1359
@samehemad1359 3 жыл бұрын
منور يا عالمى
@mohamedkoshaik7624
@mohamedkoshaik7624 3 жыл бұрын
منور يدوك❤️
@CarlosEduardo-nj9nz
@CarlosEduardo-nj9nz 3 жыл бұрын
Right when I was thinking "what am I doing with my life?"
@hatemylife373
@hatemylife373 3 жыл бұрын
@; always
@Jonathan-yd1th
@Jonathan-yd1th Жыл бұрын
"Getting out" for me at least doesn't change anything. I'm stuck in a cycle of depression, anxiety, sudden burst of motivation and this "feeling stuck" feeling. Everything feels weird, other people feel empty to me like puppets stuck in a matrix. Working a job feels pointless as much as doing nothing. It feels like my brain started to work manualy like I changed dimensions or something and everyone tells me its normal or ok to feel like this. Everything I do feels like I'm wasting time, but for what? Everything, happyness, sadness, joy or pain.
@VaniZo-jm2tl
@VaniZo-jm2tl 5 ай бұрын
You read my thoughts exactly! I'm going through this right now and it's so strange to me. I'm in this annoying mental lingo and feel like I'm wasting my life away. I find it difficult to wake myself up out of this. It feels like a curse.
@gustavorosas4065
@gustavorosas4065 4 ай бұрын
​@@VaniZo-jm2tl If there's anything that the covid lockdown did for me was made me more isolated. I also find myself in a similar position where I do find this energy to get things done but overtime I often lose that energy. At this moment I've made some small changes but overall I know that I must make even bigger ones in order to simply seek out what I'm looking for.
@zippyflamez4597
@zippyflamez4597 4 ай бұрын
This is what I’ve been going through every day
@AzA609
@AzA609 3 жыл бұрын
The pandemic has proved that simple things like going out drastically help from reducing the bad feelings that come from excess time being stuck in your own thoughts.
@anab0lic
@anab0lic 3 жыл бұрын
I prefer to be with my own thoughts than have my thoughts infected by the average person... who is profoundly stupid and has nothing of real worth to say.
@RiotCyborg
@RiotCyborg 3 жыл бұрын
@anab0lic wow ur so enlightened
@markmunroe-hz8rf
@markmunroe-hz8rf 3 жыл бұрын
This pandemic made me realize that, if I have to improve myself, it starts with me. I am trying to start a baking business, beginning with selling health muffins first. Didn't go so well, but I will still try. Also, I am working on another novel (I hope to see it as a graphic novel series)
@anab0lic
@anab0lic 3 жыл бұрын
@@RiotCyborg nothing to do with being 'enlightened', I just function cognitively at a higher level than most of society, that worryingly seems to be getting dumber and dumber.
@MrA16R
@MrA16R 3 жыл бұрын
@@anab0lic I can definitely relate
@affanamer9163
@affanamer9163 3 жыл бұрын
Damn this is exactly what I have been feeling lately
@XavierSIU
@XavierSIU 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr I guess it's not quiet of a surprise considering we've been in a quarantine for the past whole year.
@xantishayde-walker4593
@xantishayde-walker4593 3 жыл бұрын
Hell, not a whole lot changed for me in quarantine. I've been living in a very small mental and physical space for years. It has taken it's toll on me, despite me being primarily introverted. I didn't think it would be much worse than normal. Now it's just the world telling me "stay inside and away from other people" rather than me just doing it anyway.
@theintrovertedaspie9095
@theintrovertedaspie9095 3 жыл бұрын
@@XavierSIU It might be a bit different for me. I graduated high school in 2019 when I was 19 now today im 22, and still don't have an actual job and I have an ambition to be an author. Plus im an introvert, so I spend a lot of tie by myself. This quarantine has in a way really affected me. I guess it kinda makes me feel trapped and sad about my life soar after high school and what career path I wanna take.
@XavierSIU
@XavierSIU 3 жыл бұрын
@@theintrovertedaspie9095 damn, has it gotten any better yet?
@theintrovertedaspie9095
@theintrovertedaspie9095 3 жыл бұрын
@@XavierSIU I am a bit autistic so that might explain my situation.
@fugg3d
@fugg3d 3 жыл бұрын
Bro this vid is spot on. In Quarantine it really felt like everyday just blended into one long day.
@invinciblebreaker3291
@invinciblebreaker3291 2 жыл бұрын
I'm still trapped inside :(
@nebiyu.a4695
@nebiyu.a4695 3 жыл бұрын
Why tf does this guy know what everyone is going through
@jothishprabu8
@jothishprabu8 3 жыл бұрын
We're all living miserable lives that's why
@chrisriddle
@chrisriddle 3 жыл бұрын
Probably a mix of everyone going through some shit and subscribing to data givers to see what we're all googling. It makes looking for topics to write about easier if you can see what demographics are searching what and what they're responding to.
@nebiyu.a4695
@nebiyu.a4695 3 жыл бұрын
@@jothishprabu8 @JOTHISH PRABU bro my life isnt really that miserable to be honest. Lol if you want to be happier in life just try and have a positive perspective and another thing is to find your purpose in life. Mine is my religion islam. I recommend you research it and all other ways of life and find the best one for you but be true to your heart and yourself lol safe.
@Team_Slacker
@Team_Slacker 3 жыл бұрын
@@nebiyu.a4695 NO RELIGION
@nebiyu.a4695
@nebiyu.a4695 3 жыл бұрын
@@Team_Slacker why no religion? You havent even researched about or read any religous books why are you jumping to conclusions?
@Sergeant_Camacho
@Sergeant_Camacho 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not any good at socializing (I'm old, and my friends are getting married and so on) so I have now focused in growing my skills in arts and crafting, and I have to say that those activities are improving my mental health by a lot.
@rg.0333
@rg.0333 3 жыл бұрын
do whatever makes you happy and makes you feel good with yourself man
@iseriouslycouldntfindagood2207
@iseriouslycouldntfindagood2207 3 жыл бұрын
Proud of you to have find happiness on your own that my guy is an accomplishment on it's own keep doing that and stay healthy my guy
@POPDATA
@POPDATA 2 жыл бұрын
By doing what you love you'll end up in a path with like minded people... just keep doing what you love
@calebavenue9204
@calebavenue9204 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, I pretty much can relate to everything you said. Especially feeling stuck in my head, it can be miserable constantly being in your head.
@ravimakwana992
@ravimakwana992 3 жыл бұрын
Also, trying to do new things in your home itself opens up your mind and helps you to get out of that mental rut.
@ketugrahagraha3673
@ketugrahagraha3673 3 жыл бұрын
Really? I think it's entertaining, intellectually stimulating and comforting. :-)
@masnun_abrar
@masnun_abrar 3 жыл бұрын
"instead of hiding away in a tower like Rapunzel.." It suddenly hit me, why she fell in love with an unknown boy so fast: because she got the biggest flow of dopamin of her life with him. #bigbrain
@Lu4n_Yatsu
@Lu4n_Yatsu 2 жыл бұрын
I confess that nowadays I've been really stuck in my own life, I got depression, not sleeping too well, complaining all over my ears, my house seems like it's shrinking and I feel like living in a cage, school is bad, it all started in the end of 2019, when I realized how life works, I was living something hard, I got worried, my life was just changing so fast, parents, friends, physical, mental healthy, I started to live alone for a while just to think about it all, then I thought a lot, I got depression in the beginning of 2022, grades went way down at school, parents blaming me all the time, thanks to Joey I am improving my life as little as I can, thx a lot bro
@rown54211
@rown54211 Жыл бұрын
Are u better?
@Fetjdg
@Fetjdg 3 жыл бұрын
I'm stuck in a PhD in the fourth year. None of my papers ever gets accepted. I hate it, but I am not ready to give up on it because I have invested everything in it. My whole life and Health. But everyday I wish it was over.
@motsgamingCH
@motsgamingCH 3 жыл бұрын
"Get off youtube, well since your still here, this is today's sponsor." XD. that was great
@stephen-finance
@stephen-finance 3 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of the pain management phenomenon where focusing on something or things outside of yourself helps relieve pain. It opens up your mind to everything else that is happening around you, giving perspective to it, and helping you to move past what you are feeling in that moment. You make great videos man! Very needed!
@bummbummist3607
@bummbummist3607 3 жыл бұрын
Hey my Dad told me that once!
@southlondon86
@southlondon86 3 жыл бұрын
Sir is there a name for that phenomenon?
@chungledorf350
@chungledorf350 11 ай бұрын
Its so sad because when covid started i literally just graduated high school ready to move on with my life, but literally couldnt (at least to the extent i wanted to go) i feel lost in life right now with no sense of direction. I know i gotta work to have a house, food etc but at what cost? My youth? My time? I feel like im being left behind and no one even sees me. It feels like im drowning and people walk by, they may even glance but no one helps..
@sandrosaidstrive6226
@sandrosaidstrive6226 3 жыл бұрын
Here's some harsh truth for you: You probably feel stuck because your are stuck. Our emotion follows our motion. But don't worry, start taking small steps everyday and you'll get out of your rut. Stay blessed y'all. 🧡
@astroturfisadude
@astroturfisadude 11 ай бұрын
thanks :)
@modernadulting6857
@modernadulting6857 3 жыл бұрын
People who feel trapped often showcase the inability to say “no”. Sometimes, it's this inability that leads them to the life that they're living now. They won't be able to say no to their family, to their partner, to their friends, to their boss or to their coworkers.
@alexanderSnilsson
@alexanderSnilsson 3 жыл бұрын
It's a balance, overdoing both the "yes" or the "no" will probably not be the best route for the general person.
@SharlenesJourney
@SharlenesJourney 3 жыл бұрын
So true this is a struggle
@hamishstewart5324
@hamishstewart5324 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t even say no to myself most of the time.
@Jessica-ld4bs
@Jessica-ld4bs 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, this made something click for me. You're so right.
@mindymac_does_stuff
@mindymac_does_stuff 2 жыл бұрын
You just perfectly described what's been happening to me for the last couple months. I left my job because of burnout, and I thought the cure was some serious solitude and downtime. And yes, that's part of it, but 3 months in, and I've had too much. I literally was switching into what you described as the existential dread, my thoughts becoming more and more pessimistic (not what you want when you're focused on getting well). So I started doing ehat you recommend and just got out of the house. Started learning piano, came up with a new work plan that has nothing to do with my past career. And I feel more hopeful, life feels less small. Thanks for the great content. Wishing anyone reading this peace and access to the outdoors 💜
@PentaKillMedia
@PentaKillMedia 3 жыл бұрын
This is the longest "Go touch some grass" roast ever. XD
@chahineezzine5504
@chahineezzine5504 3 жыл бұрын
You're such an inspiration So much respect from Tunisia
@quiet7957
@quiet7957 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, I'm from Egypt 🇪🇬❤️
@ThirdEyeAngel
@ThirdEyeAngel 3 жыл бұрын
It’s funny how simple the solutions to a lot of our problems are, I really appreciate your videos. It seems like we overcomplicate our inner struggles a lot of the time and it prevents us from seeing the path forward. Keep the uplifting content coming!
@seaque.
@seaque. 3 жыл бұрын
i was almost happy when quarantine started in the beginning of 2020, i didn't realize over the course of 1.5 years i will be in the worst mental state of my life. I'd feel guilty of taking pleasure from over stimulating things. I realized that reasonable amount of suffering may also be necessary.
@CaroLMilo-yz7fk
@CaroLMilo-yz7fk 3 жыл бұрын
you make me want to engage in a longer conversation w you... I share my empathy first of all. :) And Im curious about the guilt you describe. My story is certainly similar, yet for me, the pandemic resembled a solid personal 10 years of disease that i had gone through, in a confinement of my own. I mean that i was taken away from my birth nation upon contracting mono (you can call it the worst marriage arrangement in the free world). I literally watched the world start understanding my situation.. i saw us all experience the inability to work normally, the separation from loved ones, isolation, everything Id been. I often wondered if anyone of you felt trapped against their will down to developing muscle cramps and migraines that further paralyzed them. not even metaphorically. (Im ready to hug anyone who's gone through such pain ♥︎ this loss of freedom) Im not a moody person in life, for real, Im a really uplifted gal hehe Sh** just happens to the best of us. ..I want to finish w saying i literally became a zoom meeting star for children now haha... I taught art and very funny storytellings during the pandemic. There s an outcome at some point.,goddammit. hehe Now I just feel so ahead, i use the desperate collective situation to fill ppl with sunshine (im being so tacky here)haha But no joking, this has illuminated my heart, schedule and even bank account. So I strongly believe there is tremendous potential to open right now. For all of us. Even if me too, im not out of the woods yet. (did any of this make sense? haha not sure) peace to you, im still curious about the guilt. and anyone who felt understood in this video, ONE LOVE It was f***ing great.
@markmunroe-hz8rf
@markmunroe-hz8rf 3 жыл бұрын
I miss work; I miss going to bookshops and buying new comics; I miss walking through streets and mall, just exploring; Most of all, I miss wanting to explore new options so as to start again my home baking business from scratch.
@joemon7463
@joemon7463 3 жыл бұрын
Life is mostly suffering in the hopes of having the chance of pleasure.
@AlexAugstne22
@AlexAugstne22 3 жыл бұрын
Hey, you speak my mind! Same with me! Word by word! I would be happy if I can connect with you & all who are going through the same pattern at life currently!
@AlexAugstne22
@AlexAugstne22 3 жыл бұрын
@@CaroLMilo-yz7fk I’m going through the same what @seaque mentioned & I’m trying to get out of it. Please, if possible can we connect in insta or anywhere? I would really like to get out of rut inside my head :/
@oxanazhukova6474
@oxanazhukova6474 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sitting at home since December without work, any hobbies (games addiction only), but with depression. I don't feel that half of the year has passed, cause, really, all days are the same. It's awful. Thank you for the video, I'll try to go out of this
@franka6680
@franka6680 10 ай бұрын
I’ve travelled. Met people. Been kind. Tried to keep my relationships at peace. Even tried to regrow some. But yet I feel empty. Stuck. One of my close friends tells me I’m stuck and need to grow and the place I’m in isn’t good for me. I felt that. My other friends who’s smoke and party are happy to see me and love me being here. But I feel I need to do more. I work out, I hike and play with my dogs. But after leaving the military nothing makes sense. Truly makes sense. So I’m thinking of becoming a cop but even that in some way is nagging me
@josevasco7795
@josevasco7795 3 жыл бұрын
Just to want to let you know that you inspire people from overseas, like me… cheers from Portugal 🇵🇹
@fira3381
@fira3381 3 жыл бұрын
And from Poland🇵🇱
@gustavooliveira2457
@gustavooliveira2457 3 жыл бұрын
Give back our gold😪🇧🇷
@josevasco7795
@josevasco7795 3 жыл бұрын
@@gustavooliveira2457 Ahahah we sold it to build monuments 😂
@alfredalonzo5456
@alfredalonzo5456 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t think I got this video recommended by chance. I needed to hear this.
@icf_creative
@icf_creative 3 жыл бұрын
Hold it together everybody, you’re not alone.
@Dre_DJ
@Dre_DJ 2 жыл бұрын
This video has described most of my adult life, I never needed much of an excuse to stay inside, covid and working from home amplified the situation. It got to the point that just doing the food shop became the most exciting time of my week. I tend to do a lot more thinking and a lot less doing. It won’t be easy to change but I know I can’t keep living like this
@karmenjane1257
@karmenjane1257 3 жыл бұрын
I’m such an introvert and I love being alone but I know this is what I need to do. I’ve gotten to the point of questioning my existence and now I know why. You don’t know how much this video means to me, thank you!
@southlondon86
@southlondon86 3 жыл бұрын
Hi madam, how is your progress? Managed to get out more?
@noahblue-y2v
@noahblue-y2v 8 ай бұрын
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). So Many People are Stuck because They don't actually want awareness they want to feel good they don't understand that awareness is the path that they will have to take in order to genuinely get them there
@State-Of-Mind
@State-Of-Mind 3 жыл бұрын
i had to rewatch this immediatly, it was probably my favorite vid of yours
@mharrtj6350
@mharrtj6350 2 жыл бұрын
Bro I like your videos and your style. Your way of teaching and talking is unique and hits different. I live alone, introverted but tryna change that.
@Matthew9203
@Matthew9203 3 жыл бұрын
This guy has mastered how to catch our interest with these relatable titles lol, good grind my man you’re going big time 💪
@ShreyaSahal
@ShreyaSahal 3 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear it! I can literally relate to every word. I wish whoever feels the same may heal soon.
@SharlenesJourney
@SharlenesJourney 3 жыл бұрын
I think the fact that we are all feeling this way is definitely a sign
@Andres-n5d6s
@Andres-n5d6s Ай бұрын
Everyday that I'm trapped on my house i just feel bad, I've had live like this about 3 years ago
@lilhumblebee
@lilhumblebee 3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I’ve been thinking! My friends usually tell me that I have to learn to be by myself and enjoy doing things alone. I understand their point of view but I never feel like being told that helps. Now I know that if I’m feeling down it’s because either my room is messy or I haven’t socialized enough. Thank you!
@hettijayne
@hettijayne Жыл бұрын
Wow you’ve litterally described me for the past year and why I was so stuck and felt so lonely and depressed. I’d been so stuck and sucked into watching hustle culture on KZbin and isolated myself. Thanks for this video ❤
@realzhella6817
@realzhella6817 3 жыл бұрын
No joke I started getting obsessed with this girl over this entire lockdown eventually getting diagnosed with clinical depression and bpd....I need to escape this place asap
@ShahabAhmad1398
@ShahabAhmad1398 3 жыл бұрын
How did this happen?
@realzhella6817
@realzhella6817 3 жыл бұрын
@@ShahabAhmad1398 bcz the girl is my batchmate and I had a crush on her....then I told her that and we had a long convo but then she likes a senior and then yeah I just coudnt let go...and boom started going downhill
@Senpai-Choco
@Senpai-Choco 3 жыл бұрын
@@realzhella6817 I broke up with my gf this year and it hurt wayyyy more than I expected to the point where I was obsessed with having an answer for "Why it happened". Eventually I just thought to myself why care about an answer/things you can't control. Why care about people who are robbing you of time, memories, and happiness.
@fatiefateema
@fatiefateema 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I'd say this is one of the best vid I've ever watched on youtube !
@chaddad4046
@chaddad4046 3 жыл бұрын
That awkward yet joyous moment when Joey uploads more than once a month.
@arismendi21
@arismendi21 3 жыл бұрын
The level of awareness dude I can relate 100% with this video
@aidanwhunter
@aidanwhunter 3 жыл бұрын
Dude your filmmaking is looking insane. Also love the 4runner🤙🏻
@Yes-uk1ex
@Yes-uk1ex 3 жыл бұрын
(There might be some mistakes because English isn't my first language) I just want to say thank you. I have recently stumbled on your channel and before I even began to watch anything, I thought "it's probably one of those "self improvement" channels that will most likely not help at all and talk about the same thing every channel does". I gave you a chance and watched some of your videos. You've actually surprised me! I expected you to brag about how to improve step by step, give some stupid and unhelpful advices and stuff but it was far from that! You give us great explanations of struggles people go through and different perspective on life. I know that many have probably said that before but again, thank you for that!
@breffnyoreilly817
@breffnyoreilly817 3 жыл бұрын
I love that you don't have big intellectual commentaries about self improvement. Everything you say is so digestible. Keep up the great work
@torquise
@torquise 4 ай бұрын
comment section is full of experiences. loving it
@kamal-jahid
@kamal-jahid 3 жыл бұрын
That was beautiful...
@ahmadjamalmughal47
@ahmadjamalmughal47 2 жыл бұрын
Man I almost always want to rewatch your video the second time to let everything sink in. Thank you so much man.
@nassh3702
@nassh3702 3 жыл бұрын
You don't find this quality of content everywhere on the internet nowadays ! Thank you !
@markstar6899
@markstar6899 3 жыл бұрын
The precision of your videos is honestly amazing
@AndrewSarachman
@AndrewSarachman 3 жыл бұрын
This perspective is what everyone needs to hear.
@MsMaplestoryXD
@MsMaplestoryXD 3 жыл бұрын
Couldnt agree more! I spend 99% of my time doing the same thing; Indoors, on youtube, playing games, etc. Some of it thanks to COVID, but also because i dont have much of a social life, or any inspiration to do anything or experience things. But somedays when im feeling different, ill go for a walk to a park or drive to like a lookout, and as soon as im somewhere new, my mind feels at ease, more clear, open and just feel like a new person. I want to continue to explore, experience new things and open my mind up to the greater world, instead of slaving away infront of my computer/phone, repeating the same day over and over again
@bravosix5974
@bravosix5974 3 жыл бұрын
Love ya man Edit : ur probably the closest we as humans can get to chad level mindset
@xoxocamilla
@xoxocamilla 3 жыл бұрын
I agree. Well said. I've been having a thought similar to this lately. I didn't have to work from home during COVID-19, but recently I did have a month long "staycation". I loved not having to work for once but the freedom wasn't as sweet as I had imagined it to be. I missed the routine, I missed a disciplined way of life. Free time becomes sweet when it is sparce or well earned after hard work. I noticed this as every day of my staycation was the same boringness, where I struggled filling in my days, I struggled finding meaning and fulfillment. Because my job was quite hectic/stressful both in terms of schedule and workplace, it sort of had become a routine; working hard, trying my best to get enough rest, and repeating again. When your life is like that you have less time to think about "life" :/ You're not easily bored. However after my staycation I kind of dreaded getting back to work at first because I had become attached to my "freedom". Waking up in the morning early and rushing to work was no fun, but as I was working I noticed that when I came back home after a day of work, I was quite cheerful. I found this quite interesting. I had interacted with people, I had accomplished and contributed to something. Then I was also eager to make the little free time I had in the evening count as much as possible. It really is true that when you're 'stuck' inside a certain place everyday, you become stuck in your own head with the same pessimistic thoughts. Interacting with people and experiencing life outside of home, breathing in the nature, enriches and relaxes one's mind. I work part-time nowadays and while I wouldn't want it any other way, sometimes I struggle filling in my spare time. So I've found new hobbies, projects, small things that I can focus on, spend my energy on, learn more about, get better and enjoy the process. Well I could go on but I should stop here :) Thanks
@shazk
@shazk 3 жыл бұрын
I think he is the only person on KZbin, who does not recommended us to watch his other videos, but instead tells us to get off KZbin at the end of his video. Great respect to you! You really care about our wellbeing..🧒🏽
@jsinghvishal
@jsinghvishal 2 жыл бұрын
It’s amazing how insightful you are
@MilkChad
@MilkChad 3 жыл бұрын
“Life’s a happy song….”
@betterideas
@betterideas 3 жыл бұрын
When there's someone by your side to sing along
@Mahlak_Mriuani_Anatman
@Mahlak_Mriuani_Anatman 3 жыл бұрын
Nope The only lyrics life has is "Unfair"
@KleberFainer
@KleberFainer 3 ай бұрын
@@betterideas If people sing along a song generally it ruins the experience...
@zarrinnahid448
@zarrinnahid448 3 жыл бұрын
Heart heals to see guys like you trying soo hard to cheer up depressed and anxious people. It's a very noble thing to do in someone lifetime. Thank you.
@LowtoneLu
@LowtoneLu 3 жыл бұрын
Hope all is well to everyone tuning in.
@BigGamingBossMan
@BigGamingBossMan 3 жыл бұрын
Well for me it couldn’t be worse
@robertwashington9651
@robertwashington9651 3 жыл бұрын
Bro how did you become so wise like every time I watch one of your videos I leave with something I can apply. Thanks man.
@Fillup82
@Fillup82 3 жыл бұрын
Before you even did the ad I was thinking that shirt fit suspiciously well.
@alvarozuniga149
@alvarozuniga149 3 жыл бұрын
man i have seen a lot of self-imiprovement youtubers and u are the more realistic and inspiring, thanks man
@giraffeasaurn.9303
@giraffeasaurn.9303 3 жыл бұрын
"Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?"
@pedropaulomoreira5246
@pedropaulomoreira5246 3 жыл бұрын
I'm Brazilian and your content is very important for me, am learning english and listen your voice every days. Congratulations for your job!
@improvewithsoo-selfdevelop1219
@improvewithsoo-selfdevelop1219 3 жыл бұрын
"New experiences open your world up and make your life feel more significant." Such an inspiring video and statement! 👏
@Mehaar
@Mehaar 3 жыл бұрын
your words changed my life ❤🙏🏻
@thecontentcreator5702
@thecontentcreator5702 3 жыл бұрын
Such a great video as usual. Crescent beach made a cameo, love it.
@stephenn77
@stephenn77 2 жыл бұрын
I can be very hard on myself! I live alone and am around myself all the time... Being around others gets you out of your own head and negative thinking! Just need more friends…
@markmunroe-hz8rf
@markmunroe-hz8rf 3 жыл бұрын
This pandemic, I hate starting at the computer most of the day. I miss just walking outside and exploring, searching for a new book to read and most of all, talking to others.
@grunpfeilschild3996
@grunpfeilschild3996 3 жыл бұрын
How is your goverment dealing with Covid? Are this things still closed at your place?
@markmunroe-hz8rf
@markmunroe-hz8rf 3 жыл бұрын
@@grunpfeilschild3996 Slowly, the government is lifting restrictions. Even so, this pandemic has taught me to be more careful with my money, and I hope to start investing my savings. Also, I am trying to finish a book, another one completed that I hope to self publish.
@laurentaudren2523
@laurentaudren2523 3 жыл бұрын
The quarantine is often compared to prison. Need to keep a routine to don't loose your mind. As Jocko Wellins said "in even bad situation, you need to find the positive, there is always something positive to get, so when something bad happen, say "good"." I understood that it was an opportunity to me and I mustn't waste it. I took that time (and still) to ask myself about my future, and take classes about many themes to feed my mind, learned new thing that usually I don't have time to. Tried to don't loose all my time on Netflix without goal. Thanks for the motivation.
@xenopuslaevis1740
@xenopuslaevis1740 3 жыл бұрын
This hit on a different level. After a semester of studying, I'm back at my parents' house. My dad is an obsessive hoarder and the literal decrease in square feet in my house feels so incredibly restricting and has been affecting my mental state.
@agent_mc
@agent_mc Жыл бұрын
I hope things have improved 😮
@dinahrosemalanog342
@dinahrosemalanog342 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video! I've been babysitting my sister (2) for the past year and everyday is the same. Wake up, breakfast, wash dishes, play time, lunch, wash dishes, bathe my sister, a nap, clean the house, and then my parents come home. I try to do things at night but my parents usually hand off my sister to me to talk to my uncles across the street or to do something else entirely so it's hard for me to focus on school preparation or my hobbies. I'm not trying to whine or complain because I love my sister very much and understand that my parents are tired as well but the mundane routine has slowly chipped away at my mind over the past year so now when I try to do my hobbies or school work, it's hard for me to focus and work. I do try to do small things every now and then and that does help but then the mundane routine of babysitting gets at me once again and I feel empty and unfocused. This video really put into words what's been going on in my mind for the past year. I've had this feeling for so long but had no words to explain it. Beautiful video and very eye opening for someone who has gotten used to a daily routine.
@JamesReviews
@JamesReviews 3 жыл бұрын
Learn to live without friends, leisure activities and things that you rely on. Enjoy life as it naturally is And Then bring those things back in and life will be amazing, you won't be relying on those things so whether they are their or not, life is good
@markmunroe-hz8rf
@markmunroe-hz8rf 3 жыл бұрын
Even if you live alone, it's best to explore and connect with others
@deepakchris284
@deepakchris284 3 жыл бұрын
How does one live without relying on something or someone? I'm really struggling.
@JamesReviews
@JamesReviews 3 жыл бұрын
@@deepakchris284 Everyone's situation is different but you should spent time alone for the most part, not needing to go out with people, or if you do go, go alone. And for leisure activities just cut down on them a lot. They are wants not needs. If you can live happy without relying on these things, when you bring them back in everything will more enjoyable. At least in my experience
@calrey
@calrey 5 ай бұрын
Nah. I grew up a big house, pristinely clean home, traveled a ton as a kid because my parents owned a few airplanes, yet we were one of the most dysfunctional families on the block. Parents were violent and abusive on multiple levels to us. I had to undo a ton of negative beliefs from childhood through different types of therapies. Getting unstuck starts inside of you. It doesn't start with the external, unfortunately.
@In-Nutshell
@In-Nutshell 3 жыл бұрын
I don't know if it's coincidence or something but your videos always come in the right time
@banjo2662
@banjo2662 3 жыл бұрын
People say this all the time but whatever in happening to me your make a video about it and it’s at the same time literally crazy. Your my favourite you tuber keep it up man! Love the vids!
@mikeynoels7210
@mikeynoels7210 3 жыл бұрын
“The physical environment in which you are apart of is an extension of yourself….the physical size, the literal square footage, is sort of the square footage of your existential surroundings” Thank you for the revelation as to why the wealthy insist on an absurdly large home 😂.
@CaroLMilo-yz7fk
@CaroLMilo-yz7fk 3 жыл бұрын
🤭😆 i call it the corporate ego size.. hahaha I see I should consider labelling this Visionary square footage
@mikeynoels7210
@mikeynoels7210 3 жыл бұрын
@@CaroLMilo-yz7fk that pretty much sums it up, and btw I already trade marked that slogan 😉 jk Stay blessed
@KajaKubicka
@KajaKubicka 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I needed!
@elliephant6185
@elliephant6185 3 жыл бұрын
I was just on a week-long trip, but after two days I still felt this stuck feeling, I don’t really know why
@esviivse
@esviivse 3 жыл бұрын
Yesssss. All of this. I signed up for an archery lesson next week. Things and activities to look forward to is so important.
@UmairAziz1
@UmairAziz1 3 жыл бұрын
How do this guy knows my situation every single time. 🤔
@m.r.8043
@m.r.8043 3 жыл бұрын
*I'm learning English. Your videos not only contains an important ideas, but they are easy for understanding for beginners in English. It's so GREAT!!! I wish you all the best and wait new videos with impatient.*
@karl2313
@karl2313 3 жыл бұрын
Life leason: No one can fix all problems, and be happy 100% of all the time.
@_DEKHO
@_DEKHO 3 жыл бұрын
This video really hit the spot for me. In many ways I used to live in a rapunzel tower for too much time, only lately I started getting more outside of house and its giving me another sense of satisfaction. And at the one with what its around is you, was so true, for example today I felt kind of low and haven't made my bed. Now that I think of it I'm going to make it just so I can feel better. Thanks. I mean it.
@FuzzyPuppet
@FuzzyPuppet 3 жыл бұрын
Would you mind please tell me which camera and which lens you use? Thank you!
@isi1762
@isi1762 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I was just watching how everything in my youtube recommended was this repetiting boring mess, I really needed this
@ThieVuz
@ThieVuz 3 жыл бұрын
Sitting at home or going out, I end up feeling the same anyway. There's nothing I want to do in life, I am only interested in things that don't end up in good job opportunities. And the one thing that does, you need to be insanely lucky to blink out in. I'm just stuck in a forever loop trying to find out wtf I want to do in life.
@Daesma999
@Daesma999 3 жыл бұрын
Small steps every day. I recently found something on Instagram which said something like "you don't have to put 100% to things you are supposed to do". Like.. washing your face is better than not taking shower at all, it's better to nib some bread than to starve the whole day. Like... doing such a thing on 50% or even 20% is still better than doing nothing the whole day. I took it as my mantra. For someone with such a burnout like me this is enough for the start. Since I'm chronically ill my stamina and constant dizziness maybe don't allow me to do some workout where I can even get nauseous but at least training my grip strenght is enough. Just yesterday I watched one of your videos and I felt really sleepy I was thinking about taking a nap. But I got up and made myself a salad instead. It maybe sounds weird and out of a topic but I did something for my body instead of enduring hunger and going to sleep again :)
@Danxethenightaway
@Danxethenightaway 2 жыл бұрын
What about if you feel stuck , but cannot do anything about it because of monetary reasons? Any advice on that? Please let me know
@godisgreat5141
@godisgreat5141 2 жыл бұрын
What do you mean monetary reasons?
@Danxethenightaway
@Danxethenightaway 2 жыл бұрын
@@godisgreat5141 how can I do what I want with no money
@amysworld5521
@amysworld5521 Жыл бұрын
@@Danxethenightaway Start selling or creating Things to earlier money like Solling food or selling something
@jessicanguyen9046
@jessicanguyen9046 3 жыл бұрын
You couldn’t have word it any better. Keep it up dude!
@desertjesters
@desertjesters 3 жыл бұрын
That's literally what i was talking to my mom about an hour ago !!!!
@abhim6380
@abhim6380 3 жыл бұрын
There's always someone out there speaking about something to their mom that someone's making a video about
@Tryt0nMusic
@Tryt0nMusic 3 жыл бұрын
Man I absolutely adore your videos. Just made a video inspired by your style of video, thanks for bringing such inspiration and motivation.
@YM-lm8xr
@YM-lm8xr 3 жыл бұрын
dude, you should update this channel more often...
@leonmichael3322
@leonmichael3322 3 жыл бұрын
I live with schizoaffective disorder and I find your videos very helpful and thank you. Keep them coming
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