Why You Keep Going Back | BREAKUP RECOVERY SERIES

[@sanjeevbains690]

“Abuse can only happen when you allow it to happen”…. I used to have low self-worth and needed external validation

[@jamieseiple]

People get lonely Stephanie, sometimes a person will risk less in someone rather than no one at all.

[@UniquelyLesley]

I think you should watch the video again

[@jenmascaro4014]

Loneliness does sometimes drive some people back to toxicity. For some, it feels like the lesser of the two evils.

[@UniquelyLesley]

@@jenmascaro4014I understand that. But from what I got from the video, shes trying to help people to understand the deeper issues that are causing them to feel the need to go back to something unhealthy.

[@x35mmman]

@@jenmascaro4014 I have a female friend who is almost 70 and her on and off boyfriend is like 61. This is what she says it better to put up with his antics than to be alone

[@smitha1867]

@@x35mmmansad that many people never love themselves in the first place. That’s why they feel lonely so much

[@peterwilliams6361]

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it.

[@TrentReeves-c2k]

there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

[@peterwilliams6361]

its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

[@TrentReeves-c2k]

this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.

[@CammiseM]

This can relate to all unhealthy relationships not just romantic ones.

[@Creating2413]

Absolutely 💯

[@orflorentin3850]

I think it’s the Disney movies that made us think that if I will just be pretty and shut up I will just get the man of my dreams.

[@HeyItsJK]

Loving and understanding who you are can help all aspects of your life. It's knowledge that is powerful

[@njseashorechas2698]

Yes, I'm stuck on not working on me enough and chasing after the wrong type.. Trying to get out of that cycle! You rock Steph!

[@richardlenz2655]

What helped me a lot is recognizing my male and female parts of my life and the life of others 🤭

[@chay516]

I definitely needed to hear this today! I definitely won’t be getting into a relationship anytime soon. Soooo much work to do.

[@knitnpaint]

It is so easy to say “just heal”. There are so many aspects to that.

[@veganrican606]

This video is on point, as a highly sensitive man, my dating and relationship history sucks. I keep attracting women who, for lack of better words, have problems. And I keep getting hurt.

[@maybhle2317]

No one ever talk about physical abuse and how to deal with everything related to that. I feel so alone. I’m screaming from the inside. In my relationship I’m at high risk or serious harm and homicide; yet I cannot convince myself to leave him. Breaks my heart picturing him alone once I’ve left. Too much fear on a daily basis for me to think straight or make any kinds of plans.

[@fabienzaca]

You have to commit to leave if you want to leave this person. Taking a break is not gonna work. There are plenty of resources for DV victims in any state. I'm very sorry that you are going through this. But you have to be 100% committed if you really care about yourself and you safety.

[@Corrinthian_]

Understand that you're worth fighting for.

[@erejoeerejoe9325]

They never alone because they have a shining new toy literally. Could be alcohol, smoking, pornography, someone or something

[@sanjeevbains690]

Call a helpline for support. You don’t have to do this on your own

[@samonecharisma3043]

This was the best breakdown

[@alecstuart5266]

You take accountability & responsibility for " Surya kiran" . I leave. So you are doing it right.

[@alessaxn]

Wow thank you. Spot on. I have learned all of this after 20 years but good to hear it from you!

[@johnstone3836]

I enjoyed this one!! Thanks for sharing!!!

[@juliomatos122]

WOW excellent video , Thanks !

[@marie60790]

Wonderful video, rhank you for sharing!

[@ashleibrowarski5592]

THIS this right here, hits home. Thank you so much Stephanie.

[@tylerallyn2404]

Great stuff Stephanie, can you do a video touching more on physical attraction and how that plays into a relationship or not?🙏👍

[@teresapassey7950]

You speak truth, very wise truth ❤thank you so much, bless your soul🌺🌻

[@meganwagoner1623]

Best video ever

[@user-us3cb2oq9c]

Don't go back.

[@sarahelders7288]

Great advice ❤

[@Dethian666]

Had love and future fortune written and promised and had it all stolen molested and pillaged with no experience of love at all but every body talking about it and what's happening with other lovers. Real painful

[@Yosef_Maharat]

Thanks, Stephanie.

[@mmintfish2002]

Thank you so much , this helped me so much today ❤

[@dennismitchell8507]

Thank you Stephanie ❤️🙏

[@Spritualhealing_CRISTINA]

Took me a while understood u can't have LUV or a relationship without RESPECT, If he pushes my boundaries, can't apologize,, own up,, RESPECT My time & choices (lck of compatibility) i HAVE to wlk away. A person with ZERO Progress in almst 2yrs since we met may NEVER better themselves (emotionally,, psychologically) i had severe BPD,, OCD,, CODEPENDENCY but i m doing progress & wlking away. Luv cannot fix incompatibility or better said pst life attachments NOT luv

[@rgrandberry1234]

Amazing!!!xoxooxox You go queen!!!!

[@sheilathedford7581]

I take responsibility for my issues. How do I move forward to a healthy relationship? Im a co-dependant and afraid of my own choices.

[@Gulya1012]

thank you❤

[@warriorjunior1014]

The ONLY thing I need help with, is figuring out how to get what I need from a woman.

[@prernaofficial2724]

No I won't.. to that vehsi darinda rather I die

[@rosaliaoliver-qv3gr]

❤❤Thank you ❤❤

[@mattbraga4033]

Nice intro

[@garypoxton3195]

Stephanie such a beautiful lady Dinner in the Ivy in the UK is waiting for you anytime ❤❤❤❤

[@charlielondon722]

I don't need any external validation but you expect it from someone your living with or what's the point what I mean if they don't or cannot speak or won't communicate theirs not much to say it's a joke❤🙏😇

[@johnpinheiro6211]

Hi steph, how to deal when it s your mom ??? Go no contact ?? Keep it up, love from portugal 🇵🇹🇵🇹🇵🇹🇪🇺👍👇

[@Noah_Pender]

Going through a separation and I'm probably going to divorce my wife because she cannot take any criticism, clearly wants me to take full responsibility for the separation, and she has been having an affair with a married man for our entire 2.5 year marriage to name a few things. I'm in so much pain and I will miss her dearly, but I know she never really loved me or loved anyone but herself. I feel so sick.

[@aliciawolff1546]

What if they were a really good friend just not a boyfriend?? So you don't necessarily want them completely out of your life you just know that they are not a good boyfriend for you what do you do??😢

[@Rae-vh1ql]

I thought this turns out he wasn’t my friend.

[@lilsumpn]

That's hard to do when there is emotions still involved. Take a long break before entertaining the idea of just friends. It's hard cause you'll start catching feelings and be vulnerable to getting sucked in

[@Creating2413]

I think you have to take a good honest look at why you still want them in your life and what is impact on your well being? Is it because it is easier or you have always had them in your life and it just seems really hard? Even if it's not a romantic relationship or a marriage, that doesn't mean you cannot be hurt or deeply affected. What would you do or say if you had a child with this issue or a family member that was really close to you and you saw them being so abused and deeply traumatized by a friendship? What advice would you offer that person?

[@marie60790]

It depends if they are interested in remaining your friend if you break up. I'd ask yourself if they could respect your boundaries.

[@ThebeautifulT]

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[@Malikmalik-vb2zu]

Hello, Madame one life to live please go Mary some one keep your self happy out of stress after death we will not come back to this human planet all moving & un moveable property will stay in this planet we will go in grave with empty handed we are living in Indian subcontinent not so rich but living at least happy life some with extended family & some live as a couple please Madame life is priceless

[@sarahelders7288]

Omg 😢

[@nataliatalarek7817]

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[@Cliff2548]

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[@SonjasStars]

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