Why You Lost your Motivation in 2021 (4 Research Based Ways to Get it Back!)

[@ShadeZahrai]

My husband and I put a lot of love and effort into this video. We hope that it helps you with staying positive and motivated (especially during these challenging times). Send our very warmest wishes.

[@vinceknowseverything]

It Shows a Lot in Your Videos! Both of You are Doing an Excellent Job! Your Teamwork is Phenomenal😉

[@spainsdrivinglicenseinpunj1588]

Thanks for this amazing video.

[@BharathKumar-eq9gk]

Ur married 😮😮😮😮

[@zohankhan2110]

I will definitely try. Seems that its gonna work. Thanks Ms. Shade. Have a nice day.

[@tayyabiqbal71]

I must say indeed you are a blessed beacon of light in this world of despair... May God bless you!

[@MrPathorock]

I had this for a long period of time. Can't blame others. But I am getting back to the life that truly reflects who I am. Experience FLOW.

[@mosiur_apu]

The day I found you, I just binge-watching you, I appreciate your way of presenting and the vibe. I can't track my time when watching your lecture.

[@linhlecute]

#1. Name it to tame it. #2. Take time off. #3. Engage in flow. #4. Small achieavable goals.

[@patrick_527]

You are absolutely right, thanks once again.

[@purnangshuchandramittra9928]

Your video on procrastination helped me decode the emotional constitution of my being at least to some extent...and it has also showed me the path to express gratitude every time before doing something crucial.. also the mind and the emotions fuelling the thoughts are related to the habit of procrastination.

[@khairulfahim]

Shade your advices are just awesome.

[@wipworkinprogress1344]

Whether it's 2021 or any other year of century. JEALOUSY will always be the most dominant emotion

[@ShadeZahrai]

"Jealousy consumeth the body and anger doth burn the liver: avoid these two as you would a lion."

[@wipworkinprogress1344]

@@ShadeZahrai I do But, avoiding it . Does not save us from it. People all around d world only run on JEALOUSY

[@ShadeZahrai]

Great. The only thing that a person can do is to stay humble and perhaps help people that suffer from feeling jealous to focus on just being their best self.

[@wipworkinprogress1344]

@@ShadeZahrai ❤️ thank u Shade

[@rohithprakash2619]

I just cannot thank you enough.. Your videos have changed the way I look at life and it has immensely helped me overcome depression and achieve success in my profession.. Dealing with toxic people at work and maintaining distraction list videos were so relatable and useful... You're an inspiration and I really look up to you.. May God keep you and your family happy and healthy for lifetime ❤️

[@manishpahuja8127]

I actually thought you were gonna use the word 'depression' to define those people, but 'languishing' makes so much more sense! In my daily life I practice a few of these techniques without even realising it, for example playing a sport for an hour or two really puts you in a state of flow, and it always always helps me out emotionally and mentally. Thank you for identifying these points, now i shall be even more mindful of my emotions in the moment and deliberate in seeking solitude! Love your videos and pragmatic approach to mental health! You definitely are a blessing to us all

[@ShadeZahrai]

Thank you for the kind words Manish. Kudos for being acutely aware of your state and proactively managing it. 👍🏽

[@anexz34-xz9oq]

Are you Indian? thanks a lot

[@manishpahuja8127]

@@anexz34-xz9oq if you're asking me, then yes I am.

[@Thoughts977]

I discovered this channel before few days and this channel is just fabulous. Each and every fact is really very useful. Thanks shade zaharai for bringing out such an useful content.

[@sreejithchandran118]

Hi Shadezahrai, Great tip what you have suggested. Setting small achievable goals which thrives toward longer goals. Taking small steps motivates towards success. Totally I agree with you.

[@arumoydas7706]

Breathed Ozone today😃Thanks Shade’ Zahrai and your hubby.Well researched presentation and big turn around message during this numbing time. Cheers 🥂

[@shahbazmajeed5253]

I just love this lady.

[@manishkumar3407]

All these points were known to us,but somehow we never realised it. Thanks for bringing these up ! You named all of them and tamed it for us . Amazing video editing as well.👍

[@AbhishekKulkarni1326]

Thanks you are doing great work to stay positive and being human , appreciate you from india 👍❤️

[@afranshareefazeez]

The way you explain and unlock our brain to self recognition with fully functionality is marvelous. God bless you🙏

[@volishona]

Beautifully worded. Just as yourself. Thanks ❤️

[@chandanbanakar333]

I suggest time stamping each method or step so that ppl can find what they forgot, easily when they re-visit your videos. Btw I am a engg student and this channel is on point and very helpful ✌🏻

[@ShadeZahrai]

Glad you're getting value from the channel and thanks for the reminder to add timestamps. My husband overseas video production but he's so busy with our business that he always forgets the timestamps.

[@sanket_solanke]

@Shadé Zahrai Yeah totally agree with Chandan. BTW your content is helping me to add value to myself keep posting.Thanks a ton♥️

[@trewaldo]

Anxiety due to the drastically changed normality is really hard to get out of especially when you lost your job during the pandemic. 😥

[@sagarverma1454]

You broke my heart when you say My 'Husband' was listening .. 💔

[@aqueebkhan6075]

I have been following ur KZbin channel from past 6 months. It's been a great learning.. Keep up this good work. 😇

[@rohitkukreja8704]

How can this exactly be my life situation !!! what are the odds.. Thanks fro the amazing help.

[@tushargupta5257]

It really helped me a lot to overcome emptiness of my life.Thanks for this video

[@oussamasay7027]

I’m really impressed by your amazing vocabulary, simple language that everyone can understand Your have my full respect ms shadè

[@deliciouspeshawar]

I love that short video that conveys perfect message it has to be watched again and again to absorb these ideas and bring it in practice... Thanks Shade Zahrai for the right efforts you put in 💖

[@dealwithemotions]

I agree, thank you! 👍

[@mahikolvekar]

Ur amazing love u thank you for fixing my life with ur video

[@yaldak8697]

Shade, thanks again for another short and brilliant video, rich with valuable advice.

[@edwardparkhurst9804]

Amazing video

[@whatpeopleslike2764]

Hi yalda

[@edwardparkhurst9804]

I've have subscribed to your channel. It's quite impressive. Your standard of integrity shows in your character. Outstanding job young lady. Thanks for sharing this with us that are your fans. Eloquently done by a master.

[@ShadeZahrai]

Thank you for such a kind compliment Edward! 🙏🏽 My husband and I put a lot of love and effort into producing these videos and it means so much to us when we receive such feedback. It tells us that the work is meaningful and that we are fortunate to have such beautiful subscribers. Sending you our very best wishes!

[@edwardparkhurst9804]

@@ShadeZahrai your welcome and remember both you and your husband's popularity and admiration for your fans inspire you to go on for us. Thanks for the reply. I look forward to seeing more of your electrifying talent at work.

[@eangnyeikushih4120]

Thank you so much for the video. Very helpful. ♥️

[@anexz34-xz9oq]

Extremely helpful content I got here accidentally I come to you short video and binge watching some more videos of yours I subscribed your your channel today thank you so much for this very very helpful content 🙏🙏🙏

[@DipenJambhulkar]

Amazing videos Shadé.. 👍👍 keep up the great work.. and stay aligned with universe.. 🙏🎉

[@TheDenchik111perchik]

Right on spot. Thank you for your advice.

[@chethan1851]

You are just amazing❤️❤️,your communication skill is at top👍

[@HitChinese]

"Name it to tame it. Own it and call it out. " These tips really help me to handle my languishing moments. Thank you Shadé and your husband for sharing these valuable information! ❤️

[@ShadeZahrai]

You're so welcome! We're glad that you're finding this helpful! 😊❤️

[@Daljitsingh-fm1iv]

Needed this and I was looking for something like this. Great work Shadé Zahrai!

[@sagarsirsat2340]

Brilliant voice and amazing video making. I like your videos so much it gives calmness to my soul.

[@healthyfoodlover1124]

Love this video❤❤

[@smarankhanal2645]

God bless you, Shadé Zahrai

[@bhimpokhrel4059]

Wow. Very impressive thoughts you have provided.

[@mrcharm767]

One more reason I would add is uncertainty in results because of uncertain surroundings

[@matchatech]

Thank you for talking about this

[@mohammadsobhyyoussef8367]

As usual...it is really helpful...I try to commit myself to 1 hr daily exercise as flow status.

[@sharathchandran9052]

I subscribed your channel. Great insights and everything is so relatable backed with facts. Thanks Shade’!

[@ManishSharma-sk2zh]

Hi Shade, An interesting and informative video about how to deal negativity. I appreciate your efforts and learned how to motivate yourself in tough situations. Thank you,

[@jatinasnani6694]

You are such a nice person shadé

[@MK-ub1gi]

Love u for such explanation

[@vinceknowseverything]

It Does Help to Disconnect from the World and Reconnect with Yourself Every Now and Then😉

[@tillingtabin209]

This is my first watched video of ur and I loved to hear u...#newly subscriber👍❤️

[@VitaminGK]

Thank you for this really important message ma'am. This charged me up now

[@pranavkumar5208]

Thank you so much ma'am.. I am trying the 4th one and its really helpful.. and slowly i will try to implement all the method.. Hope that will further help me.. God bless you. Lots of love INDIA..

[@ShadeZahrai]

Most welcome! 😊

[@abxy787]

*Her smirk has no competition.*

[@rezarafiie]

In addition to get many great points about your topic, I am enjoying a lot for your english. and trying to improve my english from your video

[@josephattkisson3977]

Thanks (very much!) to Shade' and husband for the Positive/Motivated video,we are sure both of you are trying to help people, that are possibly, in need of guidance,advise,and to know that there are at least (02) fine,good - ❤️ people,that care about others,and the time and effort to help.Even if you do not know what both of you mean,or have done by giving the knowledge and kind words to those that might struggle,or or are not sure of the best path,on life to take.We can not Thank you both, for what this has done,,,for some of the(Lost and Confused,at this time.We hope,someday,maybe not in this life to make both Shade' and her husband, see or know,what some consider to be(Divine) wisdom,has done ,already,to help,people to get through some possibly,Supernatural,and more,times of the day .We thank you.Wish you both only the best.Sorry for long as comments,,we lost track of time,vision,ect.. Buy we are on the way to a better path of (Enlightment),and more,,and can now be more confident and strong and more kind and aware of many things,and no matter how dark the times ,seem ,we have hope,and faith ,that in the end ,only ,JESUS can and will save US. THANKS....…...

[@abdulrazzak3976]

@Shadezahrai Thanks for sharing this super amazing motivational video. Outstanding tips by the most Incredible Personality @Shadezahrai 👍 May God Bless You 🤲

[@EzekJohnson]

God bless you, Shadé

[@ShadeZahrai]

Ezekiel! We've missed you! 🤗

[@kushal809]

Amazing video content 🔥🔥

[@SHTALKS]

Hi Zahraai! Love ❤️ from Pakistan. Your all topics are very helpful for us. Thank you

[@ShadeZahrai]

Glad you like them!

[@palashkuche2278]

Subscribed.!🤍 I must say your videos are short, simple, easy to understand & are sure well worthy to reach globally. Keep up the good work maam. Looking forward to your future videos. Also,can you make a video on critical thinking as well?

[@madhavsirohi2225]

The lighting is really good!

[@ShadeZahrai]

Thanks! Took a while for us to learn how to setup the video lights.

[@madhavsirohi2225]

@@ShadeZahrai haha 🙂, you can check this out might be helpful kzbin.info/aero/PLjEaoINr3zgH9vCr47kSS5W8PEJBNIiwK (it's for Blender but once I saw these videos I kind of see lighting differently), also what's is your accent? And that line name it... tame it... is really good

[@ShadeZahrai]

Thank you. My husband already uses advanced lighting equipment with good quality camera - he appreciates your kind gesture though 👍🏽 I'm Australian. And 'Name it to tame it' was coined by psychiatrist Dan Siegel. Wishing you a lovely day 😊

[@madhavsirohi2225]

@@ShadeZahrai Welcome, Good day to both of you! 🙂

[@iamhealing7312]

Celebrate small wins 🙌

[@DadThingsandMore]

It only took me one video. New subscriber here Best Regards 🇨🇷🙏🏻

[@jazzybyo]

it is a great video, really helped me understand my blues. Just a one suggestion please improve audio quality.

[@7ombische]

Had a lot of echo in recording in this room - strangely the audio file became warped after trying to reduce in postproduction. 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@abhishek6399]

Don't complicate that much... Meditate, engage with nature e.g sun, air, plants etc etc It addresses all of it

[@nidak7844]

this is helpful. thank you

[@alichaudhry30]

Shade zahrai good work

[@kamalsaxena9664]

Blah... What's wrong with my mouth...☺️☺️☺️ Just loved it. ❤️ Please pull more of those fumbles and faux pas Into videos. First these make videos more natural and real. Secondly it brings to us a sporty smile. 🙏 Wonderfully Powerful, helpful and apt video for the times. 👌 Appreciate such a genuine effort and a kindly video. 👌 And a third one for you. 👌 🙏

[@ShadeZahrai]

Haha...yes my husband likes to occasionally include these bloopers (without me knowing!). We're so glad that you enjoyed the video. 😊

[@kamalsaxena9664]

@@ShadeZahrai please pass on my thanks and joys to your husband for his idea to include these bloopers. See if he include them more frequently. 🙏

[@7ombische]

@@kamalsaxena9664 oh I will…I will 🧛‍♂️ Thank you Kamal.

[@kamalsaxena9664]

@@7ombische 👍

[@altamashateeque1551]

Hi Shadé, i want to apply for a job after 4 years of break, i was on break because i was working on my startup for first 2 years while i was freelancing ( teaching online) and earning, the next two years i was freelancing and started a cloud kitchen, and now i want to do a job. Before 4 years I have 8 months of experience on job. What questions can be asked to me ? And what should i write in my CV?

[@kshitij2314]

who edits your videos? this is just brilliant editing...

[@avonzo]

Whoa fabulous! Thanks Shadè! 4 points I understand are from this video to get yourself out of a “blah”: 1. Name it to tame it 2. Take time off 3. Engage in flow 4. Set yourself small achievable goals This list is too short and video has much description in it. So go ahead watch the video and get over that blah!

[@ShadeZahrai]

Thank you for sharing your summary Avonzo!

[@pizzaparkerhotdogmaguire3225]

Yes, Yes, Yes and Yes. 4 yesses for 4 strategies.

[@lahorepakistan2696]

I saw your add and I come here .

[@nikhiljadhav3188]

How to improve communication skills??

[@AggieFern]

Thanks…

[@ariifbalouch6214]

Does your living atmosphere your surrounding things don't affects you does frustration has any link to your place what is human brain how this recognize the relation on true and false basis

[@prankur]

Hi Shade, I have been watching your videos from past few days. You are doing a great work!! You look so attractive😍 I can't resist myself from watching your videos and shorts. Let's connect on other platforms as well.

[@MrAttack23]

Tight

[@YashSharma-hl6gk]

I think it will help me

[@mmali12345]

Please add "Time codes" on your KZbin videos

[@gmmobassir8044]

Ecstatic

[@mnajibullah]

Enjoy

[@ks-xh4fq]

Your voice is very soothing 😌, just like @mrwhosetheboss

[@sunnypandey6630]

I just thought that's how everyday was like

[@ariifbalouch6214]

I am not PhD MSC but I want know how can you turns the human attention towards your will and wishes does the human attention is movable does this know all relation and how this accept new relation

[@siddhantbanerjee110]

Hello mam I want to ask you something regarding GD topics and all can you please explain things on that

[@abhinavsingh2432]

Which Camera do you use mam?

[@ShadeZahrai]

We're currently using a Sony A7c Abhinav

[@abhinavsingh2432]

@@ShadeZahrai Okay mam🙏

[@Xx37xX]

So here is the replay button - 6:54

[@fadeon1739]

So charming

[@bizblood]

Melbourne ?

[@ShadeZahrai]

Keen eyes!

[@mohamedelalami521]

Great video . Side note : your key light is spilling on your green screen

[@ShadeZahrai]

Thank you! Keen eyes 👍🏽 Its actually a real scene but we had issues with dynamic range (in HLG 3) so my husband had to apply a mask. It was too much work to fix the edges.

[@PrinceDhiman-nz1zz]

New subscriber I'm from India ❤️

[@ShadeZahrai]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@stormbreaker82]

👏

[@mnajibullah]

Redemption

[@MrDreamBro]

Great 🎉📱

[@TarekMidani]

😂 that blooper

[@EzekJohnson]

Notifications crew. Where are you?

[@balsonnaoshekpam5680]

❤️

[@abdallamohamed5844]

Why there no a love reaction on KZbin videos ‽ 🤔💙

[@mnajibullah]

You boarded the train