Will it solve the problem? Renovating a Stone House in Portugal

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As we make our move into our Stone House in Portugal we need to think of solutions that will see us through for the next two years, and the most important of those is our sleeping arrangements. With only one bed and one bedroom, how can we fit all four of us in comfortably? Crusoe and Tara head to check on the bees.
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[@TheNewbys]

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[@charliesgrl2]

One word: romance! I don’t think I would want my2 little boys peering over the side of the bed, watching Mom and Dad… also, listening to your conversations! I’ve been married 41 years and some of our best conversations, bringing us closer, sharing our hearts… has been in the bedroom. I think your answer is a sofa bed. You sleep in the livingroom

[@64cuspofchange]

Thats EXACTLY what i was thinking !

[@64cuspofchange]

Or maybe build a glassed in hallway leading to your little guest house connecting to your stone house that way everyone has their space . If you worry about your boys being that far away then install an intercom system .

[@kitchenworker446]

@@64cuspofchange That's a great idea and a healthy option to get those toddlers sleeping by themselves...it will take time and perseverance...but will be sooooo worth it.

[@katherinecolton4618]

Aw great wee beds what a talented couple you both are , take care and stay safe xx

[@PatriciaBoyum]

Great idea. But think if you mirror the under bed items they can do their coloring at the same time. If u build the dresser under their bed with the desk you should still have head board room for shelf's for the two of you. The nonsense about privacy for the two of you is just that. Obviously you get enough of that or Caruso wouldn't have a brother l. 😁😁😁Some just do not understand the need to have your children close. I chose to have a person into my home and it cost me a child. For the next 8 years my remaining children were within eyesight of me as a necessity for sanity. 😢 But all's well. Keep a close eye you never know. Parent the way you want your child to be raised not someone else's ideas ❤❤❤

[@ninaj8991]

Growing up now boys, you need your own space at night and so do Mum and Dad. Let your no be no's and your yes be yes Mums and Dads. Make the rules and stick together to the plans. There may be complaints but they will soon learn and it will be much better for everyone. ' Cuddle time has finished, sleeping has started!'

[@TheNewbys]

Thanks so much for watching and taking this journey with us, your support is so very much appreciated! 👍🙏🇵🇹🏡

[@ninaj8991]

@@TheNewbys You are brilliant parents doing amazing things. Thanks for letting us join in . xxx

[@starrylight8819]

" the octopus in question"😂 that was too funny!

[@TheNewbys]

😂😂👏🏼👏🏼

[@carolranes91]

I’m sorry I never had kids so I’m probably not the one to say what I’m saying! But your kids are certainly old enough to sleep in the bedroom by themselves! I never understood why parents allow children to sleep in the bed with them or in the same room with them! It never made any sense to me! I know your circumstances you didn’t have room for them, but it certainly is time for them to be sleeping in their own room! I guarantee you’re gonna have problems with that because she waited so long but just think every night they sleep in there it’s gonna get tougher and tougher! I used to tell my friends with kids who thought it was cute when their kids misbehave I said pay me now or pay me later! Later when they’re 16 and they borrow the car and they wreck it and they find it funny Well that’s the pay me later! When you have a grown male who wants to sleep with an older woman, then you’re gonna understand where it came from! I am that older woman and I have run into young men and I was younger but older than them who slept in the bed and slept close to their moms! They were highly attracted to older womenwhen they told me their stories I could understand! So I’m passing this on to you. This is not healthy at all! I’m the older woman who found this out with a lot of young men when I was younger thank God it wasn’t stupid enough to sleep with him, but they were attracted to me because I was older because I slept in the room with her mothers for quite some time.

[@monikacarless_wordwitch]

@@carolranes91 that's not a thing. It's adults who sexualize co-sleeping and results thereof (yuk), children and most people don't think that way. Co-sleeping is a beautiful way for children to bond, feel safe, and grow into strong, independent adults. I practiced co-sleeping and my children are very independent and self-assured, and there is plenty of evidence that co-sleeping is beneficial for children and the family unit.

[@pjgreen1786]

@@carolranes91ok Dr Spock

[@carolranes91]

@@pjgreen1786 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@karimaabrahams8552]

Love how you value your beautiful family but the boys in a bunk on one side (despite the window) is healthy for everyone. Now there are two of them, they can bundle up together forming another kind of bond. Mom don't be fearful, they have to learn to fly, too❤

[@TheNewbys]

They do have to learn to fly you are quite right Karima ❤️❤️

[@vulcanian]

Buen trabajo.Os habeis planteadp, hacer las camas de los niños en el techo de la vuestra, ?ganaríais espacio y sería divertido para ellos.Os quedaría espacio para guardar rooa en el lateral, y podeis poner cajobws con ruedas debajo de vuestra cama.Adelante!

[@JudySnyder-dv5ld]

John is creative, build a "treehouse" in the bedroom with a mattress or bunk-bed-split-level space for the boys to share. Make it special so the boys feel like it's their club house area. That one corner between the door and widow would be big enough for toddlers.

[@ruthlarson6334]

Tara, seeing you down by the covered deck, I am left wondering what happened to your plans to build an outdoor oven ? Haven’t seen an update, but maybe I missed an episode or two.

[@shirleyyell7564]

Oh dear...that episode went too fast...it ended too quickly...I wasn't ready to say goodbye ... You really have become family! John, you are beyond creative...your plan for your bedroom is brilliant..I can't wait to see it completed Tara, I love the way you are teaching little Crusoe and Sawyer, including them in everything that you and John are doing...stimulation par excellance....They will grow up interested in everything, ... competent and creative..Well done the Newbys.

[@SJC49]

Breaking the co sleep habit is just a matter of determination. They will ultimately adapt especially if their new sleeping area is fun and made to feel especially their own. As Crusoe adjusts Sawyer will want to be just like him. 😍🇨🇦

[@TheNewbys]

Thanks for sharing this with us friend 🪵⚒️🛏️❤️🏡

[@teresatucker3446]

Obviously children who are forced to accept a certain habit will “adapt” ie, will eventually give up and access the inevitable, whether they like it or not! I’m with the Newbys on this one! They’re resourceful enough to find “alone” time I’m sure!!😂

[@letsparadise]

I think John is knowing how the family bedroom have to build, when the kitchen is done. He is a great creator with an endless mind. Great to have such a husband Tara as you said. Have a good time together.

[@TheNewbys]

Thanks friend 🪵⚒️🛏️❤️🏡

[@rickjackson2256]

I agree the kids need a room to themselves so they can be boys without sacrificing your well being. I'm sure the boys will not agree at first but its the best solution for all concerned.

[@Cathy-ty3fp]

Absolutely

[@TheNewbys]

Thanks Rick. Definitely working on the own room plan. Just takes a little time. Can’t wait to get started.

[@flibbertygibbette]

Poor John and the lawn! The last time this happened to my lawn, I turned over the dirt for reseeding and found tons of little white C-shaped grubs, which it turns out were immature Japanese scarab beetles eating the roots. Not sure if that's the case here, but something you can add to the soil if you're wanting to keep it all organic are beneficial nematodes, which will interrupt any number of parasitic critters that kill grass. They also feed on fungus, so can be helpful if it's a fungal problem, too. Good luck!

[@TheNewbys]

Thanks so much for sharing Flibberty! Will check it out 🌱🙏🏼

[@rudymazar5266]

It looks like lawn grubs... in Australia root feeding lawn grubs are the larvae of Scarab Beetles, which includes Japanese Beetles, African Black Beetles, Argentinian Scarab, Christmas Beetles, Rhinoceros Beetles, and Cockchafers. Adult beetles are often shiny brown or black - although Christmas Beetles can be iridescent green or gold - and easier to identify than their larvae. Good organica recommendation above also you can treat with chemicals. Love your chanel and all your projects guys !!

[@Carydbster]

I agree on the beneficial nematodes! Fantastic stuff! Got rid of red ant hills, ticks, fleas, and a host of other insects on our property.

[@user-ke2qo9ky8y]

@@TheNewbys yes it’s grass grubs. In NZ we have a spring/autumn lawn feeds fertilisers, that also kills the grubs.

[@etiennebeukes9384]

Been a carpenter for many years. There is a great joy when you create something with wood. It’s quite magical. KZbin has become an amazing school for people wanting to learn about woodwork. Yes please share your projects you will get many followers and John might also learn a few things as well. 😊. The bunk above the bed is a great idea. You need to have space for mom and dad’s cuddles. 😉🤫

[@shirleyrice7093]

You can make Crusoe very proud of being the big boy on the top bunk. The bunkbed can eventually be moved from the head of your bed to the end of the bed. They are both old enough to sleep by themselves.

[@JudySnyder-dv5ld]

It's wonderful that your son is already learning to be a bee keeper.

[@jeanengley3736]

I love seeing Crusoe in his bee suit, and I can't get over how much Sawyer has grown, well both of them really and how much they are alike bless their hearts, good job Tara & John x

[@TheNewbys]

He absolutely loves putting on his bee suit Jean! Thanks so much for watching 🐝🍯❤️🙏🏼

[@marymanning5150]

Great idea John. Cruso looked so smart in his bee suit.😊

[@Hollybank5]

Personally, my 2 boys had their own room when they were that age ; then later they each had a room of their own . They could always come crawl into our bed if they had a bad dream- but after a cuddle they went back to their own bed. Now, I understand that others like to Co sleep … to each their own!! But at some point, you will want your privacy back as a couple 🥰. Encouraging independent sleep is a way to help them feel confident 👍 John, the bed you made is very nice ! If you decide to place the beds above - with steps and a safety railing , and a desk underneath on each side -- will be a nice solution while you wait to build your big home ! Alternatively, a sleeper sofa is an option …. Bees 🐝 are mysteriously quiet ????

[@TheNewbys]

Thanks for sharing your experience with us Holly. A sleeper sofa is definitely a great plan B should this one not work. I will check with Diogo with regards to the bees being so zen but let's take it as they are happy 🐝🍯❤️🙏🏼

[@clairetolmie5640]

Hi Newbys! I like John's idea for the beds on the back wall, with little stairs for them with room underneath. More practically it allows access to boys beds for changing the sheets etc. I can see your confidence growing with the bees Tara, nearly as at ease as Crusoe! 😂. Have a good week my friends!

[@TheNewbys]

My confidence is definitely growing Claire but little Crusoe is just not scared of anything haha Thanks so much for watching 🐝🍯❤️🙏🏼

[@ccoolstuff1]

I just love what you are teaching your boys. Family values, build anything, do anything your imagination dreams up, bee keeping, OMG just delightful all of you. And caring for your neighbors, animals, and the land. It's very inspiring. Thank you.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@barbaranielsen2888]

It is time for your boys to sleep without waking you up so often at night! I hope keeping them in their own beds helps you and John's sleep!

[@thomasleerecruitment]

I think when you guys have completed your house, and got most your big projects out the way, John could start a channel building his wood working wood shop - then doing projects for people/yourselves around the local area. Building beds, furniture etc. I am exactly like John, self taught at wood work (although i was an aircraft engineer), and the stuff you discover along the way is extraordinary. My biggest learn is, you are only as good as your tools. Love you guys Mark.

[@dorismcgirt686]

Re: the lawn - possibility it could be moth worms - I think they are called webworms or army worms. The grass normally turns yellow and then goes completely dead. To find out if that's what it is, take a bucket of water and add some dishwashing detergent - pour it over a bad spot and if present the little buggers will come up to the top to get air - best to do in the early evening. Soapy water is important, just like it is when spraying aphids. They do not look like grubs - but are longer, more skinny, and with strips down their backs. It is treatable with some, I hope, natural agents - the entire lawn should be treated.

[@doramaemagnien2904]

Since you are asking about the sleeping arrangements, Give the boys the bedroom and make a large closet for all. And purchase a sofa bed for the living room. Just a thought. You need sleep.

[@normamurray4450]

My husband made a small child's bed to look like a boat for our son...he was the captain with jammies that resembled a captain's outfit and a special hat. For our daughter he made small bed that resembled a Princess castle and her jammies resembled that. It took a few days to get them to get used to a separate room, which by the way, was just a wall away from us...we ended up lying down with them a few times, then they were finally convinced it was their space and they didn't need us so close. Just a thought!

[@RitaVernoy]

So sorry about the lawn, it makes me sad too😢 I love the beds and plans. We did co sleep with our children when it was very controversial. This was 40 yrs ago. It creates very happy, secure, lovely humans!

[@dpcsharr]

My oldest son slept with us until he was two. It was quite the task to get him into his own bed and we never did that again with our other two boys. 😂😂. Sometimes we do what we must out of necessity, but while they are still fairly young it’s easier for them to move. The older they get the harder it will be.

[@davesimms1904]

Just a thought for your bedroom status. Now that you are moving the kitchen to the stone house, what if you moved your bedrooms back utilizing the upstairs and down stairs for bedrooms. Kids upstairs and you down. You could use the stone house for your living room, kitchen etc. I think that this might be a more adaptable to sleeping. The kids may sleep better as well as you. It has to be too toasty with all of you sleeping in on room. I don’t know the size of the rooms where you were living previously, for me this arrangement would fit you better until you build. Just a shot in the dark. Cheers

[@TheNewbys]

Thanks Dave 🪵⚒️🛏️❤️🏡

[@joandonnelly9187]

Great idea except that house is going to be knocked down soon!

[@kimvenezia6903]

I think it is very important to acknowledge boundaries. Your relationship came first and should stay first. This will give your boys a sense of order, security, respect, and confidence for their own lives. They should have their own space and learn to be secure there. I know it’s hard to let go of the baby years, but the reality is that it is on you both to equip them for life in all areas. It’s time for everyone to grow into maturity.

[@hilaryholt3061]

Sofas and chairs last episode and now it’s musical beds! John has such innovative ideas…can’t wait to see how that project unfolds! 🛏️ 🛌

[@TheNewbys]

We love sharing all these ideas with you Hilary. Thanks for being here for it all 🪵⚒️🛏️❤️🏡

[@desirepflugbeil8986]

We all should do what we believe is right. My kids went into their own rooms from birth. I know you will find a solution for your own way. ❤❤❤❤

[@lesley-annecarle]

I loved seeing Crusoe being involved in learning to take care of the bees

[@susannebyrne7488]

It really is a shame that the boys haven’t got their own bedroom. The longer you leave it the more difficult it will be to put them in their own room.

[@joannamallory2823]

We slept with our babies and moved one to a bed near ours as the next one was born (I had 3). And then slowly transitioned to their own rooms. I realize you’ve got space issues but I really like the pull out sofa idea for your boys. You might have to spend some nights in the living room with them to get them acclimated but you’re going to be in this place for a few years…I’d want a bit of real privacy! Just my unsolicited advice/thoughts….😊

[@kathydoran6176]

The way you have it now with the new bed you just made is the way to go for now, easy to change sheets and the boys will not have a big adjustment as they would above you, you do want to sleep! I love the hornet solution you have, it's great because the hornets do have their purpose and this trains them to keep away from the bees, brilliant!

[@gigomesdasilva5447]

A bunk bed on one of the sides would be a quick solution, but John has a big project and, even though I can't visualize it correctly in my mind, I believe that with his talent something fantastic will come out of it. I wish you peaceful and restful nights! ❤❤❤

[@TheNewbys]

Thank you friend, a lot of John's ideas start off with not many people being able to visualize it but as he gets on with it it comes to life and then it all makes sense 🪵⚒️🛏️❤️🏡

[@peterwhite9261]

Bunk beds are a good idea. It will give more storage. Mom and dad need their rest. The bees are interesting. I love how Crusoe is not afraid of them. John, I hope your lawn gets better.❤

[@judymcgovern8454]

It is lovely having the boys with you I understand that but the boys are getting bigger now and you both need your sleep. Think type of bunk beds is a great idea John. They are still with you but they also have their own space. Loved Crusoe in his bee suit ❤️xx

[@rosehalpin8108]

I think a bunk bed were you have the dresser. I don't think you're going to want the boys over your head. you guys will do a good job anyway ❤

[@elizabethwezelman8547]

Hmmm, how to sleep with two little boys, and continue cosleeping but be free to sleep. A conundrum worthy of a Shakespearean play! I am sure you will come to a decision that suits you all. Good sleep is so important to you both , as individuals, as a couple, and also to Crusoe and Sawyer. The kitchen is looking really lovely, you are clever John, love how you recycled and made the smaller bed in no time. Both you and Tara are a treat to watch, you are both such special people. Love the Bees and Crusoe in his outfit, he learns quickly and is so respectful. Little Sawyer brings so many smiles, and Obi looks up to John. Good to see you all progressing well. Thank you for today. 🐕for Sawyer, 🐝 for Crusoe . 🌹🌺🌼

[@lindamesa5122]

I often wonder if John is talking to us or himself! 😂😂😂 I think the boys are really going to enjoy their new beds because daddy built them! Saving the slats was genius!! the future project sounds very cool! You could frame the boy's beds the way u framed ur van bed!!

[@ShirleyEdwards-z3t]

I think you should build your bedroom best to fit in with your family. While we built a house with no temp place to stay we bought a caravan , took out main bed and squashed bunks and a big cot in so 3 children could go to bed at their bedtime without disturbance, then we made our bed every night in the lounge That suited our family at the time

[@deannecaracciolo8045]

You are so blessed to have a handy hubby. Mine is the same. Like winning a lottery. Wonderful ideas. The boys are so fortunate to have you both as amazing parents! Greetings from Nashville, TN.

[@TheNewbys]

It is definitely like winning the lottery Deanne! We are so lucky 🪵⚒️🛏️❤️🏡

[@BibiProvenceBBSmoothMusic]

Idea stack the two kids beds on top with a staircase and maybe a foldable table connected to the bunkbed. Put curtains all around for their own privacy, and for yours. And on the right a closet for them, with xtra table for you guys or for the other kid. You could use the closet you have in the Living room as a desk. I Admire your working skills. Live your channel❤

[@user-ng3ig6kj4j]

John I suggest pull out beds on each side of your bed It's a space saver and I believe that you can design it to fold up to your bed height❤

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[@lqqkitslory]

I loved my kids when they were small but no way would I want them in my bedroom. I’m a light sleeper and they were both fidgets and sleep talkers, plus it’s nice to have some ‘adult’ time ❤

[@rhondallyons9842]

He's a winner, Tara! Keep him! ❤ Crusoe is such a cutie in hi bee suit!

[@si_vis_amari_ama]

"Slotting" solution: You dont need a headboard on the new bedframe. Remove it and reinforce the sides with wedge-shape supports. If needed you could slightly modify the base length so it will "slot in". Also place some padding on the legs so it doesnt scratch your floor.

[@dianeb.4791]

Yeah!! It’s so good to have the little boys out of your bed! And it might take awhile but everyone should get better sleeps! And don’t give in…persevere and keep putting them back in their own beds! If they aren’t taking to the new beds try printing a picture of each boy and taping it on the wall over each bed…Sawyer might like that. You could even do that over your bed…Mommy and Daddy’s bed. I was one viewer who suggested building bunk beds…love John’s idea. See you on Sunday!

[@TheNewbys]

Love this idea of printing a picture of each of them and putting it on the roof over each of their beds. Thanks for sharing Diane 🪵⚒️🛏️❤️🏡

[@raquelfernandez463]

John, Tara.keep doing good on your Little Home and I Pray you get done what you need to do.The Little bed for the Boys Looks great and I know you will get the Bed's done for Both of them.And the Bed for you and Tara to.I am Proud of Both of you.And Proud of Coruso that he helped you Tara with the 🐝's Feeding the.I Pray you all keep doing great.And keep Kicking Butt.❤.Raquel.

[@debbiedusterhoft2870]

Crusoe is always going to love bees because of his involvement at a young age. I’m kind of glad in my raising of children it wasn’t a thing having a family bed as I love a very quiet room and it was enough with a hubby that snores. lol. I spent many a night sleeping on the floor beside my sons bed if they were feeling poorly. Take care.

[@ArtaStories]

Hi Newbys, You’re doing such an incredible job! My husband and I love watching your videos every Sunday during breakfast. You should definitely consider creating a tutorial or online course on woodworking. I’ve always wanted to make wooden art frames, but after seeing you craft simple furniture, I’d love to try my hand at that too! The thing is, I have no idea where to start, so an online course covering topics like tools, types of wood, and important things to watch out for would be super helpful for me-and I’m sure for many other curious people you’ve been inspiring. P.S. I almost never comment on anything, but I just wanted to say that I feel a real connection with your story. My husband, our 10-month-old son, and I recently moved to Portugal. We bought a plot of land near Lisbon and have been waiting for over a year now for our "awesome" municipality to grant us building permission. We’re dreaming of starting our home, creating our lawn and garden, and it’s so inspiring to see the incredible progress you’ve made in the meantime.

[@TheNewbys]

Thanks so much for sharing this with us friend, it is something we are working on. Thank you for taking the time out to comment on this video, we love hearing from you and we are hoping you get some good news regarding your planning permission too! ❤️🙏🏼😃🏡🇵🇹

[@createandliveyourbestlife]

WOW look at how beautiful the Centre Peice Olive Tree is growing - such a beautiful find and it is clearly loving being part of your family ❤️ WOW Tara that is some workout 👏🏻. Great strategic planning John, great design ideas! I am sure your boys will love it, especially their own desks. ❤️🙏🏻🙋🏻‍♀️🇦🇺

[@heidijohnson6954]

It’s so cute to watch Crusoe wanting to help with the bees! Love the idea of getting rid of the wasps…they really scare me! Such a good idea! Good luck with the beds John, I know you can build anything! Much love ❤️

[@christinaward161]

The beds are super brilliant, John is very clever. Every girl needs a John! If the kids beds are a little long for your bed, perhaps pull your bed forward 10cm, so they slot in, saves having to stuff blankets or use blankets ,especially if they are only temporary. Love your new home, its beautiful x

[@TheNewbys]

Everyone deserves a John I agree Christina! 🪵⚒️🛏️❤️🏡

[@gopalinissin503]

Seeing Crusoe in his little beekeeping suit walk along beside his mummy was so heart touching! Have loved watching him grow up and become the intelligent little boy he is today. Hope you work out the best solution with the beds and get some proper rest ❤

[@TheNewbys]

🐝🍯❤️🙏🏼

[@poull.sivebaekjensen4058]

Hi guys. So nice seeing you. 😊 John: lawn death can have many causes. Everything from bacteria in the soil, oversaturation of dogs pee/wee, too much fertilizer, weedkiller or mosskiller , too little water (which shouldn't be the case). I'd try what you are doing now. However if it does not take there are three other plausible causes: a large boulder or two beneath the surface, old trash or too compacted soil. All three need you to dig down to find the cause... Remove whatever trash or boulders you find and (if no other reason is found) discard what you dug up and replace it with new soil. Lastly there are two last reasons: spilt gasoline/petrol/oil or that the patches have a slight rise over the surrounding areal and was cut too close to the ground when mowing. It can be hard to determine the cause, so don't beat yourself up with it! Well as always hope it helps. Oh and Hornets have armor wasps have not...

[@TheNewbys]

Hi Poull, thanks for sharing your thoughts with us 🌱🙏🏼

[@abbyclarke7902]

As a fellow wrangler of small boys my first thought is they will be jumping off their beds onto yours 😂 but creating them a space up there would be a fab transition from co-sleeping whilst you're completing the new building 😊 ooh you could have a ladder one side and a slide the other!

[@karenhorton5412]

Enjoyed listening to music while John builds. 😉 Thank you.

[@ColleenBalliet-po4ki]

I think your idea about the higher beds for the kids is brilliant!!❤😂❤

[@sandrahohmann1898]

Hi Newbys always love seeing the bees. Crusoe is very fortunate to experience so many things and cultures. Best of luck with the lawn John.

[@TheNewbys]

🐝🍯❤️🙏🏼

[@desertcole4213]

What a magical world you are creating for your little boys!! An adventure everyday 🌸

[@kmsongbird]

How in the WORLD you're gonna fit all those ideas into the space on either side of your bed I have no idea! But yes, the bunks aligned across and above your heads is genius

[@Trish088]

Love John's vision for the boys' beds and hope that provides a much-needed sleeping solution for all. You have had a very productive summer! May the advent of fall bring you the much-anticipated permission to build your forever home. ♥🏡🙏

[@kerstinl.8369]

Tara, if only we could clone John 😂😂😂. No doubt his doubles be snatched up in no time. Love the bunk bed idea for the kids. I think adding a additional platform, making them in a L shape with a rail around the top (for safety) a straight up/down ladder and a pole or rope to climb down be cool. A wardrobe underneath up against the window wall with end tables next to the bed, that can double as desks. Maybe a cubby along the underside of the kids beds with lighting instead of table lamps to free up space. Oh don’t forget to put glow in the dark stars on the ceiling for the boys. Absolutely love your family and love how many viewers you touch, as I read some of the comments. In this twister world I can imagine you both inspire many to dare to dream again, and pursue those dreams. Many hugs & blessings 🥰❤️

[@lp2901]

Hey, John. Love your carpentry. You could also lift your bed up and put the kids beds on the floor. Then you have a wall to make a wardrobe.

[@sallyllewellyn361]

What an amazing mummy and daddy you are .❤ Both my babies had their own rooms ..I would never have slept with them soo close .You are amazing and I love watching your channel ❤️

[@kathymorgan8832]

I like the suggestion of using the former house for the bedrooms. The boys upstairs and the parents downstairs .

[@svetlanatrpcevski2719]

we used to live in the one bedroom apartment and my parents slept in the living room on the sleep on sofa and my brother and me in the bedroom on the bunk beds and we had plenty of room for one desk and wardrobe and space for the toys and that was our bedroom 😊so maybe you guys should just think about that idea 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗💕

[@gilbertrouelle8677]

For your lawn, it looks like Black Beetle eating the grass roots. You will need to spray a beetle killer spray, few days later spray some seaweed to encourage the grass to recover. good luck

[@xxwillowpinkxx9901]

I can't believe how chilled out the bees are 🐝Another great episode, thank you The Newby's 🥰

[@TheNewbys]

They were very zen friend 🐝🍯❤️🙏🏼

[@ErinTutt]

Crusoe is the cutest little Bee keeper!! I love that you all have the bee's and take the time to share your growing knowledge about bee keeping with us. Jon has amazing natural talent for building and creating, I always enjoy watching one of his projects come to fruition. You all are rockstars sharing the same bedroom. We had to share a bedroom with our 3 kiddos at one point for about a month.....it was challenging for sure. Here's to hoping you all get blessed with a good night's sleep soon! 🤞 😊

[@sreedeviraman4668]

John is really quick with woodwork. It was really a nice bed and that too before 9.47! 😃

[@heidibear44]

Awww, I remember the touvh nights. I coslept and breastfed for 2yrs with my son and what worked was a 2 month countdown to his independence. We did it according to the moon so it was 2 new moons and 2 full moons and the was a big boy in his own bed and no more boob. He enjoyed being part of the change and and the weekly reminders of when he was goinf to be a big boy. He would still jump into bed with us some nights in the beginning but it really made it smoother and less teaumatic foe me and him because he felt like he gained a bed didnt lose anything. I think we underestimate how kids can adapt when we give them time to process. You are doing a great job and one day you will sleep through the night! I promise, it happens eventually 😂😊

[@TheNewbys]

Thanks so much Heidi ❤️❤️

[@Mary-h2b]

I hear you however if the boys won't sleep without mum now, what will it be like when they are on the top bunks??! Yes it's a great design and usage of space, would it compromise your quality of sleep 💤😴💤😴❤❤❤. I wish I had a John who could create magic with tools like John. Well done to you John. Tara your blessed ❤❤❤

[@marcyradolovich9214]

I agree that the boys are old enough to sleep in their own space. If they are as close as you propose, they will find their way to mom's bed and dad will be sleeping in one of the other beds or on the floor. Don't worry, there won't be any harm done emotionally or their ability to bond. It will teach them independence and taking ownership of their own space. The trick is if they resist and come back to your bed, remove them and put them back in their own beds. Sometimes I had to do this 4 times a night. I know it's easier to just let them stay in your bed but at the end of the day you are the adults not them.

[@gailvandervyver7740]

The grass looks like an infestation of winter grass. They grow in little tufts in winter and in summer it dies. I actually kills the healthy grass and leaves those brown patches. It needs to be pulled out as soon as you see it manifesting and before it goes to seed. Loving your adventure... From Gordon's Bay in the Cape, SA

[@TheNewbys]

Thanks for the advice Gail 🌱🙏🏼

[@DoreenCor]

Tableview Cape Town. Love your show guys ❤

[@mariagillinson8527]

Sooo that how you look so good dear Tara… i consider you a blessing in my life! Thank you for the nudge up my butt to get moving…

[@martybertram7109]

The boys really need their own bedroom, if you have the room. You two need your marital privacy.

[@Gems-Conticelli]

I thought you discussed in one of your videos bunkbeds where the dresser is? You can put drawers under the bunk. Push your big bed along the wall side and build dressers desk etc on the following wall. And a desk table at the nightstand area? Just a thought. Love watching you all. Thank you for sharing your life with us. Love Crusoe bee suit!!

[@sallyrowland6063]

Has John checked for lawn grubs and/or beetles? They cause great patches of lawn to die. You can get sprays to eliminate. Or, perhaps, check your water supply - it may have some mineral content that is not tolerated by lawns (but then again, you’d think it’d be all over). Has he “cored” and dethatched the lawn? You probs know all this 🤷🏻‍♀️ 😊 I have to say your KZbin has to be my very favourite of all I watch. Your family is just gorgeous ❤❤❤❤ 👋 🇦🇺

[@pamjensen4683]

I can relate with the lawn problems! I think you might have grubs. They will ruin a lawn in a hurry. I had to have a professional sprayer come every couple of months during the Summer to keep them at bay. At one point, I had to replace 2/3 of my back yard because of them. When you finally begin to notice the damage, they have already taken over and eaten the grass roots. They are horrible. But, in order for me to have a beautiful yard, that became my only option. I wish I could tell you what they put on my yard, but whatever it was, it worked. There's nothing more frustrating to work so hard at creating a beautiful yard and then to have grubs come and ruin it! Good Luck with finding something to get rid of them.

[@helengesell2668]

I think John's solution is perfect. Whatever works for your family is the best. As stated before, dig up a patch of grass and see what is happening below it. Once you know, it will help with finding a solution. AND I loved the solution on how to keep your bees safe. 🐝 Bravo Tara! Have a wonderful week. I adore watching your channel! Helen from Illinois USA

[@TheNewbys]

Thanks Helen, we appreciate your support friend 🐝🍯❤️🙏🏼

[@deborahpalm7657]

Many years ago, we built a bunkbed shaped like a "T" for my older son. We used oak pallet lumber with some oak veneer. It had six deep drawers, three on each side. It was fantastic.

[@tiinah-b2326]

Love the idea of the bunks across the back wall! It will work better for now in your one bedroom house, and then provide perfect holiday accommodation options for family and friends once you are in your big house.

[@annawitkowska8961]

Hi Newbys! You need a lot of storage. You can make storage under boys bads on the back wall and big drawers behind yours bad head too. From the other side storage can be on the all wall even above two doors. ❤

[@asouthafrican3200]

Great work chaps. Looking forward to seeing the final innovative bed project. My three kids were in my bed too while they grew up. Then we had single beds similar to the ones John made, just with castor wheels which slid under the main bed when not in use.

[@JulieWilkie-qb6uw]

I smiled when you and crusoe were walking towards the camera, like an astronaut and her mini me!

[@TheNewbys]

❤️❤️

[@charmainestewartctmstewart3398]

When we got married 50+ years ago, our family doctor gave us some good advice. Never sleep with your children. Bad for their health and very bad for your relationship with your husband. Intimacy is the cornerstone of your relationship, and that is impossible with kids in the bed.

[@Maggies87]

Love John’s perpendicular raised bunk bed idea! If you allow 100cm width (not 80), the whole back wall could have 20cm deep cubbies (lowest level padded?) for books, pillows, clock, pajamas… I keep thinking steps or a ladder going up and a slide (detachable?) going down would be fabulous (with window issue addressed)! There are some great bed tents that could be fun as well, combined with a proper railing. Have fun!

[@danasmith8557]

Are you all watering ur lawn in the evening if so it grows a fungus on it the grass will have gray looking fungus on it then dies out ... never water in the evenings becuss of the fungus grows on the grass. I have seen this fungus first hand . The rest of John's yard is gorgeous!

[@TheNewbys]

Thanks for sharing this with us Dana 🌱🙏🏼

[@susanshaw7189]

Look at the storage you can have under those beds

[@ruthholbrook]

I love the plan for multi-level beds, I can just picture the 'den' effect of the desk underneath. I think the idea will make a psychological separation between you and the boys enough to break the practice of sleeping with you, but without separating too far to be comfortable. As long as a sense of adventure doesn't keep them awake. They'll settle in. The grass on your lawn is hard to read without physical contact, but I notice the affected parts seem to be near shade. As it's changed after providing water I'd suggest withdrawing water from those patches. Grass will survive dryness, but damp spots are where moss usually develops. In the open where it's exposed to wind and heat, it dries more easily and the ground will take the water. I think it's preferable to aeration to use a sprinkler. You could try scarifying the ground where the patches are.

[@Bergantin23]

Always astounded by John’s solutions to complicated situations. We need to clone him. Great video. Can’t wait to see the kitchen finished. Sorry about the grass.

[@TheNewbys]

He is amazing friend! 🪵⚒️🛏️❤️🏡

[@ritakennedy8582]

If you move the big bed underneath one of the windows with the headpart being underneath the window, then you can build thebunkbed for the boys against the wall that has no window.

[@ChristineJackson-o3w]

Give him a piece of Wood….and voila a Castle is built 🎉😂❤…priceless 😂❤

[@daisym930]

A tiny house call for maximizing every square inch. John’s vision with the elevated boy bunks that are in essence your headboard is a very cool idea. If you’re planning on changing your 4 poster bed, you could have above your pillow a built in-headboard shelf/nightstand under their mattresses and still have a wardrobe and a desk. I’m envisioning a midcentury modern style headboard. Another storage idea storage is a flip up mattress like in a caravans/campers. Whatever you do, it will be perfect for you all. ❤❤❤❤

[@carolyns9687]

Re; the lawn might be chinch bugs if they are in Portugal. Love the ideas for the bedroom! The boys will love it!❤

[@tammyfleming6428]

If you “sell” the bed idea to the boys as a nighttime tree house” they might adjust more quickly. The bunks over your heads are awesome.

[@TheNewbys]

Love this idea Tammy, thank you for sharing 🪵⚒️🛏️❤️🏡

[@lyndalouise3480]

Hi Newbys from Tasmania, great work on the beds John, love seeing Crusoe in his bee keeping suit, you are such a good mum.👏👏👏👏

[@SandraRossmann]

Love watching Life with Crusoe’s Bees! Thank you for sharing your bee journey as I’ve never seen all of this before. Clever ideas for the boys’ bed arrangements, John ! Tara, I actually began working out on a schedule this year at age 73😮! I’m stronger and more toned and keeping on with it! Take good care, Sandee R

[@TheNewbys]

We promise to share as much of our beekeeping journey with you as possible Sandee, thanks for being here friend 🐝🍯❤️🙏🏼

[@yaowsers77]

I love watching people build things to fix a problem. I'm actually in a bit of think myself. I've moved into an apartments that I can't really nail things into the wall and I don't have access to my tools. So now I've got to figure out how to put a little shelf near the doorway for mail and keys. It's fun thinking of solutions.

[@TheNewbys]

You are quite right friend, it is fun thinking of solutions and figuring it all out. Have you thought about using command strips for that? It is what we use to hang up all our pictures without having to nail anything into the walls 🪵⚒️🛏️❤️🏡

[@vanessaelvins5821]

Love the idea of the beds at the back - 1. The boys will get used to it, remember this is a 3 year project. 2. Extra storage. 3. Is the room ‘long’ enough and the big bed doesn’t end up at the door?

[@saracaetano1723]

Crusoe looks so cute in his Bee suit 😍

[@TheNewbys]

🐝🍯❤️🙏🏼