Will Your Ex Tell You If They Want You Back?

[@gidgetpereira1322]

I followed the no contact rule and I got my Ex back.Thank you sooooooooo much. It did work

[@Thomas-hu6xx]

Tell me more please....reason for split. How long nc.

[@DeadMysticx]

@@Thomas-hu6xx how long were you seperated?

[@georjayclementir4754]

Update?

[@lindawells9328]

Was your ex in a rebound relationship?

[@Deadman7600.]

Just for the record, this is an empty account which means it’s either a bot or the person wanted to keep this away from their regular activity.

[@dewdrop4330]

He had the courage to break up with me. He can have the courage to apologize. He knows me well enough to not contact me to waste my time. I need a man, not a boy.

[@VoiceOfThe]

Dew Drop Did he get in touch??

[@inserter400]

i need a woman not a teenager , she is 46 but thinks she is 19

[@Shoota4259]

If they truly want to get back with you they should be able to swallow their pride and apologize and admit that they were wrong. When I think about the wrong things and mean things she said to me it doesn't make sense for me to help her to formulate an effective apology and expression of her wanting to get back with me. I kind of disagree with this coach here. This love has to be earned and the dumpee should have standards. Yes you're right, someone mentioned it, it takes courage to tell the prosepective dumpee I'm done with you, the love is gone, move on with your life, and other harsh things. The same coverage that was mustered up to say those mean things should be the same used to repair the damage. Dignity

[@Domtronic]

@@Shoota4259 Same. Move on.

[@mifeke6149]

A real man will never go back. Going back to an ex is like shoving a shit back up your bum.

[@runer007]

This guy is so great. When you are heart-broken you need a nice guy to talk to. What is soothing about this guy is the way he speaks, the way he looks, the tone of his voice, his attitude. He is truly the ultimate broken heart doctor. His voice is caring, intimate, reassuring, calming yet firm. Such a balm for all those tormented souls out there. He seems to really care about us, and you know what, he probably does.

[@benjaminf5218]

This was really accurate. "Tormented" what a great way to put it. Getting that word tattood. Thank you.

[@Astrology_Witch_DJ_Lifestyle]

Agree! ❤️

[@laurasmusings1865]

Dear Coach Lee, I have to give an update and encouragement to subscribers and followers... if they'll only Follow your advice, It works!!! I followed your advice from the moment it happened, watched your videos for knowledge, signs and support. No, it wasn't easy, but YOU helped me stay focused and do the right thing. The result was this morning he called and basically mirrored every statement you've made about what an Ex goes through during No Contact! He was asking me Why I didn't contact him, did I actually care about him and he couldn't stop thinking of me. I responded slowly, pleasantly and we now have a date for the weekend and he wants to try again!! Thank You from my heart for your advice, for supporting me through my crisis and I sincerely want to encourage others, if they'll just Do what you advise, YES, it can work!!! Hugs and blessings to you and others that are struggling!!! I'll continue to watch your videos, because I, myself, am always a "work in progress" and I want to be a better me, knowledge is power, Thank You Again!!

[@laurasmusings1865]

@@tsedekidisv3304 I absolutely understand what you're saying and your question. While I am certainly not an expert, I have to say we're still going strong, since this comment posted. We've Both agreed it's a constant work, from both sides. With me being the "one that was broken up with", I've decided the best approach for Me was to go slow, alert, never give Too much, just yet, of myself and create a certain "balance" with what I'm giving to what I'm receiving. If I feel, at any point, that I'm giving alittle too much or approaching more frequently than my partner, I slow down, pull back, regroup and allow him to come to me alittle more. I have to be aware of that balance always, for now, since it's still new and allow to see where this relationship goes. It might not be correct for everyone, but it's working for me at the moment. Hugs and I wish you all the love and happiness you could ever wish for! ❤

[@tsedekidisv3304]

@@laurasmusings1865 thank you for the comment Laura! I feel like I have to approach the situation like you did. Causiously. Wish you the best and happy new year!

[@kelso1286]

Well done. Can I ask how long u were in no contact?

[@chantalp3234]

Laura's Musings I’m on day 5 of no contact, this gives me hope

[@Esponjinha88]

@@chantalp3234 Have you got a story 3 months later?

[@maxmillianochango6575]

If someone had the courage to break up with you he/she should have the courage to look for you and apologize......when the dumpee gets stronger the dumper gets weaker

[@JorDel_1111]

❤️💜❤️💙❤️💜❤️💙

[@maxmillianochango6575]

@@wilsonwee466 No thank you. I believe in destiny. Besides i healed and moved on. Though thank you for your concern

[@jayk4500]

In case anyone is wondering...stay with it. Today is day 84 for me (thank you Google calendar) and out of the blue a flurry of messages and a long phone call. She has insisted on seeing me tonight, for no obvious reason....we spoke about everything so there is no reason for us to be in the same place. Problem is now I don’t feel anything other than a gut wrenching feeling of anxiety. 84 days and I’ve realised I am happier away from it.

[@jayk4500]

Update: I’ve met someone new and I’m a hundred times happier than I was. Counting the days seems odd to me now but it got me through. Good luck to everyone in that boat, you’ll get through!

[@victora.g.2708]

Normal. At that moment you have been wanting your ex contacting you but at the same time It only produce you anxiety, sadness, etc. Hope you are doing good.

[@EdenLikeTheGarden.]

After 5 days with no contact and while watching this video, my ex messaged me. Going to follow your tips going forward. You’re the best, Coach Lee!

[@1911Blackhawk]

I'd text you too. :)

[@helenan866]

Update??

[@VoiceOfThe]

She keeps checking back in with me when she’s feeling down, then when she gets some attention and feels validated she disappears. It’s doing my head in.

[@AjeshSelvaraj]

Update?

[@walkyria1]

Three months ago my ex husband said he wanted me back, if I would take him. I said "you have to earn me back"... He never did anything to win me back and I just found out a week ago that he dated two different women. I don't even want him trying anymore...I am done!

[@antilaw9911]

Did you talk about what to be done to earn you back? I know he hurt you, but you also have to put your ego aside now that you have power back. That's where you went wrong.

[@walkyria1]

@@antilaw9911 No, because I didn't want him back anyways. I just wanted to see him begging. Divorcing him was the best decision I've ever made.

[@fleadoggreen9062]

@@walkyria1 wow that’s hard core , very cool ! Did you try dating again? Or are you just doing ur own thing ?

[@Ricardo-sh6pz]

@@walkyria1 lol. Well good for him for not falling for your stupid game. Glad he moved on quick. You seem immature

[@carmencarmenatti]

@@walkyria1 Good for you girl!

[@lala4461]

This content is a breath of fresh air. It's concise and clear and easy to follow. Thank you!

[@shelleyfox4092]

Coach Lee is one of the most clearest and understanding. you make so much sense . Thank you coach Lee. you do your star xx 😊😊

[@sanjusharma8845]

Only if u stay in no contact and dont give in too easily when they come back(its the most important part)

[@BurakSartasVFX]

so the most important part is the whole proccess?

[@psychwolf7590]

@@BurakSartasVFX I think he is referring to when they come back

[@soumendramohanty2096]

how many years of relnsip??/ when ur ex came back??

[@sanjusharma8845]

@@soumendramohanty2096 5 year relationship Breakup of 2 months including time when i broke no contact Basically 20-25 days of no contact

[@sanjusharma8845]

They start missing u on in 6 7 days of no comtact if ur doing good in life and looking back at them(thats most important)

[@ryanlemke1388]

With my ex, she’s been reaching out to me everyday of nc, I finally told her it’s not fair to me that she broke up with me, and keeps texting how she misses me, but it’s only crumbs. She doesn’t want to get back together, and so I told her to reach out to me if she wants to talk about our relationship, but other than that, I don’t want her crumbs. She agreed to that. 2 hours later, I got a message that said I wish it didn’t have to be like this and that she understands why, and then she said let me know when you’ve changed. Like what???? I didn’t reply to that and she knows she can reach out when she wants to talk about us. I’m gonna let nc settle for longer cause everyday she messages me to get a boost of ego, she hasn’t given time to understand I’m gone, she can’t just break up and expect me to be around. I feel like she just thinks I’m hers to control and that she can have me whenever she wants, but not anymore. And she’s realizing this.

[@psychwolf7590]

That's the worst type man, lol. But I am sure no contact will have major impact on her.

[@donh1572]

Any update

[@MrJustinjj26]

Facts that’s the worst type because they think and not accepting anything that is goin on

[@BushidoVXX]

Big mistake

[@kekkic]

The person I was in a relationship with decided to take off one day and ghost me. Yes, I was angry at his cowardice and was upset to say the least. I did not expect him to contact me ever again and after a couple of months went by and I began to stop talking about it and heal. I blocked him on all social media and my phone. 5 months later, believe it or not, I wake up happy that he gave me this gift of leaving. I no longer have to worry about his narcissistic behavior.

[@philshackleton1831]

Hi Lee, your Videos are keeping me bouyant during a very tough & painful time after being dumped & rejected. The temptation to make contact is so tempting and hard to resist . Thanks for your support in these dark days. I know you're right. It just hurts that's all, but I realise pain also fades or de get used to it with time. Thankyou brother. 👍👍👍

[@Karl-wx8zx]

Listen to this man, honestly you’re gonna be far better than whatever you might figure out or hear from your friends and family. I’ve gotten thru with the help of coach Lee and have a great deal of peace of mind at this point even when things are uncertain

[@ansobm4906]

Our conversation went exactly as you described it here when my ex reached out to me the other day and now he wants to hang out. It was just like you had seen our conversation when you described how it usually goes!

[@jessicaboson2802]

We broke up once. I did no contact and we got back together. It was better than the 1st time. Then we broke up again. Will no contact work after a 2nd break up?

[@emmarose7491]

@jessica NC after a second breakup worked for me. It also took him way way less time to come back compared to the first NC

[@juliejuleswiingreen7277]

You are the best relationship-coach alive. Love you Coach Lee.

[@grateful1547]

You are amazing... it always feels like you’re talking to me.

[@JMthdjhgbnjk]

True

[@JMthdjhgbnjk]

He and Alex Cormont talk directly to you, but this judge has a power beyond compare.

[@hawtain4399]

Your spot on with the text messages that’s exactly how our conversation went

[@robkelly7851]

I’m following the no contact. She did wish me happy birthday. I replied really unexpected but lovely surprise thank you. Heard nothing back now for over a week. But I’m staying strong and continue to no contact

[@tiffanimilburn8885]

You’re right coach. It’s hard to admit that you messed up and made the wrong choice, especially if you’re anything like me and stubborn. Even more so if the break up was a heat of the moment thing because you were angry or upset about something.

[@HellasGD88]

The dumber doesn't have to say 'lets get back together' they can just say 'I miss u" its not hard, it will be a rainy day in hell if Im gonna be the one chasing him and telling him i miss him, they made the mess they can clean it up

[@DarknessIsThePath]

Well I miss you doesn't mean much either if they don't do something to prove to you that they want you back

[@MikeGolf993]

I got an 'i miss u" text that was fake. She missed me at that point but her interests were me to be her friend. And she knew exactly what I wanted, and it was a romantic relationship. Sometimes I think I screwed up that chance but to be honest it seems like it was never a real chance, just her wanting validation.

[@position876]

@@MikeGolf993 You're exactly right! I get the same thing almost weekly. First it was how are you doing, then the next week it was "I miss our friendship", now its "how was your weekend". She's not missing me yet, just missing having the parts she wanted to keep.

[@margaritam.9118]

I miss you =/= let’s get together Don’t be silly.

[@silverlining5796]

As they made the mess out of some degree of ineptitude... You might think their ineptitude can be a greater handicap in reconcile the two of you together

[@markzig1429]

This guy is amazing. It is like he is watching what is going on in my life and explaining it exactly.

[@josephroberts7374]

Another great video! I did no contact, and after about 3 weeks, she reached out to me. It's gradually increased, and we've been out a few times. After about 3 weeks of more contact, and her giving me hints, but me not being overly excited with them, she told me tonight that she wants to move back in with me. Coach Lee's methods work!!!!

[@iUntouchedi]

Yesssirrrr

[@houghtonmatt]

Hi, can you update? I hope my NC goes the exact same as yours

[@billydavidsonvip]

When your wife leaves you for a sudden and catastrophic disability and tells you that she wants to move on then you have to deal with the sudden illness or injury plus the marriage ending it makes a person extremely strong. Then later once you conquer that disability and perhaps heal from the injuries that person comes crawling back begging at that moment it is up to you to forgive that person or take them back I chose to not take her back. I cannot tell you how many times I listen to this genius talk throughout the night while my phone sit by my pillow and it help me forget about all the trauma that I was put through and gave me peace and calm God bless you sir

[@jhgandy2653]

no thats one u dont forgive

[@billydavidsonvip]

_ BUDDHA _ probably about six months

[@laetitialogan2002]

Going through something very similar, a few life changing illnesses, not catastrophic, nevertheless life changing...and he is doubling down on work commitments...after I bailed him out financially when no one else would help. I'm devastated to be honest. He sees his chance at promotion and I dont count anymore, just stopped calling, texting etc after 8,5 years and engaged.

[@billydavidsonvip]

@@laetitialogan2002 if you ever need someone to talk to just let me know

[@laetitialogan2002]

@@billydavidsonvip ahh..thanks Billy.. very upsetting and just in.case.I wasn't feeling confident..this has given me a kick in the gut..

[@NeveN-XI]

I'm in NC for a 20 days, and I will stay in NC, and live my life and work on myself! 👍

[@glasysmabada1984]

It really works coach,because after i couldn't help him about a favour he was asking for,he told me that he was coming to see me on weekends

[@drexelking8792]

Love this guy.

[@chrismaejoselaolao-ux1wx]

My ex did everything you said, initiated contact, reached out often, tried to make conversation, he's here on a tour visa and he told me it was expiring but not sure if doing another visa run or go back to india.. but i was so scared to feel rejected to ask if i asked to have coffee.. he has always been very sure about asking to see me when we were dating.. everytime i become emotional he would say "i never asked to get back, i've made it clear i wanted to be friends" even though i never ever asked to him to get back with me

[@borissholomov8207]

Please don’t get your X back it’s waste of time, just move on and at the same time you will see how much you worth , with a real relationship you don’t have to play any games, you just need to be yourself, if you need some game to get your ex back that will never and , just do yourself a big favor don’t do my mistakes !

[@lalarodgers3141]

my ex (I'm the dumpee) is calling me trying to bait me in saying he miss me...but never say lets get together..he also says "hey ill call you back" and wait till like 3 days or so to contact me back...i never call him and I'm not..when he calls me again I'm going to tell him "if he is not talking about making things work then please don't contact me anymore its pointless and that we are on 2 different levels..plain and simple

[@seangriffin2828]

Yeah fuck that shit

[@MikeGolf993]

Got a similar situation like you. The say I miss u but they do not want to be back 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@Von.007]

Try to do some flirting to attract them. Haha

[@BurakSartasVFX]

any updates

[@stacym2201]

I tink u shud do more videos on how 2 interact wit your Ex.

[@cocochannel8932]

@coachlee just bought emergency marriage kit Thank you for not leaving a vacuum when you stopped taking calls 🙏

[@chrislevy3501]

I followed the NC rule as well… we went on a very unexpected two dates in 3 days. Our break up was awful. Probably the worst. I thought I had no hope fr. We been broken up for 3 months total I did nc for two weeks It’s still going through phases but the nc rule works. We made plans on dating each other to see where it goes. We were together for 3 years.

[@Zeb86]

She dumped me 3 days ago when I was driving her to the beach 🏖. I had noticed a change on behaviour few week ago and was trying to discuss with her. She told me that she doesn’t have that spark anymore. She said she loves me but is not more in love with me. It was shocking to hear that after two years of relationship. I came across these videos of Lee. As soon as I left her house three days ago, I entered nc. It’s not only to get her back, but I am looking for ways to get through these difficult moments. Things aren’t that easy. I am even affected at work. But I have hope that I will be fine. I know she is going through relief moment now. But what goes around turns around. Thank you Lee.

[@sharc.9259]

Good luck! Can you update me and let me know how it goes? I've been in no contact for almost 2 weeks. It's really hard not to call or text but you can do it

[@doubleJJ01]

​@@sharc.9259 update

[@marthagangmei6524]

I want people who are watching this.Yes it worked for me. I know it is so damn hard coz I’ve been there for about 9months of on and off doing contact and no contact. Exactly after 2 weeks of no contact, he reached out. First he started with silly argument. We texted for about 3 hours straight non stop and at the end he ended asking me to move to the same state where he is (btw we were in a LDR) and want to give it a try again and work things out. So we are working on it. Hoping for the best 🤞🏻 so guys stay strong.

[@olgak.9798]

What if you are already dating someone else but still you prefer your ex, how do you react? Should you tell your ex that you are dating someone else so he has to be better and act better?

[@dragonfly1955]

Coach Lee great advise but let me just make a point if your ex has reached out making a statement- not asking how you are. I would not help them along this kind of touching base doesn’t say anything to me in the hopes of getting back together or genuinely caring about being part of your life again. They owe us an apology and would need to make those efforts to try to make things right

[@thoomm]

Dude you are The Cupid Angel! You really do humanity a blessed work, thank you for putting this work out here for us all heartbroken folks♡♡♡

[@Thatslavon]

You are so right she reached out three times I’m definitely going to order you videos to learn more

[@thierryngoyi3188]

She reached out and apologised !! We chatted via texted... Convo faded I will let her comeback around

[@brunakida142]

This is the best video ever it reflects on every thing I am going through

[@rc2487]

I agree with what you are saying. However I believe that it all depends on the circumstances. My Ex Girlfriend had abandoned me because I found out that she cheated on me. She contacted me 2 months later and wanted to reconcile. I took her back but I broke up with her 2 days later because she abandoned me without contacting me which tells me that she wasn't too concerned about my feelings. She had sex with another man. So you can't love someone if they have broken the bond of trust. I don't think that she was prepared for the rejection. I miss her very much but I need to have my integrity and move forward. Breaking up is probably the worst feeling that I have experienced so far. Especially when you are emotionally attached to someone that you love.

[@mightyobserver12]

Love u man! These are real stories! Not some pinned post stories we know just for advertisements!!

[@seekingfreedom9020]

I'm sorry about that situation 😔

[@yamisoaegyeo]

Did you take her back just so you can dump her yourself?

[@victora.g.2708]

@@yamisoaegyeo Sometimes you miss that hard that you truly believe that you can forgive they. But then you realise that you can't trust again like before. So probably It wasn't the case.

[@BensonNyasae]

This coach spitting facts..

[@pritha12345]

He has been breadcrumbing me for months. He would want to meet me every weekend for an hour or two and that’s it. Last week he called me everyday and talked to me for 10-30 minutes. Then he asked me out for the weekend but canceled later. I know he is seeing other people and he wants to keep platonic friendship with me for emotional support. I was feeling so drained from the whole experience that I said I cannot stay as platonic friends and let him go.

[@rafachrzaszcz6997]

I dumped my ex because it began looking like neither relationship nor friendship, she started avoiding me and making malicious things to me. She led me to neurosis because of her toxic behaviour. I was 100% fair to her, I helped her a lot with many things. A week ago I text her a long message with kind explanation of what she had done to me during over half a year. I also wrote it was the end of our relation UNLESS she changed her behaviour. The I blocked her on facebook. I had really hard days but I feel I detoxed a little. I am in situation that she needs to write me, apologise me and make a decision. It's difficult, maybe impossible, but if she still cares, she is going to do it.

[@joec1212]

Dont wheel the trash to the curb and then go down there rummaging through it. Its nasty and the neighbors think you're weird. If they didnt leave for college or because they had to dont waste your time with someone who couldn't see your value and appreciate the wonderful person you are!

[@Zinnia1234]

“Its nasty and the neighbors think you’re weird” well, I got news for you…. They had an inkling of it since the day they met me.. Me rummaging just supports their theory! LOL!

[@slavkaz4242]

I did everything wrong in the beginning..just everything!!!

[@erindilley1711]

The one thing that sucks about all this is that you two broke up for a reason. People don’t break up with you for no reason. If that problem isn’t fixed then you will be dumped again. And if it was due to incompatibility or toxicity in the relationship you should move on entirely

[@jennymccullough9517]

Wait till its done to you.

[@katjafalinski6911]

Totally! And being dumped a second time hurts double! We should really asked our selfs if going back there is what we really need

[@2020-c8b]

She dumped you.NOC. she will come back cos she didn’t get any one else.period

[@Moore18jp]

My ex broke up with me and took him 4 days after no contact to reach me out again . Only to ask if I was already dating someone new and to say that we should go separate ways and he didn't want a relationship with me anymore...I was like wtf ?

[@ClLaSsIcaxchik]

Ive watched all your videos 2 months ago when my bf of 5 yrs broke things off fast forward he called me a couple of nights ago in the middle of the night i didnt answer then reached out again a few days later wanted to meet up and talk i asked him why he said because he loves me and misses me everyday and wants me back and he wanted to meet right now and he was kind of being a brat when i said im not ready to see you and kept saying no now , i told him that he needs to respect my decision when i say im not ready and i need time to think that ive respected his decision when he walked away now i need the same he finally he got the point , i really took time to re evaluate the relationship and need to figure out if i really want him back! so to those out there worrying trust me they will come back ! Thank you coach lee for getting me thru this tough breakup

[@ryancooper4148]

When my ex contacted me, I kept it short, and I ended the conversation instead of letting it fade because I was busy, did I make a mistake?

[@RealCoachLee]

Ryan, sounds like you did well. I suggest watching this video all the way through: m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/q3nYq3SqgLyVmdE

[@makingmajic1938]

Also, do not be afraid to tell them politely that you can not talk to them at that particular moment, maybe later

[@anthonymcmorris192]

This is confusing if you have kids together. It's hard to tell because the kids are always a perfect alibi to reach out to you but you can't tell if they are wanting you to take them back due to interacting with kids.

[@gadgetsondeck43]

this is true I am in the same predicament

[@cherrybacon5154]

One of my biggest faults if you can call it a fault is how many times do I keep going backwards and forwards with my Ex before I have the confidence to say "enough is enough" when he gets in touch again? I know in my gut that he's seeing someone else but can't prove anything. All I can do is stick to the no contact rule and do things by the book and take each day as it comes. One day he'll contact me and I'll say "No", I'm with someone who I'm happy with. Cherry 🍒.

[@Zinnia1234]

It’s interesting.. Broke up a month ago. With my ex. But, my comment isn’t about my ex, but about coach Lee. Its weird that videos that I needed to see to help with my breakup showed up on my KZbin feed right when that information was needed. And the information being just what I needed to hear. I have never seen this video suggested before… and tonight, my ex called me, chatted me up like we were friends.. then told how sexy I am… this video helped me sort everything out in my head. (Yes.. used the no contact rule.. thinks it worked) Thanks, Coach Lee… and thanks to who/whatever is sending these videos my way.

[@cynthiar6287]

Coach Lee, I would love more videos about this stuff. Getting through an awkward prolonged full reconciliation is so stressful and there's very little guidance on it.

[@RealCoachLee]

I do cover it in my Emergency Breakup Kit (myexbackcoach.com/ebk) and I will do videos here on it.

[@Justlikethat555]

It's been 2 months since I broke up with my ex. I figured since it is a new year I will say hello and apologize for the way I approached the issue that blindsided him. I didn't want to get back together as it was a long distance relationship. I texted him and he called back a few hours later. I was glad he was doing ok. I mentioned that I just wanted to wish him a happy new year and apologize from my side. He was extremely upbeat and one of the first things he said that he missed me etc. It took me by surprise but I didn't say that I missed him. I needed for him to calm down so I could say happy new year etc. Later in the conversation he said he never said he wanted to marry me and long distance relationships are hard etc. I'm thinking where is this coming from. It's like he was letting trying really hard to hurt me for some reason. Still upbeat, he wants me to come there once he gets his business started this year. Geesh! He was all over the place with this conversation. The conversation ended by me saying I would be in his area later this month to visit my gravely ill aunt. He asked to see me. I said I wouldn't be able to. He is keen on the idea of me being in his area and I shouldn't leave there without seeing him. I shouldn't have mentioned this to him so I am not pressured. I will have riders so that will be my excuse. Wondering why would he say those things but bringing up the good times and his desire for me. Also wanting me to be there to support when he open his business. I've gotten stronger but I cannot get caught in his web again. Now that I think about it, I should have stayed no contact because this feels weird.

[@oboyiamtheone]

This is really great for me and Ik even if things doesn't work out I have a better outlook on things with your advice because me and my wife been here before and it played out in the Fashion you explain thank you

[@RealCoachLee]

Kendall, I’m sorry that you are in the situation that you are. This video might help. Be sure to watch it all the way through: m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/rHqunKiFntlmfrc

[@ekowitaly]

she won't me back but she says I won't you to be my friend. "I miss you".I was extremely happy to hear that. I am still following your advice .My problem is am afraid to trust again, what can I do?Help.

[@katarina1122331]

I'm having very tough days and cry a lot. I miss him, but on the other hand I hate him, because of the way he hurt me, without any remorse. He was cruel. My biggest mistake was I invested too much in our relationship and forgot about my needs. So I was not attractive to him anymore, as he pointed all my mistakes. He wasn't perfect either, but I don't remove people easily, but always try to talk. He broke up 6 weeks ago. Meanwhile sent several breadcrumbs, he is not really interested if I'm doing fine, doesn't ask about my life. He is just focused on himself. I'm sure he will not come back... I only hope someday I will stop crying...

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Katrina, I've been there for 5 years, engaged. He had no intentions of getting married. I was devastated! TIME and going to Therapy helped me. I also went out with my friends, read some great self help books, and slowly got better. You CAN do this. Take care. Virtual hug..❤️⚘️⚘️

[@atharva1656]

Coach lee is a total legend, he is the man of the business🔥 my ex reached out to me after three months of NC, asking me what am I doing n where am I. Trust NC guys even if you've lost all the hope. Initially I was only watching the how do NC video series by coach lee, but now I am watching this series of 'what do to when your ex reaches out' never ever imagined i would watch this series..can't thank coach lee enough !

[@RealCoachLee]

Atharva, I’m thrilled for you! Please email your story to [e-mail]!

[@atharva1656]

@@RealCoachLee Sir, I've already mailed you my story on Your email ID, please Check !

[@lordofthelaws4139]

Thank you for the information! What if my ex starts contacting me immediately the next couple of days after she dumped me?

[@FoodNerds]

I find challenging others a little is helpful is they have trouble carrying a conversation. My mom was like that. If they respond with things such as “I’m ok,” “I don’t know,” etc., ask them “What has happened?” , or “Why are you ok ?”, or “ Why don’t you know how you’re doing?” Some people don’t know how to open up.

[@frankrobbins5130]

I did just that. After a couple of small contacts she asked me to meet for a beer. Meeting went well. We hugged and kissed,told each other how much we loved each other. 2 hours into the date she told me she’ll never trust me again. I ended the date right then walked her to her car and said my goodbyes. I told her not to contact me unless it’s to get back together. She continued to send me text messages after a couple of weeks asking me about my kids and small talk. I reconfirmed with her not to text me with chitchat and that I’ve moved on. I hope I did the right thing. I want her back so bad.

[@jdefeo9841]

My wife and I got divorced 6 months ago. We are in our 50s with no children. We were only married 1 year. I miss her but she wants NO CONTACT. Its been 5 months NO CONTACT. IS IT OVER??

[@akramzeeshan6323]

Dear Coach... absolute pleasure listening to your advice... spot on and very helpful... thank you Sir

[@irinichris7988]

You are a star. Your videos are so helpful. Thank you ❤

[@brooklyn.z34]

I need encouragement! 😭 I’m on day 3 of NC and he’s the type to ask me if I’m okay he’s the type to ask if we want to be friends but still nothing! Our 2 year relationship ended again over me going crazy girlfriend when he went to college... I trust him I just never trust other people. I basically blew his phone up and smothered him.. so is he still in the relief stage?! Or is he just really moving on since he’s a freshman in college and he’s busy and able to occupy himself!!!

[@sharathchanguli3051]

Cool. No one can move on. He still have feeling for you. Its like fire inside the ash. You have to wash out ash by NC.

[@onurbole7921]

"I trust him but I don't trust other people" is BS and you know that very well. What don't you trust about other people? That they'll drug him or kill him or rape him? No, you just think someone will show him interest and he'll not resist it, you think his mind will drift away from you in this new environment with new people, so it is really him that you don't trust. If you trusted him you'd know even if he was in a room full of naked girls he'd just walk away, or you would know that he wouldn't put himself into that situation in the first place, that he wouldn't allow himself to get attached to anyone else emotionally either. By the way, it is okay to have those doubts, people often do change when they get into a new phase in their life. But you cannot stop it by smothering him. If anything, you'll push him into where you are afraid he'll end up going.

[@deweycouto6922]

5 months not a peep...i messed up twice in mssg, her...regret it now...

[@michaelbukas4232]

You are the best.. you're sent from heaven

[@lonewolfekelly]

My ex and I broke up 1 month ago because she has family issues, wants to learn to love herself, focus on herself and get her life together. She said she is miserable with herself and she honestly has very low self esteem. She said “I dont want to be in a relationship right now.” “I dont know about the future” We havent talked in two weeks. I have been working on myself and filling the void. Will she be back?

[@isiscastillo1690]

Makayla Kelly do you have an update

[@Longbyname]

It’s a tough shout but focus on yourself, keep active and just take each day as it comes. ☺️

[@sueorbe557]

My ex reached out 8 days ago and hasn’t since, and I followed your instructions and was kind and casual and was a good convo, now what??

[@phyllismiller2817]

I spent 17 years in a relationship with a married man and this last year he brought a 3rd, person in the triangle and forced me to break up! Needless to say I am heartbroken! I do not contact him! It’s very hard and I am in counciling! I love him very much! Never ask him to get a divorce! He has no relationship at home! Just married! Pretty sad! Hard to believe someone could be so cruel after I gave him seventeen years of my life!

[@SKZ4LYF]

The thing is there's other factors that play into reaching out. In some cases it works in the favour of the dumpee to reach out if the dumper hasn't been in contact. My ex cheated lied broke my heart. I left him, shocked by his betrayal and deceit. If he wanted any chance of ever getting me back he'd have a lot of work to do. No contact to me in my situation looks like a boy who's running away and never valued the relationship enough to try. The longer he leaves it the more comfortable I become in my life without him, the more I've processed my feelings and moved on. I broke up with him but in these circumstances choosing no contact is self sabotage for my ex. But. If he's decided straight up to move on it's easier faster for both of us this way.

[@RealCoachLee]

I agree, in your situation I’d suggest a clean slate message for him (and more regretful than average) as I talk about in my article at myexbackcoach.com/clean-slate-message/

[@beachbum.1972]

I hope I can put my success story on here one of the days.

[@Sunshine-qs4io]

But isn’t there a fair line between getting friendzoned and getting back together? Maybe they just want to make themselves feel better by „cleaning up“ any past mistakes. My ex just told me yesterday she hopes we can just get along. But to me that def sounds like „friendship“ or whatever.

[@chirantanidas5999]

Please make a video on no contact after being ghosted and there is no formal break up.

[@emmarose7491]

It’s the same. Cut off contact everywhere. Remove them from your social media.

[@VermontV8]

Having hurt the other man and not having courage to apologize after all is just pathetic

[@floralgift8994]

I can recommend you to a man who help me bring my ex back he can also help you

[@floralgift8994]

He helped me few days ago he does a perfect work I'm am assuring you, you gonna testify

[@floralgift8994]

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[@DaveHowardSchiff]

She contacted me on day one to tell me it was difficult to handle my absence. I was working, I had to drive to another jobsite so I told her I had to drive. The conversation faded (text) The second time happened about a week later. She asked if I was ok, if I was ok with the new home. Then she told me that I forgot some summer clothing and my all season tires there ( I had no way to bring them when I moved) I asked her to send everything to me. Gave her my address and everything was going well. At the end of the story, she sent me a text "I don't know why you didn't want to come here to take your stuff... but OK" So damn hard, but the kit is kepping me on track. It's been 20 days since the breakup. Any advices? Coach? 😳

[@hermanfigueroa32]

Coach Lee is Great, I love your advice, Thank you,what my Ex does she sends her Brother with messages to tell me, she asks him everyday do I ask for her lol

[@SaraX2024]

If he's a hoovering narcissist, don't re-engage.

[@makingmajic1938]

Run away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@ett2]

I'm having a tough time doing no contact because she keeps reaching out. I've handled every perfectly besides this. I literally don't contact her unless it's to answer a question. She said she's done and moved out but she is lingering.

[@timsullivan250]

Not my wife Lee they will go to the grave 1st than admit there wrong

[@timsullivan250]

She

[@Drowningindarkness6]

Haha ! You never know mate , hang in there !

[@timsullivan250]

Thanks Mate

[@stealthassulter]

My wife thinks fighting is love. Thats why she fights me while I'm trying to take her to the movies. ...

[@brielleharmony7568]

Update plz

[@TheMennymeyer]

Hi coach Lee.Like your advices the way you present them with the soft background music ,your deep monotonic sciencere voice and the systematic way you transfer your messages.Took you advice of non contact that worked .My x is showing signs of wanting to come back with text messages with small kisses and hearts.I treat her very well like a gentlemen in our old days .I am very mixed up because she told me that we had no future together and after a period of no contact she showing signs of regretting.What Am I supposed to do to. Win her back surly with out hurting her pride and feelings.

[@frijole10]

My girlfriend broke up with me a month and half ago we had a very good relationship she just let her work stress take over and she broke it off with me... I been doing no contact and working on myself but i spoke to my mom thinks she's never coming back. I kinda felt discouraged binging Coach Lee really helps with the discouragement

[@kevinbuyek4423]

Trust the process it works.Mine reached out on day 45 of NC

[@melisasmith9485]

Did they reach out to get back together or just reach out to see how you were?

[@conniecrueldad9233]

Thanks Coach Lee.its very helpful in my present situation

[@kevinjiang12]

She reached out to me on our anniversary date on the 10th of this month, just checking up on me seeing if I was okay and saying she wished me well because it was a special day for us if we were still together. I acted nonchalant and cool and kept everything light and short. She then contacted me two days after saying she was really missing me and sent me a bunch of photos of me and her together, again I kept it light and short, never saying I missed her back, and told her I had some other things to do and acted busy and the cut the convo short.. the last message she sent was of a sad puppy dog saying that "thats me right now" I continued no contact after that and 5 days later she commented on a snapchat I had posted saying that I looked cute. I didnt respond. It's been almost two weeks now since we've talked and she hasn't reached out again, I see her out having a great time hanging out with other guys and having fun and what not. Is it too late? Did I mess up? Should I reach out now? What do I say?

[@RealCoachLee]

It looks like she moved toward you some. I’d give her a week and then reach out. I only say that because she reaches out to you a few times. I explain how to reach out in my Emergency Breakup video course at myexbackcoach.com.

[@Seren2010kinder]

You pushed her away after she reached out

[@terrelladams2905]

I truly think it depends on how far they are gone.

[@rajdeepsingh7928]

And thanks for inspiration and your knowledge which is saving people and their relationships God blesssssssssssssss you.

[@abbeypropertycare8081]

Thanks coach lee for your videos . They're very helpful .

[@stevenrobla6092]

She was checking to see if he had changed for the better.

[@nerizabarrit5331]

He reached me out.. but didn’t ask me to come back.. I continue to NC, Radio Silence 💔

[@mvol5973]

I had a woman dump me to go back to her emotionally abusive ex. I broke off all contact with her, six months later she attempted to reach out to me asking me to be her "friend". I ignored her for another year, she made several more attempts and even had a mutual friend reach out to me to convince me to talk to her, I told the mutual friend that I had no interest in talking to her, after some arguing she finally figured out I was not backing down. Not another word since.

[@Sharnic285]

Best advice to give to me as my ex is planning on seeing me tomorrow thanks

[@danmaertens7872]

I wish I found your videos right after we broke up three months ago. Been no contact the last three weeks but she broke it five days ago to see what I was feeling I assume.

[@ryantiz2427]

They shouldn’t because they shouldn’t have left in the first place

[@ashi111Z]

Thankyou coach lee......love from india

[@aenese34]

Why do they text you but don't ask to hang out? I feel weird doing that, I was the dumpee...