25 Signs to Know if She's a Keeper | She's a Keeper IF... Traits of a High Value Woman! HVW

[@YourWingmam]

How do you know if she's a keeper? She's a keeper if she has several of the traits! Hope my "lock down" and "urn" jokes don't offend! If they do, this channel may not be appropriate for your delicate disposition. Big hug. xo AJ p.s. *WakeUP2Luv link in video notes!*

[@jarodorla6949]

Suffice to say delicate dispositions dont belong here lol lol.

[@raygipson8896]

WingmamTV I had to smile from ear to ear when you said lock her down lol. I get you. Great list thanks.

[@YourWingmam]

@D T Awareness is the first step to change, start where you are and work toward where you want to be. It's not a race, go at your own pace. Don't give up! :)

[@jeffreylundin4716]

I love your advice and I love you! Hugs back

[@iammaximus614]

Max Lee Anna the True 🦄

[@AllHailMalissa]

1. She's kind to servers, cashiers, service industry workers (especially if they make a mistake) 2. She owns up to her own mistakes. (Bonus: She tries to make it up to you!) 3. She doesn't freak out when you make a mistake. (Bonus: If it's your second time making the same mistake) 4. She encourages you to follow your passions and hobbies. (Bonus: She sacrifices her time with you for you to do that) 5. She has a full life with friends and hobbies. (Bonus: She doesn't rely on you for all her happiness) 6. She encourages you to spend time with "good" friends/family. (Bonus: She shows up with you even when she ain't really into it) 7. She doesn't try to move too quickly. 8. She lifts your spirits when you're down . 9. She's your biggest cheerleader when you win in life. 10. She loves the way you're a man. (Bonus: She sees your "masculine-based flaws" as cute quirks) 11. She's generous with her attention and affection but isn't needy or clingy. 12. She looks for peaceful resolution and wants to understand your side. 13. She's feminine but not a feminazi (Red flag: If she says "patriarchy" ditch and run away!) 14. You have compatible long term goals. (Bonus: She's willing to compromise and not abandon her goals for the relationship) 15. You have compatible beliefs and values in the important things. (Example: Togetherness, Independence, Sex, Money, Children) 16. She defends your honor (Bonus: She doesn't dish about your problems to her friends) 17. She shows her love for you in the way you need it. (Using the 5 love languages: Physical affection/touch. Quality time, acts of service, gifts, words of affirmation. (Bonus: She expresses her love in your love language when it's different than hers) 18. She doesn't use sex as a weapon and doesn't withhold affection to punish you (Bonus: She rewards your "good behavior" with sexual favors) 19. She looks for ways to praise you. 20. She's got your back - she's your BFF. 21. She doesn't play games. She treats you with respect. 22. You laugh a lot together. 23. You can spend a lot of time together without feeling bored or claustrophobic. 24. She's stable and has her life in order and has her priorities straight. (She has room to add value to her life, not to fix her life!) 25. You've got shared chemistry and connection. (Physically, sexually, emotionally, intellectually, etc)

[@stoneywilliams1209]

15 of these are the opposite of red flags she's emotionally fu*ked up

[@johnsmith7171]

And she would have to be a widow or an android...

[@whateveritiz2010]

👊🏾

[@johnsmith7171]

@@whateveritiz2010 that yet cuzzin Melted?

[@astroparamjit]

😂😂😂😂 is she even human

[@stevejoshua9536]

My mother once gave me the most important piece of advice on women that I have ever heard. She said, "Don't marry a women who doesn't love you as much as you love her". Thanks, Mom.

[@BK-ip7ie]

your mom is 100 percent correct

[@colinesquire2480]

Good advice

[@kirbyammonsjr8491]

So true

[@denishillman5942]

Oh Yeah :)

[@tomau3946]

I have been told that one person always loves a little more. So maybe the advice should be that the other party's love is the same order of magnitude as yours?

[@bradleysmith9431]

She described my mom. My dad hit jackpot, and I was blessed with such a wonderful woman as a mother and great example of a wife. They are both 68 and have been married since age 18, so 50years of marriage!

[@edwardspaccarelli5944]

Sounds like your parents hit the lottery. That’s worth more than money.

[@madhubashiniwickramasinghe2050]

you are one lucky son Bradley Smith.

[@hebercluff1665]

Same with my parents!!

[@kirbyammonsjr8491]

Awesome

[@Greg_Gatsby]

It’s also cool that you recognize these traits. 😎

[@thumbprintsinputty6168]

My wife probably started with less than half of these qualities, me, even fewer. We supported each other for 37 years till she passed. We both gave each other space to grow and had 20+ of these qualities at the end. Thanks for the reinforcement of my beliefs. Sense of humor is #1

[@gmh101358]

My wife died a little over 2 years ago....I would say kindness would be number 1

[@garycooper8687]

Finally a positive comment. Too many negatives on the net. Sorry to hear of your loss.

[@parkerjr7205]

Dude dont post sad shit online im sensitive tf I'm about to cry and shit mad annoying

[@allanpatterson7653]

You have to love them which factors into the determination to stay.

[@TheMadAtterson]

I've been Married for fifteen years. I've noticed in my generation especially that as a woman, from early childhood on we were trained to expect happily ever after. It wasn't until i met his mother and other sister in laws that i realized i had no realistic role models for women growing up and that most of what i was taught to expect was actually ABUSIVE in my relationship. In work, i knew to emulate the most successful and when it occurred to me to applythat mindset to my marriage, not only did our fighting almost completely vanish, but i noticed that he reciprocated fiercely, and our love that was always SOLID was now PASSIONATE. his priority became me and mine became him when before it was always 'what about me?'. The first few years figuring one another out are difficult for any couple. But when our priorities are in order and our ability to grow and learn is valued by both our partner and ourselves, a kind of solidarity that when held as dearly as all the reasons you fell in love in the first place, means any obstacle you encounter won't stand a snowball's chance!

[@chasstiles7611]

My wife of 25 years told me when we first met that she can't stand oprah winfrey,I knew she was a keeper

[@hymnodyhands]

There are a BUNCH of us who can't stand Oprah... her true colors are now all the way out, but it was obvious to some of us way back when...

[@RaisonDetre96]

Oprah, and a bunch of other “figures” that the media tells you that you should love, is awful. Bottom line, if someone is willing to question or go against the status quo, this is a good sign in my book.

[@jonathanmoore7788]

Nice one! Yep, an excellent sign!

[@cityman2312]

Yes... I don't watch Oprah, but I did see Oprah on South park and she's clearly really weird, and endorses auto-biographies written by talking towels that always get high...!

[@acharich]

😅😅😅

[@lsmsp2009]

I met my current girlfriend at work without having any expectations. She has all of these qualities - which is hard to believe. I saw how she was and treated others, how caring, selfless and just a good person altogether. And... she is absolutely gorgeous!!! I mean she gets hit on all the time. She’s truly the girl of my dreams ( i say girl but we’re not so young anymore. We’re grown adults). When I asked her out very forward and blatantly ( we laugh about it now how this guy has some balls! Lol ) the chemistry was absolutely incredible! I am going to keep her and marry her. I know how most women in this world are basically broken but good ones still exist. Im glad I found mine. :)

[@LORD-ELITE]

(Offshore Asset Protection Trust) 🔐 + you can bend the knee to propose to her like I seen done IRL but never bend the knee to her (kiss her @$$) you keep the apex possition.

[@_Martine_]

Are you guys still together??

[@lsmsp2009]

@@_Martine_ Yes! We are engaged and planning our wedding. After 3 years our friendship and chemistry is amazing! She does everything to help me - if we need to get dirty in the mud she’ll jump in there without hesitation. She is a true partner and has my back 100%. Very selfless and generous in every way. I never thought a woman could love me this much. Of course I treat her just the same. We are extremely affectionate towards each other even after over 3 years. When we are together at the gym we are surrounded by people and we don’t even notice anyone is there. We live in our own world and always have a great time together. Thanks for asking. 😊

[@shengsun5916]

@@lsmsp2009 you're blessed

[@420exp8]

Shes never yours , its just your turn

[@stanspb763]

#1 I remember getting my first date with a really pretty girl and at dinner she asked why I thanked the waiter, he is just a waiter. Needless to say that date was shorter than planned and the last one. I immediately envisioned what she would be saying to me in 3 months.

[@bonnienedza55]

Really? How old was this person? That sounds like an immature high school brat

[@stanspb763]

@@bonnienedza55 The woman was a 31 and I was 40 at the time, 30 years ago. She was a fashion designer and had been a well known model before aging out. The tone of voice with which she dismissed him rang warning bells and any benefit of the doubt was lost so thoughts of seeing her again evaporated. I was in the music industry but also owned an elegant fashion store that featured less established new designers and she had attended a charity fashion show we sponsored. I liked her leather jacket designs and was taken by her beauty. Apparently, she realized she blew it so she sent a dozen white carnations to my office. I responded politely but did not continue any contact with her. I did not start dating until I was well established at 23 so I was a little more selective than my cohorts in HS or college, already having successful businesses and had already visited 2 dozen countries so I had experience with a range of cultures and customs for social interaction. I was very easy going without demands on anyone but I did not waste time with people who were aggressive, pushy or entitled. I famously kicked a top star out of my recording studio because he was aggressive to one of the female staff, midway through his album. The incident created a stir in the press but he promises to ruin me and his trying to finish it in his own studio failed and never had any success again, after 3 straight gold albums we did for him. I currently live in a country where manners mean a lot, so dating is a lot less a minefield than back in the US.

[@stanspb763]

@@RulosMagicos Well, I met many keepers but had no interest in marriage. Not having more kids, there was not a compelling reason. I had a series of long term girlfriends, even now, going on 6 years with a very attractive fit woman who is feminine, highly educated and cultured, fit, active, a lawyer, yoga instructor and partner in a company I created around her, and 35yo . All was perfect until recently her biological clock started ringing and now she wants children which she insisted she did not want them for the last 5 years.

[@amandamcfarland8554]

@@stanspb763 what country do you live in? I want to go there.

[@ericvaria7807]

@@amandamcfarland8554 looks like an eastern european country : romania ,moldavia,

[@illcryst]

Sign 26, she's not divorced with 3 kids living in a big house with an unrealistic sense of entitlement.

[@seanparker4461]

I think she covered that one in this video, lol. kzbin.info/www/bejne/qYLIYXx4fpKsgpI

[@EzeICE]

That's basically a big ass red flag broski

[@lisamay3240]

Van you do one for the ladies

[@jonathanjackson1271]

Sorry about what your going through man.

[@bprathe3205]

Just broke up with one who was married o to wealth. Never again.

[@forgotmyun]

Honestly, it’s is actually great for women to watch. I got out of a long term relationship earlier this year, and kind of learned to work on myself in the meantime. I don’t like short terms flings or hookups, so I’d rather improve myself until I’m fully ready.

[@dr.strangelove5320]

God bless you Robin! :)

[@unidentifiedguy8253]

You're wiser than most people of either sex then.

[@fatimamoja7864]

I suspect you're a libra

[@forgotmyun]

@@fatimamoja7864 yes😂

[@ralx225b]

Wish more women followed your example. Kudos for you, just know us men love women who focus on self-development! So keep up the good work!!!

[@chiya2006]

I met a narcissist woman having most of the points mentioned. She was so clever in pretending, so decisive that It was impossible for me to discover until we hooked. Then all the sudden she dropped the mask and stripped from all the qualities mentioned like a tree in fall when loosing leaves and at the end, remain a naked tree that’s un-recognizable. Best advice, don’t rush it and the time will drop all the face masks

[@bonnienedza55]

I had a husband like that

[@oneoutoftheninety-nine.3314]

Same here but with my ex boyfriend.

[@manf9593]

It's called Pathological Covert Narcopath aka Jezebel Spirit... Meet the mother, and study her long and HARD... What ever she's like more than likely she is or will be...

[@Journeyoflove13]

Same here. I was with a covert malignant narc for a long time. An abosolutely wonderfull guy vs possesed maniac. They should teach about emotional abuse at high school.

[@truthonly6941]

How long did it take for her to drop her mask?

[@mitseraffej5812]

For me the best sign that things are still ok after many years and many kids, is that you look forward to going home after work.

[@billbunch6762]

Idk why this has so few likes.

[@man-observing-world]

So good dude!

[@paulparkinson1379]

I really like the sound of that

[@keithad6485]

That is so true.

[@TheTheomax]

The truth 100%

[@captaindavedavison5495]

Thank you Anna.! You’ve just reminded me in 25 ways that I am in love with a Unicorn and that she is indeed a keeper!

[@alibertylover]

I've never found a woman with these qualities, but my dog has most of them. Good enough...

[@Nowhere888]

Look overseas where the people have more character and integrity.

[@moondog7694]

@@Nowhere888 Like acceptance of animal cruelty, corruption/nepotistic hiring practices, closed-mindedness, lack of creativity, lack of philanthropy and donating to charity no matter how rich they are because they only care about their own family and in-group members, refusal to do their part to conserve the ecosystem, refusal to donate blood or bone marrow or a kidney (unless it's a family member), murdering two consenting adults just because they happen to be of the same gender, etc.

[@radthadd]

@@moondog7694 You'll find the right man!

[@kotnhewhohim2092]

Sonny Dey ... Hahaha! Funny shit!

[@erickjohnson7703]

Does your dog have a pussy?

[@auricocularis963]

1. Kind to service industry workers 2. She owns up to her mistakes 3. She doesn't freak out, when you make a mistake 4. She encourages you to follow your passion and hobbies 5. She has a full life with friends and hobbies 6. She encourages you to spend time with good friends and family 7. She doesn't try to move too quickly 8. She lifts your spirits when you're down 10. She loves the way you're a man 11. She's generous with affection and time but isn't needy or clingy 12. She looks for peaceful resolution and wants to understand your side 13. She's feminine but not a feminazi 14. You both have compatible long term goals, where one or more willing to compromise 15. You have compatible beliefs and values- sex, money, children, independence, togetherness 16. She defends your honour 17. She shows her love for you in the away you need it 18. She doesn't use sex as a weapon or withhold affection to punish you 19. She looks for ways to praise you 20. She's got your back - she's your bff 21. She doesn't play games. She treats you with respect 22. You laugh a lot together 23. You can spend a lot of time together without feeling pushed or bored 24. She's stable and has her life in order and get priorities straight 25. You've got shared chemistry and connection

[@mikedoyle7300]

0 for 25.

[@enigmavariations3809]

Thank you!

[@niteliniN]

Well, my girl told me once one thing that kinda melted me. "you make me want to be better" and holeee shiet, those words kind of hit in the right spot you know.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@locke103]

part of why i miss my fiancee. she fit so much of what you said, and her passing was such a hard hit. she was so imperfectly perfect, and i loved her for that.

[@judeokechuku1305]

I am sorry for your loss. My hope is that the gratitude of knowing her has made you a better person. It is painful but true that it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

[@TheJaybass32]

So sorry man...you had a unicorn

[@BubbafromSapperton]

I miss my finance too! 🤗

[@bamsuchanan]

@judeokechuku1305 hey those were some very lifting words.

[@marioleal8152]

I met my wife when I was homeless, been married now 31 years. We've had our ups and downs but still together. The first time I asked her out she told me that she doesn't date men. But I still got her to be with me.

[@matthewhunter6421]

At least you know she didn't date you for your house

[@forward_ever_ever2595]

Now thats a keeper dude...dont you ever mess up bud

[@esotericman6369]

I dated a woman that was homeless. It was nice because at the end of the date, I could drop her off anywhere.

[@RC-br1ps]

@@esotericman6369 🤦😂

[@vaquera9368]

@@esotericman6369 😂😂😂

[@mistisol5354]

I'm happy that I married a mature man who makes me understand the aspects I need to improve, he makes me want to be a better person

[@unidentifiedguy8253]

Curious, where did you meet him? I have trouble finding women that don't seem like 30-something 10 year olds, so would love to know where to find mentally stable, mentally mature women these days.

[@mistisol5354]

We met in Costa Rica, that's where I'm from. Pérez Zeledón, the town I grew up in, is known for having lots of beautiful women but lack of man, actually I married an italian, never had a serious relationship with man from my country

[@denishillman5942]

"he makes me want to be a better person " - who can want more than that :)

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@sleazybtd]

"Can someone love me better?" Have to disagree on this one. Because the answer is always "yes" even if your current partner is the unicorn. I'm of the belief that this kind of thinking is toxic to relationships. If you're constantly thinking that there is someone better, you will not commit to the current relationship because your eye is constantly wandering looking for that "better" partner. And chances are, you WILL find that person, but then realize that it was an illusion because you filled in the knowledge gaps about this new person with cotton candy and unicorn farts. Your current real person partner with known real flaws can never compete with the unrealistically built-up, imaginary "better" person so you end up spending your life chasing "better" when "great partner" was 5 partners back.

[@sleazybtd]

"Can someone else love her better?" Also disagree with this one. The answer should ALWAYS be "yes". To answer "no" is the height of arrogance. The answer of "yes" will spark the competitiveness in you to improve yourself to love her even better. The question should not spark insecurity, but rather keep you on your toes to want to love her better instead of becoming too comfortable and complacent.

[@RomeoWhiskey692]

Yes , you turned what he said on its head . I know many men who have fallen in love with a girl , and the question is almost never “ Can someone love ME better ?” In his mind ... But “ Can someone else be better for HER than me ? Can someone love HER better ?” It’s a noble question , born of true love and caring , and hard-headed practicality . He knows his capabilities., his assets , and wonders if he should make her settle for him , when she deserves more . Don’t say it is a lack of confidence.... many of these men are strong as steel ... If anything , it is an over abundance of strength , determination and discipline... An overblown sense of decency . To coldly look at one you would love with all your heart , spend your days and nights with ... and ask yourself “ No matter what is good for me , what is best for HER ?” Then have the iron will and determination to bite your tongue , stand fast , and look away , while she goes with someone else . Watch everything you want in life walk away . To serve honor rather than selfishness... To be the decent human being . It is a personal way for a man to perform The Birkenhead Drill ... self sacrifice for the love of others ... and especially ... the one . You can disagree with these men . Say they should take what they can get , and try to make it work ... get in there and win her ... he knows he probably could ... almost assuredly.... Yes , it is absolutely fatal to a relationship... because anything that might bring her closer to him , will be seen by him as a test of his will and determination . To be shut down without her knowing . But don’t dismiss them , or deride their bravery ... their decision isn’t cowardice ... it’s courage on a level most people can’t even comprehend . It’s mercy in its truest form ... I will not hurt you , by action or inaction . Your well-being is my only concern . “ Go my love ... and be happy ... Give me not another thought . I give you up so your life can be joyous ... even at the expense of my own . I will not even hint at my sacrifice , you will never know ... But I did love you so ... I will swiftly fade from your thoughts , nor will I disturb your memory . But you will always be in mine . Farewell , my love . “ Some men are made of sterner stuff than others , wise to the ways of the world , they decide to do the right thing ... no matter how much it hurts .

[@SpinDoctor91]

The person who you created in your head doesn't exist. Unless your relationship is extremely terrible abuse etc, the grass is hardly ever greener on the other side. No one is perfect and all relationships have their problems even with people you normally get along well with. If you have a person you get along with for the most parts and you guys come together and stick it out, that's something good in itself, even that is rare.

[@walterhicks5520]

@@sleazybtd LMAO,...if you're having to compete, you can never 'win' her. Just like her happiness, her loyalty comes from within HER (her character dictates this, not others, especially not friends and family,...but her), and most often (not always by any means) whether she cheats/leaves/etc,...will have NOTHING to do with her guys behaviors what so ever. I don't think these women she speaks of,...exist. Not to say you wouldn't find one with one or so of these qualities, but anymore than that? LOLOLOL....that's just a Unicorn.

[@denishillman5942]

I agree - too negative.

[@johnosborne9299]

I would only look for one trait. To only tell me "its gonna be ok." Not try to solve my issue. Just assure me she's listening and has my back. Still looking.....

[@gins8781]

That’s a really great expectation! There are a lot of people who have been traumatized and are codependent. Women like that will try to fix your problems and then resent you for it. She won’t even realize she’s doing it. Been there...done that.

[@lifelessonswithjo]

I am woman and been working on myself for a while and now a lot more! I aspire to be the best version of myself. Setting healthy boundaries and having healthier communication. I believe a relationship should be team work and not out of being needy. Though this is for men, I just found your page and like your content. I aspire to be a great wife, friend and mother!

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for sharing ❤

[@ImranKhan-tj3dr]

Hi ❤❤

[@f.k.6151]

Are you free Saturday night?😊

[@MichaelSerby]

​@@f.k.6151LO LOL

[@BlueCR055]

Only simps and silly men believe in "nice women". MGTOW is the way to go!

[@joshlopez85]

Hey Anna! Thank you for all the value you bring with your videos. I am a new watcher and have been blown away. I am about to turn 35, recently divorced after 12 years of marriage, and a father to an awesome son. Your videos are helping me get out of a rut I have been in for the last 2 months. Much love and stay healthy out there! Josh

[@JimNH777]

Seriously standards are that low? This is a list how to be a decent human being not potential partner

[@con2mms2000]

You have no idea how many low value people is walking out there this days. 1 out of 10 or 20, as you say, are a decent human being.

[@christophermosley4577]

TRUTH

[@topdigitall]

@@con2mms2000 Having this kind of opinion about humanity dose not makes you stand out from the " low level majority". no offense intended.

[@bonnienedza55]

Exactly!!!

[@juliehutson1910]

JNSSS I hear that shit!!! But there are still so few out there!!! Good luck if u fall into this category I have never found a man yet capable of most of these qualities I can honestly say I am all of that naturally I am an Empath compassion person so I attract major frauds parading like they are all that but a few months in their true selves come out and I find I fell into a shithole AGAIN!!!

[@sebastiandiaz9263]

My girlfriend one punched an asshole because he talked bad of me. She screamed at him, she was so brave. She still is, my Supergirl

[@hebercluff1665]

Ooooooooh that's awesome

[@unidentifiedguy8253]

I hope that was while you weren't around to punch him yourself...otherwise, ya might just be a beta and she might just have an alpha on the side when she isn't busy protecting you.

[@robertbeightler1473]

I am on my third marriage now for almost 23 years and it's solid. Girl you are seriously right on the money!

[@marksallai2289]

lol I have done 2 cant imagine a third but fair play to you

[@donfreeman8920]

@@marksallai2289 yep 👍🏾

[@thorsprovoni2525]

Sign #26: She has a sunny disposition and is not displaying any symptoms of coronavirus.

[@jarodorla6949]

lol lol lol

[@thorsprovoni2525]

...and if we were fiends, I would definitely 'lock you down" ;-)

[@thorsprovoni2525]

@@jarodorla6949 I love your avatar image!

[@toddmangum7733]

blood donors needed to save lives but my gf said it's not my problem, she told me not to do it. she's like this in other instances too.. she doesn't like to help people. now my buddies are saying she's a selfish narcissist. thoughts? red flag?

[@beetleything1864]

& is willing to swap fluids...

[@benriggan5267]

One of the most valuable videos....of all time!

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@demonfox0958]

Going down this list, I know I married a great one!!! She hits pretty much every single one! When I married her I knew balls to bones she was the one.

[@JohnGalt1960]

It's easier to stay single......women can take care of themselves without a man......im happy by myself.....especially now with all that is going on......glad I'm alone.....this is great!

[@YourWingmam]

And that's ok if that's what you prefer. Relationships aren't mandatory. Happiness is an inside job! (Everyone who's single and lonely loathes that phrase lol)

[@erickjohnson7703]

@John Smith You’re lie to yourself, I ask why you’re watching this video?

[@JohnGalt1960]

@@erickjohnson7703 I find these videos entertaining.....run along now....go bother somebody else.

[@e83arman67]

@@YourWingmam Hello my fellow Vancouverite, while it's true men and women don't need each other for their personal happiness, yet they complete one another in many ways. Aside from sexual satisfaction us men need a woman's presence and support at some point in our lives and vice versa.

[@domirican81]

Women need men when they hit the wall. Good luck with those cats

[@raularmas317]

I like the saying "don't Marry the girl you can live with. Marry the girl you can't live without.

[@AdviceandAdventures]

@port nut agreed

[@raularmas317]

I have found two in 57 years of life. They actually inspired me to want to work harder than I ever had to actually be the best versions of myself and to rise to their level of relational awareness and trust. I have to admit I was extremely cynical about ever finding that depth of love/caring in another human female who would accept me as she found me without totally wanting to make me over. But, I did.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@philliptoone]

It's nice to imagine someone with these qualities. I'm inspired to adopt these qualities as much as I can.

[@NG290584]

We 🦄 are out there 😌 As high valuable Women ,kind , respectful, atractive, taking care of themselves , also physically don't want to go for less, that's why It's difficult to meet a compatible partner with decent equal qualities

[@philliptoone]

​@@NG290584 I would like to believe that 🦄are real. I wonder if there is a way I we could communicate privately. Can or should I post my email or phone number address here?

[@ProfWho-ut5he]

Good points.. the only problem with this is that there are no women like that who are available. I'm searching for decades and couldn't find one yet.

[@SoulforSale]

Unicorns are real. NAWALT

[@charlottehanna790]

No one is perfect..........

[@DJSonicScotland]

Your'e more likely to find when you're not looking...............

[@ProfWho-ut5he]

@@DJSonicScotland that's a myth

[@hausauerj]

On one hand, I'm glad that all these guys in the comments are watching these videos, because they clearly need it. On the other hand, how the hell am I single when this is the competition? These are absolutely brutal to read.

[@rideinleatherdotcom]

One thing I learned is, never get with someone that has more problems or baggage than you.

[@webbset]

Word

[@ministerstayfly9213]

Perfect 👌

[@bizarro_raven]

Good advice!

[@jessicagarcia7558]

Yup...

[@vaquera9368]

No actually the saying is, “Let’s unpack each other’s baggage/suitcase.” Everyone has baggage and some more than others. One has to see if that baggage is worth living with in terms of the good qualities outweighing the bad. That’s being real because all people are broken in some form or another.

[@MihaiPinzariu]

There was a girl like that in my life and I loved that she held me accountable for everything that I did wrong because I know she had my best interest behind it, but I'm too emotionally damaged from my previous toxic relationship and I cannot trust anyone right now because I'm 100% focused on my career and myself.

[@charlottehanna790]

Agreed. I'm at a place where I will not allow others into my little World because I tend to get off track. Then, I won't and they won't be investing in a relationship with different values.

[@brightvalley]

Thanks for the list. Gives me things to reflect upon in my own behaviour too.

[@johnclark1469]

Awesome advice. Single for 12 years, dated several long enough to see the red flags- but yes it is very hard to find most of these even when seeing them in yourself. Its has been surprisingly disappointing. it’s obvious you really have a deeper understanding more than anyone I’ve heard on the subject. Amazing good job. Thanks so much. Great to discover there is a woman out there who understands these dynamics so well. 👍👍👍

[@sogman7265]

You give these little bursts of energy here and there that belie your personal feelings about certain things and it's very charismatic. It looks good on you. Neither one of your wingmam sisters have this and neither one is as well spoken as you.

[@chellegriggs]

You're very good...Much respect. My parents (married almost 70) were my example. My mother taught me very early on, 'affirmation' was one of the most important things in a good relationship, even if the man didn't know or think he needed it...it IS important.

[@richardpauly1635]

Nice pic and nice smile

[@ImranKhan-tj3dr]

Hi 👧👧😍😍🌷🌷❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@1TheSarcastic]

I also value a woman who is able to tell me what I NEED to hear, vs what I want to hear. That kind of goes with Respect, where she is genuinely trying to help you be a better you.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@allanpatterson7653]

I am a mid 60's male ,I agree with your points I could write this kind of material but I do not have the time so thank you for taking the time. I learned it all the hard way back in the day. I see the most delightful lady she is a widow who swears she will never put herself through another marriage I have known her plutonically for a few years but times change and she has needs that I am happy to fullfill, her grown sons and I get on well ,I consider myself lucky.

[@joemancini2988]

Here’s one: She gives you power of attorney.

[@warchild5885]

Well done

[@celestialfix]

Here’s how a friend of mine identified the keeper he’s now married: one evening a couple of years ago, after working out, he remembered he had to pick something up, so he quickly grabbed his car keys but not his wallet. When he did a rolling stop at a stop sign, a cop pulled him over. When the cop found out he didn’t have a drivers license, he arrested him. He was taken to jail and his car was impounded. He went before the magistrate at about 2:30am and was released on his own recognizance. Thinking about who to call to come get him at the county jail at 3am, he thought, if I call one of my co-workers everyone at work will know I got arrested; if I call one of my friends or relatives, everyone will be laughing about this forever. Then he remembered this girl he had only dated about three times, who he really liked, and was kind of outside of his social circle. They didn’t really know each other that well, but he decided to call her and said, hey, I just got out of jail and I was wondering if you wouldn’t mind coming to pick me up. She said, sure I’ll be there in about 45 minutes.....never asked one word about why he had been put in jail. As she was driving him home at 4 in the morning (it was a work day for both of them), he got to thinking, you know, this is the kind of woman who would make a really good wife. After a few more dates, he asked her to marry him. Picking him up at the jail at 4 in the morning without even asking why he was in jail elevated her above all the other women he knew and had ever known.

[@grasshoppingsnappoppin302]

@@turn-n-burn1421 i agree with that. somebody does something nice for you once.... great! the real deal comes out when she's there for you everytime you need her.

[@alfresco4976]

Why? It's no secret they prefer bad boys.

[@O.Shawabkeh]

She is just naive. Poor people learn the hard way, in time, to not trust anyone, and learn to ask the right questions and demonstrate the right to know, in opposite to taking others' words at face value.

[@janedoe5829]

celestialfix that was pretty out of line for that cop to do. Usually, they would give a ticket. How do I know? Because it happened to me. What state was this in?

[@bassfishingwiththeantichri2921]

Driving without your license on you is a jail-able offense? Jeeze. Hey, what if your friend was a rapist?

[@computersforall]

A high school teacher of mine named Walter Melnicoff said that his daughter asked him if the boy she was dating is the right person for her. He came up with what he called his greatest invention... ( THE LOVE EQUATION ) Walter asked the daughter, " how much does he respect you vs how much he lusts for you ? " according to the equation... LOVE = 51% respect + 49% lust According to him that all the people that followed this without lying to them selves stayed married cause the other important differences got worked out from the mutual respect and the desire to be together. (( remember folks... usually sex without love isn't just wrong but it's also cruel ))

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@gossamyr]

This is a great list, I found myself reversing those on myself as I tend to do with things, goose & gander and all that...;)

[@parajacks4]

It’s never too late for some personal development

[@shawandrew]

My wife ticks all those boxes! 😍 So glad because I have been pretty careful about settling down with the wrong woman.

[@KMlJS]

Wow !! Finally a woman who understands us men. Love,love this lady !!

[@glen3468]

I sit with a open gob listening to your video,s,love them...…...1- I love polite people,doesnt cost anything, 6- i hate negative people it drags me down,and the words you where looking for anna as "green flag" :), ,also like you say these woman are hard to find,22- laughter is my biggest thing anna i love to make people smile.....keep up the good work and stay safe

[@YourWingmam]

Green flag!! Check. Thanks, and thanks for watching and commenting! :))

[@bigben8865]

They do exist everyone!! I'm so blessed my girl is a Unicorn

[@JohnGalt1960]

So far.

[@davymoose3815]

Hahaha,That 2nd Clam made Me Laugh & somebody those Tips !!

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you enjoyed watching ❤ 🙏

[@MsNantal]

When was 29, bronzed, fit and with a solid career, I developed pneumonia from working in a heavy snowstorm. It was a struggle to recover. I had a circle of about 12 woman I knew, but not really too connected with. Of the 12, most of them would say things like "give me a call when you feel better" or "That's too bad." One of them made me sleep on her couch, made me go to sleep early, made me chicken soup and got me well. We got married six weeks later. Been together 34 years. She lets me take adventure hikes in the West and be myself. These women are out there.

[@Shew0000]

Wow very lucky,good thing's come from bad experiences 🎉.

[@brunosgarage4701]

Wow, I watched the red flag video and this video and determined that my wife of 27 years has some serious issues and so do I for being a push over and putting up with it for so long. Every single "red flag" point that you mentioned was right on! It was like you had a window into our marriage. I guess I just got use to the lack of intimacy coupled with the verbal and emotional abuse. I enjoy your videos and someday hope that I can muster the courage to change my life. Thank you.

[@stevewise1656]

Unfortunately, many of our wives exhibit many red flags. I understand and a lot of us/men just give in, because the drama isn't worth it. That's no way to live and I speak from experience. Possibly try couples therapy, because if you bring these issues up, she will likely become very defensive and there won't be positive outcomes.

[@billdarnell5650]

I very much like the fact that you get right to the point. Also like your facial expressions. Also like your voice. Also like your sense of humor. It is clear that you enjoy what you do. You do it well. Just sayin.

[@kevinmalone3210]

When I was in college, I once had a woman college professor who had these characteristics. She was one of those uncommon women, who knew how to treat people with respect, and was kind. Women such as this are worth their weight in gold.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@journeyquest1]

1) If she is smart and pretty like you. 2) Kindness, loyalty and humor are at the top of the list.

[@nickf2170]

All good advice, no issue with that. What I have come to understand is that a relationship is a process, and a process is only as strong as its weakest link. If the process has a weak or broken link.....then it is not able to carry the weight. Just think of a chain that has to lift a weight, if that chain has a week or broken link, it will not work. Most honest people go into a relationship wanting it to work. Overlook a weak link in the relationship, and it will not be good.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@davidmackey74]

I Believe it is "Traditionally" common courtesy for a guy to pick up the tab after a pre arrange dinner date. She may reciprocate buy buying lunch later on

[@ministerstayfly9213]

How so they say that their equal 50 50

[@BK-ip7ie]

they say its 50 50 .... but women still expect men to b gentleman n pay for everything. ... wen modern women of today expect the men to cook n clean .... n women wants to wear pants in relationship

[@unidentifiedguy8253]

Just know that the New York Times found that 1/3rd of women polled stated they have dated guys exclusively for a free meal, especially at expensive restaurants. Most stated to be seen by other affluent men, or just to try some new restaurant or entree they didn't want to budget for.

[@wb5036]

Wingmam is great! Love her no bullshit. I’m here to challenge my views for my own kids, so I can advise them. I’ve been married for decades. If I compare the woman I almost married vs the one I did, they’re almost on par on this list. The other woman failed in one key area: she didn’t have my back and her life was chaotic. The more I saw over, the bigger her mess. Now, my wife fails on the following. 1-waiting staff: if their attitude is bad, my wife will let them know without going berserk. She will he matter-of-fact 5-life of her own: my wife is an engineer and an introvert. She loves fiddling with things and reading books. 8-lifts my spirits when I’m down: my wife shows great care and makes sure I have peace and quiet. That works for me 16-she’s got your back: my wife won’t defend me if I don’t deserve it. She will raise it only if it’s relevant.

[@alanchristensen2139]

Just for kicks I scored my wife (who passed away back in April) while watching this. 25/25, I got a unicorn! We were BFFs for 36 years. This does seem like a good set of criteria for when i get back into dating.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@donkndave7811]

You missed the most important one... SHE HAS A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH HER MOTHER AND FATHER. Freud was right... it's always about one's mother.

[@efthimios]

This all day - my wife was always distant to her parents and now we are married shows she’s ignorant and doesn’t care about anyone but herself

[@victorc4869]

She did mention it

[@Yulia.chandrika]

Mh... I have seen woman treating man really badly and having a good relationship with their parents who just tell them that all they do is right. There is diferent cases. Some people lost on of their parents in childhood, or grew up with grandparents... That doesnt immediatly make a woman bad. Its more about what she does with it.

[@Arkane117]

Your theory only makes sense if all parents are good people. Reality is, not all parents are good people and make it impossible to have a good relationship with. But either way, you shouldn’t hate your parents.

[@donkndave7811]

@@Arkane117 you didnt read my response carefully. It said have a GOOD relationship with her mother and father. Clearly, not everyone does.

[@barberjeff67]

It took years, but I finally found someone with these qualities! She even wrote her own lyrics to a song and sang it to me for my birthday!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@barberjeff67]

@@YourWingmam you're welcome, but she decided she didn't want a relationship 2 months later. 2 weeks after that, friends sent me screenshots of her on a dating site looking for a relationship! I dodged a bullet! Lol.

[@hexusziggurat]

At 12:30 point 15. Compatible Beliefs/Values in terms of lifestyle: should also include spirituality (at least to some degree).

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@con2mms2000]

"When she understands that men and women are different". OMG, I want a woman like that.

[@shakirghazali2890]

Thats only happen when shes older lol

[@webbset]

@@shakirghazali2890 🤣🤣

[@Observer82AB]

That story begins "Once upon a time...."

[@ReneeCaraway]

A lot of men don’t understand this either.

[@Observer82AB]

@@ReneeCaraway Actually women like that exist at every age, although they are somewhat few in my experience.

[@elmarkofajita7648]

Wow. Most of these are true.....good freaking luck finding a woman with more than 3 of them.

[@fritzmuller8246]

This should be 101 course for all couples . What an experienced, fabulous woman . This lady is seriously a keeper wow . Thank you for the advice

[@YourWingmam]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@fritzmuller8246]

@@YourWingmam Roger that Madam . Thanks again

[@justmepraying]

I read that book before I got married and I love that book. Was married for 23 years the first time and stayed until our son was out of school then I left because he was with other women three all told. Now I am married to a great man who loves me for me and I love him for him it's out there you just have to take your time. 🙏❤

[@thepainphantom]

Unfortunately, I met some of these signs with my exes and from some bad dates. But c'est la vie, we all live and learn. If you do online dating, make sure to highlight your self values around these signs value (without demanding your potential matches ofc). You'll save tons of money, time, and have less unnecessary drama! Anna Wingmam always spot-on.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@davidthomspson9771]

This is the greatest summary of honest evaluated experiences with women.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@NG290584]

We 🦄 are out there 😌 As high valuable Women ,kind , respectful,mature ,funny, atractive, taking care of themselves , also physically don't want to go for less, that's why It's difficult to meet a compatible partner with decent equal qualities. Never play games ,be honest ,stay true yourself at all cost no matter what 🤞🏻💞

[@YourWingmam]

Yes! Please share this with other women as a guideline!! :))

[@NG290584]

@@YourWingmam Feels almost like a mission 😊🏆

[@JustinKruger336]

My ex was nice to everyone and when we got home she blamed me for thier rudeness or I had to hear about it alot and god forbid I so much as Accidentally look at another woman I sure never heard the end of that. And that's not even the worst things about her.

[@mryovas588]

that's why she is your ex …. flick her

[@JustinKruger336]

@@mryovas588 it was a complete and total nightmare it's been 2 years and I still can't forget her and she's an Irish witch a real knife wielding narsistic Satan worshipping Irish born daddies girl witch. Her current boyfriend gave her a black eye and she sent me a photo of it lmao the irony.

[@deeplyclosetedindividual]

Tell us more please

[@JustinKruger336]

@@deeplyclosetedindividual her bf is in prison and got a tattoo of her name on his throat and from a distance her name looks like the word Vagina

[@deeplyclosetedindividual]

@@JustinKruger336 lol

[@bobmorgan5636]

WOW....in hindsight, my prescious wife who recently passed with cancer (on Christmas) had so very many traits of your list here. Praying I can find another such lady.

[@YourWingmam]

🙏

[@ShaunHensley]

It’s weird how this content creator acknowledges how toxic most women are yet encourages men to take the biggest risk they can face.

[@paulstaples6590]

She's making money putting out this feel good crap,, bottom line, life is tuff , women are unrealistic.

[@qjtvaddict]

We can apply this to foreign women and leave

[@b.guy1424]

bokudensuduharagmail don’t you need radioactivity for a nuclear family?

[@danieljnolan2856]

Shaun Hensley Could not have put it better myself. Thank you Shaun!

[@Alisha0413]

I think this is for the guys who are choosing to take the risk, there are toxic women and men out there but if someone chooses to date they should at least be well equipped with the right information to weed out anyone toxic as best they can. Also, I would agree that the majority of dating advice from women is pretty bad but I think her stuff is pretty decent. Is there any points in this video your disagree with?

[@LionKimbro]

Wow. This is like -- a dream list!

[@carriechristodaro1627]

I agree with all of these and practice them. Bottom line when she loves herself she will love you.

[@GazSChad]

I love how the comments, have essentially turned this into a MGTOW channel 😂

[@xyzct]

I come here strictly for comments. They're (sadly) hilarious. It doesn't appear most men here are buying what this woman is selling. And the minority of thirsty bootlickers just add to comedic value.

[@Joel.Invictus]

So much material to go on.

[@radthadd]

facts!

[@radthadd]

@@jaysmith3448 haha

[@alp.9672]

Lol

[@im1who84u]

On board with all twenty-five. A woman that can do this.... will get so much more in return.

[@YourWingmam]

Exactly! *Please share so women can find this video. Some women sincerely don't understand why they're single!!*

[@im1who84u]

@@YourWingmam Some women?

[@tshaolin971]

@@YourWingmam Maybe so much understanding is natural for you but it's far from innate for the everyday confused or stubborn modern woman who think men are accessory and disposable, your are either well educated or highly bright, I think you are both. We rarely come accross with sound women like you, your IQ is high for sure !

[@taramullock1676]

Oh for sure. Seriously.... I have these traits. I’m generally a nice person. A giver. The guy I’m “ dating” right now has seen this in me. He “ likes” that I’m kind, and funny. He “ likes” my mushy heart, and the love I give him. So much so that he keeps his options open. No man has ever appreciated these qualities in me because I don’t have the perfect packaging. In my personal experience.... men take a woman with theses traits for granted while they look for someone younger, prettier and more of a challenge. They want the chase and get bored easily and never want to commit. Needless to say, even though I absolutely adore my guy, i will be walking away. I do all the initiating, all the chasing when he does the hot and cold thing, and I’m tired of being told that he’s “busy”. It’s not fun finding out your only an option.

[@lindazeisky3845]

I do like this video much more than the Red Flag video. You did explain your points here much better and expanded it well. I agree with most of it here. It would be nice to equal the message for both men too, so they can have a few pointers to what to do to encourage women to be their best selves too. So it doesn't seem one sided. 👍🏻💚.

[@richardpauly1635]

You should have a man if not you be a keeper and I hope you get a man

[@jessemcdonald9469]

We all end up with friends, family and relationships that are reflections of ourselves. Any person you despise, hate or run from is you unable to work through that inner difficulty within yourself.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@davem6210]

Spot on lady! Great info, great list!

[@Redrum008]

... but best advice I ever heard ... check how mare acts out before you get serious with the filly .

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@vegforce4518]

Thanks for your content! I'll show this one to my daughters when they're a bit older

[@vanpenguin22]

If it's ok I would like to throw a reading list suggestion out there: "Not understanding men" Megan Meeker

[@vanpenguin22]

Okay, you know what? Here's another. Luann Brezandine M.D. "The Female Brain " Broadway Books, copyright 2006.

[@merrionjackson6870]

I really like you. You keep it real. I am an older person, 3 failed long term relationships, your words has been an eye opener. Thank you.

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure ❤️

[@lylez00]

Trying to find a woman today who has 1/3 of these qualities would be like trying to find a dog that can fly a helicopter.

[@diamondunicorn2421]

lylez00 she’s out there she just doesn’t look like a bad bitch or magazine model.

[@ShaunHensley]

Diamond Unicorn god forbid men have standards.

[@jeffdormire4052]

now that is good and well put!

[@danieljnolan2856]

lylez00 LMAOOOO!!! 😂🤣😂🤣

[@Ryan-hk7ew]

Unfortunately most women now enjoy the process of tearing someone down rather than holding someone up.

[@alfresco4976]

Read through the comments; Easy to see who's been put through Hell already.

[@Sproutt]

al fresco oh how can you tell ;)

[@walterhicks5520]

The woman she is describing,...LOL,....does NOT exist.

[@paulstaples6590]

@@walterhicks5520 Thank you, my thoughts exactly.

[@TheBb6prelude]

al fresco everyone at least twice! Every man I mean!

[@oneoutoftheninety-nine.3314]

Lol! I know. Ive never seen men so hurt! But for the longest time I didn't even know men did have feelings because my dad was always mad and mean. I thought men were macho all the time. I looked at nice men as being weak. But now I know its vise versa.

[@janchovanec8624]

Great and informative content aside, The way you are able to be encouraging and flirtatious, yet still appearing like a lady amazes me (24:40). Hats off and "something" up.

[@RC-le2ri]

i've dated tons of women. i had to rack my brain to think of one with atleast three of these traits. my mind's still blank.

[@lesleykramer7207]

Start dating from a better pool, not the trash can.

[@Ciscokd15]

😂😂😂 same here

[@walterhicks5520]

@@lesleykramer7207 LMAO,...there is no 'better pool'. It's all a cess pool these days, if ever it wasn't.

[@oneoutoftheninety-nine.3314]

Take a break. Declutter your mind. So you can have a clearer perspective on what a healthy relationship is.

[@ebktyy7864]

Wytchfinde straight fax people be like stop dating the wrong people everyone is the wrong person nowadays

[@ajhill5094]

I just broke up with a woman I had been dating a while. The final straw: being rude to a server for no reason. The guy was awesome, and she was super rude. Dumped her after dinner.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@gauloiseguy]

Damn. This one is good. I had a great marriage locking in on most of these parts. You provided the piece of the puzzle why it eventually failed. Had to do with 'love language' and 'compromise'. Won't elaborate, but you gave me an insight. Thanks for that. We have kids and are still raising them together. Being past the hurt makes it easier to work as a team on parenting. She has a new relationship and is happy so I'm happy for her. Happy single but lately found I have the emotional space for a new relationship. (Pro tip, you have emotional space when you actually 'see' and feel the other person when you're interested. You're able to connect) Keep it up, your videos seem quite opinionated but informative and valuable nonetheless.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@ilbgbg]

As woman I will say , it is really difficult to be intimate with an inconsiderate partner. It’s not like I do it on purpose, but hiding with my hurt and having sex with a man so he doesn’t feel rejected is emotionally painful and plain wrong.

[@johnaverick7468]

As a man that didn't treat women great in my life at times, I CAN see your point.

[@ww6609]

Yeet him out of your life. He is a waste of everything

[@johnaverick7468]

@@mikehunt8563 I totally agree Mike. Woman don't get an automatic pass with me. What gave you that idea.

[@danpeterson8040]

@@ilbgbg Sounds like your man needs a few words of wisdom from you or a marriage counselor... Suppose you could try by asking him if he would be interested in more happiness in his life, and if so, give him a few words of appreciation first, then add the HOWEVER word and spell it out to him... Hopefully he will listen, if you speak in a voice, just slightly more than a whisper... Pulling for you Dear Heart....

[@djbolandTrucking]

Sign 27 she has toilet paper and she's willing to share with you when you run out

[@janedoe5829]

Dennis Boland😂😂😂

[@BillFromTheHill100]

I don't have a square to spare.

[@kynathomas4809]

@@BillFromTheHill100 Lol ! Seinfeld.

[@ministerstayfly9213]

🚽☺

[@captspiff6922]

You may be looking for "the Van Life" channel. :-)

[@jerrykammeyer5574]

The clever use of humor and indirect references to intimacy keep the viewer/listener intent on the video. In a similar fashion, the most effective minister, I know, injects humor about every 5 minutes into his sermons . The blessing at the end of videos adds a strong statement of caring for the audience. Hopefully, most others see the quality of preparation & skill @ work in Anna's videos.

[@YourWingmam]

Wow, thank you! 🙏🥰

[@thebigempty_5792]

"IF" she's a keeper? HAHA 1) she's been fantasizing about her wedding since her first Barbie doll, and wants the house/car to match. 2) Her wedding gown is an heirloom and will be saved for generations, while your tux. is RENTED. 3) her ring MUST (according to the stupid jewelry rip off stores theory) be equal to 3 months of your salary, which she will eventually pawn...while your ring has no diamonds and is a bare piece of metal or silicon rubber, 4) She'd really rather you not even be there for her special day since it's all about her, heck you and your family will just ruin it by being there and by taking some of the attention away from her. 5) She's been taught since day one that she's "special" and "deserves" to be happy....the moment she's not happy, watch out (think scenes from the exorcist)....then if all that survives one day you will wake up alone, because she doesn't know who she is anymore and has to go find herself, albeit not alone but with a high school sweetheart, that somehow knew her much better.....all because she "deserves". Dogs are indeed man's best friend, and women are womens best friend. Give them what they want so nobody gets hurt...or steer clear and have a dog!!

[@kissessaywhat]

Darn... I knew women were ghastly just from my experience of them being my “friends” but not to this extent... on behalf of my gender, I’m sorry. :(

[@Nowhere888]

Anna's seems to be looking to sociopathic personalities to avoid. Dr. Phil wrote a whole book called "Life Code" that helps you spot sociopaths. My sister is a sociopath and she always yells and insults waitresses which is to opposite of tip number one. My recommendation is to hire a private investigator and have a comprehensive background check and surveillance done like the wealthy have done for years.

[@RC-le2ri]

yeah you're on to something. wtf do wealthy people have their partners investigated? that seems to be the trend nowadays.

[@walterhicks5520]

BINGO! ALL 25 of those 'keeper signs' can be faked (and not only in short term settings) or misinterpreted. Don't get me wrong, dig this persons positivism and enthusiasm to help, so not knocking her, but this list is suspect in real time.

[@charlesvacanti9107]

Anna - Lady, you are awesome! You're intelligent, sweet, funny, not "potty" mouthed and real. I really like your videos. Keep it up, Lady!

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@KL00100]

If she doesn’t mind being around you and your quirks. Then it’s a go.

[@libanqorane7925]

if all women thought the way you do the world would've been a better place, and MGTOW would definitely never have come to existence. thanks again for all the great tips that I didn't know I needed to look for.

[@lilkidneys]

This is the best of your videos I’ve watched so far. Recently started dating again (i’m 60) and found your channel. Love the way you present, your cadence, and esp your humor. Your sense of humor and intelligence actually reminds me of the lady Im dating now and “vetting”. The questions at the end are “stop- me-in-my-tracks” profound. The one I had already started asking myself is whether I am “the one” for her? I.e., maybe thats the reason we found each other: God wants someone to truly love her, and I’m the best qualified man for that job.

[@tonyg9519]

There is a women’s with all these traits on this list!! She’s called my hand 🖐!!! Lmao 😂

[@ericking4072]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂"JUST THE TIP THO"!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@southwest3671]

No really, I married one who ticked all these boxes right, and yet, after 5 years, she still filed for divorce! Some women just change their mind like what they do with their hair style.

[@unidentifiedguy8253]

@@southwest3671 I know on Kevin Samuels' channel, he always quotes that 80% of divorces are filed by women. It deals with modern feminist media and Instagram culture that makes them feel they're missing out, but they end up as a 40-something with kids hopelessly stuck in the dating scene.