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[@ragingrn8342]

Single, Celibate, & Childfree = Safe, Sane, & Financially Solvent.

[@Kiomarys]

Exactly 💯🤌🏼

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

✨🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@Tigerlily_Fresh]

A little slice of Heaven! 🌤🌈💝

[@77kc_77]

Same away from them

[@christyspeed4995]

Love it here!!!

[@peachesandpoets]

Anyone who feels entitled to someone else's body is a red flag. Even as a joke I wouldn't be with anyone who joked about it.

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

Keep it at men. It’s these kind of statements yall make that minimize men’s actual behavior towards women.

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

And men don’t have periods or have too many instances where they are unable or unwilling to sleep with any human female.

[@HaleyJo1992]

Agreed. My boyfriend has never gotten angry if I've felt bad/not been in the mood etc. Not once in our almost 2 years

[@chayo4537]

​@@HaleyJo1992you wanna cookie?

[@sg5720]

Hubby and I don’t play. I tell him always, he is mine ALL of him and he tells me the same - but that is our dynamics for the last 21 amazing years of marriage. In MY opinion people just lost their way on how relationships work, cause when done right relationships can be so good. 🤷🏽‍♀️😁😊💕

[@blessingo7449]

Melanie Hamlet talks about how men weaponize their moods for the purpose of coercion.

[@frozenheart7133]

Which is why when they say "not all men" I roll my eyes.

[@s.tiaira9081]

Facts they really do

[@annmarieknapp]

Love Melanie and she's absolutely right!

[@amandasunshine2]

​@@frozenheart7133 it's really freeing when you switch that for #yesallmen were conditioned from birth to see women as lesser. 👍

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

Yes, it’s raep.

[@Smyrna37]

An undisciplined man is a weak man. Facts right there in that statement. Urges can be controlled. All about self control

[@SA-ey6nt]

And that's a dangerous man

[@User-4zqz164]

​@@SA-ey6ntExtremely Dangerous. u can't even trust that kind a man around children.

[@AnastasiaBeaverhousn]

Disciplined??? Why is it discipline for men but normal LIFE for women!!! 🤡🙄

[@princessmorgan5444]

Dangerous and weak willed that’s a big red flag

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

"men have needs" Ew 🤢 I have needs too. I need to be treated with love and respect.... Imagine that?!?

[@nothingbutme1150]

They don’t respect women. And they are incapable of love. They only want to be with a woman for their body and will only tolerate us in order to get it.

[@AdelTheForsaken]

Amen hallelujah all of that jazz! If I don't feel cherished I can't sleep with just anybody and I have an open relationship!!!! My husband and I would rather play with each other than other people because of the people are disturbingly disgusting they have no Honor Code or no rules to play by!!! My husband and I have been propositioned. it's pretty bad when we both say no!

[@princessmorgan5444]

Exactly and being aroused is no excuse to disregard your Partner’s needs, Women are not sex objects for Men.

[@Revelwoodie]

"Yeah, he may run around all night, he might get with this or that girl, but he comes home to ME." He comes home for what, exactly? Food? Laundry services? Someone to shout at and blow off a little steam? You're not his wife, you're his mother.

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

And this is the mentality of many women. He comes “home” to get the services you mentioned . These kind of women view other women as “ downgrades, always calling other women ugly- have suffered through various unnecessary traumas in their relationships to prove “ their loyalty” to the man and all. These kind of women are always snooping in the man’s phone , always confronting women and doing everything but holding the man involved accountable.

[@lloovveellyy742]

Where I'm from we call that the "bottom b*tch" and these females actually take pride in this crap.

[@EmyN]

Oop 🫢

[@romansuzana46]

Fact, women has been enabling these idiots for so long

[@Tyler-he4pf]

Yes! Thank you for pointing that out. Having a man like that is not a flex. It’s sad.

[@gem9535]

"Is your mouth on your period?" Vile.

[@michelleandreya7208]

And that would be the end of that! #boybye

[@Behappy-rf8gl]

I had a woman I confided in tell me this. … I said I’m on my cycle, I don’t feel like it…(talking about being with my male partner) she said: “your mouth 👄 ain’t bleeding, go make him happy” I had no words.

[@sneadaleighson]

@@gem9535 if my bf ever tried that with me, then his fucking mouth will be having a period 🤷.

[@hannahdavies2926]

honestly this world is full of demons like them

[@sandi4215]

The vulgarity 🤢

[@shauntikayvette]

The step dad that advised his daughter that men have needs is really suspicious to me. I would divorce a man for lead my daughter down a path of compromising herself in the name of justification for the bro hood’s bad behavior. He’s either really immature or a creep

[@juanita_rocksteady2761]

I feel like he told her that because she is stepdaughter and has the hots for her too. Men grape their blood daughters. I shudder to think about a stepdad telling his daughter, "Men have needs." Most fathers are trying to keep men away from their daughters. He's telling her to give in? Wow.

[@isbalella]

​@juanita_rocksteady2761 Since she's not his biological daughter, he doesn't value her enough to tell her to do what's actually good for her. Treating her like she's already damaged goods anyway and saying might as well try to do whatever it takes to keep a man.

@@isbalella Him giving her that advice, means he already sees her mother that way. As damaged goods.

[@coolchameleon21]

fr. what a creep! yuck

[@deliteful1991]

I wish she would’ve told her mom or a family relative.

[@alicethemadrabbit1842]

10:20 Dude's on POINT. They don't give women a choice because they mislead her about their true desires.... Don't get into a monogamous relationship if you cannot remain monogamous. Plain and simple.

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

They want a sure thing- “Ol reliable”. Some in house car basically. So if they go out on the town and don’t have any prospects, at least the chick who thinks he’s madly in love with her at home, will still be there. And he can force himself onto her by making her think that if she doesn’t move to satisfy him immediately… he will “ stray”.

[@unicorn73212]

I find it weird when they blame women that have nothing to do with there relationship they will say you must be lonely with three cats now or your dad must be paying your rent I really hate when guys misunderstand women like that there not getting laid and that's why there acting like that when men scream at you it's there mating call it's such a turn off. I no longer connect to men the way I used to and that's why I'm trying to get my own place because I can't live like that anymore we're someone feels entitled to me like I'm a piece of property.

[@3DSuccess]

The men like this often demand the most loyal girl all while completely not being able to the reciprocate. . Making loyalty really big on their list , leaving the impression that they embody it too. Go figure. We are responsible as women to vet and date to collect data only in the beginning stages, There are always clues.

[@Vee_Davis-wb9wd]

i say the same thing smh its that SIMPLE

[@ReachSkyla]

They do nothing to put you in the mood but get upset you're totally uninterested.

[@martibee8984]

Frequently it seems like they're trying to turn you off until they want some. Then they think you should be wet instantly just from the idea he wants you. I don't know if it's because they have no self awareness, or if it's a game/control thing for them.

[@Darkstalker1012]

@@martibee8984I think it’s a little bit of both honestly..🤦🏾‍♀️

[@martibee8984]

@@Darkstalker1012 definitely possible. I wouldn't put it past at least some of them.

[@Serenity-vf9eq]

These are the same guys who want to marry virgins, but complain when their girlfriends don't put out. Make it make sense 🤔

[@ariaryayy7314]

Or that woman doesn't act the p*star or pr*stitute that they paid for.

[@martibee8984]

I had a guy arguing with me about female body count. Pointing out the double standard didn't phase him, but he shut right up when I talked about how ridiculous it is that men expect women to not sleep with men while simultaneously insisting that women sleep with men.

[@katherinehertel1360]

Well it’s actually quite simple. This system creates two classes of women: the pure virginal women they “respect” and are acceptable to marry. Then there’s the contemptible sex having whores they can sleep with as much as they please and don’t have to respect. As soon as you realize that a lot of men don’t have to like or respect someone to want to fuck them, their misogyny makes sense. Now you might point out that the mathematics don’t make sense. If every guy is trying to sleep with as many women as possible but only marry a virgin, there’s not going to be enough virgins around for men to marry. That’s the point. It creates a haves and have nots society for men to complete with each other over women and status. In the game of patriarchy, women are not the opposing team. They’re the ball.

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

Men = Menace 😅

[@brytanniparrett]

bruh forreal

[@BWTM]

8:24 🥱 So tired of men confessing their truth and yet somehow it’s women’s fault 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@HaleyJo1992]

Right? They also try to say they're weak to their hormones, while we're shamed for ours. Pick one, dammit

[@ccannon1]

Exactly. They’re so set on women “not understanding them.” We understand, we’re not trying to change you, we’re not trying to argue, we’re just walking away.

[@TinkOutLoud]

Right!!! And it’s all just an excuse. It’s their ego, not their bodies. The dread head to the left of him seemed to be holding back some opinions. lol

[@user-br3ty9rt1m]

@@ccannon1Yep…now they’re mad about the falling birth rates. We are deciding we’re worth more than just being a sp3rm receptacle. They can get over it, or do better. It seems they’ve already made their choice, and we’ve made ours. 🤷‍♀️

[@LadyAstarionAncunin]

It's not women's fault but it becomes a woman's responsibility to learn and see the red flags. Trust and the body are given too easily and even after a man's transgressions. At what point do people learn?

[@RedDeadReverie]

A guy I was friends with for over a decade stopped talking to me when I turned him down for sex. Men can never be real friends with women without feeling entitled to their bodies.

[@Armelleee]

Fact.

[@valery5900]

100% they don't see women as platonic friends. They're always plotting and waiting. It doesn't matter how long you've known them. They will play the long game!

[@liahlove8297]

I agree 100%. Ive had mostly male friends most of my 20s and almost all of them wanted to date me. I'm down to two, I've tried everything to get rid of them and they just wouldn't go. I don't see them as partner material, but they're leaving me no choice but to block them eventually. So yes, I agree men can't be friends with women.

[@phtherapyxcast7996]

Or their labour, if you're not found to be attractive enough to these m*n, they will use you for food, homework, emotional dumping bags, connections and information about other women. Even in school, guy's will be friends with girls that either hot or of use to them. They are conditioned from birth to not see us as human therefore have no empathy for us.

[@SoPerfectYasmin]

⁠​⁠@@liahlove8297but why are you still holding on to them? And also why did you not notice a pattern? You’re not serious.

[@Diana734]

Lack of sexual control is unattractive.🙄😮‍💨

[@iamdisgusted]

Very

[@justacutie5201]

That and a men who rises his voice at you during an argument or hits the wall when upset.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Run! It's only a matter of time before your next

[@LiterallyAllNamesAreTaken]

you described my dad

[@justacutie5201]

​@@LiterallyAllNamesAreTaken sorry, to both you and your mom.😢

[@Suhaylyalloo]

Yeah cause soon that wall is gonna be you...

[@lolabigcups7121]

Got mine on my period in my honeymoon, hubbs got a towel and looked at me like, I'm cool, he read the look on my face, left the room, came back with pads, heating pad, ibuprofen and some lemon pepper wing with onion rings. We been locked in for almost 30 years now.

[@midnightsky4898]

Aww how sweet! Thanks for sharing your beautiful experience in a sea of negative ones! Wish you many more years of happiness ❤

[@preangelamarks8474]

Blessed

[@mango7966]

I was at an airbnb with my ex and I realized I had a UTI which was too painful to do anything. He got so angry and started yelling at me things like "why did you even come then", "you're selfish", "you always have an issue", his eyes were all crazy so I took all my things and left. He followed me in the streets telling me to come back & apologizing but I was so traumatized I just went home. Another time, he wanted to do it at his mom's place while she was in the next room, I told him I did not feel comfortable so he pushed me off him & told me to go to bed then. I was young back then so I didn't know better but these things should never fly

[@nightwishisthegreatestband6355]

I also couldn't sleep with someone because i had a UTI and it was too painful to do anything. He himself said that maybe we are not sexually compatible and said we should just be friends. He himself couldn't even get it up from what i heavily suspect was erectile dysfunction due to him being a heavy smoker (we are talking every day every couple of hours). He was on a vacation for a week and half. Well, for two days after the failed attempt this guy didn't even so much as text or call. When i called him out to his face he had all these excuses claiming he did check up on me usimg his last two texts he sent. Texts thst he sent in response to an argument we had after i started the conversation. Not to mention his eyes were shifting left and right while he was saying this. I told him that he will never see or hear from me again. I cut off all contact with him two days before he left. On his last day i didn't even bother stepping into town. Imagine his guy friend who basically ripped him off and kept him in a horrible rooom that he couldn't leave without losing half his money saw him every day. When i called him out on this he told me to leave his friend alone. Meanwhile i hadn't seen him in four days and got no contact.

[@CONGLOMERATE32]

I’m sorry for you both, these men are disgusting and constantly projecting onto women. I messed with this guy that I too suspect had erectile dysfunction. One day he asked me to go for a run with him; number one I’m not a runner and two it was still too cold for me to comfortably run, so I politely declined. He then came over that night and was planning to spend the night. When we tried several times and he couldn’t perform I admittedly was frustrated because this was the third night consecutively and he never was honest about his ED so I had no clue. Instead of just being honest and opening up to me he attempted to blame ME for his issue. First he claimed it was because I didn’t want to look at our reflection in the wall mirror by my bed. When he saw I wasn’t buying it he then claimed that when I refused to run with him it turned him off and that’s why. I told him to immediately gather his things and get the f out of MY PLACE because ofcourse lol. Now I match their energy. Also remember anything they don’t earn they will neglect and mistreat, never date someone that you have to compromise your standards to be with. Not only will they not be grateful, they will become delusional; believing that because you gave them a chance they are now in your league and perhaps could even do better lmao. For all the accusations they constantly lob at women for being delulu, it’s actually them- but then again it goes back to my earlier point of the constant projection of their insecurities.

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

Why in the FCK would you even stay with him after the outburst.?!?!?! I would have told my momma and daddy on the bxtch

[@Hopetobebetter]

I'm sorry for what happened and I'm glad you took accountability. I hope that accountability carries you through life.

[@prettyqueen573]

And then these males pretend to have no idea why women choose the bear. At this point, the options are to be single or a lesbian.

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

These are the men always whining about child support too. They look so stupid comparing themselves to animals, all this fake science about how their bodies need s3x, and how they have to be with multiple women- YET, Once a pregnancy happens , all of a sudden they’re victims. Suddenly some woman trapped them, or she’s a 304, and he never wanted her in the first place………….. SMH

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Sounds good to me. Get Safe and Stay safe ladies. Men don't care about you

[@MPPG663]

I thought people don't "choose" to be lesbians 🤔...

[@Karasus_drug_dealer]

I love the fact that I’m gay!! Also use wasp killer instead of pepper spray 😘

[@chayo4537]

Can yall shut up about that damn bear?! 😂

[@prihollis]

I had intense stabbing tummy cramps and needed to see a gastroenterologist. My appointment was in 10 days and I told my bf of 3 years that we would need to take a break as I was unwell. After 4 days he said he wanted backdoor action NOW (I’m personally not keen on it). When I said I don’t do that and especially now since I have current gastro issues he said he had a right to seek it with another since I was frigid. So I calmly told him to move out whilst he screamed that he was just joking and tried to gaslight me. Thank goodness he’s just a bad memory now.

[@notyourfrind9415]

I applaud you for not compromising your health. Should have told him to go joke with his mother POS.

[@thepragmatist]

Good for you for telling him to move out.

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

That’s some homosexual tendencies . As you clearly were aware of, he wasn’t joking. He meant it and wanted to see what you would do for him. That’s so sad but it’s a distant memory for you now.

[@lunarrobot9714]

He was totally testing to see if he could scare you out of your boundaries. Good thing you dropped him.

[@haahmayan9637]

He’s a bum who moves in with a woman and doesn’t have his own place 🤣 good riddance he’s gone!

[@KayNaude]

We’ve all heard “the sigh” if we turn them down. It’s so coercive.

[@liliblue]

All of that just for most of them to not even be good at having sex is crazy...

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

EXACTLY!

[@CONGLOMERATE32]

ALL FAX NO PRINTER!!!

[@chayo4537]

Yeah all of that just for you guys to fake orgasms either. Both are a joke. ThE dudes aint putting it down and you guys arent getting off but they are? Thats pathetic

[@Ashisnotashamed]

🤣🤣

[@BabalonNuit]

TRUE. If I could go back in time and turn down all of the men I had bad sex with in my past, 98% of them would have "gone without"!

[@Ashisnotashamed]

Wait. She went to her stepdad when she was 15 about her bf and he said men have needs?😵‍💫 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 stepdad needs to be investigated

[@Alyssaj1236]

I agree. Something weird is going on.

[@candyKane117i]

Why can't they just sleep with each other then and leave us alone. Problem solved.

[@shanaleasha6550]

Right, since they all share the same opinion

[@MiiPhiMuah]

They are, best believe it! I would imagine smelling burnt boo boo every now and again gets boring to them. So they circle back

[@ariaryayy7314]

They are. Why do you think they like an*l so much?

[@rosewatersweettea]

@@MiiPhiMuahBurnt boo boo?!??? 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ahmosel4901]

I SAID THE SAME. The only group of ppl not collectively burdened by periods are OTHER MEN. Sleep with your damn selves 🥴🙄🙄🙄

[@Rene-cn4jc]

3:40 What kind of Dad teaches their 15 y/o daughter to keep a male’s attention she must give in to his “needs.” I’ve experienced watching a male’s tantrum when I refused and I was forever turned off.

[@heneverforesakesme4038]

I believe that was her stepdad and something tells me, he was messing with her.

[@aprilmay1061]

​@@heneverforesakesme4038You can bet on that. 👿

[@aubrey44444]

My father told me that if I just had sex with my husband, my husband would stop hitting me

[@Tigerlily_Fresh]

​@@heneverforesakesme4038 Either he did or he wanted to.

[@iamdisgusted]

​@@Tigerlily_Fresh period. That statement was definitely a hint for her.

[@barefootedbougie]

So true. They get angry because they thought they're getting a free purse, maid and seggs worker to share bills with. I don't think so.

[@77kc_77]

💯

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

Your analysis here is so spot on. And when women use this kind of logic and simply call things what they are- we are then “bitter”. Yet if a man broke it down like this, it would be more acceptable. But that’s it- we are robots for them to use and barely share bills with, since many of these women foot the bill for these men to live. Quiet as it’s kept…

[@User-4zqz164]

Facts.And them married woman think they married because of love. Girl that man there to use u and get all that free sh*t😂

[@jessikajane4967]

The first woman has such horrid self-esteem, I feel for her😢 I need her to stop dating for a few years.

[@faithk.3207]

Yeahhh she was abused again and again 😢

[@youresinningtoo3996]

I know that uncomfortable laugh from anywhere... that's the trapped laugh.

[@suzannaflores1164]

Never apologize for the time of month that is pathetically insecure!!!! Our bodies are temples

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

She is like so many women who can not shake society’s norm for women, which is to be in a relationship. Society demonizes single women with and without children. This is why so many women shack up with men for years, marry out of necessity etc. We are essentially forced . It’s ok to take a break from men or even be without one for a while.

[@femmefatale71]

@@AmberColeman-gq1wnnot just society, religion,media, culture and male identified women!! It’s heavily baked in.

[@maryjanerx]

8:50 men are gross

[@ahmosel4901]

Disgusting. The Bear is undefeated. 🐻💜

[@TheRealCalypso]

Yea…… relationships are dead. Self love is 100000000x more fulfilling

[@CordeliaWagner1999]

🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

[@3DSuccess]

I agree self love is on 1000000000x, but I personally don’t believe relationships are dead.💜 I believe the world is resetting itself and sone of the indecencies are floating to the top as a space awareness for healing. It has to be revealed to heal.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

And life saving

[@shans1986]

Let:s hope so.

[@77kc_77]

Self love is where it's at

[@frogmistres]

And men complain we just lay there like a dead fish Cus we don't want to, how does it feel to force seggy time. There's a word for that but y'all ain't ready to face the music to what you're doing

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

This is exactly why I immediately turn away from or ignore men who claim they’ve had a female partner be dead in bed. That means they were forcing that woman to do something, she clearly wasn’t interested in. And most men , especially those that live with you or are married to you, know when you don’t want it- but feel like you should do it anyway. They know exactly what they are doing!!!! And STILL have the audacity to say, she was dead fish. More like he’s a r@pist.

[@Gumbier_Than]

Would get so butt hurt if I say "are you done yet?" 😂

[@sneadaleighson]

​@@Gumbier_ThanI definitely said that to my ex boyfriend idgaf

[@CT-bc6jh]

Facts.

[@NicholsKT]

most women ain't ready to face this truth either

[@bevhills181990]

I cant even get past the 1st phone call with men. As soon as I say that I don't believe in sex before marriage, they hang up and block me 🤣🤣🤣 yall make it further than I ever did 🤣.

[@olive6679]

I've come to feel this way too. Society insists on setting all women as interchangeable but when you assess yourself and your value, you understand what you offer shouldn't be given away. The love of a woman is invaluable and not everyone deserves it.

[@BlackRaven000]

And then they whine about women not saving themselves for marriage. They're exhausting.

[@ladybug3380]

The Sexual revolution was dumb imo

[@MPPG663]

​@@ladybug3380Exactly.

[@barbarabrown9269]

This!! All my youth I was hassled and harassed for sex when dating but everyone wants a virgin!! Oh, this is different!! They insist. Oh, I don’t want to marry, just this one time!! All you prudes are whores. Really? Funny, I won’t give in, so that makes me a whore??? Well, we are tramps if we give in, but teases and worse if we don’t. My favorite manipulations were “if you loved me you would -“ and “why will you let (name some guy) but not me???” Who told you that??? “Well, I just heard it. Someone said you did”. Where??? With who?? Names!! Don’t have any… My momma needs a operation and I am so scared she’ll die!! Boo hoo. Comfort me!! My last girlfriends all said I was a whiz in bed, never had better! Really? Then why aren’t you with her now? Why with me, who is holding out for marriage? That one really flummoxes them. Listen to them blubber. She was too young. Her parents didn’t approve. (Oh! And mine do approve of a 16 year old having sex with a older man???). Oh! I love the “I am not attracted to my old wife anymore. I need a change, a fresh experience”. A man has neeeeeeds!!!! 😁😜

[@maryjanerx]

WOMEN ALSO HAVE NEEDS

[@Gumbier_Than]

I can't even get any romantic jams or foreplay. Nope it's just "jump on it". 🙄

[@ariaryayy7314]

​@@Gumbier_Than because that's what happens in p*rn. Not knowing it's all fake.

[@advice4u409]

Ladies, when you are dating a man, use opportunities to test his temperament. How he responds to rejection, disappointment etc. For example: during a time when he is expecting sex, don’t give in and pay attention! How he deals with this rejection will reveal how he feels about you, your “power” as a woman, and his sense of entitlement. The mask will come off quickly!

[@ladybug3380]

Yup we have to test them early to see who they really are.

[@DeeperThanMyThoughts]

If you need to put them through all these tests only to find yourself consistently disappointed, which you will, then truthfully, what is in it for you?

[@candyKane117i]

@@DeeperThanMyThoughts This

[@electricpocky5493]

It's not worth risking yourself to figure out who's abusive or not. Just choose the bear.

[@TheArtPaige]

​@@DeeperThanMyThoughtsWhat's in it for me is that I know this man is trash 😂 my self worth isn't based off of being in a relationship with a man.

[@sammich-lp2qm]

That lady at 550 is telling it! And they will force you. Men do this. And then they act like nothing happened.

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

They will force you - and immediately run to flip the scenario to make it seem as if you as a woman, are dirty and a 304. It reminds me of how guys “in the hood” will all target one girl, usually a loner or a girl with developmental issues, call themselves “ running a train” on her, and then before their actions get out, they label her the neighborhood 304. And say she “ wanted it”. Multiple males on one woman is not even remotely close to being about the female pleasure- female pleasure is barely considered with just one male as it is. Some of these males are true animals.

[@iamdisgusted]

It's literally demonic. Like, this behavior is not normal, I don't care what anyone says.

[@chloelageaux769]

This is why women SHOULDN'T idolize relationships!! Yes, we may desire companionship but not at the expense of yourself! Sex will NOT keep a man because they can get that from anywhere! Prioritize yourself!!!

[@Isthisjoebiden]

If most women haven't learned now that most of them are abusers, they never will. I've been noticing they are this way since childhood

[@muadhnate]

Some people can't be monogamous. And as a result, they should avoid getting into any long term relationships. Stop lying to yourselves and others.

[@xitzbit926]

No, they're usually called psychopaths

[@jojopixie]

@@xitzbit926not you implying that if a person is not monogamous they are a psychopath 🙄 please become educated on the true symptoms of psychopathy and stop misusing the term. It creates unnecessary stigma for those with it and for those who don’t follow conventional dating patterns.

[@CordeliaWagner1999]

I think Monogramm is a cultural thing. Look at Religion of Peace, the men are allowed 4 Women and everybody is fine with that

[@EmyN]

@@CordeliaWagner1999Lol the men surely are

[@Emptytopfloor]

@@CordeliaWagner1999 those men are also 4 times more likely to die from cardiovascular diseases.

[@Trinitytruth7]

“Men have needs” is double talk. In their minds they are conveying that they want you to have sex with them but what they don’t tell you that phrase also means “I want to experience other women besides you.” That is their need.

[@ariaryayy7314]

So they just think that their 🍆 hits every spot for a woman? There are 10-12 ways for a woman to achieve an O. And many undiscovered ways. They think their 🍆 hits every spot. Nah!

[@user-br3ty9rt1m]

Bingooo. Because if your needs are THAT strong then you WOULD be able to get it up 3 times in a row for your partner. The fact that he can’t do that with his partner but he could with 3 random women off the street back to back shows that it’s all about ego, not “needs.”

[@BabalonNuit]

@@user-br3ty9rt1m It's called "the Coolidge effect". Look it up.

[@kaysera6566]

I had pneumonia once....anyone who's had pneumonia knows that when you're lying down, it feels like you're drowning due to the fluid in your lungs....guess who was groping and grinding on me... It's amazing how you keep attracting the same demon, the lady in the tan sleeveless shirt, kept attracting men that reinforced the "men have need" BS.... ladies please take time for your soul to heal after these relationships...strongholds build from these bad relationships

[@plinkysmama8309]

The joy I felt the first time I was able to be sick and lay in the bed all day without being harassed for sects. I didn’t realize how much of a burden I was carrying. I felt like I couldn’t even get sick because he would STILL bother me. It’s not about the action- it’s about power and ownership.

[@janeelliot2280]

Their "needs" can be fulfilled by their hand. 🙄 And leave us alone, thanks.

[@77kc_77]

Exactly, idk why they can't use their hands

[@karlat7880]

Right!

[@yujuy.1329]

STOP DATING THEM.

[@77kc_77]

Facts

[@Isthisjoebiden]

They won't. The average woman is truly a male worshipper. I was always the single friend and I was always the happiest

[@77kc_77]

@@Isthisjoebiden pick mes are - women like me are living our best lives solo

[@Isthisjoebiden]

@@77kc_77 Agreed. I'm not saying there aren't happy couples out there. But you'll almost always be more miserable with a man than without one

[@77kc_77]

@@Isthisjoebiden yes I've been happy solo

[@DB-vt1kk]

This why they are turning to each other when they get frustrated. A lot of them just looking for any mouth or hole 🕳️ 😅

[@77kc_77]

😅 yep

[@muadhnate]

Cool. Just stop being homophobic.

[@DB-vt1kk]

@@muadhnate It’s not being homophobic. Men are wired differently and sometimes all they need is the stimulation to satisfy that need. Be who you are for your pride I’m not judging 😅

[@UnrealDreamer3598]

For men, any hole is the goal. Any. Hole.

[@DrKrysRacquel]

@@muadhnateIn what way? She’s explaining that these men claim to be straight but they are so undisciplined that they go searching for people who will sleep with them even if it is a man. Hmm??

[@kaleidojess]

Man that women at 5:20 is right, even the apparent "good guys" are like that. Women aren't even allowed to feel tired without being shamed, that's my experience. Single ! Single ! Peace of mind.

[@77kc_77]

Agreed I've had men get upset because I wouldn't have smexx with them. I'm not entitled to have smexx with them - this is my body. It's the entitlement for me and control. Just because I go out on a date with you doesn't mean we're having smexx .

[@CordeliaWagner1999]

You go on dates? For what?

[@77kc_77]

@@CordeliaWagner1999 I don't go on dates with men , but if I were dating this expectation of smexx wouldn't be there

[@77kc_77]

@@CordeliaWagner1999 I was making a point in my comment

[@biblethumper8088]

@@77kc_77 🤔 YOU: Just because I go out on a date..... YOUR RESPONSE: I don't go on dates.... 🤨

[@77kc_77]

​@@biblethumper8088 I don't date men - I don't go out on dates - figure of speech , a date isn't equivalent to smexx stop taking everything for face value - y'all run with comments and need to stop 🛑 , but the 206 people understood that message you and the other person couldn't figure it out 😂 y'all a little slow 🦥🦥🦥 " I was speaking on behalf of women aren't entitled to give men smexx before or after a date that's something she initiates . '

[@martibee8984]

Before my body decided to destroy itself I was a massive nympho. I was still cheated on by three of my exes. Their "manly needs" can be met to the point of exhaustion, and they'll still cheat. The point of cheating is rarely because their needs aren't being met. If they're the type to cheat they'll do it no matter what you do for them.

[@yally5949]

They all cheat

[@karlatyson12]

I will never forget being broke up with, because I refused to do 3 somes , he was going around telling mutual friends I checked all the boxes for him but I was boring sexually, he now has two kids by two different women , and is currently in the slammer for a sexually based crime , I dodged a bullet , I never attempted to get back with him , and I never went against my morals and values to appeal him

[@rosewatersweettea]

I also got dumped by two different men for not wanting to participate in threesomes, BOTH are now single dads…

[@princesskrazy13]

I feel like being sexually frustrated is entirely valid, but that;s an internal thing. Taking the frustration out on your partner is the issue. Like you can express your frustration without being explosively angry

[@princesskrazy13]

closer to the end of the video now, every time i hear "men have more testosterone" my eyes see my brain b/c wow, the excuse is exhausting

[@FredericCardinaux]

My farts are better then Priscilla's farts.

[@SA-ey6nt]

​@@princesskrazy13Ask should we treat them as animals if they act as such?

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

They’re only frustrated because no matter what they are guaranteed a release. Women are not. Women are frustrated for far more valid reasons to me… because even if we do it, the entire acts is over once the man gets his- not when she gets hers. If she ever does

[@cherylscott8576]

​@@AmberColeman-gq1wnThat's why I get my satisfaction first and then my man gets his and he knows it and we both have a good time and laughs. Guess what: we are both 67 yrs old. Go figure😂

[@lucky0197]

Why is she even apologizing for getting her period? He’s not entitled to her body. Please ladies… don’t do this to yourselves. Self respect is important .

[@3DSuccess]

And that's when you know they have underlying issues with control. duscipline, and their flesh. Unhealed trauma and often trying to live out fantasies from "Corn"...

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

Your last line did it for me, regarding the c0rn…. They watch that mess and internalize it and end up wanting to do all those things to women they have in their lives. There’s even studies around and videos on KZbin about how these men end up realizing their attracted to other men & transgendered women via watching that stuff..

[@candyKane117i]

@@AmberColeman-gq1wn can you recommend any videos on that?

[@snwngl2261]

My ex and I were planning to do it for the first time. Then I was feeling a bit scared as D-day came closer. I told him that I want to postpone the date. He said it was OK blah blah blah but he was clearly pissed off. I should've seen that red flag there and then but I was so inexperienced 😂

[@gabri888]

And yet they are afraid of a woman with "high body count"... 🤣🤣🤣

[@MidnightOracle8]

Exactly, Zero Logic 😂

[@olive6679]

Bm are so comfortable presenting like this while costing the economy billions of dollars. If ws is so bad and women are so stressful, how doesn't that affect your libido? Depression presents for most humans as inertia and disengagement. The only thing that causes depression for them is lack of female attention not lack of resources (food, housing, etc.)

[@CONGLOMERATE32]

Boop there it is.

[@chayo4537]

You talk shit about bm but handle the rest of these NON BLACKS with a silver glove like Cinderella as if they give a damn either.

[@Ashisnotashamed]

👏🏽

[@kimleemoon]

You forgot one resource: money

[@DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables]

Imagine getting so angry at someone else for a normal bodily function that you can't control... The entitlement over a whole nother person's body is wild...

[@SynamonSugar]

The fact that so many of us have experienced this… wow. I’d never even thought about it until now but I’ve had so much sex that wasn’t on my terms and I think there’s a particular trauma associated with that and probably makes it easier for the mass celibacy that’s happening.

[@hazelnut_toffee]

Girl! It’s indescribably traumatic. This mass act of singleness is a necessary outcry.

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

The worst is having gone through this with males who didn’t care about you, or pretended to initially- and then disappear immediately afterwards. It stings so much when you truly had no intentions of doing it and they just- coerce you into it, mind games, using your insecurities against you, etc.

[@SynamonSugar]

@@AmberColeman-gq1wn girl yes 👏🏽 my kids’ dad would initiate sex but refuse intercourse unless he received oral, he’d say “You don’t need to be wet if you just make me wet first.” I was 15 and he was 22 when it all started and my sex life was downhill after that. I don’t think any past partners ever really liked me either but I’m only just now realizing it as I reflect on things. I’m so here for these convos that are happening now because we spent so much time thinking it was just us and it’s not and these mfs need to learn that it’s not okay anymore. Never was okay but it’s straight up unacceptable now 💯

[@Vessel_of_honour]

Mass singleness is for real

[@schmetterlingxox3096]

My husband is like this. He yells at me when I don't want to have sex. He used to get it whenever he wanted because I didn't like confrontation, and I was afraid of his outbursts. So, I would lie there and have very painful and unfulfilling sex. Now, I've put my foot down. I've been refusing him sex for three months, and last night, he said, "If you don’t do your homework, someone else will," implying that he’ll cheat if I don't give him sex. This was after he screamed in my face again when I said no to sex.

[@atobiteadedunjoye1207]

Please take care of yourself and leave him❤

[@liabw05]

Why are you still married to a man like that? You deserve much better

[@TheLovelyTraveler]

I hope you're able to escape him. I'm sorry that you're dealing with this sexual abuse from your husband. You are worthy of respect, care and kindness- never let him convince you otherwise.

[@aprilmay1061]

I would have asked him if he wanted me to help him find someone and he would be history. 🤡

[@DrKrysRacquel]

Oh heck no!!! So what are you going to do about this? His next step is to physically force you

[@dumitruedelean59]

Another reason for me to stay single. Thank you! 🎉

[@77kc_77]

Same I don't want anything to do with them

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

7:01 THAT is the biggest turn off!!! The huffing and puffing poutrage tantrum acting like a toddler 🙄😒😕

[@wradraws]

The guy at 10:20 is right. Our society has created an environment of promiscuity instead of self pleasure or content celibacy. Unfortunately society created a way for heightened diseases, heightened cheating, heightened s3xual trauma, etc, etc. It's ok to want your needs met, but you have to keep yourself safe in the process. ❤

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

And all of this is only to benefit men. Men are the ones allowed to “ sleep around” and women are blamed for men’s choices. Everything is about their needs and making sure they don’t “ stray”.

[@ultimateenigma6038]

Can we discuss erectile dysfunction after 50? Women are expected to go without bc he can't get it up!!

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

And it hits even earlier for many men today

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

But when it’s flipped, and the woman can’t do it- we are supposed to accept men still sleeping around, simply because it’s such a “need” for them.

[@Bubileaf]

Hahaha THIS

[@jbell7105]

It’s alot of young men with ED it’s kinda crazy! I’ve come across a few and then my mom had a heart to heart with me about how her hubby hasn’t been able to get it up in forever but always wanna “do something” lol her words lol they are both 66! I know cringe but that’s our relationship

[@mettamorph4523]

It amazes me that ED means no pleasure for the woman in men's minds. Your tongue ain't broken! Your hands and fingers ain't broken! Men think that way because seggs has always been just about his need to put it in a hole. ED could be the best thing that happened for a woman.

[@reallyeasy100]

My brother showed this disgusted reaction once when I stained my bedsheets. It wasn't even HIS bedsheets, but mine. I never let him forget it. And every time he asked me to introduce him to my friends, I'd remind him that he failed Basic Boyfriend, and I'd never inflict that on my friends.

[@WeMustAllStandAsOne]

I'm so sorry Priscilla. That "aunt" is trash, if i knew her personally she would be catching these hands!

[@tachi4002]

No... because I had a date a week ago show up with a backpack and I thought it was weird but didnt say anything at the time cause I see men with backpacks all the time in the city. At the end of the date I noticed he was in no rush to leave or catch his train and it was getting late, I asked him straight up, " what time is your train leaving?" he said, " I'll check in the morning" I had to let him know he was not staying over my place and that I found it weird that he would just assume that. He got very upset, told the bartender he's only paying for his stuff, said that this was complete bullshit and left super upset. The bartender and I were at a complete loss of words. Thank god he never entered my home or knows where I live.

[@saramatthews7159]

Oh hell no these males out here are psychos!

[@annashamblen1227]

I take it that it was your first experience with a 'hobosexual'?

[@Isthisjoebiden]

Another one who never learns. WHY ARE YOU STILL TRYING

[@mpGreen03]

@@Isthisjoebiden Hopeless romantic? I struggle too, would love the companionship but it seems that normal men are very few...

[@cd6741]

Why are you having dates at your house? This is how the hobos move in.

[@VendieSolde]

I'm so sorry Priscilla. You didn't deserve that. May you be blessed more than you can imagine ❤️

[@MonieMoneSays]

If anyone pressures you sexually they don’t like or love you. It’s completely carnal to them. It’s that gross and simple.

[@MrBaskins2010]

those barbershop scientists dress like high school students

[@sometimesising1016]

😂😂😂

[@madlie2452]

And they have no idea how hormones work. More testosterone does not = higher sex drive alone. There are many other factors and hormones that play a role in that. Higher estrogen levels have also been associated with higher sex drives too. But they can’t conceptualize that.

[@Ashisnotashamed]

I’m sure they are mentally stuck there too..

[@zinhlekheswa5237]

What kind of life is this? Podcast lives 😢

[@Unapologetically_Savage]

And they read at or below an 8th grade level. Who is listening to these clowns 🤡

[@esmeralda6111]

I am sceptical about testosteron level affects libido in women. Maybe in men but in women? With age our libido usually grows while testosteron level declines. Once I used testosteron pellet and even regular injections but it didn’t affect my libido at all. Men simply lack of selfcontrol and are looking for excuse.

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

That’s it. They use fake science and non verified points about biology to excuse them sleeping around. And this is how they are able to shame women regarding s3x. It’s almost as if most men believe that women don’t like s3x and should only have it based on relationship status and if a man deems it as ok.

[@madlie2452]

Yeah he’s wrong and has a very poor understanding of how hormones work.

[@user-ct6hr5nu1q]

Yeah, I think women generally don't want to sleep around as much for way more reasons than testosterone. You'd have to imagine a world where men were told from a young age that they lose value for pleasuring too many women. Also a world in which having casual sex would primarily consist of a man going to a woman's house to make her have an orgasm then leave without finishing himself. And the women in this world are more dangerous than the men and make it known they don't like or respect men who sleep around. Plus if anyone found out the man was going around doing this it could seriously affect his reputation and cause him to feel a deep sense of shame, while nobody would care that the woman did it too. If he did end up impregnating her then he'd feel 100% responsible for the baby while knowing the mother will probably not do anything and then leave him on his own since he was just a fling and men "are better" at caring for babies anyway. In a marriage a man would have to make his wife finish at least a few times a week while faking an orgasm himself to keep her feeling beautiful.

[@jbell7105]

Yeah teens and 20’s men are at the height of or should I say at their sexual peak for women it’s 30’s 40’s

[@esmeralda6111]

@@jbell7105 Exactly, if it comes to testosterone level. And than these guys say: no, it is money, resurser what´s important for women so we, the old uncles without testosterone are best :)

[@Rice10120]

Tell them the truth. Tell them that you don't enjoy it with them, that you're not satisfied. Tell them that you won't do it unless they make it enjoyable.

[@msevolution2317]

Dealt with this bs for nearly 20 years I got into the relationship at 19. It was mentally and emotionally torturous. The “I have needs” line was often used at one point he said I should be tending to his needs daily - I just laughed at the time. I had absolutely no idea about coercion- I’m glad these conversations are happening in the open.

[@jazzyj6640]

My ex grew a fit the first time I told him no, it was funny and scary at the same time. 😟 Edit: that’s low key r a p e once they start coercing you.

[@MPPG663]

There is no such thing as "low key grape". Let's not rob this conversation of it's seriousness by employing casual language. There is coercion. There is grape. Unless you are a minor, being coerced into seggs is not grape. It's unfair. Giving in is unfortunate, but it is not grape.

[@ahmosel4901]

Don't listen to the first commentor. Seggual coercion is a THING. It happens inside of adult relationships often, coercion isn't just something directed at kids. People need to do their research before dismissing reality.

[@soul-deeplevel-up6179]

Coercion is s3xual ass*ult. Underlying coercion is a threat of worse to come if you don’t comply. Making it sexual assault or rap3. Consent must be ongoing, enthusiastic, and informed. That’s why stealthing is also assault. The consent was not informed (deception). Without those prerequisites, a line has been crossed.

[@soul-deeplevel-up6179]

@@ahmosel4901 absolutely! Keep spreading the word!

[@Ilikefrogs..]

@@MPPG663 Coercion is rape. Several countries have laws that support this.

[@catbugg9957]

Like the men who want to jump on their partner right after giving birth. Won’t even give her a chance to heal before knocking her up again

[@77kc_77]

Yes, the body needs 6-8 weeks to heal men don't care

[@mary6134]

I had one guy tell me I was not a real woman because I said no I was not in the mood. That as his girlfriend it was my duty to give it to him. I said no and broke up with him that day. My body is my choice.

[@iamdisgusted]

A+ for you🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Isthisjoebiden]

Finally a smart one who leaves the first time

[@coolchameleon21]

if a man demonstrates ANY entitlement or anger/aggression LEAVE. don’t give him the benefit of the doubt. don’t give him a chance. block and move on

[@burgundyspirit8632]

Perfect timing! I just broke up with my abusive ex bc he expected us to have sex every day and expected “at least blow jobs” when I had my period. He didn’t yell or throw hissy fits. But he was super manipulative and would calmly tell me how his needs weren’t being met whenever there was a day we didn’t have sex. He also said he craves intimacy not realizing that intimacy isn’t just having sex. But that’s what it is in his mind. Towards the end of our relationship I made an effort to “meet his needs” more and there was one day we didn’t have sex. The next day he was extremely moody and started an argument with me. He chalked it up to us “not having sex yesterday.” When I told him that we had sex every day for the past month though, he said “to be honest I wasn’t really thinking about it.” That’s when I realized that he felt entitled to my body. One day without sex? Well now he’s not getting any!

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

And men know that women have periods- often times depending on the woman’s mood, she may enjoy the act during said period. It’s not uncommon. It’s usually the only time many women are even “ in the mood”. But many men “cheat”- when a woman is pregnant, on vacation, at work or on her period… etc

[@haahmayan9637]

Having sex on your period is nasty 🤮 that’s crazy

[@user.194]

​@@haahmayan9637Your opinion. My man and I enjoy it. Are you even an adult if you can't handle bodily fluids? 😂

[@beeautifuldreamer2211]

The biggest lie women were told us that a man is capable of being faithful to one woman for an extended period of time. Also that monogamous relationships are beneficial to us. The most stress in life I've ever had was in a monogamous relationship. 4B though. 💜🦋

[@PaperMario64]

I’m so sorry to hear you were abused so young and that your were blamed. I have also experienced it and I never told because I KNEW I would be blamed, even though I was fully clothed, and visiting a girl I was friends with. There was nothing to point to and blame me but I knew they would find a way. I fully despise these men and would not talk to any of them.

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

Blessings to you as well. ❤️❤️

[@krh6239]

These are the same men that get mad at women with "high body counts".

[@conniemcmillian7010]

4B Movement ladies 🚺

[@triceworkman2948]

That lady in the beige tank top is all torn up.🥺 I just want to hug her.😭

[@saramatthews7159]

I knew I never wanted to take on the role of a wife after my last relationship of nearly two years. He would huff and puff when I was on my cycle and the smexx got monotonous/boring REALLY fast. I couldn't imagine being a wife and having to take on the obligatory duties to fulfill my husband's "needs." Women have been hoodwinked really bad.

[@ariaryayy7314]

Men have needs. So do I. If you're going to get yours met then so am I and I will make sure they get met.

[@Kaohukreations]

Protect yourselves ladies at all times, they are straight mad and only getting angrier we chose ourselves be careful

[@skylie4391]

this is so important to talk about

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

It surely is. And as expected - men are absent from the comment section. They want to ignore this topic at all costs - but speak on child support and single mothers loudly.

[@jasberryrox]

Please never allow yourself to feel like the assault that happened to you as a child was in any way your fault. You were not graped because you were "playing with boys"; you were graped because someone was a grapist, and they preyed on an innocent child. It is not your fault, and you did nothing wrong.

[@loriparks8657]

Truth Proven Fact 💯 % Point, Run ! Single females and Married females don't go through this BS !!

[@momentinhistory333]

Married women DEFINITELY still go through this. Marriage does not make men better.

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

Married women lead the pack in coerced s3x. That’s why so many of yall think doing all these s3x acts will make your husband “ stay”, when he will do exactly what he does with you with other women. That’s honestly why me personally, I’ve never understood how women can believe a man saying that he loves them but only screws the “ other woman”. Like the act is the same, her views women as a means to an end- both of yall are just objects to him. But one woman usually is more of a fool & that’s the attachment the man will have to her.

[@EspritsFantomes]

Naaah i am on my period. I am suffering so why would they be mad? I should be mad!!

[@xHarajukuBarbiex]

Its supply. We are a constant supplier in a relationship. And they dont have good happy seggs with us. They give us their rage and anger. Its an energy transfer and i really feel like it takes from us. Our spirit. I wont give myself to anyone else i dont want to. I wont let them pressure me.

[@kenyabrunson4985]

I had an ex boyfriend back in the 90s who said, that it would be hard to stay faithful if we got married, and if I got sick. Because, "men have needs". I said, " So you're saying, if you got sick, then I could go cheat on you, because women have needs too." Of course, he didn't like that, but I told him, "if you aren't going to honor your marriage vows -- in sickness and in health; AND forsaking all others -- then there is no reason for you to get married, since you can't be trusted to keep your word." Now, we broke up. Not just for that, but many other red flags besides. Hadn't thought about him until 2020, when I had chemo and radiation for cancer. And one of the nurses asked if I was married; and said no, I've never been married. And she said. "Thank god; so many women in this place are dealing with husbands cheating on them while they're undergoing treatment." And that's when I realized that I had dodged not just a bullet on that ex; but I'd dodged a freaking nuke -- because he would have been out cheating while I was sick.

[@ElleJae-b9q]

I’m so glad this is being discussed

[@Yassss-rj9zf]

Another thing they do is start an argument and then wanna do it. Who wants to do it with someone that was just belittled in an argument? It’s like they like you to do make you do things under diress. Sick behavior!!

[@iamdisgusted]

I've wondered all my life why people argue and then immediately have seggs. It always seemed weird and sinister.

[@Yassss-rj9zf]

@@iamdisgusted IKR 😞

[@brownskyndiva]

Whew I love this type of content. It keeps me away from these creeps 🎉

[@77kc_77]

It keep me away from men

[@copperredd]

Men create all the problems thet complain about....thats why u don't listen to them. Screw what they want

[@Melimelishere]

OmG, the woman with the shaved head is so beautiful! Priscilla, I am very sorry about what you went through. It was never your fault.

[@saramatthews7159]

Yes she is and so are you!

[@Melimelishere]

@@saramatthews7159 Thank you!

[@kittensmitten3287]

Yep. I had an "ex" like this. Had long conversations so he can understand why I didn't want to have sex ALL the time. His logic was because he's in a bad mood, I should be giving him sex cuz he needs it. This nga was equating being there for a person for emotional support with being there for sexual support. Nga, get tf outta my face.

[@kat420365]

told a guy i was seeing abt how upset and depressed i was abt a situation going on in my life. His way of supporting me was coming ovr and getting upset i didn’t want sex even though i said BEFORE his arrival, i was in the mood for nothing more than food, a movie and cuddle time. They have no empathy

[@kittensmitten3287]

@@kat420365 none whatsoever. I can't stand them bruh

[@ayamempress1579]

10:17 finally a man that speaks some sense. I never knew it was possible

[@michelle-zd2nc]

at 8:10 The way he says "think about that , 🤔right" as if he's being highly intelligent or philosophical. Probably the only thing he's thought about all day.

[@TimelessErsy]

😂😂😂😂 am cackling. Thank you ❤❤❤

[@annmarieknapp]

So glad to be 4B!!! Seriously, what a load of garbage women experience. Of course, I can think of multiple times being blamed or accused of something wrong because I wasn't able to "perform" to their standards or on their time table. And the period issue is so real. Hearing "men have their needs" is like the grand excuse that it's nothing personal, but one woman, just isn't enough. Translation to each woman in a relationship:YOU aren't enough. Hell those dudes in middle of video said as much. BTW, the idea that men can easily "rise to the occasion" with multiple women, but NOT to one partner is called the Coolidge Effect and unfortunately that is scientifically valid. Seriously, it's a thing. But,that isn't an excuse!!!. Just means a man needs to try harder for his partner if he actually loves her. But, they rarely want to do that. No, they want to eat their cake and have it too. But, women are supposed to do it all at any time, anywhere, no matter how they are feeling because these guys don't recognize we are human,nor do they care. It's always about them. No wonder, women and young girls have poorer self-esteem. We are conditioned our whole lives that we aren't enough!! Years of therapy, I could have saved watching this video!! And then when a young woman morphs into a "Pick me", the guys lose interest. Wow!! Really, the message should be, for women to opt out of whole thing. Because there is always a con, some form of manipulation, coercion, gaslighting,or some other form of control. I know there are exceptions and good guys out there and all that. That's clear. But, that doesn't negate the rule, it just highlights it like a spotlight!!! Have been done for two years, but if I questioned myself or my thoughts,this was a massive glaring reminder. Yep,good luck to women in relationships dealing with this. I'm sorry you are going through that. And to those who are opting out, I feel you. Four B in the house!!

[@cd1452]

The lady in the halter is being soo honest. It's true...i am divorced and no longer date. I love not having to give someone my body all the time. I picked up a second job. I found peace.

[@mcdonalds-sprite]

He really threw a fit about her being on her period as if she has any control over it. I'm so sick of manbabies and their tantrums and entitlement when it comes to women's bodies. She owes him NOTHING. Sleep around if you feel like you're not "built to love" but stay out of relationships with women, like it's really not hard🙄

[@britrah]

DO NOT GIVE IN. NO IS NO. RUN. I've learned the hard way. Stay safe. Love you all.

[@m_b_s_l]

Priscilla, I am sorry and so angry about what happened to you when you were five! It’s vile, abhorrent inexcusable behavior from the adults around you. Non of that was your fault. You are such an amazing survivor who proves wrong and stands up to the evil of this world. You made your scars into your strength and I am so proud of you and grateful for finding your light in this dark world❤️❤️❤️

[@PossibleBat]

Sex is not a need. Food, love, water and shelter are. But sex? Sex isn’t a need. If animals can live without it, so can men. If women can live without it so can men. Sex isn’t a need, something that requires two willing partners cannot be a need. But a want.

[@77kc_77]

Exactly smexx isn't a need it a want - I don't desire to have smexx