You're Fat Because You Have No Social Life.

[@whitney-r5p]

GIRL YOU DONE CALLED ME OUT 😭 I’ve been slipping the past couple of days but I’m getting back on my fasting to look snatched for the new year 🫡

[@eanaj7903]

Me too! I wish you the best with your journey.

[@chasitierowlett6255]

Same

[@notjustaprettyface]

Same sis!

[@princesspeach-v3g]

Felt. I was literally about to eat a grilled cheese until I saw this and just grabbed an avocado 😂❤

[@whitney-r5p]

@@eanaj7903same to you love ❤️❤️

[@ebonys9807]

“ you’re fat because you have no social life”. That is too true. If you have no events to go to or friends who are baddies or go on dates … you’re out of touch!

[@ExoticalsUnited]

yup! it happened to me! (the only time i became thick was during covid. )

[@HulaMask]

She really has a gift for helping us women see where we’re falling short. Because I would’ve never even thought to connect those two ideas. I think that’s why her advice sticks so much easier. It’s rooted in a reality that I can understand.

[@mariaddubkg531]

Makes sense. Kind of reminds me when my best friends dad told us we got fat because we didn’t go out and party anymore😂. Well I still don’t go out clubbing anymore but I did manage to get back slim and trim and love it!

[@AFocusedLiving]

I believe Karmalita Fox lowkey watches your channel when she mentioned Beluga Whales😅

[@ExoticalsUnited]

😂 yay!

[@legslikewhoa]

Love Karmalita, and Leo because he keeps it real too.

[@HulaMask]

@@legslikewhoa I just discovered Leo. I also love Liv Schmidt Whitney Holcomb . I need Toughlove. And these ladies keep me in check.

[@ExoticalWorld]

I agree and noticed she used the same reference lol..She definitely watches.

[@lareineii]

I love her too lol she slays

[@KevonnieElaine]

I’m so glad you mentioned this. I told a friend awhile back that because she wfh and doesn’t go out, it’s contributing to her weight, anxiety, and depression. I told her to literally get out more!

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Yup! My worst mental state always comes from isolating myself

[@ExoticalT369]

“You can stay mad and I will stay skinny and beautiful.” ♥️👏…that part!

[@legslikewhoa]

You’re right girl. I get so bored I just alternate between eating and scrolling. I really need some new clothes, hobbies, and an acquaintance.

[@Ac_chillin]

Same here 🥲

[@ExoticalsUnited]

@@legslikewhoa I used to do the same thing!

[@user-pc5rf2xn1l]

Maybe find a fitness place that's a fun place to work out and find a fitness buddy

[@N.-hg3ji]

Leaving the house is an event. Always look great.

[@UnpopularOpinionX]

As a fluffy women losing weight she's correct. I'm an introvert and wfh so yeah. She's spot on

[@HulaMask]

Join a writing class. Or Toastmasters international it’s a public speaking group. You can also volunteer for organizations and do work in the office if you’re an introvert.

[@sagba947]

I’m slim and an ambivert I choose when to be social and that’s okay

[@eyetoeye4489]

Fasting is such a great way to detox especially while working out you start to have a special kind of glow

[@I.Am.RosaMarie]

Yes!!!

[@HulaMask]

Oh my God, no acne medication has ever cleared my skin. The way fasting does.

[@HulaMask]

Your other content is great. But I think you really excel when it comes to weight loss because you talk about the psychology of it. When it comes to changing a habit, we have to be aware of our unconscious behaviors. As a female, you are able to give us concrete and highly specific examples of how our behavior can lead to weight gain. Like I would’ve never thought about how a social life is connected to weight loss because you have something to look forward to. I think that is the unique angle you take when it comes towards weight loss advice that I’ve actually haven’t seen anywhere else. And as a former fatty, I have consumed thousands of hours of content over decades about weight loss. But your spin on it is genuinely unique.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Thank you so much! That really means a lot to me. I’m just speaking from experience on this channel so that’s where my perspective comes from 💀 I was at my fattest during covid (I had no social life and nothing to look forward to.) so I felt like, why bother? 😂

[@HulaMask]

@ and that’s why your channel is amazing. You’ve lived the experience. You’re not just telling us something. You have gone through the steps. There are a lot of great female weight loss coaches out there. And they might say you’re being lazy or you’re eating too much. But you literally pinpoint down to the most detail of why it’s happening. I’ve been recommending your channel to so many people. Even a lot of white girls told me they follow you because your weight loss advice is so good.

[@mahinnnadiamoinkus3648]

I’m skinny and I have no social life 😍

[@halee2589]

The thumbnail and title are sending me 😭

[@brainiacandbeyond]

For real😂😂

[@SuiteVII]

This title is singing my life with his words 😂

[@lillierose5304]

I'm a singer songwriter and I provide live music at venues. This definitely motivates me because honestly, I make more money if I look good. It's not everything, but it helps.

[@BeautiDon]

Omg same too and I'm working on getting slim again because we are definitely even more attractive being slim. Especially now that its becoming the industry standard again

[@sagba947]

I want to be a songwriter

[@faye1417]

I’m tall and naturally slim. I’m build like a model. And I’m not gonna apologize for it! who gone check me? 😂😂😂

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Exactly ! 💅🏽

[@Iamcoatcheckgirl]

Giving myself 6 months to get back lean and strong.

[@MissIman58]

Same sis ! Getting better at working out. Its the eating thats my issue lol lets do it !

[@Maria_Svetlana_5923]

This is a good call out and i keep in shape due to being a creative , socialite , invited to fashion shows , going to theater plays , visiting high end locations and growing up i always go to singapore every summer

[@jules475]

Ooo that sounds sooo fun

[@chelseae.6779]

EU, you didn’t have to call me out like this! 😭😭 Getting back on track immediately so thank you! 🙏🏽😊

[@ahhMyleg-h8h]

This is a good convo because I noticed I always lose a bunch of weight when I'm in a relationship and my theory is that a romantic partner removes the need to fill my loneliness with eating.

[@bleach98]

I'm the opposite, I always gain weight during a relationship cause the eating is too good lol

[@marlyb176]

I’m not saying this to be condescending, but I think this is something to definitely speak to a therapist about.

[@ahhMyleg-h8h]

@ you first. Lol

[@ms.sprinkly3644]

Some people think skinny people have eating disorders, which is a common misconception ! I think being skinny is also a mindset tbh.

[@BeautiDon]

It really is a mindset!

[@AmaLoveGoddessTV]

The fat ones have binge eating or overeating disorder. I’m saying that as a therapist.

[@racheldee4681]

These titles stay snatching my edges with how honest they are 🤣 I've lost a lot of weight but can always use motivation and EU will do it for me everytime 👏🎉

[@giseleb7807]

EU you keep my weight in check better than any diet 😂 Enjoying my healthy acai & fruit while I watch this

[@yahainHotPink]

😂😂😂 You got this!! 💪🏼

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Nice ! I’m currently drinking a water kefir while reading comments on my phone

[@DS-pw1ot]

This is an excellent channel. Just showed up in my feed. Really high quality. ❤

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Welcome to the exotical space! 🥰

[@TinaMinor-v5q]

🙄 She sound hangry

[@iamkingsdaughtermusic]

As an adult woman, and if you don’t move a lot, 1600 to 2000 calories a day is enough. Tips to stay skinny in “everyday life” : - only Evian water, no soda, no juice - two meals a day max - zero food after 6/7pm - no white sugar, fruit compotes instead (100% natural no added sugar) - pastries, bakeries, cakes, snacks, desserts only allowed for Sunday brunch, or special events. - No dairy (this one is the hardest one 😩 I love cheese!) (I cheat on Sundays and put cheese in my eggs, and milk in my coffee 😂) - Supplements : Multivitamins and, Chlorophyll (to replace the green vegetables that I don’t eat). - 30mn of physical activity per day (minimum) I also do two detox a year, with a product we have in France, it’s called “D-Toxis Balance” by “Laboratoires Ortis”. It’s a month and a half long cure, and it’s very effective! 👑✨

[@Blakmagic88]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾Tysm!

[@RealLyfeFairy]

I joined my college basketball team so now I’ll stay busy and active 😊

[@whatever4650]

I’m not sure if I count as an exotical (I’m Filipino) but I’ve been loving your channel ever since I discovered it, especially the pretty/skinny girl content. I have gotten those remarks from older women/girls before like, “oh she thinks she’s cute” or “you think you’re cute” and something about it always felt backhanded & weird to me. Like…what am I supposed to say to that? Lol. I’ve NEVER thought to say those things to another girl if she looked cute or was wearing a nice outfit. Like, why can’t they just express a normal compliment if they think I look cute? Thanks for calling out this weird behavior.

[@Ohsnapitzann]

Some people's bad attitude will impede them from developing healthy friendships with people.

[@caribbean9829]

I love this content. I have 27 pounds that I need to lose. I moved to the suburbs, and here nobody dressed nice, and I started caring less. I am an introvert, so socializing is not my thing. I care about my weight when I go out with my fit friend and she takes me to her nice places or the country club. She also lives close to the city. Everybody is fit in her places.

[@haitiqueen0119]

Let's take the moment to call out "fat" women who hate on more attractive more fit women, can't forget them!! Listen, if you're on the heavier side, please stay in your lanes and allow people to live their lives as they should. If you choose to limit your daily activities and pack on weight, you need to take a close look in the mirror and make changes but don't dare stay home and give the next woman a hard time because you're not correct yourself!

[@fufu7301]

There's nothing more true than the title of this video. Socializing makes you self-conscious enough to care of your looks

[@emøtionalbandito]

I had to attend a thanksgiving party last week and I made sure to lose 5 pounds in 2.5 week. It worked, like a charm.

[@nalahappy2547]

The video I never knew I needed, happened to me lost around 10 pounds in march, I was feeling good and motivated but I was just at home all the time, so bingo eating and eating and telling myself I get back on track later. I ended up putting back on the 10 pounds plus more. Now got to start all over again 😩🤦🏽‍♀️ not doing that again wasn’t worth all that extra food and sugar snacks I was eating.

[@2cuteRosie]

Literally saaaaame omg

[@raynaking2312]

LMAOO I LOVE THIS VIDEO BY FAR! 😂❤ I definitely looking like the snowman.. for sure I haven’t been socializing and hiding away because of my weight! Gotta lock in!

[@ExoticalsUnited]

It’s ok I used to be a snowman too ☃️

[@viciousreasoning504]

I just got a nutritionist, u called me out

[@princessatheexotical]

Ive successfully fasted for a week and gonna break my fast on sunday with 1 delicious healthy meal and a nice workout

[@gen2886]

I feel attacked 😆 WORD FOR WORD, BAR FOR BAR!!!!😂

[@BeautiDon]

This is so true!! I reconnected with my friend who owns a Nutrition store she's slim and fit and is another one of my motivators. And reconnecting with her definitely motivated me to loose even more weight and having friends who eat healthy and workout regularly also helps. And once again another amazing video once again ExoticalsUnited 😍

[@SaintLaRosa]

Thank you !!!! I needed this !!!!! I was so caught up in not being vain etc not wanting attention !! Ima lose this weight and get my sexy on!!!!!!!

[@ItsTaniya]

You got me motivated to join the dance studio! I love dancing and already do workouts at home, i definitely want to join to sharpen my skills and meet new people!

[@Vanessa-ye4fw]

Hi ! Would you be able to make a video on how to have a better social life? How to always have a social calendar and be busy? How to have a better network too? Thank you so much, your videos have been super useful. Hugs from France ! 🇨🇵

[@paige3691]

Omg 🤯 yes! Thank you, build a social calendar💛

[@jasminetaylor1206]

Clocked my tea, haha. I'm working on it, though. I do horse riding and I was thinking about joining fitness clubs like paddle board and equestrian clubs. I realized today that I need to socialize with the people who are in the circle of life I want to be in. Especially as a black equestrian. We only make up 4% of equestrians in the world. Also, my friends are gorgeous and I'm tired of feeling uncomfortable when I'm out with them.

[@legslikewhoa]

On your Patron do you have any videos on going out alone, picking a style after weight loss, or socializing alone? 😢 I’m stuck here. I’ve lost so much weight I even need new underwear and socks. It’s hard to know where to start building a wardrobe from scratch.

[@Crystlstarrlight]

Ok love I got you. I know you asked united but what helped was the body sizing chart. I'm an inverted triangle shape. Go to Google and type in body shapes chart. You'll see hourglass ,inverted , apple shaped etc . From there once you figured out your body type , use it as a search term on KZbin. I found women who are into fashion with my body type and 100% dress better from their tips.

[@urlmel]

"Who gon check me?"😂

[@CutieNoone200]

I got hired on the spot for ABA therapy and it’s funny because I had no idea what it was . My manager (a white man ) just thought I was young and hot lol I’m a tan exotical with two long black braids and a Marilyn Monroe build .

[@StrawberryBlonde21]

This was me some years ago, but I got into the gym, and I plan personal outings and several things that motivate me. You are SO right! And you're also an extremely hilarious girl 😂

[@currentlykesh]

Getting into pilates and having more options when it cones fresh food. Moving my body more. I plan on traveling more and dating lol😂

[@josie6844]

That is so true though. When I’m out and about doing things I don’t feel the need to stuff myself like I would if I was alone 😭

[@crystalmorgan9118]

I agree and one other reason is because of fear alot of times it's because of our body hold fat because we don't feel safe

[@AlaraKucuktepe]

People these days are filled with hate and will use you.

[@evaoma8879]

I’m in a point of my life where I’m just working and in school and I pretty much have no social life but I definitely am trying to get there and to lose weight. I just need to prioritize my health and eating right now

[@Crystlstarrlight]

So my hubs and I are hermits and even then we both maintain our weight. So even if you're at home , there's no excuse to be big.

[@sagba947]

Exactly

[@yahainHotPink]

Present! As we used to say in school

[@tiffanymcqueen1398]

I clicked for the title it got my attention but I truly was not ready 😂😂 I love this girl the narration was everything "you mad? You can stay mad" is living rent free in my head

[@smooothsynergy652]

This is absolutely 100% correct!

[@Tamara165able]

Me listening to this whilst on vacation in Tenerife 😂😊

[@Des_.]

Love how you’re always experimenting with editing in your video

[@AmaLoveGoddessTV]

Yes I’m pretty and people will not let me forget that I’m fat. They want me to lose weight so bad lol

[@sundaysundaesundaaay6424]

Ooooooooooolllllllll ok I like this channel😂😂😂 I put on some jeans the other day and my dad was like oh where you going all spiffy I was like what oh I gotta button on my pants so I must be stepping out? I gotta change this😂😅 it's the truth

[@Coolbeans321-g3w]

Omg yes, I needed to hear this. After my baby, I've just been home and on mom mode. I finally left on vacation and was not prepared for the insecurities 😢 of weight gain. I need to socialize more to keep this motivation. I've been incognito, but I will be back!😊

[@kylabutler2195]

This video hit home! Thank you for making this video ❤

[@kkhooray2153]

It’s something about being called a beluga whale that makes you not go for seconds 😂

[@True-w898]

I'm fat but I've lost 75lbs but still fat. I don't have a social life but even when I was thin I was invisible. I have to be super thin (100lbs) to get attention.

[@ashd5326]

How tall are you?

[@SteviaSativa]

She’s not lying what so ever

[@miaw.51]

im the opposite. im an introvert and when im on my own i get to regularly exercise and eat healthy home cooked food. when i meet up with friends they always want to eat junk food and make jokes why i dont want to eat it, along with my exercise routine messed up.

[@leila2294]

I’m the same, I’m always trying to avoid social situations because they always become about food and I feel pressured to eat what everyone else is eating and they act like you’re a snob for being the only one to reject it

[@farah.mp3]

@@leila2294 Same, for the first time this year I decided to reject the monthly restaurant lunches with my coworkers, I refused two times I choosed to stay at the office and eat my own food instead of going eating pizzas or burgers with them. Someone told me they heard them saying nasty things about me during those lunches but I don't care anymore I am tired of looking like this. Fuck them.

[@hotchipandphilosophy]

Same

[@MichelleBonner-c6j]

tbh starting college is a big part of my motivation

[@jules475]

When I think of a classy women I think of Carolyn bessette Kennedy ♥️she’s so classy & elegant & her style is top tier !

[@brendalott3090]

It just important to watch your health regardless of the event

[@jennykamara_]

Loved this video! As always ❤ but please come out with merch that says “Pretty Girl Club” or something of the like because I’d totally buy it 😅

[@Becauseimher]

Right she should !!

[@AP-yd1nt]

This is so true. I live in an area that is warm year round so you can be invited on a boat or pool party on short notice anytime of year so that motivates me to always stay slim. I don't want to be in a bikini looking out of shape

[@bree460]

Yeah but also people try to sabotage you when you say no because if you’re cute and fat you need to say yes to them. If that makes since

[@keylove2663]

Loving this space🥰❗️

[@TanyaPlunkett]

When u said think of someone rich and classy. I thought of Kimora Lee Simmons because she’s Asian like me. But she’s tall and slim. Opposite of me 😂😂 I’m definitely on my skinny journey tho!

[@ambersucces9867]

Sis I'm loving these daily uploads on the public side of the channel but what about us membership girlies lol

[@Exoticalsspace]

1:29 no it’s just they don’t flat out “GAF” and they let it be known online all the time I had to break away from high school friends that were like that just big to be big never wanted to change and they still in the same predicament to this day

[@daphnereloaded3480]

We really have to start tagging Amberlynn Reid and Foody Beauty in these videos like omg how perfect.

[@Roe-s5b]

Now why did you call me OUT💀😭

[@legslikewhoa]

8:28 😅 the way you snatched my edges!

[@ExoticalT369]

😂🙃

[@Phenomwon1313]

I love this so much!! 😂❤this is such wonderful content! 🔥

[@princessk2450]

Looking like a mutant is crazy work EU is so funny y’all we’re leveling up and being entertained I love it here lmaoooo

[@ExoticalT369]

😂…That thumbnail photo is rouuugh. 😬

[@melodysafo5437]

Clicked so hard!

[@melodysafo5437]

There’s a NYE party that I’m gonna be going to, so I’m definitely gonna be prepared for that!

[@TatiannatheRealtor]

she is right im introverted and i dont think about losing weight until i think about social media

[@MATTELMADE]

i love this channel!!!

[@ExoticalFHTips]

I realized since I’m getting more thin, I attract more athletes ❤ and I LOVE athletes 🥰

[@jaebabew1468]

Damn not beluga 😂

[@бронза.вафля.конус]

It's true. I definitely recognised it myself. Even just with going to school, I don't eat or even think about food the whole day. But if I'm home the whole day, the entire day is just constant thinking about food.

[@fatemaabdelrahman8964]

How do u know all this ?? It’s crazy. Are you sure u don’t have someone obese in ur inner circle snitching and tellint u all this info????? But fr tho as an obese /overweight girl trynna lose weight and trynna build a social life , the reason I was obese in the first place is bc I genuinely had no social life . I was in no position to receive pretty privilege or male attention because I just came home from work and didn’t have any friends inviting me to stuff . So I didn’t bother about looking cute or shopping outfits or anything . Also all that extra time on my hands meant I’d overeat out of boredom . So I am trynna create a social life now, it’s hard bc I am insecure being big so sometimes I am like no I will lose the weight first then have a social life . But that’s hard bc that’s just isolating myself and having extra time to resist food. So I am trynna make myself uncomfortable in social events to motivate myself to lose the weight . I hate tugging and fixing my outfits and having a hard time finding outfits in the first place , but that’s helping me to lose weight . The other day I went shopping with some friends and they literally bought super cute outfits from the kids section the clothes were cheap too and they literally took like 15 mins to find the clothes . That made me feel awful . They then asked me if I wanted to shop and I said I already have enough clothes that was definitely a lie .

[@ExoticalsUnited]

It’s because I was out of shape at one point so I’m just speaking from Experience 😂 during Covid is when I was the thickest and it’s because I had nowhere to go and nothing to do so I didn’t care 😂

[@paperglu6640]

​@@ExoticalsUnited By "thick" do you mean fat? Like I need to know loll

[@nickeapollard21]

ok i’m getting back to it lol

[@coast2coast8306]

Not a snowman ⛄️ 💀

[@TianaThompson-c9p]

Beluga women 😂😂😂

[@brendalott3090]

You are so right

[@cosmiccrush22]

This is the hard cold truth, we're all women it's in our nature to beautify life around us and our bodies. It is indeed a social status to men and other women.

[@FeminineChaosPod]

Your my favorite to listen to at the gym ❤

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Yay 😀

[@Ac_chillin]

Girl building that social calendar is tough…but I try 😫

[@yoursismeya]

thats me. im depressed and heartbroken. lost my spark....feel like there is no point 😢

[@brendalott3090]

I was just saying this to myself dont over eat

[@DestineyWilliams-ze8rc]

Girl I am skinny and have no social life 😭✋🏽

[@munchkineatsalotvent9899]

I thought of Beyonce lol i also think of my aunts(his older sister) on my daddy side of the family. when you said think of a classy woman i also thougth about pics of my mom in her youth.

[@Greatgoldenbabyyyy]

The title alone has me weak!!!! It’s the truth 😭😭😭