You're not stuck: You just care too much.

[@muchelleb]

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[@takingiteasydaisy]

I just did your skillshare class and loved it! I remember you from years ago, glad to see your still making wholesome content her on youtube. This topic is exactly how i've been feeling this year. Thanks for the video.

[@tinybarabo]

Timing is uncanny. I landed my dream job, and I was going crazy to do my very best. I was fired a few hours ago. Thank you for the video.

[@masquerade882]

Oh my. I am sorry to know that. I hope you are feeling better now. Please don't let this event decide your worth or your competence. We are as humans, neutral, who do good things and bad things. Nothing singularly defines us. Just take it in your stride as an unpleasant experience and get better with yourself. I know you haven't asked anyone for an advice. I am not sure if you needed this. However, I wish you the best. Take care, Bogi. 😊

[@Memkoh]

I’m so sorry! Please take good care of yourself and keep your head up. Something better is coming.

[@deepikaa.18]

Sending you all the love!!

[@shea5542]

❤️

[@AnnaLovegood.]

❤

[@amoramoleko8581]

Story of my life. The moment you stop caring, thats when things happen

[@artugert]

It’s the story of everyone’s lives. It’s a principle of he universe.

[@Duck72432]

Nope there’s a balance in the end not caring leads to apathy , inaction and nihilism. Most need to care less some need to care more

[@seankelly1366]

I couldn't agree with you more....I have been experiencing this whole situation since March of 2020 when the Plandemic occurred... I have absolutely exhausted myself with trying to keep up with the desperate avenues of society when it came to the work force as well I my own personal goals.....

[@AutomaticDuck300]

@@Duck72432 it’s not about not caring. It’s about being too emotionally invested in achieving a result or doing something you love. Once you become less emotionally invested, that’s when you succeed.

[@mochi19971]

"The more desperate I have been for happiness, the less happy I have been". Words cannot express how important it was for me to hear these words. I am a dreamer-- I have my head in the clouds. I did a study abroad semester on the Gold Coast and fell in love with Australia, and want to go back there some day. But the more desperate I am to go there, the further away it seems...

[@nellyymessy]

🥺🥺🥺 hugs w consent!!

[@muchelleb]

I'm so glad that they resonated with you. I love dreamers - and when you make your way back to the coast, let me know and we can have a coffee ☕

[@sassiejoan]

I live in Perth, and I feel this way about Paris.

[@JJStarr]

Reminds me of the studies around people living in poverty or near poverty -- their desperation for money and enough resources to live makes it extremely difficult to make logical decisions (about anything!) They're so focused on surviving they can't ensure their survival. One reason why it's so so important to support people experiencing poverty and economic hardship! Few people can 'pull themselves up by their bootstraps" if they're cognitively impaired by the world they have to live in. I love your research and your many ways of approaching these topics!

[@muchelleb]

Ah this is such a good add and makes so much sense - the stress someone in poverty is under is so immense that their executive functioning would be shot. Thank you so much for commenting.

[@JJStarr]

@@muchelleb ♥♥♥

[@whifling]

The funny thing about the phrase' pull yourself up by the bootstraps' is that it originally meant something that can't be done (which makes sense coz the weight of your body is holding down your boots!) but the real meaning has been lost over time.

[@JJStarr]

@@whifling So true! It's impossible -- USA, home of the catch-22

[@AquarianValkari]

@@whifling thank you for this because this phrase used to piss me off so much. Everyone who’s ever said this to me used it to dismiss my hardships while (they) never had to endure those hardships themselves

[@Artofcarissa]

What sucks is when you try to convince yourself you don’t care but deep down you know that you do. I can tell myself I don’t care all day long but if I were to ever get the thing I’m desperate for I would be elated

[@AlyciaBoutte]

Super relatable!! I totally agree with this.

[@tomdbass1]

That’s me. Exactly!

[@MissLida]

I've found that if you're desperate for that thing to begin with, it's because you're unaligned in your life and out of touch with yourself. The more you focus on what you don't have and trying to not care about it, the more you're avoiding facing yourself. Instead stop trying altogether and just start going with the flow of what you already have that aligns with a feeling of purpose and happiness. Focus on what you KNOW is real and matters in the present moment, even if it's "tiny" or only matters to you personally. Just don't blow off your intuition about these things because that's where it all starts, with what YOUR inner voice says, no one elses. These things are already inside of you! And soon enough you might find that you're starting to naturally do what aligns with you more and more and then there is nothing you desperately need at all BUT reaching new goals will be a lot easier because you will feel independent, trust yourself in new situations, trust that you can create the life you want without that "thing" or"person."

[@rehnaanliker5931]

It’s like how people say you find a relationship when you stop looking for one. I had wanted to be in a relationship so bad, even getting on dating apps and such. As soon as I told myself (as shitty as it is) “if love wants me it’s gonna have to crawl it’s way up my ass) and it did! Once I focused on my own own self love and growth I found myself in the right mental place to be in a relationship

[@ceresceres5169]

I will start saying this from now on

[@kyleethepanda]

this was a huge wake up call to me in regards to friendships. I moved to a new city and I jumped in headfirst with trying so hard to make friendships and make them quick. I didn’t seem to be getting back the same thing amount of effort I was putting in, I was even giving myself stress headaches from overthinking every social situation and wondering what was wrong with me. I eventually just decided that I don’t care anymore, I fully and myself I only do things I’m really wanting to do and now I have really built friendships here and connected with people that I actually enjoy, so, my advice is that don’t fall into the mental trap of trying so hard coming so desperate for other people to be in your life that it changes you because that won’t help anything

[@muchelleb]

Ah this makes so much sense!! I love this as an example.

[@lotsoflovemadelief]

I have the exact same thing! And now after a couple of stressfull months, I finally feel like I am building deeper connections with people

[@coreypack]

I feel your pain on this! It seems like all my life I've struggled with friendships and romantic relationships including having a bond with my own father! I found myself having a very dark perception of the world due to extreme lonliness! I was on the verge of becoming a cold, bitter, and cruel person because that's how I saw the world and how to survive in it! But through prayer and faith, I have regain my faith in humanity!

[@TysonMichael77]

Perfectly said

[@1014JB]

This is exactly what I needed to see in this comment section. Thank you❤️

[@youtimeful]

I love the sayin that pain is where expectation doesn’t meet reality. This is a great topic.

[@muchelleb]

Oooooh that’s such a good one and so real

[@errata938]

nice

[@JohnBrown-ig5nc]

That's frustration in a nutshell

[@drebugsita]

sounds to me like suffering more than pain (like the saying goes "pain is inevitable, suffering is not")

[@13realmusic]

Wait, so all that time when I decided to stop pretending I care about my water not boiling fast enough was actually a valid technique for living life???!? I'm speechless.

[@awkwardbean1504]

"A watched pot never boils" is what my mother always says

[@raquelstewart6780]

I’m learning to go with the flow of my life and paying attention to my needs.

[@denizece3672]

The timing of this upload!! I had this conversation with my best friend the other day. We are both in points of our lives that may be awesome but we got what we didn't necessarily ask for. She wanted to be married at this point and have kids but instead, she is struggling with dating and got a kick-ass, impressive career, that she didn't really prioritize to have. I, however, desperately wanted the career and to identify myself through my work but can't really get there. Instead, I got a ring from a man that can't wait to have my babies - which is amazing, I am grateful and happy, however, I was always kind of indifferent about getting married and having kids and had never prioritized finding a partner. It's wild how life works to the point of us getting what the other person wanted 'more desperately'.

[@muchelleb]

Ah this is so wild, how interesting. I feel like once you start to see this phenomenon you truly see it everywhere!!!

[@CamilaLima-wk1nw]

I truly believe the universe sent this video for me right now, because I was so desperate about not being happy despite all my efforts… wow. Thank you so much for this.

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

Sounds like a never ending cycle for those who are born into bad circumstances. (Great for those who are born into good conditions)

[@EmbraceTheStruggle24]

Hey, just wanted to chime in and say that no matter how good or bad things get to be for us as a human species and as naturally autonomous creatures, we still have responsibilities and needs to be met. All of that being said, we are all capable of putting our minds to anything if we choose to do so. And obviously we don't live in a perfect world...but that's exactly my whole point - we don't, and even with the rejection and backlash I've faced over the years from people that were so cruel and nasty to me in high-school, college, work, or wherever else; it's one of those things where you just have to keep going, keep discovering yourself, and not feeling sorry for yourself. How happy you make others is one thing; but you (we) as people, individuals, and human beings also have to think for ourselves, set healthy boundaries, and never ignore personal care - and that - in and of itself is a legit recipe for valuing yourself, the goodness and potential in others, as well as discovering your own, real, true potential.

[@milkcrownASMR]

when your goals are suddenly also starting to play hard to get

[@ennealebrityland]

🤣true though

[@olivia_m_w]

Lmao

[@pastichehaus]

Agree 💯 The more I obsess over anything the worse it is for me. Diet and weight loss is the perfect example for me, the more I obsess about losing weight and eating less, the more I want to eat, therefore, the weight piles on. #facts

[@lolife1981]

Hit the gym and dont think

[@JohnBrown-ig5nc]

This reminds me of when I was doing online dating and being focused so much on the outcome that I wanted to happen that I would hide myself just to hopefully achieve the desired outcome. As in, I wouldn't display my full sense of humor or I would be too friendly in conversation rather than fully expressing myself and letting the chips fall where they may

[@Leoo117]

So what happens is that when you are desperate, that desperation comes from a fear that you won't get what you want. And the things you focus on, you make come true. So when we are in a fearful state, we tend to FOCUS on that fear, therefore we make that fear come true. So being aware of what we are focusing on, and any fears we have is the answer. We just have to decide to focus on our outcome, and not our fear. Also, come to terms with our fears coming true, and be ok with it if it does happen. Know that it will be ok, and you can just learn from any failure. This is a way to face and conquer the fear. This helps the anxiety and desperation to melt away. Then we can just be our usual calm self.

[@greatmjones]

Letting my subconscious do the work tends to look like procrastination to everyone around me….

[@kera-oregan]

Yes, taking that pressure off is so important. I definitely notice this, particularly with the tunnel vision effect when I’m “trying too hard”… which is difficult to stop doing as someone who grew up undiagnosed neurodivergent - I was always acutely aware that I didn’t fit in, but trying to fit in made people dislike me for trying too hard. It’s a self fulfilling prophecy, so sometimes it takes actively doing nothing and actively not trying to get out of that loop and find more ease. Thanks for the helpful reminder and interesting to see the concepts across cultures!

[@nataliesoutlet]

loved this concept. so so interesting!

[@muchelleb]

It's been my fave thing to think about lately!!

[@GAMEBEATER6000]

When I find that I’m overthinking a situation or how I’m treating someone, telling that person how I feel has really put relief on my conscience, even when I try to convince myself I didn’t do anything wrong it’s like my mind just wanted to overthink even more about that person, so bringing up these feelings with that person has really eased my mind and helps me remember what they said so I don’t have to worry anymore

[@Mrs.Deanna_Ember]

Im trying to do that more aswell, i tend to just not say anything and let it go, though of course it doesnt necessarily rectify the situation, or the person may have the wrong idea about why I said something or was upset in the first place

[@heathermarchese4371]

I needed this video more than I can even explain. I feel like I am right on the precipice of a brand new chapter of my life and new beginnings. I am finally ready to start looking for a job, but I have put so much pressure on it working out and being the perfect fit for me, that it paralyzes me from continuing to take action. Thank you for always sharing such amazing content!

[@f444ide]

this comment section is so real, so genuine, and so refreshing,, makes me feel like we're all just figuring out our lives,,, makes me feel like going to be okay. . .

[@MarieBenard]

The pressure to have fun on holidays is one of the reasons I'm not a fan of holidays like NYE, Christmas and Valentine's Day. I love holiday lights and decorations, but the pressure to make things special is exactly what makes it painful and not fun. Even my birthday feels that way. If my partner shows up with flowers out of the blue on any other day, it's wonderful and such a lovely surprise. But the expectation of something special happening leads to that looming sense of disappointment... which is exactly why I don't tend to do anything special for most holidays. I'd rather playfully engage in romance and random acts of kindness throughout the year, then be forced to do something special on the one day there's a massive obligation to do so. The obligation takes all the fun out of giving and the expectation for things to be special takes the fun out of receiving.

[@lilo3904]

Put simply: I just love your videos. You -vibe- with me so much, it is insane - Thanks so much for your work!

[@muchelleb]

Thank you so much 💛💛 I appreciate you taking the time to comment

[@kaylar5178]

It makes even more sense why people say “It’s not about the destination but about the journey” because a lot of things people will succeed in were because they were passionate about it in the first place and enjoyed the process as they were working on it and didn’t let it get to them if fail attempts happened. Really makes sense why the things I’m the best at were done so effortlessly.

[@EveryFurtherMile]

This rings true for me. I also think I find that the confident I am in what I want without compromise then it will be likely to come

[@TonyMoze]

I had this issue a few years back with trying to get a specific role in tech. It was the moment I stoped caring, I ended up getting a job at the most popular company in the world 👌

[@Rosannasfriend]

Oh yes I learned this a decade ago I started getting what I wanted when I was less desperate for it. Work towards what you want in a casual manner for the sake of it. Because you enjoy it. Not because you need to have the outcome that you're looking for. This also works in law of attraction.

[@JohnBradydoesstuff]

This is serendipity at its best. Lol. Exactly what I needed when I needed it. Thank you.

[@eyeswideopenpod]

The universe always puts things in front of us when we need it the most. 💖

[@Idd1eforTaylorSwift4256]

I’ve come to a point where I care so much and I try so hard, that I would obsess over trying not to care and would miserably fail.

[@Mrs.Deanna_Ember]

For years I felt "selfish" when it came to anything I did and would basically sabatoge myself occasionally, or settle for less than maybe I deserved. It takes time and work to break those habits, and need to give ourselves a break sometimes from feeling bad about it and beating ourselves up

[@SDsearcher]

Wow. This is SO true for me. Every time I want something, I don’t get it. If I don’t care at all, that’s when things happen. For example, I just applied for a job that I really wanted. I spent a week rewriting my resume, putting together the required writing sample, writing the cover letter and preparing for the interview. My two interviews went great. Even better than I expected. I was even overqualified for the job and met all the criteria for the position. I was so excited and kept thinking about how happy I would be when I could give my notice at my current job. Then, two weeks later, I received a rejection letter telling me they decided to move forward with another candidate whose skills more closely aligned with the job requirements. I was stunned and hurt because I am positive that I am qualified for the job. On the other side, I absolutely HATE my current job with every cell in my body and I don’t care about it at all. And for whatever reason, I’ve gotten two huge raises and three promotions in three years. It’s so frustrating. 😩

[@MA-qg6jr]

I used to be so concerned with finding the ideal best friend; whenever I connect with someone, I have all these expectations that are typically unmet. All of this has prevented me from seeing all the wonderful people in my life that I had previously taken for granted and put aside because they did not meet my unrealistic ideals. Of course, I still enjoy meeting new people, but nowadays I am lot happy because I no longer force relationships.

[@evelynproud8792]

I really needed this right now.

[@bhsprinkle]

Yes. Thank you for speaking on my inner thoughts. I feel so unhappy and want to be so badly that it feels further away. I am feeling purposeless as well but trying to find it gets me discouraged.

[@saturnroyalty]

I’ve been rewatching this video the past few days. Honestly want to thank you from the bottom of my heart. I binged 100s of self help shorts and videos before I found this video and this video is the only one that has helped me get in true alignment with my needs and goals. ❤ Thank you!!

[@ashley-pc2cd]

The moment when you stop caring, that’s when things happen. You can’t just be happy by just focusing on the goal…you actually have to take steps!

[@ashley-pc2cd]

4:38 people don’t like them as much! They aren’t acting natural!

[@ashley-pc2cd]

1:32 people who are desperate for happiness! They feel worse!

[@ashley-pc2cd]

You won’t be happy just focusing so much on the goal itself, you actually have to take steps in order to be happy‼️

[@ashley-pc2cd]

this was a huge wake up call to me in regards to friendships. I moved to a new city and I jumped in headfirst with trying so hard to make friendships and make them quick. I didn't seem to be getting back the same thing amount of effort I was putting in, I was even giving myself stress headaches from overthinking every social situation and wondering what was wrong with me. I eventually just decided that I don't care anymore, I fully and myself I only do things I'm really wanting to do and now I have really built friendships here and connected with people that I actually enjoy, so, my advice is that don't fall into the mental trap of trying so hard coming so desperate for other people to be in your life that it changes you because that won't help anything

[@ashley-pc2cd]

My aunt told me after she got married she was desperate to get pregnant and it wouldn't happen and her and my uncle started looking into adoption. As soon as she gave up and stopped stressing out about getting pregnant guess what??? She got pregnant.

[@xXMaoKittyCatXx]

I really needed this, been going through a break up and haven't been feeling well, I've been desperate to look for happiness and to heal and feel better.

[@binae2987]

Hahah I am so surprised to see this video as it's something I discovered for myself the past year and I've been thinking about it a lot. It's so nice to see a coherent video on this topic! I was also thinking about it's connection to wu wei and manifesting, but the other examples you mentioned gave me more food for thought! Thank you and all the best! ☀️

[@muchelleb]

It shows up in SO many places!! Wu wei, manifesting, the alexander technique, even mindfulness really. I’m glad this video got you thinking 💛 sending you good thoughts!

[@jasminefremdehake2354]

I watched this video of yours about 6-7 times . Please create more of this genre .

[@ishhhmishhh]

Thank you for this. I am in between jobs right now. I got a job offer and because of a human error on my part, they eventually did not follow through. I went through a massive low and was so hard on myself for something which was very minuscule. But I cared about it SO MUCH IT DROVE ME CRAZY. I'm a few weeks past that whole situation, and I am doing a little better. What I've realised is that I need to stop controlling things in my head & irl. Uncertainty is a part of life!

[@goodtree6228]

What you resist persists.

[@Unxpekted]

Nailed it in the first 12 seconds. The more you desire the more resistance you create.

[@dzplayer0149]

I'm just soo tired of myself.. I don't even try.

[@mandvi24]

Be gentle with your subconscious 🌸 Thank you for this video. Subscribed 💕

[@Slamagotchi]

Just want to add a bit here for people that do suffer from things like social anxiety or fear of failure: Its okay to get nervous and for things to not go the way we want them to as well. The aim isnt to try so hard to be not stressed to not have desperate energy, instead its to be okay with failure and to accept yourself as you are for all the ups and downs. Your beliefs about yourself can change with the right kind of effort, if we shift the focus of doing to being we are able to more easily accept whatever happens without judgement being tied to it. Acknowledge how nervous you feel and get used to the discomfort of that feeling while doing the thing anyway and you will literally rewire your brain to be okay with fear or uncertainty. Its natural to get anxious or upset or overwhelmed, trying to mask those things just makes it harder to deal with them!

[@Ali-yu2pv]

It's like you read my mind, i swear i thought the exact phrase of your title and i got this epiphany and now you make a video that elaborates on that. Awesome.

[@muchelleb]

I love when that happens. Sending you good thoughts 💛

[@pancra9041]

This is specially hard to me because I haveextremely severe obsessive compulsive disorder, but the video helped me tremendously, I was just struggling with this exact thing. Thank you so much girllll!!!

[@RuudAwakening]

Thank you :) My belly mind tells me i’m forcing something(s) but i don’t exactly know what yet This helped already ❤️

[@aohamer]

The overthinker and trying too hard is me to a T. This really gave me a new perspective. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@ourflyingskies]

This video found me exactly when I needed it. Thanks so much

[@1littlehelper]

You have no idea how much I needed to hear this, thank you so much for your advice Michelle!

[@ragukrishnasagar5131]

Got answer for a number one problem in my life haunting me for several years since a teenager. At age 48 got the answer. Thanks for sharing 🙏

[@Sharon-jg9ls]

I can tell you how much this helps. I say all the time that if I’m trying to lose weight in 2wks I end up gaining/sabotaging. Love that there’s actually science behind it.

[@GorataK]

This is so well edited, I was focused throughout

[@mariametheexplorer]

This so trueeee ! I was so desperate making friends from the online app, then I ended up losing all of them LITERALLY!

[@barostakuk1058]

This is so true. It's an extra level of difficulty for me though to do this while having trauma that causes me to get anxious and feel like I need to be in control of things, or they fall apart. But when I manage to calm myself enough and work through it, it works..! It's an uphill battle some days.

[@melinaalba63]

I am so happy that this video got recommended to me. I go through phases where I realize I am Kind of losing myself "in the middle of the woods, far away from the road I was on" just months before. And then I need to find something that reminds me where my road is so I can find my way back. And this video is the thing that shows me where my road is. I was so happy last year because I finally understood what my passions are and what I love. I have lost this in the past few months and I feel like this is the hint that puts me back on the right track :)

[@TheMidnightBandit]

Instant substance to what you're saying. Expert level content 👌

[@lucianapejic9236]

I watched this video a million times! You put it so well! Thank you😍

[@khaleelrashad2146]

This is something I needed to hear. I’ve already watched this video before, and it still resonates with me. I need to work on not caring so much, and just slow down. Letting nature take its course. Procrastination actually stems from caring too much. This is well said. I thank you for your insightful words.

[@Twistfashion]

wow this is so true! Thank you so much for making these videos, they are really helpful!

[@katherinechant7606]

Thank you, this is so right.

[@Rosie82333]

My aunt told me after she got married she was desperate to get pregnant and it wouldn’t happen and her and my uncle started looking into adoption. As soon as she gave up and stopped stressing out about getting pregnant guess what??? She got pregnant.

[@muchelleb]

Umm are you in my family?! Haha same my aunt and uncle actually started fostering and gave up on having kids and shortly after she fell pregnant

[@Lizdoezlife]

omg ive just found my favourite self growth KZbin. About to binge all your videos! Also love the animations that you provide and how well you articulate your thoughts! ❤

[@Gloroxsocks]

This. Makes. So. Much. Sense 😮

[@konumtrading]

Allow me to thank you Michelle on behalf of everyone who found this video as one of the most valuable videos on personal development here on KZbin. Thank you Michelle. ❤

[@taughtbytime]

This is true only when you focus in any negative. But focusing on the positive is healthy and can move you forward. It does take work and focus.

[@eyeswideopenpod]

Most people just want to focus on the negative because it's easier and 'comfortable'. Like you said, it takes work to focus on the positive and many people just don't want to do the work.

[@theenatashasheree]

I love to learn. Can’t wait to rework my goals with this approach!

[@aubreyarchives]

Welp. This just changed my life. LOL, thanks for sharing because this information is so lost in the mental mayhem, and then you hear someone break it down like this and you're like... wait... that's obvious.

[@kimsensener7689]

I wish your videos weren’t so fast-paced.. I love your content and you provide so much value but there is no time to process and ponder about the quotes, the research and your insights, so that I have to rewind and pause many times.. wish it was a bit slower and calm☺️

[@karenneves2483]

I'm trying hard don't care too much, but lately anxiety is stucking me. I hope I can win it and be able to achieve a better mental condition.

[@karolinawww6834]

I like it, info backed by science with no self-help cliches. I've noticed that myself, just do your thing without expecting anything. Subscribed

[@Valhiaa]

This video falls at the perfect time. Mind blowing, thank you ❤

[@na3rial]

This explains why people are so happy these days. We all have high expectations for what our friendships, relationships, jobs, day to day should look like due to social media. We think we should have xyz by this point and we should be hustling for xyz ALL the time.

[@gracenevitt]

needed this video right now!!! thank you😭💗

[@dannyloats929]

I like the editing of this video! and the energy

[@thepursuerofdreams8575]

This makes soooo much sense. Thank you so much for this. This is exactly what I need right now. I really love visiting and binge watching your videos ❤❤❤❤

[@DanielDow]

Amazing video, and very timely for me. Thank you

[@nisanjin9318]

So helpful, Muchelle. You have no idea how timely. Thank you

[@simonerdv]

I felt called out by the title lol. But it is true! The harder I try to * insert goal * the more I'm not able to achieve the goal.

[@christelfrappier2968]

Thanks I really needed this video ❤I’ve been desperately trying to find my dream job and find a way for financially stabling myself. I got fired couple months ago and was very down then I started getting desperate. I realised this didn’t help my mental health and my financial situation. So now I’m just letting go of everything and the past and just doing the things that bring me joy. Also new ideas have come to me and I really do want to try them out. I hope the universe and GOD is on my side and will help me onto a new path of happiness and success in all areas of my life.

[@MagisterialVoyager]

Thank you for this lovely reminder. ❤

[@ericaamazing]

Important: 4:45

[@ennealebrityland]

my worst moments are when I realize I'm getting what I've wanted as an unintended side effect of something...because once that occurs I can't stop myself from trying to get more. Hence, desperate energy all over again.

[@shekhargupta6718]

Time is precious and your advice is eternal. You are a very good orator and you must visit India and explore its diverse culture and heritage. Rest assured of good hospitality from my side.

[@sarajamshidi6034]

I think my phone is reading my thoughts lol ! This video popped up on my feed at the right time 😢

[@chilbong7642]

OMG, the timing is so on point!!! Thanks for this video

[@go_better]

Thanks! That actually is super helpful. I didn't understand what to care about then, but I relate to things mentioned so much.

[@blueskybianca]

Great video once again Michelle! Can relate to this video a lot! Practising letting go and almost not caring so much about certain things in life has been opening up more happiness.

[@dayru_ru]

thnaks I've been needing to hear this for a while now

[@theluschmasterinc]

I totally get it, thanks! Makes a lot of sense, honestly 💙✨

[@terminallychill3787]

Sometimes this doesn't work for you anyway and I'm there.

[@b0bbo_music]

I want to go to Austin so bad and still be able to record music at home. I’ve been desperately trying to figure out how to make it happen, searching for the perfect jobs, etc. I’m gonna let up on my grip now. I’ll make myself available and ready for it and if it wants to happen it will.

[@vortigauntk]

This was awesome, I needed to hear this for some of my personal goals as a software engineer

[@CindyYantis]

Needed this one today. Thank you!

[@elenavaipan]

This is exactly what I needed today! Thank you, Muchelle! You're awesome! 🤗🤗

[@rikki7953]

Love this! Wanted to say I cannot wait for the next round of life map planners. I feel lost without mine!