You Won’t Believe How an Avoidant Person Feels When You Stop Talking to Them-Their Reaction Will....

"You Won’t Believe How an Avoidant Person Feels When You Stop Talking-Their Reaction Will Shock You"
Are you wondering how an avoidant person truly feels when you go silent? In this video, we explore the surprising emotional and psychological effects of the no-contact rule on avoidant individuals. From regret and guilt to unexpected realizations, discover how your silence becomes a powerful tool for self-respect and personal growth.
🔹 Key Topics Covered:
• The paradox of avoidance: Why they crave distance but fear abandonment.
• The psychological impact of silence and how it disrupts their comfort zone.
• How your silence forces them to confront their emotions and choices.
• The power of stepping back: Reclaiming your energy and self-worth.
• Why silence amplifies the truth and redefines the relationship dynamic.
This isn’t about manipulation-it’s about setting boundaries and fostering your inner strength. Whether you’re dealing with a breakup, emotional distance, or a challenging relationship dynamic, this video will give you actionable insights inspired by Stoic wisdom.
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Have you tried the no-contact rule with an avoidant person? What was their reaction? Share your experiences in the comments below!
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[@cm8989]

You crave distance. I gave you distance. That’s what distance feels like - you want it > you got it. Enjoy it.

[@AureliusAdviser]

It's tough to see someone walk away, but sometimes it's the best thing for everyone involved.

[@cm8989]

@ it is indeed and thank you for guiding me through some very challenging times!

[@AmandaHugenkiss97]

I had an awful relationship with a woman later diagnosed with BPD. It drained my soul and I didn't date anyone for about 5 years. Then I met a nice woman who seemed to like me back. During a conversation one day, she told me her ex referred to her an avoidant. I really didn't think much of it and figured he was just hurt she left. Fast forward to a few months later and notice her pulling back and then it wasn't long until I got the "it's not you, it's me" speech. She thought she could end the romantic part of the relationship, but still keep me around as a "friend." She was shocked when I didn't argue, beg, nada and said "I respect your decision and I hope you will understand that I need to go now. I wish you the best." and never looked back. I refuse to be someone option. I will not sit around and be her ego boost.

[@AureliusAdviser]

@AmandaHugenkiss97 Thank you for sharing your story! I'm so proud of you for recognizing your worth and setting boundaries. It takes immense courage to walk away from someone who doesn't value you fully. Your self-awareness and assertiveness are truly inspiring. Remember that you deserve someone who prioritizes and respects you, and it's amazing that you're holding out for that. Keep shining and know that your worth isn't defined by someone else's validation!

[@momione11]

Work on yourself.Why you where attracted to her.I saw myself.That my parents where avoidants.So i needed to change.The hardest work i have done.

[@SA733]

I walked away about mid December 2024. Prior to that I was stressed and my sleep pattern was so bad that I was only getting about three hours sleep per night. Over the last two weeks I have recovered my strength and am sleeping about 7 hours per night. I still wake up occasionally but turn over and go back to sleep. I've regained my own power and self worth. Prior to this connection I was self confident and outgoing. I feel it almost destroyed me. Thank you for your insights. 🇬🇧

[@AureliusAdviser]

Wow, I'm so moved by your message! I'm thrilled to hear that you've taken back control of your life, regained your strength, and are now sleeping better. It's amazing how toxic situations can drain our energy and affect our well-being. Your courage and self-awareness in recognizing the toll it was taking and walking away are truly inspiring. Remember that your worth and power come from within, and it's wonderful that you've reclaimed them. Thank you for sharing your story and acknowledging the role my content played in your journey. It means the world to me! Keep shining and taking care of yourself.

[@MarisolDiaz-il3cf]

Stay strong 💪🏻 I to have never felt so much anxiety 😥 I left him Dec 3 just trying to heal and grow from this situation. I’m proud of you 👏🏻

[@AureliusAdviser]

Aww, thank you so much for your kind words and support! 💕 I'm sending you lots of love and positive vibes as you navigate your own healing journey. 🌈 It's amazing that you're taking steps towards growth and self-care - keep shining! ✨ December 3rd was a brave day for you, and I'm proud of you too! 🙌

[@MarisolDiaz-il3cf]

@ thank you 🫶🏻🙏🏻

[@AureliusAdviser]

You're welcome! 😊

[@ronaldcastro-l1e]

I'm just starting my silence journey,I fell in love with a much younger woman who doesn't feel the same way and kinda mocked my attention towards her. I haven't blocked her yet on social media but in a strange way I know she has feelings for me. It's the age thing and our social circle that stands in the way, thanks for the vid,it's spot on regarding our situation " it's better to have loved and lost,than to have never loved again".. I'm not holding my breath but carrying on while I mend my heart, she is the first woman I felt love for since my wife passed away a year and a half ago...🌹

[@AureliusAdviser]

Ronald, thank you for sharing your heartfelt story. I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this, especially after losing your wife. It takes immense courage to open yourself up to love again. Remember that your feelings are valid, and it's okay to acknowledge them. Take care of yourself during this healing process, and don't give up on love. You deserve happiness, and it will come when the time is right. Sending you love and support

[@Wizard-Girl9]

Listen Ron: you learnt lesson that dating much younger females is fraught with problems & now you won’t go there again. Just bc someone is nice at beginning doesn’t guarantee they’ll remain loyal… find a gal who shares your values

[@alexzuccarelli]

I relate buddy. Same situation here. Big age gap. Definitely strong feelings on the other side, but that's the trigger. They don't want to feel anything. And with a younger woman, they have lots of options to keep them occupied so they never have to self reflect or change.

[@Wizard-Girl9]

@ Especially if they’re brainwashed Liberal loony millennials. Leftists make horrible partners!

[@LydiaKettle]

A lesson learned, now go ahead and block her. Nothing is ever going to come of this if she's the type to mock you, she has no respect for you.

[@motunrayoabodunrin3073]

I am 48 and is 75, i respect him a lot and even do his house chores for him. He never respected my opilon for once and was always feeling reluctant to my attend to need. On a fateful day he laid his hands on me and beat me , this happened after showing me the amount he collectsas pension at France, he even told me he would take me to France. But i called off the relationship by walking away after the man beats me for no reason. Afternoon 3months he sent me new year message and i never responded well but only responded for God sake and never cared yo hear from bim again

[@AureliusAdviser]

@motunrayoabodunrin3073 Sorry to hear you went through that traumatic experience. It's unacceptable for anyone to lay hands on you, regardless of age or relationship. Your decision to walk away was brave and necessary. You deserve respect and kindness. Take care of yourself and prioritize your well-being.

[@kimberlyhaunert7577]

I could write a book. Wow.

[@AureliusAdviser]

You've got a story to tell and I'm sure it would be an inspiring one! Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts!

[@alexzuccarelli]

These scenarios are to generalized. Lots of avoidant women have whole collections of men to turn to. There is zero reason for them to come back to anyone after no contact. They just hop to another choice.

[@AureliusAdviser]

That's a valid point. Not all avoidant individuals fit the same mold, and some may have multiple options to turn to. In those cases, the 'no contact' rule might not be as effective in prompting them to reevaluate the relationship. It's essential to recognize that every situation is unique, and what works for one person may not work for another."

[@AWA89r]

He’s jumped into rebound. It’s so disgusting 🤢! I wasted 18 years with him!

[@AureliusAdviser]

@AWA89r I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this. 18 years is a significant investment, and it's understandable that you're feeling hurt and frustrated. Remember that his actions don't define your worth, and you deserve so much better. Take care of yourself during this challenging time, and know that you're strong enough to move forward.

[@roxyjohnson5112]

I am sorry.

[@stephensummers1958]

I lost my wife of 18 1/2 years 2 months ago… I am being stonewalled. She offered counseling a month and a half ago but has not followed through. Just tells me she doesn’t know what she truly wants. I’ve been chasing her though. Guess it’s time to stop. But we have kids so we have to talk… not sure how to disappear on those terms. She has created a new life without us and hardly spends time with the kids. It’s so bizarre.

[@mg6315]

Was with my ex for 5 years this past year was rocky. So feb the lease was up and before that I would say from that May she was acting weird so fast for back to Feb lease up me and my children had our stuff packed and we moving she came to me crying saying she want to try to build back what we had I agree she told me she didn’t want me entering any females and I said vise versa she said okay but me not knowing she’s been sleeping with a female a know gay female since July of that previous year so for 6 months before she came talked to me in February and i didn’t find out until September so basically a full year later the relationship was private my ex didn’t want anyone to know so her friends her mom nobody knows but me her and the girl and I was like why did you do that and she said she felt unloved and mind you they only meet at bars get high and have sex in the car my ex don’t like her touching her in public so it’s a wild situation so during this time she would gas light me and act like I was this crazy person because she couldnt hide it so I packed me and my kids stuff moved to a hotel found a place out of town and left so long story longer the shits not worth it at all seriously it some many people in this world and she also has envoidance disorder so the hell with that

[@AureliusAdviser]

@mg6315 Wow, I'm so sorry you went through that traumatic experience. Being deceived, gaslit, and manipulated is never easy, especially when there are children involved. Your strength and resilience in recognizing the toxic situation and taking action to protect yourself and your kids are truly admirable. Remember that you deserve so much better than someone who would betray your trust and manipulate your emotions. Keep moving forward, focus on your healing, and know that you're worthy of a healthy, loving relationship. Thank you for sharing your story. Your courage might help others in similar situations find the strength to leave and start anew."