Your Style Isn't Getting You Women

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Fashion Elitist

Fashion Elitist

Күн бұрын

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intro: 0:00
Fashion = Personality: 2:00
self expression: 4:00
Getting women:6:03
Step 3: 10:06
into the darkness: 11:31
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@mishynaofficial
@mishynaofficial Жыл бұрын
As a woman, I want to say that women like the lack of any style in men the most. After all, this means that he does not waste time on choosing clothes and fashion, but lives a real life. If you are a teenager, then dress the same as your friends. Remember: do not overdo it with jewelry. Clean body, clean clothes. Silhouettes that suit you. And a fantastic perfume that you like. If you are working, choose one of these three styles: - casual style. - business style. Especially if you are a businessman or work in an office or lead a luxurious life. - rugged man style. For those who wear a uniform at work. Includes flannel shirts, parkas, rough shoes... Remember: no jewelry, except for a watch and sunglasses. No skinny jeans. Clean body, clean clothes. Silhouettes that suit you. And a fantastic perfume that you like. Remember, fashion devoid is the best thing to attract the majority of women.
@latinballa88
@latinballa88 Жыл бұрын
All of that is so true and so boring. I’m so glad I’m married and no longer dressing to attract women. I love my husband…
@matthewzaloudek
@matthewzaloudek Жыл бұрын
Is your first statement not contradicted by the entire rest of your comment? All the rest of your advice makes sense and could be boiled down to "wear relatively basic clothes that fit your body and match your lifestyle/job" but the first part could be interpreted as "try to look like you are so busy you can't even learn how to dress yourself well."
@mishynaofficial
@mishynaofficial Жыл бұрын
@@matthewzaloudek To achieve the desired effect, men do not need to follow trends or be a fashionista. But there is no need to wear clothes that are not the right size or, for example, absolutely children's colors and prints - this is common sense, regardless of gender. And women highly appreciate men with common sense. The styles I mentioned are not rigid. You can mix them all. They are all basic - they are worn by the majority. I wrote them to show that gothic, techwear, fashionista, any subcultural are the styles that should be avoided. Dress according to the situation: clothes for hiking in the mountains, sportswearfor the gym, casual or sporty for picnics, etc.
@estefania8015
@estefania8015 Жыл бұрын
As a woman, I don’t agree or feel identified with this comment, and I do like a guy who puts effort into his outfit. And if someone should be restricted/challenged here is our (women’s) way of thinking that if a guy puts a lot of effort on his clothing, he is intimidating/homosexual/whatever non sense integrated in our brain by machista expectation we also have.
@mariosspyrou1054
@mariosspyrou1054 Жыл бұрын
WHAT
@xobile.123
@xobile.123 Жыл бұрын
A woman talked to me once. I got anxious and started crying.
@sosilly.phoenix
@sosilly.phoenix Жыл бұрын
😨😨😨
@lizeby6884
@lizeby6884 Жыл бұрын
Haha same but the other way around
@Bopmyglizz
@Bopmyglizz Жыл бұрын
Haha you lame af😂😂
@21_God
@21_God Жыл бұрын
Real
@lumen1715
@lumen1715 Жыл бұрын
Make women cry
@Ace-Intervention
@Ace-Intervention Жыл бұрын
There’s a clothing style called just be you, wear what ever you want, don’t think of everyone else
@fashionelitist
@fashionelitist Жыл бұрын
self expression over everything
@Ibrahim.l20
@Ibrahim.l20 Жыл бұрын
L manz Be you but if being you is weird as shit Then don't be you Or change you
@daddydaddydo3694
@daddydaddydo3694 Жыл бұрын
@@Ibrahim.l20 adjusting till u like it works yo
@bartholomewcashmoney8220
@bartholomewcashmoney8220 Жыл бұрын
@@Ibrahim.l20 word
@basedchad6035
@basedchad6035 Жыл бұрын
These bluepilled Mf man
@radiobekot3821
@radiobekot3821 Жыл бұрын
if you wanna atract the majority of people you want to be just "stylish" wear stuff that you look good in. Sneaking a trend here and there will definitelly help but its not crutial. for most people, being put together and a litlle bit of a personal touch is enough
@fashionelitist
@fashionelitist Жыл бұрын
you basically summed up the video perfectly!
@greyfox4838
@greyfox4838 Жыл бұрын
@@fashionelitist bro the top comment is dogshit, typical "if men dress well they are feminine" bs, why did you pin it?
@franzzzko
@franzzzko Жыл бұрын
my style seems to scare all type of women
@fashionelitist
@fashionelitist Жыл бұрын
Who need women when you got da bois 🫡🫡🫡🫡
@cleaneropinion111
@cleaneropinion111 Жыл бұрын
Women are scared of men with personnality. I think that's a good thing for you...
@thesurgeon8012
@thesurgeon8012 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@itzzprod7523
@itzzprod7523 Жыл бұрын
I scare women without having a style
@willardtheband
@willardtheband Жыл бұрын
You’re doing it right
@rickbutnotrolled7607
@rickbutnotrolled7607 Жыл бұрын
i have extreme social anxiety,i’m scared to go on bus,go thru hallway normally without shaking and sweating but since i saw you on insta i thought that i should not care that much and finally change my style because maybe there is someone as cool as you in my stinky country who would appreciate my outfits. i changed my wardorbe and yesterday a bunch of gym boys called me a dementor then started to punch the air in front of my face so i feel like im on right way😀 thank you for your content JQ
@maminul739
@maminul739 Жыл бұрын
Wat country
@maminul739
@maminul739 Жыл бұрын
Wat country
@rickbutnotrolled7607
@rickbutnotrolled7607 Жыл бұрын
poland🤨🤨
@Arrogance.
@Arrogance. Жыл бұрын
Only in ohio
@ianlulu
@ianlulu Жыл бұрын
@@rickbutnotrolled7607 i took the wooooock to poland
@forcastfascistfuture
@forcastfascistfuture Жыл бұрын
You tow the line between "laser sharp analysis" and "completely talking out of your ass" so beautifully.
@PostingCringeOnMain
@PostingCringeOnMain Жыл бұрын
I think that's why I keep coming back despite having, at best, a passing interest in fashion but also want to look nice most of the time so I keep abreast of what people cooler than me say is good right now
@txitxs7552
@txitxs7552 Жыл бұрын
Hair looks healthy af
@ashleyvences-calderon6023
@ashleyvences-calderon6023 Жыл бұрын
I know it’s corny but having charisma and being comfortable in what your wearing goes far in terms of style and attractiveness, no matter what your style is. You could be wearing a hoodie but as long as you walk with your head up, people will notice you. I don’t have a definitive style but I draw inspiration from lots of places and past eras, from the 1960s with skinny suits and goth band tees, or these thrifted leather pants I bought to look like Jim Morrison (and I’m a girl). I do this to never run out of ideas of what to wear. Lol, I know I wasn’t the target audience for this video but as a bisexual woman, you can never go wrong with wanting to look hot for yourself.
@fashionelitist
@fashionelitist Жыл бұрын
I 100% agree like I said in the beginning of the video it should never be about the surface level idea getting another but doing it for yourself! It’s really all about confidence with yourself and how you project then when walking around.
@guillaumeraux
@guillaumeraux Жыл бұрын
This. It's not corny. It's everything! I dress quite minimalist and timeless. But with high-quality, well-designed pieces. I think I already explained it on another video from this channel somewhere. My approach to fashion was always the "capsule wardrobe" kind of philosophy, without overdoing it (all that before I knew it was even a thing). But with high-quality clothing, beautiful fabric, coherent style, timeless pieces that I would thrift or get from traveling the world and that would be quite unique. And although the overall style can be almost underwhelming sometimes, people, men and women, compliment me and my outfits on the regular. I get looks every time walking down the streets of Paris, even to get to the supermarket in sweatpants, or while I just wear an oversize blank white tee or grey hoodie and smart comfy pants with basic sneakers and 2 or 3 accessories But I walk with the confidence that the pieces I wear suit me and my style, that the clothes are well-designed and made of high-quality fabric, in countries or factories with decent working conditions and wages, from brands whose philosophy I align with. Clothing that I love, that I took the time to research and chose, that I feel super comfortable in, and that I can mix together in almost any situation without having to think about it. Seems like I wear basic things that anyone can pull off. And still, people notice. Every day. My friends consider me "the guy who knows his stuff". I'm just wearing jeans and a white tee today... Just not any jean, and not any white tee.
@SuomenPaska
@SuomenPaska Жыл бұрын
A healthy dose of vanity goes a long way, basically.
@bra7885
@bra7885 Жыл бұрын
its crazy how you described my entire fashion journey from y2k to all black only in like 30 seconds
@cameron2900x
@cameron2900x Жыл бұрын
All black fit perfect attire
@dwnturn
@dwnturn Жыл бұрын
So real
@leaky4464
@leaky4464 Жыл бұрын
Csnt be true
@Madchad6969
@Madchad6969 Жыл бұрын
Csnt
@spinalspiral9901
@spinalspiral9901 Жыл бұрын
I think it's really weird to live thru this generation and see a whole generation of dudes try so hard to get in a relationship and just have it NOT HAPPEN
@American_Imperialisst
@American_Imperialisst Жыл бұрын
Don't remind me 😪
@user-pv7vc9kp9k
@user-pv7vc9kp9k Жыл бұрын
@@American_Imperialisst youre single because youre an "american imperialist"
@wrcz
@wrcz Жыл бұрын
yeah I'm 34 and it's absolute bullshit nowadays. I feel so sorry for zoomers. 6-8 years ago something broke in the fabric of society, before that it was so extremely easy to meet people, now everybody is just closed off and interested in either themselves or supermodels. I've had my fun before so I'm okay but if I was a zoomer I'd probably end up being a virgin forever. the superficiality of these times is on another level. and I say that as a relatively good looking guy
@voronazavr
@voronazavr Жыл бұрын
@@user-pv7vc9kp9k be more inclusive, please, 👏invading 👏other 👏countries 👏is 👏okay 👏
@bam_bino__
@bam_bino__ 11 ай бұрын
I never even attempted
@magaxv1093
@magaxv1093 Жыл бұрын
This man has an incredible talent of saying something and at the same time saying nothing
@fashionelitist
@fashionelitist Жыл бұрын
you're mean :(
@asdfgasdfg91
@asdfgasdfg91 Жыл бұрын
@@fashionelitist While I wish you'd go into more detail on videos like your "essential shoes" video or "you suck at wearing black" I do feel you go through a cohesive narrative here not necessarily on how to do stuff but its reminiscent of a doomer 4chan post and it's better for it imo for what it's worth.
@frenki710
@frenki710 Жыл бұрын
JQ really went through my WHOLE fashion career bro damn
@fashionelitist
@fashionelitist Жыл бұрын
We all end in the darkness 🫡
@cycyoo261
@cycyoo261 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad i saw ur face on Instagram, changed my perspective about how to dress cus many people just follow the trend and not actually bring something new to the table
@miniamiiboo
@miniamiiboo Жыл бұрын
i really like his last point about dressing for yourself. As a woman, it seems extremely difficult to ever be satisfied with my appearance; i love wearing/would love to wear lots of varying styles from grunge to lolita, streetwear to boho, soft/dark academia, gothic, decora, y2k, etc. but sometimes i get the feeling the more unconventional my clothing is the less people will likely find me attractive. but like he said, the point of fashion should be expressing yourself, and it feels incredibly amazing when you reach that point in your fashion journey. since i stopped dressing for others ive felt so much better about myself. i very much view fashion in the same way someone would go about character design for a game or comic book or manga. in fact, i take most of my inspiration from fictional characters just because i feel like theyre often very creative and unique. i myself enjoy drawing and whenever i notice that i keep drawing a particular "thing" (such as heavy spiky lashes, spiky hair, chunky shoes, bright colors) i usually end up trying to wear those same things in real life. i do however understand that not everyone is out here trying to look like they just came straight out the met gala or a video game, and i admit that sometimes i dress down going out just because im not feeling it, but thats the point. i dress according to how i feel and what version of myself i feel like that day, so if you want to dress up then go ahead and go all out! if you tend to lean towards trendy fashion or simpler aesthetics theres also no shame in that if its what you feel best in. i also love this approach towards clothing because it doesnt box people into just one style, you can definitely wear different styles for different days or even mix them together in one outfit to make for a truly unique masterpiece. fashion is art and art is subjective. so yes, while a majority of people probably like the same general style, that doesnt mean people with more niche tastes dont also enjoy trending fashion and vice versa. and even if the average person doesnt like your personal style there is bound to be someone else who has the same vision as you and will appreciate your work 10x more. TLDR: wear what you want and dont think about what others would want you to wear. fashion is an art so you should have fun with how you express yourself. there will always be people who will like you despite what you wear and whats important is that you feel good about what youre wearing.
@adoniis90
@adoniis90 Жыл бұрын
highly positive i'm into darkwear and more grung-ish kinda clothes but the y2k is appealing to me rn and you've helped me alot
@oliviadellava4380
@oliviadellava4380 Жыл бұрын
Person attracted to men here: I love all you niche boys, I appreciate your effort way more than basic!!!!
@cameron2900x
@cameron2900x Жыл бұрын
🧢
@dimthecat9418
@dimthecat9418 Жыл бұрын
I am too, I wish there wasn’t this culture of dressing specially to attract women. Dressing for yourself is so much more attractive
@lewcus4318
@lewcus4318 Жыл бұрын
Tried this now I’m bi, broke, and got into a fight with an indie kid at a goodwill 😐😐
@MsJosh917
@MsJosh917 Жыл бұрын
I want mortal combat
@beanienclogs
@beanienclogs Жыл бұрын
I love 1 - these new types of videos popping up where people dive into stuff they're not even really on the side of and 2 - how it turned into eva ep 24-26 at the end. Stay lit people.
@sinosiayen
@sinosiayen Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the advice JQ I love the content 🧍‍♂️
@estefania8015
@estefania8015 Жыл бұрын
Loved this video! For what is worth and if it adds anything to your conclusion, I think what we all as human species are attracted to is *confidence*. So it just comes up to *you* feeling confident and truly projecting it, even in your awkwardness and in your quirkiness. It also very much depends on the type of person you want to attract, and knowing that not all people out there will find you attractive, and that’s fine. Best regards, A women 👩🏽
@fashionelitist
@fashionelitist Жыл бұрын
Great point! I have to 100% agree with this aswell
@duppa
@duppa Жыл бұрын
I actually see a lot of tiktoks from women complimenting the whole ‘old money aesthetic’ which is pretty minimal/basic. However, usually the pics they show are attractive, tall white guys so it’s hard to distinguish whether it’s the guy in the photo or the ‘style’ itself. I personally don’t think most women care how men dress as long as their outfit isn’t completely ridiculous, it’s mostly about being attractive from the get go.
@iqueron8890
@iqueron8890 Жыл бұрын
Agreed. As long as you attractive and don't dress weird, woman really don't care. Be confident, be a good person, take care of yourself, be interesting, and woman will find you attractive.
@iqueron8890
@iqueron8890 Жыл бұрын
@@eshay nah bro. Today beauty standard for men already changed. Even if you ugly and short, if you work out, have a nice body, clean, and dress nicely you will look cool.
@alexforce9
@alexforce9 Жыл бұрын
@@iqueron8890 Whut? No! Lmao. The beauty stadart for men is the same as it was 70 years ago. Just look at the prety half naked dancing boys on tic/tok and how many fans they have for being attractive.
@pablogats4627
@pablogats4627 Жыл бұрын
Realest comment here
@rillemnave1252
@rillemnave1252 Жыл бұрын
@@eshaygo back to 8chan blackpilled incel
@mamba9670
@mamba9670 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been following JQ for quite some time but just recently stumbled upon this video. The last part about him not pressuring people to turn into dark wear moves me. I’ve been getting into dark fashion since I found this channel and it has taught me much more than just fashion. I’m really glad I got to follow JQ early and will continue my support.
@richardpell
@richardpell Жыл бұрын
The confidence you have in your style will help
@tobigruenthaler
@tobigruenthaler Жыл бұрын
Great video and I totally agree with the dress for the impression you try to get part (not just with girls). For me when I get dressed I mostly do it for myself and I decide based on the weather, how I feel and what how I wanna be seen in the public. I definitely have my essential clothes, that look great even with less effort, but there also things, that your average NPC would never wear, but that’s the fun part, that I totally enjoy
@nsquared3504
@nsquared3504 Жыл бұрын
That “Attack!” shirt is literally the coolest shirt I’ve ever seen in my life. You wear it so well. I’m jealous.
@Calebyeeepp
@Calebyeeepp Жыл бұрын
Hoodie and a flannel usually works for me. Long hair definitely helps too 👌
@thatoneuser8600
@thatoneuser8600 Жыл бұрын
Flannel layered over a grey hoodie with grey denim pants? Sounds like a cool minimalistic outfit idea ngl
@ember24k80
@ember24k80 Жыл бұрын
bro i was waiting for a video explaining the aspects of a good outfit
@fashionelitist
@fashionelitist Жыл бұрын
Layering, textures, silhouette, proportions, and accessories. I’ll be making singular videos for each of those soon!
@ember24k80
@ember24k80 Жыл бұрын
@@fashionelitist Thanks, could you also make a video about pants like the ones you made about shoes and bags?
@fashionelitist
@fashionelitist Жыл бұрын
@@ember24k80 oh like the different cuts of pants?
@ember24k80
@ember24k80 Жыл бұрын
@@fashionelitist yeah, and also info about textures and diferent materiais
@juliannesweeten5203
@juliannesweeten5203 Жыл бұрын
as a woman, im pretty sure women tend to like confidence and hygiene the most in terms of appearance
@aurin_komak
@aurin_komak Жыл бұрын
and when you wear clothes you like, you feel confident
@dimthecat9418
@dimthecat9418 Жыл бұрын
I’m attracted to men and hygiene and fashion are the most important for me. I think it makes them unique and interesting. I don’t really mind confidence since shy people can be cute
@andreqxlbb1
@andreqxlbb1 10 ай бұрын
Rip hygiene i take a shower twice a week💀💀
@Jaiven1
@Jaiven1 3 ай бұрын
@@andreqxlbb1 ew bro
@andreqxlbb1
@andreqxlbb1 3 ай бұрын
@@Jaiven1 bro that was 6 months ago i got a glow up now i do it everyday 💀💀💀
@mfillest
@mfillest 10 ай бұрын
I love sisyphus 55 and housecat’s music :) elite music taste
@wildo6832
@wildo6832 11 ай бұрын
Wear what you want with confidence. my history teacher would always come to our school wearing flashy watches and nice suits, he had some kind of charisma that made everyone enjoy talking to him. I remember one day one of the students asked him why he dresses so formal since it's just school. He told us that when we look good, we feel good. I wear what I like and that gives me a lot of confidence. Kind of embarrassing but I had a lot of social anxiety and trouble talking to girls. The clothes I wear now are probably not going to be super attractive to girls, but I sure as hell love them and it makes me way more confident and outgoing. Confidence is going to be more attractive then anything you could wear.
@skxlter5747
@skxlter5747 Жыл бұрын
My style if vintage Streetwear, I mix grunge wear with Streetwear and give off a vintage aesthetic to it and I love it
@terrywong7677
@terrywong7677 Жыл бұрын
fantastic video!!!!
@alfred8936
@alfred8936 Жыл бұрын
The self-secure guy who stays busy doing his own thing, takes care of himself, and doesn't reek of desperation and loneliness is going to stand head and shoulders above most in this day and age Although being tall also helps
@gridiron8870
@gridiron8870 Жыл бұрын
The average guy isnt tall tho
@latinballa88
@latinballa88 Жыл бұрын
Me literally before the video even started: you’re attracting the homies
@soto_life_guru
@soto_life_guru Жыл бұрын
I like how this guy is like a mix of self improvement and fashion
@zyglrokss
@zyglrokss Жыл бұрын
That’s basically a video essay. So cool
@martyr1762
@martyr1762 Жыл бұрын
the case becomes even funnier when you are a woman who intimidates men with a niche style, especially something in dark clothing spectrum
@-Ehrenbruder-Sam-
@-Ehrenbruder-Sam- Жыл бұрын
I never felt intimidatet by someones Style...😂 But I get what you mean...
@maxbosman5077
@maxbosman5077 Жыл бұрын
W video as always🥰
@Whodnl
@Whodnl Жыл бұрын
We love this video
@peanutallergy3259
@peanutallergy3259 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I really mean it you like my older brother who always got my back. Thank you again my “CHAD BRO”
@thatasmrchannel3473
@thatasmrchannel3473 Жыл бұрын
When I started taking fashion serious I would follow the advice of alpha M and those type of youtuber which was that Manly type of style even tho I liked the style I wasn’t me I dress like that because someone said it would look good so I started as I wanted to but made it more fashionable and the style I have right is perfect for me it really fit me
@cloutcheese
@cloutcheese Жыл бұрын
JQ will forever be my darkwear influence
@jonferngut
@jonferngut Жыл бұрын
my fashion style is to wear plain stuff with no brands. I´m of course maidenless.
@osatoharuna
@osatoharuna Жыл бұрын
you're gonna blow up i can sense it. lowkey made me depressed but i subbed ok
@darienneff4540
@darienneff4540 Жыл бұрын
I don’t even know how to process what I just saw, but thanks
@thebananacar21
@thebananacar21 Жыл бұрын
😂😂I'm the short Carhartt boy who got the tall emo girl, anything is possible boys
@-Ehrenbruder-Sam-
@-Ehrenbruder-Sam- Жыл бұрын
...😂
@oscarrage
@oscarrage Жыл бұрын
okay but how to get a goth gf
@maxbosman5077
@maxbosman5077 Жыл бұрын
Just get one😐
@ember24k80
@ember24k80 Жыл бұрын
become goth gf
@fashionelitist
@fashionelitist Жыл бұрын
@@ember24k80 I like this mindset
@noahrudolph9066
@noahrudolph9066 Жыл бұрын
Got mine by being a genuinely nice person. also don't have a too basic style. Most goth girl I know don't have a type based on fashion except that you should have your own sense of style. I'm mostly vintage with some punk influence, but not so much that I would stand out in a crowd. Still enough to not "look boring"
@vlon3lyboiii666
@vlon3lyboiii666 Жыл бұрын
Goth girls choose you unfortunately
@sonsauvage
@sonsauvage Жыл бұрын
if the choice is between dressing how I please and never having a romantic relationship again, vs the alternative, honestly that's a touch choice but i'm probably going with the path that gives me more agency
@Cihk
@Cihk Жыл бұрын
7:42 WOO RANCID!! Goated band. I have the same ...And Out Come The Wolves tshirt
@arman-eb3vv
@arman-eb3vv Жыл бұрын
im almost at step 3 but i dont feel like i belong in only 1 side. some day i wear a tie and a shirt with a jacket and other day a hoodie and a cargo. dont know what to do rn just buying stuff that i like.
@PolyphiaGroupie
@PolyphiaGroupie Жыл бұрын
Fashion is just like art. "The best art divides the audience" -Rick Rubin If u dress basic nobody will have strong feelings about the way you look. If u dress in your own very unique style some people are gonna hate it and some people are gonna love it. Nobody is gonna start a conversation with a compliment like "I love your style" if u dress basic. F.e. if u love music and wear band merch a lot you'll immediatly attract 100 other musicians you can make a band with XD TL;DR: your own unique style -> attract people who are more fun to be around to you basic/mainstream style -> attract more people but few of them are gonna share ur interests Be bold, not boring :)))
@Somnia_
@Somnia_ Жыл бұрын
What if I'm tryna get both 😤
@NOKTRNL.
@NOKTRNL. 23 күн бұрын
I’m more of a y2k basic person, probably cause I grew up in that era as a kid born in 2000 and back then it was cool but it needed something that it has today and I’m glad it’s made a comeback, it is over saturated now but I like it, I can’t do the extras like a trench coat and some crazy ass cape looking thing but I like seeing people express themselves, for me clothes is an opener, the person makes the clothes the clothes don’t make the person. Anyway what are those pants in the thumbnail?? lmao
@Chill-mm4pn
@Chill-mm4pn Жыл бұрын
Building confidence and marketing yourself to the right partner is something you should be focused on. You are what you attract. I tell guys to go somewhere (if possible with a female friend or family member. No not your mom.) and see who's checking you out. Your friend can point out the girls you weren't paying attention to. Those are the ones you should walk over and start a conversation with. Just say "Hey, how are you doing?" Don't approach random women (aka harassing them). Just saying if you notice someone locking eyes with you, she's interested. She might look away if she saw that you noticed her checking you out. Just be polite and take an interest in her as a person.
@a02adri7
@a02adri7 Жыл бұрын
Idk man i just watched 2 of your videos couse they popped up in my recomended, so being bombarded about so much filosofical stuff feels a bit heavy... But i idk my dad bought this videogame shirt i wanted from cristmas they didn't have my size so we had to buy a 2XL and i love that shirt, and someday i thought "hey that would look cool with those pajama pats i have, but they don't have pockets migt have to buy a litlle bag too" so i bought one, i didn't tried it yet becouse is going to be summer soon and that shirt is like a fat one and also becouse the struggling with my confidence but the last thing is going good so i will give it a try on a coldish day, i kinda think that's what you mean about findig the style you like, i'm not 100% sure
@KierMailan
@KierMailan Жыл бұрын
If anything the way I dress intimidates women or they think I'm gay. Thou I am complimented on my style of dress regularly by men & women. It's nice, but ultimately confidence is key regardless of how you look. Dress nice, but in a way that makes YOU more comfortable/confident in urself and how you express yourself/lifestyle. Whether that's more simple, clean or super niche. Ultimately, put some effort but no amazing body nor amazing style will secure you a lady. Confidence and being rich will lol.
@georgieieie
@georgieieie Жыл бұрын
Not me thinking this was a Frugal Esthetics video skwoapskskw
@angelodanzeleustaquio8870
@angelodanzeleustaquio8870 Жыл бұрын
Hey, it's really hot here in the Philippines and I cannot layer up without getting massive sweat, do you have any suggestions on what to wear, like lightweight fits.
@ColdLikeDecember_
@ColdLikeDecember_ Жыл бұрын
I just really like wearing baggy jeans and baggy pants mostly with either a crewneck or something tight like a tight long sleeve or tight shirt but I want to go deeper into fashion that shit seem lit
@rosabela9308
@rosabela9308 Жыл бұрын
Yes it is, its getting me
@a.o.skurtt
@a.o.skurtt 5 ай бұрын
the pics could be up on the screen a bit more, Im often watching while I grind stuff in an MMO not always watchin screen. Awesome style!
@neptunetk1869
@neptunetk1869 8 ай бұрын
I love your channel reminds me a bit of frugal aesthetic from 6 years ago gives me the same vibes keep up the good work!
@gonzalo6890
@gonzalo6890 Жыл бұрын
Pro tip: just don't wear any clothes at all. People will not stop looking at you
@seriousmechanicing
@seriousmechanicing Жыл бұрын
i felt a real kinship with you in the end. hope you’re not as sad as you joke. been there it’s fixable
@kantix3392
@kantix3392 Жыл бұрын
great video
@justAcarat17
@justAcarat17 Жыл бұрын
As a woman speaking, this is ONLY my personal opinion. Most woman I know, we're talking 18-23, have told me that they like clean styles a lot. Means, not overdressing and don't even try the 20 chains around your neck or wrist. They do appreciate streetstyle too, depending on person ofc. In my opinion, don't overdo it but keep being yourself. As long as you have the confidence to pull off whatever you're wearing, girls might not be running after you, but they'll surely appreciate it. So good luck to anyone reading this, have a nice day and stay hydrated!
@-Ehrenbruder-Sam-
@-Ehrenbruder-Sam- Жыл бұрын
Thats basically what my friends and colleagues told me...😂 I'll keep wearing what I feel comfortable with, don't really care if its actually trendy or not...🤷‍♂️
@wendemuth
@wendemuth Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@patwoods420
@patwoods420 Жыл бұрын
Lol i unno why i listened too this, I already know i can wear anything and rock it
@vibesxyt7368
@vibesxyt7368 Жыл бұрын
I can't explain but " Yes " Fashion gets you woman ! Specially when you are born with good looking and you live in fashion 🐉
@butteye7951
@butteye7951 7 ай бұрын
I haven’t even done bare minimum and I’m watching about “the abyss” lmao
@blakk6lass
@blakk6lass Жыл бұрын
I wear what I want and take pride in it, and apparently ppl on hinge appreciate it too
@doc4754
@doc4754 Жыл бұрын
I get girls and they compliment the way I get my outfits done but info is info always if you want to get girls go on and talk to them mostly they expect you to start the convo or something
@riceball_4478
@riceball_4478 Жыл бұрын
I LOVE woman.
@abnormalization8825
@abnormalization8825 Жыл бұрын
Woman don’t LOVE me tho 💔
@jon33709
@jon33709 Жыл бұрын
@@abnormalization8825 your mom loves you ❤
@Jonny23
@Jonny23 Жыл бұрын
bro u live in my city and ur right u are the reason
@gowanator
@gowanator Жыл бұрын
I'm going to need a link to where you got the shirt you're wearing in this vid
@AbsoluteAbsurd
@AbsoluteAbsurd Жыл бұрын
Its not getting me girls but its getting me guys dressed like girls, which is what I'm going for ;)
@bigdaddyslick4961
@bigdaddyslick4961 9 ай бұрын
Best of both worlds
@gamernation5656
@gamernation5656 Жыл бұрын
Ayo Ezra Miller here helping us thank you 💀🔥
@notmyjeans6279
@notmyjeans6279 Жыл бұрын
where did you get your t shirt its fire
@Yeye10000
@Yeye10000 11 ай бұрын
felt like therapy
@casualsuede
@casualsuede 9 ай бұрын
I see fashion as a good condiment or seasoning like ketchup or basil. Salt and Pepper help enhance the flavor or steak, but women make their choice based on wanting a good strip or ribeye.....and no amount of seasoning will impress someone who got a cheap eye of round piece of meat.
@theasleephylianlclara9277
@theasleephylianlclara9277 Жыл бұрын
Even if i'm trying to be a fashion girlie nowadays, we actually don't have our expectations very high for men's fashion for the most part. You see, there are even videos out there asking "is this a fit or he's a man?".
@leninfeetpics
@leninfeetpics Жыл бұрын
What if I'm not into women? 🤔
@Sweet4chokoreeto
@Sweet4chokoreeto Жыл бұрын
You'll win, lots of queer people loves fashion. Use a detail with the colors of your preference and you'll attract your people. Even aro/ace people go on fun group dates with coordinated outfits. At least I see this in smaller and bigger cities here in Chile.
@majora231
@majora231 2 ай бұрын
Then you play the game in easy mode ;)
@wishes_._
@wishes_._ Жыл бұрын
Do a hair video. Like go through all your hair care products
@fashionelitist
@fashionelitist Жыл бұрын
i have one coming out today actually !
@carpet163
@carpet163 Жыл бұрын
If anything just don't dress sloppy. Some days I like to dress formal with a flat cap and a nice coat. Other days I just put on a simple t and a pair of jeans. Just be comfortable while also being clean.
@homaneeshomane
@homaneeshomane Жыл бұрын
Checked the attached links. What’s the song/beat that starts at 6:05?
@BLACKDISC
@BLACKDISC Жыл бұрын
yin and yang - ohh nvm
@dathotbox
@dathotbox Жыл бұрын
I'm pansexual and wear a variety of styles. Its typically women who will compliment me on my style which I like but it feels so much better when a guy compliments me idk why haha maybe it's because its so rare for me
@LC-ik3we
@LC-ik3we Жыл бұрын
My fashion gets me my type
@hirobiro015
@hirobiro015 10 ай бұрын
now 🦁 lets move onto the next thing
@Saif-eh2sy
@Saif-eh2sy Жыл бұрын
this was just a way for jq to have a fren down in the abyss with him and buddy im here with you
@inlesinlet
@inlesinlet 17 күн бұрын
I'm a woman (-ish). I would like to think I'd compliment you on the street, but truth is, I'd be too shy. Not because *you're* intimidating, because I don't think you are, it's just talking to random people is intimidating in and of itself. So here's a not-on-the-street compliment: Your style is awesome! I think those rings are cool, and your glasses suit you, and that blue on the shirt is really nice :)
@ayylmao8562
@ayylmao8562 Жыл бұрын
I get the most attention/compliments from women when I’m wearing the absolute most basic clothes, jays, beige baggy/kind of baggy pants, a flannel and black shirt underneath, like a NPC from 2019, I don’t really care about fashion that much I just like looking good.
@vlon3lyboiii666
@vlon3lyboiii666 Жыл бұрын
@@untilco facts tell him bro
@vlon3lyboiii666
@vlon3lyboiii666 Жыл бұрын
@@untilco they like guys who dress mid so they lacking sense of style doesn’t get exposed
@-Ehrenbruder-Sam-
@-Ehrenbruder-Sam- Жыл бұрын
​​@@untilco , exactly! Thats what I see everyday here in Munich!
@alexisinhistory5659
@alexisinhistory5659 Жыл бұрын
Do you consider fitted hats as a fast fashion item??
@fashionelitist
@fashionelitist Жыл бұрын
hats have utility but it really depends if you wear it out alot but its different from the constant purchasing of clothing
@dave2808
@dave2808 Жыл бұрын
I would do things like tie my hoodie strings together, wear Beats Flex headphones around my neck, like if girls say they find it interesting
@narutofan4545
@narutofan4545 11 ай бұрын
Dude look, at the rings. This is a fashion Chanel and he's wearing a hot topic set fml
@Sulky_313
@Sulky_313 Жыл бұрын
I'm a woman watching a guy talking about how to get women.
@terra5857
@terra5857 Жыл бұрын
same
@Darth_Insidious
@Darth_Insidious Жыл бұрын
Gay?
@maxaronson1017
@maxaronson1017 Жыл бұрын
Look I'm not going to base my fashion choices on a group of people that is, for all I know, imaginary.
@oijosukke1214
@oijosukke1214 Жыл бұрын
Thank god I already have a gf so I don’t need to worry about having to dress accordingly, though I I love the content, keep it up JQ! 😃
@alexforce9
@alexforce9 Жыл бұрын
You actually do have to worry lol. Just coz you have a gf doesnt mean it cant end tommorow. Attraction is not something that stays the same. Its always changing. It can go up and down.
@wrcz
@wrcz Жыл бұрын
lol this guy thinks he doesn't have to worry anymore it's been 5 months, did she cheat on you already?
@oijosukke1214
@oijosukke1214 Жыл бұрын
@@wrcz nope but she broke up with me 😃
@wrcz
@wrcz Жыл бұрын
@@oijosukke1214 good, now the game begins
@exertioz
@exertioz Жыл бұрын
Psssst whats the song at 6:04
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