anybody wanna be friends then?

I've had Long Hair for Years of my life, both Long Regular Hair, & Long Dreads, I tend to grow my Hair out a Year or 2 then Buzz it off. I get comments either way. Don't overthink it. Aside From Washing & Drying the Maintenance Shouldn't be this much work then short hair & maintaining constant haircuts to maintain that style.

I know your off the headphone wave Double Virgo goes hard

dude I can relate to this so much.

they are not, if you are ever bored, try loving everyone

Some of my favs (in no particular order): 1) MFK Gentle Fluidity Silver 2) Xerjoff Naxos 3) Armani Acqua di Gio Parfum 4) YSL Myslf Edp 5) placeholder for a good Oud scent (I like Oud)…narrowing it down, getting closer.

Not gonna lie, this is genuinely one of your best videos yet. And really an eye opener for me, i needed this advice, thanks a lot.

ngl i think being autistic has made it much easier for me to filter out non close friendships, i have like 0 occurence in my mind to ever pay attention to whatever social rules there are and it's very easy for myself to open up to people, i think it scares off a lot of ppl which is lame bc at times it can def lead me to feeling like im totally alone but the friendships i do make all feel very close and genuine to me

I actually only talk about vulnerable and personal issues with male friends. Idk who did that study... It's never gone well when I open up to a woman that isn't my sister or grandma. All those things guys are worried about are honestly more to do with how women react to guys being vulnerable. Not most men. Not a single male friend I have/guy I know confides with any female friend, peer, or even family member. Maybe that's just me or the circles I'm in but I notice more and more guys opening up about stuff and it being treated well by other guys. Then they tell that to their girlfriend and she leaves the dude. The romantic partners I've had for the longest are the ones I don't open up to.

0:47 man respect for sitting down with those isseye miyaki pants lol. If I had those, i would never sit when I'm wearing them😂

This is something I really wish I understood going into college. I thought I was close to everyone I met and wanted to be close to anyone I met since I had not many friends in HS. Nowadays, I realized I came off as too desperate and also realized I didn’t click with a lot of them anyway. These “party” friends ended up going there separate ways and I don’t really talk with them anymore. I think college would’ve been MORE fun if I hadn’t brought the wrong people in too close. I’m honestly way happier with the fewer close friends I have now. I don’t see them as often but when I do it’s a good time and I know they appreciate me for who I really am : )

I refresh my friends and friend groups annually and I envy those who have had the same friends since middle school

it’s not that deep

my average day isnt designed to find new friends. and the places that I go regularly are bad to find friends and I would go through years without finding anyone. that's why applied to courses where other people are also there to learn smth specific, and for that I spent money. I saw it as the only way, and if I don't find any friends there I think I'm lost. Im also going to the army soon so that's a potential place aswell, I just hope I can find people that are not assholes, as online I read that a few couple of functions in the army in our country have a lot of really really bad people in them, and I don't wanna say the words so I don't get flagged by youtube or smth. It has to do with 1939 👨🏻

women are wayyyy more empathetic than most men, thats why showing emotion around your guy friends is gay

This is the saddest video on so many levels. If you’re taking notes from this emotionally stunted goblin I’m afraid you may be too far gone.

bro did you public any paper yet? if so i wanna read them

its like humans are turning into animals.

third world lmao justified

But i also think this argument of ur just buying what’s trendy is not very constructive claiming thats not them expressing themselves Someone not needing trendy stuff is a form of expression Same way someone always needing whats new and trendy is also a form of expression Dont get me wrong is their items they cud get that arent trendy or thats not overpriced with much better quality for sure but that comes with time I feel like most ppl are brand whores when entering fashion unless ur parents where designers or seamstress

I would be interested in hearing other answers from people around my age (30s). Great video though.

To your point about: emotions gay. I totally agree and I think this really shows in the reactions of just guy friends when I start to talk about things that hurt me when I am, in a bar for example. It is like I broke a rule, an unspoken social contract. And, I also think that because men view relationships or platonic friendships with women through that lense, they start to beleive that THEY need a GF at all costs. I see people crash when they can't get one. Well, of course, if that is their only source of emotional catharisis, then yeah... of course they gonna feel like everything is terrible all of a sudden

Friendship elitist ❤

real

wake up babe its jq christmas

I used to be an outgoing person, but once I realized I wasn’t getting anything meaningful out of it I gave up. I texted first every time and understood that no one really cared. With such a decline in emotional intelligence/maturity especially in gen z, it seems impossible.

Beautiful video 😊

I don’t believe the stats on this

I just ate a cookie I’m tooo fat for friends rn tbh

So many dumb things said by everyone in this vid lol. Nothing substantial or illuminating.

No. There is nobody to talk to.

why are all these points so forced and strawmaned . i feel like you made this video for yourself in analyzing your own relationships rather than other's realities when those realities are too thick and nebulous most times to apply theory to them. although if you're in vapid circles (like fashion circles) you tend to see what you're talking about. I'm happy that you're realizing how superficial relationships built on top of materialism are. It's like watching sheldon cooper theorize about making friends.

Banger vid Mr. Q

How are these people so popular? Is this normal?

When society make life a everyday competition you can never have real friends

in other words be yourself dont follow the newest trend

throughout life your social circle will inevitably shrink, that's as true as the lines on the side of your nose getting longer or the number of heartbeats being limited to each heart, but as you create meaning in life you get "busy" and you find it would be hard by default to keep up with as a wide circle as you had in high school

Love u and thanks

A year ago I lost the best friend I’ve ever had. That hit hard. The second thing that hit the hardest was the realization I will never have a friendship like that again. I miss him and think about him every single day.

thanks bro, this is the video that i needed ❤

I love how my two favorite fashion channels (you and frugal aesthetic) just randomly get mad philosophical 😂

Almost all modern friendships exists out of mutual ignorance. The more books you read, the lesser friends you have.

I will befriend you

I love a good superficial friendship but have yet to experience something more than that

Sick video, your efforts and wholesome responses from the interviews were a treat for the holidays. Cheers JQ.

Please as a man tell your homies about your emotions… if you get sit down for something like that I wouldn’t call that a friend

Aw I liked the other thumbnail but this shit fire

what is a close friend to you?

YohJQ getting us in the feels w this one 😔

The only real way to make friends is over a WS