The BIGGEST Problem With Feminism

[@petersaccocia4510]

I'm in my early 60s now. My mom is in her 80s now. We had a traditional household. Mom worked in the home and dad worked outside the home. When my mom said recently "I wasn't paid for that work", I asked her to reflect on that a bit more. I explained to her that dad was only able to work outside the home because she worked inside the home. They both had their roles and it was BOTH types of work that allowed money to enter the home.

[@tolpacourt]

I'm in my sixties too. My mother worked full time and hired a nanny for us while we were little. Me and my siblings resented her for that. When my sister started having children she stayed at home and took care of them. Sister waited until her kids were in high school before resuming work. I was so glad she chose motherhood over her career.

[@Guildofarcanelore]

"I wasn't paid for that work.." but neither did she pay any of the bills. Property tax/rent, water, heat, electricity, insurance, phone, cable, groceries. She might have used some of those, and I doubt your father ever denied her any of those things.

[@Neoteny374]

Reverse the script: " I stayed in a secure, climately controlled house while my husband worked outside in the sweltering heat" Which is a slave?

[@JennySparkz]

@@Guildofarcanelore God bless you for this. It AMAZES me how people NEVER state this when the "I wasn't paid for this" nonsense is raised.

[@kenandrieling5885]

It's because feminism is based on victimhood and nothing else

[@ebradley2306]

I agree with Zuby. Whether you chose to act on it or not females and males have distinct biological imperatives.

[@tscott9005]

I agree with this conversation. The problem with the argument of the percentage of executives per gender is that why it is only a fight for equality in the executive positions and highest paying areas but no fight for construction, sanitation, oil rigging, positions? Why is it ok for only men to have those positions but not for the highest paying jobs? It should be whether or not you are qualified for the position not just spreading it out because a specific demographic aren’t in there.

[@sienkiewiczmonika1161]

It means that men can't get pregnant and/or breastfeeding their child.

[@ScottWilliamEvans]

Funnily enough, my nerdy way of coming to appreciate my manhood comes from Warhammer 40k. The cry of "look to your war-gear," impelled me to use my masculinity as a guide to what I should expect of myself, and what I should provide to society.

[@Ozzzzz861]

They're coming after 40K now with the Custodes changes recently. Enjoy it while it lasts.

[@masterpoe4942]

Being a parent.. Mother and Father..is the most important "work" there is, ever was, or ever will be!...

[@barneyrubble8590]

Well said 👍

[@ElectricSoul828]

Women and men we need to appreciate each other more and our unique gifts.

[@NattyGymBro]

Men appreciate women's role. It's this feminist ideology that looks down upon the roles of women.

[@D3usEX.]

@@NattyGymBro The ideology is marxism, feminism is it's tool.

[@ChickenSoupMusic]

That doesn’t earn the government or corporations more money

[@copperhead2694]

@@NattyGymBrothe argument of some feminists is .. what is a women’s role, and who decides that? That is where the arguments start .

[@Louisemel902]

I was taken in by the "girl boss" narrative until I was about 30. I went to an all-girls school and the focus was always on university, career, success. Future motherhood was NEVER mentioned. Luckily I was able to meet a good man and have children age 32, but I worry about all the other women who've missed the boat and will wake up age 45 and realise they've made a huge mistake. Yes, women can have rewarding and fulfilling careers, but the truth nobody talks about is that motherhood is the most joyful and meaningful thing a woman can experience in her life.

[@thewolf5459]

The weird thing is that I don't get paid for mowing the grass, the other yardwork, fixing the kitchen sink, making my own plumbing repairs, home improvements, etc. Nor do I get paid for protecting my family. You know the difference? We don't go about complaining about it and starting an entire ideological movement.

[@Earthtime3978]

The problems with feminism are obvious. If the playing field is equal, why is the man still held liable for the bill on a date? Why do women get a pass when striking a man? In other words, women pull out the frail, helpless act when it monetarily or otherwise benefits them.

[@NateWilliams-h8q]

Schroedingers feminism. All of them do this.

[@matthewlynch903]

Its only a small minority of women that benefit from working outside the home. The rest are just paying bills.

[@73cidalia]

Exactly. There have always been female nurses, teachers, etc., because they had a passion for that work, and early feminism was just looking for more career opportunities and fairness in the workplace and to have more choice. It was never meant to force women into the workplace and out of their homes. They were just looking to be treated like thinking adults. But people always have to take everything to an extreme. An over correction, if you will. And now we see the pushback. Hopefully, this leads to balance for everyone at some point.

[@ELee-zv5ud]

@@73cidalia That is the narrative, however if one reads the writing of the foundational feminists you will find that it was driven by political motives. Marxism and lesbian goals were core topics in their writing. It was sold to the masses as empowerment. Women have been had. I'm a retired female academic and when it became the "thing" in the 70s I read the foundational documents and realized it was not "female empowerment" but subjecting women & children to growing the economy and the control of the state.

[@RKmndo]

My mother made 6 figures...in the 90s. So did my stepdad. We all still did chores, but I never saw my stepdad behind a vacuum, and I never saw my mom behind a lawnmower or snowshovel. They worked slightly staggered shifts from each other, so we were never latch-key kids. They invested together and retired somewhat wealthy when my mom was 50. They lived a pretty good life together along the way. If there aren't pre-school/home-school kids in the household, I don't see why both adults in a marriage wouldn't generate income and work towards financial independence/security. Modern Western housekeeping is EASY now. Making money from home is EASY now. Banking/Shopping from home is EASY now. In some cultures, grandparents are in the same household too. I'd LOVE to be able to help raise my grandkids someday. Many other people are like me. Ask your parents. A lot of lazy, entitled, modern, Western women just want to live a life of leisure. Meanwhile, we have no-fault divorce, paternity fraud, babytrapping, false allegations, wages that don't keep up with inflation, employers without loyalty, exorbitant income-based alimony, exorbitant income-based child support, feminist judges/authorities rather than humanist judges/authorities, etc. I'd feel safer in the woods, with a bear, than in a courtroom with a feminist judge. Aren't judges supposed to be fair and impartial HUMANISTS? Grizzle, grizzle!

[@baseballsux2]

“The basketball team is 100% male and 80% black. If we want to be more successful and win a championship, we need more diversity and inclusion”, said no one, ever.

[@georgeokechi7540]

To be honest with you. I want the best of the best don't care what colour!

[@kaybrown7733]

Being in the NBA isn't available to everyone, nor does everyone need to be in it. However, bills must be paid whether you're single or married. I should be allowed to go as far as my talent and intellect can take me without obstacles because I'm a woman.

[@TheAustrianPainter87]

​@@kaybrown7733The only obstacle is your competence. And hear me out..sometimes biology has something to say about that.

[@kaybrown7733]

@@TheAustrianPainter87 lol these nutjobs that you clearly support want the obstacles that my grandma's generation faught to get rid of back in place, and misogyny is real whether you acknowledge it or not. So what job can men do that women just can't due to our biology? I'll wait!

[@baseballsux2]

@kaybrown7733 1 day ago “… I should be allowed to go as far as my talent and intellect can take me without obstacles because I'm a woman.” I concur. Who’s stopping you? Are you alleging that, here in 21st century western culture, your status as a female is being unfairly and/or unjustly discriminated against in terms of employment opportunity?

[@metalrules1135]

It's not about equality. It's about dominance.

[@kc270352]

special treatment

[@AmyDawson-s1d]

Her last point was amazing. All our strengths are given us to serve others, all our weaknesses are opportunities to be served. As we live in interdependence, rather than competition, that's when we'll see flourishing. The battle of the sexes is foolish. Let's honour each other in complementarity.

[@copperhead2694]

Yes , if we lived in a utopian world where absolutely everyone believed the same way. But we don’t . And to think what is best for me is also best for some else is not being realistic. My mom lived in the era where a women only had one choice , marriage and kids . And at threat time you usually married with in a certain mile radius of where you lived .. so your options were real slim. Her first husband, wouldn’t stop fooling around on her , after she had 5 kids worth him, and he took off on a drinking binge and snacking up with a under age girl , he was finally arrested and she could divorce him. She tried to work and take care of her kids but society wasn’t set up for her to do so , and the government threatened to take her kids . So she married a man who said he would love her and take care of her .. well after adding 4 more kids ( because birth control was not wildly available and frowned upon. ) He turned out to be a drunk and abusive. So now she has to deal with that. She gets the courage to leave him. She now had more kids to take care of couldn’t afford to. And society as a whole didn’t except divorced single mothers . Finally she was able to live with her mother and find a factory job. She had to work hard for many years to be able to afford to take care of us . Some times I wonder how different her life could have been if she had the opportunities I had or even my children now have . So I get it .. family IS important, but so is Just basic means to have a chance to succeed and. It have to live in constant abuse.

[@andrewmack2161]

My issue with Modern Feminism is that it's only success is in making (almost?) everyone unhappy in the long-term. A few may have short-term happiness but lt's only short time for most (all?), which is proven by middle-aged women's anti-depressants dependencies.

[@snowheader2200]

Who cares? I doubt single men care.

[@daltondennis7096]

In the modern age i actually agree single men dont care anymore but a lot of that is because even when we do we know we will be shot down and dismissed entirely by feminism society in general doesnt really care about single men or theyre issues so single men stopped caring about society ​@snowheader2200

[@Justmonika6969]

​@@snowheader2200 We should care because society becoming dysoptian and unhappy is disastrous for our species.

[@TheAustrianPainter87]

​@@snowheader2200 After economical collapse from plummetting birth rates you'll be back in the kitchen married to a man you don't like for survival. You'll care then😊​​

[@nnonno3954]

The one thing that I hate about this conversation is that so many people believe that only feminists think this way. There are so many men who judge their wives by how much they make. Men seem to have a very simple, ill-informed way of forming opinions.

[@hariseldon3786]

My problem is that feminism is no longer about equality - its about pulling down men on the assumption that this lifts women up - in reality all it does is change all standards and mostly not too the better... As well, women have been convinced that they should be 'economic units' and women who choose to become mothers are looked down on...

[@gipgap4]

It was never just about equality. You’ve only just noticed this now.

[@hariseldon3786]

@@gipgap4 Tut tut - you don't know me and your comment sounds snarky. Maybe there are a lot more things I have noticed and chosen not to dwell on. Have a nice day.

[@gipgap4]

@@hariseldon3786 of course I don’t know you, you’re a random on the internet just like myself. Perhaps you should dwell on more things you notice would be my point.

[@illbeyourmonster5752]

My now ex wife used to go off all the time about the pay gap issue and it was so dumb it was sad. Her whole thing was built around how I made more than double what she did on take-home but she never ever touched on why that was despite the fact her base pay was around $1 an hour more than mine. 1: She worked 40 hours a week and refused overtime. I worked 100+ hours a week with massive performance incentives for doing it. 2: Her hobbies were total time and money wasters. Mine made a side income that exceeded their operational costs. Basically I made more than her because I worked harder and longer than she did.

[@hariseldon3786]

@@illbeyourmonster5752 LOL Now ex-wife. Equally significant is the question of who handles the finances, even if one partner earns more. Both individuals benefit from the shared prosperity but women spend the majority (lol my ex wife outspent me 3 : 1 on shoes and clothes etc from our combined wages! Furthermore, there's rarely any objection to the fact that women typically outlive men by seven years, partly due to men often undertaking riskier jobs. Thus, who covers the additional expenses for that roughly 10% of extra life? This encompasses medical bills, retirement savings, and various other expenses e.g., multiple holidays, associated with longevity.

[@janetjacks3406]

Great and insightful comments and I used to be a sort of feminist but i've come to realise we were sold a dud and now suspect that behind this drive for feminism was possibly just another way to get revenue from more people going into the workplace. I must admit to appreciating the freedom that comes from earning my own wage on the other side of the coin but I can now see the destruction of the family unit and this whole transhuman agenda has become apparent so i've changed and i'm so grateful for the educators that have helped me there.

[@sumairshirazi]

The problem with feminism is women don't want 50/50 .

[@cryptojihadi265]

The problem with feminism is it puts people who are ruled by their emotions, easily deceived and manipulated in control.

[@TheAustrianPainter87]

​@Sam97-oi4vcHypergamy. Look it up

[@jaydamalley3398]

@Sam97-oi4vc Men work longer hours. It's one of the reasons why men earn more, and do less house work. The one who works less, ends up doing more of the house work.

[@jaydamalley3398]

@Sam97-oi4vc Most women don't work full-time, most do part-time. Men work full-time. So "both work full-time" is not a general phenomenon. And even in that case, it's up to both partners to talk about it. It's a private matter, not a societal problem. Women also tend to work IN the house, while men work AROUND the house. Mowing, trimming, repairing, etc. Somehow I don't get the impression you count that as house work.

[@jaydamalley3398]

@Sam97-oi4vc Who's "They"? And since women don't work full-time as much as men, generally means that those women can afford themselves to work part-time in stead of full-time, because their partners work full-time. Allowing them to stay home, be with the kids, and - as a result - doing more of the house work. Meaning, doing the house work is not exactly unpaid, is it? So I already have to call into question your sources, simply because of terms like "unpaid work". Simple question (in case you're a woman): would you prefer to work full-time, while your partner works part-time, and is home with the kids more than you, while also doing (more of) the house work? What do you prefer? If the answer is No, you have to re-think some things. Maybe you'd understand you're the one in the privileged position. And as a side-note, TV has a majority female audience. That's why there's so much reality tv, and game shows. That's what women want to watch. Men generally do others things. Like hobbies, indeed.

[@2livenoob]

1. All actions by women are inherently good 2. Any negative consequences or reprecussions women experience in their lives are the fault of a man. Women want men to create a saftey bubble of power for them to live in, while weakening men's ability to protect that bubble from reality.

[@SchrödingersMath]

😂😎😁

[@Emidretrauqe]

It's always so much harder for men to talk about mens' issues with women in the room.

[@NateWilliams-h8q]

Thats why they should not be invited.

[@teej70]

Because majority will get emotional

[@zachroberts1988]

its basically like engineers trying to talk to artists... analytics vs emotions. Men can handle things as they are for the most part, and modern women cant... (for the most part)

[@iammr.h82]

Depends on the women we surround ourselves with. I dont have that problem but generally...yah i see it.

[@ka9202]

0:40 Finally! Somebody saying the quiet part out loud!

[@markaurelius61]

I listened to this the whole way through, and I agreed with every single point made!

[@Jacques.dAnjou]

The big difference between dead people and us, living beings, is that we all have a mother. If you have a good mother, now there’s a standard to live up to.

[@cryptojihadi265]

WHAT?! That makes zero sense.

[@Jacques.dAnjou]

@@cryptojihadi265 it’s an allegory.

[@malcolmchevrier6866]

The modern feminist demanded to be a part of the workforce. Once they gained that, they went about policing what and how men say and what they do within the workforce the feminists were once excluded from. To my way of thinking, that is counter productive and I'm sure someone out there will inform me of my poor thought process.

[@zachroberts1988]

The problem arises from the fact that 99% of them dont want any accountability for their poor choices in the work environment they created. They see one female CEO who had to make tough choices and live with them and think they can do the same thing all while dodging any and all accountability!

[@malcolmchevrier6866]

@@zachroberts1988 Agreed, they want all the benefits of being women along with, what they feel will complete them. Having control over men and sadly, the past 70 years of feminism has created this gynocentric soyciety.

[@marthah7431]

I too, have found it interesting that the women’s movement equated success with what had traditionally been a man’s sphere of influence - the workforce. There’s a subtle hypocrisy there or maybe not so subtle. At the time (1970’s) and maybe it continues to this day, being a stay at home mom was not seen as important or as valuable as pursuing a career. Why? After coming back to Jesus when my first born son was an infant and getting the feminist mind virus out of my head that kept beating me up for wanting to stay home, I thoroughly enjoyed every minute of it and wouldn’t trade it for the world. Did I do a wide variety of other things, volunteer and otherwise? Absolutely. Clearly, the things in this world of greatest value don’t have a price tag, but by all means be who you were created to be. My aunt was an MD who got her degree in the 50s when not many women were becoming doctors. My mom was a stay at home mom. I followed the desire of my heart and will be eternally thankful that I did.

[@WiqedWhiteGorilla]

My beef is that it literally doesn't possess even a single legit argument to stand on. They define being "full of shit"

[@DIFFUSIONBDMINTL]

Great common sense, and we need more of it.

[@calebbeasley77]

These folks are responsible for efficiently allocating OUR resources and they are making the call to use what's supposed to be the collectives' on tampons in the men's room; every dang one of the people responsible for wasting our resources should no longer be in any kind of position of power.

[@73cidalia]

I don't agree with aborting my children, but I'll be honest. Periods and childbirth and menopause SUCK so much.

[@markhannig1192]

Mother Nature is toxic patriarchy.

[@jonahtwhale1779]

We do something about these unpleasant symptoms! If men have prob poems they work to fix them. If women have problems - they complain and expect men to fix them! This lack of agency is one of the main problems with femunism!

[@teonactalpizza]

I mean it's nature though you've never existed without these things so how can they be THAT bad? It's not imposed upon you, it's literally what you are as organism.

[@hunterkarr5618]

Life is very hard for both sexes, trust me. It’s the nature of life in earth

[@masterpoe4942]

Just remember..one day you won't have the ability for any of the above and might find yourself saddened by this fact..at least with the loss of the ability to bare children. Life can be difficult for us all, but it isn't wise to resent who we were born as. We should do everything we can to make the best of it.

[@Snarge22]

Masculine men and feminine women are.....complementary. And that is so very deeply good.

[@suezcontours6653]

USA made them masculine. Blame yourselves. Funny how you set yourselves up for failure and extinction because where else in the world do you have Feminism plaguing? Not in Africa, or India or Asia

[@Destro7000]

This is very Christian & Conservative ideologically. I don't think it remotely gets to what the worst thing about Feminism is.

[@geo525252]

Not supporting actual women is all you need to know about the feminist movement.

I just ignore them and that makes them angrier.

[@chetp8423]

“It is good” he said. He was quoting Genesis most appropriately and perhaps didn’t realize it.

[@thrithgolden2748]

Excellent!

[@suezcontours6653]

Fall of the Western Empire is a good thing. Feminism and Manosphere exacerbated it and white people are in decline overall. Funny how Eugenicism backfired

[@l.s.451]

Answer- EVERTHING

[@iammr.h82]

I work from sun up to sun down. My paid work as a data analyst for 8 hours and when i get home im cooking, cleaning, landscaping, husbanding, fathering. My Wife is at home with our Son all day teaching, cleaning, counseling other family members etc..... We all work to some degree and all that work should be respected.

[@minnesotajude8447]

Draft the women

[@realdrouin4603]

First time watching Zuby, wow. What a great interviewer. I will start watching him

[@copperhead2694]

In my opt it’s not that feminism, women having opinions/opportunities is what is at fault. It’s the mindset and language we all have and use. I for one am happy women have more options/opportunities to explore other then Just marriage and children. Some women truly don’t want that . And that is fine, just like some women can’t wait to be a wife and mother and that is great ! And it’s not about competing with men and becoming men, we just don’t want to only be defined and limited to child birth. Me I enjoyed my education, and career , until I became a mom then I enjoyed being at home to raise my child until he was school ready then I did part time work, until I ended up starting my own business that by time he was 16 his first paying job was working for me . Now my husband and I have an extra income to enjoy, our kids are grown , I have something other than cleaning a house all day, and if anything happens to my husband before me , I’m taken care of . I wouldn’t have all these options and fulfillment in my life with out all those females that fought to open up more opportunities for me . Yes , are there differences between men and women that can effect the work places, and yes, is staying at home with your children work! We need to stop with the false narrative and look at the facts and truth and continue on a intelligent path forward. Stop with bashing both sides . Respect each one’s decision choices . Stop demeaning people. Men are important and needed , and so are women. Humans man or women should be able to live in a society with choices and opportunities for Both. That is progress.

[@JariLaaksonen-kl3he]

Zuby is my favorite record holder.

[@tinstargames]

Because money keeps us alive Build a society where we don’t need money if you want women to not want it

[@frosty3693]

The problem is the enforcment of 'equality' without discretion. Rules that are the same for everyone sounds nice until enforced on everyone equally for everything. It is the foundation of the difference between legal and just. But liberals like absolutes and do not acknowledge 'trade offs'. Corperations like one size fits all, as it may protect them legally, but often treats their employees unjustly. Follow the rules do not make independant decisions even if the rule is wrong. That is why liberals have a two tier justice system, one for them and one for everybody else.

[@antonyshadowbanned]

Very well put!

[@kaybrown7733]

It's the standard, not the male standard, because we are equal human beings. That is the part that you actually have a problem with. You just won't admit it because you know you're wrong! 😂😂😂

[@Sparz512]

This is so true!!!

[@KippinCollars]

Zubes brings up an interesting point. How well you live your life can be counted on many different dimensions. Money is just one of them, and often not the most important. If someone can sustain their life but measures their life in how many hours they spent with their kids, then what's the harm?

[@lurkingllama8364]

NO views, but a comment!

[@badlaamaurukehu]

Odd metrics, proportions and ratios for this channel. One of his previous videos i watcher had like 30,000 some odd views but only 8 comments. Never seen that before on KZbin... wtf?

[@illbeyourmonster5752]

@@badlaamaurukehu YT is massively screwing with the numbers behind channels like this one.

[@brianwick]

Fellas invest in cat food stock, almost 50% of women will be single and childless by 2030

[@lucentsoundlabs6021]

One thing that has never said, in regards to emotional intelligence, is that the belief from women that because they feel more emotion that must be they are more emotionally, intelligent than men. Nothing could be further from the truth.

[@rhscubadiver4379]

Well done.

[@MayaLuna1]

Could someone explain to me why this is described as women "competing" with men? Why is that the ascribed motivation- to compete?

[@adhardino9781]

I love Zuby´s introductory sentence - as a multicultural producer I cherish the female contributions to art so much. Just to imagine that women should dance and sing eying men´s work and not find inspiration deep among themselves, is utterly out of place...

[@sweetpotatoknight]

Lila Rose is modern feminism. Zuby wake up!!!

[@Smartcom5]

She's just another of the gazillion of chamæleons ..

[@hermonymusofsparta]

Exactly. Her, Candace and their like are all feminists. They're just not as extreme as the woke liberal feminists. Traditional women aren't career women going on podcasts trying to tell grown men what to do.

[@frankiecal3186]

How???

[@sweetpotatoknight]

@@frankiecal3186 why is she on social media? Why is her husband allowing it?

[@frankiecal3186]

@sweetpotatoknight Because she also advocates against abortion the killing of innocent children, she's not on social media tweaking or showing her body off.

[@cidaelmccaskill5448]

I just figured it out. We are living too long without any new purpose. We as humans were always alive for a short amount of time now we are alive for a longer amount of time and don't know how to handle. ..... MR. MEESEEKS SYNDROM

[@Snarge22]

Why do women when greeting their lady pals so often greet them as "Hi guys!'?

[@thrall1342]

Great honest talk ! Small critique to 6:57 though: as far as I'm informed, women and men have the same IQ on average. However, men are overrepresented on the low and high end. I think it's also a bit misleading to say women are more emotionally intelligent. Women are more emotional, mirror other people's emotions and agree with them more readily to mediate conflict (agreeableness), but that doesn't mean they understand other people's emotions or even their own better and can regulate them more effectively. I'd personally shy away from stating these narratives factually when we don't realy understand them. That runs the danger of creating something resembling propaganda, e.g. something that's considered true, without the need for any proof.

[@dr_tal]

The words emotional and intelligence should never be used together. Eq is a made up term. Empathetic is the word

[@themasculinismmovement]

"Why is the measure how much money you make?" - I've thought about this lately and I think the answer is capitalism

[@illbeyourmonster5752]

How else should we do it?

[@baseballsux2]

This might seem like a small thing, however… It’s not the generation “above” us, it’s the generation before us. Words matter.

[@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894]

Men and women are equally valuable not equals

[@johnwayne2140]

She is so attracted to him...

[@light9999]

When a mother is asked by a career girl what she does, the proper answer is "I use my labor to increase the human race instead of working to increase the amount of economic activity -- like you." Ouch.

[@JamesHeseltine]

Zuby is childless …….

[@michaelfranciotti3900]

And?

[@believeyoume-nj2mt]

Feminism is nearly impossible to mock nowadays as it has become a parody unto itself.

[@geoffstokes]

You can only truly be who you are through being reconciled to God through faith in Jesus Christ

[@danielm.8499]

But they don’t want no beef lol

[@lucylane7397]

Who the fuck wants a career anyway. Working with people you hate getting stressed commuting

[@73cidalia]

Because feminism got twisted. It started as a movement for women to be treated like adults and to have choices in life.

[@nerychristian]

It was always an evil movement. Check out the book "Occult Feminism: the Secret History of Women's Liberation"

[@user-iu1ru1qz7u]

Any movement that sells the absurd idea of equality is evil in disguise. Given that men and women are tremendously different, the concept of arriving at equal stations is by default impossible. Thus, it sets everybody up for conflict because if we were equal, and our outcomes never match, there must be some form of evil taking place, holding women back. Feminism is divisive from day one. All it ever does is try to drive women against men.

[@markhannig1192]

Study the history of feminism. It’s always been - since the 1800s - a way for upper class white women to maintain social power.

[@jamesg3808]

No, the "first-wave" feminists were actually very much like the feminists of today. Elizabeth Cady Stanton gave a speech in 1868 titled “The Destructive Male” in which she said, “The male element is a destructive force, stern, selfish, aggrandizing, loving war, violence, conquest, acquisition, breeding in the material and moral world alike discord, disorder, disease, and death.” Susan B. Anthony, who never married a man, once said during her older years in an interview in 1896, “I never felt I could give up my life of freedom to become a man’s housekeeper.”

[@cryptojihadi265]

Women always had a voice and choice. There was never anything good about feminism.

[@kaym4389]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@naviifra2374]

But this lady isn’t a stay at home mum. Why is she commenting?

[@ElanMorin]

agree with the premise, but you lose ppl with the God stuff. Just say nature or something. not everyone believes that stuff, me included. it doesn't offend me, it just also doesn't reach ppl.

[@vinceocratic]

20 seconds in and this dude hasn’t gotten to the point. I’m out!

[@joss8558]

Give it a minute.

[@mudblood9699]

Short attention span, huh?

[@vinceocratic]

@@mudblood9699 yup. Did that answer your question?

[@grrinc]

Tiktok brain. You’ve been brain addled.

[@illbeyourmonster5752]

Complex ideas and topics take time to unpack and present. Thanks for telling us you cant work with complex idea and topics.

[@jamesc7526]

Blah, blah, blah. Whole lot of 'no sht sherlock'. These 2 can regurgitate boiler plate platitudes and catch phrases till their eyeballs bleed but it is just more 'fiddling' while Rome burns.

[@carmeld45]

Sir, we live in a capitalist society, its far game for all. Men can't keep up or measure up, just say that....

[@believeyoume-nj2mt]

Alas, your WOMEN ROCK! MEN CAN'T COMPETE may make you feel all giddy but the broad reaching negative aspects this causes goes far, far beyond this mindset. Families suffer, marriages suffer, the birth rate suffer, universities suffer....but hey, you go grrrllll. It's all about you. MY BAD!

[@NateWilliams-h8q]

Another broke woman, running her mouth I see.

[@BheeOrgh]

On the subject of Domestic Working Mothers, I agree with @Guildofarcanelore. Also, mothers get to stay home and witness, experience, once-in-a-lifetime moments like a baby's first words, or a child's fist step which the husband will NEVER be there to see as he is providing her the luxury of being a stay-at-home-mother. With regards to feminist who claim mothers should be paid a salary for the work they do in the home, sure, as long as that income is reported to the tax office - they don't want to talk about that and if they do, they believe it's the husband who should pay the tax. If that were to be the case, then the husband is her employer - that will not go over well with the mothers, nor the feminists.

[@abhiwagh2312]

Actually the problem is feminism is indoctrinating women to have a very egocentric viewpoint when manouvering in the society. It is less about what i can give to the society, how can i make others lives better but rather it is just how can i just make my life better, my happiness, my emotions above others, not a very generous world view these feminist have. Very self indulgent and individualistic.

[@tomaszszupryczynski5453]

stop using word feminism and replace it with womenism. that will make more sense with everything