12 Signs of Autism in Babies
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@craxykitty72
@craxykitty72 3 сағат бұрын
My three autistic kids had almost no symptoms. They do social smiles, eye contact and everything except communicating. They’re official diagnosed.
@higherground337
@higherground337 3 сағат бұрын
Simon looked so confused at first but he held it together so well! I hope Ezra got to hold a light saber.
@sunnyspring5105
@sunnyspring5105 8 сағат бұрын
That was a difficult watch for me. I am in my 60s. My mother always said I was a strange, quiet baby who didnt like her. I never made a noise I would push her away and stay with a stiff back looking over her shoulder if she held me. I was 7th child. I am told recently I may be autistic. In my 60s after a difficult life of not understanding people and social occasions and being that weird person. I am told I am too old to be assessed and helped. Children need assessed to be helped which is correct Being an alien and looking intelligent and neurotypical is a hard place to be when people tell you it is too late to be helped.
@juanitasullivan3372
@juanitasullivan3372 9 сағат бұрын
Sound bad.
@bettinagaal
@bettinagaal 9 сағат бұрын
My cousin is 30, autistic. He was always fascinated by maps, languages, and computers. At age 10 he still had problems with pronouncing my name but did things with his computer that we didn't even understand. Now he is finishing his PHD and starting his own business with a geography program he designed. We are SO proud of him, fantastic guy😊
@WillowLackett
@WillowLackett 11 сағат бұрын
That's just mean :( Toe-walking is fun and relaxing. Yall really should not force him into walking weirdly.
@user-er8dx1pr7x
@user-er8dx1pr7x 11 сағат бұрын
I just can't get one think - if you already have an autistic child ,why do you make more kids ? What will happen with them when you are no longer around or God forbid you are not capable of taking care of them ?
@julesmpc1314
@julesmpc1314 11 сағат бұрын
If a couple has one disabled child, the probability of the de couple having another disabled child is 50%. I just cant grasp why other doctors do not inform parents of this FACT. It does not mean the couple should not habe more children, they need to be aware so they can be ready emotionally, financially....and how much it will affect the existing children.
@Lovelylexi83
@Lovelylexi83 12 сағат бұрын
When will the book be ready? I placed an order and asked that question through email, but i didn't get a response.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 12 сағат бұрын
Sorry, just missed that email. Responding now. 😊 We’re hoping within a few months depending on how things go with publishers. Thanks for your support!
@winterwithawhyknudsen5166
@winterwithawhyknudsen5166 14 сағат бұрын
I like the way you’re teaching him, but his autism isn’t severe. He doesn’t have any more autism than the rest of us. He just has higher support needs.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
To have severe autism is to have higher support needs along with having limited to no verbal speech.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
We did a video on Severe, Mild and No autism compared...
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4SQhZt9htF4jpo
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Tell us your thoughts
@winterwithawhyknudsen5166
@winterwithawhyknudsen5166 13 сағат бұрын
@@7Aheadfamily we prefer higher support needs because autism is not black and white. We all have different strengths and weaknesses. For example, a person with lower support needs may have severe sensory issues including EDs, while a person with higher support needs may not have severe sensory issues. I think putting more research into the “autism wheel” would definitely help, but here’s autism in a nutshell. Autism is built up of smaller pieces varying at a different degree for every single one of us. Those can be called “severe” or “mild” because of the fact that it is black and white and there can be more of it. More severe of that part would mean that All it is is heightened to a higher level but stays consistent. Autism doesn’t work like that, it’s never consistent. Put all other categories that make up autism at other levels and depending on how much you struggle in each level and how much it impacts your independence, that determines your support needs.
@MasterKohga5067
@MasterKohga5067 15 сағат бұрын
I saw the temple on the wall I'm a member of the church of Jesus Christ of latter day saints
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
That is very cool!💜❤️
@alexandraanomaly9991
@alexandraanomaly9991 16 сағат бұрын
Aww your children brought such an amazing beautiful light to the room. When your oldest boy looked and said to his little brother "that's your baby sister" I cried. You are so blessed to be surrounded by love like this. Adorable little Ezra.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you so much!💜💜 You are so kind!❤️❤️
@alexandraanomaly9991
@alexandraanomaly9991 16 сағат бұрын
I'm really sorry for your loss. We found out today at 21 weeks that my placenta is placenta acretta. I really pray you and your children and husband are able to heal from this. I will lose my uterus for sure And hemorrhage in c section and a hysterectomy 😢 I pray I can get far enough along without her being at risk 🙏
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you for being so kind! So sorry that you are going through such a hard time, we wish you and your family the best!💕💕💕
@catiehays3361
@catiehays3361 16 сағат бұрын
I notice your haircut Holly, looks like you took off a few inches. I like it, do you cut your own hair??
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you, Great question! I do not cut my own hair😊🩵
@nattance1
@nattance1 18 сағат бұрын
Unbearable vocal fry!!! Sorry, but I can't stand it. I wish I could read a transcript.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you for your feedback! We will keep that in mind🩵😊
@cammaritalbot9482
@cammaritalbot9482 18 сағат бұрын
What do you do about the screaming stim?
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Great question! Here are a few ways... 1. Identify Triggers. Identifying the triggers that lead to vocal stimming can help individuals with ASD avoid or manage them. ... 2. Provide Sensory Input. ... 3. Teach Alternative Behaviors. ... 4. Use Positive Reinforcement.
@kseniia7949
@kseniia7949 21 сағат бұрын
The girl looks completely normal to me!
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Marie does not have autism, Ezra and Simon do. Hope this helps💕💕
@mishamitra
@mishamitra 23 сағат бұрын
You are a strong mother. Thank you for sharing the knowledge. God bless you & your kids
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
You are so welcome!💜💜💜
@BritishAutisticChef
@BritishAutisticChef Күн бұрын
I am autistic and I do KZbin videos too on cooking.
@sebastienhamel1317
@sebastienhamel1317 Күн бұрын
You have size 7 diapers at home if you look after another child it will be practical
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you for your insight!❤️❤️
@chubbilypanda
@chubbilypanda Күн бұрын
I believe God lead me to your channel this week. I have found SO MUCH encouragement from your videos, especially this one! My oldest is 3 right now, and just last week at church, he head butted one of the children’s ministry workers. I wasn’t there to see what happened prior to him slamming his head into her face, but I was pretty mortified. I skipped church yesterday because I didn’t want him to hurt anyone again, and I didn’t feel like bringing him into the service with me was an option. Your video proves otherwise. I’m going to try some of the ideas you mentioned here and go to church this Sunday. Thank you for your wisdom and insight!!
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily Күн бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing that. ❤️ It means a lot to hear comments like that. Keeps us going. 😊
@mysterfan7649
@mysterfan7649 Күн бұрын
My mom said I never crawl but did scoot than walk at late at almost 2 years old That was due to hypotonia because of my chromosome 18p deletion.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you for sharing! We appreciate you!💕💕
@afsahfarooq710
@afsahfarooq710 Күн бұрын
My son is similar to Ezra but now I am following a few videos on KZbin and I feel my son is a lot calm now. I think our kids have a lots of sensory issues I put on a heavy bag on my child with dumbbells in it and I have also give him a few supplements.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you for sharing! So glad our videos have helped!😊😊
@Stefaniekristine
@Stefaniekristine Күн бұрын
I love watching your videos and I am by no means trying to be disrespectful but the fact that you repeat the moving in the av part in every video makes me want to stop watching.. for the viewers that watch your videos regularly it can sound like we are we watching old videos. Or videos on repeat if that makes sense.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily Күн бұрын
Very good feedback. Thank you for sharing. We will do better. :)
@pattip1413
@pattip1413 Күн бұрын
This is heartbreaking.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Well, there are definitely a lot of challenges that come with autism, there are also a lot of blessings. Ezra is by far our happiest child, and isn’t that what everybody really wants?
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
We talk about this a little at the end of this video…
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
3 Sensory Autism Mistakes at Great Sand Dunes National Park kzbin.info/www/bejne/o5TSnH1rm7Kiqqc Here’s another video where we address this topic a little bit… My Child has Autism. Now What? kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZKalYmnfNhgmas
@user-qj8pc4dv7g
@user-qj8pc4dv7g Күн бұрын
Poor Ezra. I hope he never reads this book. Hope you make a lot of money to.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily Күн бұрын
How many of our videos have you watched? There will be nothing in the book that would make Ezra not want to read it.
@lindakeehn5254
@lindakeehn5254 Күн бұрын
My autistic son is now 49. The one thing not mentioned is the meltdowns. From age 2 any frustration would often lead to a meltdown. As an infant he didn’t like to be held. Many of the other signs mentioned could apply to my son as well. Very good information.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing😊
@ShaggyCZ
@ShaggyCZ Күн бұрын
Has Ezra made any progress with his speech?
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Not really. He has made progress, through his tablet, pointing at pictures and spelling.❤️❤️ Great question!💜💜
@Savayacat1962
@Savayacat1962 2 күн бұрын
I got my first bed when I was 7 years old and my first bedroom when I was 11 10:19
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you for sharing!❤️
@malenad9895
@malenad9895 2 күн бұрын
Bless your family 😊 I suspect autism in my son he is almost 17 months and showing some signs and I dont know what to think about it I had a mix feelings 😟
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Well, there are definitely a lot of challenges that come with autism, there are also a lot of blessings. Ezra is by far our happiest child, and isn’t that what everybody really wants?
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
We talk about this a little at the end of this video…
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
3 Sensory Autism Mistakes at Great Sand Dunes National Park kzbin.info/www/bejne/o5TSnH1rm7Kiqqc Here’s another video where we address this topic a little bit… My Child has Autism. Now What? kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZKalYmnfNhgmas
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Hope this helps!❤️❤️❤️
@thomasschoeck9080
@thomasschoeck9080 2 күн бұрын
I was just reading online that kids on the spectrum (including kids with level one autism) need an average of 1.6 years of training to stay dry during the day and over two years of training for bowel accidents to end (even during the day). Since Simon started training at age three-and-a-half that means that on average you could expect him to have some daytime wetting accidents even after his fifth birthday. In addition, based on those same figures you could expect Simon to have some bowel accidents even at age five-and-a-half during the day (or slightly older). If Simon continues to perform significantly better than this during the day even up to that point it either means that you are very lucky with how things went with him or that the toilet training methods that you have used with him are much better than the alternatives that people usually use. I found the figures above using some AI and the main source that it cited was Autism Speaks so you might want to take those figures with a grain of salt but it at least gives an idea of the average figures for this that are out there on the internet (for what it’s worth).
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you so much for taking the time to share this with us!💕💕💕
@thomasschoeck9080
@thomasschoeck9080 13 сағат бұрын
@@7Aheadfamily I found this information with Microsoft Copilot using the Microsoft Edge app on my iPad after many searches. The searches would probably look quite strange to any human who looks at them due to the unusual number of toilet training related searches, for example. Hopefully I won’t be mistaken for an automated system/bot. Also I hope my searches on there were within the limits of what Microsoft allows. The wording of their TOS is vague enough that I can’t be one hundred percent sure. I feel like I would need to be a lawyer to fully understand the terms of service on most web sites. I did some additional searches today to see if I could find additional information including information about the developmental levels of various fictional characters (from Arthur, Rugrats, and other cartoons, as well as characters that the AI made up)(both autistic and neurotypical ones) to see how they would react to various situations (toilet training related or otherwise) that most people would be embarrassed by as well as what various characters would do either with or without concern, anxiety, embarrassment, etc. at various ages and developmental levels under various circumstances and the effect that it would have on the outcome of a situation. I guess I did too many of those searches because in several instances the AI told me that it couldn’t answer my question or that it wasn’t allowed to. I think the AI probably thought that I was trying to break one or more rules in some way even though I actually wasn’t. In addition I also reached the number of searches that I am allowed to perform in 24 hours. Before that point I did manage to perform some non-toilet-training-related searches on subjects such as routing protocols, Cantor’s continuum hypothesis, Traveling Salesman, and the P vs. NP problem so I found some useful information on there during that time. If my Microsoft account is still working later on and I am still able to use the AI I think I will limit my Copilot and Bing searches to news, weather, and recipes, and maybe some math-related topics for the foreseeable future. In short, AI can be useful but it’s best to limit one’s use of it for now. AI still has multiple pluses and minuses in several areas, and still needs to be perfected.
@andi..9265
@andi..9265 2 күн бұрын
its interesting my level 2 kiddo ..she had a social smile at 8 weeks. It was a proper social smile ..and it developed into the biggest most gummiest baby grins you have ever seen which were SOCIAL grins.. I have a video of her in a high chair as a baby and grandma is coming over and she is squealing with joy kicking her little legs up. It's interesting as a girl, she didnt tick any of those signs to be honest..but shes definitely autistic , diagnosed.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you for sharing!🩵🩵🩵
@Discord_worker
@Discord_worker 2 күн бұрын
I think Simon is going to be a car racing driver also tell Ezra and your other kids that they are also doing well ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Simon does love cars!😊💕💕
@Discord_worker
@Discord_worker 2 күн бұрын
So nice to see that
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
They did enjoy a lot!💕💕
@zachjohnson4530
@zachjohnson4530 2 күн бұрын
I’m Autistic
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you for sharing! What country do you live in?
@zachjohnson4530
@zachjohnson4530 13 сағат бұрын
@@7Aheadfamily USA 🇺🇸
@kimberlypepper2068
@kimberlypepper2068 2 күн бұрын
My grandson is 30 months ,he was diagnosed with ASD April of this year.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 2 күн бұрын
Happy to have you here!
@Iam-me
@Iam-me 2 күн бұрын
My son did not speak until 4 years old His first word is :flower Because I show him flower n keep saying to him :flower flower flower Did you notice Normal kids wont speak clear Autism kids speak very clear but not much vocabs Easily get tantrum because cant expressing the feeling Now my son is 17 he study high school And almost going to college But When he s 4 years old Each night I show him big pic in the book all words like cats stawberries etc He s crying to death if seeing guest or going outside Very hard Tantrum a lot He s scare with ppl He is scare to go to bathroom from the sounds All those are gone when he s bigger and different issues As teen autism
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting!🩵🩵🩵
@ICsucks
@ICsucks 2 күн бұрын
I totally agree with this. My family does not agree with this type of advice and they think the old school advice is the best
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 13 сағат бұрын
Thank you for watching and sharing!💕💕
@ryannaallington3281
@ryannaallington3281 2 күн бұрын
I suspect that Ellie Ava has ADHD
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 2 күн бұрын
There are many people I love and who I am related to, who have ADHD.
@chubbilypanda
@chubbilypanda 2 күн бұрын
I have a 3-year-old boy and I suspect he has autism. We’re hoping to have him evaluated later this year. He had a major meltdown last night in a public place for the first time (his meltdowns usually happen at home). This video came into my feed at just the right time, as last night left me feeling very hopeless for how to help my son. Thank you for sharing these insights and helping someone like me who knows very little about ASD. You’ve got a new subscriber!
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 2 күн бұрын
So happy to hear that you found the video helpful. This is the very reason we choose to share our life online. Your comment got me emotional. Please feel free to share what kind of videos you'd like us to make.
@chubbilypanda
@chubbilypanda 2 күн бұрын
@@7Aheadfamily I’m sincerely thankful that you put yourself out there. I recognize that having your family on the internet can be challenging in a lot of ways, but it’s so nice to feel a bit of solidarity with someone who’s walking a similar path. This may be a bit niche for your audience, but I would LOVE a video on how you disciple your children with autism. I watched your video on the miracle God performed for Ezra. It sounds like you’re a fellow believer. I often worry about how I can best reach my son with the gospel if he struggles with communication. I’d love your insight, even if it’s just a comment. Thank you!!
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 2 күн бұрын
That is a great question. It is often a challenge to share our beliefs with kids, but we sing songs to them, pray with them at night and over every meal. in the prayers at night we talk a lot about them, asking for God to help them in things that we know are important to them. We use books and pictures to teach Bible stories, and we also made a video here about going to church. It has been difficult, but we share our story in this video. kzbin.info/www/bejne/nna1hYx4YsSdock
@phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
@phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 2 күн бұрын
Thanks for this video. Emmalina has been having alot of meltdowns this past week i dont know everything that has been setting her off. Im still figuring her out. Iwill say whenever anyone is in her face too much it seems to set her off like a day to 3 days later she pinches me and starts screaming. Sometimes i have to walk away after shutting tv and all lights so shes safe ans im not getting my hair pulled and pinched
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 2 күн бұрын
That is hard. I'm sorry she is having such a hard time. You got this! Do warnings help? Does she understand them?
@phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
@phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 2 күн бұрын
@@7Aheadfamily she doesn't listen at that point. I do leave room she just comes at me
@LifeWithShawn2024
@LifeWithShawn2024 2 күн бұрын
I havent been diagnosed with mild autism yet but me & my mom mainly dont have a good relationship when arguing with each other about topics / things we dont agree on ( Example - My mom says dont change the things i move in your bedroom & i say i like my room to look a certain way in my liking ) that then leads to a argument not ending well with me losing it having a huge sensory overload . These situations happened many times since 2017 i believe and only started to get worse in 2020 - now . My parents marrage isnt that great either because my dad cheated on my mom 12 years ago with another girl causing stress on my mom . Im only 17 almost 18 this November and my childhood was hard but thinking about all of those bad moments i tried to get the last word with my family members not just my mom & also other people in this world makes me question if i should get tested for ASD since i always struggled with social interaction & repetative interests . 7 ahead whats your honest advice ?
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 2 күн бұрын
It never hurts to get an assessment for ASD. If you end up finding out that you are or that you aren't it's good to know. I am sorry for your family situation and that it's difficult.
@LifeWithShawn2024
@LifeWithShawn2024 2 күн бұрын
@@7Aheadfamily Well I know anxiety is very common in Autistic people
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 2 күн бұрын
True
@sebastienhamel1317
@sebastienhamel1317 2 күн бұрын
It can be practical if you look after children who have accident put the in size 7 diaper
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you for your feedback😊
@nathanfortier7478
@nathanfortier7478 2 күн бұрын
Something that I have in place with my specialists and that you could have in place with the teachers to is a "Active Prevention Plan" (direct translation from french so, might not be the correct words). Basically, it's a sheet of paper that gives my specialists signs that tell them in what emotional state I am (green, yellow, orange or red), it tells them who is part of my support system and their role (psychologist for non-autism related mental health, educator for autism, etc) and tells them what not to do when I'm in a meltdown/red/dissociation (also includes what not to do in general). It allows includes things that help me go from, for example, orange to yellow. So, for example, in the yellow section, it might say "stimming with his leg, hyper active, struggles to stay still, should encourage a calming podcast/youtube video, should encourage the 5-4-3-2-1 breathing exercise, etc", in the "what to avoid" section, it might say things like "Don't touch him, avoid loud sounds, give longer response time to questions, etc". This allows all of my specialists, no matter their expertise, to know how to best interact with me and who to contact if I need help with something. My psychoeducator is the one who put it in place for me and it's helped a lot. I have it posted at home to remind me what to do to help me calm down and I give a copy of it to all of my specialists.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 2 күн бұрын
That sounds like an amazing idea. It's close to an IEP but has even more ways to communicate needs and moods and needs that particular day and time. Thank you fro sharing.
@cassiebaker5970
@cassiebaker5970 21 сағат бұрын
This is an amazing idea
@MsTachke
@MsTachke 2 күн бұрын
She is so incredible comprehensive and sweet for her autistic children, should be more parents, teachers, caregivers and educators be like this, this should be so wonderfull. I'm on the spectrum and I also have Nld (non verbal learning disorder)
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 2 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!
@jkka1477
@jkka1477 2 күн бұрын
My meltdowns are caused by certain changes, mood dysregulation, anxiety, transitions, frustration and sometimes a sensory overload. I’m mostly sensory seeking, so I don’t get sensory meltdowns very often. During meltdowns, I wail, shout out phrases and demands, bolt and hide, blurt out offensive words and sentences, start mild violence, property damage, and I’m kinda vindictive and verbally aggressive. On the inside: it’s hard to breathe, I’m overwhelmed or irritated, my stomach hurts, it feels like nobody likes me, I need to escape from people who won’t give me space, and whatever the triggers are, really get to me. The times I get sensory meltdowns is when my clothes are bothering me, the lights are too bright, the sounds are too loud, it’s too cold, and if I’m washing myself, the soap mixed with water gets in my eyes. Meltdowns suck for both the caregivers and the people experiencing them, but trust me autism caregivers, it’s much worse if you’re the one experiencing the meltdown. When I have a meltdown, it gets worse when people do punishment like safety protocols, tell me I need to calm down, yell at me, cover my mouth, reason with me about why I should calm down, tell me that I’m scaring others, forcing me to apologize, tell me something isn’t a big deal, tell me not to cry, not allowing me to move, take away a privilege, use corporal punishment or payback aggression, saying “I know you’re upset, but you can’t/have to _________”, calling me names, tell me to be quiet, stare at me and stuff like that. It takes me 30 minutes to two hours in order to calm down. What helps is letting me move in some way as stimming or fidgeting can ease the meltdown, playing some music, filtering out annoying sensory input. If my meltdowns are caused by change, finding a distraction or alternatives to the change helps! What districts me during an adjustment meltdown or frustration meltdowns are my favorite activities, deep pressure therapy, and if it’s allowed then eating and drinking my favorite foods and drinks. Autistic meltdowns during a frustrating situation doesn’t have to be because of communication issues, it could also be because of interception difficulties, caffeine and my favorite flavors of stuff can actually calm me down.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 2 күн бұрын
thank you for being willing to be so vulnerable by sharing this with us. I am sure your descriptions of your meltdowns and what helps you, will help many parents who find this channel. These are some really good ideas. Thank you.
@kalegolas
@kalegolas 2 күн бұрын
In my case its one more thing, dont ask me how I feel because if I need to find words to describe it my brain will listen to my words and feel the anger, sadness etc even more. With me is the never ending trick to fool my brain to start thinking about anything else
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 2 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing💕💕
@nathanjw940
@nathanjw940 2 күн бұрын
I have autistic meltdowns still at 34. To the point I bite my finger. Lack coordination and having no learning issues it is very frustrating knowing what to do and simply can't so I keep trying and like running and like an engine in mud where the tires spin the engine gets hot and blows very similar experience. Transitioning is difficult too for example I will take forever to get a swim suit and go to the beach but I also love it there and spend hours leaving is the same way a struggle but being home or there I enjoy it. Everything feels out of control and I feel like the world is moving at 100mph and I just can't keep up. My brother has his usually if he feels ignored. Listening to him he's usually good at joining in then. No 1 thing don't rationalize you will only make things worse.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 2 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting🩷🩷
@thomasschoeck9080
@thomasschoeck9080 3 күн бұрын
One reason that neurotypical people sometimes find an autistic meltdown to be embarrassing/humiliating to be around is that it can occasionally trigger wetting accidents (or even messes) (that can look a lot like “on purposes”) in kids who are in the middle of potty training or sometimes even in kids who have been trained for months or sometimes even longer if it is a severe meltdown. From my experience and observations this is fairly rare (when looking at the percentage of meltdowns that can lead to this) but it definitely can happen.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 3 күн бұрын
Good point. Thank you for sharing.
@RockaPete
@RockaPete 3 күн бұрын
I have mild autism and since this video is about meltdowns, I might as well talk about my meltdown experience. So when I was 11 years old, A Tv channel was showing reruns of Full House at 5PM on weekdays and I would watch it everyday even after I had seen every episode. After Full House was over, the next show would be Growing Pains, I didn't usually watch it as it would be dinner time by the time Full House was over. So I became obsessed with the growing pains theme song and I felt like I always had to watch it. It had become a routine for me. One time I was at an Aunt and Uncle's house for a swim, and while I was there, I watched Full House, I was able to watch the whole episode. Then during the commercial break before growing pains, it was time to go home and my parents were not going to wait for the theme song to play, so I was forced to miss it, then I cried. My routine was pretty much disrupted which was causing me distress. My parents thought I was just crying over not getting what I want which in way I was, but I did not like missing a part of my routine. My parents did tell me I can watch it when I got home, I did have ways of watching it at home like I had it on a video cassette, or I did have the DVD set of Full House Season 1 which came with a bonus disk that features an episode of Growing Pains and Step By Step. Even though I was able to watch the theme song at home, I was still upset because like I said, my routine was disrupted. I only recently realized that it was a meltdown and my parents definitely did not give the right response, I'm not mad at them and it was a long time ago but I will be likely to bring it up when I go to an autism specialist. I am actually seeing the specialist about something else relating to my autism but I can talk about more than one thing.
@7Aheadfamily
@7Aheadfamily 2 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing with us about your experience. I remember watching all those shows as a kid too. -Holly