Words That Insult | Chez Genèse
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@richmond3h
@richmond3h 4 күн бұрын
I can relate to the boredom aspect of this. That is why I took up jogging before my accident. Then I got addicted to going on my runs. It has changed to walking now but I’m still getting out of the house and keeping my blood flowing.
@richmond3h
@richmond3h 4 күн бұрын
And you do a GREAT job of making all of your employees feel welcome.
@Psyche0h
@Psyche0h 8 күн бұрын
This resonated with me. Thank you for posting it
@chezgenese
@chezgenese 7 күн бұрын
Thank you for the comment and encouragement! So glad to have you here!
@rosem9929
@rosem9929 8 күн бұрын
Why are people changing it to euphemisms that implies that it's a bad thing it's not a bad thing😅 personally I'm autistic
@chezgenese
@chezgenese 7 күн бұрын
Exactly! I totally agree! No need for the euphemisms. There's nothing wrong with disability, so it doesn't need to be talked around. Thanks for commenting!
@richmond3h
@richmond3h 10 күн бұрын
Me personally after becoming “Disabled” I do not like the phrase “Special Needs”. I just need more time and understanding from others as to why it takes me more time to do things.
@chezgenese
@chezgenese 9 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your own perspective, Richmond! I really value your feedback.
@AnneMarieKirkman
@AnneMarieKirkman 11 күн бұрын
Consumerism is something I have been trying to become more aware of. Trying to be purposeful with finding like “slow fashion” pieces, trying to recycle ♻️ with what I buy regardless of what it is, and food waste knowledge or mindfulness. We all need to be intentional with our earned money to take care of the earth and humankind, etc. It isn’t all just about an individual. We need to think of others too ❤
@chezgenese
@chezgenese 9 күн бұрын
Yes, I love these reminders Anne Marie! That mindfulness piece is such an important aspect in shifting focus to how our actions are impacting our globe and other humans. :) You inspire me!
@AnneMarieKirkman
@AnneMarieKirkman 11 күн бұрын
I love Harriet Tubman! I would be happy with her on any of our money. Also, I dig the check list! I am a check list person too ❤
@zaccamcorder
@zaccamcorder 17 күн бұрын
Love your thoughts on hustle culture and capitalism. When do we decide we’ve done enough? People will hustle all the way to their graves…step over anybody to get to where they think they need to be. We could get a lot further a lot faster through teamwork and inclusion instead of tribalism and competition. Or at least it’d be a more enjoyable ride.
@chezgenese
@chezgenese 15 күн бұрын
I think it's both! We would get more done and it would be more enjoyable. :)
@urbansprouts7416
@urbansprouts7416 17 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video. It's just what I was craving. I'm so excited to "Blossom" with you. Trevor Noah is my favorite thought leader too. About your surprise responses, he accumulated obsessed haters from doing political comedy on the Daily show. It has nothing to do with how amazing he is. Simply they feel offended at his jokes about their terrible behavior. Don't take it personally. It's his cross to bear. He will no doubt show us all how to do it with kindness, graciousness, and humor.
@chezgenese
@chezgenese 15 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for leaving this thoughtful comment! I do really respect how he approaches pushback and criticism. It's inspiring to see someone stay solid in who they are, while also still being open and kind. So happy to have you in our little online community!
@richmond3h
@richmond3h 17 күн бұрын
I have never seen you loose momentum by our mistakes. You are and all of the Chefs are positive mindset people and that’s great to work with.
@smith9157
@smith9157 19 күн бұрын
Isn't it hard to do your job when your more retarded than the clientele?
@BarbaraKelley-j3v
@BarbaraKelley-j3v 19 күн бұрын
Katherine, you're magnificent! Stumbling across this video just made my day! ~~Barb Kelley
@chezgenese
@chezgenese 17 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!! It was such a fun surprise to see your name pop up on here. :)
@kmain11
@kmain11 24 күн бұрын
I just like the sound of your voice ... its calming 😌
@kathleenhoover5162
@kathleenhoover5162 24 күн бұрын
Well your too wordy and i left the video before the end keep it simple you go off the subject to much
@richmond3h
@richmond3h 25 күн бұрын
#3 is what I want to be able to do better. Good topic this week.
@erica.h
@erica.h 28 күн бұрын
great video :) im glad u didnt give up! ur cafe looks so cozy
@chezgenese
@chezgenese 28 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!! You encouragement is really appreciated! :)
@melodyqueen1223
@melodyqueen1223 29 күн бұрын
Ty, someone needed to say it. And if a disabled person chooses to do something that causes them physical pain, it doesn't make their disability any less valid. It's just the balance between making sure you're OK and actually LIVING life
@chezgenese
@chezgenese 28 күн бұрын
Thank you! And, yes. I really appreciate your comments and additions!
@susanwheeler-hall
@susanwheeler-hall Ай бұрын
Hi Kathryn, What a beautiful intro… OMG I have done sooo many talks on ditching the term handicap. Good job on your breakdown, it is inconsistent but all lead to the disadvantaged connotation. Also, I’ve found that Americans use it more as they (you) have the ADA compliance. I try to encourage people to use the term handicap for the structural items you identified NOT people - but as you point out there is nothing wrong with the parking spot but it is reserved for someone who needs access. Okay, here is a joke / thought sort of…. Imagine if the world was built for wheelchair people, all the non-disabled people would need helmets because of bumping their heads on doorframes and eventually they might need wheelchairs too as their backs would get really sore from all the bending over.
@chezgenese
@chezgenese 28 күн бұрын
That's a really interesting point that the word may be used more in the states because of ties to ADA compliance and regulations. I haven't thought again that connection before! And, yes. It's interesting and helpful to think about our world being built in a way that is intended for humans with disabilities, instead of humans without. I'm of the mindset that many of the disabilities people experience are imposed by culture/lack of adaptations. Your example of wheelchair access is a good one!
@susanwheeler-hall
@susanwheeler-hall Ай бұрын
Hello, I first want to say, as a former disability advocate (Canadian) I love the concept of your cafe’ well done. Having 340 (now 393) people in one room is a terrific way to frame this experience. Yes, conversion around disability is still lacking!! You’re encouraging me to revisit this idea. Be proud you’re doing a great job.
@chezgenese
@chezgenese 28 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! I so appreciate you taking the time to comment and provide encouragement! Would love to hear how you continue to step into advocacy in your own life and sphere. :)
@susanwheeler-hall
@susanwheeler-hall 28 күн бұрын
Hi Kathryn, stepping into advocacy continues to show up anywhere I am as I use a scooter, walker, and breathing ventilator. As you know promoting or asking for access is an ongoing educational exercise. I’ve had two careers, (22 yrs) one as a private family therapist who specialized in disability and illness adjustment as well as speaking and teaching on accessibility training. After retiring, I transitioned into website-related work (suzyweb 10+yrs). Now, I am trying to retire again but …that is boring, so I am considering dusting off my YT channel to reinvent it again. Contemplating… any suggestions would be welcome.
@simonielang
@simonielang Ай бұрын
I have noticed that British shows included people with disabilities much more frequently. The new season of Unforgotten has someone in a wheelchair. I loved it when I saw it - and how it was just part of the scene- not made to be something more. They also include actors of all ages and allow people to just be human.
@chezgenese
@chezgenese Ай бұрын
I haven't seen Unforgotten, but want to go check it out now! Thank you for the recommendation. And, yes. Allowing people to just be human is somehow rare, but such a beautiful thing!
@phoebetaylor4275
@phoebetaylor4275 Ай бұрын
I’m kind of sick of “autistic coded” just give me autistic characters written by autistic people. It’s exhausting that we’re just grasping to get any kind of representation
@chezgenese
@chezgenese Ай бұрын
This is an excellent point. I understand that obvious disclosure may not be made in all areas of TV or movies, but more open representation is 100% needed! And, all the way through the process, like you said. From the writing, to the characters, actors, etc. Thank you for taking the time to comment!
@AnneMarieKirkman
@AnneMarieKirkman Ай бұрын
I have never heard about autistic coding before! Good info, Kathryn ❤
@chezgenese
@chezgenese Ай бұрын
Thanks, Anne Marie!
@AnneMarieKirkman
@AnneMarieKirkman Ай бұрын
Good step!!! ❤
@richmond3h
@richmond3h Ай бұрын
I like your realization of them hiring disabled people.
@LoriHubert
@LoriHubert Ай бұрын
I hope Nike takes notice. They could be industry leaders here.
@AnneMarieKirkman
@AnneMarieKirkman Ай бұрын
You are so gifted at Mothering!
@AnneMarieKirkman
@AnneMarieKirkman Ай бұрын
I had no idea that you could have a service animal for PTSD. Thanks you for making all this information clear and coherent!
@richmond3h
@richmond3h Ай бұрын
I agree with you in that some companies are NOT doing the work but they are advertising that they do it.
@faithfix6013
@faithfix6013 Ай бұрын
Yes, the only two questions you’re allowed to ask and I do have a service dog required because of a disability. She is in training still my dog and she’s a standard poodle
@ColemanJRimer
@ColemanJRimer Ай бұрын
Going through life without a sense of humor must be exhausting.
@OakHogan
@OakHogan Ай бұрын
Get a life, lady. Can't believe the algorithm suggested this
@tuber198712
@tuber198712 Ай бұрын
For those unsure about all this, its a federal law. Service animals can go anywhere, no questions needed.
@waynecoral8845
@waynecoral8845 Ай бұрын
This is r3t@rded
@breebrat56
@breebrat56 Ай бұрын
As a SD handler with my PTSD & Medical Alert SD: 2 things to clarify on: 1. Under ADA federal law service dogs can be owner trained and therefore will not have paperwork from an organization. Not all SD’s will have paperwork. 2. The exception to the rule “ service animals must be accompanied by their handler “ The handler might be down and needs their SD to perform their trained task of leaving their handler to go get help from the nearest person. The handler might be getting on an amusement ride and the park will have a SD crate by the ride for the as to wait in. ( if offered ) If that’s not an option they can have someone they are attending the park with hold their SD while on the ride. There’s multiple other situations, but I’m not going to get too detailed.
@chezgenese
@chezgenese Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing!!
@richmond3h
@richmond3h 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for the clarification questions. I did not know them.
@richmond3h
@richmond3h 2 ай бұрын
And yes you did get in to “Mom Mode” for a bit 🤣🤣🤣
@AngelinaBurbey
@AngelinaBurbey 2 ай бұрын
I love that you did a video ft Mathew and Perry I love watching thier content. It unfortunate they had that experience.
@AnneMarieKirkman
@AnneMarieKirkman 2 ай бұрын
I cannot really get by if I don’t have food around 12. I already have a problem with feeling light headed anyways but if I don’t grab a snack it can be worse. Thanks for your honesty with things you are noticing about yourself that you want to work on. Makes me feel like doing the same thing! Being more self aware. ❤
@richmond3h
@richmond3h 2 ай бұрын
I do the same thing before my TBI and after. I rarely will take a break to eat.
@AnneMarieKirkman
@AnneMarieKirkman 2 ай бұрын
Kathryn, you are certainly accessible to humor 😂 😉
@naesenh.2162
@naesenh.2162 2 ай бұрын
The problem with "accessible (blank)" is that it gives off the idea that anybody can use what is intended for people with disabilities. I think it makes sense for elevators, walkways and things that everyone does use along with people with disabilities, but with parking spaces or even some restrooms it may lose the priority that is given to people with disabilities. I can imagine foreigners parking in "accessible parking" without the handicap sign thinking accessible may stand for people with children that need to unload strollers or have a lot of cargo they need to drop off (although I may just be over analyzing). I think it should be "(blank) for people with disabilities" The idea being the word "people" coming before the word disability ensures the agency and integrity of the a marginalized group instead of having their disability define their identity while still making it very clear that certain structures are only for or prioritized firstly for people with disabilities rather than being "accessible" to all including those with disabilities.
@paulascott5701
@paulascott5701 2 ай бұрын
You have no right to ban words. Who do you think you are? Handicap means a hardship that most people don't have. If that insults you, you are searching for ways to be insulted. I'm stick to death of this preposterous language tyranny. English is a beautiful and powerful language and you have no right to redefine words and ban them. This self aggrandizement is nothing short of revolting.
@naesenh.2162
@naesenh.2162 2 ай бұрын
I agree no one should dictate the ban of any word especially in the U.S people should be free to either adapt to new ways of describing things or feel free to use the old way that has been used throughout history. However, I can see how handicap can eventually become a more degrading term when compared to "people with disabilities" just like the word retard is distasteful as oppose of saying "person with a learning disability." Again, anyone should be free to use the language they want in our country, but progress comes from letting our language evolve as humanity progresses in empathy and compassion for others.
@paulascott5701
@paulascott5701 2 ай бұрын
@@naesenh.2162 They will stigmatize the use of the word disability. Constantly trying to redefine words is dishonest. The English language has not "evolved", it has devolved, thanks to egomaniacs like this woman. If you don't believe me, read a letter written by a 13 year old 150 years ago.
@jus4795
@jus4795 2 ай бұрын
"Accessible parking space" doesn't really fit as it is a parking space that only people with disabilities have the right to use.
@kjpcgaming9296
@kjpcgaming9296 2 ай бұрын
No, The weighting of a saddle equalizes the WEIGHT the horse carries from one jocky to another. It's not at all about slowing down a faster horse. If one jockey weighs 120 pounds and another weighs 140 pounds they put 20 pounds in the saddle of the lighter jockey - so that the horses are being races NOT the light jockey vs the heavier jockey. A handicap in gambling or in golf has to do with other things. Words can have more than one meaning. I disagree completely that handicap is a bad word for disability. It's the same thing. I am disabled - I am handicapped. Cancel culture is NOT good for language or for sociiety.
@kaidevaleria2531
@kaidevaleria2531 2 ай бұрын
I feel like in the grand scheme of things this is not the thing to focus on
@richmond3h
@richmond3h 2 ай бұрын
I like your thoughts on removing the word handicap from our thoughts and words. Thank you
@paulascott5701
@paulascott5701 2 ай бұрын
"Govern me, tyrant...please govern me more. I have no mind of my own...help! Tell me what I can think and ban accurate words after you take it upon yourself to redefine them. I'm an idiot and I need your guidance." There is nothing wrong with the word handicap. It means what it means and not what this strange woman says it means. THINK.
@antunbajric6576
@antunbajric6576 2 ай бұрын
your life seem so so so saaaaad.
@AnneMarieKirkman
@AnneMarieKirkman 2 ай бұрын
Had to say that the “sparkles” around the disability integration coach title sold me!! Your the best, Kathryn!!!
@jasonfalk4340
@jasonfalk4340 2 ай бұрын
Clickbait. I worked with disabled kids, and none of them take themselves that seriously
@VictoriaWilliams-bx9lw
@VictoriaWilliams-bx9lw 2 ай бұрын
Perfect title for the role and work you’re doing! I love your videos for the education on how to approach these topics and apply them to everyday life! Can’t wait for more!
@chezgenese
@chezgenese 2 ай бұрын
Thank you, Victoria! ❤
@lydacarpen3143
@lydacarpen3143 2 ай бұрын
I appreciate the way you share your own process with others. The way you work through challenging ideas and evolve out loud in your content. Very welcoming. Thank you!
@chezgenese
@chezgenese 2 ай бұрын
Thank you, Lyda! I appreciate your feedback and also for engaging in this process with me and my team!
@richmond3h
@richmond3h 2 ай бұрын
I agree with your comment about having to much of one thing will make it loose authinticiy. Nice words and thought process
@richmond3h
@richmond3h 2 ай бұрын
And ps I’d take those cooking tips
@chezgenese
@chezgenese 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Richmond! It can be really fun to just have one of something. :)