5 moments that changed me in 2024
19:24
14 сағат бұрын
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@ankitamaheshwari7686
@ankitamaheshwari7686 38 минут бұрын
Congratulations Jade!! So happy for you!!
@bettyreads222
@bettyreads222 2 сағат бұрын
Thanks for sharing this hard as heck journey to get to what you wanted. Grieving it all is imorotsnt and appreciate you for sharing your truth. ❤️
@breezyplayz1010
@breezyplayz1010 2 сағат бұрын
The way you clocked trump is the way i feel ngl
@maijennasis
@maijennasis 3 сағат бұрын
this might’ve unlocked a personal realization for me
@dch3934
@dch3934 4 сағат бұрын
sending 💕🪄and celebration 🪄🪄🪄🪄congratulations ✨️ ✨️✨️✨️
@artsytype
@artsytype 4 сағат бұрын
Congrats Jade!!! ❤❤❤
@LaMondaytv
@LaMondaytv 5 сағат бұрын
So real and raw. Appreciate you for sharing your experience. Speedy recovery! <3
@deanawells4395
@deanawells4395 11 сағат бұрын
I hope one day I can finally get my botched mastectomy fixed. I am so asymmetrical in size from one breast to the other and one looks like a horizontal laying football 😢. Best wishes that your outcome after healing is everything and more than you ever imagined. ❤
@peachnecctar1658
@peachnecctar1658 11 сағат бұрын
been following you for so many years now. this makes me sooo happy for you ♥ i cant stop smiling
@mayarahman9995
@mayarahman9995 13 сағат бұрын
All of that in a week? Yeah I would be frazzled too. But better safe than sorry. You want all the machines working and stuff. I love how your mom took the citrus mixture together with you. That’s love 💗
@aneshaxiomara6800
@aneshaxiomara6800 13 сағат бұрын
What a rollercoaster ride of a journey. In the end, your happiness, well-being, and safety is all that matters. Glad everything worked out. I hope that it continues.
@117mel
@117mel 14 сағат бұрын
your excitement at the end of the video ❤️❤️❤️ i‘m so happy for you
@emilynaomi211
@emilynaomi211 14 сағат бұрын
is that mindy🌚
@hmmcms1
@hmmcms1 14 сағат бұрын
Random unasked for advice, brand called Hibiclens is great for wounds on body. It’s a antiseptic skin soap the some people use before and after surgery but you can get it at pharmacy
@karen.johana
@karen.johana 14 сағат бұрын
I am SO incredibly HAPPY for you!!!! I got my breast reduction a couple years ago and I don’t think my doctors took good care of me. I also didn’t care for myself properly and now regret it. They’re still too big for my liking and am looking to get another surgery to hopefully get them to where I like which is a size very similar to yours. I’m hoping to do around a B cup or smaller. Anyway! Thank you for linking the plastic surgery place you went to! I’ll check them out for sure!
@NONPOINT420
@NONPOINT420 15 сағат бұрын
Dude you're a pretty amazing person, just saying.
@pdf.stephh
@pdf.stephh 16 сағат бұрын
No fr they have us being ashy AF the night before
@misslg4you
@misslg4you 16 сағат бұрын
OMG you look so happy and good!!! I've been thinking about getting a reduction for a little while and I'm just so happy for you! I've been watching you for years and the Madeyoulooks channel too. I'm so sorry you had to grieve and just literally be scared and unsure b/c of the fires. Stay safe!💛💛
@rebecca7856
@rebecca7856 16 сағат бұрын
❤ I can see the difference in your confidence instantly!
@JansmaIvy
@JansmaIvy 17 сағат бұрын
Dear Jade, you are allowed to feel sad about the big things that go on in the world…and you are allowed to feel sad about the big things that go on in YOUR world. It’s a lot…but it’s all valid, don’t apologize for feeling so deeply! How wonderful that your parents were there to help you through all this, mentally and physically ❤❤ those are the gifts we should cherish. Love and all the best from the Netherlands. And btw…it’s good you have a house to ‘live in’ instead of a house like a magazine cover too look at! 👌🏻☺️
@mariammairis
@mariammairis 17 сағат бұрын
So happy for you. The timing with the fires is crazy, but you did that :)
@WiftyBangura
@WiftyBangura 17 сағат бұрын
SAY WHAT SUNDAYS😭
@Charmane72
@Charmane72 17 сағат бұрын
Preparing for surgery take a lot mentally, especially a procedure that alters your physical appearance. One of the first videos I watched of your blogs, years ago, you were talking about your large breast. So we get it. Feel your feels.
@winter-i-i
@winter-i-i 18 сағат бұрын
Congrats gorgeous! ❤
@sodamnsexy16
@sodamnsexy16 18 сағат бұрын
This was such a heartwarming vlog hope you’re doing well Jade!!
@CaliBredBoii
@CaliBredBoii 18 сағат бұрын
Thank you Jade for sharing your story. Praying for your healing journey.
@soilgrasswaterair
@soilgrasswaterair 18 сағат бұрын
6:34 That’s so,ething that can be healed and moved into an attachment that is secure!❤ Avoidant attachment is an insecure attachment, so the work put in can eventually lead to the attachment being secure if one is healing. It takes time and effort with a professional, but this doesn’t need to be a life long battle! Many think they are stuck with a specific attachment and then that’s it, or that some areas can be ok but they are stuck with the rest. Insecure attachment comes from a broken development during the upbrining, and the root of it is parent/s or a guardian that were suppose to mirror and meet the child’s needs, but who didn’t (can be a mix of emotional neglect/abusive behavior/ not reading and mirroring the child/sometimes being emotionally available or sometimes lashing out or frightening behavior to the child and the list goes on). The avoidant attachment is the wound! Wounds can be healed❤ / Former uni. psychology student
@MsBNYC1986
@MsBNYC1986 18 сағат бұрын
Hey Jade! I am so happy for you love. I felt your pain and frustration when you tried so long to get the surgery and it didn't happen until now. I am so sorry about what all of ya going through in Los Angeles. My prayers goes out to all of you. Keep your head up and stay positive. God will see you all through. Much love.
@AfricanLytsy2020
@AfricanLytsy2020 18 сағат бұрын
Bruh I missed so much hey❤ love you Jade
@jab0623
@jab0623 18 сағат бұрын
Thanks for the update Jade! I’m glad the surgery was a success! I’m praying for LA❤
@soilgrasswaterair
@soilgrasswaterair 18 сағат бұрын
Question! How come avpidants don’t seek out other avoidants?! They want the same thing! Instead they seek out warm and stable people who are seeking out someone who is available. Similar to narcs in many ways. Which is scary because the gaslighting an avoidant will engage in when the person is questioning who they are (when the svoidant switches off the nice communication). Basically cater to all of my needs but don’t act like I owe you anything. Also an avoidant is actng like a partner is not a peer. Someone who is also able to show up in an adult way. Like a confusing way of viewing others as their abusive parent/s.
@soilgrasswaterair
@soilgrasswaterair 19 сағат бұрын
Atach,ent patterns can be changed, which is a beautiful thing with the brain! An avoidant has insecure attachment, but through work they can become sucure in their attachment! I’m sorry for all of those without secure attachment because your attachment people (parent/s or guardian) failed you in a major way! Focus on working on it instead of all of these hoops that only hurt yourselves and others!❤
@lisasiawild5816
@lisasiawild5816 19 сағат бұрын
Aww man that process seems like it was ASS. Your joy at the end made up for it though ⭐️
@lalasitah
@lalasitah 19 сағат бұрын
Congratzzz gyal !!! You look genuine happy with the result <3
@taykendall910
@taykendall910 20 сағат бұрын
I am SOOOO happy for you Jade!
@radiatinghype
@radiatinghype 20 сағат бұрын
My breast reduction literally changed my life. Straight up BR and AR (before reduction and after reduction) eras. Single best thing I've ever done, I can't be stopped now 😅
@aubriemckoy793
@aubriemckoy793 20 сағат бұрын
The recovery after breast reduction was difficult for me. I never realized how much I value my mobility and body autonomy. I’m 2.5 months post op now and my self confidence has skyrocketed.
@Azadehghavamrad
@Azadehghavamrad 22 сағат бұрын
So happy for you ❤️❤️❤️
@g3mk4y3m
@g3mk4y3m 23 сағат бұрын
My only regret about my reduction is that I didn’t do it sooner. Life changing
@imogenna_
@imogenna_ Күн бұрын
I’m so glad this finally happened for you 🥰 all the best for the recovery, I’ve been watching your videos for years, and as someone who struggles with this aspect of myself and my body and how it relates to and effects my identity and expression, it’s always just so comforting and encouraging to see people taking steps to further affirm themselves and feeling more like their true self ❤️
@sivgreyson
@sivgreyson Күн бұрын
“all plastic surgery is gender affirming care” YES THANK YOU!! i am a trans educator who does gender diversity training and chile, cis people be getting gender affirming healthcare ALL the time. happy to see it being framed in popular consciousness in this way.
@metalicrobot66
@metalicrobot66 14 сағат бұрын
I struggle with the "all" here. It may be gender affirming, maybe, but we live in a world where beauty expectations are misogynistic. like. a breast reduction for someone with backpain is different than a trans woman getting a breast augmentation due to crippling dysphoria or a cis woman getting a breast augmentation because of societal/partner pressure to fit a certain unrealistic beauty standard for women. It's hard to tackle this issue, with nuance, in a KZbin comments section, but I am curious to hear others thoughts on this!
@aishahb8336
@aishahb8336 Күн бұрын
That last shot - you look transformed!! So happy for you ❤
@sambradley3179
@sambradley3179 Күн бұрын
I wish I could like this video twice. As a fellow BD girly, thank you for sharing.
@fvances
@fvances Күн бұрын
congrats!! i’m so happy for you! you look awesome 💛 i got top surgery and it was the best thing ive ever don’t for myself. you’re going to have much fun putting outfits together
@oomiesays
@oomiesays Күн бұрын
Omg yas!!!!!!!
@Dolly07734
@Dolly07734 Күн бұрын
someone we know got her boobs done in Egypt and came back with one nipple 💀💀💀💀💀 they stole her nipple
@yellosmoothie
@yellosmoothie Күн бұрын
seeing you post op is such a joy. I love people seeing themselves for the first time. It never gets old
@maheliahunter8886
@maheliahunter8886 Күн бұрын
Omg, congratulations!
@quiqui6424
@quiqui6424 Күн бұрын
Oh yeah PSA if you get an endoscopy or anything where they put a tube down your throat my vocal professor said to always request the infant size. The smaller one is easier on the tissue so it hurts less when you wake up
@MarianneMedlin-dz4dz
@MarianneMedlin-dz4dz Күн бұрын
5:31 when the nurse told me I couldn’t use any lotion or oil after my shower 😩 I felt so damn crispy. Skin just begging for moisture.