Please take care Valerie! These things such as loss do happen and sometimes it is not a loss, but just a rough patch in a relationship (platonic or even familial or non-familial)!

Okay, what I like the most about this video? Its transition from the beautiful and nearly perfect introduction of you wearing a glamorous dress and dazzling jewelry... to getting to the deep core of your soul and sharing its pain and suffering. Let's say you hadn't shared your pain, which one of us would have known that you're suffering in silence? I agree when you said we all are the same, we really are. Some people are strong enough to be vulnerable and share their pain, some cannot handle their pain being seen or known, for a lot of reasons. Toughening up is in their blueprint, they don't have a support system, they fear rejection, or are simply afraid of the unknown outcome that awaits.

I feel so sorry for the pain you are discovering. Wish you all the best for growing soon out of it and being stronger afterwards. 🧡

O que foi que vc misturou no agitador magnético, para preparar a tela?? 😮

that dress is so beautiful, you literally look like a butterfly.

you’re adorable ❤

Miss Valerie, all love and respect for this great personality. I want to tell you a secret, a very great secret. I don't even know how to tell you this, Miss Valerie. People are weak and need a stronger force than them. God is always present. God is the richest power in this universe. God is the one who created you. He also knows what is inside you, Miss Valerie, know well and that you are not alone. God is with you. I am a Muslim and Islam is very beautiful, beautiful to the extent that you know. Everything is from God, and praying to God heals the pain inside you and the wounds caused by humans. I hope with all my heart that you read the translated Qur’an. You will find something that touches your beautiful heart. I love you, Miss Valerie. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Thank you so much for your openness, for showing your vulnerable site. This is not easy , surely not on KZbin. Keep going and doing, I adore your artist character and your thoughts about the inner self and the view on things. Xoxo

Wow, I had wondered why I wasn't finding your videos. I'm happy that you have returned. I will turn 75 in about 8 days and always enjoy watching you paint and sharing wisdom from personal experience with us as well. It's so refreshing. Thank you for all that you have to offer.😊❤

You could easily be my best friend, Valerie 💛 I love your videos, they cheer me up when I need, they make me think when I should, they make me laugh when I didn't expect. Thank you very much for this, and thank you for your beautiful art ✨

I just gave a like on your video without even watching.. the arts you are making are pleasant and relaxing

Is that you in your painting?

She comunicates with the camera so nicely

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How about a siamese fighting fish as a pet. They don't have challenging conditions to keep them and they need to be kept alone, but they are such beautiful fish.

It really hurt to see Valerie in this much pain, it really hit close to home for me because I've been there a lot lately. Please don't give up Valy, you're what keeps me hoping for change. Think of the stars above you as you ride your loyal steed!🥺💝✨

Thaks for your video, Valerie. I know how difficult its to talk about the bad moments in life. I felt very identified with your words, lately I had had sad thoughts but I decided to take care of myself and move fordward, watching this video made me feel that I´m not alone. Pd. your curly hair looks so pretty.

"I went to the solarium", says Valerie, who's already very tanned (meanwhile, here I am catching a bit of sun everyday and still being as white as milk hahahah) But seriously, who hurt my sweet girl?? Who needs to get their butt kicked?? *AYAAAAHHHH* 🥷 I mean, how could someone hurt you that bad?? I know people online always seem different than they are in person, but still you seem like the kind of person I'd be there for: a really nice person, who gets straight to the point and maybe is a little shy, as you appreciate working alone most of the time, but patient and always ready to make other people smile (and might I add, your Coach Valerie impersonation was super endearing).. You're so yound and at the same time you seem to have learned so much already! I envy your resilience! You're amazing ❤️

I don’t usually comment on YT, but seeing you cry just broke my heart. Valerie, I know exactly how you feel. I’ve had people close to me break my heart more times than I can count. I just want you to know that you’re such an inspiration to me to employ healthy coping mechanisms to overcome grief and continue to grow. Your approach to life is so beautiful and I am so thankful that you’re in this world ❤️‍🩹💖

Just Thank You 🤍

Mais oui, ce que vous dites est vrai... et j’y pense, la période de covid est l’exemple qui colle à l’analyse de l’esprit que tu decris... Pour la première fois, pendant le covid, j’ai eprouvé le besoin de remettre les pendules à l’heure.... Faire le tri dans tout ce qui ne me convenait plus, qui n’avait jamais réellement été en accord avec mon ”moi” Retrouver la solitude qui me va si bien, non pas que la presence des autres m’insupporte, mais il est des relations que l’on entretient parce que on a peur de passer pour une ”sauvage”...ou quelqu’un qui snobe les autres... Pas du tout ! Oui, cette periode m’a fait aimer cette retraite forcée, cette solitude salutaire, bienfaisante, apaisante J’ai été enfin libre d’être moi, de faire ressortir ce que je ressentais depuis toujours, de ne plus faire ce que les autres attendent de moi. La façon de m’habiller a changé, le choix de mes couleurs de vêtements, ma consommation, mon envie de faire ce que je reportais depuis des années Et.... entre autres , je me suis mise à ”créer ”, et à peindre : et je n’ai jamais autant ressenti le fait d’etre à l’écoute de ce que je ressentais physiquement et moralement. J’étais dans l’analyse de tout, de mes comportements, de mes cheminements de pensées, de ma relation aux autres, mes amis, ma famille, davantage dans l’empathie et la compréhension des choses qui arrivaient, et la découverte que d’autres comme moi , avaient vécu ce même revirement et, ça fait du bien. C’est une situation je pense , qui a été acceptée par mon entourage et que je ne veux plus changer. Et je continue à être vigilante à tout ce qui m’entoure, ce qui ’arrive, surtout moralement. Des choix et des pratiques à chacun, salvateurs (trices) 😊

Hi what was the pill that you put in the water?

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Awesome video, so raw, so real. Thank you ❤ Can’t wait to see your new smile.

Thank you Valerie, this is so inspiring. I gave birth to my first child one and a half month ago and I have been at my limit day and night since then. I love this little new human, this experience is so challenging and we are both evolving so much. A lot of times I just want to quit and go back the life as it was before, but I know I can't do that, I would regret it so so much. Thank you again, this video remind me of the things I had forgotten ♥️

I would not do anything just yet. Just allow your energy to settle and ground.

Beautiful 🤩🤩🤩

Thank you Valerie 🦋🦋🦋

I love your hair at the end of the video. You should always wear it like that. It shows your wild side. A pet is a huge responsability, they become our babies. So, if I were you, I'd sleep on it....for several days...rsrs. Because once you get one, you'll never go back to livinig alone, trust me, I know...they give us so much love. Thank you for sharing😍

Thanks for sharing, this is so beautiful and so true, praying blessings over your life, and that you can find love in new places and new people.

I highly recommend adopting a cat, specifically a 1-year-old cat, because they are not as insane to take care of and will likely already have all their shots and have been spayed/neutered. I would also recommend getting a male cat because they are not as territorial as female cats, which tend to have poor tempers and pee on things! If you are concerned about taking care of the litter box daily, I 100% recommend getting the PetSafe automatic litter box. They are one of the cheaper options for an automatic litter box, and as someone who has scooped my cat's litter box for 7 years, I know it is worth every penny to get an automatic one. Also, I am so sorry for what happened. Thank you for still posting a video when you're going through a hard time. We love you dearly, and you have a way of calming my energy and brightening it simultaneously. thank you for sharing parts of your life with us <3

please include in your vids what you eat to maintain good health while you struggle with your art, during bad times and good.

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In the long nights, when I can't sleep and feel like just crying, I go back to the Psalm 6. Sometimes read it, sometimes listen to it. I cry then. But after a while, peace comes.

I follow your videos from starting and it’s so motivating to me. ❤

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Ааа это короновирус тогда был? А я думаю - что за проблема выйти на улицу?!!😂 Потом увидела маску и поняла)

the real life lofi girl

Valerie you are incredible even in your darkest moments. Thank you.

That reminds me I need new shoes. Thank you Valerie! 💕

I stumbled across your video and I can relate to you. I started drawing and progressing to painting because it was challenging to express hurts. My art is my expression of how I feel and it’s great to see you creat your frames, enjoying the rawness and vulnerability you share. Bless you child. The flow is when my hands are busy, the chitter chatter in my mind is silenced. That’s the power of creating anything.

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BJP SHOULD WIN

thank you Valarie for sharing your vulnerability ..we all have some sadness and u let us remember that we are not alone...you are a very strong, powerful, talented woman...stay connected to your heart! ps,,,your painting is insanely beautiful...how do u do that with out a outline or drawing on the canvas??? please share!! hugs and love

I think the plant is perfect

This was such a healing vlog especially since I’m goin through the same thing

Don’t jump into getting an animal until you feel better. Regardless of people saying cats or whatever animal are low maintenance, they do actually require a lot of care, time, and energy and it seems like you need to focus on healing and resting yourself right now. Thank you for sharing your journey with us and I hope you feel better

Valerie I can’t tell you how badly I needed to hear what you talk about in this video as well as your video about how to deal with loneliness. I’m a doctor but at heart I’m an artist. I was struggling today painting. And my demons slowly consumed how I saw my husband as well today. But I’m glad I saw your video.

This video is right on time for me. Thank you for being so transparent about your journey. It resonates so profoundly loud with my life at the moment.