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@wendyc2374 Сағат бұрын
You better preach that Word! I hope Ashley listens to you.
@The_1_She Сағат бұрын
This IS the lewk Stephco ❤❤❤
@andreawatkins67 Сағат бұрын
Steph I love you lol I enjoy your videos so much
@chinyelundubisi9985 Сағат бұрын
I think it's ironic that some ppl get perfectionist or elitist vibes from Ashley, and she committed so readily to Tyler. How would partnering with him push that image for her??
@shanitamorenita Сағат бұрын
Black women are tired of the struggle love. We’ve been used and abused for far too long. We have more resources, tools and access to information to get out of icky situations.
@alexandria3692 Сағат бұрын
It’s so hard to care about Tyler and Ashley 😅 so many gray areas and a truly bizarre situation We’re talking about a deadbeat baby dad/possible sperm donor to 1/2 of a lesbian couple conceived during their marriage and the baby dad found himself married to another woman via a Netflix reality show where you marry a near stranger. I can’t take any of this seriously I’m so sorry 😆
@zimladyj84 Сағат бұрын
That man wants to be a deadbeat in peace.
@simply6eCo Сағат бұрын
they still hate jackelina
@AlaciaLaRobin 2 сағат бұрын
Also wanna add to your point about how Laterras checked him vs how Jessie and Rikki wanted him to be checked. Watching Jessie's live when Laterras came on showed just how different our communication styles are and why these gender wars tend to continue. Laterras was trying to get them to understand that he knows how to communicate with men because he is a man, and they and the comments couldn't seem to let it go. As a woman, I wanted to see Tyler get told off and put in his place, but had Laterras gone in with that energy, he never would've gotten anywhere. Idk, not saying either way is right or wrong. It was just the first time I saw an example in real-time. It was interesting to watch.
@kaiymariewalker8823 2 сағат бұрын
Steph you’re so good and honest and REAL!!! I really really really love how balanced and even-keeled you are its just refreshing even with this kind of ghetto content 😂
@Covers-and-Commentary 2 сағат бұрын
Ashley will quietly leave him and never admit her bird behavior just watch.
@lwise8131 2 сағат бұрын
Great video!
@daughterofyah6209 2 сағат бұрын
13:40 - Netflix didnt protect them because they did the background checks and knew what was there! How can you protect them when they literally used them to stir up drama. LIB just didnt think or calculate that people would have compassion for the children or just how triggering everything from Hannah and Nick, Tyler and Ashley and Marissa and Rameses would be! --drama naturally happens but when you try to 26:27 I disagree. He meant Bri and those kids. His actions say this because he has not seen them since going on the show and he even said "the son" to try to distance himself from being dad by blood but also agreeing to be their dad and co parenting with her. I agree with the Proverbs 31 woman statements. I'll add that we need to teach our daughters that the bible also talks about foolish men and liars and they do not receive the kingdom so we need to be better about making sure the partners we choose line up with that as well, not just us lining up with scripture. Youre statements on the Dear Wifey podcast Laterrus I agree with. And yess we do love a black couple who gets it right because so many of us get it wrong I appreciate your view point because I thought you were going to create a space to big him up I was like let me go watch it before I shake her down 🤣🤣
@queenjasz7685 2 сағат бұрын
I’m glad somebody said it Bri is MESSY MESSY !!!
@Iracquel 3 сағат бұрын
Omg I went to KAA lol
@manuntdforever9760 3 сағат бұрын
I really appreciate that you’re one of the few voices who’s raised an eyebrow at the mystery surrounding Bri’s role in all of this. I highly doubt her hands are 100% clean in all of this mess. Tyler allegedly abandoning his children is awful, but the way these KZbinrs keep airing all of his personal business without his permission - I wonder if he could file a harassment lawsuit against some of them because atp the constant updates on his life that we shouldn’t be privy to is getting unhinged, imo.
@kayla7665 3 сағат бұрын
The best thing Tyler and Ashley could do is actually be in the kids lives now. Whether they send birthday cards, ask to see them for the holidays, or just have a relationship with the kids, but it's from a distance. Tyler is so consumed with "these kids, aren't mine" but you could step up and still be present for them regardless, and that's what both him and ashley aren't seeing. F all the storylines, and narratives, why not just be there for them until their 18 and then you sit down and share how messy it was in the beginning. At least then the kids have had you in their lives and you can say that. Choosing to not want to be apart of their lives and claiming to justify it becuz you don't feel they are yours is truly a cowards way out. They will remember you as a coward Tyler....I
@MariahBethea 2 сағат бұрын
🎉🎉boom
@queenpraisse 3 сағат бұрын
UGH, I hate that you all seemingly have to blame Christianity for bad behaviour, she’s not a proverbs 31 woman, this is FOOLISHNESS not righteousness, she ain’t got nothing to do with that verse, because what does light have to do with darkness? She would not want to be with him if she accurately followed the bible and applied that verse accurately, just because she mentions God, doesn’t mean we should actually associate her behaviour with God, a righteous woman is just and cares for children, mentioning the bible in this matter is a lack of critical thinking, there’s no Christian woman that would condone what Ashley is doing, there are plenty of people have call themselves Christian and act in a cognitively dissociated way, humans are very stupid, it’s not new
@athompson9424 3 сағат бұрын
I clicked sooooo fast!
@goldengirlll 3 сағат бұрын
black women love to shame other black women who struggle in love. i get that a lot of it is projection and wanting to “protect” others, but a lot of us seem to enjoy the meanness.
@sydneyyliz 4 сағат бұрын
Please keep posting!!!! I live for your uploads
@Theseanple 4 сағат бұрын
You look stunning. GRWM video next
@80soa 4 сағат бұрын
27:53 of course he means the kids, thats what he is already doing. Moms and dads that really love their kids will deal with a lot of mess to be with them, he just uses this "mess" (that he created too) to excuse himself out of his responsibility. Sending child support doesnt involve you in mess.
@80soa 4 сағат бұрын
Tyler is one of the many men that love to create baggage with women but think they don't carry it too afterwards.
@NotaShowOrPodcast 4 сағат бұрын
Love this hair style on you , so pretty ❤
@CaRiBgAl4 4 сағат бұрын
Great take
@elenakalliste 5 сағат бұрын
I do genuinely respect you choosing to be a centrist, however I do think it’s important to highlight the difference between extreme right wing people and extreme left wing people. They are two sides of the same coin, but the coin is selfishness. The right is very hell bent on maintaining the status quo of straight white men in power, no matter what. The left is hell bent on getting everyone to be equal, not exactly no matter what, but even if that means those individual leftists lose something. You have a right to have a different political belief system, but it is dangerous to imply that both extremes are just as dangerous. They’re both dangerous to capitalism/the economy but for VERY VERY different reasons.
@GE-lh8eq 5 сағат бұрын
Please do a video on skai jackson's pregnancy and the internet's response. (or maybe the rise in 'baby mama' culture as people had similar ideas to share about Halle and DDG)
@nikkinikki8 6 сағат бұрын
Great commentary! I believe the Laterras interview style did not work for the Tyler interview specifically, because it’s obvious that Tyler has had yes men his whole entire life, adding one to the mix is only an ego boost and a cause to keep lying. A good interviewer would have took that baby shower question and asked well “was there any other place or event that they could have been talking about?” Something so simple could have gave him more credibility, instead of seeming like he was coddling him.
@dbaby1222 6 сағат бұрын
17:17 "when i first found out she was gonna be the democratic nominee i was as limp and as confused as these bangs on this wig" HAHA literally love u
@Lunaslair678 6 сағат бұрын
Those glasses are soo cute on you <3 Most people can't pull of big chunky glasses, you're lucky!
@hellostephco84 2 сағат бұрын
Thank you!! I Iove frames like this.
@lilalilac3662 6 сағат бұрын
I love your channel but please enough of LIB already….
@MariahBethea 2 сағат бұрын
Then don’t watch this particular video. a lot of us watch LIB 😂😂
@LS-gy9bq 6 сағат бұрын
Ashley does NOT have good "scruples"! HER BEHAVIOR IS SHOWING THAT‼️ NO WAY WOULD SHE BE ABLE TO CONDONE /ENABLE/ AND SUPPORT HER HUZBAND ABANDONING HIS 3 CHILDREN IF SHE HAD SCRUPLES!! THE RESPONSIBILITY IS TYLER'S BUT NO WAY WOULD HE CONTINUE TO DO THAT WITHOUT HER ARDENT SUPPORT!!!
@LS-gy9bq 6 сағат бұрын
Ashley is not a victim!! Both she and Tyler sold their victims story about being raised without fathers in their lives, PRAYING AND BEING ALL CHRISTIAN-Y, & BOTH...BOTH HAVE BASICALLY SAID F TYLER'S THREE KIDS‼️🥷🏽 WE ARE TRYING TO GET TO A INFLUENCER BAG ‼️ THEY'RE BOTH DISGUSTING 🤬 BRI , literally expected that the kids could participate in the wedding and had no problem with them being a part of Lylers new life but Lyler and Ashley have rejected that 100% INTENTIONALLY inflicting years of trauma on those kids with no empathy coming from their own experiences ‼️
@jahleda8937 6 сағат бұрын
great video and some great quotes and points made 👍🏾. We shall overcome these next 4 years 🙏🏾❤️
@Judi.B-621 7 сағат бұрын
Looking this new look 😍
@Tina-h7j3q 7 сағат бұрын
When my baby daddy was with me. He paid for everything. He refused to let me pay for anything. However, he lives with a woman and they split things 50/50.
@osabhopeful 7 сағат бұрын
My thing is, this whole thing would have been avoided if Tyler was just straight up in the pods and didn't act as if he didn't have kids. We can play a drinking game off of how many times he mentions having "pod babies" and the like. It would not haven't gotten so messy if he didn't call them "sperm babies" and publicly disowned them.
@beewest5704 6 сағат бұрын
Why was he even on the show with his mess. That tells me all I need to know. It was not the time or place to find a stranger to marry on TV.
@BrickCity8919 7 сағат бұрын
Ashley is def not a Proverbs 31 woman imo. Proverbs 31:8 8 Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, She is turning a deaf ear to his children who cannot speak up for themselves. Theres a very scary apathy happening
@nedvithy7780 7 сағат бұрын
steph i would love listening to your grocery lists, i love love your videos
@tamararodriguez4413 7 сағат бұрын
All Bryan McLight (as Jessi Woo calls him) had to do was to say I Have 3 kids, and let Ashley decide if she wanted to be with him or not... but No, his messy behind decided to Lie about how he messed around with another woman (who just happened to be gay). As a mother, Bri had to come out and defend their Children that He decided he no longer wanted to be involved in. He put them in Harms way, their mother came to their defense. Ashley has dug up so deep that at this point she deserves all the crap he has put her through. Latteris gave him a safe space for him to continue lying and he meant what He meant "I want That family to go away"... and he meant Bri and Her children. He can Go, but the court will deem him responsible for kids he conceived naturally and that he has custody for. Let him have what's coming to him‼️‼️
@beewest5704 6 сағат бұрын
When it all blows up in Ashley's face Lyler will be the 1st to say Ashley made him abandon his kids. And he loved her so much but he later decided he could not live without his kids & paint her as a evil stepmom.
@tamararodriguez4413 5 сағат бұрын
@beewest5704 "Lyler" ‼️🤣 and You are 💯‼️‼️
@pollyannaprinciple5860 8 сағат бұрын
Thank you for this video. I'm over 50 and still dating. Was dating someone for 3.5 years. I knew he wasn't the right person, but the sex was great so I didn't leave there relationship. Although the sex was great, I could have found the right partner during the time. I still have not given up. Still a hopeful romantic.
@kweenz600 8 сағат бұрын
34:17 “her husband is respected at the city gate” that one right there. Every other day there’s a new story about Lyler and his no good, low down and dirty ways. He’s barely allowed in the city gates 😂 Sending Ashley good vibes cause she got duped hard.
@beewest5704 6 сағат бұрын
The moment this online attention fades away she will leave him. She seems like the girl to cling just because others tell her to not do it.
@hellostephco84 8 сағат бұрын
Oh, and I didn’t say this in the video, but I thought it was funny in the interview when he described Bri’s job as being super secretive “underground intelligence, black ops” I just don’t believe that either, but whatever you say!
@_KrystalAlexis 9 сағат бұрын
Did you watch season 1? That was the best and should of been the last
@Monochrome_11 10 сағат бұрын
i swear next season LIB gonna have fucking Legion lol
@hellostephco84 9 сағат бұрын
I would have trouble sleeping if I was a cast member for next season. and I know I had a messed up story. I’d honestly reach out to Jesse and Ricky privately and be like hey I’m in the next season, go easy on me. They won’t lol. But I would still ask.
@MizzBFlye 7 сағат бұрын
@@hellostephco84😂
@db4449 11 сағат бұрын
*At the end of it all…. Lyler himself speaks out* 🗣️ Everyone but the children have put in their 2 cents 🪙 🪙 Hi Steph Hi Sam & Sebastian❄️🥰 I hoped we would get some spooky story times for Halloween 🎃 🥺 my hopes are still high for Thanksgiving and Lazy girl Christmas vlogs, story times, and commentary 🎄 🌹❤️
@Whatsgucci 11 сағат бұрын
I love the fact that everyone refers to him as Lyler💀
@hellostephco84 9 сағат бұрын
The lies are atrocious!
@carly10347 11 сағат бұрын
Your audio is better!! Yay!
@hellostephco84 9 сағат бұрын
W00t! And that’s on. Finally learning the difference between a dynamic microphone and a condenser microphone! And learning that I like condenser microphones better and it makes it easier for me to edit the audio. Thank you for noticing!
@compostingbin 11 сағат бұрын
Smh sometimes your perspective is so off Steph... When he said he wants 'that family' to leave him alone, it's clear he was referring to Bri, 'her' kids and her mom. They are the only family we know of and have been talking about all along. I believe in giving a person grace but he obviously doesn't deserve it here. The children he conceived with Bri don't fit into his ideal view on what family looks like for him, so he has detached himself from them. He found something newer and shinier and wants to build a family with Ashley. There's no reason to look into how Bri navigates her romantic relationships. That doesn't absolve him of his parental responsibility. That would be the same as saying that if he and her were in a committed relationship and she moved on into a heterosexual relationship, that it would be okay for him to say, 'okay, she has a man, she doesn't need me anymore. I relinquish my role/rights as a father.' Consentual sex led to her getting pregnant. She doesn't have the 'option' to be a parent to her children, so why should he? Regardless of who their new romantic partners are, they share children and should BOTH chip in to be PARENTS.
@hellostephco84 9 сағат бұрын
I don’t agree with you. I got something else from it and I justified what I got. That doesn’t make me off it means I got something else from the interview. Also, I think people have an issue. If something isn’t stated exactly like they would say it, they assume the person is saying something opposite of what they’re saying. I just read your entire response to me and at one point did I ever say anything different than what you’re saying in the video. All I said was, I think when he said that family, he meant Bri and everything that comes with being associated with Bri. And at the end of the video, I said he’s not the first person to not like the person he had a baby with, and not like the realities of having a baby with that individual, but that doesn’t excuse his behavior. We need to learn that just because someone doesn’t state something exactly as we would, or they pick up something different from a conversation, It doesn’t mean they’re disagreeing or they don’t think the same thing as we think. It also doesn’t mean, that they are “off”. It just means they stated it differently. Also, these kinds of conversations are never productive. If when someone gives their perspective, they are seen as being “off“ instead of just looking at the situation from a different way. There is a difference.
@compostingbin 7 сағат бұрын
@hellostephco84 I'm allowed to view your perspective as 'off' if I think that objectively most people would view the subject a particular way. Half the time I dont agree with your opinion but I still enjoy your videos because of your fresh perspective. This one, I had to say something about. I mentioned his parental responsibility in relation to his feelings about Bri and her sexuality because you touched on how she moves in relationships. That just isn't a thing. Why are we dissecting parts of this lady's life that have nothing to do with his responsibility as a father? Since you're giving me advice, let me give you some - you should be focusing on the crux of the matter. Everything else is a distraction.
@beewest5704 6 сағат бұрын
I think if we take it context with Tyler abandoning his kids how else are we supposed to take " that family". Our unconscious often screams & we get caught up saying more. I think he did not mean to say it being the lyler that he is but he did tell the truth. He wants nothing to do with that family included his kids.
@Fofaithsa 2 сағат бұрын
@@beewest5704 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽