121. Why did my Ex unblock me?

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In this video Rory talks about the confusion behind why an Ex randomly unblocks you after weeks/months of having you blocked.
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@t.1137
@t.1137 3 жыл бұрын
Broooo he said “Well why were you checking?” I feel personally attacked LMAOOOO HE REALLY CALLED ME OUT
@joekline6892
@joekline6892 5 жыл бұрын
In my opinion, viewing your ex's social media is a form of breaking no contact. You will almost always feel worse after viewing their profile. Don't forget, no contact has just as much to do with healing and learning to live without your ex as it does with damage control and making them miss you. My ex of three years broke up with me a little more than a year ago. I immediately went into no contact, but I viewed her social media obsessively for about three months. I stopped when I saw that she was in a relationship with someone else, because I realized at that moment that I would see nothing on her profile that would make me feel better. Only then, could I truly begin to heal. Fast forward 10 months from that day, and I have improved my life in every way partially thanks to YOUR advice! I am now in an exclusive relationship with a beautiful woman. Thanks for all you do, and keep it up!
@izil1fe
@izil1fe 2 жыл бұрын
Why would you ever want to get back together with a girl who was in a "relationship" 3 months after she broke up with you. That girl left you for another dude who she was taking to and probably seeing before you broke up. Never go back to someone who dumped you for someone else! If you broke up and then both were single for like a year after that and then one of you find someone else.. fine.. can be real.. maybe.. but three months?
@briteidea08
@briteidea08 Жыл бұрын
Only noticed my ex unblocked me because of the tags in my pictures on IG. The block only lasted 5 weeks. If I blocked someone. They usually stay blocked.
@hllj2793
@hllj2793 5 жыл бұрын
Bad news if they're a narcissist
@ginade0105
@ginade0105 4 жыл бұрын
Because? Hoovering start soon??
@darlyntenelanda9728
@darlyntenelanda9728 4 жыл бұрын
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@angelsanchez-vg2oc
@angelsanchez-vg2oc 4 жыл бұрын
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@neverlistenkid
@neverlistenkid 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Rory and DG, for what you guys help and support getting people through their difficult time
@trill4MJ
@trill4MJ 4 жыл бұрын
Got unblock today and came straight here😃but I'm minding my business.
@giovannimorgan8728
@giovannimorgan8728 Жыл бұрын
Update?
@mapimages
@mapimages 5 жыл бұрын
Affordable, honest, genuine, real advice? Brilliant my man 👌🏼must be a Jersey thing my friend
@Iqrach888
@Iqrach888 4 жыл бұрын
Blocked, unblocked then blocked, unblocked, and now blocked..... 🤣😂🤣😂😂😢😢
@bomaigimogeremawi4242
@bomaigimogeremawi4242 4 жыл бұрын
That's your hubby/wifey
@bluebird1894
@bluebird1894 3 жыл бұрын
Now it’s your turn to block that person :)
@juliet3227
@juliet3227 3 жыл бұрын
Same here haha
@anewman1976
@anewman1976 5 жыл бұрын
All my favourite breakup guys have posted in the last 3 hours! Just saying 🙂
@carloscardenas1532
@carloscardenas1532 5 жыл бұрын
Dropping a couple of video topic ideas for you Rory. Use them all or use none. I'll continue watching regardless. Cheers man!
@Sisi.Jewell
@Sisi.Jewell 5 жыл бұрын
When you've finished your book you should consider recording an audio version! Your voice is very addicting, Rory.
@TheLoveChat
@TheLoveChat 5 жыл бұрын
Oh I definitely will be doing that!
@willyp22
@willyp22 5 жыл бұрын
I second that!
@melwill9868
@melwill9868 5 жыл бұрын
I agree🤩
@SantanuPaul27891
@SantanuPaul27891 5 жыл бұрын
Hello Rory I watched every one of your videos, I'm a regular viewer of your channel. I joined sinced my break up from January 2018, that time I wanted to get my ex back and now it's exact opposite I get over of my past, became a new person, realized my self values. Thanks for all your advices, all of those topics are very uplifting and truly helpful for your viewers. Thanks brother, keep up the good work. Best wishes from India.
@carloscardenas1532
@carloscardenas1532 5 жыл бұрын
-How to properly deal with your regrets? (From the relationship) -Chances of reconciliation after multiple breakups? -Addicted to checking their social media? (Should you delete/block?) Addiction. -Dangers or benefits of using jealousy tactics. -Specifics ideas and ways to "better yourself" -Engaging/Marrying to fix or better a relationship. The dangers or tasks ahead. -Being equally yoked. How important is it?
@rezkykamal1004
@rezkykamal1004 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the topic rory!!!
@cglb3904
@cglb3904 4 жыл бұрын
👏🏻👏🏻The best way to attract people is to be attractive! Be the beautiful version of YOU🥰🥰
@TruthwillsetyoufreePodcast93
@TruthwillsetyoufreePodcast93 2 жыл бұрын
My ex unblock me so I decided to block her now let’s see how she takes it because I’ve moved on and she’s going to be block forever muhahahaha
@fajjarmanzoor1752
@fajjarmanzoor1752 10 ай бұрын
I've experienced this with mine, he decided to block me without giving any actual reasons so I had to ask in favor of my best friend because she helped me out and stuck around. Now that this is my 4th healing process, he decides to unblock and sent a request to attract my attention. I had a hard time blocking then unblocking thinking if it was wrong but I listened to myself taking my time to decide and finally managed to block back because I don't deserve what I got before it is unfair and besides like he mentioned to my best friend that I deserve better.
@sialee5926
@sialee5926 4 жыл бұрын
What if they ghosted and blocked you on WhatsApp, and when you found out you blocked them as well. Now they have unblocked you, but they’re still blocked. They have no way of communicating unless they call
@TheGeorgesHabibPodcast
@TheGeorgesHabibPodcast 5 жыл бұрын
You decrease the coaching, i increase my patreon submission, youre worth it :)
@TheLoveChat
@TheLoveChat 5 жыл бұрын
You people are too good to me!
@BlackMaleSpirituality
@BlackMaleSpirituality 5 жыл бұрын
I met my “ex” (we dated but weren’t that serious until things started to fall apart) on a non mainstream website for people of very specific, unconventional interests. I parted ways with her because of things came up in life and she blocked me on the site and wouldn’t answer my calls. I was on the site not looking for her and I stumbled across her profile and noticed I was unblocked. I know what I want to do in my heart but my mind says no.
@naveensehdev9973
@naveensehdev9973 5 жыл бұрын
my dude!! hope you're doing well!!
@TheLoveChat
@TheLoveChat 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Navin!
@kiwiclips9663
@kiwiclips9663 5 жыл бұрын
I loved that thumbnail :)
@nine0nmechillin902
@nine0nmechillin902 3 жыл бұрын
That's why I'm here
@samhines5084
@samhines5084 5 жыл бұрын
I got unblocked off Facebook first then messenger like a week or two later 😂🙄 I've acted like I ain't even seen her unblock me but I just know 😉
@ooopsitwasntme3531
@ooopsitwasntme3531 5 жыл бұрын
Sam Hines dude me and my guy broke up a month ago he kept me blocked on Facebook messenger up until like a few days ago, when I saw on messenger I was not blocked anymore!!!! Like why bother unblocking me??
@JesseHuffey
@JesseHuffey 4 жыл бұрын
Same,we haven't talked yet. She's in a relationship.
@sudhu5
@sudhu5 4 жыл бұрын
Mine too but i dont give a shit to her anymore as i have got a beautiful girl who loved me for whom i have and now we are married i did no contact for a year its worth it just leave your ex my ex tried reaching me after a year i didnt bother to reply her
@benjunior1678
@benjunior1678 4 жыл бұрын
was blocked on fb/messenger for 11 days.I deactivated my fb on day 10 which was yesterday.Noticed for the first time,she unblocked me on messenger.
@samhines5084
@samhines5084 4 жыл бұрын
@@benjunior1678 yeah dont reach out she blocked you it's up to her
@jenniperkins4260
@jenniperkins4260 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting you did a vid on this. I didn’t even know I was blocked until he sent me a friend request and started following me. I guess I offended him and then un- offended him.
@santhaprodigy
@santhaprodigy 2 жыл бұрын
In this case it’s funny because I wasn’t even looking. I was looking for someone else on IG who has the same name and saw her profile pop up. I already knew that she was in a relationship so it made me wonder even more why she unblocked me.
@user-cs2jp8cx7l
@user-cs2jp8cx7l 5 жыл бұрын
Hey Rory! When my ex boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago I blocked him on all social media after about a week because I didn’t trust myself to not contact him on a night out or when I was down. I recently saw him at a mutual friend’s party and I was polite & indifferent. I have lost a lot of weight and was happy & confident. Would you recommend unblocking or leaving blocked? His number is not blocked, so he could reach out if he really wanted to. Thanks in advance! :)
@camillahare7855
@camillahare7855 3 жыл бұрын
Btw you should do a video on getting blocked WITHOUT doing anything. Like no pleading etc. You accepted the breakup and weeks after they just block you.
@bunniewood
@bunniewood 3 жыл бұрын
It means they are really hurt and trying to move on. Id it. It was to help my own temptation
@camillahare7855
@camillahare7855 3 жыл бұрын
@@bunniewood Oh thanks! Did it help you?
@bunniewood
@bunniewood 3 жыл бұрын
Yup. I knew that if he was able to contact me I'd be back to day 1. I also wanted to make sure we it was 100% over. I knew he was wrong for me but I was weak against him
@ReddyRisery
@ReddyRisery 5 жыл бұрын
She: *Blocks me* Me: wut just happened? Me: *Living my life Almost forgot about her* 1 month later She: *Unblocks me* Me: wut just happened? Me(now) : It's been 4 days since she unblocked me.
@JackieisOk
@JackieisOk 5 жыл бұрын
Red Riser and?
@Despoina-jk2bp
@Despoina-jk2bp 5 жыл бұрын
Stay strong lol
@ReddyRisery
@ReddyRisery 5 жыл бұрын
@@JackieisOk I just said delete everything to her. And I dunno But I felt this huge happiness Like a big rock just fell down out of my back
@consum5771
@consum5771 4 жыл бұрын
Did anything happen since than?
@ReddyRisery
@ReddyRisery 4 жыл бұрын
@@consum5771 We are just being friends now
@juicesenpai1413
@juicesenpai1413 3 жыл бұрын
Funny how my ex unblocked me when i gave her stuff back, and she ends up sending a friend request on FB but still won't follow me on Instagram and she keeps that private.
@andrewngoma4006
@andrewngoma4006 5 жыл бұрын
My ex girlfriend is back after 4 months but am not sure if I want her anymore.
@LordCuca
@LordCuca 5 жыл бұрын
That's tough man
@plusultra5735
@plusultra5735 5 жыл бұрын
Hey may I ask you a question my friend? Would you get back with her knowing she had been with someone else after you.. and became intimate?
@CAkes425
@CAkes425 5 жыл бұрын
@@plusultra5735 does it really matter? She is single, she can do whatever she wants. Me personally, I would say no. 1, it's too soon and you probably won't trust her knowing she left you or left you for another guy. I would consider dating or exploring other options first. You'd be surprised, it might just make you reconsider your decision about getting back with your ex. Remember, it is your decision whether you want her back whether she wants it or not. If you did decide to give it another shot, I would caution rushing back. Take it slow, keep an eye out for behavioral patterns of fallback from her end. If so, do not hesitate and make the first move and end the relationship. Respectfully of course. By no means friends unless your okay with that. Can't blame for getting back with her if you so choose to, best of luck to anyone.
@plusultra5735
@plusultra5735 5 жыл бұрын
@@CAkes425 no it's just.. if my ex came back, if she had gotten physical with another man it would just put me off completely getting her back.
@Sakeenawatley231
@Sakeenawatley231 4 жыл бұрын
@@LordCuca it really is 😭
@c0zmotion
@c0zmotion 5 жыл бұрын
Can you please make a video regarding why my ex girlfriend always viewing my FB and IG stories? Thank youu so much!
@13savage
@13savage 5 жыл бұрын
Should I delete pics with my ex on social media if I still want her back? We did end well at first; she said that she wanted to be alone, and she loves me less, but still loves me anyway. Then I went to no contact for a way, but I ruined it by breaking no contact. I chased her and begged, and she tended to have negative feeling for me now and said that she will block me. 3 days passed, she still doesn't block me and still keeps some of our pics on instagram and facebook. What to do next now? Does she tries to get over me? Did I ruin the chance? Thanks man
@bencox614
@bencox614 2 жыл бұрын
Me & my ex (dumper) have been apart for over 2 months, we've spoken a few times regrettably but just over a month ago i went into no contact after she messaged me about a situation. She blocked me last month then i accidently found out i was unblocked (really!). All very strange as i don't use FB much & my account is private. It's either them playing mind games or something else, in any case, do nothing & pretend you don't realise you're unblocked. If they're wanting to reach out they would, just live your life properly & away from social media.
@Rizzard_of_ozzzz
@Rizzard_of_ozzzz 5 жыл бұрын
My ex would check up on my social media for months after the break up, then blocked me out of the blue??
@bomaigimogeremawi4242
@bomaigimogeremawi4242 4 жыл бұрын
He unblocked me and slide directly into my inbox after two years 😅
@Rilakkumaland
@Rilakkumaland 4 жыл бұрын
What if my ex blocked and then unblocked and unfriended after 3 days of dumping me? He hasnt reached out after unblocking and its been almost 2 months
@SoundsSilver
@SoundsSilver 10 ай бұрын
She unblocked me today after about a month of being blocked. Today was literally the first day in three months that I felt I wasn't fixated on the breakup anymore. Now I am back to feeling the rush of hope and the crash of powerlessness. I was blocked everywhere and now I'm unblocked everywhere and yet she won't reach out. I don't know what happens next but I think I'll need to treat it like I'm still blocked. I think she must be watching my instagram and have seen that I am going out with other women. I assume she saw this and thinks I have moved on. I doubt it actually signifies she will want to try with me again, but of course my heart wants it to be the case.
@ElijahsTarot
@ElijahsTarot 5 жыл бұрын
My ex on blocked me after 3 1/2 months she saw me at a grocery store and the next day she text me about stalking her when I reached out to clear the air that I wasn’t I saw that I wasn’t blocked anymore but she still didn’t pick up the phone
@myrahouse2368
@myrahouse2368 4 жыл бұрын
My fella became flaky so I messaged him I was giving up on him. I asked him to block me so I can’t reach out to him in moments of weakness..... he didn’t! Now I need self control, he didn’t reply to my message.
@ethanorr1135
@ethanorr1135 4 жыл бұрын
It’s been 2 months of no contact and my ex just unblocked me what’s this mean?
@Nico-pq2ky
@Nico-pq2ky 5 жыл бұрын
What if my ex adds me up in facebook after years of breakup? It was a bad break up by the way. He said he lost the spark and then broke up with me.
@nrd17
@nrd17 5 жыл бұрын
What if THEY are checking your Social Media although both of you are not officially following eatch other...?
@crystalshorter353
@crystalshorter353 3 жыл бұрын
What if she unblocked you after 8-9 years?! Wasn't looking, she just suddenly showed up in people you know.
@Outsider_aa
@Outsider_aa 5 жыл бұрын
first? ok, joke, thank you for the hard work Rory
@angelcostin9785
@angelcostin9785 3 жыл бұрын
My ex boyfriend blocked me same week I lost my mom, After one month he unblocked me, he followed me back on instagram, liked my pictures but still won’t message me 🤦🏽‍♀️ I don’t know if i should message him first? I still have feelings for him.
@camillahare7855
@camillahare7855 3 жыл бұрын
My ex' birthday is coming up this week and he just unblocked me after 7 months. Is that a coincidence or.....?
@scott67nova
@scott67nova 5 жыл бұрын
Omg your stuff is accurate
@princessalisha1399
@princessalisha1399 5 жыл бұрын
My ex unblock me after rebound relationship. He leave us for another girl. Im pregnant. I saw there photos. For what to show me that he was happy with her. While I'm suffering for financial.
@justamannothingmore1999
@justamannothingmore1999 5 жыл бұрын
I can understand being blocked what I can’t understand is when me ex kept me on every platform?
@bryanunion5110
@bryanunion5110 5 жыл бұрын
Why does she keep deactivating her page? She deactivated over a week ago then activated this morning now it’s back deactivated lol she’s never blocked me.
@HiddenSoulsMusic
@HiddenSoulsMusic 4 жыл бұрын
Just happened to me on Facebook. Unfortunately I’m dating someone not my ex.
@priyankachauhan3443
@priyankachauhan3443 5 жыл бұрын
My ex just unblocked me after 3 weeks and his status says "unblock to message" i am confused what this is!! 😫🙄
@cristiancortes9
@cristiancortes9 Жыл бұрын
I have some experience my ex girlfriend ( long relationship ) after getting her back told me that she used to unblock me because she didnt want to lose contact...even when she literally said i dont want more contac...so take that as a guideline
@timf99
@timf99 5 жыл бұрын
Hey Rory I hear mixed results about no contact and how it looks like the dumpie just never really cared much for the dumper by not doing any chasing and easily walking away. I'm still a firm believer in all of the benefits that no contact brings but just curious on your thoughts can you please do a video on this topic.
@TheLoveChat
@TheLoveChat 5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Important topic!!
@derrickchilders9670
@derrickchilders9670 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes thats the last card you can play. Give them the breakup. It's worked before with the person I was with, hopefully it can again...
@timf99
@timf99 5 жыл бұрын
@@TheLoveChat Thanks buddy 👍
@michellewilliams3931
@michellewilliams3931 5 жыл бұрын
I believe a person is not going to miss you if they never intended on keeping you. Plus, I am always skeptical if an ex returns because the question is why? what do you want?
@user-pj6tf7fi6u
@user-pj6tf7fi6u 3 ай бұрын
Hi The love chat I'm in no contact and my ex started liking and commenting on my videos And she started to DM me and send me a friend request What should I do
@yazidkhodri5563
@yazidkhodri5563 5 жыл бұрын
I just have one question,she did not blocked me on instagram, she did only unflollowed me and then after a while she did followed me, what should I do? please anyone
@ronin9687
@ronin9687 5 жыл бұрын
Same as my situation. I thought of her sending her a photo of a meal she loved but by the time in logged into messenger to send her the photo, i had already been blocked. I was fucking stunned to why she did that.But after 3-4 days, she unblocked me but i still dont text her showing no interest in her.
@rjwise4728
@rjwise4728 2 жыл бұрын
😂Aye same situation here .I was in no contact bc I missed her for a while . The sex was good , cooking and cleaning my apartment and all . We were going strong , until a weird boundary issue happened between us in bed . She also thought I cheated bc I had women I messed with not to long before I shut them off,met her and wanted to commit to her time .Now she’s friends with one of the women I’ve messed with.She is now my ex, she recently blocked me for a couple of months and unblocked me recently. She’s still single and I feel like there is a game within the game here. Don’t know what she’s doing
@ronin9687
@ronin9687 2 жыл бұрын
@@rjwise4728 you replied to my 2 year old comment 😂. I’m over here now, I’ got over depression and whatever shit it is.
@thepeoplesralfo
@thepeoplesralfo 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been in no contact for 3 months with my ex. I’ve noticed she post a lot of images and sayings on social media about our relationships a lot of them are negative. She won’t say who are they directed to but I can tell they are about me. Last one I saw was a posting she put about “she’s to old to find a sugar daddy” . What does this mean when post thing like that I don’t understand. Can you make a video about this to understand what it means when ex’s put post like that on social media . Thank you.
@47KURE
@47KURE 4 жыл бұрын
how did that turn out? having a similar situation
@selfpicture5480
@selfpicture5480 5 жыл бұрын
What if my ex' rebound blocked me on instagram? Is she afraid of me? 😄
@alexa.9871
@alexa.9871 5 жыл бұрын
Damn i just emailed you bout that too 😂
@bclstaycl
@bclstaycl 4 жыл бұрын
if you wanna get back with her? should you contact after a long time??
@gracenjeri1459
@gracenjeri1459 4 жыл бұрын
Woooow perfect my situation right he unblocked me n I blocked moving on well
@moxythepirate1281
@moxythepirate1281 5 жыл бұрын
I'd love to watch a video about your opinion on marriage in the modern age. Is it worth it with the costly threat of divorce as a risk? For men or women, it seems the risks now outweigh the benefits.
@TheLoveChat
@TheLoveChat 5 жыл бұрын
That would be an interesting topic! I'll look into this idea!
@bobbymillar7333
@bobbymillar7333 5 жыл бұрын
my ex gf blocked me on social media but after two weeks she unblocked me I had been making the worst mistakes beggibg and pleading on getting her back and she said they was no chance of us getting back together , she even ordered a cab knowing it would be me that would pick her up as she got in cab we chatted light heartly I just acted like I didn't care any more even though deep inside my stomach was turning why would she be using the cab company I work for
@ReginaStumpf
@ReginaStumpf 2 жыл бұрын
Why would he block and unblock me if he is in a rebound relationship?
@invictus485
@invictus485 2 жыл бұрын
How about when they told my friend that she unblocked me and my friend told me? How about that man?
@Rachel-rs9wh
@Rachel-rs9wh 2 жыл бұрын
What if they block and unblock every couple of days?
@kevinwoolrich1326
@kevinwoolrich1326 2 жыл бұрын
In my case it was only a week since she blocked then unblocked me on Instagram. Her account is private though and I didn’t follow her so she definitely didn’t block me due to me contacting her.
@dobtv3732
@dobtv3732 4 жыл бұрын
Blocked unblocked and blocked again didn't even text her 😁
@eduardobsn83
@eduardobsn83 4 жыл бұрын
She did the same with me a couple of days ago.
@charleneclark1817
@charleneclark1817 Жыл бұрын
Snap!
@michellewilliams3931
@michellewilliams3931 5 жыл бұрын
I had blocked the ex because I knew he was still following me on instagram, even though I unfollowed him months ago. It made me uncomfortable that he was getting access to me still even though he rejected me. Another reason was that him following me gave me false hope because I thought, well he unfollowed his other exes, so this must mean he is still into me somehow. Final reason, while I was no longer posting for his viewing pleasure I would still consider on what he may think prior to posting, which was just unhealthy and hindered me from fully moving on with my life I felt. However, I have subsequently unblocked him, for two reasons: 1. I thought I was feeding his ego. He loves the idea of his exes hating him because its a sign they still want him...not me. That ship has sailed. 2. Since my profile is private and I know he will not send a friend request because that would mean he is giving up power, I know he would rather lose limb. I say that to say this, your ex unblocking you could mean they are becoming more and more indifferent towards you because that's where I am at with him.
@IsaacKnowReally
@IsaacKnowReally 4 жыл бұрын
What do u mean by indifferent to them I don't get it please explain
@khan49337
@khan49337 5 жыл бұрын
My ex broke up with me and she told me she has found some one new then I said ok our breakup was in polite way then I didn’t send and text to her then I noticed she block me one day and tomorrow she unblock me after few hour she blocked me again and I noticed she unblock me again now I am unblock but I haven’t try to communicate with her I don’t know why she is doing that because our breakup was not bad
@beatricedangelo785
@beatricedangelo785 5 жыл бұрын
Hey Rory, how do you stop checking on their social? He blocked me on everything but I am able to see his insta through another account I had. I try not to but sonetimes I fail, feel worse after.
@jwilcollective816
@jwilcollective816 5 жыл бұрын
I had to deactivate my own account. I actually deleted my Facebook. And made a new after a year. At that point not only was I over my ex, but I'm over Facebook too!! I deleted it again.
@beatricedangelo785
@beatricedangelo785 5 жыл бұрын
@@jwilcollective816 thanks! I tried to do so but I found another way to see their insta through google, so I need something to keep my hands off my phone 😂
@mikec.7577
@mikec.7577 5 жыл бұрын
I never got blocked or unfriended/unfollowed. My ex has been watching my IG stories since the breakup, and has recently been posting stories after a month gap of silence (I'm wondering if she is trying to see if I view hers lol). Nevertheless, still no contact so....
@nyinyibito1757
@nyinyibito1757 5 жыл бұрын
So what your point? You brake up with her and now your in no contact to contact you?
@jaytao8124
@jaytao8124 5 жыл бұрын
Lol my crush finally unblocked me on Snapchat after 3 months of no contact. Do you guys think I should readd her considering that I’ll be seeing her on vacation soon ( long distance thing)
@hilixna2235
@hilixna2235 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Edelweiss1102
@Edelweiss1102 5 жыл бұрын
Is it rude/childish when you block your ex yourself? I hear mixed opinions and am unsure on what to do. I catch myself going back to old text messages, then being devastated. I thought about blocking them for my own good, at least for a while. But I'm unsure. Any suggestions?
@Irisroma100
@Irisroma100 5 жыл бұрын
I blocked him and it feels sooo good!!!
@Edelweiss1102
@Edelweiss1102 5 жыл бұрын
@@Irisroma100 I believe it does. As I said I'm a bit uncertain. I decided to delete some chat histories I kept rereading for my own sake, but I didn't block her.
@Irisroma100
@Irisroma100 5 жыл бұрын
@@Edelweiss1102 mine blocked me and after 2 months of no contact, he unblocked me and blocked me again... Childish... I didn't had any options than to block him everywhere and move on
@Edelweiss1102
@Edelweiss1102 5 жыл бұрын
@@Irisroma100 It's definitely childish. He is either playing games or doesn't know what he wants. I got blocked on Twitter. However she does keep unblocking and checking in sometimes, then blocks me again. And I'm not blocked on Whatsapp and other stuff, it's weird. Best I can do is concentrate on myself and move on. Only time will tell what happens.
@pinutburer3965
@pinutburer3965 5 жыл бұрын
If you feel that thats what you have to do to have peace do it! Breakups are times for being a little selfish, if she is going to reach out she’ll find a way
@LordCuca
@LordCuca 5 жыл бұрын
So my ex has two instagram accounts she has a main account and a spam account and well she blocked me on her main account but not her spam . and I've seen her a couple of times looking at my Instagram stories so obviously she never thought about fully blocking me . so i just see it as she'll never unblock me on her main account bc obviously she has a whole other account
@chrisknight3847
@chrisknight3847 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe they are ready to move on and blocking you kept you on their mind....they feel fine and feel they can cope with you looking at their new life ???
@HeadHunter854
@HeadHunter854 5 жыл бұрын
Tends to be that they block you when they're ready to move on, not the other way about. Nah my friend that usually happens when they're looking for attention or they're looking to play games
@Irisroma100
@Irisroma100 5 жыл бұрын
@@HeadHunter854 I agree with you
@InfinityDevilMachine
@InfinityDevilMachine 3 жыл бұрын
@@HeadHunter854 i agree too
@ofwz
@ofwz 3 жыл бұрын
My ex unblocked me after 3 years
@wanglo2123
@wanglo2123 4 жыл бұрын
In my case my ex unblocks me on fb and messenger and then blocks me. And after that unblocks me and now i'm blocked i'm again, i havn't spoken to her yet soo what should i do in such a situation or what does it mean?
@noeldruzetic538
@noeldruzetic538 4 жыл бұрын
She is curious... i think she wants attention from you... she is still interested in you and I think she is jelaus because she doesent want another girl to be with you etc..
@flower6186
@flower6186 4 жыл бұрын
why would an ex does this but not reach out? whats the purpose?
@gbrl89
@gbrl89 3 жыл бұрын
I think my ex unblocked me on whatsapp to delete my number and conversations we had, since I found a month later that she's dating someone else.
@dannettdan7256
@dannettdan7256 4 жыл бұрын
Do they really unblock you? I mean i got blocked after 3 weeks after the breakup ,she broke up whit me ( after the breakup i went right in NC ) and 3 weeks after i saw that i got blocked
@lordsith952
@lordsith952 4 жыл бұрын
Shes gonna unblock you. It make take months or more but shes gonna be curious to check on you. Trust me my ex unblocked me from his new fb to stalk. Let them miss you
@marivilovetv
@marivilovetv 4 жыл бұрын
Thnk you for this video...the man that I love blocked me when I pretending that I'm happy with my life with out him... I was thinking he is not going to unblock me again for life but after 3 weeks I saw that he unblock me... I was not tempted to message him cause I'm scared he will ignore me and block me again... You think he will message me first? That's what I'm waiting
@Sakeenawatley231
@Sakeenawatley231 4 жыл бұрын
That's the same thing I'm going through 😮😫
@angelcostin9785
@angelcostin9785 3 жыл бұрын
Me too 🤦🏽‍♀️
@jumpoutboys114
@jumpoutboys114 4 жыл бұрын
Okay, I get it, but she blocked me 3 years ago on multiple sites. Then I was looking at a picture of my mom and I last week and then checked it out 2 days ago and her comment and like was there and I was kinda like what the heck. I'm just curious. I don't want her back I'm just curious. I could understand if it was a few months, but 3 years later? Just wondering why
@ru.m.6119
@ru.m.6119 4 жыл бұрын
Needs to see what have you been upto, and how is your life with out them. Not worth it, they just need your reaction.
@derrickchilders9670
@derrickchilders9670 5 жыл бұрын
Really hate that there's a Matthew Hussey video recommended right beside typing this comment : /
@TheLoveChat
@TheLoveChat 5 жыл бұрын
Ew. Me too
@CirculoPro
@CirculoPro 5 жыл бұрын
Can you make a vídeo talking if we should unblock our exes? When and things like that please?
@TheLoveChat
@TheLoveChat 5 жыл бұрын
I'm not typically a fan of ever blocking an ex unless they are being abusive
@CirculoPro
@CirculoPro 5 жыл бұрын
@@TheLoveChat i did that to stop seeing his posts, too painful since he's dating someone younger and more beautiful than me.
@Irisroma100
@Irisroma100 5 жыл бұрын
@@TheLoveChat but what if they unblock and then block again? I did well to block him everywhere?
@CirculoPro
@CirculoPro 5 жыл бұрын
Ok..i unblocked him after watching this video and he started following me again..very weird..I didn't followed him back..still no contact, living my life focusing on me.
@ruthieagustin698
@ruthieagustin698 5 жыл бұрын
Hey Rory, I blocked my ex and he blocked me as well. Im hopeless. Can you make a video about it.
@TheLoveChat
@TheLoveChat 5 жыл бұрын
Sure thing, Ruthie!
@Irisroma100
@Irisroma100 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that will be nice
@nicolejean2294
@nicolejean2294 5 жыл бұрын
You can get through this girl!! Mine blocked me on insta after our breakup. I later figured out on FB it was bc he got official with his side chick (and the reasoning he gave for our break up was a lie) So, I went and blocked him and his entire family (they're the ones who set us up)/mutual friends friends(they already unfollowed me at this point) across all social media platforms. Overkill? Maybe? but now I don't have to subconsciously think about who is looking at my posts and worry about if my life exciting enough, I'm just living. I was you back in October, you feel like the world is ending but there can only be better things ahead😁
@gew977
@gew977 5 жыл бұрын
hey Rory, my ex texted me 2 weeks ago how i m doing but nothing since then..whqat does it mean? did he change his mind?
@Edelweiss1102
@Edelweiss1102 5 жыл бұрын
He is likely testing the waters. He may be curious, but not enough to really engage into something. I'd stay in NC, if he really changed his mind, he will reach out again.
@gew977
@gew977 5 жыл бұрын
@@Edelweiss1102 yeah..he is in a rebound relationship but has some troubles. i m in nc again but i dont think he will reach out again:/
@Edelweiss1102
@Edelweiss1102 5 жыл бұрын
@@gew977 Then it's likely he's trying to get your atention and just bating. As I said, best you can do is staying no concentrate on yourself. Time will do the rest.
@kiban7676
@kiban7676 5 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend just unblocked me , i mean she broke up with me 10 days ago and we didnt talk after . I didn’t do begging and pleading
@mikec.7577
@mikec.7577 5 жыл бұрын
This is good, she is curious about what you are up to. Keep your posting down so it isn't too much so you can remain mysterious to her, and do not initiate contact, let her reach out. It might take awhile, but be patient!
@nyinyibito1757
@nyinyibito1757 5 жыл бұрын
Be a man and take the move, women finds it bold when a man take the move when its come to relationship, me personally if i broke up with a guy, he blocked me or i blocked him, if he unblocked me and take bold move, i will consider he likes me and that realised how worthy i am to him.
@scotthigh6359
@scotthigh6359 4 жыл бұрын
Same here lol today
@victorrochin8237
@victorrochin8237 5 жыл бұрын
My ex messaged me yesterday asking of I still had her canteen? Indirect direct? Or she just wants her stuff back. I told her to message me today to see if we can meet up. How do I approach the situation?
@fruithat2756
@fruithat2756 5 жыл бұрын
Indirect detect approach how long were you in no contact definitely scheduale a meet up
@victorrochin8237
@victorrochin8237 5 жыл бұрын
2 months nc6
@victorrochin8237
@victorrochin8237 5 жыл бұрын
3 months since bu. She seemed a bit indifferent so idk I to approach it. I said we can meet up or she can pick it up.
@fruithat2756
@fruithat2756 5 жыл бұрын
@@victorrochin8237 I would meet up test the waters dint show talk about the best see where she is at it definitely seems like she is interested but make sure hers interest level is higher than yours
@victorrochin8237
@victorrochin8237 5 жыл бұрын
Should I ask her out?
@eronigonerogo5850
@eronigonerogo5850 3 жыл бұрын
My ex unblock me when drunk after that ignore me
@someguy9520
@someguy9520 5 жыл бұрын
perfect thumbnail
@Solitary_Shinobi
@Solitary_Shinobi 5 жыл бұрын
My ex and I broke up deux month ago, I begged for her for 1 1/2 month then I started NC. After two weeks she unblocked me on WhatsApp but she told me during the break up that she will never contact me again (she is in a rebound relationships) so what does it mean ? I will not break the NC and act like a don’t know that she unblocked me until she reach out Is she in the curiosity stage ? She maybe trying to see when I’m online or things like this
@lezlyn4187
@lezlyn4187 4 жыл бұрын
what happen after?
@Solitary_Shinobi
@Solitary_Shinobi 4 жыл бұрын
Lez lyn I moved on and it’s feel sooooo good. I met new people, went to different trips , my life it’s so much better now
@ezziesmusicworld60
@ezziesmusicworld60 4 жыл бұрын
So she still has me blocked on Instagram but unblocked me on fb I’m like Um???? Interesting 🤔
@sunshineray387
@sunshineray387 4 жыл бұрын
What happened? I just got blocked on Facebook but not on snapchat. I didn't even reach out to them
@ezziesmusicworld60
@ezziesmusicworld60 4 жыл бұрын
sunshine ray she unblocked and recently messaged me and somehow became nice after I got smart with her 😂 any way long story short from no contact made her contact me again she
@paulagonzalez5286
@paulagonzalez5286 3 жыл бұрын
I thought this was Obi...
@anonymanonymesten1442
@anonymanonymesten1442 5 жыл бұрын
I just gave up my last hope. My ex is not coming back to me. I just learned that he´s moving back abroad in a few months to continue his studies. Apparantly I am as insignificant as I have always feared. It was THAT EASY to kick me out of his life for good and not think twice about it. Our relationship and friendship through several years was worth throwing away for someone he barely knew. He´s just glad to have me out of his life, I suppose.
@eight7316
@eight7316 Жыл бұрын
So sorry
@fashionjoy4569
@fashionjoy4569 2 жыл бұрын
I unblock because I want to move on…
@markwalter1133
@markwalter1133 5 жыл бұрын
What if your ex followed you on social media then blocked you a few days after???
@selfpicture5480
@selfpicture5480 5 жыл бұрын
Wants your reaction, don't fall for it.
@markwalter1133
@markwalter1133 5 жыл бұрын
Self Love will they eventually reach out?
@selfpicture5480
@selfpicture5480 5 жыл бұрын
@@markwalter1133 if she wants you, yes (is she a dumper?)
@markwalter1133
@markwalter1133 5 жыл бұрын
Self Love yes she is
@snigdhachakraborty9698
@snigdhachakraborty9698 5 жыл бұрын
My long distance ex boyfriend calls me randomly but don't want to commit he deleted his all social media apps including whatsapp but he calls randomly and sometimes he block my calls as well or he call me 3days 4days later or a week later.... Should I block his phone number or should I do again no contact?????
@TheLoveChat
@TheLoveChat 5 жыл бұрын
Sounds like he is playing a lot of games. I wouldn't play those games with him. You win by walking away.
@snigdhachakraborty9698
@snigdhachakraborty9698 5 жыл бұрын
@@TheLoveChat but i still love him... Should I block him? Please tell
@vlashe24
@vlashe24 5 жыл бұрын
@@snigdhachakraborty9698 move on. You will get over him and find new love trust me. But you'll be a lot smarter and wiser then. He is just throwing u bones cos he knows u will always be there. Dont let him disrepsect you like this, you deserve to be treated like a queen :) best of luck
@PlatinumDagger
@PlatinumDagger 5 жыл бұрын
He's taking you for a fool. Walk away block him, He'll get the message.
@gew977
@gew977 5 жыл бұрын
ignore him. dont answer his calls. let him think and change his way to approach you
@fruithat2756
@fruithat2756 5 жыл бұрын
After 6 months still blocked lol
@fruithat2756
@fruithat2756 5 жыл бұрын
@Nick Fire I hope I am that lucky lol
@juliemanso4589
@juliemanso4589 5 жыл бұрын
Me too ! Going on to 7’ months
@fruithat2756
@fruithat2756 5 жыл бұрын
@@juliemanso4589 do you still have hope
@Irisroma100
@Irisroma100 5 жыл бұрын
3 months and still blocked, well it was my time to block him everywhere 😁
@Ava-lm1zy
@Ava-lm1zy 5 жыл бұрын
4 months still blocked
@mollywilson8126
@mollywilson8126 4 жыл бұрын
No I dont check him
@SnowFoxParty
@SnowFoxParty 5 жыл бұрын
The only thing my ex did was delete me from the PS4 lol oh well xD I dont care. Took me awhile to realize too
@chlochlo8207
@chlochlo8207 4 жыл бұрын
He blocked me after he broke up with me never contacted him then unblocked me a month later 😂 Update: after 5 years he left me unblocked permanently
@animeshawasthi8807
@animeshawasthi8807 4 жыл бұрын
When he unblock you what happened then..?he messaged first or u message first?
@chlochlo8207
@chlochlo8207 Жыл бұрын
@@animeshawasthi8807sorry I’m late to this after 3 years youtube did not notify me. But the first 6 months he was blocking and unblocking on Instagram after the other half he blocked me couple years went by he unblocked me. Now I’m just realizing after 4 years he has unblocked my phone. It varies from peoples different situation.
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