3 Text Messages To Send After A First Date - Get A Second Date!

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[@HayleyQuinn]

I am releasing a fully deconstructed first date video soon. Including going for the kiss.... eeeek in the mean time enjoy these text message examples. Any questions I miss here say hi to me on IG @hayleyquinnx

[@gurutruecrimeguru1405]

Is this only for men. Can you recommend a channel for women?

[@FerallHog]

Never ask a woman on a scale of 1 - 10. Makes you look like an idiot. Just say let’s go out round 2 or some crap

[@OlliePearce]

Great Video!

[@stringsnare]

Your other video about the first message to send in online dating works! Will try this too.

[@glory3767]

The thing is if you do any of these she will still just give you no response ignore you for three hours then send you a random message like you forgot.

[@dforeigner]

This sounds like the quickest way to make someone lose interest. "On a scale of 1-10..." for real? It would be more productive to simply ask straight up "When are you free to grab a drink?". If the reply is something like "we will see" or some shit., forget her and move on.

[@jorgie1415]

As a woman, I would feel really weird if I guy texted me these things. Do do it, men.

[@MrMooremelody]

I think this is bad advice. If a guy ask 'on a scale..' etc. it shows that he lacks confident. He should assume that she's interested. Ask her out in confidence. If she doesn't want to see him, she won't. so may as well ask confidently

[@bosslady7604]

Is it nice to visit a guy in his house after a first .

[@kenboon6152]

when you send her a complimentary message after the first date and she replies FUCK OFF take that your not getting a second date!

[@c-jayjames7316]

Or if shell get a date with him.. Should be the line

[@visaman]

So, English people do a lot of hiking wot?

[@lukesaxtaxman867]

Maybe a cultural difference but in USA not sure if these are good as in GB

[@ragapictures6170]

“On a scale of 1-10 how much do you want to meet me for drinks this weekend?” Seriously ? That’s a very bad one because it conveys insecurity and zero assertiveness. You should just refer to something important to her that she mentioned during the first date to test the waters. It shows you are a good listener and originality if you know how to pul it off. Couple of days later if there is chemistry, more misters builds up and then you ask “Let’s go for drinks this weekend. Any plans?” - works better. It puzzles me how many times I find women giving weird advice about dating women

[@Peter_Parker69]

This is prof that women don't really know what they want lol. "On a scale from 1 to 10" are you 12? If you want good dating advice, listen to guys who dated lot's of women. Especially if they're average looking, so you know they have to put in the work

[@dougiefredd4811]

A word of advice to everyone looking for love, go out there and be patient, be charming and most of all be you. Women are tired of the same bullshit like this because every woman is different.

[@tomassonl]

It;s amazing that you start about a situation where your date goes on a 2 week holiday right after the first date, cause that just happened to me. Only texted her once, to wish her a happy birthday during that trip. Now she just returned, so I will try to figure out something original to send..

[@tomassonl]

I slightly changed your second advice "on a scale from one to 10". Got a response within 5 minutes and now she even made reservations for dinner in a few days :)

[@Gator115]

on a scale of 1 to 10? jesus christ thats so supplicative

[@HayleyQuinn]

It's playful, not supplicativ,e and despite the rumours men don't always have to be dominant / strong/ alpha or any other similar term to demonstrate their worth or intent

[@DanTuber]

Sorry but that's a stupid question. I would never ask a girl that. You're basically admitting the date wasn't good then insecure about your intentions moving forward. Most girls are not going to reply with a score below 5 and if you do get that, you're giving her an excuse not to go on any further dates.

[@pithikoulis]

I guess it's a British thing. Here you say sorry when others trump on you lol

[@scottstewart8737]

What about if I say "on a scale of 1 to Murica" instead?

[@nanmapulari4172]

interesting points ,if anyone else trying to find out what to text a girl you like try Tarbetti Instant Text Tutor ( search on google ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my cousin got excellent success with it.

[@jhovenelcharles8414]

Do you wanna meet and have some coffee next weekend?

[@kenobisghost9572]

Ghosted!

[@dforeigner]

"We'll see"

[@joepic85]

These all sound like beta texts

[@carlosberrios1506]

10/10 bullshit idiotic recommendation

[@mmmatsooo]

Horrible advice

[@milesdyson5211]

She's Hot but I couldn't handle that accent for very long. LOL

[@brianmyers9989]

No offense to the maker of the video, but you should not be listening to dating advice from a woman. Listen to guys who are getting women and work on your inner game. Top hats and opinion openers don't get anything done. Just my .02.

[@setanta1966]

Terrible advise

[@kenobisghost9572]

Nonsense! After the date wait for her to get in touch. She will usually text or call you saying what a nice time she had. She's really looking for you to take the initiative to make the next date. Chasing is feminine behaviour. Women chase and do the choosing. You shouldn't be waiting around for her anyway. You should already have a few women you're already dating until one you really like brings up being exclusive.

[@ArminKnight]

Not good advices