36 Questions Guaranteed to Make You Fall in Love?! | The Thirsty Sisters #40

[@jerminlim572]

It’s hard for me to watch Nina laughing + crying. I was laughing along with her but was actually feeling suffocated. It’s so painful to hear what Nina has gone though. I admire you guys for being vulnerable in this podcast and am grateful for your willingness to share such difficult stories. Love you guys! ❤️

[@TheThirstySisters]

We're always happy to open up to the TTS community babe 🥰💕

[@kncnsm]

Nina is so real and beautiful! 😍

[@rashelblingiton315]

I was like Nina too, very avoidant and afraid to confront certain issues. It got so bad that even questions that were only a tiny bit personal got me crying - like how Nina did during the podcast. I seriously recommend going for therapy. You can't solve your current emotional issues with the same mind that created it, you have to approach it in a different light, with a different perspective to have a chance at resolving them. I went for hypnotherapy and would recommend it for anxiety issues. I'm much better now. At the very least, I don't cry when asked personal questions now haha

[@pikepushup]

What a wholesome episode 😭 Mad respect to Sylvia and especially Nina for being so vulnerable on camera. Hope we will all be able to own those moments that make us vulnerable and use it to help & inspire others (like the thirsty sisters)🙏

[@sylsylchan]

❤

[@nk9501]

am i th only one who cried? man, these questions are so deep. i thought about mine and cried. and yes, hearing you both did make me feel closer to you both. never seen nina so open and raw!

[@sylsylchan]

Awww big hugs ❤

[@lynwu5454]

I genuinely like that the tts comments section is always like some sort of collective reflection corner and when I read these comments I don’t feel weird/bad for being a avoidant dismissive person anymore and start reflecting on my actions so far :)

[@TheThirstySisters]

Don't feel bad for being different, much love and stay strong sister 🥰💕

[@fish5452]

I can't stop looking at your pfp =^

[@vso8247]

I did the gratitude journal once for an entire year every single day back in 2013. I was struggling with some personal issues and it truly did help to turn my life around. When i started, i wrote quite “general” stuff like what was mentioned by Sylvia but as time went by even the little things i’d notice and write down (E.g. I ate a mango and it was super ripe and sweet, my dog licked my hand today, it was a windy day while walking to school so I didnt sweat) and sure enough it really helped me to notice the little things and made me grateful for what I had :) it took me 2 years but i’m glad im out of that hole.

[@sylsylchan]

Omg this really helps!!!

[@amityofyouth2418]

because of your comment i think i really have to try this out :) im glad for you btw !

[@chu2348]

Really wanted to give a big hug and credit for the strength Nina and Sylvia had answering the questions! Really tough questions and it was really tough to answer. I hope Nina doesn't undermine her own strength, though she mentioned that the comment section would be all about her crying and being hysterical. But I think that anyone who supports them in this channel will definitely not feel this way. 💕 Also, super happy for you two chiobu to be back on TTS! ✨ I have missed the weekly podcast and was wondering where you all went after CB (part 1). Nonetheless, I'm glad you two are back and I hope that you guys can consider making this a permanent thing and not only during the CB! (only if it fits your schedule, please don't overwork yourself ladies!!!) Lots of love! 🙆‍♀️

[@sylsylchan]

Love ya sister 😇

[@travelwithleoandmel162]

From this ep, I realised I have avoidance issue like Nina, cringing at EVERY question she struggled with and I can't even ask myself these questions and continue to avoid it.

[@mrdonniegoh]

Its not easy to share the vulnerability side of you in the public. Kudos to Nina and Sylvia for opening up to share about something personal ro them. Jiayous!

[@jaceeeee33333]

thanks nina for still doing podcasts on this channel despite your mother's objection >< btw i love this episode, so real and relatable, appreciated

[@TheThirstySisters]

We love you!! 💕

[@jaceeeee33333]

@@TheThirstySisters omgggg love y'all back!!! 💕

[@ning8774]

hey nina, i think i've seen how ur english have improved over the years and if you need to hear this, as a viewer, im very proud of you! will support your east coast lagoon shop if u open one one day :-)

[@amityofyouth2418]

i agree, me too will support !

[@KimiLovesYouxoxo]

I used this on a first date in 2016 (like LITERALLY PRINTED IT.) because it was the first date I ever went on and I was really awkward... didn't know how to spark conversations naturally LOL. eh not bad, the date I went on? He has been my boyfriend up till today HAHA

[@sylsylchan]

Wow

[@natpekk]

Thank you Nina and Slyvia for being so vulnerable with all of us ♡ I think many of us can resonate with how you both feel towards your parents ♡ it was a healing episode!

[@sylsylchan]

😘❤

[@nanonini]

Not just about vulnerability 😂 It's so tough just for me to find the answers for myself as I watch the video. If someone even bothers to sit and drain their brain to answer these questions, I guess you meant something to each other

[@Enchante...]

The number of questions to answer is gonna test my patience first 😅

[@03JENNNNx]

Has to be one my fav episode on TTS! Love diving deep - I'll try this out!😊

[@sylsylchan]

Tell us how it goes! ❤

[@aidualc420]

After watching, i just feel like giving a hug to the both of them :') Sending love ❤️

[@TheQueenred]

At 26:17 , during Nina's gasp, I cried too.. omg my heart

[@amityofyouth2418]

I love seeing this side of nina because i can kind of relate to some of it , i just want to say im really proud of her :'3

[@lijing1671]

Really can relate to most of the questions and I can really feel the feeling Nina and Sylvia has when they shared their true feelings when being asked these types of questions

[@lingmon6622]

hi, for the gratitude journal, it is advise to think of something different, but if u cant, it is okay. a tip would be to notice ur interactions and surroundings for the day, so that u can have something different to fill in the journal, jiayou :)

[@feroz_0218]

Awww when nina cry talking about her parents ah I really started to tear up alr 😭

[@Rachyyyyy]

Appreciate yall being so real! Really felt like a long and warm htht.

[@TheThirstySisters]

We're always up for a good HTHT with all you ladies 🙆‍♀️❤

[@horriblynarcissistic]

Brave of you to be open and honest, definitely tough and I admire your courage. Heart broke, and I want you to know that it's not weak to be vulnerable. All emotions are valid and matter, nobody is weak or useless. It's all about perspective.

[@sylsylchan]

TY for supporting us we will be stronger ❤

[@joshuajeremiah4085]

Dr Romeo the great caster is the only one who helped me after many failed attempt, but all thanks Dr Romeo.

[@helloimhes]

im nobody to say this but ill still say it cause im so thankful for yall opening this podcast channel!!! i wont assume anything but nina's mum should really be proud of her honestly, the realness and rawness of this entire channel is what helped me through some of the toughest time in my life as well as was the only few things that actually made me laugh genuinely. many times, although we do have close friends n all, for some ppl aka myself too, just find it v hard to burden others with the kind of emotions we are having and basically like sylvia mentioned too... when u havent fully get over smth and want to go over a topic close to ur heart again yet also scared ppl might judge and be like HUH U STILL ON THAT AH so its just really hard lo to explain urself when u dont even fully understand ur own emotions and how to deal w them. with yall doing these podcasts, i felt like i gained a secret friend that i can relate to and find joy with even without speaking w yall f2f so im v v glad yall decided to go on w it😊🤎 jiayous nina and sylvia!!!!

[@helloimhes]

ohmy just finished ur podcast and hahahaha ok answer ur ques!!! yes eh made me feel like i know these 2 ladies way more personally, feels very human lor instead of just watching u guys as influencers. fav ques that teared me up would be the one that if i were to die unknowingly without speaking to anyone by this evening one, because i realised again how impt certain things were to me and how i shld somehow say it when i still have the chance to do so??? HAHA this is p interesting ley but my bf wont wanna do w me one leh sad🤣🤣

[@sylsylchan]

Happy to be your secret friend 😘

[@biogenie]

On gratitude journaling, I try to push myself each day to see where I am and how I compared to myself yesterday. If there is nothing major that happened in the past few days, I like to get some time be mindful and see what pops in my head. Whether good or bad, you can understand what you are subconsciously worried or happy about. And that might help out with your gratefulness exercise. The key objective of it in my opinion (not psychologist) is to make sure you remember the little things that make you happy. Not to remind you that convenience is a thing haha :)

[@sylsylchan]

Ty for the tip! ❤👊🏼

[@astrolight5000]

This comment is for Nina. Big hugs and kisses! Thank you for sharing a bit of your heart with us! Will be praying for your relationship between you and your parents.

[@PPPeaceful]

Thank you Nina and Sylvia for being vulnerable and sharing your stories. Especially for Nina, your tears and vulnerability really encourage me because your stories somehow echo mine. Nina, the fact that you are so strong to share your heartfelt stories to the public with tears and struggles gives me strength to move on with life during adversity. Thank you again and rock on! 🤘🏼

[@_linggg]

just wanna thank both of you for being so strong and brave and sharing all these with us!!! i definitely felt emotional and cried along too :') sending lots of love!!!

[@sylsylchan]

Love u sister ❤

[@Chloe-dl3lh]

Wholesome episode! Thank you so much for sharing your stories and being vulnerable with us! 🥺 Can we have a guest episode with Mandy? Maybe don’t show his face if he is not comfortable but just him talking. Maybe talking about how the relationship, things he learn or even his perspective on things. Will look forward to that! One day hopefully 🙏🏻🥺

[@sylsylchan]

Awwwww haha he's so quiet irl

[@Chloe-dl3lh]

@@sylsylchan no pressure ~ only if he is comfortable 🤍

[@heyitsrachelll]

Did this with my boyfriend. While some of the questions yielded interesting answers, some of them seemed quite irrelevant because we know each other too well already 😅 It didn't really make us fall deeper in love nor did it freak us out, it was kind of just meh...interesting. I think the original intention behind these questions was to get two strangers to open up to each other so that they could immediately feel close due to the vulnerability-the KZbin channel Jubilee has done a lot of videos featuring 2 complete strangers coming together to answer these questions. (e.g. kzbin.info/www/bejne/fZa2q3-npt6BndU) I think you made a good point though, especially in Asian culture, we might not be too willing to open up to that extent when it's someone that we just met. Thank you to both of you for sharing so vulnerably! 💖

[@sweephitrun]

Thank you for being so open, Nina!! i laughed & cried along with you hahhahaa

[@nipneh]

I could relate to the portions on parents very much. They really affect what type of people we become. Is it okay that I don't have interest in having a conversation with them about how I really feel? Like what Sylvia says it takes two hands to clap, I don't think my parents wanna have this conversation.

[@sylsylchan]

Sending u love cos I know family is hard work 💪🏼

[@tchenshun9843]

I feel that I'm so Nina. I will cry too...

[@lisatsen1556]

Dang Nina you made me cry too. 😭😭😭

[@Lololol555x]

Yay finally there is someone talking about this topic! Recently I also found out about this 36 questions, and find it very interesting. There is a tw variety show related to this topic too, the title is 36题让你爱上我 or something.

[@TheThirstySisters]

Glad you enjoyed the topic babe 😉

[@amityofyouth2418]

feel so blessed with this new upload ! really burnt out from my assignment :') doing this while listening makes it feel so much doable

[@sylsylchan]

Jiayou

[@sylsylchan]

What is a perfect day to you?

[@crawbe]

Me on the beach with a good drink and a good friend. :-)

[@yexinxin5588]

😍😍😍💚Watch TTS podcast and watch noc videos that has Sylvia Chan in it💙😍😍😍💖Think of Sylvia Chan the whole day💜😍😍😍💛That is my perfect day🧡😍😍😍💋💖💙💚💛🧡💜💋😍😍😍

[@jazhkaursidhu4076]

Ninaaa, huggs to youuu ❤️

[@libraries144]

to sylvia's story of telling her dad hes a good dad because wanna save his face.. i also had the same thought about my mom for the longest time ever, didnt say anything because i scared she stress, but because of the way im treated and raised, i am almost cold blooded now, and on top of the fact that im a very straightforward person, i recently told her in an argument that "YES you are a BAD mom" i dont care anymore if i hurt her because she already hurt me. i feel like if i wasnt as ruthless as her our rls will never improve and she will always treat me badly & disgustingly. dont even mention abt my dad, my dad regreted having us as family and alr told my mom 25 years ago that he is going to spend all his money before he die and not leave anything for us. to me, im fine with it, its his money his choice. but at the same time it also show me how much he gives a fk abt us.. he also had a mistress for 7 years alr, and i just found out.. again, i dont care, his life his choice his happiness. but why affect ur children/wife,.. why even get blind marriage when u didnt even marry out of love...

[@sylsylchan]

I'm so sorry to hear that 😔 Sending you all my love ❤

[@Adamaqz]

I imagine that I would die crying doing this quiz. 😭

[@anthieakoh]

i feel like i should try this set of questions with my future partner so that i will open up more to them and i can also get to understand more about them. this set of questions can also let me acknowledge myself

[@frey5218]

Feel a lot of respect for the both of you after that ^^

[@kinkydoinkdoink]

wah this episode is tough and i'm glad i watched it

[@sylsylchan]

Love ya boo 👊🏼❤

[@tstar02]

Listened to the podcast on Spotify and I think I fell in love with Nina after the questions, HAHAHAHA!

[@rileystein6195]

I agree with you, Sylvia. I want to tell the one I love that I love him, but he getting married to someone else, so how? I just block him and cry about it alone while pretending I'm ok with it. I tried these questions with him and although we were in love, he still decide to leave me.. It was the worst breakup of my entire life, but bo bian.

[@angelinacrizal]

I love this episode. And I wish I could have you two as my sisters. 🙁 Because Sylvia is like the matured sis I need 🥰, then Nina is like the sis whom I can relate to because I cried when she cried. 😂😅

[@tengkuelleiatengkuibrahim3952]

@Nina… U know what Nina?…. Everyone knows, Those who cries a lot are e strongest one… the one who cries were the one who had been tru a lot,e one who always fall but somehow manage to pull tru.the one who had grown to it.. & yes Nina …u are strong..u been tru a lot and u cried… but u survive all the obstacles live had to offer u. 😍❤️ Sister’s Hugzz to u Nina from me,Elle.

[@maxlimgj]

what is the headphones that they are using?

[@TheThirstySisters]

Its the lovely Audio-Technica ATH-M50x 🤩

[@yorechel]

i cried on the dragon died and the girl cry too! and cried so bad! haha! my reason of crying is also same as you..

[@d3stR0yEr08]

Wad show is that

[@epiphadipity]

Wah but actually after listening to all these questions hor, I find it interesting that ppl have an answer cause when I think very deep, I don't have answers for some of the questions leh. Is it I have achieved the enlightenment of living with no regrets LOL.

[@teatreetae9882]

I Iove this channel ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@sylsylchan]

Love u

[@yexinxin5588]

😍😍😍💜🧡💛Yes I can now start to enjoy watching TTS podcast💚💙💖😍😍😍🧡💛💜Happy mood for the rest of the day💙💚💖😍😍😍💙🧡💚I love and support Sylvia Chan💛💜💖😍😍😍

[@yuyingrachelwong5245]

Like first, watch later. Because TTS video!

[@sylsylchan]

Awww 🥰

[@JeremyPeachx91]

the laugh

[@frey5218]

Nina.... T.T

[@cheokyeow3856]

aduh, whoever ngeh ngeh wan to ask me these deep questions i sure run fast fast...XDD

[@MrBoliao98]

Nina I want to apologize to you for thinking you very the kua zhang, and ridiculous with the tearing. The other day I went to ask a female friend 2 of the questions, she already flustered and very uncomfortable. To all the guys out there, those questions have weight. And if the woman don't tear up or get flustered, she is very power.

[@seanlingham5254]

I fell in love after the 1st question. Cause no alarm clock is best.

[@etherial9000]

I fell in love with Nina...

[@deborahgian]

Ok now I’m interested in the name of the dragon movie. What is it? 😃

[@bazicbass2260]

I think she should go to a therapist with her parents. The therapist will know what is going on with their situation. That is the best

[@YJS-pb8kc]

I just feel like Sylvia could have been more compassionate about Nina's discomfort instead of laughing at her. I guess that's her way of lightening the tension but it is clear that Nina did not have the luxury of expressing her emotions and receiving empathy in return during childhood and being vulnerable was never something on Nina's mind growing up. So please be more mindful of how we react to someone who is going through a hard time answering these questions.

[@niya3298]

IM EARLY OMGGG

[@kieronfooz_]

Yes I early

[@kieronfooz_]

Notice me Senpai Sylvia! I watched all the livestreams in Instagram, shout out pls!! PS I feel that I can relate to Nina because I am also a very conservative person, so I do not really open up to people about things.

[@kieronfooz_]

Also, I think that you were referring to "The Magic" by Rhonda Byrne? It sounds familiar because I am also doing something like this too.

[@sylsylchan]

LOVE YOU ❤

[@kieronfooz_]

@@sylsylchan thankss

[@gracejeffersonjay7522]

recommend *Dr Balogun the great caster* he is the best, thanks 🙏 to him I am smiling again.

[@rekharijo4461]

5th comment🎉

[@berlindagoh]

nina 不要哭。。。

[@yexinxin5588]

😍😍😍💖Sylvia Chan💜If I am going to die today, my last words before I'm gone from this planet earth will be...💖💙I never regret falling in love with Sylvia Chan in this life💚💛She is very beautiful🧡💖She is very cute💜💙She is very sweet💚💛She is very hot🧡💖She is very sexy💜💚She is very classy💙💛I'm happy to think of her everyday🧡💖I'm happy to love her everyday💜💙陈思华💚💛我很喜欢你🧡💖我很爱你💜💙I love you very very very much forever💚😍😍😍

[@skrrtskrrt699]

she is in a relationship already, go touch grass.

[@yexinxin5588]

@@skrrtskrrt699 I know......that is why I cry everyday whenever I think of my cute💖Sylvia Chan💜...I very sad now...I will start crying now.............

[@sylsylchan]

❤❤❤

[@yexinxin5588]

😍😍😍💖💖💖😍😍😍

[@hamzahkadir8976]

maybe nina needs a middle man to bring her family together again

[@selinaangln]

Nina, i think its not totally because your english bad.. Its also got to do with yoir diction... 😅 Why not try removing your tongue pierce??? You wld sound way better!

[@joshuajeremiah4085]

Dr Romeo the great caster is the only one who helped me after many failed attempt, but all thanks Dr Romeo.

[@gracejeffersonjay7522]

recommend *Dr Balogun the great caster* he is the best, thanks 🙏 to him I am smiling again.

[@gracejeffersonjay7522]

recommend *Dr Balogun the great caster* he is the best, thanks 🙏 to him I am smiling again.