5 Things Elegant People do BEFORE Eating

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Thank you for watching! It's great to be back. And thank you to Ritual for sponsoring this video. I've loved their vitamins for years. Remember to click here ​www.ritual.com/DAILYC20 20% off during your first month. I hope you enjoyed today's video. I would love to know your thoughts in the comments. And thank you for your prayers for my dad. He is doing so well and is improving rapidly. We appreciate you so much. See you on Thursday! Love, Jennifer

[@kimgordon3695]

Loving the gentle reminder about Mindful eating. (We clean as we go in our galley) 3 designated spaces for dining. 1. our lounge 2. our deck & 3. our dinette. (Love to use linen) #ThankYou #LadyJennifer ✨

[@VeganMangoQueen]

There’s nothing elegant about eating dead rotting flesh of murdered animals

[@karendavidson5455]

Wonderful news!

[@christineking3886]

We've missed you! But as a parent caregiver I'm grateful you've cultivated a life that provides the time and ability to be with those you love.

[@Es24688]

As a religious person , I believe in praying to express gratitude before eating. Even if you are not religious, taking a moment to express gratitude for the blessing of your food is a great start to a meal.

[@lauralogan3046]

Jennifer, your intro where you talked about your dad really tugged at my heart ❤️ I hope your dad is recovering well from his accident and regaining strength 🙏🏼

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Thank you, Laura! He is slowly improving day by day. ♥

[@lauralogan3046]

@@TheDailyConnoisseur I’m so glad to hear that!! 🙌🏻 Praise the Lord!

[@karentwinem9579]

I love the elegance series. I worry that I’ve gotten sloppy in the pandemic. My practice is to use “God is here. God is now.” To settle myself into the presence of God in the present moment.

[@annettem4672]

Love this! I will be using this, thank you for sharing it ❤

[@Eleonor0515]

You have beautified our lives, Jennifer. Keep making your Dad proud. 🤍🕊

[@darla2142]

Jennifer, Amen. I had a friend that would want to talk about drama, her problems, complain, serious negativity while we where eating and my acid reflux would act up so bad that I could not keep a bite down. I knew my body was telling me "Do you want to have this insane conversation or nourish your soul and body?" I am now committed to eating in a peaceful lovely environment and savoring a beautiful meal. Thank you for all that you do. ❤️

[@khomotjomalatji4600]

“Be still and know that I am God”…I like that verse too. You had me thinking of how I grew up and things my parents tried to instill in me and yet I have dropped the ball. Glad coming here reminds me of it. Need to pull up my socks, at the least, for the sake of my babies. Sending love to you and your dad.

[@21972012145525]

I like be still, for god is with you

[@brittany...]

We have been eating more formally for quite some time and recently I got sick. The table and house became so disheveled. I tried sitting down at a cluttered table and found that I was too distracted by the stuff on the table I couldn't enjoy my food. While that particular instance couldn't be helped I realized how important dining etiquette had become in our family. Thank you for these videos and your books. They have changed my life and encourage me when I am in the dumps. Thank you Jennifer! Praying for your dad. 🥰

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Thank you, Brittany!

[@susanmclaughlin4266]

Isn’t it amazing how when you get sick, everything seems to fall apart!

[@evasochocki5209]

Thank you for the reminder. For some reason I have gotten far away from peaceful dining lately. Be still and know that I am God. Yes, that definitely helps

[@e.2340]

Jennifer, what an tough summer you have had. Between your dad and your father-in-law. Thinking of you and your family.

[@luba-healthywithluba6866]

Jennifer, seeing a notification that you posted a video brought a smile to my face this morning. Thank you for inspiring me to eat more elegantly. I also love eating outside! We recently had some outstanding company for lunch, and their presence made our meal that much better. Eating in a chaotic environment certainly affects digestion and more. It is good to see you back, Jennifer! Continued prayers for you and your family.

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Thank you, Luba

[@asmallsanctuary]

I’ve really come to appreciate the tablecloth-placemat combo with young kids: the placemat keeps the tablecloth cleaner for longer ;-) In my culture and faith tradition (Judaism), setting a ‘sacred table’ is really valued (especially on Shabbat). Sure, esthetics are part of it but more importantly, we ‘set’ the table with blessings, song, stories, Torah study, lots of questions and even more humor. Whatever happens throughout the day, my family gathers at the table for all meals and it is such a supportive anchor in our family life.

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

That is beautiful!

[@maryelizabeth2751]

I love it! Thanks for sharing about these traditions.

[@asmallsanctuary]

@@maryelizabeth2751 Thank you so much and you are very welcome. I talk more about these traditions on my channel.

[@amybee40]

Yes, I was going to add for myself, that the practice of the family saying grace before the meal is helpfully reorienting. Being thankful to God for His blessings, for nourishment and for time with loved ones, helps everyone to leave their day behind and focus on enjoying food and family.

[@asmallsanctuary]

@@amybee40 Absolutely - it sets intention, mindfulness, gratitude and humility. The 'sacred table' is such an important place for imparting values. I want to make a video about it on my channel at some point! (Right now, I'm doubling down on Hanukkah content ;-))

[@reginasemenenko148]

You are so right about having tidy surroundings when eating. We've just moved to a new house and every day my husband puts boxes all over our table. At first I moved them, but it has become a daily thing and I don't have the energy with all the hours I work. I told him I'd be glad to meet him back at our beautiful table once he stops using it as a catch all. I think we deserve a clean, uncluttered table at which to eat, but he'll have to give me a little help. We are eating on the deck now.

[@amandazplace5663]

I cant help feeling I must add a point to your tip about not eating when you're upset. Sometimes, we go through very stressful, sad situations that last weeks or months. In those times, you may have no choice about eating when upset, or you will lose too much weight and definitely compromise your hormone balance and immunity. I would suggest having things like smoothies, soups, mashed potatoes and slow roasted stews, foods that are easily digested and high in nutrition. Continued prayer for your dear dad, Jennifer.🙏♥️🇨🇦

[@peacelovejoyandhappiness]

I thank you so much for mentioning this. I never gave thought until I read your messages, good points.

[@Sistacurls]

Great video. I have a very small kitchen so one of the things I do is clean up as much of the prep mess as possible while food is baking, sauteing or simmering. Then after dinner there is less to clean, no great mountain of dishes towering over me to ruin my meal while I'm eating. I'm also anal about keeping the dinning table clear of clutter throughout the day so it doesn't have to be cleaned off before a meal, or worse, discourage anyone from eating there and instead eating in front of the TV.

[@hollydewbean3248]

Oops! I watched this video while eating breakfast😁. But I kept calm and remained classy👍. Thank you Jennifer!

[@clementineclement5757]

I love your refined and enriching videos. Eating should always be a relaxing occasion. Nothing worse either to have guests and let disputes arise, either with a couple having marriage issues, or people embarking on heated political disputes. We're adamant : we stop it right away by saying "We shall change unpleasant subjects", since the rare times we dared not, , it ruined all the party. Two couples who used to invite us were regularly having arguments over sometimes minor things such as "where on earth did you put that bread basket ? I can't find it, typical of your messy habits"... ,that is SO embarrassing for us guests. We simply turned down any further invitations, and when they asked why we weren't available any more, had the honesty to tell them why, i.e. that a luncheon, however casual, or a dinner or tea party or whatever invitation should be an enjoyable experience and that if they had issues they should settle them beforehand .

[@21972012145525]

I appreciate that honesty but also home it was said gracefully. For example: we don’t want to be the source of needless disputes between you

[@lynnwalker]

Oh dear, I literally saved this video to watch while eating my dinner tonight. Guilty! But, I do have to agree with all of your points. I especially find that overeating is easier to do when you are distracted by your computer, phone, TV, etc. while eating. I have more recently, by your influence, made my eating area much nicer and less cluttered and I enjoy it so much! Wishing your Dad a speedy recovery!

[@21972012145525]

I did too! Saved it for my lunch break! I actually really enjoy watching KZbin videos from my favorite creators while eating because I usually eat alone

[@cags9764]

Jennifer, I love the way your face lights up when you say that your dad is your biggest fan. How nice it must be for him to watch your videos while he rests. Well done!

[@wendykornfein3337]

I agree, eating while upset, nervous, worried, or angry, so unpleasant.

[@ruthgreen2014]

You're father is a wise man...how blessed you are!

[@joannafoster3423]

Hope your dad is on the mend. With the Queen's death and soon coming coronation, I've been wondering your thoughts from so many aspects of it all from the Queen's strengths to fashion to tradition. So much video content you could cover on this! Would love to hear from you on all this!

[@ruthhorenstein6915]

My favourite affirmation "I am a peaceful soul. I am a powerful soul." Thank you, B.K.Shivani 🙏

[@catherinecorn7182]

I salute your messy kitchen. 🤣 i always feel like i absolutely trash mine while cooking. 🤣 Excellent points and a reminder to go clear and dress my dining table for dinner.

[@debbiemize2269]

I am so guilty of eating while watching TV, then I’m shocked to realize the food is gone and I have no recollection of eating! And I still feel hungry!

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Yes! That's exactly it!

[@nusaibahibraheem8183]

It's strange because I used to be the opposite, If am watching something I eat less coz I forget about the food and just watch the TV. But now I have gotten used to eating while watching something.

[@JaneILynch]

Praying for you all. So glad I got to be on your zoom call Friday!

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

It was great to see you, Jane!

[@elisaschnur942]

Hi Jennifer, thank you so much for everything you do to promote the beauty of motherhood and homemsking. I love your video’s. Do you have a PO box would love to send something to you for you and your dad. Let me know. In the meantime praying for you and your dad. God bless you, Elisa

[@nancyg323]

I couldn't agree more. I was raised to always sit down for meals at a properly set the table to eat every evening (and at lunch on weekends, too).This lifelong habit has saved me. My husband and I have stuck to it. If we have activities with the children after school,we organize our mealtime around it. It's sacrosanct in our house and it has been a grounding activity in our daily rhythm which can change so much from day to day. Thank you for the video.

[@fiddlejillm]

I watched this while eating my breakfast! I love your tip about eating outside whenever possible. I'm going to do that when I can...it's raining today, but maybe tomorrow!

[@camieschuiteman1364]

A beautifully done video with profound life principles that our culture has misplaced! Thank you for the content and your sweetness💕 Your dad will be blessed!

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Thank you, Camie!

[@mynamename5172]

Thank you for this video and best wishes for a speedy recovery for your Dad. Tonight Chez Moi we will be dining properly (which we never do) in honor of this lovely video. Everyone else should too! Let's all dine nicely tonight, separately but together. Cheers

[@Karen-ve6ds]

Will do!

[@Iris-zf3lo]

Joining you from South Africa

[@mynamename5172]

We did it! My family spent the first 10 minutes complaining and eye-rolling at me, but by the end everyone was enjoying it. It was lovely and I will make a habit of it going forward.

[@isabelminaya]

Sorry about your dad, I hope he is feeling better! We are doing things something for a purpose. Your dad is a beautiful purpose!

[@lindaleclair8938]

I am so guilty! Eating my lunch and watching your video, lol! I will say thought that your videos are relaxing so I am at least dining in a calm environment.

[@21972012145525]

I save her videos to watch while eating lol

[@ColoringNanna913]

Thank you for bringing class and calmness back to a chaotic world. I love your style. I love these tips. Bringing class back in to style. I need to keep learning even though I am a mature women . Blessings!

[@reneecailloux2573]

Inner peace in some loud restaurants is very difficult. I don't like going to large restaurants that have a high ceiling because of that. You can't hear the other persons at your table clearly and it feels too chaotic to enjoy what's in your plate.

[@aromarnie]

Jennifer, I missed you, it’s so nice to see you back! I also send you much compassion for what you are going through with your family. Thanks for the video. One of my fave affirmations when in an environment that’s chaotic that I cannot control, is “not my circus, not my monkeys”. It really helps to re-orient my attention!

[@janeburkhart4051]

Prayers continue for your dad, and for the rest of you family as well. ❤️🙏

[@karendavidson5455]

You truly are a classy lady. In the crazy, rushed life we all seem to be caught up in, this is an important message. My favourite thing to remember is this “HE will keep in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on Him”. Thank you!

[@Setyourhandle8080]

Oh my gosh I was not expecting to get so emotional about missing my dad through this video! He was my biggest fan too. Such a big part of my confidence throughout life. You are both blessed to have one another. Lovely video thank you.

[@LesleyLizbeth]

I also love that bible verse. I suggest you listen to Steven Curtis Chapman’s beautiful song called Be still!

[@ItsMeHello555]

I was so happy to see a video from you today, Jennifer. I am NOT surprised your daddy is your biggest fan! Warms my heart. Carrying on with what you said about deserving to partake in a quiet and enjoyable meal like your children.. THIS has been my litmus test for so many choices, incidents, predicaments, since the birth of my sweet boy. We are showing them every single day, how to be treated, what is acceptable treatment from others! They are watching, learning, absorbing every iota of it. It has given me unimaginable strength in holding people to high standards! We want so much and the very best for these precious gifts. Let’s be a proper model. I thank you for taking the time to do this for us, with all that you have going. Blessings from East TN. 🌿🧡🌿

[@SoNick25]

I am so happy to hear the good news about your father! Unfortunately my lunches are eaten in my office while watching KZbin! However, I always use lovely plates, cups and cutlery and have a tablecloth on the table. I cringe when I watch movies or videos of people eating standing up in the kitchen or leaning on benches. Breakfast in my house is the most joyous occassion, with both my husband and I eating together with soft jazz playing in the background and no rushing around (after having years of hectic mornings getting kids off to school). I value this part of the day and thinking sitting down together, having a serene environment, using beautiful plates/cups and leaving the table at the same time are high priorities! Not a cellphone or TV in sight! We are lucky we are at a life stage where we can make this possible. Have a lovely week! Thanks for your videos, as they are a reminder of how things can be if you make the effort!

[@haleybean75]

Wow, I was not expecting for this video to make me so emotional! Very glad to hear your dad is recovering so miraculously. God is with you! ❤️

[@miggy7165]

One tip for sitting down in a clutter free environment is advice from my high school home economics teacher: clean as you go. Have a pan or sink of hot soapy water drawn as soon as you begin preparing your meal - any meal. As you dirty items, whether it be pots or utensils or whatever - drop them immediately into the soapy water. When your meal prep is at a point that you can walk away for a bit, maybe the soup is simmering in the back burner or the roast is in the oven, quickly wash, rinse and put away all those items you used during meal prep. Next, when the food is done cooking, transfer to a serving dish and then soak or wash that cooking pot. Then, when you sit down to eat, you have a clean kitchen! I've followed this advice for 30 years and can truly say it makes meal prep and meal time so much more pleasant.

[@NikkiSchumacherOfficial]

Oh that green looks lovely on you. I took some time off of KZbin also ever since our daughter died and haven’t felt like watching KZbin but you’re one of my favorites. I’m so sorry for the loss in your family. Heaven looks so much more appealing the older we get and the more loved ones we have waiting for us.

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Nikki, I didn’t know your daughter passed away. I’m so sorry. You have my condolences ♥️

[@dianelaliberte1878]

My Condolence🙏

[@Bellab414]

you just made me cry!...such a sweet daughter...x

[@christineward7146]

When I'm at home we always eat our meals in the dining room at the table but when I'm at work I eat at my desk, I will have to change this habit. I've noticed you're using your cutlery in the English way now 👍 ❤

[@jades3654]

Prayers for your family. Hope your dad is getting better.

[@aliciamaria2730]

Happy to see you back.🤎☕🥐

[@kariemelje8468]

So thankful to have you back; I have missed you/your content! I hope your dad is doing better. I’ve been praying for you/your family!

[@anitas5817]

Yay! I’m glad you’re back and I love this type of video.

[@Felicia594]

Is sipping my coffee right now watching this🙂

[@OrthodoxInquirer]

I love, "None of these things move me." Of course, "Be still and know that I am God," is amazing. Bible verses are amazingly calming. I actually have that one on a scarf I wear to church a lot. I'm so sorry to hear about your dad's accident. Recently, my friend's mom was sitting outdoors at a restaurant and someone ran their truck into the eating area and severely injured her. You can imagine the unbelievable trauma of that whole situation. Her mom pulled through and is getting stronger every day! Many prayers for your dad's healing and for your strength and peace as well!

[@bethany45101]

Ooooohhh I feel very called out with this one 😅 I’m currently pregnant (18 wks) with my 4th child and I have completely gotten into the habit of mindless eating in my favorite comfy corner of the couch 😂

[@nancycerreta5629]

Lovely, thank you. As I watched the video I set my table for tonight's dinner then prepared meatloaf for baking later this afternoon.

[@susanh1205]

So guilty of not being present when I eat, I do the NYT puzzles on my phone. Thanks for the reminders!

[@amandakerr1607]

There are several restaurants that we frequent that have the music so very loud that it is difficult to be tranquil. Thank you for the reminder to lean on the Lord even in those moments.

[@21972012145525]

I hate that because when I dine alone in a restaurant I’m usually catching up on youtube and usually don’t carry headphones

[@alexandraeverafter1015]

There are restaurants where we stopped going because of the extremely loud pop music. It ruins our appetites. We enjoy peaceful classical music while eating. Whether we are eating a fancy four-course meal or a simple sandwich, classical music elevates our meal.

[@janjentz1053]

Good information. Using the suggestions you were talking about; is important and is surely better for your digestion and health to sit down to a nice meal. Hope your Dad is well on his way to a full recovery.

[@lauralogan3046]

Also, I love that you mentioned “Be still and know that I am God” ❤️ such a good reminder! Do you know the name of the floral dish ware you use? It reminds me of living in England as a child, and my grandparents dishes. I don’t know the name of that pattern, though!

[@teresafinoalchemy]

You're a credit to your Dad. Wishing him well.

[@jennifergeck6118]

I’m so happy things have calmed down enough to allow you to return to KZbin. I’ve been holding your family in prayer.

[@sillybeeful]

Hi Dad 🙋🏼‍♀️ wishing you a swift recovery 💐

[@heathersnow3368]

I have been praying for you and your family, and that you may soon have joy again. I am having a hard season as well with work and family. Your videos inspire me and I want to thank you for continuing. I am 31 years old and I feel the need for a renaissance of sophistication, and your videos have been a wonderful guide thank you.

[@wynnyekey5316]

Glad.Your dad is better. Thank you for the video. Missed you.

[@LlamaMama60]

I have learned so much from your videos and have incorporated most of them . I’d like to personally thank you in helping me improve my home myself and my life .❤

[@CFW1]

Very good advice. I have to admit I sometimes watch your videos while eating lunch. 😁🤪 Prayers for your dad's continued recovery. 🙏🏻

[@jeanetteh.9240]

You made some excellent points. May your father's healing continue.

[@judithmelanson2460]

So happy to see you! I have missed you!

[@rachelliebenberg7887]

Such Truths you share with the world with Shalom and Elegance. Just watched my first ever video of the Daily Connoisseur. Warm Regards from Cape Town, South Africa 🌺🌿

[@jelenamatic3617]

Great video! Lots of good points! Thank you, Jennifer!❤😊

[@victoriaoliver9958]

That was the sweetest thing you said about your dad. It's wonderful that you can support him through his healing process and he supports you through your creative process! It's so good to see you back. And BTW, your eye color really pops with the shirt you're wearing. 💕

[@nancybarajas1528]

💐Mis mejores deseos por la pronta recuperación de tu Papá. Nuestras oraciones están con tu familia Jennifer y gracias por seguir alegrando nuestras vidas con tu trabajo. Gracias.🙏

[@crterwil]

Was just thinking of you and praying for you. As I watched the queens funeral and thinking of your dad and your husbands loss. You have had so much on you this Summer. Seeing a notification from you made my heart so happy! God bless you!

[@daisybuchanan5378]

So glad you’re back, and prayers for your father’s recovery.

[@ReedingBetweenTheLines]

Missed you so much. This video is like a breath of fresh air. Thank you for your boundless grace and energy making these videos.

[@jacquelinenoel2992]

Thank you for your transparency. This is an important topic that I’ve not given much thought. 🌹

[@tcb1672]

Jennifer, it's so lovely to see you again. What a wonderful video, and such a great reminder in the "hurry up" society we live in. Praying for your Dad's (and family) full recovery. I know how special the bond between fathers and daughters is. My Dad was also my biggest fan and mentor. Being an Englishman he always use to say to me "chin up, Teri"

[@Karen-ve6ds]

That’s lovely!

[@loric1909]

I really needed this video, Jennifer. I ate too much over the kitchen sink this week, stressed because I'm starting a new job and waiting to hear back. It wasn't a good feeling. I home cook all my meals because of food sensitivities and it takes me so long to prepare everything from scratch, then 2 minutes to eat it. I will start to slow down and enjoy the fruit of my labor more. Also going to clear the clutter off the dining table, even though it's all pushed to one side. Thank you. Also praying for your Father. Praise the Lord he is on the mend and your biggest fan. That is wonderful.

[@elegantmermaidgang3441]

I wish your daddy quick recovery ❤️‍🩹

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

He is doing much better now. Thank you so much.

[@lauragb3677]

Great video and insights! Nice to see you back. Healing prayers continue to go out for your dad. 🙏❤️🙏

[@he2548]

Wishing you and your family much love and comfort. Prayers going out to you, Jennifer. Please be at peace.🕊

[@caitlinrl630]

Godspeed on your continued recovery, Papa Connoisseur! Good to see you back at it, Jennifer... this is a classic topic from you and I never get tired of it!

[@akilav2981]

Blessings to your family. So lovely to see you back-you are an inspiration

[@jilly8372]

Good to see you! I am sure you are such a blessing to your dad! I’ve been praying for your family this summer, Jennifer.💕

[@saarah07]

The tribute to your dad is precious.

[@vanessaschmidtlein5750]

So sorry you are having a difficult time Jennifer, I appreciate your videos and wish you and your family well.

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Please ignore the comment asking you to text me on Telegram. It is a spam account impersonating me. I've reported the account. Thank you for your prayers ♥️ ~ Jennifer

[@ivaraasen6]

Thank you, thank you, thank you for this!

[@saskiavisser1279]

I am so glad you are back and making video's for your father and us!

[@toniwadsworth7577]

Welcome back! It’s so nice to see you again and I am delighted to hear that you and your dad are supporting each other. Sometimes if I am upset at mealtime, I will have some beef consommé with my dining companions. It’s easier for me to sip on something nourishing but light than to call attention to my lack of appetite by postponing my meal. This way i can take in a little nourishment which helps me to feel better. I use a bowl and my smaller rounded soup spoon and sip my consommé slowly. This is what works for me. It’s nice to hear your ideas and suggestions for what works for you. I love that you take your meals outside when you can. That is beautiful!

[@hollydewbean3248]

So glad your father is doing much better. Continued prayers for you and your family.

[@wendyb.graves4244]

Great Video! What a blessing you are for your dad. Thank you for the affirmations. I will definitely be using them daily. Sending you lots of love & light from NC🫶

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

Thank you, Wendy! ♥

[@gwenewing6837]

Your daughters are growing up! So beautiful!

[@megangoggans1208]

I love that you dedicated this, and all of your videos, to your dad.

[@candma4240]

Thank you for this video, Jennifer. It was so helpful and came at a time when I am focusing on self care. This is an important aspect of living well and becoming whole. ❤

[@esheppard971]

Good to see you again Jennifer.

[@jordynlopez8974]

That is a very sweet dedication of your videos to your Dad! Hello Jennifer’s father, you have a very special daughter. I wish you all the best in your healing and will keep you in my prayers!

[@chriswells9993]

A book called 'The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry ' by John Mark Comer was a life changer for me when it comes to slowing down and reducing stress.

[@emmarennie4199]

So Inspiring Jennifer ! ( All of your posts ) I am always eating my feelings , something to work on . GB x

[@awkwardgenxer1023]

Thanks so much for this. The tips about stress and dining are something I hadn’t heard before and I think they will be very helpful. I hope your father makes a full recovery soon.

[@blane1814]

That was beautiful

[@deannab9511]

Its great to see you back! I enjoyed this topic and tips. Nothing beats a lovely meal enjoying your surroundings and your companion. Love you Jennifer, keep your head up all things will get better with time ❤