5 Types of GAY BOTTOMS | Patrick Marano

In this video we look at 5 different types of gay bottoms. What are they like? What do they want? And what can you expect from them?
Of course there are tons of other types - and sometimes types can overlap... or one day you can be one type and the next day another type!
See if you can't recognize yourself in some of these types - or maybe you've been with these types of bottoms before?
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[@DaveTexas]

I like the "boyfriend experience bottom." The BFE bottom is a total stranger with whom you make love. Foreplay, romance, passion, intimacy, cuddling, touching, massaging, the works. You make love like you’re insanely in love with each other. You cuddle afterwards until you fall asleep. Once you wake up, you go your separate ways. He’s not demanding, not wanting a pump-n-dump, not dom, not a pig, just passionate and romantic. Admittedly, these BFE bottoms tend to become FWB bottoms, since a successful hookup can be so good that you want more. It’s how I met my husband about 20 years ago. It’s how I met my boyfriend about 15 years ago…

[@PatrickMarano]

It's so true. When you find a good one, you wanna hang on to him

[@TysonMichael77]

I love this and agree! I’d much rather have fwb that actually knows my body n understands me vs going from one random guy to the next. Although nothing is wrong with that either

[@joshflugel]

True, this type of bottom is not needy, and won't talk about getting married after the first creampie, he wont spam the chat with messages, he is boyfriend material.

[@alm-e-jamhoorpakistan9470]

😂😂😂

[@djc2990]

"The Steven Spielberg of bottoms." Brilliant.

[@jimcrovatt6988]

You forgot the WHIMPERING BOTTOM. The one that's all "Do me, Daddy!"; but when you attempt to "do" him, he's curled up in a tearful ball because "it hurts!".

[@PatrickMarano]

I'll have to do another video lol

[@johniii8147]

They are incredibly annoying. Was with a couple of those. Lost my hard on so moved on. Sometimes guys can have this fantasy of being a btm but really can't handle it.

[@jimcrovatt6988]

@@johniii8147 Especially annoying when you hadn't even got started.

[@kaiwannagoback5712]

Sounds like a good chance to learn the art of gentling the horse before mounting. Good time for slow hands, good lube, rimming, patience, and genuine caring.

[@billTO]

@@kaiwannagoback5712 Mounting.... I love everything it!

[@juancarlosjc1101]

I love all bottoms.......my favorite are submissive bottoms

[@timmarrs-ul4cm]

Take me pleasee

[@juancarlosjc1101]

@@timmarrs-ul4cm Your email?

[@Moonshot.]

Wink 😘

[@sandhya1112]

Hy

[@alm-e-jamhoorpakistan9470]

And your position?

[@duanel.beach-barrow8645]

I can say with absolute authority: POWER BOTTOMS RULE!!! Most Tops love us because they don't have to over-think things - we will take the reins!

[@zythr9999]

That's nice

[@lichang3694]

How are you doing Duane L?

[@andrewfoster4359]

yup do sometimes like a guy to just take control and use me and as you say means we can just leave it all to the other guy

[@Channotek72]

I feel like you missed the submissive bottom. The bottom who wants to relinquish control and just please their top. Possibly a bit of a Pillow Princess, this bottom wants all the attention on *them*. They’re the center of the room, the life of the party, eager to please all sorts of tops that happen to cross their path. Not that I have any personal experience of being this bottom or anything 😅😅

[@PatrickMarano]

hahaha, you're right, that's an important one... looks like another video is coming...

[@Channotek72]

@@PatrickMarano Glad to know i’m important! 😝

[@mysakitchus9413]

That's just an empty person with a gaping void

[@georgehuerta1990]

🤔 well sounds like a guy I know

[@Ginger18420]

This is me. I like pillow princess lol

[@roberttanas7842]

You made me laugh out loud I'm a top and I came across in my lifetime all of them bottoms so thanks for the laugh

[@lichang3694]

How are you doing?

[@mallaig33]

Just discovered your channel on the cruising video that came on my feed. And then watched this. So accurate! Had all these types of bottoms! Can’t wait to see more videos

[@mallaig33]

My favourite is the sub bottom that takes what I give

[@PatrickMarano]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@rickgarms7656]

Love it. Thoughtful yet humorous.

[@PatrickMarano]

Thanks Rick

[@troywillis9704]

You're that favorite uncle (younger) that we all wish we had.

[@PatrickMarano]

Thank you!

[@thomasbradley4505]

My best relationship was an open one. I was a power bottom, he could keep going after he came, but also enjoyed sharing me with other tops or watching me with other guys. And I enjoyed him being with other bottoms. We had some great times, especially at the bath house

[@PatrickMarano]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@nateparedes44]

So are you in a relationship currently or….????

[@thomasbradley4505]

@@nateparedes44 not in a relationship currently

[@ThePoobears]

how does it feel I want to try it ..

[@ThePoobears]

@@PatrickMarano how does it feel...

[@markmh835]

Oh honey, there are so many other kinds than these five. How about: the First Time Bottom; the Curious Bottom; the Reluctant Bottom; the Versatile/Flip-Flop/Quid Pro Quo Bottom? So many others......

[@robertbeining141]

LOL. Good point, especially the Quid Pro Quo Bott.

[@PatrickMarano]

I smell another video... what's the quid pro quo bottom? I'll let you do this if I can do that?

[@markmh835]

@@PatrickMarano -- Yes, basically. For 2 versatile partners. (But who goes first??) Or else when one agrees (submits?) to being bottom in return for the chance to reverse roles and be the top. Usually some bargaining is involved. (The "Bribed Bottom?") 😜 Here's another one: the Selective Bottom. I'm seeing more guys who say that they top guys younger than themselves, but will bottom for guys older than themselves. (I'm not sure why age should be a factor.) Or, similarly, guys who say the person with the biggest dick gets to top. If theirs is bigger, they top. If their partner is more well hung, they will submit and bottom. Apparently for them, cock size is the dominant factor. 🍆 😁👍

[@RobinHood70]

@@markmh835 Age is a factor for some people just because of the perception that the older guy will be more experienced and confident, thus more naturally the Dom/Top. This obviously isn't always the case, but your subconscious mind is usually much less discriminating than your rational mind. 😉

[@jerrylee8261]

Watch a lot of Gay utubers and almost always fall in "love" with a new one but then I get bored with them and move onto a new one. Love Patrick's energy and outlook. We have very different views on relationships. Have never been a bottom so.............

[@PatrickMarano]

Hey John, thanks for writing! I hope you don't get bored lol

[@russellb2620]

This is so awesome, thank you. As a ‘slightly’ older gay man coming out of a 8+ year relationship.. I kinda knew a bit from my ‘dalliances’ over the years but it’s a whole new … pardon the pun.. ball game now. Guys are waaay more open and freely expressed with their sex than when I, and many other guys were in our 20/30/40’s. Dammit!

[@hongkongfueynz3071]

You are still gorgeous! I’m sure you still have lots of fun 😉

[@PatrickMarano]

I do

[@howardjdownes]

I agree. Indoctrinated with phobia, loathing and averse to anything associated with faeces as dirty/perverse stuck in my head, such that I was already in my 30s before I discovered the joys. I'm versatile and can't really choose between top and bottom as my last relationship was the first I've ever had where we took turns every time, despite him being average to small suited me as I've about 6 comfortable inches of depth. However, sick and tired of dates where guys turn up already so hard they're ready to pop without any foreplay, snogging/kissing, foreplay and the sensuality that's missing. Regarding the self-confidence, self-esteem and fearlessness of the younger generation is wonderful. I only hope that some will realise looks and figures don't last but intimacy and love does, if you find it. I'm still searching...

[@stevedickerson5048]

As a top I can verify that there are more than 5 types of bottoms. I prefer a passive bottom, but I have been with every bottom you have described and then some. Im a verbal top and like to be in control, some bottoms dont like that. We all have to find what works best for us. Ive never had a problem finding a good bottom, but from what Ive heard Its hard to find a good top.

[@PatrickMarano]

Boom! Hey Steve, thanks for the comment... for sure there are more than 5 types of bottoms... more videos the come! I wonder if it's harder to find a good top cuz some don't ever bottom and they can't put themselves in the others position?

[@johniii8147]

Verbal can be fun unless it turns into a bad porn script. Sometimes it's best to just shut up.

[@chrisrandall2710]

Hi Steve!

[@johnl5316]

yes. there are bottoms who naturally submit, obey, and try to learn how to please a man. Their pleasure comes from their man's pleasure

[@chrisucl]

Verbal Tops are the best, especially if they expect the bottom to know their place and they are proud to be a Top and openly act like the leader in the relationship. I think the trouble in finding a top is less about how they are in bed and more to do with the fact that a lot of bottoms expect the Top to put them in their place and that isn't easy to find.

[@hjk8692]

I don’t talk during sex, guy from New York was throwing me around so much my roommates thought he was beating me up and breaking furniture. Guessing he didn’t like bossy or something bottoms because he said they never let him do anything. He kept coming back so I must have been doing something right.

[@robertschwartz4810]

One of my favorite quotes is, "I am not the plaything of an idle hour". Tell that to your bossy bottom.

[@MiguelGMoseler]

This fun and very educational for me.. everything I learned is very important. Do I never have real conversations with someone whom can teach me. Thank you. For this short video. Feeling very confident after my 40s to talk about sex and my sexual preferences. You rock man..

[@PatrickMarano]

Hey Miguel! Thank you. I'm so happy this video was helpful for you

[@lichang3694]

How are you doing?

[@paulortiz2035]

And it is equally important to find out your partners sexual preferences! At least if you want a second or third date!

[@stevebuckley1431]

Well done video I have dated all of them but you put into words perfectly the differences...

[@PatrickMarano]

Thx Steve!

[@quietmind7476]

Brilliant analysis!!

[@otterpop9]

How about the “occasional” bottom? He might do it, he might not. He’s not so demanding and enjoys it when it happens. Benefits: no pressure. Issues: Not match well with an insatiable top.

[@PatrickMarano]

Good one!

[@luisespinoza8391]

Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't. Just like a Mounds bar. Lol

[@johniii8147]

That usually just depends on who with. I'm mostly top but i've been with a couple of guy for fuck buds over the years that could turn me into an insatiable btm they were hot and great at what they did. But that was 2 out of 100+ guys i've had sex with over the years.

[@jimcormney]

Hm.....it seems to me; particularly as I mature, that a bottom is simply an honest gay man (which itself is ironically an oxymoron).

[@johniii8147]

Great topic! Most (especially in a relationship) are combination of all that in the real world. My husband is mostly a btm and shows some of all those. Keeps our sex life interesting so i enjoy it. There are days i come home from the gym in the morning and he's ass up head down ready. Other times he likes to take control and ride it till i can't take it anymore, or its slow sweet and romantic. It's very hot that i never quite what I'm going to get with him. Good blend between dom and submissive. One of the reasons after 10 years we still have a very active sex life.

[@PatrickMarano]

Wow, sounds like you hit the jackpot

[@johniii8147]

@@PatrickMarano We both did. Sexual compatibility has always been one of the keys to our relationship. Not that is everything, but it certainly helps a lot. So much of it is about our trust for each other that all the different sides of each other come out.

[@DION_LIVE]

Yea I'm like that for the top. Try to feel what he wants

[@Jusell]

As I said before: you are the boss 😎👌🏻💯

[@HollywoodF1]

Thank you for this- I’m getting tired of correcting str8 ppl who think that a bossy bottom is a power bottom. No, no, no!

[@PatrickMarano]

hahaha

[@johnp.1460]

Great video. I think I have been each one of those bottoms, depending on mood - except when I’m at top. 😏 You have a great sense of humor!

[@PatrickMarano]

Thanks so much! 😊

[@enriquestudios5219]

Love your hustle! Not sure if you’re doing OF still, but a NSFW version of this or even a series where you interview bottoms of these variety would be dope! Also could be an opportunity to collab w/other creators :)

[@michaelgrant7322]

Better yet bro... How about an Only Fans Version in which he takes super hot porn scenes with all these variety of bottoms and edits them into discussion... So that we SEE 👀 what he's talking about 😊 At the end he can tell us in graphic detail what kind of Bottom HE IS and tell us in detail how he like it 😛

[@PatrickMarano]

I do have an OF page, you guys should check it out (email [e-mail] for the link) Thanks for the comment and suggestions! xo

[@georgerivera8834]

You described them so well I had them all lol and other crazy bottoms

[@johngalt5411]

Fun as always, mwah! 😘

[@PatrickMarano]

Thank you! 🤗

[@jamienelson4574]

Awesome video but you forgot a bottom type. A starter/cheerleader bottom. One that gets his top worked up, hot and bothered till his top gets a bit primal. He will often start the show and then hands the reigns over. He will take notes on his what his top likes and exploit them for the pleasure of both. Pros: sex life will be interesting, cons: top may feel a bit manipulated at times

[@PatrickMarano]

Wow does this come from personal experience?

[@jamienelson4574]

@@PatrickMarano yep cause that's me :-)

[@Scar-jg4bn]

Honestly, that sounds great. It's fun being teased and challenged as a top. 😏

[@zythr9999]

Like spreading cheeks and enticing top with your hole?

[@leonashford4505]

Your content has great humor for topics that really have people gatekeeping them or people who make a “tribe” on a dating app a personality 🥲

[@rdennis2253]

Keep up the good work

[@borg9355]

I love your content and you seem to have a good out look on life in general, since I am not really sure where is the best place to post this I chose your most recent video, and wanted to ask your advise. Here's the situation you met someone online from a dating app 3 months ago and they gave your their number about half a month ago. During the entire time you both have been texting/messaging some back and forth with both parties initiating the communication. You both agree that you want to meet in person; but when you ask the other person do you want to plan something now or just play it by ear and they say play it by ear. Should you conclude they really aren't that interested and move on or continue to communicate and try and meetup when you are both free? My initial/instinctive response is that the other person really isn't that interested since they do not make plans.

[@PatrickMarano]

Hey Borg, thanks for watching and for the comment! Tbh, I am the type of person that also likes to play it by ear. All this means for me is that I like to live in the moment / my schedule is unpredictable. Having said that, if I REALLY REALLY want to meet someone I will make a plan. So, I would say keep in touch with him, he may just be more fluid than you would like him to be, but also take some of the pressure off of it for you. Don't put all your eggs in his basket cuz you might be disappointed.

[@paulortiz2035]

Sorry but there is no logic to what you have written--- Only 'interested' people make dates. That is just so very not the case! Since he initiates with you, go with it. He IS interested!!! Action speak louder than words, right!!!?? Maybe he is shy. Or is afraid you might reject him upon first sight! Who knows? One day you will meet up and get some of your questions answered. After the first meeting things usually change--- fast! So be semi available. And give him something to think about that might lure him out! What could that be??? Hmmm... Or offer to meet for a drink or coffee, somewhere nice. A hotel maybe. Or the airport or a department store. Or in the park during the daytime for coffee or a jog. Someplace very public! Probably not a gay bar. Maybe a straight, but quiet, bar. A gay bar, no! That's too--- something, for me anyway. Distracting? Judgemental? Noisey??? Sexual? Sleazy? Not a great place to meet someone the first time. Imo! Don't give up! And good luck! If he is just never, ever open to meeting, even after a longish period of time, you might decide to move on and end the chat. To try to move things along with someone I was seeing, at some point I said I wanted to date others becsuse I wasn't getting what I wanted from the first guy. No response. Then I said I met someone who is pretty interesting. Still no reaction from the first guy. Then it was, 'I'm not sure if I can see you much longer, because things are nice with the new guy!' Still, no reaction! So I ended it. And it wasn't hard to do at that point because he didn't care one way or the other! So no drama, no hurt feelings, no anything. We stayed friends kind of. It seemed very adult somehow. Hope that helps! Or gives you a pattern to work with if you can't figure anything else out.

[@edwardpinnix249]

All great at different times!

[@billlee536]

ANON BOTTOM…..that’s me !!

[@chrisucl]

I kind of feel that a lot of these bottom types are the same. I'm pretty sure Bossy/Power/Pig often go together

[@PatrickMarano]

hahaha, yes, I think you're probably right

[@alezand7151]

Daily reminder being a bottom is a personality

[@rudigermullins8343]

good and now we just need to wait for the reverse.. 5 types of gay tops.. and then the 5 types of DL doods.. I see a whole playlist in the future.

[@RobinHood70]

Don't forget the different types of SUBMISSIVE BOTTOM. There's probably half a dozen of those as well.

[@PatrickMarano]

Absolutely, thank you!

[@donald6787]

I was a pig bottom during my party days

[@migueldeavalos8971]

I'm a TOTAL aggressive pig top, plenty of power bottoms out there

[@DION_LIVE]

U know it

[@rdennis2253]

In the future can you please talk about cruising the bookstores and what happens and what to look for please and thank you.

[@PatrickMarano]

so many topics to cover lol... thx for the suggestion!

[@PaulHo]

Power bossy, pillow princess rising. 🙋🏾

[@PatrickMarano]

That's the second time I've heard pillow princess. hahaha love it

[@PaulHo]

@@PatrickMarano 💅🏾👸🏾

[@nathanhallisey441]

I am a power bottom. I love going to group sessions with other bottoms and tops. Its my favourite activity.

[@michaelgrant7322]

😃 Loved this video in your series 😘 Because watching it and listening to it as a top myself... I just kept thinking... "I'd like to try all of these and just like a buffet I can figure out which one I like best after I compare" 😛 I also admit I had a raging 🍌 watching it and listening to you describe my options 😊

[@PatrickMarano]

haha really ?? That's awesome, life is a buffet!

[@michaelgrant250]

My name is also Michael Grant also and I am a bottom. I like a top that knows what he wants.

[@michaelgrant7322]

@@michaelgrant250 😂 What's the odds? Imagine a Power Top like me named Michael Grant, meets up with a Power Bottom like you also named Michael Grant... And the story ends that we find out on a Patrick comment thread about each other, we meet one day, and from then on I pound the daylights out of you everyday of our lives, and you Love it 😂😂😂

[@michaelgrant250]

Michael Grant, I live in North Carolina. The nearest "top" state is Virginia. Just sayin' ....

[@michaelgrant7322]

@@michaelgrant250 ☺ THIS Top 🍆 lives in the beach state 🌴 of Florida.... So unless you take your vacation in Florida one day... You'll have to stay Empty 😝

[@jupamoers]

I know a Thai actor from two different BL Series, who played a submissive and shy bottom in one series as well as a dom bottom in the other series :D

[@bigm9228]

Thanks for that. I always enjoy doing a deep dive into a bottom.

[@PatrickMarano]

You and me both!

[@lichang3694]

How are you doing?

[@HingaMaunga]

I'm a Power/Dom bottom... That's me all day, everyday 😎

[@Havvyer]

This video makes me wonder my bottom status - I can't see myself in any of these groups!! Perhaps I'm just a basic bottom?? 😆

[@michaelmitchell7223]

Been there done all five, try and avoid the first four, live for the Piggy Bottom that goes wee-wee all the way home.

[@LevviTalk]

Can you make a video about different types of versatiles?

[@PatrickMarano]

haha that would be fun thanks

[@LevviTalk]

@@PatrickMarano seriously, there are so many types. I'm versatile myself and been with other versatile guys and there are all types of moods/behaviors. Eg.: the one who likes to bottom to some type and top for other type, the one who likes to do both things on the same encounter. There are also the gouine folks, I'm like that most of the time

[@jlma889]

I’m a submissive top, so a dom bottom and bossy bottom are my absolute ideals! I hate being in control! Tell me what to do and how to do it!

[@PatrickMarano]

I love that you know what you need!

[@jlma889]

@@PatrickMarano best part of ur 30’s is knowing urself

[@Thehumby]

Lol you are my dream! Lol 😍😍😍

[@Thehumby]

@@thewolfman775 Yessir

[@letstalkmovies247]

this is so me, I hate it when bottoms just lay there, get up and start telling me what u want and how to do, dont just lay there lol

[@robluck21]

Wow, so true

[@derrickmapp2391]

it might seem obvious and I think that's because it seems obvious, its complexities are overlooked - the submissive/permissive bottom. not quite as boundless as a pig and may or may not be power. This is definitely a more "connected" type of person and exploratory esp with partner(s).

[@jimmyrayterryjr989]

I'm a combination of all 5 depending on mood a partner

[@Super_Mario128]

love anon bottoms, hooked up with 2 anon bottoms recently.

[@Super_Mario128]

@@thewolfman775 just that you can pound them straight away.

[@blondie.9241]

I’m definitely a power bottom!😂

[@terrikatz4854]

Very funny!

[@bmbaretopndc]

Which category would a fisting bottom fall under? Power bottom or pig bottom? Also I'm guessing the opposite of the bossy bottom is the dead fish bottom who just sort of lies there and barely engages. Maybe closely related to the anon bottom.

[@PatrickMarano]

hahaha yes, good one! fisting I think is a relative of pig... but probably deserves their own mention in a future video!

[@HollywoodF1]

I think power bottoms are more about duration and enthusiasm than purely “stretching” the limits like the pigs do.

[@lichang3694]

How are you doing?

[@riverargueta7595]

I’m totally a power bottom!

[@BuzzardlyThings]

I started as a bottom and now top. Bring on the bottoms.

[@PatrickMarano]

what prompted the change?

[@gayetaylor8915]

Do you like older ones or younger? Asking for a friend @GrandpaBuzzard

[@Scar-jg4bn]

Same. I only bottomed in my early twenties because I was a twink and thought that I had to. Going on 30 now I'm burly with a beard and absolutely love turning bottoms inside out! 😜

[@paultomson9310]

I've listened to what you had to say and I'm still not able to say what type of bottom I am... I'm very new at bottoming... I've only started bottoming about 5 months ago and I've only bottom for about nine times so far... I consider myself a submissive bottom.. I enjoy almost any position a top puts me in.. I am not one of those guys who just lays there like a log and allows the top to do all the work.

[@PatrickMarano]

There are lots of types not even mentioned in the video... and also, your type can change over time. Welcome to the bottom club!

[@paultomson9310]

@@PatrickMarano you're so right, I may change over time... I probably will discover more about myself as I continue down my journey. Thank you so much Patrick for reading my comment and commenting back. I still have so much to learn and looking at your KZbin videos are helping me so much. Thank You;)

[@paultomson9310]

@@thewolfman775 if you're anywhere near Point Pleasant New Jersey look me up

[@paultomson9310]

@@thewolfman775 never thought about a long distance thing before but it might work

[@mocabe01]

Some sample skits would have made this video much better. Liked nonetheless.

[@PatrickMarano]

you're right!

[@Jets1713]

Don’t do my man Spielberg like that 😂

[@PatrickMarano]

haha

[@AmelieCLanglois]

Huh, I always used power bottom like you're using dom bottom. Maybe there's a regional difference or something.

[@PatrickMarano]

I think of power as in 'they can take anything for however long you want' and dom as 'I'm gonna be the one in control of the action'

[@josephsorce2543]

"You, ... Are So Good as an Entertainer ... Really, so Enjoyed You ... Thank You ! ... Made my ... Night, my Friend ... 🌛"... Joey, in Stockton.

[@PatrickMarano]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@BrendaLaMour]

I've been all of these,but more verse bottom.

[@user-rp2nq1ev6x]

Duracell batteries do not have anything to do with going and going. That would be Energizer batteries.

[@PatrickMarano]

oops, lol, you're right!

[@xisotopex]

oh yeah I am a power bottom for sure!

[@smellyolegoat150]

I'm a definite people pleaser, but don't mesh with bossy bottoms.

[@miloszemunov5197]

I am literally all the types lol

[@allaboutroy7399]

What about very sub bottoms 😂😂

[@tomski_w]

they say i am a power bottom, but i don't really feel i am

[@SmilesWalker]

so me and my partner has been together for a year and a half. were both verse (im usually verse when single, anyway). i have been the bottom for most parts in our relationship. I finally topped him once. And I asked (just in case he wanted to be a top only) what do you think about our sex? is there any thing we need to change (trying to be smooth with it) and just said "IM VERSATILE" Question: how would you partake in that? should I just go back to being a BOTTOM majority?

[@brianburke4756]

I'm a power top, but I'm also a pretty considerate person. I like to know what the other person that I'm engaging in sexual activity wants and try to give that to him when we're together. My only problem is no longer having any faith in my fellow gay guys. Most of them never reach the point of emotional and psychological maturity where they will be able to be in a healthy relationship with someone, which leaves me alone, essentially. When I actually end up speaking with another gay guy, I have no interest in him. The two worst experiences of my life came from two different gay guys, and after those, I just kinda said to myself, "Ok. Enough of this crap. Gay guys can go and hurt each other. I'm done." I'm openly gay, proud, and have zero interest in my fellow gay guys. The only way I could feel something for a gay guy at this point was if he was someone REALLY special, both physically, and as a person.

[@PatrickMarano]

That sounds lonely. I wouldn't write off ALL men cuz you had some bad experiences. You haven't met EVERYBODY

[@brianburke4756]

@@PatrickMarano Yes, it can be lonely, but at the same time, at least I'm not feeling abused in one way or another. Sometimes, if something, or in this case, some people, are not healthy for you to be around or involved with, then the best course of action is to leave them to their own life path while you take your own. Sometimes, walking your own path alone makes you the strongest even if it results in you being alone/lonely. :/

[@Scar-jg4bn]

@@brianburke4756 your experience isn't unique and loneliness is a choice. Tapping out and painting all gay men as the same when you've had 2 bad experiences is incredibly myopic. It's not every gay man's fault that you got your feelings hurt and are too scared to try again.

[@brianburke4756]

@@Scar-jg4bn I'm not scared to try again; there just aren't any acceptable options and I no longer have any faith that I will meet someone I would want to be in a relationship with.

[@louisdewit4429]

@@brianburke4756 - Are you yourself So exceptional, physically and personality wise, in a positive way, that you can make these demands ? I’m rather curious but … far away. 😚.

[@kennethjohnson5180]

Dominate bottom I am but also open to ideas and verbal

[@sjpiran]

I wish I had your gorgeous long hair. It’s beautiful. 😍😍😍😘😘😘

[@PatrickMarano]

😊 thank you

[@jerrylee8261]

Don't generally like long hair on men but it suits Patrick.

[@lazarocedeno5270]

Patrick you are great and gorgeous. Very interesting.

[@PatrickMarano]

Wow, thank you

[@ramalamadingdong7576]

Embarrassed to ask this but what are effective ways to satisfy a bottom during sex-prostate, manual stimulation?

[@DION_LIVE]

Opening it up first

[@sftrick]

Hmmm, I am 3 of these at once lol

[@BrinLondo74]

LOVE YOUR CHANNEL! When younger, I had a vers partner & we'd spend the weekend trading, (Bunny Sex). We were voracious with each other. When one popped, we'd switch, on & off all day, only breaking for brunch. How I miss those younger days...

[@PatrickMarano]

Hot!

[@ThaKingGoatNathaniel]

I’m a most strait- Bisexual Femboy, but when I’m being Gay & Also a Bottom - I’m certainly a Bossy Bottom .I’m also pretty picky who I go gay for…

[@PatrickMarano]

Interesting...

[@simonf8902]

Excellent summary. But what about bottoms that are secret tops ?

[@PatrickMarano]

Is that a thing?

[@simonf8902]

@@PatrickMarano yes. Divide and conquer.

[@Scar-jg4bn]

@@simonf8902 I have yet to come across that, but there's plenty of tops that are secret bottoms!

[@simonf8902]

@@Scar-jg4bn so true.

[@Jwb11401]

I’m a power bttm

[@sameerolail]

I am a bottom, I was every type at some point in my life. When I turned 50, I became more of Anon ,ass up,face down, coz I became out of shape,bald,with an unattractive face. I even use a gh. Sad,but true.

[@PatrickMarano]

I'm sure you're being too hard on yourself, but good for you getting yours!

[@irmamarchesan8402]

I'm sure you're a lovely guy. Be kind to yourself.

[@zythr9999]

GH?

[@paulortiz2035]

I have a story for you. When asked, SOPHIA LOREN, answered this way. She was voted the most beautiful woman in the world, and a reporter asked her how she could marry Carlo Ponti, a short, bald, fat, older man! Looking the reporter straight in the eye she replied softly: YOU should see him through MY eyes!!! That certainly shut that reporter up but fast! But what an absolutely beautiful thing to say about the person you love! Don't you think? And another nice part of this story is realizing that it only takes 1 person to see someone that way to make them feel like the king of the mountain! Besides, beauty only opens the door! If there is nothing on the inside of the person the door will quickly slam shut again. What is on the inside is what makes relationships last, not someone's beauty, which always fades! Always!!! The inner beauty stuff doesn't fade, usually it just gets better and better! So reset that attitude! You are selling yourself way, way short! What's wrong with bald men? Nothing! Out of shape? Well, work on it if you think you should! Or want to! Ugly? I dont know if anyone is ever physically ugly. Even people who have been burned in a fire and are disfigured aren't ugly to me. (I worked in a hospital for over 20 years so I saw a lot different kinds of injured people). The ONLY ugly people I saw, honestly, were those with nasty, demanding, demeaning, ugly attitudes! There was a quadriplegic guy in there I had the biggest crush on! But he was very straight. But Wow! I would have had no issue with being with him, even as he unable to even scratch his nose! It was his spirit or attitude that was so attractive to me! Perhaps, MA, you should list your best qualities and exhibit those rather than concentrating on what you think you need but don't have. I don't care if someone is bald. Bald guys are just as sexy, too! I dont care how big your dick is or isn't! Being the top, it doesn't really matter, now, does it? Out of shape? Yeah, me too. What's your point? Being 10 pounds over weight I shouldn't be banging anyone? Or I'm to fat to get any? Sorry but I don't believe that! Or that I don't deserve a relationship, somehow? Have hair on your back? Great! That will turn me on, no problem! And if your back is bald, no problem. Most guys are. So just not an issue either way! Shall I go on? AND your ugly! Great! I won't have to worry about every guy always trying to get a piece! Like the guy I was with who was Stunning looking!!! I had to compete for his attention when we were out because everyone was always trying to get his attention! It was so tiresome! And it interfered in our rationship! A lot! It would be so nice to have someone I could depend on, being there when I get home, or who wants to come home to me! For once! Someone I could actually relax with, depend on, knowing they would/could show up each night, and who was not followed home, propositioned or touched by strange guys or having been told how much this guy, that guy or the 2 over there want to fuck him, or whatever, everyday he went to work and came home! Just really inappropriate stuff. Constantly. So, yeah, now nice it would be to have someone to myself and our relationship unmessed with by unwanted attention from others. In many ways you really don't know or understand what your strong points are! You really don't! Because I didn't see any deal breakers in your list. The annon, butt up, sex thing didn't exactly turn me on but hopefully you would give that up once you were getting enough at home! Looking for someone special, for me, doesn't preclude anything you've said. So don't give up! And realize your relationship strengths! Because you have plenty to work with! As is!!! You need to find your own 'Sophia Loren' to see you with great love and passion! And when that person comes along you need to believe them. Believe that you are worthy of respect and love--- just as you are!!! Because everyone is. Aren't they? (The answer is: YES, they are!!!) Good luck MA! And let us know how things are going from time to time, please!

[@paulortiz2035]

What the heck is a gh? A good hood? What??????

[@jasonwitcher7335]

Do you have a video of the types of tops

[@PatrickMarano]

coming....

[@EduardoHernandez-gr1gb]

Hi thank for the información.

[@boebender]

Dom or Bossy counterpart would be a Sub-Bottom I’d say. Did you intentionally omit?

[@PatrickMarano]

Nope, but I see another video coming

[@canisdeumnox4925]

I don't want to be a bossy power bottom Butt Move the pillow down onto the sofa.

[@PatrickMarano]

lol

[@michelelovisco6414]

What parties is He talking about ? The ones i go to do not require bringing a bottom friend LOL

[@PatrickMarano]

You're going to the wrong parties then hahaha

[@aznguymetal]

Orgy party

[@paulortiz2035]

A party of just tops, and the point would be......? Because nothing would ever happen!

[@Scar-jg4bn]

​@@paulortiz2035 nah, some tops would bend over. 😏

[@DION_LIVE]

That would be fun ​@@paulortiz2035

[@TeranceHealy]

You forgot to set the baseline for evaluation. The one that everyone believes is the standard bottom…. The Submissive Bottom. Just don’t find em very often. So much for the standard.

[@Scar-jg4bn]

The majority of gay men are submissive bottoms, lol.

[@dabear8]

Texas...where 2 bottoms have to learn to have fun together. No tops here.

[@johniii8147]

LOL..people complain about that everywhere

[@PatrickMarano]

Nope, it's wayyyy easier to be a top

[@johniii8147]

@Canal Street Just depends on your preferences. Good topping can be quite the work out. Best cardio I’ve found

[@Scar-jg4bn]

It's mostly bottoms everywhere, thank God! 😉

[@danieldunn2431]

I have a friend Alf Wold who is a “BBC Bottom” only.

[@aaironparker2837]

And 6 Avatar Bottom. Lol Great video

[@PatrickMarano]

Thanks!

[@augusts1]

So what are you Patrick? I'm a bossy verse.

[@PatrickMarano]

I'm pretty Dom but depends on the guy

[@augusts1]

@@PatrickMarano Nice. I'd let you dom me, until I dom you back lol.

[@josephparraYo]

I’m a pig power bottom ☺️

[@judewesley3365]

Ugh I was an Anon Btm when I was in the DL culture

[@PatrickMarano]

How was life in the DL? love to hear about it

[@judewesley3365]

@@PatrickMarano it was a lot of posturing and hiding. I've always been gay but hyper-masculinized to fit in but I guess I still gave something off cause the "straight" guys that were looking to hook up always could find me. Worst was always falling for a guy but knowing realistically you can't let yourself get that way cause he has a girl. I'm done with that life though.

[@fairamir1]

6: A verbal bottom

[@PatrickMarano]

good one!

[@WTFoi]

I'm the type of the bottom who's mentally ready to take 9 inch in, but only can take a 6 inch physically with " Aww it hurts"! 😅😅😅

[@PatrickMarano]

haha

[@johnl5316]

how about bottoms who naturally submit, obey, and try to learn how to please a man. Their pleasure comes from their man's pleasure

[@PatrickMarano]

yup them too!

[@johnl5316]

@@PatrickMarano you did cover the sub bottom in a later video. What strikes me is that so often I have been told that they saw that in me from when they first met me.

[@paulortiz2035]

Otherwise know as the (sex) 'slave'!

[@robertchristian9582]

Would a Submissive Bottom be considered the same thing as a Pig Bottom? I mean, I enjoy letting him have his way with me as long as it's not too painful. 😜

[@johniii8147]

No a pig btm doesn't care if it's "painful" different concepts.

[@paulortiz2035]

A pig bottom is all in, all the time and into all-most all things! A Submissive waits for someone to come along. The pig bottom welcomes all or almost all cummers! Enthusiastically!!! Just Think of pigs eating! Enthusiastic, with gusto, good energy and a big smile! And no Regrets or Apologies for getting 'Enough'! Of getting their fill! For now!