#54: How to Switch Roles to Change a Relationship Dynamic I The Dr. Zwig Show

[@DylanSYoung-ep9vs]

I've never heard anyone describe my relationships so perfectly. ... nailed it! The problem now is that I think we're beyond the point of no return. Wish I had this advice 30 years ago.

[@sandycampbell8221]

Dr. Zwig, you are so incredible! Bless you!

[@markmjackson9927]

After this video, I made a list of positive things I love about my partner. Even wrote some specific memories. 60 minutes later we were having a conversation and communicating better than we had in a while.

[@alexsthoreson8629]

Thank you very much! This is an eye opener. Relationship is not about him, its about me. Thank you, universe!

[@heatherjsmith4608]

I recognized this pattern in myself, and recognize one of the roots was my insecurities. Thanks to all of your wonderful teaching I constantly go into my inner child wounds and figure out what creating the situation. Thank you for this video, definitely helpful.

[@hiltonpowlowski1227]

Thank you for video Dr Zwig! I improve my relationship with colleagues, and my own relationship which was going down. When I started appreciating things I like about him, our relationship started improving and now I got him back into my life we are a beautiful couple now😊 Wherever we focus it grows!

[@melaniegharding692]

Thanks u so much!😊🙏🏻 this video gives me power and positivity... it really washes away my bad mood! You just saved my relationship!!! I was so depressing and overthinking !!

[@sidneypmoore3803]

I love this video, it reminds me of so many good things in my life. It inspires me to really appreciate the time I talk with my partner.

[@bertaracree1299]

Thank you, Zwig. You're my stone and guidance. I understand so many things thanks to you.

[@brianwilson6513]

Deeply appreciate this video Dr. Zwig. Thank you 🙏🏽💖👌🏽 brilliant and simple advice

[@rosalynmobley6543]

Your videos are very indept and easy to understand, keep up the good work and thank you.

[@marianndsippel7166]

Love you Dr. Zwig ❤✨✨ thank you for this wisdom and precious advice 🌞Thank you 🙏

[@bettylarsen6592]

Hi Dr. Zwig, I just love you. You are wonderful and I totally can relate to what you are talking about. Too bad that in relationships, this connectedness goes away....that would be 80% of what one really needs.... besides having a nice life and getting the day and work done. Thanks soo much as always for being here for us all.

[@MollyVWise]

SOOO happy to have found your channel...You have a very keen way of explaining knowledge and I truly appreciate it

[@marytatlas8732]

Thank you Dr. Zwig, such perfect timing that is. I'm truly grateful for this one. Peace and LOVE! :)

[@timothygriffiths2825]

You were so helpful to me. It felt like you're just talking to me right in my eye. I NEEDED THIS SO BADLY. I would have given up otherwise

[@patriciaglanier8542]

I can and I will manifest all of my relationships to transform to positive and loving relationship.

[@davidjheid1387]

This hit me deeply. I can never thank you enough. All my love and appreciation.

[@rosiemwallace3281]

This was so great, I just understood all my relationships!!! GO Zwig your awesome

[@donaldjfoote694]

Wow! Totally relevant for me today. I am the one who is withdrawing and my boyfriend is the one who is angry about it and scheduling is the solution. Here's to putting forth the effort! Wish me luck.

[@BettyGScott]

I’m so happy that I found your Channel ! I was looking for something like this for a while ! So powerful advice! Thank you for sharing with us !

[@michellerjordan6324]

Love this authentic and real video style!!! 👌❤ you connect much more with the viewer that way :)

[@auroraaking4449]

Saw your video today!! Wished I had seen it 6 months ago!! My relationship ended because it went the way you quite rightly said!! As much as I could try I wasn't emotionally connected now he has someone else, and I wish things could have been different!! Thanks so much for the enlightenment great video's

[@sandrapbernstein8523]

Just watching this made me feel more hopeful. I am aware that I've attracted this person into my life. I remembered having a very positive vibration then and I kept asking the universe how my soulmate looks, and I just have that inner knowing that I am ready to be in a relationship when he came. But because of my overthinking in the past, he seemed to be doing the same thing now and is feeling doubtful of our relationship. Thanks for the advice. This is really helpful. It cleared up my head and gave me more confidence in manifesting better connection for us 🤗

[@robertvstevens9040]

Thanks Dr Zwig, this was really helpful. Keep it up :)

[@harrietrcloud5300]

Great video Dr Zwig. This is happening to me. 28 yrs and too focused on work instead of us. With all struggles in between we have now taken a break from each other. I am far into my schedule journey. Would love to go together an brace New seasons and growing. Patience here.

[@angellamgamboa8010]

In this situation right now, thankyou so much I'm hoping this really helps

[@marcialorenz4324]

Very informative & useful! Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽

[@CeliaJLyman]

This was far and away the best video you’ve made and so very applicable to myself and everyone I know. Thank you for this.

[@gloriagfenn8013]

Loved this! You're fantastic at explaining these concepts. As a side note, have you ever thought about how the side of the head that we choose to part our hair can suggest which frame we want to operate from? More specifically, how it relates to masculine and feminine energy? Love to hear your thoughts.

[@stacydpaul5556]

Thanks Zwig, love your video and giving it a share. Excellent content, and really like your relaxed, down to Earth energy in this video. Thanks again, much love and hope you have a beautiful week! Keep up the great You, great life and great work! :)

[@stuartgorczany1002]

I feel better already listening to you the first 4 minutes. OMG I'm the problem. I have to change the way I see things...thank you so much!

[@harleyssalazar8920]

Thank you dan for making these vids, I needed an answer and I always check your channel and I always get it. 😁

[@darlenebrushing7488]

Thanks Teal! This dynamic and the solutions are explained very well. I'll add one more piece to solutions. Make sure you are addressing and resolving all emotional upsets. Otherwise, the solution of making time to be emotionally intimate will not feel very good or enticing.

[@charlottejritter1552]

Wow! you have so much wisdom..this video was so helpful..so true for my marriage as I am exactly going through the same thing..will give it a try

[@adamletts4133]

This is a very smart approach and better than just trying to make yourself “communicate” better.

[@daverlangley1020]

I think this is exactly what happens in my relationships, but it’s because I feel like I do all the chasing and she does none. I too feel abandoned since I have to not only call her all the time but also focus on my work without her help. I tell them to call and they never do it, so I just assume I’m not important to them and just give up to save myself from getting replaced and feeling angry for her betrayal.

[@vickimhope1188]

I love this! So much useful information. Thank you for being a light in the dark Zwig!!

[@mariavsawyer5102]

I'm so thankful to have stumbled in to this videos !! I really needed to hear this.

[@santavicuska6294]

Hi Dr Zwig, I want to thank you for all of your advice and videos.

[@jamesjleal9309]

Very great topic sir!!

[@reneclemmer3232]

I love the 3 levels. This is so enlightening.

[@tracycmiller1017]

Thankyou for your time and energy to gift us with your wisdom 🙏

[@anitabsevere6192]

I could feel the energy from this video! Thank you so much for that ❤

[@melissahernandez8372]

Thank you for this unique perspective. I know it will change me forever.

[@ashleyaalexander810]

Wow ... the accuracy. This is exactly how and why my relationship ended

[@gwengpatterson3231]

i love this video so much! u made me so optimistic! i'm going to change this relationship. i'm aligned. i believe. i'm focusing on the good.

[@sarahwmorgan5317]

You are the best sir,You just changed my mind and made me successful beast 😉

[@angelastone9913]

Very insightful post drzwig 🌞

[@marysmallwood9983]

I love how clearly you explained that! It was brilliant! Thank you Also I 💯 agree! ❤️

[@rosemaryebellamy2394]

That was an amazing video. Very insightful !

[@rebeccadhorsley3329]

Aaah just waited for your video. Thank you sir.

[@dianaghairston8895]

I feel the same about the dating game but thought I was weird til now. Thank you for this video 💙

[@earnestinejowens1119]

I was guilty of this. I lost my love because of fear of being let down and I had so many other things I had to attend to. I wanted a life with him, but not sure he my lifestyle or way of being would give him the freedom he is accustomed to.

[@loismadams9645]

You described my current situation. It's amazing 😂

[@susanmstearns4084]

I'm going through some change because. My relationship is toxic. I want to tell him everything that's in my heart because I wasn't honest on my goal plans and he was honest though we want different things. And I'm afraid I might lose him

[@madelynfoucault8466]

Can’t wait to try this with my sister we always fight so hopefully this will help us……

[@krystacmarx6253]

Dr Zwig, I am feeling so much despair right now. I have bad relationships with my family, and not having my ex to reach out makes me feel so depressed and suicidal. He doesn't contact me and I feel so betrayed and unlovable.

[@siposeniko5278]

Could this work with partners who have “cheated”?

[@edwardtrice4026]

What if you don’t know if you are in a toxic relationship 😢

[@mistycmendoza4766]

I feel like the woman in this scenario. I've heard this dynamic several times on the internet but I'm never able to resonate. I always end up reacting more to the other person in the relationship. I end up feeling abandoned and before my partner can tell me she's tired of me (I know, it's just in my head), I'll tell her we can't continue. I'm so scared that I've only been in a relationship twice in my entire life. I feel like the inverse happens just as much. How do I deal with it as a guy feeling duped?

[@ginamjones3035]

Wow nice perceptive sir i like

[@josephttaylor4280]

What if your relationship is long distance?

[@angelaasmith8861]

I really want to get back but at the same time I know that he's not the right person for me 😭