8 years of marriage, how we’ve changed, & Jinger’s thoughts on drugs | Ep.19

[@marshabailey1121]

Jinger has come so far and become her own woman; the transformation is amazing. But the two of you have grown together and it's beautiful to see. It's great to hear your evolving point of view.

[@candaceflores1528]

I love listening to the both of you. So calming and gives me hope. So many podcasts are loud with people talking over each other. I just want to let you know i really appreciate you both.I'm going through a rough time. My fiance passed away after a long illness 10 months ago. Sometimes it seems like it was yesterday. I was very Blessed to be able to take care of him through his illness and to go to hospice and stay there with him. We had a relationship like you. We could sit and talk and laugh for hours. Now, with the Holiday Season here it's kind of sad for me. God Bless you and your beautiful family. Cant wait for the new baby..❤🙏❤

[@marilyndekker1541]

U both have grown, stuck together, and most importantly, you put God first in your marriage. I love your podcasts.

[@caroldustin4701]

We just celebrated 52 years. Coming from an abusive home my husband literally saved my life. My goaal was to create something i never had. When children came they never knew what i did. Our priority was always God first family second and work last. This is what kept us going..i loved when jeremy stated yhat we were creating our own new world. You nailed it!

[@sarahperdue9711]

As a CSA survivor myself, I always really appreciated the way you responded to your brother’s choices with Christlike love while keeping your boundaries. I’m recently married and the effects of actions like his can come up when you don’t expect. I love conversations like this 🤍

[@sharonmartin1223]

Her brother was horrible to her and her sisters and needs to be where he is at and not in her home with her daughters...Poor Jill ( who actually told the truth) is put down for it and Derrick who loves and protective of his wife ( as he should be as any decent man would be ) was told on a thing I watched these two on that Jill and Derrick are wrong and God will have them come around sometime...Why are Jill and Derrick wrong? Jill and Derrick are correct to set boundaries and Jill and Derrick aren't hypocritical like these two...Why are these two correct??? Nope these two are totally horrible for how they exclude her sister and do t speak out or up for Jill..It's beyond horrible

[@sarahperdue9711]

@ I never said anything about those people… go have a schizophrenic rant elsewhere please.

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

Well said! 😊

[@rhondarichmond9259]

@@sharonmartin1223then why are you on here if you don’t like them ?

[@sharonmartin1223]

​@@sarahperdue9711you you are as horrible as these two I can say what I want

[@heidis9558]

I absolutely believe in marriage and keeping your covenant with God and your spouse. What I did not expect, was, to be divorced after 7 years of marriage. I’m devastated! It’s not what I wanted but what I felt I had to do to keep any sense of dignity and self respect and mental health. Unless you’ve been with someone who mentally, emotionally and financially abuses you and treats the family dogs cruel, you have no idea what a person goes through. It’s so heartbreaking. I get “through thick and thin, through good and bad…” but at some point, you have to say that unconditional love does not mean unconditional tolerance. When your spouse does not see the error of their way, you have to make a decision…

[@AdairCty]

So very true! No one should continually endure mental, physical, financial, or any other form of abuse from an intimate partner. Narcissists typically do not “change” their ways and do wear their “good guy/gal” mask until after you are hooked (married). Many of us have had to, literally, run for our lives! The Lord put on my heart that I was in danger if I stayed, so I left. There is a peaceful life after the heartbreak…❤

[@mimisart]

Agreed. I stuck it out for 13 years with a narcissist who claims to be a Christian, but his actions outside the public eye did not match that statement. The mental torture is no joke and many Christian’s stay in marriages like that because ‘you don’t divorce’. But ending up in psych wards due to the abuse, cannot be Gods way and plan for anyone’s life. But let me tell you…peace did not come until I removed myself out of that trap.

[@heidis9558]

@@AdairCtythank you for the encouragement that peace DOES come. Working through the heartbreak right now, with God.🙏

[@Betheloveyouseek]

I remember watching you two fall in love, your wedding, etc. ❤ How lovely to see the level of calm/peace you exude with one another 8 years later. Thank you for sharing your beautiful hearts with us!

[@DebraMason-d2e]

I agree. Thanksgiving is just that giving thanks to God for what he’s blessed us with

[@aliyahabdul5041]

Love the natural light from the windows! makes it feel so homey!

[@jukes243]

We've been married 32 years and my husband has never told me that I am beautiful. That would make me cry too, Jinger. Well done, Jeremy. Cherish your wife.

[@rebeccabourque7704]

I’ve been with mine almost 18 years and he hasn’t told me either, not even on our wedding day. He’s never bought me flowers either, ever. He said it’s a waste of money.

[@barbaradw9969]

I was married 37 years & don’t think I had ever heard those words either. My husband passed away 2.5 years ago from Cancer. I am now a widow, not really looking. However some did ask me out. I didn’t even realize at first he was asking me on a date, because it had been so long since anything like that has happened. He has since told me those beautiful words and many more, that I never expected to hear.

[@Thelifelately]

why did you marry them? 😢​@@rebeccabourque7704

[@MikePenceFly]

@@Thelifelately You mean him? Why did she marry him? Grammar is real, and isn't subjective.

[@Katie-qg7xz]

So is kindness. ​@@MikePenceFly

[@thatcatholiccatechist1240]

We went to Italy around our 10 year anniversary, and brought our almost 2 year old with us. It was definitely less relaxing BUT having a baby with you in Italy gives you the BEST service!!!

[@lissamtate66]

I love watching how the two of you have grown together! Your maturity and wisdom gives me hope for future believers. I’ve been married 38 years, and we have def had our speed bumps, but recalling the sweet moments and our belief that God brought us together, we have overcome and gained insight to making our relationship even better. God be with you! ❤️

[@priscillanieto3322]

In Alaska most people put their tree and decorations up long before christmas. Usually when the snow hits and it starts to be darker earlier. The lights and decorations help boost morale and moods. Then we keep it all up until February for the same reasons.

[@Alaskan_mom]

I usually put mine up on Reformation Day Oct 31. I love the peaceful twinkling lights up during our darkest time! Helps with the long dark winters for sure!

[@barbgardner5549]

Looking at mine right now ☺ Will put on ornaments Thankgiving eve.

[@harvestmoon103]

@@Alaskan_momnorthern Ontario, Canada here and we do the same. Halloween night. ❤

[@AlaskianTourist]

Lived in AK for 23 yrs; we keep our Christmas outside lights decor up all year round.

[@debgalloway1398]

From one who is far beyond the point you are in marriage (I've been a widow for 12 years) it's nice to see your viewpoint. It shows Godly maturity! It took much time and frustration but one thing I have learned is to train myself to NEVER ask why but instead ask WHAT God is trying to teach me at the time. It would have served me well to learn this sooner but like you said, we change as we grow! I love to hear how you share all of your experiences and wisdom as you are raising your family to love & honor our Savior!

[@lynnfesta2794]

I love what Jeremy said about marriage and about how it changes that was perfect

[@mendyarp9158]

Gratitude tree!!! Have each member of the family write something they are grateful for and place on the tree each day!!

[@moraghogg554]

Happy Anniversary! I loved this podcast. I have been married for 41 years, all of which have been in ministry, and it is a blessing to hear you both speak about your marriage. My hubby still tells me I look beautiful, wrinkles and all. I love your honesty, humility, and bluntness in speaking the truth. I look forward to seeing how God will use you over the next few years.

[@victoriareynolds7590]

I love to see your friendship. As husband and wife, there should be no better friend, companion, and fan cheering you on as you grow and explore the depths of all you can become. You both exhibit that model. Keep rooting for one another and be each other’s biggest fan. Love and light! ❤️

[@annex7236]

I remember thinking while watching 19 Kids how sweet Jinger was when she first fell in love with Jeremy. It was such a sweet beginning of their love story. So happy for them and their goodly marriage!

[@victoriat7150]

I'm currently on leave from work due to depression...you have no idea how much I needed to hear your words. I ingested every word you said and needed the reminder that God is there for me. Thank you. I've come back to say this may be one of the videos that I watch over and over. I feel that you are speaking directly to me.

[@heidis9558]

I agree. I needed to hear it too! Walking through a divorce and I just want the pain to be over! It was a great word from God to hear that there’s purpose in our pain and someday we’ll be on the other side of it and praise our God for the time we needed to draw so very close to Him for our every breath. This too shall pass❤

[@valeriemoran842]

Exactly! I always find it so interesting how God sends you what you need in the most surprising and unexpected ways. Know that you are not alone and send depression packing❤❤

[@melindy3]

As someone who watched every season of her growing up, the Santa comment from Jinger had me clutching my pearls at first 😂. Glad she has a sense of humor about it❤

[@onlyintheory9552]

I love the conversation about the contract of marriage and what that means over time. It was beautiful. Thanks for posting and blessings to all of the Vuolo family!

[@fraziermommy]

I always set my tree up early and I always tell everyone that I'm not skipping or diminishing Thanksgiving at all. We celebrate and thank Jesus all the way through. It's all about Him. ❤️

[@KristiOBrien-wf5gm]

I agree completely!

[@katelynperry4571]

As someone who’s had a natural unmedicated birth it is NOT the most agonizing moment of your life but the most powerful. & if you look into the complications & cascade of interventions that can come from birth medication / pain meds / epidural is not always the best for people. It all about mindset & not letting fear control your story.

[@vickless16]

I agree and was going to say the same thing. I had two unmedicated births and the recovery is so much easier. My daughter wanted one, but her water broke early and then they gave pitocin for hours and hours and it was horrific. We told her after about four hours of no progression to get an epidural and when she did, 30 minutes later, she delivered. All that pitocin really ruined her labor. So, sometimes it's warranted, but I say try to have an unmedicated one if you can.

[@leeshc5952]

Wow, at minute 42 - I needed to hear this. Currently struggling in the season I am in and just hearing Jeremy talk about the faithfulness of God and what God is doing brought me to tears.

[@abbywahl2572]

Love this! Bring Jessa on sometime! I would love to see her and jingers friendship on screen more!

[@jessa_2.074]

Congratulations on 8 wonderful years of a blessed marriage! Jeremy I love how you speak about marriage. You think about having a channel or just on this channel to speak more about it. You can speak on all different topics regarding marriage/ relationships. I’ve learned so much from you and jinger since you two have created your podcast. I love it! And congratulations on baby #3!❤

[@kimlersue]

As a senior person..I have learned that it has been in the worst, scary, and most painful times, that I've gotten closest to God. The greatest growth periods in our 50+ year marriage, have also been born through the hardest hurdles to learn to jump together. Enjoy the long restful happy times..breathe deeply..and stay close to be ready for the n ext hurdle you jump together. The higher you can pull each other up..the closer you get to God!

[@yeyeyeyesuh2]

Your podcast is such a breathe of fresh air!

[@darlenecorcoran2892]

can i just say that i love jinger looking more at the camera. i personally feel like it's more inclusive. thank you. got to agree with you jeremy about giving thanksgiving it's time to shine. for me, thanksgiving night after dinner and dishes is when the christmas season starts and not a moment sooner! happy 8th anniversary! i also never understood not taking advantage of 'modern' knowledge regarding pain, period! i don't want to suffer if i don't have to

[@caitlyndecker6278]

Your love story as it started and continues is so sweet! I also am so, so so excited with Jeremy’s take on Thanksgiving because I now know I’m not the only one that loves letting the holiday have its own full space. Thank you so much for sharing!!

[@claireboeck8027]

I'm with Jeremy regarding waiting till after Thanksgiving to decorate for Christmas. Thanksgiving often doesn't get the recognition that it should.

[@janfagg8258]

I usually want to wait until the day after Thanksgiving as well..... but this year has been different. Maybe I should say difficult for the many things our Country has witnessed. I think people are really for that warm, cozy and loving feeling that Christmas brings more than ever. That is why I feel so many have put up decorations earlier this year. Many have felt battle weary and are ready to celebrate a more positive future.🙏💜

[@viccimauldin9786]

Thank you for sharing your hearts and thoughts. Yes, in marriage you can look back at how God watched over and took care of two people in one union. God is amazing. Keep holding fast to God Jeremy and Jinger. ❤

[@stephanieblunt7728]

Thanks for the transparency. I'm so glad Ginger has found her voice. I watched the show for yrs and felt so sorry for the girls. Keep growing and loving each other. Keep God first and each other a priority.

[@paluahasty660]

Literally the best thing I’ve heard in a long long time!!

[@DeeGavaldon]

I agree about Thanksgiving. I love the holiday of food and family. And we have so much to be grateful for.

[@sarsonder5127]

I love Jeremy’s “sermon” on change. Refreshing!

[@Sunshineonarainyday-y9f]

Iv been married 39 years , and we all still have rough times, but still stand together every night saying I love you . Never go to bed angry. Watching you grow into this beautiful lady Jinger thought out the years you are still the sweetest little Jinger and I love how you still wrinkle your nose up 😂😂 much love to your beautiful family, watching you guy’s every week from Australia 🇦🇺 GodBless you all . 🙏

[@emileeleon4013]

Wow, just basic conversation has so much content to think deeply about life and how God walks with us. Happy 8 year anniversary, and I'm praying the Lord to continue blessing this marriage unity. God bless

[@candacemcdonald964]

Always enjoy hearing an integration of what biblical marriage can look like in today. My husband and I have been married for 7 years, two sweet kiddos 5 and 2. Weaving through our first few years with, accidents, job losses, addiction, isolation, recovery, and major life milestones. Coming from 2 different worlds. "Disentangling" my own understandings and beliefs. God has taken both of us and our kids through a sweet journey showing his continued faithfulness and sweet promises.

[@rhondarichmond9259]

You guys are the best you give me so much inspiration in life ❤I truly respect the fact you don’t make money off your kids like so many I love the truth you guys speak this podcast has been the best thank you again

[@ChristiSorensen]

You both are such an encouragement to me. Thank you for sharing your stories and experiences. I love what you said about embracing the change in your spouse that is inevitable over the course of your marriage. People need to hear that more often.

[@saraha325]

I really appreciate the little sermon. I grew up in churches much like how you have described Jinger’s early experiences and as a result, struggled with faith as an adult. I’ve actually learned a lot from y’all about letting go of the more superstitious parts of IBLP teachings. It’s nice to see a faith based perspective that is rooted in mutual love and respect.

[@michellepoe761]

Happy anniversary! I can’t believe it’s been 8 years. It feels like it was just yesterday that I was watching your wedding on tv. 💜

[@jessicakauhane5114]

Thank you for sharing your new parent and L&D stories!!! I'm the same as Jinger, my labors do not progress WITHOUT the epidural. I've tried to go without 3x, all inductions. It got to a point where I'd spent hours not progressing and the energy was going. Get the epidural and BOOM! We're ready to push. As much as I'd love to have less interventions, these medical procedures are there to help. Jeremy, you did put it well. Again, thank you for sharing about this topic ❤

[@tammyharper4152]

Keep the windows sunlight is so peaceful

[@Muchacha2024]

But it's bad for lighting for filming. That's prob why they're getting rid of them.

[@kelseywinterhalt6468]

Can't believe you have been married for eight years and now you're expecting an another baby! Happy anniversary Jeremy and jingle! Can't wait for more podcasts every week, and I can't wait for the gender reveal on your next newborn baby!❤😊

[@Jonekester77]

Thank you for sharing your heart, and for being encouraging. ❤ Happy anniversary, Jeremy and Jinger! 🤗 God bless and keep you and your growing family.

[@anthonygomez667]

Congratulations to 8 years! Thank you for being a positive influence on all aspects of life. Blessings to you both and your family! -Rebecca

[@joycook3093]

Blessings, you two!! Thank you for being so transparent in front of the cameras - and us!! Love you and looking forward to sitting down for a sweet chat together in Heaven!

[@valeriemoran842]

Love that Jeremy loves and appreciates Jinger eight years into marriage. She IS BEAUTIFUL both inside and out. So many husband's take thier wives, and all that they do, for granted.

[@tammyblankenship6786]

Happy 8th anniversary to you both! Celebrate the love God has given to you!

[@Mila_Brearey]

We love you guys!❤

[@lynnebollard650]

Agree to a point with you about marriage. However, was married 36 years and my husband changed so much, like morally and had so much anger towards all of us I had to ask him to leave and get divorced to save myself and kids. It wasn’t physical but very emotional. I knew this was not the real him but he refused to get help for about 5 year with what he is was going through. I prayed every day that God would soften his heart and give him peace again and after 1 1/2 years he finally came back to us with a peaceful heart. We both have changed so much through the years and especially the last 1 1/2 years, but our relationship now is growing stronger than ever and we are in the process of reconciliation. My biggest stipulation was that he mend the relationship with our kids and once he did that my heart was able to open back up. He said if I had not told him he had to leave when I did he would not have been able to make the decision to change when he reached the crossroad of life or death. I praise God everyday for walking with him and guiding him back to us. I hope when you council couples you are able to see that sometimes separation can be the answer, as each situation is different. Blessings to your family❤

[@julieberry2793]

❤️❤️🦋🦋 I’m typing this with all of the grace and love I can pull from as a lot of times, words on a page don’t convey our heart felt message as well as speaking it. I’ve been a mother of 5 (three in this realm, two in the next) for 36 years, I’m a grandmother of 13. I have “mothered” many who have crossed my path. That’s why I’m “Momma Jules” I’ve coached hundreds of women through breast feeding and mentored many women in multiple areas of womanhood, I also have a medical background so I feel pretty confident in what I’m sharing. The chief reason mothers may choose not use drugs and/or try not to medicate during labor is because of the level of sedation to the baby. God designed the female body to labor and give birth. I’m quite certain that design didn’t include lying on our backs, legs in the air and fighting gravity. All of that increases pain in the mother. Our bodies naturally find our own groove in labor and all of the hospital set up is designed to get a doctor in and out and on to the next birth. It’s convenient for the medical staff. Period. Next, you’re also mixing a LOT of medications with a very abrupt hormone change which can cause emergent situations. As a woman and then as a pregnant woman/mother, as the pregnancy progresses our hearts and minds begin to take on more of that fierce momma bear protector mode when it comes to our babies. God designed that in us! Having gone the whole pregnancy avoiding foods, smells, avoiding second hand smoke or cleaning products etc, we are then pumped full of all sorts of medications and told it is safe. An epidural, yes it can be a benefit however there are dangers to that for the spine in later years. Loads of narcotics at this time in the process can have too many pitfalls, yet we are told it’s safe. We are a biological being, drugs are synthetic. It’s a given that our bodies don’t know what to do with them in many instances which is why we have drug reactions. To round off the situation are those super ABRUPT hormone changes once the physical and hormonal needs of the baby are removed from our bodies. It can cause us to physically shiver uncontrollably, create depression, fatigue, muscle soreness, hunger; it’s a true physiological change that men will just never understand. If we are carrying a girl, we have an overload of excess estrogen; a boy, we are going to have higher testosterone levels. Those are the needs of said baby. When that is abruptly removed, those changes take time; days, maybe even months, for our bodies to find their true north again. We aren’t the same and those around us need to recognize that we need space and grace. Then you factor in breast feeding. Mom is given multiple narcotics, those pass to breast milk which sedates the baby, they don’t eat as they should, consequently they don’t thrive, mom worries, everyone around is giving advice; it just becomes a cluster of chaos. You add the effects of coming off of pain medication (yes epidural pain medication effects last even when they are stoped) on top of that possibly still taking pain medication, it can set a mom up for feeling like a failure along with the physiological changes. Another side effect of narcotic use is suppression of the bowel and its movement contributing to massive constipation. That is NOT something a mother needs after a birth or a c-section! THOSE are the reasons we choose more natural births and the very reason men shouldn’t make narrow minded, uneducated comments like “why WOULDNT you choose to have all the drugs, why be so heroic?” This isn’t a one and done event that we throw some medication at and go home as if everything is going to go back to normal. It’s a paradigm shift in a woman’s life! Please, men, understand and don’t be so black and white as to put your foot down in a defiant “NO” if our hearts might WANT a home birth or choose to not take a medication. Home birth isn’t for everyone, of course, but that is our decision if the Lord is leading us to that. Our bodies know what we need. We are given an unction by the Lord, by virtue of being a woman and having a mother’s heart. God designed us this way. Please don’t thwart that by imposing reasoning on her that is ingested from society and regurgitated as “truth.” Men, please seek wisdom from the Lord on your wife’s behalf and show her the grace she needs to make these critical decisions for her own body that ultimately HE created and as HE is directing her. Yes the Lord gave her you as a biblical head but you need to seek God’s wisdom on how to guide her in something you as a man will never comprehend or experience and allow her the space to follow His guide. Love her as Christ loved the church. With that, I would also like to share that we have a miracle healing story of 30 years this year! We would love to come on your podcast and share! We are friends with Guinn and Mike Seewald. They know this story too! Www.realimprints.org/the-miraculous-heart-trandplant

[@katrinavigil2383]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 100% this. Jeremy’s obvious judgement towards the pride and strength women feel after having gone through the worst pain imaginable without an epidural was so off putting. 🙁 Home births are also not unsafe. (And Im speaking as someone who chose to not have a homebirth.) Loving this podcast, but that obviously judgmental and ignorant comment was grossly irritating.

[@carolberubee]

Very well said. Thank you.

[@parkerchiudioni9981]

I agree, well said.

[@melaniefowler8841]

Great comment! Thank you for posting this

[@PamelaDavis-j7t]

Happy 8th Anniversary! The years go by so quickly. We celebrated 45 in October.

[@MikePenceFly]

What a beautiful testimony to marriage. Loved this episode.

[@Mel1Ski]

I'm really liking your haircut, Jinger. I've watched 19 kids since 2014 and it has been really neat watching you all grow up. You're so mature.

[@dawnseely1013]

So good! You don't know most of us who post comments. BUT - I've watched every episode of the Duggar shows since the pilot. Have been following each of the kids through marriages... What a blessing you both are, Jinger and Jeremy, for sharing yourselves, your lives works, individually and together. Another fruitful episode of the J&J podcast in the books🌸🤍

[@meloneeleddington7664]

Happy anniversary guys, 8 years congratulations. You guys are the cutes couple and so inspiring. Thank you for sharing with us and inspiring us to grow and be better versions of ourselves. God bless your beautiful growing family ❤️

[@CarolynPowell-v6j]

Congratulations on celebrating eight years of marriage!!

[@laurenl720]

Happy anniversary! 🎉 last month, I’ve been married 7 years. My hubby and I listen to Christmas music all year long.

[@Shannon-tr8gj]

I throughly enjoy y’all’s podcast. It’s very encouraging and I learn something each time I listen to you both . Thank you for being willing to share ❤

[@jamienelson7114]

Will be married 30 years in June and could not be happier! Congratulations on 8 year. Blessing on so many more.

[@JoJo-ly3eo]

Congratulations to you both on 8 years!

[@lisanowling5589]

Happy Anniversary to the both of you!

[@jonniricard5383]

I loved this. Having celebrated 26 yrs of marriage, I can only say it gets sweeter. The children are grown and married now and it felt like we were in a tornado together and holding on for years with super busy schedules and all the activities of life. Now, we are pursuing our careers and each other! I also wanted to say, I had 2 natural child births but in the hospital Majorly due to wanting to stay away from medications but I am a lucky person who has easy labors comparatively. My doctor told me I was built to have babies. So.... It is such a personal experience that I don't feel there is a right or wrong way as long as everyone is safe and healthy and the mother feels in control of what is happening.

[@mariaroyval9646]

Born and raised in El Paso Tx. I love my town I feel it is a welcoming and friendly. Id love to visit Laredo one day. Congrats on your 8 year wedding anniversary. Im a 60 year old retired teacher and I feel I have watched you grow up Jinger. You have grown into such a wonderful kind young woman. I love your dynamic with Jeremy. You guys are a great young couple.

[@pattistuber8018]

Thank you both for transparency. It's beautiful how you love each other in the lens of Christ to the best you can through His strength. My husband divorced me. I had parents that were best friends through everything and they turned to Christ through it all. In my marriage, we endured much hardship. Neither of us were perfect, but I thought we would work through it. It's been almost 20 years now. Anyway, especially in today's world, it's so refreshing to see your marriage be a beautiful work in progress. Thank you for sharing.

[@SherrieRead]

My husband and I have been married for 30 years this year and I wouldn’t change one moment of sadness, grief, sickness, financial challenges, and the different obstacles we have faced together because we grew together in our love, faith and commitment to each other and it has been amazing, fun and I wouldn’t change one thing!!! I wish other couples would realize life is full of seasons and not everything is going to stay in that season and work together with your spouse to get through it and know that God has the plan and when you got married that you let him lead the way!!

[@LorieStewart-v3u]

You two have it figured out. I know in life you can't figure out everything only God knows. But, the love the two of you have for each other and for God shows. Good for you. Always honor each other and tell each other all the time that you love each other. My husband and I have been married 30 years and we always tell each other we love each other.

[@victoriagaskell2231]

Ive always supported you both.. You always showed amazing communication and respect to each other

[@doreenayi3751]

Great podcast guys, U2, El of all of gingers siblings who are married. Have definitely been one couple who have grown together and individually and it has been beautiful to watch. I just remember Ginger being this nervous, anxious young girl who was literally frightened to do anything without Jeremy‘s approval. Now she has blossomed into. A young dynamic independent woman with her own thoughts and opinions, and not afraid to share them. I cannot believe it’s been eight years. Here’s to the next eight!

[@therealBridgetDoss]

I 🩷 your podcast!!! Jeremy is amazing. My husband and I have been married for 31 years; we met when we were 14 in high school in 1985. He often says to me, at 53, “you are the cutest thing” “you are so beautiful”! I’m not! I’ve had 2 kids. I have wrinkles and some gray hair. But he seems like he means it! I hope you two continue to have such a blessed and sweet marriage! 🙏

[@clairebelltoby]

Love how grounded you are. Keep going guys!

[@chatch111]

What a wonderful way to start a marriage knowing that you are going to change as people and that you can’t expect life to be a bed of roses all the time. People today just throw away their lives and the lives of children just to see what’s greener on the other side I love how to tell your beloved ( thanks for saying yes. Love your show.

[@d.m.6501]

I've enjoyed this episode. We'll be married 40 years in a few months. It hasn't always been easy, but by God's grace, we still love each other. I have learned that to love is a choice I make, to let things go that aren't important and forgive and forget. I had all four of our adult children naturally, without any medications. My longest labor was 6 hours, the shortest 45 minutes. The Lamaze breathing really works, and having an epidural never crossed my mind. I wouldn't board over the windows. You could put a wall of blackout curtains up to hide them.

[@gracemarie39]

You guys! Your podcast is like the best thing! I love watching it.

[@clarabrekke4372]

Thank you both for your podcast! Love you guys! God Bless!

[@hollymullen5937]

You have a wonderful insight on marriage really enjoy your content 🙏🙏

[@juliannenejedlo7972]

Jeremy saying “They”ll survive ! “ was super funny!

[@cookiecutter5333]

I am married 40 years and our beautiful daughter is 39 and when you spoke of suddenly realizing how long it’s been for you both or how your girls were babies one minute and 3 and 6 the next reminded me that I unconsciously do that also. I think it’s Gods way of always protecting us from ourselves especially when we see the swift passage of time. Bless you both! I was at your wedding 8 yrs ago and here were are reminiscing about time. God is good! 🙏💜🙏😅

[@danahumphries4933]

Again I believe this message was directed to me. I really needed to hear this.

[@kathleencasella4703]

I don’t know how long your Pod Cast has been on but I’m glad I found it. God bless you and your family. 😊

[@ClaudiaGonzalez-t4t]

I grew up in Laredo and love that you guys see its beauty! huge fan! Keep on keeping on!!

[@akilahhyatt6567]

Happy Anniversary 💕💕

[@morticiaaddams1797]

My husband and I will be married 38 years in February. When we got married we meant our wedding vows until death do us part and I love him so much more now and when he tells me I'm beautiful it always makes me tear up and he has always called me Darling and I love it. Happy Anniversary you two!!!!❤️❤️❤️

[@Ell5589]

You’ve handled yourselves with such grace and dignity when so many people were judgmental. So much respect to you both❤

[@carolynsimmons3987]

I’m with you Jeremy! Thanksgiving is the best! I don’t decorate for Christmas until after Thanksgiving! I get it that it’s a lot of work but I love Thanksgiving! 🦃

[@Cynthia-zz1vi]

What a wonderful podcast Happy 8th, ❤start the plans of the 10 year trip 😊

[@jennifere333]

I never put my Christmas tree up before Thanksgiving … until this year! I wanted some Christmas joy early this year. So the tree is up and we are enjoying it!!

[@christinafay3255]

Lcongratulations on 8 years. It does not seem possible. Jinger , it has been a joy watching you grow up and I'm so proud of you and Jeremy. We used to come to Arkansas to visit our brothers in one time.My mom and I came and found your big house out in the country.We were so excited to see it. And now I live in northwest arkansas and still follow all you girls.

[@seedelle3883]

God is so faithful. Thank you for sharing. He is so so good to us and even through the hard times like you said we have to ask why what are we supposed to learn

[@cricket47222]

Happy Anniversary! You 2 are the best! My favorite couple🫶

[@wifey5984]

Love you both and your precious relationship. May God continue to bless you.

[@babewhowalks]

Don't put plywood over the windows, home depot has custom shudders that you can open and close, or open the top part while keeping the bottom closed, or vice versa, very pretty shudders, that way when your not recording you can let the light in and see outside

[@emilydistefano8728]

I lived in Fayetteville and West Sioliam springs Arkansas back in 2017. I seen the family at few places. Took awhile for me to understand why the control over the women n children. Im so glad the girls are coming into there own and having healthier families and loving marriages and relationships. God is not meant to be taught in the way so many of us where taught. God Bless and enjoy watching the pod cast.

[@StaceyReeves-v2s]

Hi from prince edward island canada. This episode was very uplifting and encouraging. Things I needed to hear. Good advice on trials and hard ships. Good example with job. Thank you for sharing. I prayed for you both and gingers family members during your trials that was in the media a while ago . God bless.

[@virginiaglubisz5627]

What a great interview....Thank you for sharing your lives with us...❤

[@juliannenejedlo7972]

EXCELLENT podcast ! Good comment about spouses change over the years ! Only thing I thought you may mention is how Halehi (sp?) may have effected you each or your marriage, but I know Jinger is pregnant and may not want to think about it right now. And some people don't talk about their miscarried children.But I believe she is in Heaven being spoiled by both her Great Grandmothers ! This is the podcast to beat now, I loved it !