Amber and John Louis (RECONCILIATION STORY)

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[@marcuscompton7255]

Please pray for me and my wife Ann as she has filed divorce. I do not want a divorce. May God restore us

[@ENIGMAXII2112]

Marcus.... What happened? Was it all solved?

[@eminemsw49ify]

Marcus how’d it turn out?

[@andreytsatsulin5748]

Any update Marcus?

[@nickakash959]

I don't known what to do Every thing went wrong

[@Kalessin12]

Maybe now all is going wrong and you cannot see any hope but, if it is God will you, your wife and your marriage will be restored. Work on you and try to be patient.

[@devonbelill8075]

This story is so great to hear! Love that you guys are doing so good and together again. My ex-wife divorced me two years ago now. We have two young children together ages 4&7 and I pray every day that we get back together and we can be a family again. I had an alcohol problem when we were together, that eventually pushed her away. She filed for divorce, and I decided to check myself into treatment. I am now two years sober, and I cannot get over the divorce, I love her more than anything in the world and I want nothing more than to have my family back together. I don’t know how to do it or where to start all I know is that I continue to wake up every day and be the best person and father, I can be hoping that she sees it and wants to give us another try. She met another man a year ago and moved in with him so it’s not like I can try talking to her about getting back together. I just don’t know what to do and I pray, and have faith that she starts to see it and that God can to bring reconciliation to our family. Theirs nothing I wouldn’t do to have our family back together again.

[@kenmoek4025]

God bless you how are things now nearly a year later ?

[@d-man3308]

Man I would kill to have a woman like that by my side. She has love, integrity, beautiful from inside out.. thank you for sharing guys! Glad your doing well

[@thomassamuel2913]

instaBlaster...

[@marleneazevedo1101]

That is real love when someone continues to fight for you.

[@sudeshgaur6059]

@@marleneazevedo1101 really, 'fight for you' eh ? Whats is a wayward spouse, some kind of a prize or a trophy ? Well, if u think that you have to fight or beg for your partner's love and attention then u r a simp. Let'em go. If u treat ur partner as a prize/trophy, then let me tell u that the worth of tropht is onky till its nots taken. Once u win it, it becomes just a showpiece.

[@marleneazevedo1101]

@Sudesh Gaur you're misunderstanding everything. You don't fight by begging and making the WS a prize. MH teaches to work on yourself and not beg, plead, to try to convince them to stay. If you do that, then you will get the opposite result.

[@alexanderbcarranza807]

I think in bed. my marriage is a mess an broken, I’m a believer and my wife is not. I have prayed and fasted and still doing it. And the only thing I see is and experience is strive. There is so much that is in my heart but, this one is that (virtuous woman that the scripture talks about.

[@biblefirst5691]

I want this story to happen for me so badly. God of the impossible... the almighty, please gift me this miracle.

[@biblefirst5691]

Unfortunately, I failed, and we got divorced... feel like a total loser ..... I'm glad it worked out for you guys, though.

[@wolfsden]

I praise God for your marriage and I thank you for sharing about it. You are a true blessing. My Wife and I have been separated 67 days, now, she says she never wants to come back, never wants to do anything with me, again, but I suspect there's more to her. She's not slept with anyone else (I declare and decree this in Jesus' name) and, really, it's just anger and confusion about how God could allow her to marry a PTSD combat veteran who's had a hard life and is un-Churched when she's a Preacher's Kid and has been in the Church her entire life. I pray to Jesus she comes from that confusion, soon, and turns her face back to God and, by extension, me. I love my Sarah with all my heart, so I pray she will open her heart back up to me, soon. Amen.

[@d-man3308]

Bottom line is marriage really does take hard work. You have to be ready to be kind, connect properly, forgive ect... great testimony guys!

[@jamesbyrne4523]

Praying this for my wife and I , I believe God will work miracles through my obedience to him even though we are in different countries and apart for 10 years . God will fix us Thank you , you are both amazing.

[@MarriageHelper]

Hey @jamesbyrne4523, We are praying and standing with you! Just out of curiosity, have you taken advantage of our free mini course? We know times are tough and want to provide as much as we can to you free of charge. That's why we created this free mini course. It will teach you how to get your spouse back and give you a plan moving forward! You can get access to it directly by following this link: bit.ly/3FAr9Vg

[@happygirl1641]

This is my 3rd time watching this video. Thank you for sharing your story. If one person is standing for the marriage, it can change things. Thanks for the encouragement. 😁♥️

[@chrisbajema8002]

Happy Girl1 I’m desperately leaning on these words and my walk with my padre daily ,learning everything once again but paying greater attention. Choose Joy § expect your miracles to be for He says that which will indeed prosper his people unimaginabley

[@katiebr]

I can’t even imagine the pain! I’m going thru hell after found out lover letter from my husband to another woman who is married too, he is cold, bitter with me and I’m so done 😔 he never left us but sometimes I wish he did so we could be calm and I could heal, I’m crying as I watch this , God makes miracles!

[@carolj7586]

The things your husband said in the letter to another woman are full of shit. They dont mean anything. I know from my experience

[@salayir1144]

I hope and pray it was deep shit. The feelings he showers on her it was for me once upon a time, and now he claims he feels the same for that evil woman! May Almighty serve the two what they deserve!!

[@zzee485]

How are things now Katie?

[@samanthawillowlane1371]

@@salayir1144 ma'am if we all got what we deserve we'd all be in hell. Just saying

[@karlmitchell8718]

About to make me cry! I’m in your position now with my wife being your husband! I feel your tears of happiness. God bless your union and family ❤️

[@kcpang1220]

bless you and your family.

[@pmandy5218]

Please pray for a miracle in my marriage

[@CarolineAnandSiddiqui]

It is God's will for a peaceful & happy married life!!! Will remember you in my prayers 🙏

[@jamescxu]

Tears of joy. Beauty from ashes. Amen. You are blessed, John and Amber. Praise the name of our amazingly good LORD and Savior. Plz pray for my wife. She wants out, and I can’t seem to convince her to work on our marriage. Plz pray that she agrees to attend the MarriageHelp 911 workshop.

[@miriamescovar9786]

@Amber Nickle How do I contact the marriage helper people?

[@katiebr]

That is a woman of respect!!! 👏👏👏👏👏 dude, I doubt it if anyone would want you back! Beautiful story of restoration! ❤️

[@sobiaperez4484]

God is good 👍 So happy u both our together

[@vanessalomeli1494]

Thank you , for sharing your testimony ! It is not easy to share the very intimate details of a marriage, specially when there is not only an affair but your spouse decides to walk out on you and your children . Being in the same situation I completely understand the hurt, shame, and guilt that comes with it. However, you listened to the Holy Spirit to stand for your marriage and you got your miracle. God bless you and your family .

[@getcholife7053]

Changed his number the day after? Left her scrounging for money? Carrying on with the side chick for 10 months? Man, that's some jacked up poopty woop... I hope you thank the good Lord everyday for your woman.

[@otterspooptoo]

Someone who is in an affair doesn't act rationally. I think this girl knew that. What a champ of a wife & what an inspiring story. Thanks random girl on KZbin!

[@johnjaso385]

I was think the same. I’m currently separated from my wife. And I have zero desire to look for someone else. God has broken me. And this is the new me. That guy I kinda don’t like. I’m still supporting my wife and kids despite being separated.

[@stevewick9508]

@@johnjaso385 I agree 100%. This guy seems cold. He didn't even give his wife and kids money? Wow. I'm separated from my wife as well and it was all my fault. I'm guilty of an affair and lying about it. But God has broken me as well. I want my wife back very badly now. My heart has changed. I just pray my wife will take me back someday.

[@johnjaso385]

Steve Wick gees brother. I will pray for you. It’s been almost 60 days separated for me. It still hurts daily. I’m crying out to the Lord and hoping for a miracle. May God restore you.

[@pebcak]

​@@johnjaso385 Wow guys. I feel so alone sometimes but then I hear stories like yours. I completely know what you're going through. I've also been with other women. My wife, knowing I had pornography problems but when things seemed to be okay, suddenly said she doesn't love me anymore and filed for divorce. I moved out and support her financially. It's been the most difficult time of my life but it has brought me close to God and caused me to seek counseling and make new relationships. I am doing everything to fight for my marriage and be the right person. God completely broke me as well. Now I am working on the new person that I have become and am becoming.

[@123marchello]

Hey you two thanks for sharing your story. Please don’t let any negative comments detour the work you both did together on this thread. Even if others might not understand. The other couples get it. God gets it. Marriage helper gets it. Stay strong. I wish the other women aswell could see the damage this all caused. Specially when mamma texts the pics of the children. Dear God if anyone ever texted me pics of their children my heart would just shatter. Limerence, finally this is getting talked about. Your wife is gorgeous inside and out. Keep strong girl such radiance shines through you. And to all you ignorant comments .... he’s just letting her speak her feelings and the situation. That’s a tough situation to navigate through and very courageous. All the emotions. 😭 God protect them, just protect them both. Listen to the tools of the marriage helper. May you all be in Gods peace. Keep evolving, stay humble - you two - and keep growing stronger and stronger. Strive for the highest mountain. Fuck the impossible and keep showing your possible.

[@angellinajones7217]

There is no place in marriage for selfishness and only God can help us human beings to do better 🙏

[@ItsGoodSav]

Praying for this for me and my Wife 🤍 staying strong and trusting God. It’s out of my hands just hoping and praying for the best that me and her can rebuild our marriage with God at the center of our love🤍🙏🏽

[@brambletbrats3184]

God bless you guys. I'm sure that was super uncomfortable for your husband. I hope he has a good group of mature men around him who will encourage him and continue to hold him accountable. I know that has been the biggest blessing in my life. God bless!

[@loricooper6440]

Omgosh .... my ex-husbands eyes have been so empty. He divorced me almost 3 years ago this month. I’ve been standing on God’s promises. He still texts me every other week and tells me he loves me and that he always will. He lives with the other woman and has stayed away from his sons and even his mom. Totally not who he was. I wish I would’ve been around people who were willing to pray for us and guide us. So inspired to hear yalls story.

[@bestversion1687]

Lori I’m 2 years behind. I pray that God gives your husband a whisper in his ears. Lori keep the faith.

[@franziskani]

Hi Lori, I hope you have moved on. Lives with the other woman and texts you every week ? you are the fallback woman. He is not even madly in love with her, which would be _some_ sort of excuse.

[@ingridaccount]

Sis, you made it! You are better than Me! He was cruel. I’m glad you made it and got your family Back with no malice in your heart. The glory goes to GOD. That had to be an unbelievable situation of pain and heartache. . I Hope your husband Thanks God and you everyday for the grace and mercy shown him. Especially when he didn’t have any in the beginning. The good word says “He who Is forgiven much loves much.” Please show this lady all the loves she deserves. I hope you all remain happy. Thank you sharing your story, To let us know we are alone.

[@reggieexum5521]

Think you Ma’am for your story. I’ve been listening to it almost every night for two months.

[@gemgirl8776]

Bless your heart for sharing your personal story. And when you began to tear up about tearing up and he began filling in your words for you...I cried with you girl! Your an amazing woman to stick it out and fight for your Marriage when it seemed hopeless. And its not easy being in his shoes either and Idc what any of the other comments say about him. There were mistakes made by both individuals in different ways but the point is they see the error of their ways and are working to make changes to do the right thing for themselves and children and that's more then most men who have affairs can say it can't be comfortable for him to open himself up to ridicule by people who know him abs who do not so im not at all surprised If he comes across cold or anything else. So keep sharing your story and giving those who don't have any a glimmer of hope!

[@SilverGirlAu]

Wow- what an amazing story... very inspirational! Well done to you both! Wish this program was available in Australia!

[@mskaytheeducator8942]

This got me very emotional. You are one strong woman!! God surely have the final say! Blessings

[@reggieexum5521]

I listen to your family’s story frequently. Praying that God has this miracle for us. I’ve putting tons of work in on myself. It’s tough, really tough.

[@georgeblackwell4670]

Thank you for sharing your story! I’m praying for my marriage that God will step in and do a 180 in our relationship 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@charlottemedina3344]

Thank you so much for your encouraging testimonial, God bless your marriage ♥️

[@reggieexum5521]

Praise God for you both! I don’t know how God is going to do it! I had a nervous breakdown in February. I still believe God can do it!

[@chadyeilding9012]

This was my favorite reconciliation story yet. My soul needed this. My eyes welled up several times. I wish my wife and I could sit and talk to this couple. I know it would help us.

[@deniseboynton7913]

Wow!! This is truly amazing! This gives me hope. I am standing for my marriage!!! Thank you for sharing your story

[@CCCCheese]

Hey, how are things going for you now?

[@MRCHUPA]

God bless your beautiful marriage. What a great testimony. To God be the glory!

[@lacondathompson6318]

Wow this is a amazing story and I am sooo inspired right now. My husband and I have been separated since May and I later found out he has moved to another state. I am hopeful that things can turn around even the more by listening to you guys story. Keep sharing!!!

[@vinnievince9547]

Hi Laconda, How is everything now? did your husband come back? Please give us hope by what transpired.

[@ashleyhunter7077]

Such a Beautiful testimony! We are getting ready to share ours and this has brought so much clarity on how to respectfully share. Such Beauty from Ashes. ❤️

[@GurpreetKaur-gr6xe]

Everytime i see amber crying..i cant control my tears..god bless you.. And may each family comes together positively

[@stevrgrs]

It's so crazy how the one leaving says the same thing every time and thinks that their feelings are unique. And the ones being left reach out for help and get all introspective and go through the same steps lol. The sooner we realize we are fundamentally the same the better off we will be :) And im not saying he's wrong , but I don't know how he couldn't embrace his wife when she started to break down 😢

[@ShalanaRoberts]

Yes the unfaithful say the same things. It is crazy, they all of sudden haven’t been in love for years and this has been a long time coming and you’re completely blindsided by all this. It’s so sad!

[@St.Irenaeus]

Thanks for sharing guys. This gives me hope... God bless

[@bacsterbacx4110]

Thank u so much for sharing Amber and husband.... and yes, Johnny Cardwell is a nice guy. 🙂

[@angelacahill9083]

God bless you both for overcoming all that life has thrown at you. I'm standing for my marriage now, it's gut wrenching the pain I feel...separated four months....lines of communication broken down. But I'm hopeful!. Praying and standing for my marriage and guidance from the holy spirit is convicting me to keep praying - you're both an inspiration to everyone.of us. With love and hope alive inside my heart, all things are possible, with a lot of patience, forgiveness and understanding. Thank you for sharing your story....I hope life is being kind to you both.

[@AbhishekMazumder]

A huge standing ovation to Amber and John! Incredible story, incredible couple. I am time and again reminded of the fact that women have immense power in relationships. A woman like Amber can save and revitalize marriages or terminate it. Thanks for sharing.

[@THERetiredHomeskoolMomma]

This is amazing!❤️

[@royalwayte]

Thank you So much for sharing! I cried with you lol. I'm in the midst of a very similar situation, so it's really inspiring to hear a success story!

[@DeSantis5]

Me too

[@sobiaperez4484]

Me to😢

[@nicoleharris4264]

Because of this story I’m calling them right away. !!! The money is going to be spent on attorneys or maybe this. I pray my husband will agree and go with me ASAP. I want to get my family back on track before it gets to the point of him moving out. He recently broke the news to me that he is wanting a divorce. So he hasn’t left yet. I pray there’s hope. Your video gave me a lot of it Thank you for sharing ❤️

[@fredclaymorgan]

Great Video. This gives me hope for my marriage situation. Genuinely thank you for sharing this. Congrats to both of you being strong enough to share this.

[@MarriageHelper]

Thank you so much Short Rows Outdoors. We truly appreciate your comment and are grateful to have you as part of our community here on KZbin. Please, don't hesitate to reach out to us if there's anything else we can do for you. marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ Blessings,

[@davidroets8090]

I need help for my wife kids and myself. We are in a very dark place. Covid. Family deaths. And an unhealthy marriage/family. Please Jesus. Help me help my family stay together.

[@davidelian9824]

Wow, that was so powerful. Thank you for sharing your story of hope.

[@tomculbertson5569]

Thank you for taking the time to tell your story. I'm in a similar situation with my wife. You were and are so strong and full of determination. I have days where I want to give up and let my wife go. I completely feel the same way you did with your husband in terms of when I look into my wife's eyes. She's not there. She's someone else. I'm working on my pies throughout this. My core value in marraige is so strong that I'm having a very hard time excepting what she is doing. You've given me strength to keep going here. Thank you so much. I laughed when you said down by the river. I aways joke about living in a van down by the river. Thanks again.

[@kcpang1220]

bless you and your family.

[@nickfrantz4075]

I needed this. Thank you.

[@ingridaccount]

I Can hear this story a million times! HOPE! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@davidtrevose7083]

Thank you very much. Much appreciated

[@nadiacampbell6791]

Thank you so much for sharing

[@smithFam1205]

Please pray for my family.... Battling it out through court right now😢...... Family Court is the worst place ever.

[@joegaccetta5799]

I hate the whole system. So many people are profiting off the destruction of marriages. Keep standing, keep praying, keeping obedient to God, listen to as many testimonies of restoration as you can, work on yourself, love with a spirit and keep on praying for unity. Believe!!!

[@tendaindongwe8159]

Thank you so much for sharing xxx

[@MWoods-rs4wp]

Our daughter was diagnosed with cancer at age 10. I feel everything you said.

[@nazneensultana2899]

I feel so hopeful by seeing this beautiful couple's reconciliation story

[@mrbiggs6131]

I love your story and it gives me hope…

[@molleencabardocabardo9834]

Praying for your continuous happiness and stronger marriage. God bless you

[@jilly8372]

Bless her heart. Women turning themselves inside for men to preserve their children’s homes. I’ve been there. They aren’t worth it but the kids are. God will honor her for this.

[@chantalbraya9969]

This is inspiring.....Me and my husband are going through a separation right now and he has just started dating someone else. I have been watching these KZbin videos and it's nice to know that maybe one day he might come back

[@chantalbraya9969]

I love him so much and I want him back

[@Summer09824]

The best way is to work on your “PIES” focus on yourself & what you can control

[@Outdoorcookwarereviews]

Thanks for sharing xox

[@rozannmoake8146]

This sounds so much like my husband right now. I’m hoping and praying that he will do the online workshop with me!!!

[@kcpang1220]

bless you and your family.

[@koreycowan1976]

Thank you for sharing your story... I'm glad things worked out. I hope you guys make it to be 2 old folkies sitting in rocking chairs on the front porch. Marriage is so hard... but I believe if both parties make a true effort to make it work...IRON WILL COMMENT... I believe it will work. NOT SAYING ITS EASY. but it can be a beautiful thing.

[@mariaascencio7159]

He is just dry🙄 she needs you to comfort her when she cries.Dear God give this woman the strength and patience and this man the knowledge to understand how she is still hurting.

[@thomasjust2663]

He was very brave to be in the video admitting he cheated, most men or women would not accept to admit it on video for the world to see

[@kind2423]

Amen

[@SamanthaHardmon]

A beautiful testimony of God and the church, marriage, and how Love conquers all. I'm glad Jesus is still being the Author of your marriage instead of Satan having the last say-so. Thank you for sharing!

[@christiangonzalez4847]

thank you for sharing...

[@JamesChristopherHill]

Thank you! For giving me hope. I was starting to lose Faith in Jesus and his help. I'll just keep praying and maybe he will allow my wife to "see" and bring her back to me. All I've been doing is working on myself P.I.E.S. - It's all I can do. I pray we can save our marriage. For me, divorce is not an option, ever. I made vows and so did she to God and we need to honor them. Hearing that you two are complete opposites is very encouraging as well.

[@denisobrien4947]

How are things working out with your wife, James? Praying that your marriage has been restored 🙏🏻

[@yeoitscori3618]

I am in Singapore, he's in the uk, I see the path ahead is not one without him. The longing in my heart, I believe is the promise of God and the reason why I haven't yet give up on this person even after a year. I believe, hope, pray, clinging onto the faith in God that we will reunite, through his power of miracles of restoration. Please pray with me I know God is waiting for me to accept and recognise his promise when this relationship is restored. Amen.

[@jamiebenti]

thank you for sharing that!

[@optimus1212]

I love this story.

[@MWoods-rs4wp]

Well, if there’s a story of hope, this is it. God bless you and your family! Hugs n love. I am at the point of numbness. It’s fresh. But I have hope.

[@ambernickle3821]

Thank you for you kind words. They mean more than you know. It is certainly a journey I do not wish on anyone. However, I can personally say it was worth every tear and the workshop was life giving and life changing. Blessings to you and your family !

[@WCRealtor876]

I'm so glad I found this video. You both have given me hope for my damaged marriage. My wife and I have been having terrible problems for quite a while. She sleeps in a separate bedroom from me and I desperately want her back. We are separated and I'll be moving out soon but I don't want to. I want my wife back. I have new hope because of your video. Thank you.

[@banderson5676]

How you doing now, brother?

[@ingridaccount]

I loveThis video. It gives so much hope. Please God bless me Like this Soon 🔜

[@nietzchesghost]

Hope you two are still going strong. Much love.

[@optimus1212]

I love this story. When you start tearing up towards the end, so do I. I'm so happy for you two.

[@Wawiwowuwe]

After many years my divorce came at an age (I think) 20 years older than you guys. Horrible at first but BEST THING EVER it turned out😊😊 I thank God for me and my X wife. We really needed it.

[@nshskeet1]

I am so hopeful that my wife and I will someday have the opportunity to make a video sharing our story of hope. I am looking forward to experiencing the workshop with her, and I am praying that God will convict her heart. Congratulations Amber and John Louis!

[@andreytsatsulin5748]

How did it turn out

[@nshskeet1]

@@andreytsatsulin5748 It did not work out. I would eventually learn of more lies and she has continuously done things to harm our family. I have ended my stand and am moving forward with my life. I still hope that God will convict her, but not because there is anything left for us. I wish her well, but do not want her in my life anymore. Despite the loss of that relationship, God has restored so many other things in my life. I am thankful for his grace and redeeming love, even if it doesn't look exactly like I had hoped...it's much better than I ever thought possible!!!

[@andreytsatsulin5748]

nshskeet1 yea I haven’t really seen any marriages restored when the spouse wanting out just people moving on claiming that their life is now better

[@sobiaperez4484]

Would love to hear your story

[@bittersweet340]

Great healing process...

[@ChoppingtonOtter]

How I wish there was one of these in the UK with such a success record .

[@user-mj1ht1tw2w]

Et je vous remercie beaucoup encore une fois merci

[@mandysmith5775]

Amazing!!!!!! 😀❤️

[@singingmanmd]

This is an awesome tenacious story delivered by this wonderful couple who overcame the pitfalls of separation possible divorce!! Although, Marriage Helper appears to be a great marriage supporting organization, I wish that they also allow to invest in gay married couples as well. Sadly, I think they do not. This organization is capable of helping and supporting all everyone!! Love is Love and marriage is marriage.

[@user-mj1ht1tw2w]

Je suis honnêtement convaincu à toutes vos expressions vraiment je vous remercie toujours que Dieu nous donne toujours la force

[@juanmadera5180]

This is my fourth or 5th time watching this video and im also standing alone for my marriage. Which is falling fast.. and i wishing for a miracle that, i can take my wife to this workshop and would do sometime to her Decision. Of not wanting to work on our marriage. I love this women with all my heart and my family means everything to me. she is truly my better half. I pray everyday that i can turn this around.... Jon you have no idea how lucky you are that even with an affair this women was willing to fight for her marriage. Again you should be greatful.

[@blue246]

Juan, so sorry you are going through a tough time. I hope your marriage is restored soon. I know the pain. My husband left me and our 2 kids 2 months ago without warning and it’s hurts constantly. He no longer loves me just wants to find someone else. He doesn’t want to try to fix us. This is worse than death because in death they don’t choose to leave you. The rejection is awful and I see no hope. My kids are struggling and I’m hurting for them too and also frightened for my future alone, financially etc. Good luck and stay strong. X

[@juanmadera5180]

@@blue246 thank you so much..

[@katelyneortiz6602]

thank you so much for sharing your story. im in somewhat of the same situation right now and trying to figure how to make him say yes to saving our marriage.

[@banderson5676]

How are you doing now, Katelyn? I hope you found peace in the situation. God bless.

[@henryzellman]

The problem with reconciling with a lying cheater is that you are stuck in a relationship with a lying cheater.

[@chantelhoneycutt3799]

I love listening to your story! I can't count how many times I've watched this video. I have been following marriage helper since my H left me about a year ago and just recently got him to do the workshop. He seemed to vacillate after the workshop and I know you said your H did as well. How did you handle that? Did your H have any struggles completely cutting off communication with the OW once you guys agreed to reconcile?

[@superiorGOD1220]

Where is this workshop?

[@justindasilva8047]

Please pray for my wife and I, she has moved out and wants a divorce.

[@saroyaisaacks60]

Please pray for me and my husband he wants to divorce 🙏 😔 we have two beautiful children

[@oldskoolgypsy9204]

God bless 💛💙🙏🏼

[@hypersports4796]

Thank you for sharing your story. Where is this workshop and how we attend the workshop

[@fireeye33]

why does he not looking happy lol 😂

[@karong7017]

This woman is clearly the "leader" in this marriage. She talks more and is the planner and makes things happen. Unfoutunately, her kindness and toleration is likely an indicator of low self esteem. This man barely speaks; inductive that he is not a leader in his home. Completely out of order. He had the affair; he abandoned his family. As such he should lead in fixing "this." Seems like she did\does all "the work" in reconciliation. He's indifferent and seemingly doesn't want to be there. He didn't say what he is doing to reconcile...not 1 thing. Dude is sitting there like a pillow on a couch. Just there. She is crying over pain he caused; he sits there unphased. She said " I love him more than I ever have"; he made a face and said nothing. She may be better off w/o him. This dude may already be gone emotionally w/ no coming back. 10 months is a long time to lay up with a sidechick while wife is raising 2 tolders and 1 whose ill. Yet, he shows no remorse or gratitude for her willing to forgive and reconcile. If dude keeping "sleeping" on his blessings; GOD will bless this chick with a new GOD fearing/ family centered/ faithful husband that will make her forget dude ver existed. Best Wishes!

[@deniseduggins8933]

Ya, this was done too soon.....

[@deangelok7269]

All that was based off assumption. You can't judge something by that small sight. Nor everybody like to talk on camera. If you see me I hate taking pictures. In all my pictures with groups it seemed as I'm not happy but it's just I hate taking pictures. Don't paint a picture without paint

[@hypersports4796]

Karon G some people are shy or reserved, and some people are outgoing. Maybe he just got off from working a long shift. Who knows.... Remember he’s there, he’s present.

[@michellegwilliam6870]

I cried watching your story as I am going through exactly the same thing the only difference is he has moved back home but has not agreed to the workshop yet and although he says he is no longer in contact with the other women but I know she texts him all the time begging him to come back to her and divorce me! Also I never know where his head is because the entire time he was having his affair he was also still flirting with me and even after he moved out to me with her we were still intimate with each other but that’s only because I was not aware that he had been having an affair at all ! I didn’t find out about her affair until about a month ago because she told him to tell me or she would and that ultimately led to him moving back home be she pushed to far and gave him an ultimatum. What will happen from here I don’t know ! I just pray every day that he will say yes to the work shop! I wish he would watch this video and see that anything is possible if you work at it and really want it!

[@MrsBryant1024]

This was a very beautiful story. However I do have a question for you. How did you trust him again after the affair? And how do you know for sure he cut the communication off with the other woman?

[@luisrosario432]

This is an amazing story. Unfortunalety, my wife fell in love with someone else, and started saying that she wants to divorce me because we argue, she felt neglected, and because I couldn't go to her grandma's funeral. I tried to make her go to the workshop, and marriage counseling, but she refused and filed for divorce. I am so sad now because I feel she lied to me. She said before finding her feelings for the other guy that she was very very happy, but after, she was like "I am not happy, I never was". I am glad that people like you two managed to make it work, even mine didn't.

[@sobiaperez4484]

So sorry 😢 how long has it been ? Hold on to the lord and she may come back when she wakes up !

[@luisrosario432]

@@sobiaperez4484 it's been a month, and I don't think she will come back. She is dating this other guy, already filed for divorce, and turn her family and friends from her hometown against me. I only have her grandma and cousin on my side. I already accepted the fact that she is gone and won't come back. Still my family and mutual friends here dont want me to take her back if she ever decides to come because she might do it again. And maybe the reason for her to come back is because her new relationship didn't work and she has no one to get love from.

[@elhpasu]

God's grace

[@MegaNarcotics]

That's a good women please take care of her.Ttheres is hope!!!

[@andreytsatsulin5748]

It’s so much harder when you unfortunately don’t have kids. There’s no communication between me and my wife. She won’t respond to anything, I’ve been doing smart contact for 5 months and nothing has changed. I feel so hopeless standing for my marriage alone

[@bringbackthenordiques5990]

i wish my soon to be ex wife was like you. God bless you.

[@jameshendrickson4845]

Amber's husband doesn't seem too psyched about telling this story.

[@gailkruger3828]

Probably just shy/an introvert. Not everyone is comfortable in front of a camera

[@michellespringer3769]

I know exactly what you mean about seeing an emptiness in my husband's eyes. 😪