Are Black women with degrees recklessly having children? Of course not.

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[@tabkaliO]

I’ve got 0 kids, 2 🐈, and 3 masters degrees. I like school and love learning and will get a PhD at some point.

[@Christopher0632]

"I'm a PhD" 🤣

[@tam6011]

Enters the hater who cant read menu unless it says 1,2, or 3. You know they always trying stunt with their non education and hard working to nothingness

[@ruthtrentwood3374]

Why do you have 3 masters degrees if you don't mind me asking? Is it because you're preparing for a very specific career path? or do you just love learning?

[@hottstepher]

@@Christopher0632Exactly what’s funny? That’s a great accomplishment 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@candorsspot2775]

@@hottstepher Is it? Chances are these are degrees in studies that teach people to be nihilist Communists and don't even train someone to actually add back into the world.

[@naturallyrachel3401]

Thank you for sharing actual cited data. I long for the day the collective of Black women simply decenter from men. Life is so much better when you simply disengage from an ignorant self serving population.

[@invisiblerevolution]

It's funny how.... social media/KZbin has made BW & BM HATE each other.

[@andreabrown4541]

I don't. And I thoroughly realize I'm setting myself up for future name calling.

[@Indigolily80]

I'm 42. Most of the college educated and/or military women that I know are either married to the father of their children or single with no kids. There are a select few who got pregnant after college and have not married. Those women have 1 child. None of them were dating hood guys. The fathers of their children are present, and working professionals. We didn't grow up in the "hood". Most of us grew up in religious, military families.

[@chinaarlene7035]

I find a lot of those women also have had abortions before getting married or claiming not to have any children. Just saying.

[@dearyvettetn4489]

I agree with everything you said but one, the “WE didn’t grow up in the hood” part. Two kids raised, married to their dad for decades-sss and we each hold at least one bachelors degree (I hold more). Am I bootstrapping enough?

[@jbell7105]

@@chinaarlene7035you a damn lie talking about a lot you mean the few you know

[@chinaarlene7035]

@jbell7105 no, it's a lot of YOU 😂😂😂 Most of you if we're being honest. I'm a bw and it's something I've observed for years. The liesssss

[@OneTwo-yw4ij]

Military/ religious families value marriage more. If you live on base and attend church on the regular. Your kids are surrounded by married couples. Most of my family (dad, aunts, uncles) were military and religious. Most of the women in my family are married. My sister and I are college graduates, married with kids.

[@firandcurly84]

Watch the mamnosphere extrapolate this data erroneously and then come to the conclusion that degrees make women less fertile, because woman with higher degrees have less children. I'm just so sick of these people.

[@SouthernP751]

That’s sounds exactly like something they’d do 😂

[@helena3631]

This lol

[@courajess]

😂😂😂😂 it’s funny because it’s true 😫😫😫

[@Ova-bv4os]

They already do. Higher education is one of the no. 1 things blamed for "declining" fertility rate. Imho it's essential we decline. Unfortunately we have a bastardised capitalistic consummerism society/economy that will collapse if we do reduce population. Consumerism is an exponential growth system. It's simply cannot exist in a system of finite resources like this earth. We are gonna hit a wall and when we do it will be brutal. And it will be the poor who will suffer it.

[@mizkomunikation9478]

C’mon let’s keep it real…the manosphere doesn’t rely on data, it relies on whatever “feels” true to uneducated males who just make stuff up.

[@trinikimmie]

As a black woman u just cannot win. Not two minutes ago Tyler perry and iyanla van Zant were telling black women as long as he's a good man and can pay one bill take him. Now at the same time they're saying why y all hooking up with pookie and Ray Ray. Srsly make it make sense

[@anikasmith8361]

Two degrees and no children by choice. I prefer to travel.

[@Childfree334]

Me too

[@tommyt264]

You can have kids and travel also. They're not mutually exclusive. My wife and I have a baby and we're still traveling together.

[@OneTwo-yw4ij]

@@tommyt264, That's your choice. My sister and her husband travel with their kids. It's not a vacation for the wife because she's the one doing everything. Men often say, you can do blah blah blah......It's so easy for you to say that because your wife is the one doing the work. While you sip and relax. That's how it is in most marriages......And you can say, "we share the work."....But that would make you the exception (which I highly doubt), not the rule or the norm. Traveling without the extra responsibility of running after kids is a much better experience.

[@tommyt264]

@OneTwo-yw4ij what are you talking about? Wife do everything? Last time I checked, I'm the one who books everything. Flights, rooms, activities and all. I'm the one who plans AND pays for our trips. Yeah, my wife has the baby most of the time because,... Well, babies need their mom more than their dads. I can't breastfeed like my wife. It's biologically impossible. I do help change diapers occasionally even though wifey does it most of the time I admit. When we go hiking, I'M the one carrying the baby. I'm the one carrying the folded stroller up and down the stairs. Not wifey. But as far as nurturing the baby, my wife does that. She's the mother. I'm the dad. I do the heavy lifting, physical and financial. It's unfortunate your sister's marriage is like the way you described it. Maybe she should've chosen better.

[@Coastpsych_fi99]

@@tommyt264Wow your comment makes me even more glad I’m childfree. Dad should change all the diapers since you are so strong and manly… you basically do all the fun parts of parenting is what she is saying and your wife has to really nurture the baby.

[@so.many.obstacles]

When you’re an emotionally intelligent, critical thinking woman, you don’t need to sling mud with the manosphere, the statistics will windmill for you. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Kim

[@CityScapes-nu3vr]

emotionally intelligent- is Made up of feminist BS that means absolutely NOTHING. Just more Babble.

[@regale1995]

Indeed

[@officialjocelyn9108]

Of the 6 ladies that i graduated undergrad with, only myself and 1 other friend have biological children - 1 child each. Another is a rockin stepmother to one child.

[@Mariah203]

Same. Of all my college friends, only one has children and she's happily married. The rest of us have no children. We're all between 31-34 years old. Many of the men I've graduated with have children and are not with their baby mothers. I find its way easier to come across women my age with no kids then it is to come across men my age with no kids. So who's really having kids out here all willy nilly?

[@tori-annholness6256]

Do the research KIM!!!!!!! love this!!! letsssss gooooooo

[@moniquesmith1303]

I regret having kids before finishing my nursing degree now I’m 35 going back to school 😭😭😭

[@helena3631]

Better late than never .. out of all my friends only 2 of us have a child the other 5 no kids and we are in our late thirties I am 38 with a 9 year old

[@angelaschone2847]

​@@helena3631why never is not an option?

[@NadiaPink]

I’m 35 went to nursing school and focused on that. I wish I had my babies earlier. It’s okay we all have doffernt path ways. I am now going to have my babies. And I am okay with it. I had to wait for my husband and get my degree. Now it’s your turn to get your degree. I knew plenty of woman in my nursing program who had children and went back to school. They are now working as nurses and no one would have ever known they started later. ❤

[@Bri-nc8yp]

@@angelaschone2847I don’t think she was referring to having kids… when she said better late than never I took it to be in reference to getting an education.

[@angelaschone2847]

@@Bri-nc8yp aah yes, in education is better late than never but in kids better never

[@nuggetsnicole4851]

I have no degree, I have an esthetician license and only 1 child with my husband. This narrative blk women all trifling baby mamas is a FARSE

[@Mary-eo9pd]

This is fantastic, I love the short yet concise research based debunking!!! Breaking it down for fans and haters alike!

[@vesbarrow]

37 with no higher degree (I have an associates) and no children. I dont want children, I'd rather travel.

[@shamidkpzd]

Anecdotal, but most of the black women I went to school with are without kids or have one with their husband. Most of the white women I went to school married younger and have multiple kids. Also most of the black women have higher education too.

[@alangivre2474]

They are thinking about the high number of black college educated single mothers. But they have the causality backwards: most black single mothers are in abusive relationships as teenagers (18-22) and then some manage to get a degree despite the hardships of being single mothers. That is: they have a child first, and after that the college degree. Black college-educated women have very few children after having a degree, because there are very few black college-educated men, and most people in US date inside their race.

[@candorsspot2775]

So being a single mother causes college education? And I've never heard the argument that being college educated causes a woman to become a single mother. It often turns women into raging nihilists/Communists though.

[@BooDotBoo]

Thing is, though, a lot of women (especially black women) are choosing to be single and/or childfree. And this is whether they have degrees or not, but this is becoming more normal with black women who have degrees. Tbh, with the caliber of men out here (not that there aren't good ones, but you have to really be looking and lucky... and a lot of women are deciding to live their lives rather than putting a bunch of time into searching), more women deciding to not date or put off dating and putting off children or not having children SEEMS like pretty freaking smart choices, to me. I count myself among them. Until a good guy turns my head while I'm living my life, I'm working on building me, connecting with other black women, and making memories. I couldn't care less about a man when my life has become actually a lot more fun and happy since I STOPPED dating. these men can keep their red pill nonsense to themselves. Out of all the black women I know and have met, all have an AA degree or higher and only two have kids, and one of them is married, so yeah they're pulling this stuff out of their butt... LOL.

[@jbell7105]

Chile I have my bachelors thinking about just getting my masters and I only date during the summer 😂 no kids either. I honestly think I’m done with dating as well. Nice to hear I am not alone.

[@jjamerican93]

Oh wow, you just described me to a tee! 😊❤

[@melinated2497]

I obtained my BS before marriage and am finishing my MBA shortly after I give birth to my second daughter. There weren't any pookies and ray rays in my orbit when I was an eligible single lady, and my husband is about as far from that stereotype as you can get.

[@jenmar9428]

I have my bachelor degree in law. I am now doing my master’s to specialize in Corporate law / EU & international business law. I am also happily married. We don’t have kids. Last year I graduated and then took a sabbatical. Hubby and I went to South America for 3 months. I started working again in August. This fulltime job is temporary. After that I’ll be working 18 hours a week.

[@courtneyz4015]

May I ask what's your career goal with a masters in business law? I rarely come across people familiar with that degree.

[@jenmar9428]

@@courtneyz4015 , I live in Europe. So, here corporate lawyers that I have worked with has a. My goal is to work at European/international businesses as a lawyer. Example: in the Europe we have the European Union competition law, which also falls under the corporate/ business law.

[@courtneyz4015]

@@jenmar9428 Interesting. Thanks!

[@adams8830]

It doesn't matter what black women do, people will ALWAYS shame black women for simply having kids, something people have done for millenia.

[@UnderRatedBeauty88]

Degrees has nothing to do with mindset . A pookie is really a mindset . I was dating to a Pookie with a masters degree and he was just as bad as the lazy Pookies who don’t work . These men are making up excuses because they don’t like accountability and that’s not good.

[@DancingDeity]

Even their friends/family don’t hold them accountable. Their degeneracy is coddled.

[@blessedandannointed]

The Pookies with Masters degrees are thee woooooooorrrrrst!!!!!!

[@babyg7796]

Thank you for speaking about this. I literally wasn’t able to go to college out of HS b/c of no money or loans. The thought of turning into a very real baby mom & becoming a statistics was starting to whisper around me…I joined the military but still haven’t been able to finish my BA b/c of no time. Thank God as of now I work for TESLA in their IT dept & im still enlisted & I just turned 26 . The bizarre comments I get from men about why I’m not “settled down” yet keeps happening and I’m feeling the pressure to have a family slipping in eventhough I’ve never wanted it..nor can anyone afford it tbh. I’m soooo scarred to become a baby mom but ppl keep telling me my career and degree won’t mean anything… Edit: I’ve never had a goal to be married or have kids and I still don’t BUT the consistent harassing comments & life updates that I constantly see from friends/family around me is now starting to make me question if I would ever CONSIDER marriage or kids, when I haven’t before. I am NOT currently trying to make that my reality lol.

[@BeautifulEarthJa]

Who are the ppl that are telling you that? Lol

[@naediggs4816]

​@@BeautifulEarthJaright? Are they happy, successful, and content? Or bitter, struggling, and lacking?

[@islandgirl8067]

Those men are probably threatened by your success.

[@DianaPrince365]

Don’t listen to those pressuring you to settle for just any man by saying you need to settle down to be a mother. Enjoy being single and child free. Nothing be in a hurry about.❤

[@Childfree334]

I can't imagine being so weak-minded that I would contemplate doing something I don't want to do because my coworkers are picking on me. You better get some self esteem and a backbone before you end up with a miserable life just to please other people.

[@oniciamuller]

Damn, there's a research paper for everything. Additional anecdotal info: i have my masters. Went to college and grad school with 7 black women (inclu me): all have fewer than 2 kids. 3 had kids with "ray ray". One of which was a mother before enrolling in college. The other 2 only have 1 child. 3 had kids after earning their degree and after getting married. 1 remains childless. Do with that info what you will.

[@47shadows76]

How would you compare the quality of life between the ones who had kids during the marriage and the ones who didn't?

[@norikadolmy7274]

Wow what a deep dive and in less than 3 minutes. She came prepared!

[@elmoworld850]

I have a bachelor's degree and I'm working towards a master's degree, I don't have any kids.

[@jjamerican93]

Thank you for posting this. The older I get, the more having a child in this country is fundamentally unappealing to me. I just wish we didn’t live in a culture that made childfree and childless women feel lesser. Because parenting is no easy feat, any way you look at it.

[@quickpstuts412]

I'm 40+ no kids and no debt. No offense but I don't like kids. LOL I'm also among like-minded friends in the same category with no kids (birds of a feather). Maybe they need to stop attracting the same type of woman. The problem is they look at one type of woman they date or are attracted to and assume all are the same without realizing you attract what you are. Law of attraction in action. I'm also tired of them acting like all us high earners are in massive debt. Must make them feel better about themselves because they are accomplishing nothing but dating out....which isn't an accomplishment since statistics show marriages outside their race aren't working either. I don't get why they brag about that. All they have to offer in return is the "dying alone" or "get a dog" argument. Being single with a dog is heaven to me. Never understood the single woman stigma. Carry on.

[@TheBohodiva]

3 degrees, no kid. My partner also has 3 degrees. We’re both enjoying life right now before we make some babies 🙏🏾🫶🏾

[@Exodus26.13Pi]

We count by marriages. -Kevin Samuels

[@jbell7105]

@@Exodus26.13Picount what?

[@sephy7733]

@@jbell7105Don’t respond to manosphere trolls. It’s not worth it 😊

[@DarkWinter48]

​@@Exodus26.13PiYet he died unmarried. 😐

[@YellowTXRose1]

I aways wanted to get married and have children young but I'm so happy things did not turn out that way! I focused on education and became a nurse. Learned my lesson along the way at 22 when I got caught up w/ a verbablly abusive, self-hating, future member of the black manosphere. His hate speech about black women directed towards me temporarily wounded me. I was constantly compared to WW. I was very naive & so concerned w/ proving him wrong about how well of a gf a black woman could be to him that I fell for his gaslightening, lost concentration and flunked out of nursing school. He went on to marry a WW (who always seemed miserable) and have several daughters w/her back to back. Meanwhile I was FNF without kids and went back to school and got my RN. I met my husband while being a travel nurse. He is also educated, financially literate and very stable and we are expecting our 1st child soon. Don't let these baby daddy hood boogers make you feel less than because you chose success over them and now some of you are in position to be their bosses. This chaps their hide raw!! You've left them behind, now keep them back there. This class of men aren't good enough to sit at your table let along lay in your bed or have you carrying their name & their baby.

[@ctgal9698]

You go guuurrl!!!

[@Southern.Nappiness]

Most educated BW I know have no children or just one child.

[@Exodus26.13Pi]

And overweight mostly obese too.

[@jbell7105]

@@Exodus26.13Piyou’re a damn lie lol if that’s all you know then just say that

[@gregorywalker6802]

​@@Exodus26.13Piyou are correct according to the CDC statistics released in March 2023

[@OneTwo-yw4ij]

@@gregorywalker6802, What does that have to do with this topic???? If you all are determined to find a flaw or criticism regardless to the constant debunking. Why not just say you hate BW, wish nothing well for them and keep it moving?

[@gregorywalker6802]

@@OneTwo-yw4ij the Facts don't lie...... prove me wrong...... lol

[@DianaPrince365]

I have two degrees and getting a third a JD. I have only one teen child. The stats presented here prove them wrong as usual.

[@kiaj.d.5855]

Well perhaps I’m an outlier. I was a single mother of two. Now I’m a married mother of three. I have a B.S. in Biology and a M.Ed.

[@d.o.s.2394]

I have 4 medical certifications. 36 and not 1 child. I just acquired them within the last 2 years. I don’t want to bring kids into this crazy world. They deserve better.

[@ellewild19]

Thank you for this video. Girl you ate and left no crumbs and did it with complete class and facts.

[@Princetonian4eva]

I’m Ivy League educated, multiple masters degrees, married to a responsible professional man and we have no kids yet. We want to prioritise travel and his next career move before buying a house in a couple of years and THEN we will have 1 child and see how we get on from a financial and energy perspective. The manosphere keeps lying to sub-par men to make them feel better about being behind in life

[@47shadows76]

How exactly are they 'behind'? Because they went to work instead of incurring loads of debt like literally 97% of men throughout history?

[@Coastpsych_fi99]

@@47shadows76You can literally see the data on how college students vs non college students earn, and getting a degree provided debt isn’t unreasonable does improve income.

[@ed-0364]

Words of advice, please babysit long term to see if you like the process before you have children. ❤

[@karenridgeway7556]

We woman and I mean all women of all races and cultures need to unite with one message because there is so much strength in unity. I believe the message should be decenter men, maintain high standards, stay out of all men conversations, stop commenting on male behavior, arm yourself for safety and get within a group of like-minded women such as this group and talk about/share your life experiences so others (especially very young women) may learn and have a reference point moving forward to navigate their lives. The standard of society should be set by the women. Let patriarchy fail and let men figure out life for themselves without women! Women are the life force energy of this planet and it's time for us to prove it!

[@VirgosGroove3]

I have a degree and no kids. It’s finding the well yolked partner that’s the problem 😵‍💫. But I’m ready for the babies 👶🏾

[@DanaFullylove]

Dear BLK XX don’t trust them and always respect you! If they disrespect you and you stay around consider it you disrespecting self. No longer will we disrespect ourselves over some XY we can’t afford to do it

[@Chocobunnezz]

I have my IT certs for cloud engineering and 1 child from a relationship that lasted around 4 to 5 years. I'm single now and celibate. I'm thriving and also making all types of travel plans. So whether I did it wrong or right , I'm still making out like a bandit lol.

[@deborahm9393]

Jezebel was the daughter of the priest-king Ethbaal, ruler of the Phoenician cities of Tyre and Sidon. When Jezebel married King Ahab of Israel (ruled c. 874-853 BCE), she persuaded him to introduce the worship of the Tyrian god Baal-Melkart, a nature god. Most of the prophets of Yahweh were killed at her command. She was NOT a whore figure as men have labeled her. Mary Magdalene wasn’t a whore either. She was a disciple and is speculated to have been his spouse because a Jewish man of his age wouldn't have been single at his age. Men consistently try to erase or debase women of biblical times.

[@mizzmolly7649]

All My blk female colleagues who are not married have never been married and have never had children. The ones who have children have been married for more than 20 years. There aren't even any divorces in the bunch.

[@eileennguyen842]

Glad you cited actual stats, but what the who even would think that? I don't even remember a time when I didn't know that women with degrees are likely to have fewer children, if any, than women without degrees. Where are these dudes even coming up with this stuff??

[@marthashepherd935]

Real facts🙌🏾

[@HabitualLover]

No way this is what Black men have come up with atp?! I guess when your mind is gone, the answer is, “No, there is no bottom to your fall.” I feel so bad for the men living in manosphere hell.

[@Heyu7her3]

Ehhhhhhhh. I know a whole bunch of 'em. HOWEVER, that doesn't make degrees "useless". Makes these Black men "excuse-ful" tho.

[@OneTwo-yw4ij]

So did they become a baby mama before or after the degree? A lot of single mothers went back to school to provide a better life for their children. Women that obtain their degrees first are more career focused so their social life may be less active. They're less likely to have kids.

[@Heykay34]

They hate you so much 🤣🤣🤣 ❤❤❤❤

[@chuuuwiii]

letssssss go Kimmmmmmm

[@Kay-jk3zj]

My favorite orator !!!

[@atlfun08]

Not over here. I’m not carrying the devils spawn. JK😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@UPPITYUNICORN]

get it kim

[@GardensFlowers-f7k]

Love that you are doing this debunk series!! And you have a great voice for voice-over narration!!!

[@MrsMathews]

No idea who is saying that, but they are definitely out of touch. That is not true in the least.

[@cmg25]

Ya’ll people who analyze and synthesize and extrapolate and observe don’t have 50eleven kids.

[@ms.ednapost]

Oh my! I just found you’re channel and though there are a number of BW channels that address this expansive topic about the bmale dustie dynamic in blackistan, you laid it out like you were presenting g your graduate thesis.😉Excellent!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@justcallmebon2684]

Kim! I LOVE this series of you taking on the stats. Keep going!

[@zero1188]

Another way to look at it is, in real life this dont have happen. But the small minority that go online and complain with degrees are the ones getting knocked up

[@mimicallsit7675]

2 bachelors degrees, 2 masters no children and 1 husband.

[@aihsotsana]

I have NO higher education I'm 27 and I'm loving that shit .

[@1991-present]

About to complete my PhD (third degree). My husband and I have one son, and will be having no more children.

[@AnimalAdvocate-w4i]

Women don’t have be baby machines and dumpsters anymore.

[@Dee-oq5ms]

Me a degreed woman just reinstall my nexplnon 🥰

[@Dass1996]

True. 27, college educated and one child here. 🙋🏾‍♀️

[@simmond08]

You said absolutely nothing in this video

[@QueenChaslee]

I hate to agree but she did read a paper from someone not in this ethnic group.

[@truthserum1271]

☝🏽One and done!

[@melbuck194]

a succinct message for the gathering. We love to see it.

[@EmpressEmpath44]

Very true 😢

[@goddessnoir290]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@missoliviajordan]

Very off topic but your hair looks great!

[@tresvegan3633]

Chile it’s always going to be something honey 🙄

[@srumi9481]

Where can we get the full videos?

[@vipseat]

I have 0 degrees and 0 kids I have never had heated debates with men over these issues ever, and certainly never had to pull out research papers. Social media is exhausting....

[@jermainegoss705]

Looking good..

[@theezenriarinze9203]

Gotta love the qualifier of bw with degrees 😂😂😂. The setting is already starting off on the wrong foot

[@achillesmichael5705]

Audio is not in sync

[@shawndraa.h1888]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@joeycognition8824]

Lol 1960-1980 are different times these people are their 40s, 50s, 60s, single motherhood in concentrated poverty changed quite a bit. statistically speaking black women do indeed earn more degrees than most women and people in general. Yet are still below the poverty line with those degrees. From 1995- 2018 single motherhood remained the highest amongst black women. With black single mother households poverty rate being 48.4 percent compared to the 35.6 for white individuals. I’m a couple months late but you should do your research more often and site more cases than just one…

[@dkt4377]

The biggest impediment to creating generational wealth in the blk community is all of these single parent households.

[@kimleemoon]

Who is the lady?

[@so.many.obstacles]

Kimberly Nicole Foster is an American writer and cultural critic. She is best known as the founder of the black women's interest website, For Harriet. [2] She was named to Forbes' 30 under 30 in 2016. [3] Foster's work has been recognized by Essence Magazine, Philadelphia Sun, Complex, Teen Vogue, and Atlanta Black Star. -Wikipedia

[@zenmasta1260]

Spectacular crabs in a barrel content.

[@aikinsv]

I've been following you for years and didn't know you had a patreon. I see how many folks you got subscribe and girl you getting money honey! LOL! you should write a book on how to get paid to tell your opinions and thoughts

[@melanatedroyalty3877]

Of my 9 sorority sisters, only myself (1) and one other sister (2) have kids. And of the 9, 2 have bachelor's degrees and the other 7 have masters degrees.

[@Gotinks]

Yeah, women turning 40 and starting to pop up preggo unmarried! 😂

[@dorianneutral1787]

Nobody gives AF bro. Marriage is overrated.

[@shanyamclaughlin8083]

So what at least she is grown and not a teenager who lacks basic life skills. She is likely established in her life to properly provide.

[@Gotinks]

@@shanyamclaughlin8083 Hey she's grown, but now she pregoo by a Pookie and wll blaming men for being a baby mama.

[@mizkomunikation9478]

40, pregnant, unmarried…and STILL better off without you.😂

[@CaraCmplx]

@@GotinksI would love to see your proof. Please share. I’ll wait.

[@easy8325]

Get your passport fellas and leave them alone forever.Too much bs to put up with for 30 minutes worth of sex for a short period of time 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@onyxjade5474]

Y'all being talking about getting your passport for almost 10 years why aren't yall gone by now 😮‍💨😂

[@Wahhhhhhhh-hhh]

Why is this about black people? What's the difference between black women and white women? Race is only physical right?

[@jbell7105]

Um are you unfamiliar with her content?

[@Wahhhhhhhh-hhh]

@@jbell7105 what does that have to do with anything. Is she a racial statistician?

[@PerkpopperDotcom-qu3hk]

@@Wahhhhhhhh-hhhyea she is? Do you only care about her bringing up race? Not the point of the content

[@jakblk]

Any women having a child WITHOUT a father on purpose, is IRRESPONSIBLY having that child, period.

[@hubbthepoet612]

Men are saying that your degrees are worthless to them, not that it won’t help you.

[@zerotolerance2026]

Telling a woman her degree is worthless, isn’t going to have women lining up to date you. But keep fighting the fight.

[@truthhurtsohwell05]

the manosphere is saying that bw ae getting basket weaving but many have degrees in STEM areas...so the issue seems to be that bw will get them further ahead

[@sherwinalvarez7365]

Great information. I would also like to hear what your husband has to say about it.

[@candorsspot2775]

Wait.. What? Reckless would mean out of wedlock. What do those stats say? Having less kids or no kids is anti social behavior as well, and really says nothing about reproductive behavior either. Killing a baby in the womb is also reckless..

[@Childfree334]

Then call me reckless. I aborted my husband's baby, then divorced him. No kids for me thanks.

[@Nihilist_Porcupine]

Someone doesn't know what the word reproductive means!

[@candorsspot2775]

@@Nihilist_Porcupine A nihilist and someone who committed an abortion. Wow.. I guess we don't need to research data.

[@candorsspot2775]

@@Nihilist_Porcupine Conception is reproduction btw.

[@angelaschone2847]

No, to have no kids is not Anti social behaviour, yii just want to bodyshame women , awful, and abortion is for the woman doesn't die and it is not reckless but healthy

[@47shadows76]

This is a beautiful strawman. The complaint was never that highly educated black women recklessly have children. Highly educated black people in general: 1. Collectively, don't have ENOUGH kids to out compete dusty reproduction rates, and 2. Have needlessly high rates of divorce often initiated by women- destroying lineages and causing marriageable men to avoid settling down until conditions are ideal (i.e. never). With highly educated BW there is a degree (no pun intended) of entitlement and arrogance that comes with that piece of paper which ruins relationships. The ideal state would be for her to embrace her hypergamous nature and secure a partner while she is in her golden years of education but that becomes increasingly difficult if she's not "fit, feminine, and friendly" to the men above her level. They won't see her as a long term investment. So she graduates hoping that 'eventually' she'll cross the right one but she has not acquired the skillsets necessary to appeal to men for anything more short term relationships and, thanks to F-nism, the educated men of her class see no reason to settle down with her. He's got time and options. Mahoghany Pink broke this down well, how are BW going to combat this?

[@Christopher0632]

Degree or not, 7 out of 10 children in the Black community are being born to single mothers. That's a fact. Almost 60% of BM are childless in the United States so the majority of them are NOT being reckless with their seed. That's a fact. So the obvious conclusion is BW are procreating with a small sect of BM as a whole and we know who the majority of those men are in the community. Watch a handful of Kendra G videos and damn near every woman (degree or not) has multiple children from multiple men. I know a brother that had close to 20 children with over a dozen different women and a few of them had degrees and knew he had a ton of kids. Stop it, lol.

[@lrjones02]

You may want to redo the math on that one. Something is not adding up right sorry. 😂😂

[@Christopher0632]

@@lrjones02 How about you not be lazy and provide the accurate figures if I'm wrong. But we both know you won't, smh.

[@harleenquinzel5814]

CITE. YOUR. SOURCES 👏🏾 Y'all love stating "facts" but don't come with receipts. Kimberly made a statement and came with literature to bake up her claim, see how that works? It's literally what you're supposed to do but you're telling someone else to do the work. Probably because you're talking out your--

[@candorsspot2775]

@@harleenquinzel5814 She offered a straw man. She said nothing of out of wedlock births. Who says that having children is reckless? Reckless reproduction refers to out of wedlock, committing abortion, and just choosing to get pregnant in anything but a stable, healthy marriage.

[@Christopher0632]

@@candorsspot2775 A child born out of a nuclear family has practically every statistical disadvantage across the board. They are the primary economic burdens on society through social welfare programs. There are literally no advantages over a two parent household. Out of wedlock births are reckless and irresponsible. There's no way to put a spin on that. 7 out of 10 children are being born out of wedlock in the black community and many of those women have degrees.

[@sherwinalvarez7365]

Great information. I would also like to hear what your husband has to say on the matter.

[@doubleutee8867]

You came out with this 5 days ago. It's strange that you seem to be into racial, ethnic, colorist, and gender prone topics, but missed such opportunities to put out videos about the Amber Rose vs Joceline Hernandez controversy, or the Spice vs Erica Mena situation. Hmmm...

[@blackwomentoday]

This is such a great series, these tropes need to be fact checked.

[@gregorywalker6802]

Ladies, You all have hit the wall and let me tell you the wall is undefeated...... Lol

[@hottstepher]

I had 1 child at 37; married to his dad. Also have 1 degree