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[@ForHarriet619]

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[@Melanated483]

Hello, duh 😂😂😂 They have a HUGE ISSUE with Patriarchy and the GAG is they are ANGRY 😡 & JEALOUS that other Men 🧔🏼‍♂️👨🏼‍🦰🧔🏻🧔 have a Patriarchy because it worked & is working for them. So they take this vitriol out on Black Women (All levels of Abuse & Identity Crisis), meanwhile they’re actually sustaining themselves via another man’s 🧔🏼‍♂️🧔🏻👨🏼‍🦰🧔 Patriarchal System.

[@juliuswilliams1438]

I don’t know if podcasters use this , but maybe you could use a compressor so it limits your voice above a certain level or keeps the volume up above a certain level.

[@ForHarriet619]

@@juliuswilliams1438 I have one but it wasn’t working yesterday

[@thecateyedoracle5087]

HOW CAN I SPEAK WITH YOU!!!

[@thecateyedoracle5087]

We could shut it all down let's have a conversation!!!

[@TheAyisyenne]

Connecting the dots would require empathy, which is inexistant in BM who have made a choice to hate BW. You can only have empathy for those you are not actively dehumanising. Furthermore, it's easier to punch down when you have no power. It's the coward's way out.

[@trinaewatkins2804]

...its very disappointing. It reminds me of the song “Self Destruction.,” but through self genocide.

[@freethinkingMILF]

This

[@thespadestable]

@TheAyisyenne - No power...As in BM? So says the BW who has next to zero so-called "power" than the BM. And what is this power you BW continue to spout, because as reality continues to show, everyone, in every social economic level, is out here scratching and clawing for the crumbs and pieces of the pie. Your comment alone highlights just how shook and brainwashed to fear something that does not exist has been implanted into the mind of the BW. And when the BW participates in the single motherhood, all of which is by design, the BW/Black mother indoctrinations that falsehood into their offspring; making them less of a threat in the dog-eat-dog world of adulthood. The Black mother took to the mountains that they could do it all by themselves, they were strong and independent, but it's funny how the product they put into the dating pool, be it that of the past three generations (Gen X, Millennials, Gen Z) both men and women have disagreed and continue to disagree with the inferior products they have and continue to run across. The dots individuals like yourself continue to fail to connect.

[@em.415]

@@tyrreloneal5178 Christian Smalls, a black man, is one of the few black male examples of punching up.

[@Sugarglitter]

I don’t think men lacking empathy is race base, lacking empathy is something inherent in all men. Imo

[@Ebthehousesitter]

It’s never about self improvement. It’s always about making someone submit to them. Honestly, a lot of these men are a lost cause because they don’t even attempt to evolve beyond what they are. They love a system built on denigration and violence.

[@ladybug3380]

I think we’d be so far ahead as a species if men took the time to self analyze.

[@tabmana960]

AnD Bw aR3 puRRrf3ct!🤪🙄

[@kavuela4422]

@@ladybug3380 😂 this echo chamber of a channel must really make your lives much better.

[@knuclestheechidna5406]

Are you serious? We are always taught self improvement while y'all are only taught how to demand and take from men.

[@audacity2hope645]

@Eb’s Race. Iyanla focused on submission and patriarchal male/female stereotypes. What I think some miss is the generational difference between the two. Iyanla, who obviously didn’t value herself, chose poorly 3 times. And, now, she says she’s no longer interested in marrying, so easy for her to say she’d marry a bus driver.

[@moonlightauras1]

Certainly not all women prefer tall men. Not that height is a factor in men mistreating you, but I swear tall men treat their height like it's a personality trait and I'm too short to spend the rest of my life constantly looking up and somebody who acts like that.

[@teancoffee208]

I hopped onto Twitter for the first time in over a decade and I was blown away by the casual misogyny. Left and right- [mainly] men blaming women for every issue in the world and shitting on them in the process. And the misogynoir? Puh-lease.

[@taginefc3189]

Men on Twitter are unhinged AF, it’s really disheartening.

[@Nisa1971]

Wiillful blindness = not connecting beauty biases to colorism, featurism, texturism.

[@sabeenie21]

So be traditional and stay at home and let him work, but you better not want to date a man who makes money (hypergamy) so that you can be traditional and stay at home and let him work. 🤔

[@francisikwueme1688]

As a guy myself I have commented on this on many redpill or manosphere podcasts . Their thinking mirrors a Microsoft Excel circular reference 😂

[@sabeenie21]

@@francisikwueme1688 🤣😂🤣

[@francisikwueme1688]

@@sabeenie21 Damn you drop dead queen 🔥🔥🙏🏿

[@jaymt1982]

If you judge people using shallow superficial standards don't be surprised if those same standards come back to bite you in the ass. For men if you put this idealised standard of femininity and use that to judge women don't be surprised if they also want you to be 6ft tall and earn 7 figures. You get what you put out. The society and societal standards you create are what you will be judged against.

[@katmouse1781]

Ding ding!

[@The1GeminII]

Exactly this!!!

[@tonyagibbs1963]

💯

[@jnyerere]

Bars.

[@babygirla5717]

This needs to be pinned or on billboard for these folks these dudes to see. 💯💯

[@_gonna_renew_my_sinew]

I say this often and I said it the most after I watched the red pill documentary. Their gripes are with each other. Not us.

[@las8883]

What's the name of the documentary you watched?

[@t_ylr]

A lot of guys just think that patriarchy = men. They are genuinely confused by the idea that dismantling the patriarchy will benefit them. Or they think, "My life sucks. So patriarchy isn't real." In these discussion we have to explain that while patriarchy privileges cis-het men, it's a net negative for the vast majority of them. It's good rattle of examples of patriarchy making life worse for men, but just make sure they're on the same page first.

[@moisturizedkev]

This forreal

[@magswolia]

Spot on

[@renee2658]

@empty shogun But on the flip side every unsuccessful society that has failed has also been a patriarchy.

[@moisturizedkev]

@empty shogun we have chaos now

[@t_ylr]

@empty shogun i mean define successful. Most of the famines and wars and genocidees were under patriarchal societies. You can read up on matriarchal societies from America and Africa. They seem pretty chill tbh

[@diminarchy]

Im a 5'2" trans man and ive been trying to tell my fellow men abt this for YEARS. Believe it or not, when i pass as a man they tend to listen to me 😑

[@cryaboutit7499]

Be a lesbian/tomboy then

[@Moszan]

​@@cryaboutit7499 what in the...?

[@Tobi_Eros]

​@@cryaboutit7499 How about you be silent!

[@MiniM69]

Offer them some bell hooks to read! Get in there, sir! Spook at the Door em’!!!

[@diminarchy]

@@Moszan he just wants more friends named Tom, unfortunately i already chose dimitri.

[@saddaldiab9952]

not only are you smart, but so darn adorable, you bring a smile to my face 🥲

[@danieljulien4099]

i love the editing of your clips! so dynamic, animated, over the top and brilliant! hahaha! it's like getting the core/nectar of your personality! love it! love you

[@audri6829]

Wild to me how men cannot connect the dots that what they so often complain about; ie providing, protecting, etc, is the result of patriarchy.. but they still want the benefits of patriarchy so they blame women instead. Thank you! A word.

[@_basedperry]

Do men actually complain about these things? Or is it men saying they’re willing to do this things, but you don’t like what’s being asked in return. Genuinely curious.

[@opeyemiadegoke361]

​@@_basedperry from my experience as an outsider looking in I think black men expecially want all the benefits that Alfa males which is provide , protect and lead gets but don't want do any of the the work that Alfa males do ...they can't provide , emotionally unintelligent there for cannot lead ,they don't protect because they are Lilly livered and her unecessarily emotional ....I am an African man and I perfectly understand by role as a man if I want submission I must be able to provide and lead and to do that I must be on my toes working physically, spiritually and mentally....black American men from what i see don't want to do any of this but wants the respect that comes with being alpha and since they can get and refuse to do the work they turned to slandering women and making them feel small and it so sad cos they are waging wars they can't win...women are the carriers of our legacies through birthing kids if they choose to stop we will all die out ..

[@The1GeminII]

@@_basedperry -Ummm, perhaps if they were actually marrying women, I’d be able to accept that’s what they would like to be doing (protecting and providing) Since they’re not, it’s simply humina humina.

[@JEPiper]

Men are asking submission in exchange for providing. Women are asking for money/security in exchange for submission. That seems like a fair trade to me. And there’s women out there willing to agree to this exchange…I just wonder why the men are not finding them and instead focusing on the women who don’t agree…🤔

[@shakirasmith6454]

@@JEPiper 💯💯

[@K7M80]

That’s too much work for the basic men Kim! They need us to project their Insecurities on. Queen, I see me in you ; thank you for your voice!!

[@bobsecret199]

Girlllll …you look three times better …LITERALLY! Please don’t undermine yourself by making such a comparison!

[@dominiquedoeslife]

💯

[@angelr5694]

The crazy thing is in my 30 years of life I've only heard about women talking about height in the past three years. The first time a former friend didn't go on a second date with a guy because he was too short for her and she already felt that she was already very short (she taller than me) and then every time after that, I've only heard women mention it in response to questions that men have asked them in relationship to it. My best friend married a man who was shorter than her. I had a crush in high school on a boy who is shorter than me. It is not the main thing women think about when they think about a man. Men talk about height more than the women that I've met and known throughout my life, both professionally and personally. I literally had to explain to my brother's friend the other day, that as a woman who is 5'1" if you were 5'6" and told me you were 5''9" or 5'10" I wouldn't know the difference b/c idc.

[@Sammy-nj3io]

with respect, you are below the average height and that means a man who is average height is still taller than you. Seeing how the average guy is taller than you then maybe that plays into why you don't care about height? I am a woman of average height and its uncomfortable standing beside a short man... makes you feel huge. Shallow of course but the truth. It goes both ways, men often don't want to date a woman who is taller than them so a large part of the dating pool is off limits to me. But if we continue to question why we feel away about our preferences and normalize odd couple pairings then maybe we will see change

[@angelr5694]

@@Sammy-nj3io Agreed. Also, thank you for your insight. It could be what was normalized for me to your point. My grandparents were the same height as each other. My dad was around the same height as my mother. As I was growing up when the girls liked the guys from school, height was never really a thing. It was an extra, but not a requirement.

[@Sammy-nj3io]

@@angelr5694 that's the way I hope it will be for everyone one day, people making connections outside the superficial

[@khem127]

Only men prefer to Project on women so much that their projections incapacitate them. Instead of asking women they'd rather indulge in these ridiculous scenarios that make them miserable, Pitiful!!!!

[@staciamj1]

Yes. I briefly dated a man who was 6’4”. I’m 5’4”. Hated it (it was weird) and it went no where. I couldn’t do it.

[@lesliewit]

🖤🖤🖤. . . "You KNOW every fuckin' thing!"😅 Kim channeling the spirit of Harriet in this moment! I LIVE!

[@RhomboMus]

Actually never really thought about height being a patriarchal standard. I know its superficial, but thats 💯 👌 You rock!

[@newjustice1]

It’s not, no man thinks a short man is less than a man, women think that. So that’s why it’s a thing

[@ladybug3380]

@@newjustice1 men make fun of other men for their shortcomings all the time 🙄

[@mariebourgot4949]

@@ladybug3380 if it was only make fun, they can be physically attacked too.

[@rejectionisprotection4448]

Short men make less money than tall men over a lifetime. I bet it's not solely women who are making those decisions.

[@sepharcallwood2422]

I’m 4 ft 11 and really tall men scare me. Imma leave ‘‘em alone. Okay

[@DeadricSummoner]

I’m 5’8, bald, a retired athletic build and finally coming into my financial strides. The one thing I’ve noticed about this whole gender war is that everyone is trying to move themselves up the social hierarchy by finding demographics to punch down on, but when it’s (insert group here)’s turn to be marginalized against they want to form alliances with people they punched down on and will go back to the regularly scheduled program. Hierarchies need to only exist in work and government outside of that it’s just somewhat exhausting especially as a black man to figure out where you rank at. Hopefully in this century we can see the extinction in a social hierarchy because our survival has stopped depending on it.

[@WillOrng]

Only one small group of multisectionally privileged people get disproportionate benefits of divide and rule...

[@thecadencekyle05]

These short men don't be much better. I'm 5'5 but dominant. Love men shorter than me. You'd think short men get no love, so they'd be so happy to have my attention. Nope, still be choosy af and cheat, lie, not communicate like taller men. 😭😤

[@tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t]

You have my sympathy. I love big black men, but the ways we are picky… THE WAYS, Chile.

[@lorenzo1753]

Love men shorter than me. Says no woman ever. 🤦‍♂️

[@innocentnemesis3519]

@@lorenzo1753 so who are you replying to then, if not a woman who literally just said she loves shorter men? Stfu dude lol

[@rdkirk3834]

@@lorenzo1753 You said you are "5'5 but dominant." Maybe short men are fighting against dominance enough out in the world that they don't want to come home and fight more dominance. Maybe short men don't equate being dominated with being loved.

[@bobsecret199]

(They) They have EVERY right to be “choosy af” …and NO men who are REAL (normal) men would ever willingly “choose” a woman who is “dominant!” A “dominant” woman is not something ANY man “chooses!” It is something that SOME men _SETTLE_ for …due to a scarcity of better options!

[@samariam3043]

Keep em coming girl 👏🏾

[@VocallyYours3]

Gotta catch’em ALL!! 👌🏽

[@MsLotusBlooms]

I hope black women will want to devote their attention to other things in the world than men. There is so much that we can contribute to. Actually make the world better than we found it. That takes time, energy, commitment, passion, and focus. None of that is possible when you're consumed with trivial things.

[@Commune-n-tea]

Mam you said a mouthful! I’ve been waiting on a comment like this.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Thank you!

[@beewoke]

That’s why Iyanla point of view was so misguided. She was essentially saying that women should change their behavior to get a man-any man. We should be trying to be our best selves and often that happens when we realize that there are things outside ourselves which should be the focus.

[@dkt4377]

Being a wife/mother is a trivial thing?

[@dkt4377]

​@@beewokeIylana challenged Eboni's relationship expectations... the type of guy that Eboni desires is frankly not checking for a woman who is middle-aged and well past her prime child bearing years.

[@scarletkittyeyes]

love this!!

[@BeeGeeTee]

Lmaoo I need more of this! Let me slide to the Patreon real quick and sign up

[@ohmaimai3511]

Thank you for all the work you do, Kim

[@cynthiarose4056]

Love you sis. You’re spot on as usual👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@moisturizedkev]

Haven’t watched the vid yet, but title is spot on….: I do hold space for my brothas, cuz most of us did not get ANY system analysis given to us- mfs don’t hear about intersectionality until they getting dragged on twitter lol…. All of that to say- the praxis has to be taught to the youth.

[@vandabiss]

i’m obsessed with this energy 💜

[@vitoria.no.c]

Absolute fire 🔥🔥🔥

[@vrichards4363]

You Betta TELLEMMMM 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tylerhackner9731]

💯💯💯

[@beemocha]

@0:54-0:56 it’s the “Precious” reference for me…I LIVEEE! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@Cantetinza17]

I was half sprouted from a Short King, so I'm open to Short Kings, but a lot of them are not overly open to me. So I guess they will be angry and still short all by their lonesome.

[@bobsecret199]

The short men that I know (MOST of them) have MUCH hotter and better girlfriends and wives than most of the tall men that I know. A coincidence? I don’t know. But there is most definitely a REASON that men, in general, are NOT “overly open” to YOU! And you’re quite DELUSIONAL if you think that ANY man should _SETTLE!_

[@briebanks8915]

Reminds me of my Bow Wow argument. 😂

[@tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t]

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@KarmenAli]

HOW COME!? 😂❤

[@lbjcb5]

TRUTH!!

[@yourfavoritepessimisticexi8041]

As someone who is also 5 feet tall, I prefer dating a "shorter" man who is still taller than me. Like 5'7. There is such a thing as being too tall for me lmao.

[@theman9048]

Because how are you going to sell your male training course if you actually point to these issues.

[@MsAnnsBanans]

LOUDERRRRRRRRR

[@cd1452]

Loving the ❤hair

[@KMBence]

So mad this video was pay walled b4 i could finish the livestream🤕

[@Jabari-vm6jq]

As a gay black man who is also short (at 5'7), the best dates I've ever been on, the best relationships I've ever had (romantic AND platonic) have been with men who were around my height or shorter. And don't get it twisted, patriarchy and tall niggas running amock is very alive and well within the gay community as well.

[@hikariluanGC]

I’m white and short. I have dated a couple of tall black guys and I was taken into a journey that bothered me quite a bit. Not saying every tall black gay man is like this, but they tended to fetishize the color of my skin or want me to fetishize theirs and that really made it for a very weird interaction, mainly because I felt like I was being racist for engaging in those behaviors. Most black guys I dated that were around my height or a bit taller weren’t here for none of that bullshit. It made it way more comfortable for us to deal with racial and privilege issues that arise within an interracial relationship.

[@Aniexo_]

Lol I’ve dated a man shorter than me. He was the best BF I’ve had. He that biggest Personality I’ve ever seen. 😉 I think he felt like my family was eying him and made him uncomfortable. We didn’t last he broke up with me. ☹️ he’s treated me the best out of all my exes. I didn’t care that he was short

[@bobsecret199]

(Sigh) 🙄…But THIS conversation is for and about normal male/female relationship dynamics sir. Please ↗️

[@peteadenuga]

@@bobsecret199 normal? pls get over yourself. the effects of patriarchy also spill into queer spaces.

[@bobsecret199]

@@peteadenuga Ummm …YES. I said “NORMAL” …and if you’re curious or confused ….sir “…NORMAL” by definition would be: that which is the *NORM!* - you’re welcome. 👍🏽

[@Hooks2013]

AND ANOTHER THING...!!! say that shyt again....and again...

[@k.alvarado6237]

Kim, your hair looks great.

[@disorientedbutterfly]

Looking Beautiful in that pink top Kim!

[@Tijggie82]

Just started dating a short guy (in my country 😜) and he seems so cute and cuddly 🥰. Hope he also turns out that way in terms of personality 😅

[@badboygoodgirl]

💯

[@cvzdez]

I feel like i'm becoming so much more or we are becoming so much more aligned in some of our views these days. Before we started to be a little bit separated I still always respected you. I do believe that people can have different views and respect each other as long as they're honorable people and I've always thought you be honorable.

[@nikki9966]

I love her🤣🤣

[@damnkevindeaderthanamf6068]

Actually, black men problem is BLACK MEN not women or Patriarchy

[@SHIVAAAA100]

Girl give the links on your hair 😭😭

[@mw7845]

I think the heightism is a reaction to centuries of women being valued primarily for our bodies and the criticism that comes with that. And it’s clear that height (and 🍆 size) seem to REALLY trigger some men. So I see the temptation to hop on board (especially since boys have made fun of me all throughout school for being tall among other things) but height really doesn’t matter to me! Still never dated a guy that was taller than me

[@khem127]

Think they mad they not women???? I've begun to wonder!!!

[@mw7845]

@@khem127 no fr, I heard someone say men will get a woman pregnant to humble her. ANd i do think it's because they're mad at the system THEY set up (or perpetuate). Certain women get treated better just because of how they look and I think they're jealous of that and the fact that women are just more naturally powerful in a non-dominating way. It also seems like men will date women to slowly chip away at their confidence in general. Idk if they're always aware of what they're doing, but being in a relationship has taken a HUGE toll on my self-worth

[@SW-oc2pp]

Grateful my dad is shorter than my mom so I never been hung up on height! Ive had some dope relationships with shorter men

[@InlandDiscoEmpire]

Each day, women never fail get more and more pathetic in my eyes lol. ALL women, from all walks of life. The desperation is getting sad at this point.

[@productioninquiry8937]

Short men biases and disability bias transcend race. Anti-Blackness is specific to Black women/people.

[@sharronewilson4761]

Oh yes they’re especially in the politics arena, big time!

[@cvzdez]

I am 5'3 It is weird dating a guy that is 6' tall. I prefer men closer to my height 5'8 5'6 5'4 5'5

[@Potentialaj]

Yep its the patriarchy and American capitalism and yet men want to support both

[@hr9336]

So matriarchy and socialism is the answer? At least the cream rose to to top with capitalism and patriarchy. You just have to get out there and compete.

[@Potentialaj]

@@hr9336 how about we start with a more in depth look at how we can make capitalism more fair? 🤔🤔 because what we practice is CRONY capitalism and its destructive af

[@TamTam9-15]

Most CEOs are 6ft plus I believe we have always had a president over 6ft, most sports require height or height gives the advantage men created or run these things yet shame women for coveting these things. Men created the culture women just followed suit. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@ForHarriet619]

And following suit is a choice. We do have agency.

[@TamTam9-15]

@@ForHarriet619part choice part subconscious biological attraction. The men are just upset because the majority can’t measure up no pun intended

[@genesismakeup]

Not to go off subject but your hair is gorgeous.

[@TheOriginalScorpioBelle]

1:06 all I imagined was a room full of bm wondering silently to themselves about what an analysis is. Lol 😂

[@MeMyself984]

Girl!!! 🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽

[@_hue.and.me15]

have you watched Swarm. Please watch Swarm - I really wanna hear your thoughts

[@timtim9o5]

Honest question(s) though. How is the acknowledgement of these biases as patriarchy going to change peoples desires? And what actionable steps can any one individual actually take to better their lives despite the disadvantages which patriarchy confers unto them? I know its just a short clip, but at face value it doesn't seem like a pragmatic solution to the many plights of the disgruntled/disenfranchised.

[@jenniferw7928]

Education can shift people's desires over time by giving them new perspectives. But you can only educate someone who sees you with enough value to listen. These patriarchal men have ignoring women baked into their ideology, so there's nothing for black women to do about it. Men can educate themselves and attempt to educate other men using Kim's talking points and the research she links. What more do you expect?

[@PassportPowell]

I'm intrigued to read the responses to this question.

[@jnyerere]

Kim is giving us Friday Church Service with these clips. I need to just give in and join the damn patreon cuz Kim is spitting bars upon bars.

[@kiyokochanable]

.it's the "Not my N.." for me. xd

[@cookee888]

Because the" bro code".

[@nwatson2773]

I’ve given up on the make gender. Time to have a smoothie and sunshine!

[@cmunnerl]

Unfortunately they lack empathy

[@zico739]

No man’s problem is patriarchy. What nonsense.

[@heyoka33]

The exclusion of men by height (5'11->6'5 )being most attractive))is a reproductive choice by women not men.

[@corruptionfighter6279]

What is he working with physically and mentally because if you can't converse with me after good times, or can't converse intelligently at a professional event, then take your tall self and find that person who wants only that in you cause you are cramping my style and I dont have time to have my blessings blocked!

[@seadavid]

Men listen to women to find their preferences, when will women listen to men to find their preferences ?

[@khem127]

men are either not listening or not undersanding.

[@porscheamartin]

As someone who’s 5’2…. I cannot with the tall men. It’s just weird. I don’t like it. And I hate when they think being tall gives them a personality 🤮.

[@fibonacchio-matrixjones6064]

Maybe a bit off-topic (apologies), but I've found it as difficult to listen to a BW's viewpoint on BM when she refers to them as "niggas", as it is listening to a BM's viewpoint on BW, when referring to them, as "bitches". Not criticizing & not saying change/don't vent; but (out on my limb) I'm thinking most BM don't want to be called "nigga" by a random BW, and most BW don't want to be called "bitch" by a random BM. Maybe basic, foundational respect is a good place to start? Ok, off my soapbox and moon walking my "dusty" back where it came from now 😂 Damn sure don't always agree, but damn sure give love/respect (where it's due). Y'all be good/safe.

[@ryanbelt918]

5'7 Comment for the rhythm of Al Ghoul

[@MindHeartBodySoul]

I just want to say-thank you for your work & being courageous enough to put yourself and information on front street. You’re appreciated.🤍✨

[@ForHarriet619]

I appreciate that!

[@Kk-fj5tn]

😂😂😂😂😂…heightism!!! 😂😂😂

[@Daft_Sage]

What is patriarchy? I heard a lot of things that I don't think are connected or at least not straightforward.

[@yanissax]

Napoleon spoiled it for all the short guys...

[@thespadestable]

@Yanissa X - Napoleon was 5-7, which was the average height of a Frenchman at that time. Napolean had picked his personal guards who were taller than the average Frenchman. But why bring facts into this comment stream?

[@olilumgbalu5653]

Men of any height will get away with whatever they can vis a vis women so I don't really feel sorry for short men.

[@karlwilliams8625]

Why do women in general want a man that has all the characteristics of an ideal patriarchal man and also tell men Patriarchy is the problem?

[@innocentnemesis3519]

You ok, Karl?

[@karlwilliams8625]

@@innocentnemesis3519 I get triggered by hypocrisy.

[@laplusbelle7982]

Cuz women have also been poisoned by patriarchal philosophy just like men have. They’re victims of patriarchy

[@mackbigtmack]

Most women confuse themselves on a daily basis.

[@LockheedMartinEnjoyer]

That also the problem they reinforce the idea, therefore cause the endless loop.

[@biafranowandforever.7161]

How is wokeness scholarly?? Please working outside of the home is not all it's cracked up to be.

[@sj5218]

Ohhhh this how you act on patreon? Yeah lemme go head and get into it ! cause you ain’t playing no games, eat them up and bury them honey!!! I loveeeee loveee loveeee your commentary !!!

[@CajonesandCannolis]

😂lol omg 🤣🤣🤣 i have gone on over 500 first dates and for sure the tallest generous and empathetic men cap at about 5’9 🤣🤣🤣 everyone taller than that is usually self centered and ignorant 🥴

[@GrandArchPriestOfTheAlgorithm]

The Recommending Numbers have not abandoned you, they're just late.

[@nadaleenatasha]

Not my nigga 😂 yasssss sis

[@jayyetron5785]

Right 😂😂

[@pauloskidane2819]

A black karen tryna sound cool, smh

[@hunchocgb135]

Best advice im give you black women DONT NOT DATE EAST AFRICANS SUCH AS SOMALIS OR DONT DATE ANY NORTH AFRICANS I LOVE YALL WOMEN

[@sidewest2778]

Not Kim excluding her man lol.. Kim enjoy your man girl😂....

[@Carlyon100]

That is why the colonized and the colonizer suffer so as the system feeds off itself as well as feeds off others it deems inferior

[@darrylsimons-gr4is]

Where is your,husband.

[@bluebellbeatnik4945]

You don't need to comfort short men just as short men (or any men) don't comfort women who do not meet beauty standards. Don't fall for it.

[@ahmorgan]

But shouldn't you be aiming to be a better person? These echo chambers champion becoming the same people you despise so much.

[@fracyoulongtime8123]

Is this a joke? Wow!!!!

[@TheDCbiz]

As a bro, I'd like to know why so many women have so much animosity towards men in the chat? I kinda understand but I feel a lot of pain in these comments bro

[@rikitawimberly775]

To be fair Kim.. you have publicly said you don't care if a man is short or tall but you are 5'0. I don't think it means that you wouldn't play into this patriarchal standard. Probably about 95% of men are taller than you. If you were 5'10 would you date a man who is 5'6?

[@ForHarriet619]

Idk. But I'll say that I make a whole lot of money, and I've dated men who make a fraction of that. So I rebuff patriarchal standards of masculinity in a couple of ways.

[@rikitawimberly775]

@@ForHarriet619 understood and I have also heard you say those things several times so no push back there. I was just pointing out that the height situation might just be a matter of circumstance and not an anti patriarchal stance. But you're not 5'10 so we'll never know.

[@khem127]

The fact that 5'1 is a common height for women, and most women are fine with someone around their height would mean that shorter guys have no prooblems in the height department unless they all want to date 5"10 model types. So what's the issue.?

[@heyoka33]

The lie is to say that women have no agency in selecting males,( male peacock feathers anyone) and so it's all a man's fault.( My previous comment was deleted)😅😅😅