"Your tank is always FULL, when it's not getting DRAINED" is so poignant. And ACCURATE.
@codymoe49862 ай бұрын
Speaking of accuracy, the quote was "Your tank is always full when there's nothing draining it."
@nkola02212 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@SaturnPhase2 ай бұрын
Trevor's plane analogy was the the last piece of the puzzle that I didn't have before. I gained insight about my childhood from that alone. Very astute, Trevor Noah.
@tanyaerickson6123 ай бұрын
I love Trevor! Still miss him on The Daily Show! He gets me right in the feels, loved his book! I'd love to wrap him in bubble wrap for protection, but his wisdom, compassion, all comes from his struggles.
@robotdowney2 ай бұрын
Gonna sound strange, but what an honest comment, I feel the same.
@MogulTalkWithDarcelLaurie2 ай бұрын
The Daily Show is not the same since!
@sara_sofia_19843 ай бұрын
Trevor Noah is so wise, I love to hear his thoughts! Thank you for this 😊
@univers3683 ай бұрын
And handsome 😊
@sara_sofia_19843 ай бұрын
@@univers368 Yes, I think he's handsome, but he's not my type. His personality is my type though...
@univers3682 ай бұрын
@@sara_sofia_1984 he is my type all over, but it doesn’t mean our paths will cross. So, type or not, that’s not the point.
@eme.2612 ай бұрын
@@sara_sofia_1984 -- Trevor's sensibilities are magnetic. His emotional intelligence, coupled with his impeccably logical mind and respectful demeanor leads me to truly admire him. He possesses qualities that are rare in most humans.
@paxdriverАй бұрын
If only Neal had the maturity to have made the most of the opportunity and rise to the occasion...
@freshnas12 ай бұрын
So much of what Trevor said resonates with me. I’m mistrusting of people but am overly trustworthy to compensate. In my mind I’d be the ideal person for someone else but don’t trust anyone to be like that with me which in turn turns people away from me. I’m intentionally closed off so I never get put into a situation where I’ll get hurt, self sabotage. But something I long for is connection.
@smurfette64992 ай бұрын
I could’ve written this 🥹
@cosodesign89532 ай бұрын
Same 😭
@1XclusiveFBA2 ай бұрын
❤
@Lunarosa92 ай бұрын
Same 💛
@SAFlowers2 ай бұрын
The same, i would be happy with a person who is the same trustworthy person as myself. I don’t trust anyone but can be naive ((
@kellyshpeley2 ай бұрын
Trevor is so smart. I always am left enriched when I listen to his words.
@dunmatta26703 ай бұрын
Trevor hit the nail on the head. The communication is really the key and it sounds so bland and generic but it's true.
@Suzoebas2 ай бұрын
So true. You may perceive and interpret something one way, but the other person meant it in another way. Either person won’t be on the same page unless you talk about it.
@Infunktable3 ай бұрын
Neal is such an excellent interviewer and asks blunt and interesting questions. He always seems genuinely invested in his guest's stories.
@Wastl9692 ай бұрын
I HIGHLY recommend attachment style theory for everyone. It can be an absolute eye-opener. Not necessarily to save a relationship you are currently in, but to learn about yourself, your emotions, and eventually get better. Childhood trauma can be repaired, and hypervigilance and mistrust can be replaced with a secure view on all kinds of relationships, not just romantic ones.
@supersupersomething2 ай бұрын
Yes.
@rd7663 күн бұрын
Yep, he’s a classic DA
@lady4recovery2 ай бұрын
Trevor’s whole story about relationships and childhood was actually my story and at 68 I’m not sure I will ever have the ability to surrender my self sufficiency. So hard
@MogulTalkWithDarcelLaurie2 ай бұрын
I love how self aware Trevor is! I would loooove a convo with him.
@k.e.l.58893 ай бұрын
I really needed to see this. It's so refreshing.
@lady4recovery2 ай бұрын
Such an insightful set of interviews especially Trevor
@hi-jo5py3 ай бұрын
It's nice to hear about people in what sounds like healthy relationships. Further convinces me not to look back
@joguestin2 ай бұрын
"The great philosopher Ali Wong once said: 'Clarity is kindness'."
@Triplemother2 ай бұрын
I miss Trevor. I really enjoy watching these clips of him on interviews.
@MrXFloАй бұрын
How’s this man’s channel not blown up by now ?!
@tanyawalters87752 ай бұрын
I can understand of being self sufficient. I am as well. Always be yourself so the right person can love you for who you are. Wish you the best Trevor and hope you find the right woman for you
@samottientertainment281Ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@Mbalz7792 ай бұрын
I think me and Trevor would really get along 😊
@SAFlowers2 ай бұрын
The same 😂, everyone might think that about themselves
@julsweaver3 ай бұрын
"I didn't wanna hug" 😂
@coreycox2345Ай бұрын
:)
@themelle25 күн бұрын
Trevor is the kind if guy you would have a convo with and you'd feel so fulfilled ❤
@RealMsLedo2 ай бұрын
Being very self-sufficient my whole life it has taken me a long time to learn how to ask for help. I’m still doing my best to practice it, but it’s probably always going to be a little difficult.
@Triplemother2 ай бұрын
Really enjoyed this whole segment ❤ Learned a lot about myself hearing from these beautiful honest men.
@ahnanda682 ай бұрын
I thought this was going to be a comedy show... I kept watching anyway. The part about the pilot at the beginning yep when I told one he did a great job and it was an exciting flight he said he was really scared!
@laurelsfaves2665Ай бұрын
Always amazed by how insightful Trevor is !!!
@sonatak3043 ай бұрын
I am so annoyed that I learn so much from Trevor Noah's crazy reflections on life, it's not like he is 100 yrs old.
@eme.2612 ай бұрын
😂 It certainly can be disconcerting.
@codymoe49862 ай бұрын
I've come across multiple social media comments over the past decade, in which 40-50 years is considered "ancient". You being annoyed that the comedian above, isn't 100 years old, is pretty much identical... Noah is in his 40's, AKA middle aged. How could he NOT have attained some wisdom on "the way of things" in those 40 years?? Especially considering his unique circumstances??
@sonatak3042 ай бұрын
@@codymoe4986 LOL You know what I love? Your sense of humor.
@okaySamАй бұрын
@@sonatak304 thanks. I'm going to steal that line. God knows I'll need it
@Lalee04122 күн бұрын
That's great to hear, I hope it's doing you good
@respectmychocolate3 ай бұрын
Wow Trevor is ME TOO THE T!
@MonstroInLA2 ай бұрын
When people cancel on me it’s the best feeling…I felt that
@Triplemother2 ай бұрын
Damn Marc, ya got me in my feels. Lol
@thePocketWatch453 ай бұрын
wise as heck!
@GuineaPigEverydayАй бұрын
The point about parents losing credibility is SO real, especially when one parent is abusive and the other tries to pretend like everything is fine and keep telling you ‘he’ll be better this time’. My mom kept giving my alcoholic narcissistic dad second chances, never once a consequences for his childish tantrum meltdowns where he could get so violent and aggressive, and after a while ur parents are not ur parents anymore, becuz ur the one having to be self-sufficient and acting mature and completely composed trying to prevent ur abusive parent from blowing up again, appeasing and pleasing them all the time, walking on eggshells every day becuz ur other parent can’t assure you the very basic necessity of safety & security. By that time they can say all they fucking want but they’ve lost all credibility as a parent and you feel like you can’t depend on others, never trust to ask for help or trust people again.
@JeanetteMoseneke3 ай бұрын
Loved these conversations ❤️
@kayvanity3 ай бұрын
Damn Trevor gives good word 😏
@Savagefred2 ай бұрын
Very good at oral
@brys.3131Ай бұрын
Wow, what Trevor said about seeing those clouds and not knowing if he can trust the pilot really hit.
@slickawolfАй бұрын
Hat metaphor got me. 🔥
@sparkpaulАй бұрын
Hats analogy got me! If I’m one size fits all that hen I don’t know who I am.
@aubreydeangelo2 ай бұрын
Neal at the end of the Bill Burr section was funny and relatable. Definitely had to grow and be challenged with an emotionally intelligent and vulnerable man.
@ercyvp2 ай бұрын
A man who goes with the truth from the get go... Oh, yes, Trevor, I'd still quarantine with you any day ❤❤❤
@perfectlycontented2 ай бұрын
I can relate, Trevor
@denise.macedo2 ай бұрын
Wow Trevor is the best!!
@DoubleGoat9Cap-Gem-Sag2 ай бұрын
I once read in a Psychology Today Magazine that the beginning of a relationship generates a chemical in the brain similar to speed. As time passes, the chemical is more like Morphine.
@yasminedey86122 ай бұрын
Trevor is the only celebrity I ever have/had a crush on 🥰
@KipArmadillo2 ай бұрын
Trevor Noah's an incredibly insightful guy.
@matthewdar8862853 ай бұрын
Trevor is ❤❤❤
@jacobdakshak59192 ай бұрын
Trevor Noah’s childhood is more or less closest to the opposite of what i’ve had to go through. i’ve been told my whole life i’m never gonna be good at anything only to find out i might be a “genius” who’s been dumped down my whole life and now accepting the fact that i am better than i’ve always been told is a completely different nuance that’s tricky and difficult to accept. i need help getting past that
@jessicaarma53012 ай бұрын
Trevoarrirrrroreee 😂😂 sa pa sayy
@josephuia3 ай бұрын
"I'll point to you when its your turn to talk" 😂😂😂
@ChazLang2 ай бұрын
That drunkeness, in poly circles, is called New Relationship Energy (NRE).
@okaySamАй бұрын
Trevor is spitting nothing but facts. Jeez.
@Phoenix-nl2ut3 ай бұрын
I’m so glad I’m single.
@Ms.coconut9283 ай бұрын
Same me…hugs ❤
@SFChick415Ай бұрын
It’s called the “honeymoon phase” we’re behaving from our conscious mind and later on we”ll be acting off our subconscious mind once the honeymoon phase wears off.
@Mari-Ama72 ай бұрын
1000% !! ❤❤❤
@Chalepastel3 ай бұрын
yoooo neal, wassup with all the sex bots in the comments dude?
@GTORT3 ай бұрын
Dude for real😂
@nomad15172 ай бұрын
I feel like people think that when they get into a relationship, everything is going to get better and they're pain will alleviate and human flight is possible, etc. And they also think that not being in a relationship makes them weak or they are missing out. But, i see getting into a relationship like making your first million. Sometimes you make it in your 20s, sometimes in your 50s. You could lose it completely. Or make more. Its a game of chance and sometimes you find a great one, other times you could end up abused or cheated on. Take your time, get your shit together. Find the right one. I mean. We all saw what Courtney love did to Kurt Cobain. And we saw his down fall. Guy had it all, but couldn't handle the stress, the physical pain, and the mental pain. Thought the fame and girl would fix him. It didn't. Snl had a skit where adam sandler is a tour guide. And hes like: visiting another country wont cure your depression. You're the same sad guy in italy as you were in the US. 😅
@samottientertainment281Ай бұрын
😊🙌🏽
@jenniferlacoa13782 ай бұрын
Look into Alison Armstrong and Laura Doyle!
@mohauntabanyane87133 ай бұрын
3 men with 3 different philosophies. I love it. I'd listen to Bill Burr more, he seems like the kind of guy who would tell me the truth. Marc is believable and genuine, and self-aware. Trevor listens to female therapists a lot.
@GuineaPigEverydayАй бұрын
Wtf does ‘listens to female therapists’ even mean? That’s a bad thing???
@mohauntabanyane8713Ай бұрын
@@GuineaPigEveryday Trevor uses a lot of emotional language, he appeals to emotion, not the truth.
@NahIamgoodАй бұрын
@@mohauntabanyane8713 sorry to break it to you but the human brain is not primed to look for the truth, it's primed for survival and that involves keeping us away from negative emotions and constantly creating narratives for justifying that avoidance. Emotions are a real thing that absolutely drives human behavior as much, or sometimes even more, than logic. If people are aware of this fact they can actually see the truth and not let their brain lie to them and hide behind a false sense of logic. In reality, judging someone for acknowledging how emotion affect their judgment, and feeling better then them is just your brain pumping up your ego and keeping those negative emotions hidden under the false sense of logic.
@yasmines.96252 ай бұрын
NOBODY IS TALKING ABOUT NARC AND ERKAH
@SeaSerenity2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@jdevo253 ай бұрын
I don't always get the "Blocks" aspect of the full pod, though it seems like they're representative mental blocks for the subject of the interview. Sorry if this ruins the joke of it. The pace makes it difficult for me to catch on to the production of that aspect of the narrative you try to cultivate within this box. All those notes aside. This works better for me; admittedly because the subject matter resonates with me. Well done, jog on[not British, just like the turn of phrase].
@KHOAKURA2 ай бұрын
Ice cream for breakfast?
@user-gj4ez6qj2z2 ай бұрын
Man, Trevor Noah is attractive
@teamilosevic71332 ай бұрын
Finally, a male perspective
@priyanka_patil_2 ай бұрын
❤
@astrid.00.72 ай бұрын
Trevor: my tank is full. Republican: Crazy Catwom- Huh? Oh. An intelligent, strategic, responsible man.
@RealityBytes442 ай бұрын
To the last segment about casual sex and not wanting anyone to get attached to them…y’all have money, maybe just pay an escort and not fuck with women’s hearts?
@sukma-uc2mz3 ай бұрын
Focus on giving each other peacevof mind and heart. By realizing no longer faceblife alone makes relationship more meaningful. Eventually love must calming if not not love. Fix relationship or end relationship respectfully don't cheat. secure our resources protect our mrntsl health respect our relationship.
@jmalvika3 ай бұрын
lol.. this is all men talking - have u been drunk in love and then not wanted to go to the farmer's market? Lol. it wouldnt work if you were not drunk. That's what let's you do all the foolish stuff in the first place. And then you have to readjust, create a new reality. There is nothing like carefully forewarning and being ultra careful.
@pianomi75963 ай бұрын
Whats wrong with clarity? Why is it cool to know in advance you wont see him/her again? Sad
@AdopteeHonesty2 ай бұрын
I don’t fit anybody’s else anymore 🤷🏻♀️
@naomirison24932 ай бұрын
Is that why he doesn’t date black women? He naturally doesn’t find us credible for safety like his mom on denial of the abuse?
@Morenita57010 күн бұрын
All of the white comedians had the same amount of abuse or MORE and still date their counterparts. Cows 🐮 don’t date fish because their cow mommy was being abused by their cow daddy.
@WholesomeHenri2 ай бұрын
One of these is not a comedian
@jasminemohsin82322 ай бұрын
Who would you say is not one?
@kimberlywylie72412 ай бұрын
Testosterone vs Estrogen - and the lack of emotional intelligence on both ends
@prestonaaronson2 ай бұрын
Trevor Noah I’m reading your book Born A Crime and this shit is ass as fuc but my moms paying me to read it because I’ve been harsh on immigrants