Checked My Wife's Phone and Discovered Her Plan to Cheat...

Checked My Wife's Phone and Discovered Her Plan to Cheat. She Was Texting a Coworker About Coming Over While I Was at Work.
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0:00 - Story 1
13:53 - Story 2
#redditrelationship #redditupdate

[@tommyvercetti4687]

23 yo, married for 5 years, and have 4 yo daughter? damn dude.

[@emetanti]

Textbook speedrunning.

[@hotshower695]

No wonder the divorce rate is so high

[@hotshower695]

No wonder the divorce rate is so high

[@hotshower695]

No wonder the divorce rate is so high

[@DairyCat]

Imagine finishing high school and getting married right after. Wild.

[@Afghanisstan]

"CPS was called." you sure she is not a terrible person?

[@RepellentJeff]

“He was bagging at my register one day.” Aiming real high there, lady. 🤣

[@GodlyWodahs]

Bro gaslighted tf outta himself in story 1. She was definitely a terrible person bro. I know he sees it in hindsight.

[@454fire]

Literally zero sympathy for the guy in Story 1. He is literally giving a million reasons why she's a bad person, but he's saying, "Trust Me, she's a good person".

[@kingthe13]

Good I wouldn't want your sympathy ether. It was obvious that he was still blinded by love and it would pass but because he still held some belief there was the person he knew in her he deserves no sympathy. Sympathy is rather useless to begin with but what's worse is people like you who instead go you deserve it cause there not as jaded as you or me

[@454fire]

​@@kingthe13 What is your point? That because he was delusional in the name of love that he deserves unconditional support? That if someone has nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all? I'm calling a spade a spade. To my fault, I probably could've expanded further in my original comment as I honestly didn't really have anything against the guy in his original post and his first couple updates as I thought he was handling the situation quite well, but his lecturing to the readers at 10:30 is completely unhinged and made me lose respect for the guy. She may have been a good person when he met her and earlier in their relationship. That is something I cannot verify, but the extent he goes to defend her when she is the one who wronged him is unfathomable. For example, he says to not call her a tramp/a bad person, yet she was found to be texting the person she said she blocked and even went to counseling for, and ultimately she moved in with said guy after their split. This is the equivalent of telling someone to not call someone who stole from a store a thief. It is illogical and the fact he's asking us to not have negative thoughts for his ex-wife is unreasonable. He makes all these sort of excuses for her saying she had image issues, that this was the first time she's worked in a while, and that she didn't mean to hurt him with her actions. Cheating is always a choice and that is no different in this case. The fact he doesn't even have any respect for himself makes it hard for me to have respect for him. And you are right, sympathy is useless in an virtual sense. No one is genuinely gonna have any real sympathy in a completely anonymous story. But the fact he is the victim in the story and I am able to form an opinion where I hold disdain for him is pathetic.

[@rhiarebecca2000]

She saw the post and saw him mention the postnuptial agreement he wrote about and she was like ‘nah I’ll keep cheating and leave him now’ because she’ll still gain stuff from the divorce where as if she signed that then cheated then she’d get nothing.

[@cadehill816]

Didn’t you hear him mention an at fault state?

[@rukiakuchiki6187]

She only sorry because she got caught

[@NigraeLegiones]

Not a terrible person? She cheated, that makes her a terrible person by default.

[@blueflameSM]

"She's not a terrible person...." meanwhile, then OP lists every possible reason why she has been an awful person. CPS was called for suspected abuse, and she's still not a terrible person? This guy is fucking delusional, we don't need to know her personally to know she's a shit person.

[@jestosebno666]

Married at 18? What could possibly go wrong?

[@arhael3594]

All the same things that could go wrong at older age.

[@TheSergio1021]

It's not a matter of age. There are marriages that last way longer than most that started that young. It's a matter of choice and duty.

[@krs1297]

Cap ​@@TheSergio1021

[@agx8447]

As much as any other marriage. You don't decide when the right person comes into your life, so if you think that they have you may as well go for it. Divorces happen in marriages at all ages, not just in youth

[@TheCountryGoblin]

What was the point of him posting when he constantly defended her, said he would ignore advice from commenters, and just says “you don’t know me or her”. Well then take your simp card and get off the internet. Cause idk what you are looking for

[@CosmicAeon]

The best part was that the internet knew her better than he did. Every time he said "she won't do X" she did it immediately, and he claims she's a good person yet she literally abused her own child. Yeah even an internet stranger's assessment is more accurate than this guy's lmao.

[@rhiarebecca2000]

Also she would have had him round and kept it going behind OPs back but cancelled it and confessed suddenly because she knew he saw the messages, if she didn’t know he’d seen them then she would have had him round right away

[@user-ve4hy3dg5j]

Former and latter only works between two choices. Not three choices. That is what happens when a grunt tries to use big words or thoughts.

[@jimmygarza8896]

It can also work if you split it into two groups. The former two and the latter one in this case.

[@user-ve4hy3dg5j]

@@jimmygarza8896 yes, but, the choices were A) stay together… B) stay together… C) divorce. The way that would work with a former/latter would be; A) stay together blah, blah, blah. Or B) divorce.

[@TheNaughtySenpai]

Can't feel big without trying to insult someone, eh? Origin of the word "Latter": The word latter derives from the Old English word lætra, which means later or more recent. While it is typically used in reference to a choice between two options, it can still *technically* be used to refer to the most recent of any number of options given. Yes, it is odd to hear and may confuse some people, but he was not incorrect in his usage of the word.

[@DarkEinherjar]

Once a cheater, always a cheater...

[@putent9623]

Bro 1st story OP said he wouldnt resent her, she is good human being and blah blah blah. After the timme skip bro said she got what she deserves and he will forever resent her. Lmfoaooo bro was so up his arse a before the time skip. Obviously he will resent her for what she did. He was just coping.

[@ronaldocruz4594]

The fact that he's still defending her by saying she's not a terrible person despite cheating on him emotionally and maybe physically just shows how weak he is honestly i have no sympathy for him but i do feel bad for the daughter tho

[@DairyCat]

She's also a garbo parent. Gives him FULL custody? And then gets her 2nd child taken away by CPS? JFC.

[@davidm.9751]

Its a common theme that people do to spare themselves emotional turmoil. Gaslighting oneself, lying to oneself. He swore she was moving out to another state and wouldn't be with the AP but where did she end up for four years? He swore she's a good mother and good person, but who's child was taken away by cps for child abuse?

[@happilyevernever4289]

He's not weak. He actually is quite logical. He has great mental fortitude. He does not cower in the possibility of his ex retaliating in the ugliest way possible, but he knows her well enough to know she wouldn't do it. And he actively chooses so his daughter and himself don't suffer any longer with her. That level of maturity, to not lower himself to be vindictive. Is something to be praised. I'm jealous of such powers.

[@sosamma090]

"She is not a bad person. She just cheated on me and my daughter with her new man and then she didnt want any custody of my daughter. She immediately moved to her new man's house after she told she wouldnt even talk to him. Then she had and lost her second child to CPS for abuse. I swear she is a good person"

[@jaylarkin4331]

The price of being a decent man is being called names by anonymous ppl on the Internet

[@TheSergio1021]

She opened up Pandora's "Box" lol

[@Maninawig]

Story 2: "oh mom, your memory is gone? Well, we better get you evaluated for dimensia then"

[@fluffyomega6809]

When she does it again, that's your fault, bud. Not hers at that point.

[@fluffyomega6809]

Welp nvm. I finished it. The fact you tried after that. Still is a wtf lol

[@stevenmanson6720]

Yes blame the victim Well done

[@wolferr100]

Sometimes people still try and give second chances. Ya just gotta be smart about who you give them too, she ain't one of them lol

[@kingofgames2992]

Ehhh...I agree but also I would do the same thing due to the fact I would want proof of cheating & the affair before getting a divorce since it would prevent me from giving her hand outs and help me get more custody over the child...not to mention help me get a more favourable division of assets. The court system trends to be bias as anything against males when it comes to stuff like this so I would want to protect myself

[@isrln]

​@stevenmanson6720 someone who gives cheaters second chances ain't a victim anymore. He's a moron

[@Olimar92]

"It was like electricity" yeah, that's called a static shock.

[@jayallen9198]

These Simps are insufferable

[@SSFighter1701]

23M…. Married for 5 years with a 4 year old daughter? Yeah that might be all the problem right there…

[@KenW418]

18:31 Why are you rerunning that part of the course. You're literally in creative mode. Just fly back up there.

[@theartalli]

I love how we’re both paying attention to the gameplay more 😂

[@KDannXII]

2nd story: what goes around comes around. serves MIL right

[@cloudyboy1756]

This whole story was pathetic and sad

[@MisterNoah]

"she said she stopped, so I'm staying" Get 'welcome' tatted on your forehead

[@CosmicAeon]

Dont forget: "I dont think she will lie or cheat again" - she cheats again. "She won't be seeing the other guy anymore" - she runs straight to him and has his children. "She is not a bad person" - literally gets caught abusing her own children. I don't think anyone deserves to get cheated on, but if there's one person who is so hopelessly naive and a terrible judge of character that they would just happily be cheated on forever, it's this guy.

[@darthphume9337]

Story 1: bro all you had to say was she was from Florida!! That’s a done deal lol 😂

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

These stories are entertaining. Just not the other story from the other day. I couldn't move on from how bad that was

[@umagovindarajan4339]

Married at 18? Childhood sweethearts hearts ? Still having a 4 yo kid while studying???? 😳🤨.....

[@Ianna80]

@6:18 My husband & I went 6-ish yrs w/out s*x & was working 50+ish hrs @ work & not once... NOT f*cking once did we cheat OR just walk away!! Ppl who cheat for these rsn's it is COMPLETE bullsh*t!! If you truly love some1 you either walk away instead of cheating or get through it together, PERIOD!! To ppl who might say "liar" we met young & NO I'm not lying!!

[@vn_1]

I wonder why young people have so low selfesteem. I would've left in an instant even if it was just a text.

[@gijosh2687]

If she found the post. It's a pity party post. He is doing it to save face. Garbo

[@NeilTruick]

Story 2: If OP's husband seriously bought OP's story that MIL's cake was a mistake, he's a moron.

[@NeonColored]

lmao, if I was married with kids and got cheated on I would sue the shit out of my wife and make sure she never gets to see the kids ever again :) ShE's NoT a TeRrIbLe PeRsOn ye sure buddy

[@Swampgurl777]

What I wanna know is how in the hell do these people FIND their posts if they’re on Reddit with a screen name that’s not their real name ??!!?

[@BeyonderGod]

Naaaah dude tooooo forgiving

[@darthbiscuit]

The husband's in both stories are such losers it's a headache

[@sakatagintoki944]

Oh how the little piggy will squeak when she learns how the old boar had suffered

[@DraknusX]

Am I the only one who thinks the tea mentioned in story 2 is Yorkshire Gold?

[@ailavayuu5190]

bro in story 1 irritates that fuk outta me lmaoo

[@user-de3yb5vu6m]

It was just your turn my guy

[@cheesesteak]

Doormat!

[@oofroboxislit]

This sounds oddly like my old coworker except 2 step daughters and 1 bio daughter

[@manmeetsoven]

You know it isn't fake because no one admits to going to waffle house when upset.

[@someone-zw5ro]

Op was a doormat

[@muggyate]

story 1: 23, married for 5 years, 4yo daughter, man must be a speedrunner.

[@arcadius3257]

Getting married THIS damn young is so foolish lol.

[@TheSergio1021]

It's not. Being unfaithful is foolish

[@shellshockedbros4458]

No, it isn't. That is literally what 90% of humans have done for the last 1500 years. You all over-glorify childhood and think that 18 year olds are incapable of rational thought. Thats why you think the way you do.

[@arcadius3257]

@@TheSergio1021 No, being unfaithful is evil. Marrying young is foolish because you're jumping into a life long commitment after you essentially just left the damn tutorial 🤦‍♂

[@TheStraightestWhitest]

No, it's the better idea.

[@peepawfart]

its soo stupid like there are 8 billion people on planet earth. I promise you that dude you've been dating for 5 months at 19 will not be the same man in 4 years, stop getting married so damn quickly. These people make LEGAL life commitments before their brains are even developed only to act shocked when 10 years down the line their partner isnt the same and they dont get along as much as they thought, after all. smfh

[@SoldierOfGodwyn]

SC squad where you at?

[@christophernoble76]

dude should've posted on an alt account, also just swipe off the screenshot notification.

[@jolynnsouder7745]

In Story 2 I understand kids are Mommy boys but you need to stick up for your wife Get a backbone i dont know how she deals with that i would of said byeee

[@peterjackson1430]

Another SIMP story!

[@jadesorono6694]

Nasty 😢😊

[@chrisj.1608]

I mean I get it she's your wife and you love her I get it but at some point you have to take off the rose-colored glasses and understand that she made the decision to cheat she can come up with a thousand excuses but at the end of the day instead of being an adult and actually discussing what happens in a marriage because it's between two people she made the decision to solve the problem by cheating and she only didn't cheat because you caught her had you not caught her she would have happily cheated and then left you and your daughter

[@_lei_c_8138]

I really respect this guy, his maturity is commendable 👏👏👏 hope to be like that one day :'3

[@Pre82jm]

Don't worry I will happen soon😊

[@CosmicAeon]

"I dont think she will lie or cheat again" - she cheats again. "She won't be seeing the other guy anymore" - she runs straight to him and has his children. "She is not a bad person" - literally gets caught abusing her own children. Yeah I sure hope I develop his amazing judgement of character 🤣 He's my idol.

[@_lei_c_8138]

@@CosmicAeon I don't think you know what maturity is, bud. What I appreciated in him was him remaining so civil even after such heartbreak and even refusing to talk badly about her. Hoping that the person who wronged you isn't as bad as suspected is nothing but human nature, it's not the best mentality to have, but still normal nonetheless.

[@ha-kh7ef]

The truth is the wife is a young woman that is thinking about how much she is missing on life and stuck with a child. She settle for something in her mind "boring" seen it many times. In truth the woman just wants to be promiscuous without the consequences. Also the guy is a doormat. Bro. She would have done it if she didn't get caught. The other dude was just trying to get some. Of course he said the right things. Also personally, I would sleep with other women while she is not allow to. She literally broke the trust. Doesn't deserve anything.

[@shaohao19]

Cringe af.

[@BelgotLeons]

Story 1 doormat believes in karma ... after what he lived though did he murder a puppy in his past ? 😅

[@moxee33]

S2. op should make friends with FIL's first wife.