Childhood Bully Is Mad That I Got Her FIRED r/Relationships

[@kristinewatson3702]

Tash's reply is just as entitled and self serving as any bully. She definitely confirmed everything that OP said.

[@arsonleblanc2005]

For me, it's the fact that even the way that she explains her side makes it sound like she's in the wrong

[@dionysus_adores]

She didn't learn sh, she made herself look worse. What a disgusting thing to demand from her victim. She shouldn't have made any comment on op hair in the first place. Also, calling someone fat and you don't belong here isn't a joke.

[@Davtwan]

Even if everything what she said is genuine, it only made her look woefully ignorant to me. Many bullies sweep their past under the ring, not realizing the habits they developed in their development years is leaking into everything they do from behaviors to diction. She is a textbook example on why you shouldn’t just run away from your past behaviors. They don’t go away by ignoring them. Edit: And I see she broke in OP’s house. She knew what she was doing. Literal sociopath.

[@sophdog2564]

OMG the comment by "Tash" is so entitled. "She took away my opportunity to apologize by blocking me" and all that other stuff was hilarious and I'm glad she was fired

[@sophdog2564]

​@Bluebirbas right? How horrible. At the very least, Tash is so socially inept that she thinks saying "you used to be ugly but now you're not" is a compliment, but more likely she's still a bully and is trying to make excuses now that she's facing consequences

[@lifewithlee6298]

She was in the house 🏡!!! Wtf 🤬!

[@sophdog2564]

​@@lifewithlee6298 yeah that update was something else 😬 I made my comment before that

[@shannonphillips3521]

RIGHT?! tash is acting like trash. She's decided op is just sensitive instead of acknowledging that her actions were hurtful or that they were bullying in the first place. It doesn't matter how you meant it if you're causing others pain. Also one minor complaint does not get you fired. Unless your job is shit which isn't really applicable to teachers/schools most of the time.

[@sgm8265]

Right. So because she tried then, when seeing her again instead of apologizing her first instinct was to insult her. Such growth. OP relaying the incident to the school, when asked, and later to friends, again when asked, is not bullying. Only a bully sees being called out as bullying.

[@browhattheactualfu-2659]

Tash really looked back at the conment she made and said "Yeah, this’ll win em over."

[@jam2727]

💀💀

[@pippo17173]

This is is what happen when parents don't discipline her.

[@kingsevil5255]

Lmao exactly. Tash is definitely firmly in the malignant personality disorder category.

[@CroobieLetter]

probably what works when she talks to the shared "friends", however in writing it's not so impressive.

[@DivusMagus]

That is the sign of a true narcissist.

[@fufufuaru]

It sucks what OP1 went through, but on the bright side, Tash destroying property and trespassing now made it WAAAAAY easier to deal with her for good.

[@cgi2002]

That's not destruction of property or trespassing, that's straight up breaking and entering with a side order of harassment, stalking and potentially even threats to life.

[@thanos8077]

Story1: It's Tash thinking she's owed anything from op ,her entitlement,and playing the victim for me when it's all her fault for me 🤣

[@lifewithlee6298]

Tash sounds like trash 🗑

[@grinningweirdo4888]

Tash: opens her mouth Reddit: UNLEASH THE GATES OF HELL

[@t123tina]

It a fake post

[@sopadumacacoumadelicia5]

@@t123tina Ok tash

[@ComaLies225]

That update to story 1 is hella scary. I’m glad Tash got arrested and op was able to press charges but Jesus that escaped quickly. Also I’d love to be a fly on the wall to see the reactions of the mutual friends who defended Tash. Ain’t no way anyone can defend this

[@vanzy01]

I'm pretty sure those "friends" would be begging Op to drop the charges against Trish.

[@pippo17173]

Tash went insane and believe the world is her kingdom. However its good she did that because now everyone will see her as a horrible piece of crap.

[@SakuraMoonflower]

LMAO they'll try. Those "mutual friends" aren't friends at all. OP would be better off ditching their gullible, dumb asses.

[@amberaseltine3012]

Give the enough rope they hang them self. She did that with mote raping around her neck.

[@wargamesmaster]

Any chances "Tash's friends" are concerned by the lawsuit?

[@starbird3939]

Story 1 - NTA It is pretty apparently that Op’s complaint was the last straw in a pile of complaints against her. It was not just OP’s complaint. It is said that bullies, when they grow up, take jobs where they can continue bullying people: Police, Teachers, Nurses, Care Homes, and Receptionists. And it is pretty apparent Tash is continuing to bully her students and the parents have complained. Tash has shown no remorse, even as she responded to Op. Instead of truly apologizing, she still puts the onus on OP for “blocking her” and “not taking a joke.” She should not be caring for kids.

[@Red-jt6uu]

Exactly! I’m not surprised that this bully went onto become a teacher. Education is a field that draws a lot of petty tyrants who know that they don’t have what it takes to lord it over adults, so they choose to pick on minors instead. Talk about pathetic. I’ve also dealt with a lot of nasty receptionists and nursing is notorious for having a mean girl culture.

[@Ospyro3em]

ah yes, the narcissist's prayer- "That didn't happen. If it did happen, I didn't mean it. If I did mean it, you deserved it" or words to that affect

[@draconicfeline6177]

Narcissists are a plague upon this world for sure, and they never change.

[@scepticalhyenas5750]

I love when people pull the _"well now YOU'RE the bully!"_ line of bs, it's the same flavor as the _"resistance or retaliation of any kind against your attacker makes you JUST AS BAD"_ ideology but with the added spice of someone growing up cruel, obnoxious and entitled and never being made to face consequences for any of it.

[@paulineisme]

It is obviously clear that some people have thankfully never been bullied because they have no idea what bullying is. Reporting abuse is NOT bullying. If your actions are repetitive and you lose your job over it then reporting is the moral thing to do. Some people should be fucking grateful that they are completely out of touch regarding bullying because if they had been (the hard way) they wouldn't survive a day in the victim's shoes.

[@spookerredmenace3950]

story 1, Tash is a bully and is playing the victim , and bullies always will play the victim when people call them out on stuff.. as for the updates when you get those type of threats is when you get a gun,

[@zebnemma]

I just gotta say that the bully girl in story one saying the school is "her terf" just made me laugh. She sounds like a well adjusted person haha. /s Edit: Now after I heard the entire story I was right haha! She's truly unhinged!

[@PowerStruggle555]

Tash's reply seems like justifying her actions: -oh op blocked me before I could apoligise...would you allow your tormenter to be able to reach you when you move. -(restaraunt story) "It was a joke".....jokes for one can be hurtful still. South Park did a story where Kyle's dad was cyber bulling everyone (to point of suicide) and said it was only a joke. -saying someone used to look aweful...bringing it why, etc is a backhanded compliment...still an insult The person you bullied reacting is not bullying the bully. She needs to realize op was only the straw that broke the camel's back...or in this cause....the complain that got her fired

[@gl8172]

Yep. Everything she said was just a pile of excuses to try to explain why nothing she did was really her fault... and not even plausible excuses at that. They had mutual friends they stayed in contact with... if she genuinely wanted to get an apology to OP, she could have. But she didn't; she just wanted an excuse to say that she'd tried, so that she could tell people (or herself) it wasn't really her fault. It's nobody's responsibility to make themselves permanently available to a bully just on the off chance they decide to grow up some day, and decide that their future non-bully status hinges on apologizing to them specifically. Cripes. She even did get to talk to OP again later, and went straight back to her same old tricks, so that excuse goes right out the window. There's no expiration date for acting like a sane adult; she could have chosen to be a better person on any of the subsequent times they saw each other, if she'd actually wanted to.

[@juanhaines7295]

Story 1 nta can't believe some people thought op was "bullying" tash. Hopefully op can get Some home cameras. Also I think tash was waiting on them to come home to off them.

[@khaavren3]

they have a bad case of pot-kettle-itis.

[@yaff1851]

A good narcissist never runs out of flying monkeys.

[@charles0322mrsdani]

The reason there are teachers who are bullies is because fellow teachers, parents, and administrators do not speak up.

[@charles0322mrsdani]

This is also why tenure should be outlawed

[@qq84]

@@charles0322mrsdani Tenure is no problem but there has to be options to discipline / fire people who aren't doing their job properly.

[@motheroftears25]

All I am hearing from Tash is "Oh poor me! I lost my job because I could not say anything nice and act like an adult! Oh poor me!" Spare us! Tash needs to get the hell over herself! The fact she got caught breaking into OPs home and got arrested was gold! Yeah breaking into someone's house to just talked really helps your case Tash! Not!!!

[@PinkMarshmallows]

I was laughing the ENTIRE time when "Tash's" comment was up. 😂 The ENTITLEMENT!

[@pippo17173]

Its so rare to see that and I fucking love how insane that read.

[@Davimez]

Holy pie I read the comment. Yeah she just really changed for the worse. Plus that update Jesus this women needs to be locked up.

[@PowerStruggle555]

1st story: If Tash had changed and had no complaints but OP ratted her out of her past for revenge...that would be different. But Tash started with the insult right away...and it turns out there were other complaints. who knows about what and to whom. she couldve been bullying the kids because she felt superior. school was told but thought exageration...till Op (an adult with no disabilties) said she bullied her and insulted her just now

[@myounakami]

"I honestly do not remember the restaurant incident, but even if I did say fat people weren't allowed, it was probably a joke. I think Allie is just as sensitive as when we were kids" Ah, the good old Narcissist's Prayer: That didn’t happen. And if it did, it wasn’t that bad. And if it was, that’s not a big deal. And if it is, that’s not my fault. And if it was, I didn’t mean it. And if I did, you deserved it. I'm glad OP was able to get Tash away from those other kids (especially since it sounds like she was victimizing them too if she had prior complaints); maybe getting fired and facing the consequences of her inappropriate 'jokes' will finally light a fire under her butt to be a 'better person', but I highly doubt that's going to happen given the way things have panned out so far.

[@Nicoleapanda]

Story two was really awesome, dad is a strict soldier man but upon seeing his son after getting back ( who know doubt looked scared shitless ) and finding out his wife was pregnant he reacted how a father should, with love and support

[@atinyevil1383]

Story 1: I had a teacher do this sort of thing to me in middle school. Thankfully, she wasn't my teacher, but I was in her room to get extra help. I am bad at math and have needed help with it throughout my whole schooling until I was in college. So I was in this teacher's bonus class for extra help. I'm not a visual learner, I'm an auditory learner with ADHD that was undiagnosed at the time, so I would draw in my classes while listening to what was being said. This is a method I used in college and it got me very good results. This teacher saw that I wasn't looking at her and said something along the lines of "hey, purple kid". I didn't know she was talking to me because I was wearing magenta, which isn't purple. It's closer to pink. So I kept doing what I was doing, thinking that the lesson would continue. She kept trying to get my attention until I finally looked up since I was wondering why there was no teaching. She told me I needed to pay attention and I said that I had been. She said obviously I wasn't since I didn't know she was talking to me. I said that I didn't know she was talking to me because she kept calling me "purple kid" and that for starters, my sweatshirt wasn't purple, it was magenta. Not like calling me "magenta kid" would have made it better, she should have just used my name. When I said this, she mocked my tone of voice (which was just my regular voice, there was no inflection in it) and said "it's magenta". I sat there going wtf. Here I was, a 12 year old being childishly mocked by a woman who was at least in her mid 30s because she didn't address me in a way that I could understand and doing so in front of my peers who already didn't like me. All of this to say NTA, teachers like this should not be in a position of authority over children. Especially children who have social issues already. And even more so that Tash already had complaints from other parents.

[@emeraldsword4528]

I wanted to drop out of high school entirely because of a teacher like this. I still regret getting my high school diploma. NTA: you saved your daughter by voicing your concerns early on. A high school diploma is not worth education based PTSD.

[@Gumbier_Than]

I'm sorry to hear that, can't think of a reason why that should have happened to you. I got nothing. So what I'd like is for your PTSD to be long gone in the rearview mirror; or at the least gone from speed bumps to gravel in the road. 🤘🏾

[@mayurakshimukherjee7948]

Story 1 NTA, you friend group is toxic, she bullied you but your friend group did nothing & now are jumping on you. After hearing to Tash, I think she us trash. Also when she meet op in person, she couldn't apologize? Tash shouldn't be allowed to be around children, puppies or kittens.

[@boi1796]

When the dad sAid “it’ll be alright, stay confident, I love you” made my heart melt

[@videofan1010]

We love a bully who continues to bully, then calls someone else a bully and blames other people for their problems...

[@PowerStruggle555]

there are some people who shouldnt be special eduction teachers (heck teaching in general). I was in special needs schools growing up and in middle school had a teacher from hell (if Karens have a stereotypical look....evil teachers do and she fit the bill). she was super strict and sometimes was a bully. For some reason she picked on me the most despite being a good student, with good grades. one day I felt sick with a really bad stomach pain and asked to let me call my dad to come get me and she flat out refused. calling me a liar and wanting to go home early (we had like 3 hours left) which I had never lied about being sick before.. took me a while to get her to let me call my dad (I still think she did just to shut me up). I went home where I was 100% sick...just...didnt know how much. fast forward next morning and I was being prepped to have appendix removed (doctors said it was very bad. LIke close to bursting) my parents did give her a piece of their mind first chance they got. calling her out on calling me a liar when I had never done so. would she still call me it I was in class when appendix burst? she did apologise but my parents saw her for what I had been telling them since I started having her a teacher. I didnt have to deal with her much longer as graduated a few months later. other students didnt have long to deal with her as she retired the following year to this day (23 years later) we talk about how she shouldnt have been a special needs teacher

[@SkyEcho751]

Story 1: WOW, so she never truly grew up. She is still a bully, and we can even see that in the comments, Tash isn't apologetic, she is defensive. OP turned around the moment Tash said something wrong, and that was the last straw. Tash ruined her own future by not keeping her mouth shut for one moment, note the comment "I do not think I should be fired for making an observation". And now she claims she was being bullied, NO you are getting fired for a STRING of bad behavior. S1 Update: So she claims she was getting bullied, and decides to literally break into someone's home as revenge for the so called bullying. Tash only became worse, and it sounds like she had a principal or school attendant parent(Or a rich benefactor parent) that made all her problems disappear. Now when in the real world she doesn't have the protection but doesn't understand the consequences WILL go through this time. Definitely good OP ran into her and saved an uncountable number of kids. Story 2: While OP is kinda young, he NEEDS to polish his backbone to stop his father from disrespecting. Next OP needs to step up and get out of the house, get a place for the new family and show the dad OP is a responsible adult. S2 Update: Never mind, OP did do the work of stepping up and getting all the needed stuff for the kid. And it seems the dad finally realized that being a hardass was straining his relationship with his son.

[@strawberrysangria1474]

"The third letter threatened to take me to court for stalking and slander and that I would pay". Oh yeah, like going to someone's house and dropping off threatening letters to the homeowners? That's not even counting what she thought she should do next. I hope she spends a good long time getting bullied by her cellmate.

[@anonymouse9833]

FYI for anyone reading: tenure doesn't mean a teacher can't be fired, it just means they have to do an investigation first (and it's not even a thing in a lot of US states)

[@owl7072]

Story 1: "You're BuLlYiNg her!!!1!!" The first thing she said to Op after not seeing her for _years_ was an _insult_ and you want to sit there and cry on her behalf because poor little princess has to face consequences for her actions? Cry me a damn river. Edit: LMFAO "I don't think it's fair of her to take away the opportunity for me to grow" You saw Op and decided it was on sight and insulted her _immediately._ You had plenty of time to grow into a better person and instead decided to wither into a worse version of yourself who spews venom the moment you see an old victim. "I only meant she _used_ to look awful!" Okay well it still came off as incredibly rude. You literally could have just said "Oh you look great!" and left the second half out but you _didn't._ Edit 2: I hate police. "We can't do anything unless there's a threat to you or your family" anonymous letters threatening to ruin Op's life and several texts from multiple people saying similar things isn't enough for you? 🤔 her escalating as quickly as she did is exactly why you should _NEVER_ just "wait until there's an actual/direct threat" because some people don't _make_ threats, they jump to literal crimes like breaking and entering, assault, and sometimes even _murder_ all while giving no threat or indication that that's what they're planning. Op's just lucky she was/is a complete and utter dumbass.

[@phoenixsky6124]

“Stay in your home as much as possible” “There is no threats to your family”. Which is it officer???? AH

[@Takisan111]

God I hate it when people tell bullying victims "Don't X or you'll be just as bad as them" like fudge off with that noise. And Op clearly didn't stoop to Tashs level, she only reported the truth as she was aware of it. If Tash got fired then that's the consequences of her lifes choices coming back to bite her in the @$$.

[@fallingawayfromthenorm]

Story 1 - If getting forgiveness is the only way she can grow, she isn’t actually going to grow as a person. People should work on growing, regardless of someone forgiving them when they apologize. Tash is still a bully and uses her tears and her own repercussions as ammunition to continue her harassment of OP as an adult. She’s a bad person, and chooses not to be better. Edit: Tash is absolutely out of her mind and a restraining order is needed. This woman is a danger. Glad she got fired and hopefully she either gets the help she clearly needs to be an actual rational adult or she fucks off forever.

[@rachaelclark8465]

Story 1) She brought this on herself. All you did, was tell the truth.

[@wildwikedwanderer1208]

Story 1: WOOOOOOOOOW NTA tash is utter trash how is anyone defending that bit.

[@barbaragarner9192]

Last story had me in tears because our militarily have strick regiment, but you gave your dad his soft heart to show, he's going to be a GREAT GRANDPA

[@notconvincedgranny6573]

Last one: I had my son at 20. I more or less "grew up" with him. But he was an adult, and I was ready to grab a backpack and go bumming around Europe when he and his girlfriend (now wife) came to me with their heads down and said - you know. I quietly and calmly explained that I had done my duty and I'm done. Then broke out into the "I'm gonna be a grandma" dance. We talk about the triple twenty - grandma 20 years older than son, son 20 years older than his first born. I'm so glad I stayed.

[@DindellaTheDefender]

Story 2: Make it a surprise for your dad instead! Throw a Welcome Home party and have the reveal being one if the gifts.

[@carrotisalie]

Did you listen to the update?

[@DindellaTheDefender]

@@carrotisalie , I did. : ) My comment was before hearing the update.

[@rishabhanand4973]

The comment on the last story, reminds me of something from the show schitt's Creek. Basically the son is getting married to this guy near the end of the series. But his fiance's parents didn't even know that he was gay, much less that he was engaged to a man. The son accidentally tells fiance's parents and their reaction was basically "I wonder where we fucked up that he felt so afraid to tell us"

[@Karenseiley]

"If someone says that you hurt them you don't get to decide that you didn't." I cant remember where I heard this but it was when I was very young and it was the best piece of advice I ever got.

[@megaman37456]

I'd be willing to bet Tash made all those accounts herself. She's a bully, of course she'll have alt accounts to help make her look like a victim.

[@pippo17173]

Its so rare we would see the awful person in the story trying to come in and attempt to explain it but then just blow a goddamn gasket and got herself fucking arrested in the next update. Now that is fucking funny to me.

[@VFKAdventureRabbit]

Hooboy, Tash has graduated from bully to criminal threat with the break-in. /So great to know she's only improved with age/ /s

[@PowerStruggle555]

this is why people are hesitant to post stories on reddit even if they change some info. There is a chance they will be found. this is the 2nd story in a week Ive heard where the entitled person found the redd it post. -One involved a woman finding out her bf was cheating on her with their friend's wife. she posted a whole plan to get revenge on him while eating dinner at his parent's house, expose him to his parents and get him fired (he was also sleeping with his ta). but he saw post on reddit and prevented the dinner. but she did get some of the revenge -now this

[@Rose-yt5hi]

I saw that revenge post. Sad the OP for that one got caught monologuing, but glad she got a little bit of revenge anyway. Lol

[@PowerStruggle555]

@@Rose-yt5hi best to gloat about revenge....after it. in case they see it. OP did get some of the revenge but not all of it

[@franl155]

I had to listen to the first story twice, and I'm still not sure that I've managed to wrap my head around it. Some people are just totally unbelievable.

[@jessilynallendilla5014]

bullies enjoy having power over people that's why they go into fields with vulnerable people such as nursing police and teaching I'm glad she lost her job can you imagine the years of damage and trauma she would have put on those kids

[@SnowyWolborg]

It's pretty funny how she wanted to apologize years after the fact, but doesn't realize that the damage was already done. This is why you treat people right from day one. You might not get another chance.

[@astronautviolet153]

Story 1 I'm so happy that Op pass charges against tash she's a dangerous to Op family.

[@kyriacarica5862]

Tash: This will surely get people on my side!! Narrator: It did not get people on her side.

[@damien678]

you know, you can be a strong, fatherly figure without making your children _fear_ you.

[@morgansmith9533]

First story Tash escalated quickly and second story Ops dad is going to be a proud grandfather

[@amberleeannalee1999]

I had a VP who told me not to bother coming back to high school because I wouldn’t amount to anything!! 20+ years later this evil woman became my daughters elementary school principle. Thankfully my daughter was a great kid everyone loved.

[@grimlingLennie]

Story 1: Sorry sweetie, it's not your target's responsibility to provide you with opportunities to grow, It's YOUR responsibility to work on yourself, the f'ing nerve of some trash. I'm glad OP blocked her enablers out of their life.

[@samssams666]

Hell, not even SpongeBob was ready to be a parent. 😅

[@tk6239]

Military parent...I was more disappointed that my daughter hid it for so long. I was so angry that her boyfriend left her to tell her father and I by jerself. But I love my daughter and my grandbaby...I was the one who took her to all appointments, rubbed her swollen feet and took her to the hospital. Don't under estimate a strict parent...most of us do love out children.

[@untiedshoelaces2588]

Story 1: The bully is a TEACHER!?!?! Poor those kids! I guess she chose to stay where she was at her peak. But classic bullying DARVO. Good on Tash for living up to the stereotype.

[@axepagode33626]

Tash: "ruined my career and only shot at life." What should have OP replied: "McDonald's is hiring" " There are a lot of great jobs with openings that you can do like, cow inseminator and sewer inspector."

[@qq84]

At McDonald's she may become manager and will be the next manager from the movie Compliance, that's very close to a real event.

[@a_hoovy_main5597]

isnt it weird on how many stories where op makes themselves the victim of a situation and the replies aren't everyone agreeing with them suddenly the other person goes crazy from out of nowhere and does insane things

[@alexanderhenby1362]

Last story with Military dad, OP needs to know one thing. His "father" is not going to be the same man as "grandpa" and that's okay. His child will have a different experience with him then he did. That was super hard for my stepdad whose father had been hard and emotionally distant with him, but so wonderful and sweet and happy with us grandkids (biological or not)

[@digitalharmony26]

If Tash really wanted to apologise, she would have done so the second she saw OP at the restaurant. What a cow. Also my phone autocorrected “Tash” to “rash” lol fitting.

[@Loaves_of_Cat]

Op should cut contact with those ladies cause they obviously don’t understand that the situation at all and think op’s a bully for having valid concerns.

[@alicewilloughby4318]

5:59 - Um... excuse me? Because OP blocked Tash (probably out of a fear of more bullying) Tash now says that OP took away her chance to grow and be a better person? She could have grown and become a better person without apologizing to OP! (Although an apology was certainly owed!) 13:17 - I'd say tell him right away before someone else does.

[@YouTubeSupportSucks]

Tash thinks consequences don't apply to her.

[@gabbyvegify]

One of the biggest lie they tell you as a child Is that bullying stop at eighteen.

[@garyanthony2440]

Bully as a child , bully for life. They become teachers or cops.

[@draconicfeline6177]

Sad but true.

[@raven44012]

LOL, my youngest is 29 and I’m still not ready to be a parent. No one is.

[@sequoyasierra5671]

How reakin' rude of Allie (OP) to not allow Tash to grow and change by blocking her, after Tash had been nasty to her during all their interactions. /s The whole Tash reaction was just so bullying. It is everybody's fault, not Tash's fault. It isn't that big a deal. If it is a big deal, it wasn't that bad, if it was that bad, it wasn't Tash's fault, and if it was my (Tash's) fault, Allie deserved it. This sounds so familiar.

[@barbaragarner9192]

Children are the incent of this world and they need to be protected, I don't have any but I think of them as the future, every kid I know I treat them like they are special, because the older we get knowing young blood makes us happy

[@s.m.gonyea1453]

I've had too many bullies who were teachers to count and unfortunately my children have experienced similar adult bullies in the education system. People who refuse to grow up and continue to belittle and demean others, especially children, do not belong around children. Period.

[@SnowyWolborg]

I think it says a whole lot that Tash decided to become a teacher. She just cannot get away from the school mentality in the school environment. She _needs_ to be there in order to keep reliving her own school life.

[@draconicfeline6177]

That and bullies love being in a position of power over vulnerable people

[@patriciaalastre2546]

Story 1 NTA: sharing my own story. When I was on my last year in high school in Venezuela 🇻🇪 we had this new biology teacher in the middle of the school year, on the first class she asked us to make a circle around her with our desks, and I happened to sit next to her. So we are in the middle of the class, and I ask if I can make a question related to the class, she out of nowhere slaps me in the face and tells me to shut up. I was in shock. Another classmate said I am going to the bathroom, and she left to get the principal, that was the last time we saw that teacher

[@zachf748]

Tash in the comments “Allie and I didn’t get along as kids” and her bullying was “just a joke”. What a miserable human being, downplaying everything and making herself a victim.

[@zachf748]

Lol at "Tash" justifying all her terrible ways and bullying, and making herself out to be a victim. She sounds miserable.

[@streamerssaymyname]

Now now, Tash couldn't possibly change on her own in her adulthood because she couldn't do the magical apology to OP as a teen. It's one thing to have a bullys past come back to haunt them, but this was all present behavior she was paying for. I agree on the narcissist prayer being lived in that womans day to day life.

[@Lillypop93]

I had a teacher bully tf outta me when I was in 6th grade told me I'd be "a bum living under a bridge smelling like pee working at McDonald's " 😂😂😂😂cause my mom slept with her bf 30yrs before I walked in her classroom she actually threw a binder at me

[@leonievanheerden7090]

Tash is so oblivious to her entitled character that she's a perfect example of the grandiose narcissist's inability to understand what they're doing wrong 😄

[@ditzyhere3138]

I really want to know what Tash's endgame plan was. Like, I could see her breaking into the house to terrorize them but just sitting on their couch? In middle of the day where other people cleary saw her? I wanna know what she thought she was gonna achieve and then how she intended to get out of it? Was she gonna tell them breaking into the house was a joke so they can't call the cops?

[@susankaempfer8427]

I love the cop logic that they can’t do anything but stay in the house as much as possible. 😂 So, are you saying there’s danger? If so, why can’t you do anything? 🙄

[@Dragonmaster0118]

Wow she was in the comments trying to blame her victim she has no self awareness.

[@kateemma22]

Tash didn't help herself by adding that comment. 'It was just a joke' perish. UPDATE: OMG the crazy witch got worse.

[@TheSignGuy1234]

Story 1: Gotta love it when karma coming to collect it's due. Some people never change.... If Tash truly was sorry she'd say something along the lines of "Hey, sorry I was such an asshole when I was younger. I understand if you can't forgive me for it."

[@CanonSkyrissian]

story 1: karma is a bitch and tash got her just desserts. someone like that should not be anywhere near children, let alone children with learning difficulties/disabilities story 2: op told his dad the perfect way imo. taking him to his apartment and showing him all the baby stuff showed without telling that he is taking responsibility and is about as ready as one can be to be a parent. best of luck to op and his girlfriend, I hope the delivery is a smooth and safe process. and that baby is gonna be so doted on by gramps, I can feel it in my bones^^

[@jdd9993]

Tash doesn't have a clue! She got what she deserved. My former bully in grammar school tried to contact me and I immediately blocked her.

[@jameyregier8054]

I really miss your funny intros, Markee! But I still listen all the time

[@kategallagher5610]

The dad stories got me, thank you. xoxo

[@therealsmilebit]

I'm so sorry you had to go thru this. The police should have investigated fit telephones harassment. I had an ex that just could not take no for an answer. It was horrible between the calls from him, his family, his exwife, his current gf and the gf husband. I had enough and went to the police who were absolutely lovely. My folder was over an inch wide. A real jerry springer moment... oh yes i got over a dozen calls from that darn show too. So chin up.and carry on. She just imploded her own life

[@jettanyx1]

This is why I don’t talk to anyone from my school days

[@user-fg4tn8ot6b]

Story one: Tash should've thought twice before being an AH to you, OP. What a nasty attitude. You did the right thing by keeping her away from your daughter. ಠ_ಠ Story one/after update: They're accusing you of stalking...when they're the ones going full-blown stalkers on you. Yeah, screw them over with those charges. And have the stuff they did as proof. They're disgusting. ಠ_ಠ

[@taliasimonerva5394]

i wanna bet that tash actually just tried to text her online to harass or bully her at some point, but she was already blocked by OP which made her pissed off and she tried to spin it into "op is so mean they blocked me i just wanted to apologise and be niiiicce"

[@cheekyweb8055]

That Tash girl kept on making excuses. She could of apologized to OP during that birthday party but didn’t. She instead called OP fat. 😑 She also had another opportunity to apologize meeting her as a teacher. Thank goodness this lady isn’t teaching kids anymore. 😅

[@Ecclectic_citcelccE]

There's a nice country song, "something to be proud of." Montgomery Gentry. It puts military dad's reaction.

[@isabellapearl291]

Thank god Tash got fired, she got a job as a Special ED so she could still be a bully but this time to people who couldn't communicate what she was doing. I'd like to see Op's friends' excuses for Tash breaking into OP's house, where her DAUGHTER lives. Good luck to Tash finding ANY sort of job once she's charged! : ) How did her friends not take into account the OTHER complaints Tash got?

[@Tyggs42]

hoooooooly crap, thank god OP "ruined" Tash's career. That woman around special needs kids would have been the stuff of nightmares.

[@axepagode33626]

How do I tell my dad that my GF is pregnant? Yo, Pops! I knocked up Maggie. Any advice?

[@FlamesofJagger]

Man... I just read story 1 on reddit last night. Tash is completely unhinged. Can't apologize without playing the victim, and doesn't understand why saying that someone looks better now compared to when they were growing up isn't a complement. Also, who the f**k breaks into a house to 'apologize' to someone they bullied? OP's NTA here. OP, good luck with the charges.

[@mindyschocolate]

Omg Tasha’s reply…😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Frightmarelordofthenightmares]

Jeez Tash was mad that the reddit users didn't side with her she broke into OPS home.

[@palindrome1959]

It would seem Tash is still delusional and not taking any responsibility for her past and present behaviour. Calling OP fat was just a joke? My wife is a teacher and I have NEVER, EVER heard her tell me some teacher she knows jokingly insulted a parent. In fact, that is the type of behaviour that ends careers. P.S And she is still bullying OP and had the audacity to break into her house. Once a bully ...

[@cornholiofromtitica]

I think these might be the wildest 2 stories in 1 vid EVAR!!! (it's an old big12warzone joke that EVAR stuff) Props to dad(s) That first story though... sheesh.

[@LittleImpaler]

Tash has serious problems. She will get tast of her own medince in prison. Market should do more reddit stories, where we hear the other side of the story.

[@immortalsofar5314]

"We can't do anything because she's tenured." Bullsh*t! All tenure means is that she can't be let go _without reason._ Abuse of children is definitely a valid reason and if the principal is incapable (or unwilling) of handling that then maybe it's time to put his tenure to the test. I know what the commenter means by the narcissist's prayer in real time. My ex had her faults but suddenly transformed and her excuses for her selfish behaviour made 3 full houses of Narcissist Prayer bingo with, given hindsight, a dozen examples of each.

[@venetabritt2771]

For the bully story. You "Tash" are still a bully. The op doesn't have to let you apologize, make things better, or whatever you think she owes you. OP, I was you...stay strong. One of my bullies has apologized, I am civil but not friendly. From our teens all through high school. We were both in our 50's before she apologized over Facebook message. Tash grow up already.