Girls Knee Length Hair Raises Questions After Suspicious Hair “Expert” Comes Out of Hiding

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Chrissie

Chrissie

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@ChrissiesWay
@ChrissiesWay 4 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure why people can’t comprehend my sentence but I didn’t say that long hair on black women was rare. I said that hair THIS long is rare and it is. For black women and every other race of women. I clearly said that black women can achieve long hair and it should be normalized. Please listen to the ENTIRE video CAREFULLY before making inaccurate comments. Thanks!
@denyshadials5702
@denyshadials5702 4 жыл бұрын
Jess So Real So when’s the last time you saw 10 different black women with knee-length hair within one month? 👀..
@jeezywhiz44
@jeezywhiz44 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! We can grow our hair but rarely to our knees. I thought this video was basically about products and the fact that they don't work. My daughter, who is 28, has 4c hair and it just would not grow for years. The last two years she put in a lot of effort and time into caring for her hair. It has grown and thickened tremendously.
@acoleman9036
@acoleman9036 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@denyshadials5702
@denyshadials5702 4 жыл бұрын
Taylor Burks Everything you just said-from both a man and woman’s perspective-is 100% subjective and depends solely on the individual..there’s no way to answer for you. Only you can answer that for yourself. Personally, I don’t think it’s right to prioritize your hair care to a man’s liking. *Being yourself should attract a man who prefers both your hair and your confidence.* Otherwise you can never truly be yourself with him and you’ll always be facing criticism or hiding behind a hair style..
@leahmay1506
@leahmay1506 4 жыл бұрын
People love finding things to be upset about, I swear. They can’t wait to be offended!!!! What you stated in the video was crystal clear, yet somehow people in the comments translated it to “black women cant have long hair.” #MakeItMakeSense 💀🤦🏾‍♀️
@guesswho9791
@guesswho9791 4 жыл бұрын
Wish people would stop acting like black women can’t have long hair. 🙄
@maijennasis
@maijennasis 4 жыл бұрын
Jane Doe unless you have an underlying condition you literally can grow your hair that long. As long as you’re alive, hair grows. It’s about length retention 💕
@kawaiikoibito3268
@kawaiikoibito3268 4 жыл бұрын
@Jane Doe exactly IT'S OK for a black women to have short hair it doesn't make her any less valuable and desirable
@guesswho9791
@guesswho9791 4 жыл бұрын
Jane Doe What part of genetics says we can’t tho sweetie?? 🤔
@Selanaxfanx
@Selanaxfanx 4 жыл бұрын
@@guesswho9791 That's not her point. Even white people, genetically, can possibly not grow long hair. White women arent using "magic" shampoos that cost 300+ dollars to achieve the very long hair lengths they see from KZbinrs. Its called realism.
@defaultone7574
@defaultone7574 4 жыл бұрын
Curls On Mai Right, hair f#cking grows.
@gleendastilin461
@gleendastilin461 4 жыл бұрын
The problem is, we were never taught how to take care of our real hair. I love how natural hair is becoming a movement because this generation will learn how to take care of their hair and pass that down to their daughters.
@Nicoleflygrl81
@Nicoleflygrl81 4 жыл бұрын
💯
@msshyswag
@msshyswag 4 жыл бұрын
Righttttt
@omcclain4459
@omcclain4459 4 жыл бұрын
100% right!
@carlbil3125
@carlbil3125 4 жыл бұрын
Yeees bc when I was younger all my mom did was perm and straighten my hair and then it got damaged so I cut it as soon as I understood u can have natural curly and healthy hair so now Ik that my mom messed up my hair but imma teach my future kids how to take care of their hair, and I’m goin natural now.
@TxBeautyQueen83
@TxBeautyQueen83 4 жыл бұрын
Say it louder so those in the back can hear.
@Ethereal-Flower
@Ethereal-Flower 4 жыл бұрын
Her hair still looks kinky . I think it's just weighed down by product . The "straightness" looks just like the Chadian women who use their Chebe powder routine . It's stretched and weighed down but if they were to shampoo their hair you'd see the curls.
@imtiredoftheseniggas6618
@imtiredoftheseniggas6618 4 жыл бұрын
Dahlia Remy Yup
@nuellatagbo893
@nuellatagbo893 4 жыл бұрын
When you have 4b/c hair and it grows really long it looks straight ish
@TeeRql
@TeeRql 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed; that’s what I thought the video was about (the Chebe powder) when I initially saw the photo for the video.
@CandiedCableKicks
@CandiedCableKicks 4 жыл бұрын
Dahlia Remy I’m not Chadian, but my hair has that effect too, when dry (and has products in it), it’s MUCH straighter, but shampoo will always bring out the curl pattern
@EmpatheticEmpress
@EmpatheticEmpress 4 жыл бұрын
Yup! When my hair was shorter the curls were tighter. As my hair got longer I know have what appears to be a looser wavier girl pattern
@carmenjonesrose3
@carmenjonesrose3 2 жыл бұрын
I literally went back to water and hair grease and my hair has grown so much. It went from shoulder length to mid-chest in a year. Our hair grows fast, we just need to retain length (avoiding breakage) at least for me.
@MONEYAINTATHANG100
@MONEYAINTATHANG100 2 жыл бұрын
In one year.
@sulpicioloaiza8274
@sulpicioloaiza8274 2 жыл бұрын
Only comb it the day you wash it, then style it, to set it for 10 -14 days at most, if you can. I love Black hair❣
@endtimes9763
@endtimes9763 2 жыл бұрын
Hair grease is the key you have to use hair grease and I use the Blue Magic
@L.sabore
@L.sabore 2 жыл бұрын
Yup 👍🏾
@qmomof8587
@qmomof8587 2 жыл бұрын
I've used grese in my hair from 1(my mom) through my child hood into adult hood it is below bra strap now straight. And when it's greased often it goes 3 in below bra strap so yeah it's tru
@kygloria836
@kygloria836 4 жыл бұрын
A black person hair grows just like a non black person is just the more kinky the hair the more easy to break.
@jailynjackson7867
@jailynjackson7867 4 жыл бұрын
How come so many black women's hair isn't as long you think then?
@kygloria836
@kygloria836 4 жыл бұрын
@@korykent5645 that's why moisturize the hair and use protective style sometimes is important to help the growth
@islandgirlruby2750
@islandgirlruby2750 4 жыл бұрын
Ky Glória Exactly, it kinks and coils around each strand with love
@kygloria836
@kygloria836 4 жыл бұрын
@@jailynjackson7867 I think type 4 hair if you don't take care properly break easily. Plus sometimes the over manipulate very tight styles etc all contribute
@kygloria836
@kygloria836 4 жыл бұрын
@Hannah Adam girl stop. I know many white or non black people than can't grow hair! And have dry hair. Most non black people are not rapunzel ok?
@prudence8277
@prudence8277 4 жыл бұрын
Once you're exposed as a fraud, don't expect people to not question your integrity.
@Jaidzeka36
@Jaidzeka36 4 жыл бұрын
🔥👏🏿🤷🏾‍♀️
@prudence8277
@prudence8277 4 жыл бұрын
@Bunny Balack and that's a FendiFact
@EmpatheticEmpress
@EmpatheticEmpress 4 жыл бұрын
True
@prudence8277
@prudence8277 4 жыл бұрын
@Un Bothered so is ur mudda
@taepandapandapandaexpressw2848
@taepandapandapandaexpressw2848 4 жыл бұрын
Facts🤙🏽
@juhkneekuh
@juhkneekuh 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t forget we have shrinkage that doesn’t mean your hair isn’t growing. Don’t let that shrinkage fool you
@Koanonymous
@Koanonymous 4 жыл бұрын
J 90swannabe you have no idea how many times it fooled me😂
@mysticangel192
@mysticangel192 4 жыл бұрын
Say it for the people in the back🙌🙌
@Homeside301
@Homeside301 4 жыл бұрын
And the different phases of the hair.
@TeesReddRose
@TeesReddRose 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@yourneighborhoodfujoshi
@yourneighborhoodfujoshi 4 жыл бұрын
My shrinkage is insane. My coworkers nearly had a heart attack last week since my hair is in a proverbial state of TWA. When I did some twists and trimmed it my hair came out past shoulder length. I was even shook and surprised. For the last two years I’ve been trimming my hair every two months because it is 4BC and prone to tangling extremely easily in the hopes to avoid tangled. My hair grows super fast despite the painful shrinkage. My hair shrinks about 80% of its actual length. I was super confused for years not knowing how to cut my hair because I can’t wear my hair in a wash and go state because of the varying levels of shrinkage ruining a cut or shape. My temple area shrinkage is about 95% of its actual length. My hair in a wash and go state measure about 6-7 inches high in the Afro state but straightened is bra strap length. Stretched out from twists it comes to about clavicles. It’s nuts. I still remember my white Norwegian boss lady’s face when she saw my hair last week 😂🤣 She was in utter shock, her main question being, “how does it do that?!”. I ended up having to give her advice for her mixed race niece. Her face looked like when you see those crazy magic acts that you have no idea how to explain so you’re just there, staring like an idiot, accepting defeat. That was honestly my reaction the next day after my first twist out. I’ve fought hard to not view shrinkage as a menace and styling my hair in twists is super time consuming due to my going to school full time and working full time. Trust me shrinkage blindsights a lot of people, including the hair owners. I’m still in a relaying state of shock and alarm with how my hair behaves. It feels like I’m dealing with a different thing altogether.
@somebicycle6684
@somebicycle6684 3 жыл бұрын
Everyone wants a quick way to long hair, but the #1 secret to long hair is patience
@LisePlansandJournals
@LisePlansandJournals 2 жыл бұрын
and for bw, we have to be very gentle with our texture.
@jerricaj6848
@jerricaj6848 4 жыл бұрын
I do believe that this is her hair, black women CAN and DO achieve long hair. All it takes is to simply leave it alone, not purchase $300 products. I don't even buy products over $15.00 lol.
@just1desi
@just1desi 4 жыл бұрын
yup, shea butter, cocounut oil and olive and avocado oil work just fine for natural hair. and Low manipulation.
@j27044
@j27044 4 жыл бұрын
Same I wash mine every two weeks add my Shea butter and leave in twist it up and now my hair is down my back just keep it moisturized and you good
@jerricaj6848
@jerricaj6848 4 жыл бұрын
@@j27044 Same here, I'm too lazy to do my every week.
@mangastar234
@mangastar234 4 жыл бұрын
Same lol
@vee3133
@vee3133 4 жыл бұрын
@@just1desi maybe for some, not all natural hair likes those products.
@MzKegz
@MzKegz 4 жыл бұрын
The hair is all hers no doubt, but he gives me scammer vibes imo. He knows the market and how hungry black women are for a "miracle growth" product. But thats not tea for me to spill 🤷🏾‍♀️
@GlamFameKen555
@GlamFameKen555 4 жыл бұрын
☕☕☕
@sunmoonstars1611
@sunmoonstars1611 4 жыл бұрын
There is a technique of weave that they weave the hair strand by strand. 😒 ugh...
@sharnagrayson9649
@sharnagrayson9649 4 жыл бұрын
SunMoon Stars yea but u can see the girls scalp
@deenadream
@deenadream 4 жыл бұрын
SunMoon Stars whhhaaad? This is new to me!
@sunmoonstars1611
@sunmoonstars1611 4 жыл бұрын
Just look up strand by strand hair extension.
@ashleyalexxis3442
@ashleyalexxis3442 4 жыл бұрын
The way that he’s pulling on her hair is hurting my edges
@yannaandtrell9624
@yannaandtrell9624 4 жыл бұрын
A D thought I was the only one it looks like her head is tender and sore
@georgia8592
@georgia8592 4 жыл бұрын
Poor girl will end up like jojo siwa if he dont leave her head alone
@buttahscotchkisses3133
@buttahscotchkisses3133 4 жыл бұрын
He is staying on that one section.
@BK-dv3hh
@BK-dv3hh 4 жыл бұрын
A D probably why she doesn’t have any
@bridavis7577
@bridavis7577 4 жыл бұрын
Angel cake 💀💀STOPPP
@lilydewinters4729
@lilydewinters4729 2 жыл бұрын
Even though I’m lilly white and don’t have anywhere near the same hair texture as black women, I am really sad to see this happen. I don’t believe anybody should ever be takin advantage of, and I think it’s disgusting that anyone would do this. He prayed on people that trusted him.. he took advantage of the black community, and used his and his daughters appearance to scam a community and sensationalise fraudulent products. Black women are incredibly beautiful…with all the different shades of gold,almond, nutmeg, bronze, chocolate, amber and espresso, it’s easy to see the beauty. I think black women that wear themselves naturally are stunning and unique just as they are. Sending love and blessings to everyone. Love yourself, don’t let anyone sell you a product that claims it will make you more beautiful, because nothing could make you more beautiful than you already are…as you were created with the Lords paintbrush, in His image.
@Mrsqueen876
@Mrsqueen876 2 жыл бұрын
Well said ❤ thank you for your allyship
@lilydewinters4729
@lilydewinters4729 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mrsqueen876 Thank you! Blessings love💜
@marshmallow7640
@marshmallow7640 2 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful statement ❤
@lilydewinters4729
@lilydewinters4729 2 жыл бұрын
@@marshmallow7640 🫶🏻
@missartis9002
@missartis9002 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful statement ❣️ Thank you!!! Your kindness is APPRECIATED 🥰🙌🏿😘
@Candycane-y3n
@Candycane-y3n 4 жыл бұрын
I have a magic hair growth that’s absolutely free and that is LEAVING YOUR HAIR ALONE
@BrittaniMeShay
@BrittaniMeShay 4 жыл бұрын
That’s what makes mine grow! Lol
@Brandeyyye
@Brandeyyye 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!! I leave it alone and it does its thing. Im almost at tailbone length.
@Pampidou
@Pampidou 4 жыл бұрын
True, I stop manipulating my hair every day when I discovered this!
@brianas6550
@brianas6550 4 жыл бұрын
Literally lol. I stopped doing a lot with my hair years ago and wear protective styles for weeks. I cut my hair a little above my shoulders a couple years ago and now it’s to the middle of my back. My cousin has had locs for a year or two and her hair has grown a lot. She doesn’t manipulate it and leave it be.
@hugdealer3509
@hugdealer3509 4 жыл бұрын
LMFAO
@CKayB
@CKayB 4 жыл бұрын
Long hair in black women is not rare you just have to take care of it 🙄🙄🙄 stop the propaganda
@lavender1653
@lavender1653 4 жыл бұрын
Yes. It's common to have very long hair in chad
@Rachy007
@Rachy007 4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. Many Nova Scotia women have ROPES because we're taught how to manipulate and treat it from older Black women.
@MPPG663
@MPPG663 4 жыл бұрын
I kinda stutter-listened when I heard that...I appreciate Chrissie's commentary (it's important), but every now and then I hear something that sounds crazy lol.
@faithvioletx1622
@faithvioletx1622 4 жыл бұрын
she said hair as long as his DAUGHTER'S hair, not long hair in general. how many black females do you see with hair that goes down tot he floor?
4 жыл бұрын
Seriously . Every black girl in my family has long hair
@sherrelgreene3195
@sherrelgreene3195 4 жыл бұрын
Black women can grow hair so I’m not surprised when black women have long hair
@memyselfi1828
@memyselfi1828 4 жыл бұрын
Right!
@honeybdream
@honeybdream 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Look at the thigh length hair of KZbinr: Indigenous Strandz❣️
@knf4451
@knf4451 4 жыл бұрын
"block women" lolololol kinda cute
@sherrelgreene3195
@sherrelgreene3195 4 жыл бұрын
kreenichiwa k lol spell check 😂😂😂😂 right
@shanaleeayee2995
@shanaleeayee2995 4 жыл бұрын
The only thing you is that hair don’t grow that long overnight that’s the only thing but yess it’s possible
@gratefulmachine
@gratefulmachine 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of black women needed to hear this. Thank you for keeping it real.
@karentucker2161
@karentucker2161 2 жыл бұрын
I need to send this to my friend Betty. we were just talking about hair awhile back and she was complaining about her hair and it not growing fast enough for her although it does...or at least to me it does. I think it is better mine grows faster than hers and she doesn't feel as adequate in that area. or at least that's what she said to me at times...I have read in between the lines. I tell her that her hair is fine and it grows fast for her and that not everyone is the same and her daughter has beautiful long hair just like hers.
@DebbieOwusu
@DebbieOwusu 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t feel like it’s a matter of scamming but his products simply cost too much.You don’t need Benny Harlem’s products to grow your hair. There are so many natural products that are much cheaper at the produce section.
@prtdiva
@prtdiva 4 жыл бұрын
DEB girl that’s where he got his first “product line” from. 😂
@Circee11
@Circee11 4 жыл бұрын
@@prtdiva Exactly! His 'products' you can find in your local grocery if they're not already in your kitchen! Lol!
@TrueScandal
@TrueScandal 4 жыл бұрын
I grew my hair with blue magic and deep conditioner 😂 it’s a matter of knowing how to use what you have and knowing what y’all ur hair likes and treat it like a newborn baby🤷🏽‍♀️❤️
@caramelspeaks3034
@caramelspeaks3034 4 жыл бұрын
💯
@kylafrank
@kylafrank 4 жыл бұрын
He is a scam artist. All his products are just repackaged things he bought from different stores. He changes the label and price gouges.
@theblackconservativewoman9824
@theblackconservativewoman9824 4 жыл бұрын
List of 4c Unapologetically Black Female KZbinrs with long/tailbone hair 1. 22nd Century Woman 2. Naturally High 3. What Lies Beneath The Weave 4. The Black Rapunzel 5. All Things GhoCee 6. Tyra Mae 7. Roothie Patootie 8. JoStylin 9. Natural Academia 10. West African Baby 11. Craving Curly Kinks 12. Indigenous Strandz 13. Eugenia Kelcy 14. Nicky B Natural 15. Joi Wade 16. Efficiently Natural 17. Geri Geraldine the Great I’m sure there’s more and you’re welcome. 👍🏿
@dr.taakacash6450
@dr.taakacash6450 4 жыл бұрын
Nerdy Black Girl Getting Her PhD add Strands of faith CEO Ameka Coleman. Many cont to think her hair is not real but it is 🙄 black women are learning to retain their hair and most of us have lengthier hair these days.
@Power_Verse_
@Power_Verse_ 4 жыл бұрын
Yes these ladies. But not anyone Benny Harlem knows
@torikellyfan9882
@torikellyfan9882 4 жыл бұрын
Maryam Hampton has long natural hair
@denysedenyse4070
@denysedenyse4070 4 жыл бұрын
Nerdy Black Girl Getting Her PhD Thank you for this awesome list of KZbinrs to follow and support.
@theblackconservativewoman9824
@theblackconservativewoman9824 4 жыл бұрын
Denyse Denyse 🥰❤️
@NoellGenna
@NoellGenna 4 жыл бұрын
I don't why, but the pictures he takes with his "stepdaughter" make me a bit uncomfortable. His vibes are off to me.
@noreehix5714
@noreehix5714 4 жыл бұрын
noel gené I don’t like the way he holds her, like that’s a little girl not your wife
@kmariamv
@kmariamv 4 жыл бұрын
It’s because they’re digitally altered and he leans toward the feminine side in styling
@MartianBlues11
@MartianBlues11 4 жыл бұрын
I believe people were criticizing him a few years ago about photoshopping her in his photos. I think he was making her waist thinner 😰
@alext3480
@alext3480 4 жыл бұрын
plz you ppl have disguisting minds
@bruciavernellenkima6074
@bruciavernellenkima6074 4 жыл бұрын
@@alext3480 it's not disgusting mind. It's what we see. He has a weird vibe sis
@walusunguchipeta5041
@walusunguchipeta5041 2 жыл бұрын
As a Malawian with less hair products here i was able to grow my hair to waist length in 5 years with regular trims almost monthly. Secret keep hair moisturized, and leave it the hell alone (low manipulation)- it was basically in twists 95%of the time
@CanopusLux
@CanopusLux 4 жыл бұрын
I think his hair is real because this world record people take this very serious. They test your hair many times
@tanicatonnie7944
@tanicatonnie7944 4 жыл бұрын
He got Guinness World Record for having “BIGGEST HAIRSTYLE” not longest hair...
@LUVRG1RL
@LUVRG1RL 4 жыл бұрын
his hair is not real
@ramoniquesmall3470
@ramoniquesmall3470 4 жыл бұрын
sanaalex1s it is tho
@iirose_s6089
@iirose_s6089 4 жыл бұрын
sanaalex1s yes it is? lol
@indrarobinson7473
@indrarobinson7473 4 жыл бұрын
꧁Tanica Tonnie꧂ lmao. Is that what it is... Hair style?!? Well that explains it all
@natashakanyekanye23
@natashakanyekanye23 4 жыл бұрын
Black women can actually grow their hair. I mean, just look at all the people with Locs lol.
@imtiredoftheseniggas6618
@imtiredoftheseniggas6618 4 жыл бұрын
Natasha Kanyekanye yup 👍🏿
@Yveness
@Yveness 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@maryalalim6454
@maryalalim6454 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly , damn how do people not use their comments sense
@noodlenoggin5854
@noodlenoggin5854 4 жыл бұрын
Locs include all the hairs that will have reached their natural length limit and fallen out, so people can grow them much longer than their hair will grow.
@Ash-kh4bg
@Ash-kh4bg 4 жыл бұрын
Nor Cal Y some not all so again people can grow their own hair
@achmeez
@achmeez 4 жыл бұрын
A lot of times, young boys’ hair is longer than the girls, simply because the mothers just let it grow. With little girls, the mothers want to throw chemicals and braids and all kinds of shit that damages the little girls hair. I refused to let my wife fool with my baby’s hair early in her life.
@mustardbadazz
@mustardbadazz 4 жыл бұрын
Ach Meez she has to understand each persons hair my baby girl was bald for the 1st 2 years of her life no weaves just brushed what she had about 3 I did the puffs. When I stopped shampooing our hair we use Indian clay mask and rice water treatments her hair when stretched touched mid back and she has the cutest lil Afro
@amrayabaptiste2933
@amrayabaptiste2933 4 жыл бұрын
Testosterone plays a role in it too.
@wandahost
@wandahost 4 жыл бұрын
That's why Beyoncé and Jay-Z let Blue's hair alone look at hair now. 😌
@tb_amiya
@tb_amiya 4 жыл бұрын
What’s wrong with braids
@Isaac-ci5wy
@Isaac-ci5wy 4 жыл бұрын
Ach Meez you're a great father, from someone that was once bald in the 6th GRADE.
@naomistar87
@naomistar87 3 жыл бұрын
Y'all, I been a stylist most of my life (technically since I was 9 and I'm 37 now) as the youngest out of 5 kids, I used to get up in the mornings and do my older sisters' hair for school sometimes and for graduations, etc. It's as simple as keeping it clean and moisturized and staying away from harsh chemicals. That's it. I have grown different hair types using basic ass products like Pantene, Garnier Fructis, and Tresseme. There's no magic pill. Just take care of you hair the same way you do your skin... moisturize moisturize moisturize y'all.
@daisykisses8803
@daisykisses8803 2 жыл бұрын
What abt low porosity hair?
@naomistar87
@naomistar87 2 жыл бұрын
@@daisykisses8803 continuous silk treatments. IMO, if you use a product that's thick, it's just gonna "sit" there..but if you use a type of serum or moisturizer that's thin/silky enough to penetrate the really flat/closed cuticle, it's way more beneficial for the hair's moisture retainment. Oh, and keeping ends trimmed, but that's helpful for all hair types though. Just my opinion from experience. Someone else may experience a different result though, all hair is different 💙💜
@daisykisses8803
@daisykisses8803 2 жыл бұрын
@@naomistar87 thx!
@naomistar87
@naomistar87 2 жыл бұрын
@@daisykisses8803 you're most welcome. Interested in an update on the results if any. Good luck love💜💜💙
@keniyah9482
@keniyah9482 2 жыл бұрын
thisss i've been washing once a week and my hairs never been better
@Laoriginal718
@Laoriginal718 4 жыл бұрын
Long hair or a desire to have long hair is not Eurocentric. Wanting STRAIGHT hair is Eurocentric.
@sweettangel9256
@sweettangel9256 4 жыл бұрын
@@hopeanderson8937 100% true!
@lovinaokoronkwo7149
@lovinaokoronkwo7149 4 жыл бұрын
@CCP BOT Thanks for the ignorant comment. Good to know that wanting long hair is Eurocentric. Some people just like long hair!!
@kayyoung2804
@kayyoung2804 4 жыл бұрын
@CCP BOT bit- lemme stop and EDUCATE you for a second because no one else is see we CAN have long hair its just that some women don't know how to take care of it look up the women of chadenise their hair is longer than your existence and intelligence so please do your research before you make stupid and IRELIVENT comments
@aaliyah5934
@aaliyah5934 4 жыл бұрын
@CCP BOT yes they do
@aaliyah5934
@aaliyah5934 4 жыл бұрын
@CCP BOT in Africa its normal for women to have long hair EDUCATE YOURSELF FOOL
@ilovesesshomarusama716
@ilovesesshomarusama716 4 жыл бұрын
The reason her hair isn’t as curly is because of how long it is and how many products are in her hair. Curls usually loosen with length
@krystibush9834
@krystibush9834 4 жыл бұрын
My hair is waist length when straightened after washing it my curls are shoulder length and my hair is 3c/4a/4b shrinkage is real
@wowso4
@wowso4 4 жыл бұрын
Krysti Bush yes very true the same with me too I have long hair when I straighten my hair but the curls come in when I wash it and it shrinks a little
@carolinesamlal6935
@carolinesamlal6935 4 жыл бұрын
My hair is past my waist and very curly. I guess it depends on the person. I am half asian and black.
@Cha-Llin
@Cha-Llin 4 жыл бұрын
Her hair looks like it gets blown out a lot. Over time the curls take longer to revert back the more it's straightened.
@martineterrell1798
@martineterrell1798 4 жыл бұрын
My daughter had knee length curly hair and it stayed curly
@BongiCekuse
@BongiCekuse 4 жыл бұрын
The day I stopped buying all these expensive products, my hair started thanking me and started growing. You don't need expensive things to grow your hair. It's about learn your hair and what works for it
@Libramiya
@Libramiya 4 жыл бұрын
Bongi Cekuse what do you use for it?
@teesea4615
@teesea4615 4 жыл бұрын
👏well 👏 said!!! Condition the hair.. moisturize the hair..heat at a minimum.. no ponytails..
@reddraiza7742
@reddraiza7742 4 жыл бұрын
Bongi Cekuse Right like shampoo, conditioner and oil is all I need
@curlybynaturee8530
@curlybynaturee8530 4 жыл бұрын
yesss ! less is more for skincare and haircare for me !
@tanicatonnie7944
@tanicatonnie7944 4 жыл бұрын
Facts! My daughter has 4C hair and it’s in the middle of her back... all I use is coconut oil and mango butter... it’s HARD doing her hair and frustrating at times but it’s not impossible to work with... I usually keep her hair in protective styles too...
@asiaricks5147
@asiaricks5147 2 жыл бұрын
For years, I stopped using hair grease like we were influenced to do and my hair went nowhere. I started back using hair grease a year ago and my hair has grown so long and thick and it looks a lot healthier. At first I couldn't get it pass my chin. Now, it touches my back. I'm so proud of me! 😁
@Ισαβέλα-ψ7τ
@Ισαβέλα-ψ7τ 2 жыл бұрын
i personally don’t use that but great🙂
@veggieeater
@veggieeater 2 жыл бұрын
Would this be Blue Magic?
@sherrilee1785
@sherrilee1785 2 жыл бұрын
Can I spray water 🌊 💦 and put Blue 💙🔵 magic hair grease on my hair. I heard you can put water 🌊💦 and hair grease on my hair. Will it make My hair grow longer, faster, softer, healthier, beautiful, gorgeous, prettier, manageable, touchable, split ends, dryness, SHININESS, BREAKAGES, damages, bouncier, DULLNESS, FULLER, THICKER, STRONGER, dryness, COMBABLE, UNBREAKABLE, BRUSHABLE, DETANGNER, FLYAWAYS, Volumerize, and MANY MORE TO MY HAIR. I want my hair grow down pass my butt and down to my legs too okay. I want to copy you and do what you do to make your hair grow longer and faster too. I hope to hear from you real soon okay thanks bye bye.
@asiaricks5147
@asiaricks5147 2 жыл бұрын
@@veggieeater I use whatever I can get my hands on. I do love the Blue Magic Super Gro. You can always customize your grease to stimulate your scalp. I'll mix mine with vicks vaporub for a cool feeling to my scalp in the summer and for winter, I'd add black pepper or cayenne pepper for heat. These are all stimulating to increase blood flow to your follicles.
@mscardioqueen
@mscardioqueen 4 жыл бұрын
"If her hair is real, it didn't get that way with pumpkin." 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 Truer words have never been spoken. Reminds of fitness gurus selling a new line of health products and you know they didn't use it to get the fit body they have.
@brokegirlmagic8744
@brokegirlmagic8744 4 жыл бұрын
When she said that i screamed out laughing, its soo true
@caramelspeaks3034
@caramelspeaks3034 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@KeneishaFreckleton
@KeneishaFreckleton 4 жыл бұрын
IKR!!!!
@MartianBlues11
@MartianBlues11 4 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooooo 😂😂😭
@indeeditiscirro
@indeeditiscirro 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr?? These fitness gurus aren't convincing me that their flat stomach is due to anything more than good fat distribution and bone structure
@BolingoYaNzambe
@BolingoYaNzambe 4 жыл бұрын
Let's enjoy our hair whatever the length!
@tashafry8662
@tashafry8662 4 жыл бұрын
Thank u
@briannarichardson1596
@briannarichardson1596 4 жыл бұрын
Health over length. All hair is good hair ❤️
@BolingoYaNzambe
@BolingoYaNzambe 4 жыл бұрын
@@briannarichardson1596 Exactly!
@delorismiller7635
@delorismiller7635 4 жыл бұрын
Yes ❤
@mizrelmizrel
@mizrelmizrel 4 жыл бұрын
That part. That point 👏
@traceyholland9882
@traceyholland9882 4 жыл бұрын
It wasn't rare back in my day. In the 70's all Black women had hair, down to the girl with the kinkiest hair on the block. I am a professional hairstylist and when I was growing up long hair was common among many Black women. My hair was down to my elbows. Everybody's hair grows unless you are bald. We get an average of 1/2 inch a month, or 6 inches a year. Two problems I see with this generation of Black women one, this generation doesn't eat right, and proper nutrition will allow your hair to grow in stronger to help resist breakage, two, they do way too much to their hair. Whether they put too much heat on their hair or experiment with chemicals at home, they are causing their hair to break, therefore they never retain their length. Many of the women who wear their hair natural are not seeing healthy length because they have so much build up from the products, that their hair is dry all the time, and dry hair breaks.
@chocolatediamonds5760
@chocolatediamonds5760 4 жыл бұрын
Tracey Holland 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿facts!!! Say it louder for the crazies in the back!!! Retaining length just started being a problem in the late 80’s after the Jheri curl, we had big fro’s, long press n curls, and most definitely long Jheri Curls, it’s not that hard to retain length. Keep hair clean, moist, and unbothered and I promise you will retain periodt ❗️❗️❗️🙄😏
@thaiselizabethh
@thaiselizabethh 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, I remember in the 80s as well..Every woman had hair and actually there was a time when Blk women wanted the short hair cuts..like Jada Pinkett, Nia Long and Halle Berry❤💯👈
@traceyholland9882
@traceyholland9882 4 жыл бұрын
@@thaiselizabethh You are correct, in the 90's I can't tell you how many women wanted Halle Berry's hair cut. Also, in the late 80's and the 90's there was this hairstyle where women would grow their hair long, then cut the front and sides short to wear stacked curls, but keep the back long and straight.
@thaiselizabethh
@thaiselizabethh 4 жыл бұрын
@@traceyholland9882 😂😀 I remember that one..I had a small bang..with a ponytail in the middle..and then hair dwn in the back🤣😂..I always felt hot in the summers...so I would get cornbraids...eventually I just got my hair cornbraided all year around 😊 that was like 18yrs ago and im still doing it😀❤💯👈
@SunshineKK99
@SunshineKK99 4 жыл бұрын
In the 70's and 80's and before black women were slim with perky breasts, snatched waists and round butts naturally. Of course their was some other built black women but as you say we ate right and moved our bodies a lot! Most are now overweight with damaged hair...terrible!
@coilylocks1437
@coilylocks1437 2 жыл бұрын
I know it's been some time since you posted this video but, I just wanted to thank you for your commentary, Sis. I am a working Mom with natural hair and I have 2 daughters with natural hair. It does take time and willingness to learn what works best for each of our hair types but, seeing them feel genuinely confident and proud of their hair is worth it for me. I feel you 100%!
@nani3466
@nani3466 4 жыл бұрын
My old boss acted so surprised when she found out my hair was real and then was shocked to learn that black people wash their hair. She asked how do we wash our hair. Yes, she really asked that. I don't work there anymore. 😊
@Gottathinkaboutit
@Gottathinkaboutit 4 жыл бұрын
Lol, what a stupid question, at least she can spread the message
@nani3466
@nani3466 4 жыл бұрын
@@Gottathinkaboutit 🤣🤣 I'm sure she did.
@badbitchonly
@badbitchonly 4 жыл бұрын
Ignorant and unprofessional on her end
@moonieluv8504
@moonieluv8504 4 жыл бұрын
I probably would've started cussing like a sailor, it's almost like being called dirty smh. Some ppl will never understand us
@kculture403
@kculture403 4 жыл бұрын
Moonie Luv don’t... that’s what they want from you.
@teripharaoh8838
@teripharaoh8838 4 жыл бұрын
Who the hell paying 390 for a freakin hair oil
@gcoca7450
@gcoca7450 4 жыл бұрын
People who don't know how to properly take care of hair and think that more expensive means that it works. That's how I was before. I didnt spend hundreds on products but If I had the money and I saw that I would have similar results as the person promoting I'd would have got it. Now though. I'm filled with knowledge on scalp/hair care so I know better lol but yeah. I can see how some do pay the high price tag.
@laceysilence2662
@laceysilence2662 4 жыл бұрын
An ass 😂😂😂😂
@adriennenicole7687
@adriennenicole7687 4 жыл бұрын
Right. Argan Oil
@girlimjusbored3624
@girlimjusbored3624 4 жыл бұрын
Teri Pharaoh fr
@MissNolver
@MissNolver 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly 🤷🏿‍♀️
@PJ-cn9eb
@PJ-cn9eb 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone wants immediate results from everything, hair growth, weight loss, investments, etc....
@daisookie9549
@daisookie9549 4 жыл бұрын
exactly like everything will come with time
@blaqrose6911
@blaqrose6911 4 жыл бұрын
100% and they also don’t want to put in the work
@nunya5235
@nunya5235 4 жыл бұрын
@@blaqrose6911 was gonna say the exact same thing. its exactly this. They want results but they aren't serious enough about change so they are lazy but they want it to just magically fall in their hands.
@blaqrose6911
@blaqrose6911 4 жыл бұрын
@@nunya5235 so this guy comes in with one abracadabra 🤣🤣🤣 Are some people really this naiv? 😅 creams for 300€ for fast hair growth and there is already scientific proof that is it not possible.
@lifewithzinnah
@lifewithzinnah 4 жыл бұрын
humans are lazy nowadays
@relisbetrel
@relisbetrel 3 жыл бұрын
You are preaching the absolute truth about growing long hair as black women. We want instant results for zero work. We must be more realistic. We have an interesting kind of hair and we just need to relax, stop rushing through our hair, and learn that there are PLENTY of videos, blogs, etc. about how to take care of it. However, I do believe some people would rather stay in mental bondage than to take a leap and experience true freedom..
@cece0277
@cece0277 4 жыл бұрын
I think the biggest problem is over manipulation and I still battle that.
@imtiredoftheseniggas6618
@imtiredoftheseniggas6618 4 жыл бұрын
CeCe 0 DING DING DING . That’s what I’m telling people in the comments. Too much manipulation causes stress to the hair especially kinky hair.
@EmpatheticEmpress
@EmpatheticEmpress 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! Also with kinky textures stretching hair a lot bc in its natural state it will tangle more and cause more breakage!
@myasmith1820
@myasmith1820 4 жыл бұрын
I’m tired of these kneegas May I ask what exactly is over manipulation?
@EmpatheticEmpress
@EmpatheticEmpress 4 жыл бұрын
Asmah Fibyl there are gentle methods of stretching. Someone like naptural85 who has 4c hair has her hair stretched a lot and it grows fast and she retains length. Manipulation doesn’t have to be tight braids or a blowout etc. their are gentle ways to stretch hair without it being “overly manipulated.” If one washes there hair and does nothing to it and let’s it be, it will get very tangled and will indeed become hard to detangle and will cause breakage. Which is why most women look for products and styles to make their hair more manageable. We can agree to disagree ❤️☺️
@EmpatheticEmpress
@EmpatheticEmpress 4 жыл бұрын
ItsAnnaNkem her hair isn’t just one texture and her whole definitely isn’t just 4a
@arialoveland6160
@arialoveland6160 4 жыл бұрын
Every single youtuber with long hair has stated that length retention is how they reached their hair goals. Not a miracle product.
@feelingthinking
@feelingthinking 4 жыл бұрын
Retention?
@MissAngie25
@MissAngie25 4 жыл бұрын
The hair doesn’t break off. Black hair easily breaks off.
@dianalove60
@dianalove60 4 жыл бұрын
Kory Kent I have long hair, I am college student and work full time.... i have 4c hair, it don’t take a lot of time to take care of it.
@elgaybean5544
@elgaybean5544 4 жыл бұрын
That and genetics
@kaylasmith4918
@kaylasmith4918 4 жыл бұрын
@@dianalove60 A lot of 4a and 4b girls especially KZbinrs lie that they are 4c for a views
@theafroveggie
@theafroveggie 2 жыл бұрын
Preach! The obsession is real. I was natural for 2 decades before i finally locked up. People were always confused why my hair wasn't longer. I got haircuts regularly. For some reason this is baffling. I don't want to spend a million hours doing my hair!
@kevkeisha
@kevkeisha 3 жыл бұрын
This obsession with hair "length" over hair "health" is neverending.
@moenayt_
@moenayt_ 3 жыл бұрын
I was talking about this today!
@farlandra421
@farlandra421 3 жыл бұрын
Yesss!!! It's ALWAYS health over length for me, even though I do have long hair. But if it comes down to a choice of cutting my hair so that it can grow healthier, I'm doing it with no hesitation!!
@dezzychuuu99
@dezzychuuu99 3 жыл бұрын
Because unfortunately society has made us believe if its long its better but no one ever talks about how important it is to have healthy hair first. I was stuck on this stupid beauty standard until I realized my curls were going nowhere my hair was just growing, changed things and now I honestly rather have healthy hair
@JaiClaire880
@JaiClaire880 3 жыл бұрын
Why can’t we like both 💁🏾‍♀️?
@dreamonbby
@dreamonbby 3 жыл бұрын
First of yo hair ain’t healthy it’s not gonna be long so..
@vedaroserobbins7525
@vedaroserobbins7525 4 жыл бұрын
Her edges are probably thin because he keeps pulling on it trying to show the length. He should stop.
@vedaroserobbins7525
@vedaroserobbins7525 4 жыл бұрын
@@og-greenmachine8623 ha ha. You might be on the wrong post. We are talking about hair health, not sexual proclivities.
@stacimabry6076
@stacimabry6076 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@moonybeauty4683
@moonybeauty4683 4 жыл бұрын
@@vedaroserobbins7525 🤣🤣🤣
@reashabiggs2236
@reashabiggs2236 4 жыл бұрын
😹😹😹
@najoyola298
@najoyola298 4 жыл бұрын
😅👍🏾
@awsomekrys
@awsomekrys 4 жыл бұрын
If her hair is fake I would pay money to see how he faked that cause it looks real to me lol and I’ll def check out the woman you posted!! Thanks
@birdiewolf3497
@birdiewolf3497 4 жыл бұрын
Hello? Like instead of being a fraud, sell the wig.
@awsomekrys
@awsomekrys 4 жыл бұрын
@@birdiewolf3497 agreed cause he has the world thinking his hair is real. isn't it crazy how different he looks from videos and pictures? idk what kind of witchcraft he has going on over there lol
@kevinsam5961
@kevinsam5961 4 жыл бұрын
It's real I think evil hearts and jealousy is playing here idiots
@awsomekrys
@awsomekrys 4 жыл бұрын
@@kevinsam5961 who are you calling an idiot? I clearly said her hair LOOKS real and if it was fake I would pay money to see how he did it. Read thoroughly before you comment. IDIOT
@awsomekrys
@awsomekrys 4 жыл бұрын
@Ofor real Oforreal I'm not talking about his afro or hightop. im talking about what she discusses in the video his photoshoots where his hair is down and longer than the afro.
@kalyddessalines769
@kalyddessalines769 2 жыл бұрын
It's funny that the expectation is that black women have to "put in work" or "put in effort" or see it as difficult to achieve long hair, but black men don't have to put in that same work to have long hair even though we have the same genetics. Black men don't need expensive products and neither do black women. But the difference is: most BW are recovering from years of damaging their hair and scalp whereas BM generally don't damage their hair or scalp.
@ca678.4
@ca678.4 Жыл бұрын
This is a bit uninformed. Long hair isn’t a masculine trait or is expected of a man. Especially black men. How many black men do you see that are expected to have long hair because it’s masculine? 0 Because long hair for men is not interlocked with their masculinity as long hair is and femininity. Also, given that afro hair was descriminated against on BOTH black men and women, black men got lucky because all they needed to do was keep their heads shaved (the colonizers shaved both black men and women’s hair off) but black women are still women at the end of the day and in society long hair has always been a feminine trait. Long STRAIGHT hair especially more so. Which is the reason why there were products targeted to black women to obtain that, that also damaged the hair in the process. So most BM don’t damage their scalp because long hair isn’t expected or a want to be seen as masculine by society like long hair is for women. The black men who want straight hair also damage their hair too btw when they use the same products.
@kalyddessalines769
@kalyddessalines769 Жыл бұрын
@ca678.4 I was speaking to that fact that when black men decide to grow their hair long, Allen Iverson, Ludacris, Carmello Anthony, etc. they don't need all the crazy hair remedies, tricks, magic creams and snake-oil from Africa to achieve long hair. They just allow their hair to grow, without straighterners and relaxers and it grows. Black women on the other hand are indeed (I agree) pressured to straighten their hair, which damages it. But videos like these feed the myth that black women need magic potions to get their hair to grow, and all I was saying is "No they dont" they just need to do what black men do and not apply heat or perms to it so much because we have THE EXACT SAME GENETICS.
@blessednhm
@blessednhm 4 жыл бұрын
No amount of hair growth is worth $316 every 3 months. Heck... I can just go to the grocery store and buy me a pumpkin...just blend up that bad boy and voila.
@boostedboosted3088
@boostedboosted3088 4 жыл бұрын
Deadass
@unlimitedone2200
@unlimitedone2200 4 жыл бұрын
Black girl magic 😉😉😉
@Manes-Ancestrales
@Manes-Ancestrales 4 жыл бұрын
Your choice
@MiaMia-oj4wp
@MiaMia-oj4wp 4 жыл бұрын
Voila😂
@TheLexii314
@TheLexii314 4 жыл бұрын
I know. It's ridiculous. Just throwing good money away.
@SrirachaSandvvitch
@SrirachaSandvvitch 4 жыл бұрын
We don't need no magic paste. Time and patience. Moisturize, occasional protein treatments. Clip your split ends, don't let any hair braider braid your hair too tight. Or, learn to braid your hair yourself--YOU won't ever braid your hair too tight. I'm all for having an awesome hair stylist, but there's power in learning to do your own hair.
@sxybrn79
@sxybrn79 4 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@cierraf.6603
@cierraf.6603 4 жыл бұрын
And learn to comb your hair the right way along with what tools to use!
@SrirachaSandvvitch
@SrirachaSandvvitch 4 жыл бұрын
@@cierraf.6603 💯
@africanrumpunch7742
@africanrumpunch7742 4 жыл бұрын
I teach every young woman I love how to braid. Its our Ancestral right of passage. Its odd the amount of BW that cant braid. I thought we all were going to the shops to treat ourselves 🤷🏾‍♀️
@2cut32handle
@2cut32handle 4 жыл бұрын
This is the truth sis. The moment I stop going to hair dressers is the moment my hair started thriving!
@imtiredoftheseniggas6618
@imtiredoftheseniggas6618 4 жыл бұрын
Less is more when it comes to kinky hair. A lot of Black women over manipulate their hair that’s why it won’t grow. Our hair is does not require much manipulation . Water, oil and protective style. Finger detangle, trim regularly and invest in a good deep conditioner. Das it!
@namaste4016
@namaste4016 4 жыл бұрын
🤣😂
@JessJayEel
@JessJayEel 4 жыл бұрын
The "Das it" took me out. But seriously I'm on the low manipulation tip and I already see growth. My issue now is shedding. My scalp hates anything that touches it and I feel I have to wash it every couple of days which is not good for moisture retention. I'm starting to give up on my hair and just settle for being a wig wearer for the rest of my life 😫
@kilimanjaro5537
@kilimanjaro5537 4 жыл бұрын
Right, my hair was stalled for a couple of years and this is around the time I told my mom that I wanted to go natural and I was living in another state and it seems like my hair didn’t start growing til I moved locations. Now, all I do is: wash it, moisturize it, comb it, and get it braided and my hair has been growing since. And I’m a 4c Queen. And when I do take my hair down, I try not to touch it too much and I just put it in a ponytail.
@JessJayEel
@JessJayEel 4 жыл бұрын
@Nikey Likes it's a different type though. It feels like irritation. And yes I do notice dandruff build up from time to time that is why I keep washing it. I wash it then it gives me a break for like 2 days then the irritation starts again and I feel the need to wash it by day 3. This week I am trying something different. I am trying to ease up on the braiding. I am just doing two hand twists. I am thinking the braiding is too tight and my scalp is too sensitive to tension rn. I will keep yall updated if that helps any. But moisture and shedding/thinning is a huge issue for me rn 😔. Im 4c btw. If that doesn't work maybe it's a health issue I haven't discovered yet. But I dont want to speak that into existence.
@imtiredoftheseniggas6618
@imtiredoftheseniggas6618 4 жыл бұрын
Nikey Likes try tea tree oil and use an anti dandruff shampoo.
@PrestonBPreachin
@PrestonBPreachin 9 ай бұрын
2 to 3 years is plenty of time to grow hair a significant length especially if you started to take care of it better
@trinity9560
@trinity9560 4 жыл бұрын
First of all, her hair is long regardless of race. If I saw an Asian or Indigenous person with hair that long, I’d still be shook.
@TaylorRandomTV
@TaylorRandomTV 4 жыл бұрын
Trinity BIG facts! I couldn’t agree with you more!
@Rubarb84
@Rubarb84 4 жыл бұрын
Trinity no edges though.
@adabekeethefirst8705
@adabekeethefirst8705 4 жыл бұрын
@@Rubarb84 and so what she has no edges??? Constantly finding something to shame a woman about!!!
@blueismylove3128
@blueismylove3128 3 жыл бұрын
@@adabekeethefirst8705 Exactly. I barely have edges as well and what of it?
@cherrybdaone
@cherrybdaone 4 жыл бұрын
She stated at 3:14 that “even though it’s very rare, IT IS POSSIBLE for your hair to grow that length.” Y’all don’t listen 🥱😒
@babyroro663
@babyroro663 4 жыл бұрын
people fr don't have ears
@ziqrek2314
@ziqrek2314 4 жыл бұрын
The thing is, she states that it is RARE for a black woman to be ABLE to grow to that length, and no, it's not. What is RARE is to SEE someone at that length, that doesn't mean a lot of people can grow to that length
@taetm8868
@taetm8868 4 жыл бұрын
@@mayavox Wrong. She was quoting what the people were thinking about the daughter and the dude. She then went on to say she believes the daughter hair is natural but just has thin edges cause not everyone has thick edges. Stop fucking lying bitch!
@taetm8868
@taetm8868 4 жыл бұрын
@@ziqrek2314 She never said its rare to see black women with that length she very clearly says in the video that its not uncommon but its rare and that there are people on videos with hair that long. You really tried it sis. 😂
@cameroncaarter
@cameroncaarter 4 жыл бұрын
It’s literally rare for anyone to have hair that long 😂 where you live at? I’ve NEVER seen someone with hair that long in real life let alone a black womans thick and beautiful hair
@ringmybellesnaturalhairjou1843
@ringmybellesnaturalhairjou1843 4 жыл бұрын
Finger detangling and not forcing my hair to do things it won't do has gotten me to waist length, thick hair
@selendriamuganogo7077
@selendriamuganogo7077 4 жыл бұрын
Ring My Belles Natural Hair Journey mine too... I went from mid back length hair to waist length in less than a year... that finger detangling method is the best thing ever
@robertpitts8161
@robertpitts8161 4 жыл бұрын
Explain please. My hair seem to be stuck at one length for the last year.
@kaylasmith4918
@kaylasmith4918 4 жыл бұрын
@@robertpitts8161 dont listen to her, its genetics, just Google black hair, you'll find your answer backed up by science..I am a black woman and I have accepted the fact that most black people cant grow long hair, that's just how our hair is.. the fact that we have to use much products to retain length it's like we are trying to fight the nature of our hair
@danied605
@danied605 4 жыл бұрын
@@kaylasmith4918 ... That is a extremely depressing way to look at yourself...no wonder your hair isn't growing...Yall don't listen to her. Take care of yourself from the inside and out. Don't let google who isn't ran by one person tell you what something is, there is no one size fits all for anyone. Find what works for you. Your first problem is the products your using... use natural products, use less manipulation. And Love Your damn self!
@kaylasmith4918
@kaylasmith4918 4 жыл бұрын
@@danied605 dont Ad hominem Typically it refers to a fallacious argumentative strategy whereby genuine discussion of the topic at hand is avoided by instead attacking the character, motive, or other attribute of the person making the argument, or persons associated with the argument, rather than attacking the substance of the argument itself. It's not like I dont want us black women to grow hair , I do, but the fact that other races of women hair grows with literally no effort, and we on AVERAGE DON'T, you have to look at the common denominator here which is us. Stop shaming black women by saying your jot doing enough or not the right thing, you think I have not tried KZbin for answers, I have went from natural hair products, Cantu and similar products, to even products with chemicals, all to try and figure out my hair and to make it grow longer.. it's only till a realised that there is a genetic detictated limit to how long your hair grows, ,and the fact that black people IN GENERAL have a weaker hair strand which makes it more prone to break as compared to other races of hair.. it's like a well.. I am grateful to God that I have hands and feet and I have learned to accept the nature of my hair...My own sister has longer hair than mine, because she gets it's from my muns side of the family, but yest still even when she tries all it wont grow past a certain length..
@iamtracywilson
@iamtracywilson 3 ай бұрын
This was some well done commentary. Absolutely Excellent in info and perspective that needed to be said. Thank you for sharing and making this impactful video.
@rosepetals6895
@rosepetals6895 4 жыл бұрын
The only secret to long hair for black women is length retention and little manipulation
@CharlaTV
@CharlaTV 4 жыл бұрын
and grease :D
@TheDaneyeledee
@TheDaneyeledee 4 жыл бұрын
MostCreative Singerette not necessarily. Myself and many other black womenswear have grown their hair without grease. My hair is longer and more full now than it was when I was a child and my mom used grease on my hair.
@thewordsmith5440
@thewordsmith5440 4 жыл бұрын
Some black women have thicker strands that break less and they also have fast growing hair. Most black women do not have fast growing hair plus the tangles cause problems.
@pinkpurplestfu4609
@pinkpurplestfu4609 4 жыл бұрын
MostCreative Singerette grease does more harm than good
@TheDaneyeledee
@TheDaneyeledee 4 жыл бұрын
Theword Smith I’d disagree. I’m not sure what you mean by fast growing hair. On average, regardless of race, everyone’s hair grows 1/2 an inch every month. Most ppl just don’t know how to care for their hair. The idea that black women’s hair doesn’t grow as quickly is a myth. There was a point when I thought my hair wasn’t growing, but when I checked my roots (my hair was dyed) it was obvious my hair had grown...I just wasn’t retaining length.
@beautifulblacksoul8611
@beautifulblacksoul8611 4 жыл бұрын
He is a con man. I'm sorry. Again, all you need is olive oil/castor oil and Shea butter. Wet your hair and use deep conditioner. The longest my hair grew was thigh length before I cut it because it was too heavy. And I have 4c hair. The girl's hair is lovely. Don't buy his stuff. Get you some olive oil, Shea butter and deep conditioner.
@simskiara
@simskiara 4 жыл бұрын
beautiful blacksoul Thank you for this amazing tip!
@faicasparks3212
@faicasparks3212 4 жыл бұрын
beautiful blacksoul Can you please tell me where I can by those ingredients? How much of what you mix together and the steps you take to complete the process.
@Monaedeezy
@Monaedeezy 4 жыл бұрын
beautiful blacksoul where is a good website to purchase shea butter? Please and thank you.
@Kayla-ly8rm
@Kayla-ly8rm 4 жыл бұрын
Hate to ask too much of you but what exactly was your routine with these products? Im trying to deep condition and twist every day, but how often do you use the oil and butter and do you put it on roots, scalp or directly on hair? Thanks for any reply!
@beautifulblacksoul8611
@beautifulblacksoul8611 4 жыл бұрын
@@faicasparks3212 I buy olive oil from my local grocery store - if it's good enough to eat, it's good enough for my hair. I get the Shea butter from a local beauty supply store. Use any Shea butter. I have Ashanti's Shea butter right now. I got up and looked lol. It doesn't really matter to me as long as it says 100% Shea butter. I live in the Caribbean, so importation is a hassle and I've imported the organic, gmo free Shea butter. Made no difference.
@Kayla-ly8rm
@Kayla-ly8rm 4 жыл бұрын
I love everything you said Chrissie, but I do disagree with you saying that black women's obsession with long hair is eurocentric. Us preferring STRAIGHT hair and loose curls is eurocentric, but globally long hair is viewed as a feminine, without any western influence. Long hair helps with variety of style, framing face shape well, etc. Short hair just isnt as fun an accessory to most women, race isnt part of that.
@myfriendjenonline7831
@myfriendjenonline7831 4 жыл бұрын
big mood so true. In just about every culture the women try to differentiate from their male counterpart. Usually it is by hair even if the men of that culture wear their hair longer than other cultures.
@karllytskfk8471
@karllytskfk8471 4 жыл бұрын
I don't think she said that. She stated straight long hair is eurocentric and nothing eurocentric with long natural hair or femininity
@Kayla-ly8rm
@Kayla-ly8rm 4 жыл бұрын
@@karllytskfk8471 she specifically said around 8:30 that "black women's obsession with long hair is problematic and it is tied to eurocentric standards of beauty" lol. But right after that she seemed to contradict that point and use more nuance.
@karllytskfk8471
@karllytskfk8471 4 жыл бұрын
@@Kayla-ly8rm Yeah you're right, but the time she spent breaking it down in details led me to think that in fact you both agree & that the part you highlighted was a 'shortcut' (misleading I agree)
@Kayla-ly8rm
@Kayla-ly8rm 4 жыл бұрын
@@karllytskfk8471 After she said that I paused the video to make my comment, not gonna lie lol. Then right after that, I heard her kinda expand on her point in a more thoughtful way. I just wish she hadn't phrased that first point so definitively.
@aishaalign3249
@aishaalign3249 7 ай бұрын
I have shoulder to breastlength hair, all natural. Society has really conditioned ourselves to not believe in our own genetics. Chrissie is right. The correct maintnance will get you there
@michelethe80sbaby
@michelethe80sbaby 4 жыл бұрын
Benny Harlem has no credibility, so unfortunately, everything associated with him is suspect. Including this young lady's hair.
@misspaper0213
@misspaper0213 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@MeganAllen1738
@MeganAllen1738 4 жыл бұрын
Nah, I think it's real
@imperialhistory
@imperialhistory 4 жыл бұрын
I agree. Everything is questionable with this guy.
@orangeblossom5362
@orangeblossom5362 4 жыл бұрын
@@MeganAllen1738 hes come out as being a scammer and wearing hair extensions. Thats not even his biological daughter
@MeganAllen1738
@MeganAllen1738 4 жыл бұрын
@@orangeblossom5362 yeah, you're probably right, but her hair looks real to me. I don't care about his pumpkin nonsense though
@Kluermoi
@Kluermoi 4 жыл бұрын
If this is a weave!!! It’s a damn good one!
@jolienanoue
@jolienanoue 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 lmaoo
@OSHINISSPICY
@OSHINISSPICY 4 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo 🤣
@avionlanier5574
@avionlanier5574 4 жыл бұрын
On God tho
@shesasunshinemsp6805
@shesasunshinemsp6805 4 жыл бұрын
Not with edges like that- I'm good with my lil inches
@amahlia1632
@amahlia1632 4 жыл бұрын
😭😭
@angelab3076
@angelab3076 4 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t say we’re lazy with our hair. Compared to other races we are nowhere near lazy. We do the most. It’s that we don’t know how to take care of it properly because no one was taught because our hair has always been looked down upon so for generations people were trying to assimilate and were not told and didn’t know how to do our hair.
@moniquemonique9467
@moniquemonique9467 4 жыл бұрын
A lot of that has changed now thank God. We are learning how to take care of our hair properly. I am now seeing Black ladies with long natural hair for a change.
@Vixa_Jaz
@Vixa_Jaz 4 жыл бұрын
I’m white so I can’t relate to most of your comment but I do have curly hair. I never new my hair was curly until recently, I always thought it was just frizzy. I’m the only on in my family who has curly hair so no one taught me how to take care of it. I’m still struggling, a lot of hair products are too thick for my hair and makes it greasy and weighed down.
@shanelbryant5638
@shanelbryant5638 4 жыл бұрын
The other part is that we do the most to try to have healthy relaxed hair not realizing it would take the same (a little less for me actually) to have healthy natural hair. The time it took for me to have a touch up and blowout in the salon with a deep condition is less than it takes me to wash my hair now and put it in flat twists. Plus it’s less work Bc I’m not curling my hair every morning to hide 2” of split ends
@scott.w8938
@scott.w8938 4 жыл бұрын
Not all are, but many are. And many don't know how to/when to, and what to use. Turns out, our black hair is pretty simple to grow and maintain...it's the trying to have European hair looks that's the challenge. Crazy part is, many of them have been trying to achieve the seemingly many supernatural natural styles of black hair since forever. All hair European or not has its natural way of being. Embrace yours and let them envy and admire as it should have been in the first place before we got brainwashed thinking less of our own unique beauty and power. Slavery started with the admiration of our people, how we looked, how naturally beautiful, strong, wild and free we were, before that was stripped away mentally and spiritually, replaced with something way less threatening , by those way more sinister, afraid and insecure. It's all psychological. Please wake and arise my beautiful people. Be who the Heavenly Father meant for us to be...naturally beautiful and unique.
@bossytweed6664
@bossytweed6664 4 жыл бұрын
Lauren Ponder Same but I'm the only one in my family whose natural. Before I thought my hair would never grow past my earlobes and now after being natural since 2016, my hair is mid back. All of my family keeps asking what I do to grow my hair but when I try and teach them they get so lost lol. But its literally been decades of brainwashing and assimilating for us all so the thought of having a full on hair care routine rather than snatch their hair out with combs, throw in a relaxer, burn the hair out with heat and then some tracks seems unimaginable.
@youtubeuser4181
@youtubeuser4181 3 жыл бұрын
Guurl, preach! I love the clear and convincing way you present your arguments. Allow me to add: Healthy. Human. Hair. Grows. Period. As you touched on, retention is the key. Thank you for calling us out for being impatient and wanting an unrealistic miracle that no woman could achieve. The first problem is attitude. " If you love it, it will grow," right? I agree with you. Amen! We should not be focused on laid edges and mixed girl hair texture. Let it do what it do. (But please don't walk around looking like you just rolled out of bed. Groom and make yourself presentable.) Another problem is that natural hair has become big business. And yes, Black women are being exploited. Giving credit where credit is due, many of us have a very full plate and not a lot of extra time and money. Yet our introduction to natural hair was through KZbin or other social media where we are given the impression that we have to spend a lot of time and buy a lot of products in order to achieve hair growth. No! Look, if you have the time and the money, do your thing! If you don't, don't stress yourself out. Stick to the basics. You mentioned Black men growing locks down their back, etc. I believe their secret is that they leave their hair alone. AKA low manipulation. It does not have to be complicated! First, don't do things that you know damage your hair and dry it out. Just don't do it! Second, do keep your hair healthy. Eat right, stay hydrated, supplement your diet, exercise, (stuff you should be doing to stay healthy anyway), massage your scalp, moisturize and strengthen your hair with WATER and deep conditioners, protect it with light oils to heavy butters,(depending on your texture), and protective styles. Simple. Your hair WILL grow and not break. As for the rest of that nonsense about Euro centricity and femininity, again, I agree with you. I wish Black folk would get up out of each other's business. Stop trying to tell Black women HOW to be Black. We just are! And we are diverse and unique, with a variety of approaches. So,... mind your business, get some self-esteem, and stop feeling so threatened by everything. We're here. We ain't goin' nowhere. "God is not partial."
@youtubeuser4181
@youtubeuser4181 3 жыл бұрын
P.s. I am old enough to remember an entire a Soul Train generation of natural Black women sporting huge fros in the '60s and '70s. Hair growth was not a problem for them. My aunt, my sister and my cousin were among them. So what idiot said that we don't have the genetic predisposition to grow hair? That's just too gnorant.
@tyes1517
@tyes1517 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t know if the girls hair is real or not. But we also need to remember that curls “loosen” when your hair is very long due to the weight and the hair is wet. When I grow my hair longer my curls start to elongate especially when it’s wet because my hair gets heavy.
@juicyteavee3419
@juicyteavee3419 4 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5_Rfn-eh5Knl9U
@the_aalien9945
@the_aalien9945 4 жыл бұрын
Yessss I was waiting for someone to say this. I don't have hair nearly as long as hers buttt after watching my hair grow out a year after I started to PROPERLY take care of it it has DEFINITELY loosened because now it falls and the coils/curls are almost like "elongated" in a way? But yh
@kechiebridge4493
@kechiebridge4493 4 жыл бұрын
black women's hair can grow to whatever length. theres a true life movie l recently watched its called selfmade on netflix. at the end of the movie it showed all the real characters and my goodness their hair were incredibly long and beautiful. l cant wait for my hair to be waist length. soo tired of wearing wigs...:-)
@tianacookies7927
@tianacookies7927 4 жыл бұрын
Mine don't even produce non of that curls 😂 like tf. I struggle with hair growth but my friends cut their hair and after a year or 2 it's nearly down their butts. Genetics too matters
@honeymoon4130
@honeymoon4130 4 жыл бұрын
So true!! My hair is very curly but when it gets to my waist in length, it begins to look wavy and my curls get stretched out by the weight of my hair. Unless I wash it and style it when it’s wet, my next day hair will be wavy lol when it’s short though I have the most perfect spiral curls.
@Cece-0814
@Cece-0814 4 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry but yes you can have long hair with no edges
@chelseafcgirl123
@chelseafcgirl123 4 жыл бұрын
You are right thin edges can be genetic
@kitcowool
@kitcowool 4 жыл бұрын
Right.. idk if y’all can see my pfp (old af)?but 🙋🏽‍♀️... I definitely have mid back hair and no edges 😹. Middle part is my bff lol
@SA-nt9kl
@SA-nt9kl 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@vickylajan2657
@vickylajan2657 4 жыл бұрын
My hair is just like hers; my baby hairs is super super straight
@teemaro5703
@teemaro5703 4 жыл бұрын
I agree
@ms.beautiful
@ms.beautiful 4 жыл бұрын
🗣🗣🗣I HATE the MYTH that Black Women CANNOT grow Long Hair!!!! 🙄🙄🙄
@gcsugirl
@gcsugirl 4 жыл бұрын
Ms. Beautiful it’s not a myth for me personally. My hair is very fragile and breaks no matter what I do.
@ms.beautiful
@ms.beautiful 4 жыл бұрын
yoyo yo Have you tried Jamaican castor oil? Try that and see how your hair feels. Also, try using Aloe Vera as well. You can buy the Aloe Vera Leaf from the grocery store for $2
@gcsugirl
@gcsugirl 4 жыл бұрын
Ms. Beautiful I used my oil for my edges but I’ll try it on my hair
@ms.beautiful
@ms.beautiful 4 жыл бұрын
yoyo yo Aloe Vera Leaf has my hair feeling soft and moisturized!! Also, low manipulation styles that way your hair retains length and won’t break; since it’s fragile.
@honeybdream
@honeybdream 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Exactly! Look at the thigh length hair of KZbinr: Indigenous Strandz❣️4b/c hair
@SuperBre318
@SuperBre318 2 жыл бұрын
I loved this video. So much truth and information. I started my loc journey 7 years ago, and it made me realize I hated having my natural curly hair because I didn't know what to do with it and what products to use. Even having locs I have had to do research on what the right products are for me and my hair. Once I did that, I will forever rock my natural hair locs, short, long and curly whatever. Our hair can do WHATEVER we want it to do.
@FallnAngel07
@FallnAngel07 4 жыл бұрын
I thought Benny was cancelled after he tried to charge $400 for oils from Whole foods. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ComaLies225
@ComaLies225 4 жыл бұрын
FallnAngel07 I hope people aren’t buying into it again.
@AshleeLoveit
@AshleeLoveit 4 жыл бұрын
Wow I never heard about him.... that is so sad that he scammed people
@puterjess
@puterjess 4 жыл бұрын
ComaLies225 if you look at his insta you can see people calling him Dr and begging him to take them off the waitlist so they can order
@Darkdemonoflite
@Darkdemonoflite 4 жыл бұрын
I'm confused.... is the problem that its from Whole foods? B.c I have a bomb ass hair retention recipe that u can get everything from walmart that's not for sale. U are paying for the recipe plus the quality of the products
@puterjess
@puterjess 4 жыл бұрын
Sein Maestro he was lying about where they came from, calling them rare and that he imported them from other countries
@patriciathompson7904
@patriciathompson7904 4 жыл бұрын
Her long hair looks real to me. I see with my eyes. A true blessing from GOD.
@Anonyme67
@Anonyme67 4 жыл бұрын
So short hair are cursed of God?
@Anonyme67
@Anonyme67 4 жыл бұрын
@TatzRules Yay Learn how not to say stupid stuff
@marset.designsplus3813
@marset.designsplus3813 4 жыл бұрын
Hair ‼️😳 .... a blessing from God. Really‼️🙄. I could think of many other blessings i want from GOD. 😏
@andreat6381
@andreat6381 4 жыл бұрын
@@marset.designsplus3813 Right💯
@carrialascurry2906
@carrialascurry2906 4 жыл бұрын
You see it on a video. That is not with your own eyes. You know that technology is great. You just never know. I.hope its real.
@kelly-ann6805
@kelly-ann6805 4 жыл бұрын
My hair is nearly tailbone length but my edges aren’t very thick, but I think Benny is a scammer
@irrelevance3859
@irrelevance3859 4 жыл бұрын
He _is_ a scammer no doubt
@kitaroberson8763
@kitaroberson8763 4 жыл бұрын
Girl same. My edges have always been thinner than the rest of my hair which is bs length and thick.
@baytonadeach1928
@baytonadeach1928 3 жыл бұрын
Sister, the truth is coming from you like water 🌊 from a waterfall. Thanks for your insight and encouragement ❤️❤️!
@kims4744
@kims4744 4 жыл бұрын
My hair is so long , past the bottom of my back bra strap, “secret : wash, condition, oil, low braided ponytail, wrap the braid into a bun” and I’ve left my hair like this and alone for like 2 years lol! When people ask what I do, I tell them that I just leave it alone lol
@TheDaneyeledee
@TheDaneyeledee 3 жыл бұрын
Leaving your hair in a pulled style over and over is actually not good for your hair. It causes tension on the middle of your hair and can result in the middle of your hair being shorter than the rest.
@lingbex
@lingbex 3 жыл бұрын
Yup! Ive been on lockdown for a year. And my hair has been in 2 braids like a 6 year old for the whole time. My hair grew 7 inches. The key is to stay moisturized and leave it alone.
@sinsEthiopiagirl
@sinsEthiopiagirl 3 жыл бұрын
@@kidistashenafi9342 የሆንሽ ቡኮ ነገር ነሽ እንግሊዝኛ ስለሆነ ቀናሽ ምን ጥልቅ አርገሽ ወይ ጅንታ እና ቄሮ ሲጠግብ ከስው ጋር ስላም ጅል ነሽ ታውቂያለሽ እኛ ከማንም ጋር ፍቅር ነን እሂ ደሞ ቅናት ከሆነ ተዘቅዘቂ ቆሻሻ ቅምሽው እሽ
@kidistashenafi9342
@kidistashenafi9342 3 жыл бұрын
@@sinsEthiopiagirl አንቺ አይጥ ልስቅብሽ ብዬ ለምን ይቺ የጎጃም ፋራ ላይ ብዬ ነው የጁንታና ቄሮ ቁላ ይቀርቀርብሽ እበት ምንሽን እንድታይልሽ ነው
@Frugal637
@Frugal637 3 жыл бұрын
I grew my hair the same way. I just simply put it in a protective style under a wig and left it alone.
@princesswells9469
@princesswells9469 4 жыл бұрын
“Black women can create their own version of feminity” I LOVE that.
@denysedenyse4070
@denysedenyse4070 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I am irritated that women are STILL buying his fake BULLSHIT all over AGAIN! Like he got outed damn good. How and Why is he STILL getting customers?! 😕
@peacebalancetruth
@peacebalancetruth 4 жыл бұрын
@@denysedenyse4070 Yello!
@faygriffiths6175
@faygriffiths6175 3 жыл бұрын
It’s not genetics! He’s basically using a westernised version of chebe powder. Her hair is slightly straight because the weight of the product adds tension and basically stretches it, you can see clearly that her texture is type 4. Henna and clay does this to hair as well. Her edges are most likely thin because of the added tension this is putting on her strands. The women in Chad who use chebe have thin edges too, that’s what happens when your hair is being pulled, the weaker baby hairs won’t be able to take it but the rest of the hairs will. It’s definitely not genes, research henna on KZbin and it’s ability to bind to the keratin in our hair and basically form a permanent coating around each strand, basically protecting it from breakage and therefore providing extreme length retention. All of our hair grows, most of us just break it off at a rate even faster than it grows. Our hair strands are the most fragile of all races, but these treatments basically thicken them up and even out the playing fields. I do agree that this pumpkin product is overpriced, high quality henna works this way (active ingredients is the natural Lawson dye) and it’s £7 on Amazon (only use the organic type).
@yenvyren
@yenvyren 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@cheinei
@cheinei 3 жыл бұрын
The women in Chad purposely pull the hair from their edges. Bigger forehead is more attractive to them.
@CaitlinAneeciaCharles
@CaitlinAneeciaCharles 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou 🙏🏽🤍
@daphneycineus9796
@daphneycineus9796 3 жыл бұрын
Great answer
@blueflame4055
@blueflame4055 3 жыл бұрын
How do I find this on Amazon please?
@fastwigreviewwithlisabee8598
@fastwigreviewwithlisabee8598 2 жыл бұрын
I am sorry but that guiness high top hair growth picture almost made me fall out of my chair laughing lmao.... looking like worlds biggest pencil eraser omg lolololol
@nurse4259
@nurse4259 4 жыл бұрын
I dont understand. When I was younger my hair was super long along with my sisters. We were so poor. My momma used what she had which was cheap suave shampoo or dishwashing liquid and some cheap conditioner. Oiled our scalps with olive oil mixed in that cheap bergamot or blue magic grease. Pressed our hair and our hair grew and was super long. So all this 400 dollar products is bs. I wish to god I appreciated my hair back then.
@eliselol85
@eliselol85 4 жыл бұрын
Pardon me for asking but why is it no longer long?
@nurse4259
@nurse4259 4 жыл бұрын
@@eliselol85 I thought I was grown and start relaxing my hair behind my moms back and cut it in high school. I'm 40 now...I'm back natural and back using the cheap products which are growing my hair back like b4
@crowned_in_beauty
@crowned_in_beauty 4 жыл бұрын
I’m telling you it’s that greaseee that works magic sis !!
@2cut32handle
@2cut32handle 4 жыл бұрын
@@nurse4259 I'm relaxed but I definitely agree with you about the fact that cheap products work. When I used all those fancy oils & products, my hair broke off bad & was always DRY. Now that I have went back to just ordinary grease & water, my hair is growing so long past my boobs
@chocolatediamonds5760
@chocolatediamonds5760 4 жыл бұрын
tiffany landrum 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿right!!! Ppl don’t need all that extra crap, just common sense and back to the basics 🙄
@Bmorevee
@Bmorevee 4 жыл бұрын
Her hair looks real to me. But he's just doing what everyone else is doing. He knows black women will be obsessed with her hair length so he uses that to sell expensive products that will NOT magically make your hair grow down to your knees. It doesn't take expensive products or any specific oil, cream, etc. to grow long hair. But that's a belief amongst many black women and we spend lots of money on a magic formula that doesn't exist.
@MysCathy
@MysCathy 4 жыл бұрын
Nola Marie I agree with u 💯. I don’t see the problem with him selling his products Cos he’s not forcing anyone to buy anything.
@narrington7453
@narrington7453 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I definitely think this little girl’s hair is real. I do not believe the long length was achieved because of his products or his genetics (because this is his step daughter). He uses her to market the products, which is fine but it was discovered that some of his business practices were not exactly ethical or truthful and for that reason, I would never buy his products.
@indeeditiscirro
@indeeditiscirro 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Even the "wellness" community: saturated with pretty white girls who tell everyone that they look good because of their diet. Girls who don't store fat in their stomachs selling tummy drinks. It's not black women. It's humans
@wcallisa22
@wcallisa22 4 жыл бұрын
Nobody is questioning the child's hair growth.. .everyone is questioning daddy's fraud-isms
@FlossyMae843
@FlossyMae843 4 жыл бұрын
Okay!
@godsgood9030
@godsgood9030 4 жыл бұрын
...
@raetvnetwork
@raetvnetwork 4 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha yup!!
@SabrinaMonroee
@SabrinaMonroee 4 жыл бұрын
I am
@eleritreano7248
@eleritreano7248 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr, i believe that his hair grew that long naturally like without products
@JustCC101
@JustCC101 3 жыл бұрын
My 10 year old, who is very tall for her age, is currently at waist length (when stretched, because the shrinkage is real!) Her goal is to give Rapunzel a run for her money. I totally support her, although I am not sure who will be doing her hair when it reaches the ground. 👀 Btw, I agree that growing hair is easier than losing weight. #Goals #HairLove #SelfLove
@taitaibaby38
@taitaibaby38 4 жыл бұрын
Who can't see this child hair is real, it's coming out of her scalp.
@andieshah
@andieshah 4 жыл бұрын
I was saying........I don't know some people will look for something that isn't there and make "it" something
@bridgetcrowder2295
@bridgetcrowder2295 4 жыл бұрын
So true that's her hair
@Unseriousblkgirl
@Unseriousblkgirl 4 жыл бұрын
It has more to do with the facts that he’s scammed people with his hair growth products before and claims that’s the reason her hair is so long.
@taitaibaby38
@taitaibaby38 4 жыл бұрын
@@Unseriousblkgirl I remember that, I was commenting about the part, when people was saying that their hair wasn't real because of the scam, and believing child hair grew too fast, too be her real hair.
@krystingrant6292
@krystingrant6292 4 жыл бұрын
Anything dealing with benny Harlem with cause suspicion
@zahriarhyne5967
@zahriarhyne5967 4 жыл бұрын
Screw her hair lets talk about her skin, brah!!! her skin is gorgeous.
@Mimixorock
@Mimixorock 4 жыл бұрын
AccelGo editors do that to appeal to the human eye , most models don’t look like their pictures
@KM-nq7ez
@KM-nq7ez 4 жыл бұрын
Yes she is BEAUTIFUL
@ShyannDixon
@ShyannDixon 4 жыл бұрын
We might have the same skin routine
@ravenmcnuggets9599
@ravenmcnuggets9599 4 жыл бұрын
Even if their hair is fake what type of magical 6d weave?!?
@kelly-ann6805
@kelly-ann6805 4 жыл бұрын
Miriah McNuggets 🤣🤣🤣
@AEHudg
@AEHudg 4 жыл бұрын
Lol facts.
@shanettequao9043
@shanettequao9043 4 жыл бұрын
Miriah McNuggets right cuz I’m shocked at how it stands on its own chile
@nickisims6144
@nickisims6144 4 жыл бұрын
Lol not 6d though
@kmariamv
@kmariamv 4 жыл бұрын
Not 6d 😩😩😩😭
@aprilwycherley
@aprilwycherley 2 жыл бұрын
If that is his daughter’s hair, it’s absolutely beautiful!! Women, just take care of yourselves and be keep your hair healthy. Don’t try to overdo the length! Healthy hair is beautiful and is strong. I’ve had hair down to my knees, and in 2011, had hair down past my butt, but it’s a lot of work to take care of super long curly hair. I, myself, put color in my hair, since I’ve gotta keep my natural hair color, even tho it’s through unnatural means. I’m almost 50 and my hair keeps turning white (redheads go blond, then white, and not gray).
@gohugatree5536
@gohugatree5536 4 жыл бұрын
People obsess over loonnnggg hair until it's time to tame it or wash it.
@walterreansalley3410
@walterreansalley3410 3 жыл бұрын
go hug a tree YES!!!
@ashantizulu144
@ashantizulu144 3 жыл бұрын
🤣😂.. my hair is long natural and I’m like 😫😫😫.. so true!
@a_boss_lilly
@a_boss_lilly 3 жыл бұрын
Right cuz my shit take 5hrs to do on wash day and mine not as long as his. Mine reaches my butt.
@CelesteG26
@CelesteG26 3 жыл бұрын
😞😞🤣🤣
@SpoiledLocGurl
@SpoiledLocGurl 3 жыл бұрын
And then that shit is a nightmare. Mine isn't nearly this long but it's a pain in the ass to deal with.
@Versashija
@Versashija 3 жыл бұрын
White woman: *has long hair* People: wow so beautiful. Real life Rapunzel Black Woman: *has long hair* People: is that even your real hair? It’s weave
@alexiatherealtor
@alexiatherealtor 3 жыл бұрын
That's what black women say. No one else cares or critiques it.
@Versashija
@Versashija 3 жыл бұрын
@@alexiatherealtor okay Alexia
@alexiatherealtor
@alexiatherealtor 3 жыл бұрын
@@Versashija Never had a white person ask me if my hair is real my whole Life. White people aren’t fixated on our hair. Black people ask frequently when my hair is long. Some have even checked for tracks.
@jordanlindsey9407
@jordanlindsey9407 2 жыл бұрын
@@alexiatherealtor white people are though. You just haven’t come across them
@froggywaffles9454
@froggywaffles9454 2 жыл бұрын
and if you straighten your hair no one believes that it’s your real hair because it’s “grown.” like even if you don’t know what shrinkage is, it’s surely common sense 🤷‍♀️
@TheDKShow
@TheDKShow 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Also, He spends far too much of his time playing in that little girl’s head. He needs to let her be a kid and be around other kids. He’s pictured with the little girl more than he is pictured with her mother. Shady.
@lbu9542
@lbu9542 4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. She seems very mature for her age, but I'm not sure it's in a good way. I pray she has a real childhood.
@Artbunny87
@Artbunny87 4 жыл бұрын
She should be a teen by now....and that’s not his biological child. He came into her life at like 10 years old. Look him up. He’s a whole scammer.
@vincem2759
@vincem2759 4 жыл бұрын
Men can't even raise their daughters??? ....it's called activities. Everyone's household wasn't jaded...
@just1desi
@just1desi 4 жыл бұрын
I don't want any stepdad up in a child's hair like that to be honest. It's a little obsessive.
@vincem2759
@vincem2759 4 жыл бұрын
​@@just1desi From my understanding she was adopted by him..so who knows..even still does she look bothered? Or the mom? nope.
@sharonfelicia7045
@sharonfelicia7045 2 жыл бұрын
History also shows that many African tribes had long hair which many of them put into intricate styles. During slavery there hair was shaved or cut off to confuse tribal identification. It's a myth that black women can't grow long hair.
@ToriOfTheNile
@ToriOfTheNile 4 жыл бұрын
It seems like she just has thin edges, cause it was thin in the back too. But his products are NOT the cause in the slightest, Benny Scammer needs to go somewhere.
@soniwatts8128
@soniwatts8128 4 жыл бұрын
Facts! My sister, my mom, my daughter my nieces...lets not forget me....we were all born with a propensity for thin edges but very long hair😭. Thick 4c hair at that with edges on the thinner side. Lol we're all cursed.
@breezybritney
@breezybritney 4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad lovey ti exposed his scamming ass years ago
@chonmonlon2728
@chonmonlon2728 4 жыл бұрын
Yes i noticed that her edges are thinning. They need to stop manipulating that child's hair.
@keliniajohnson9397
@keliniajohnson9397 4 жыл бұрын
The girl has fine hair and not a lot of strands per diameter.
@springflower6412
@springflower6412 4 жыл бұрын
@@breezybritney MsArchDuchess was the first to expose him.
@MzTweetyBruce
@MzTweetyBruce 4 жыл бұрын
We never question any other race's hair length but ours. It's really sad. P. S To those who are replying "but hE's A frAuD", I get that, this isn't news to me plus, I watched the same vid as you. However, the fact still stands without this man in the equation, GENERALLY our hair is ALWAYS questioned. 😒
@vernoniqueomosanya8931
@vernoniqueomosanya8931 4 жыл бұрын
Truth💯
@GimpGirl1
@GimpGirl1 4 жыл бұрын
The reason why people are questioning him because he was exposed as a Fraud.
@librascales4767
@librascales4767 4 жыл бұрын
Te Hillâ Bruce I get asked if my hair is real all the time OR if I’m mixed. It’s annoying as hell.
@Kayla-ly8rm
@Kayla-ly8rm 4 жыл бұрын
I mean hes a fraud and it's not like Indians and asians are typically short haired naturally without excessive effort of length retention, like us of African lineage. People cant pretend the rarity of long 4c hair isnt real, but it IS, no matter what the culture is.
@librascales4767
@librascales4767 4 жыл бұрын
big mood I know for a fact Indians put effort into their hair. They love oils and utilize them. Even Indian men like to keep their hair full and dark. They don’t want to look “old”.
@JassASongbird
@JassASongbird 4 жыл бұрын
The way he keep pulling her hair just tears my nerves to pieces !!!
@Jolie19Official
@Jolie19Official 3 жыл бұрын
You’re Watching the Same Videos Over & Over. Not That He ‘Keeps’ Pulling it
@Aponi1111-e3x
@Aponi1111-e3x 3 жыл бұрын
He paid a lot for her fake hair strings by strings smdh
@DaughterOfTheKing_
@DaughterOfTheKing_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@Aponi1111-e3x that's her real hair! Black Women and girls can grow long hair. Lebron James daughter hair is past her tailbone and she's only 6 years old 🤷🏽‍♀️
@Brwngrly
@Brwngrly 3 жыл бұрын
Thought it was just me chile😭😭
@tsuyuasui7297
@tsuyuasui7297 3 жыл бұрын
@@DaughterOfTheKing_ it isn’t her real hair lmaooo, yes we can have long hair obviously, but this is obviously fake
@preciousartist964
@preciousartist964 3 жыл бұрын
True facts in this video. Based on my own knowledge, and me growing my own and daughters wooly hair, using sulfate free shampoos and deep conditioning conditioners. (Refrain completely from chemicals). When hair is still wet (don't let it dry or tangle up) adding hair food (organic hair creams, and oils (aloe, coconut, shea butter) I love to use. Then braid your hair up or twist it up with a little lock and twist gel and set. I've learned that our hair grows faster and naturally without chemicals, and with alot of conditioning, and organic hair food. But you can't add heat and stress to your hair and scalp. You also have to feed it. And when we are patience and love our hair by feeding it, it grows no matter how fine, or wooly (thick) our hair textures may. We just have to love it.
@tinamarieshort4834
@tinamarieshort4834 4 жыл бұрын
When I was in 7th grade in middle school a friend of mine myra that was mixed black & Hispanic & she had a little sister that attended the same school that year for 6th grade (both were & still are stunningly beautiful) but anyway.... besides that fact.... her little sister had never gotten her hair cut her whole life.... so when she was in 6th grade her hair was literally almost to the floor when she stood up.... and she got to the point where she was stepping on her hair when she would walk and she had to have help when she washed it when I started talking to her and asked about it the story touched my heart like nothing else has done still to this day. The Short version is her mom was diagnosed with cancer after she was born and ended up losing all her hair and she got asked what she wanted for Christmas when she was 4 and she said she wanted to give her mommy her hair and as best as her daddy could he explained the process of the company's like locks of love ect... so that day she vowed to grow her hair out really long and never cut it so she could give her mommy the most beautiful Long flowing hair she dreamed of having again because her mother had long beautiful hair that was down to her butt before she lost it so fast forward when her hair got so long she started walking on it she put it in a ponytail got it cut she cut it off right at the length her mother's hair was and did a second ponytail and cut that off proceeded to shave her head and had 2 wigs made one for her mother and one for herself so her mother wouldn't be embarrassed about wearing a wig and her dad was saving up to pay for the most luxurious realistic looking wig that was to be made by the best of the best when his daughter said that she wanted to give her mommy her hair for Christmas. Such a beautiful inspiring selfless little girl to do that for her mommy
@Imakeyouthink12
@Imakeyouthink12 4 жыл бұрын
I don't believe a word of this... mainly because she felt the need to explain that this family was mixed black and Hispanic ( which is not a race but refers to a region of the world where ancestry originate) and precisely why this was relevant kills the rest of this story. FAKE NEWS, YOU ALL. She/he volunteered this information as if to legitimize the story because said story not possible if girl was simply black, with two fully black parents. No. NO!!😕
@calebarcalebar3768
@calebarcalebar3768 4 жыл бұрын
msjacksonifuXnasty true, and how come a girl of 4 may think of growing long hair ?...
@janice184
@janice184 4 жыл бұрын
msjacksonifuXnasty i must be gullible bc i believed it 💀
@Isaac-ci5wy
@Isaac-ci5wy 4 жыл бұрын
Tina Short it's a sweet story, thanks for sharing. I'll appreciate it whether real or fake.
@lexansstories6952
@lexansstories6952 4 жыл бұрын
@@janice184 whether you believe or not it's a selfless act that was made out of pure love.
@kinkykoilykawaii
@kinkykoilykawaii 4 жыл бұрын
Once you say “It’s just hair” and groom it like it’s not a big deal, your hair will grow. The obsession with long hair, hair texture, etc. needs to stop. Sheesh
@Jael_Anna
@Jael_Anna 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@mj5885
@mj5885 4 жыл бұрын
Completely agree with this!
@hiefia8568
@hiefia8568 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. People hate to hear it when you say it's just hair. But that's a fact. Hair may have political or even cultural significance but in the end it's just hair. You don't need to prove anything to anyone regarding your hair. Instead of looking for a magic potion for hair, just leave it alone. and let it grow!
@beepink86
@beepink86 4 жыл бұрын
I've read Kathy's books and have been using her products for about 8 months now thanks to Chrissy's recommendation. I'm am definitely seeing length retention. This is the longest my hair has ever been.
@theunexpectedsmile5535
@theunexpectedsmile5535 4 жыл бұрын
Kory Kent idk why, but this had me cackling 🤣🤣🤣
@aprillouis7667
@aprillouis7667 4 жыл бұрын
@@korykent5645 😂 I am about to look up the products NEOW! 😂
@daijahfanning376
@daijahfanning376 4 жыл бұрын
Looks like I’m buying neowww
@thinkpink6796
@thinkpink6796 4 жыл бұрын
Welp. There goes my bank account
@gladysdea.corneliodk7553
@gladysdea.corneliodk7553 4 жыл бұрын
Please where do u buy this??
@PhoenixRise0101
@PhoenixRise0101 2 жыл бұрын
All we need is a good conditioner, keep it moisturized, and to leave our hair alone. It will retain it's length. We definitely have no issues growing it, unless there is a health issue involved.
@nubianqueenof3419
@nubianqueenof3419 4 жыл бұрын
It’s not Rare, my sisters have long thick hair. No chemicals. A lot of black women have long thick hair it’s just not “commercial” we don’t see anything in the media.
@luluw9640
@luluw9640 4 жыл бұрын
@ depends on where you live
@marsbarsinthestars3226
@marsbarsinthestars3226 4 жыл бұрын
@@luluw9640 well i mean its more so about the amount of black women in the world with long hair vs the others. If its a small percentage then its not a lot. Im not saying that there arent a lot bcos i dont know ppl, but
@selamberhe7055
@selamberhe7055 4 жыл бұрын
@Nubian Queen of 3. I agree with you I am from Africa Ethiopia I have long hair so do every other person in my country. To me black hair is beautiful and can grow long.
@melodysatekge8111
@melodysatekge8111 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss
@ChrissiesWay
@ChrissiesWay 4 жыл бұрын
I said it's rare for black women to have hair THIS long (to their knees) and it is. It's rare for ANY race of woman to have hair that long. Please LISTEN carefully before commenting. Thanks!
@sakura_rain4915
@sakura_rain4915 4 жыл бұрын
I hate the way he's pulling her hair
@DJSDJS08
@DJSDJS08 4 жыл бұрын
And it seems to be in that only spot... I don't believe it
@amazingsweet4125
@amazingsweet4125 4 жыл бұрын
Her hair looks fake
@user-py8zt4gi2h
@user-py8zt4gi2h 4 жыл бұрын
It gives me anxiety 😩 the way he’s pulling the hair
@kelviannaepperson3677
@kelviannaepperson3677 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah and her edges are gone. I have a cousin with no edges and they didn't come back til she took care of it
@tamikapoythress9747
@tamikapoythress9747 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Mimi4826
@Mimi4826 4 жыл бұрын
I cringed every time he pulled her hair. 😣 That’s gotta be a form of abuse because her edges were literally snatched
@Mochapufff
@Mochapufff 4 жыл бұрын
Bitch- 😂😂
@kookycoolauntkaryn5884
@kookycoolauntkaryn5884 4 жыл бұрын
That hair pulling was so harsh 😭😭💔💔
@MyneLovesYou
@MyneLovesYou 4 жыл бұрын
actually, I hoped it didn't hurt
@amiedaniel1591
@amiedaniel1591 4 жыл бұрын
I was squirming 😣
@eyedontbowlempress7643
@eyedontbowlempress7643 4 жыл бұрын
Them missing edges were/are my only concern 🤭
@theeliteclass1
@theeliteclass1 2 жыл бұрын
People of the African diaspora need to get of the mindset of saying mixed hair. Hair of African descent comes in various textures.
@pattyboggs5632
@pattyboggs5632 4 жыл бұрын
We spend way too much money on hair products. I find moisturizing your hair is the key. We need to get to know what works for our own hair. Thank you 😊
@jamielenear
@jamielenear 4 жыл бұрын
girl I'm still trying to figure that out
@kayhumph9109
@kayhumph9109 4 жыл бұрын
Aloe avocado mix don’t cost much
@AyeitsAngel
@AyeitsAngel 4 жыл бұрын
thank you
@thetongueofangels1882
@thetongueofangels1882 4 жыл бұрын
Water+ grease😝
@arianalashayslader
@arianalashayslader 3 жыл бұрын
Amen, and I know what works for my hair and keeping a ponytail in my head and keeping my hair moisturized help my hair.
@karmakameleon7118
@karmakameleon7118 4 жыл бұрын
Women in chad have long hair, but their edges are short because they don’t apply their hair product to it; plus large foreheads are a sign of beauty.
@shamere1993
@shamere1993 4 жыл бұрын
Where is Chad?
@pooh19818119
@pooh19818119 4 жыл бұрын
@@shamere1993 Africa
@shamere1993
@shamere1993 4 жыл бұрын
@@pooh19818119 thank you
@ajoaayebo6752
@ajoaayebo6752 4 жыл бұрын
They actually shave it off. Some of those Sharp edges you see is to creat a kind of receeded egde style which is appealing to them culturally.
@buffytheinternetbullyslayer
@buffytheinternetbullyslayer 4 жыл бұрын
Karma Kameleon I just wrote a post about this. I didn’t know the name of the tribe but I remember the ver long straight hair and the process the use. I think the pulling they do when applying the ingredients is what makes their hair long and straight
@CREMECRYLICS
@CREMECRYLICS 4 жыл бұрын
Y’all are tripping if you think her hair isn’t real😂 he litterally did a zoom in on her scalp
@jujubee6030
@jujubee6030 4 жыл бұрын
I'm telling you!
@h3llboyyy407
@h3llboyyy407 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'm confused now too. Are their hairs real or fake? Definitely looks real in them videos of him showin her strands and her scalp
@princesspenny6466
@princesspenny6466 4 жыл бұрын
I believe it's real too. Many people have a self hate concept. They just can't believe that black women can attain these lengths with diligence and care. They hate to also see anyone seeming to do better than them in any form. Crab in barrel mentality.
@xcelephaisxx4891
@xcelephaisxx4891 4 жыл бұрын
Princess Penny exactly!
@dashachess4204
@dashachess4204 4 жыл бұрын
@@princesspenny6466 I didn't even know it was a thing, learn something everyday
@JL-wu3fv
@JL-wu3fv 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree my young Sista. Our skin, our hair, and our features are SOOOO INCREDIBLY BEAUTIFUL, and MAGICAL!. APTTMH❤👍🔥
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