Tools - Say What We Want Instead of What We Don’t Want

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Learn to wing foil video course. These videos are designed to show you how to foil. To give you the information I wish I had when I was learning to foil. The videos show and explain each skill and maneuver needed to successfully foil.
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00:00 Introduction
00:39 Say what we want
01:06 Dating app example
01:46 Get food example
02:11 Surfing example
02:45 Figure out what I want
03:40 Ordering food analogy
04:43 If the surf sucks
05:41 Repetition and practice
06:17 Afraid to ask
07:26 Language and word choice
08:11 Getting sidetracked
09:34 Summary

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[@victoriadowns111]

You ROCK! I stumbled upon your Paddling Out Like a Pro vid (started learning to surf at 60 and SUP surf last year at 62!) which led me to your Overcoming Anxiety vid! I still struggle with anxiety going out (near drowning experience as a child) so I always tune in with the Kundalini Adi Mantra, followed by the protection mantra, Mangala Charan. Then I recite the intentions I use when doing energy healing for someone before I go out so the idea of asking for permission totally resonates with me! Thank you for putting yourself out here! Sat nam! Victoria PS. My almost 65 y/o hubby SUP surfs, foils, and wing foils so I sent him your KZbin channel!

[@HPIRacer55]

So relaxing to Listen to your voice! Love to hear more storys to learn a Little more about you. And more about How to actively make this earth a better place🤙🏼

[@tomjefferson203]

Keep doing tools!!

[@mcguliver5979]

Awesome to see a face to the kind voice. Stumbeled across your videos 2 days ago, coming from a vacation of wing foiling (now i suck al little less😄). Nice format, go on for shure !! (if you ask me😉)

[@insightaviation7445]

Awesome Clay👍❤️ I worked hard to stop shoulding on myself.. it was a game changer for my self-awareness.

[@toomaskrivonogov2055]

I want you to be yourself and make cool videos. And I really like chanterelles