Culture Shock in South Africa *No one tells you this*

[@AshleyinAfrika]

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[@taharka3897]

Question for you: When you order groceries, how do you determine you are getting the best products such as fruits, vegetables, and meat?

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[@MusehanaH]

Many people do not understand the dynamics here in South Africa...particularly the race relations. When two South Africans are having an argument about the affairs of their country, if you are an uniformed foreigner, DO NOT GET INVOLVED...They will turn on you like a swarm of bees 😂

[@lebo5281]

🤣🤣🤣🤣This is true, park our own argument and attend you real fast.

[@AshleyinAfrika]

This is the truth 😂

[@sonofsoweto]

False, I've got friends who are foreigners who speak our languages and can debate our issues. Stop the crap

[@lebo5281]

@sonofsoweto Keywords: "UNINFORMED foreigner".

[@lisemamosese2623]

It's a family matter. 😂😂

[@kholomajazztic2334]

Majority of South Africans are not originally from Joburg so during winter school breaks kids go to their villages in mostly rural parts of South Africa depending on which province one is originally from. December holidays you’d literally see less than a dozen people in your neighbourhood cause almost everyone would’ve gone home.

[@zinhle_dladla]

Villages rural pets yoo that’s rude!! Have you seen these so called rural villages look like in Limpopo and KwaZulu Natal. I guess these double story houses we see are made of mud

[@kholomajazztic2334]

@@zinhle_dladla I don’t think I’m responsible to teach you the English language but I’ll make an exception. Village and Rural are not derogatory terms. Village: a group of houses and associated buildings, larger than a hamlet and smaller than a town, situated in a rural area. Rural: in, relating to, or characteristic of the countryside rather than the town. I’m from Ga-Mphahlele, Limpopo and I live in a fairly larger house than most over-a-million rand houses in Joburg’s urban areas but that doesn’t mean my house is not in a Village!

[@Owen.zantsi]

​@@zinhle_dladlaKanti what is is supposed to say?? Ilali = village. Hayibo so touched, for ING

[@maboneleratokgosiemang2805]

This is not true. Township dwellers like us Sowetans spend our holidays in Joburg. You cant say the majority.

[@debbiearrow1334]

Yes so true

[@lesliedeneault4633]

I'm from Cape Town, we used to go to the beach, mountain climbing, biking, spend a week at our Grandmothers, picnic , drives around the Cape Peninsula, fishing with our Mom at a pond or river. We were seven kids and my mother kept us entertained every single day. Winter she would teach us to knit, crochet, we would read, draw, have all kinds of plays, craziness. Your kids will remember those things forever.

[@AshleyinAfrika]

What at mom!!!

[@spati0809]

I am South African and loved that we strive for a better South Africa. I worry though that we do not become tired fight. The corruption and lack of service delivery is our Achilles’ heel. Thanks Ashley for your positive out look though. It helps me count my blessings.

[@AshleyinAfrika]

I’m honored to…rose colored glasses and all 😊

[@francoisbezuidenhout4638]

Pity that their "people" destruct private property when they are unhappy about service delivery from the people they keep on voting for in elections though.

[@forevertheaii]

​@@AshleyinAfrikapaper towels are certainly a thing for some of us (😅I'd rather use those instead of having to use and wash the cloth ones). Camps are a thing (but usually in the suburbs and some other areas). For example, I grew up going to camps during the winter (june/july) holidays, but the camps are usually hosted by church groups or other such organizations. We also have Vacation Bible School (just a Christian based camp) in some churches, and general camps like the ones you have in America but those are rare and expensive so most children don't get to go.

[@Kusanagi7618]

​@@forevertheaiiYou must be either middle of upper class, coz us lower class prefer using dish cloth

[@rambomoore381]

What do you mean lack of service delivery?

[@bettyruthdenson]

I’m actually flying tomorrow to Johannesburg. Such a beautiful place. I wish more black Americans knew the truth about Joburg and the beautiful people. Thanks for the video!

[@AshleyinAfrika]

You're welcome, I'm glad it was helpful.

[@paintingwiththestars]

Joburg has some wonderful sights and restaurants

[@paintingwiththestars]

let me know if you'd like to be shown around

[@yassinmorgan2340]

@@paintingwiththestars LOL,stouter

[@InstigatorDJ]

Thanks for the kind words!

[@shopekassie]

Thanks Angel, you are really our South African ambassador globally. Most people talk so ill of us. 🤗💜

[@AshleyinAfrika]

Proudly 🇿🇦

[@musaamos1678]

Especially white South Africans and African nationals who have or haven't been to South Africa..

[@viviannaledi9592]

Yes this people are Angels send by God himself,, cause if we tAlk people will think we are bragging is good to hear from someone who is not from Africa.. thanks sister Ash we love you right back

[@urban_legend.]

​@@musaamos1678you mean white South Africans living abroad

[@noxzienocturnal4544]

​@@urban_legend.Even the local ones. Very sick people some of these white South Africans but there are those who really love South Africa and critique it because they know we can do better.

[@elroyswarts2337]

Your perspective on our country is always fresh, unique, positive, and optimistic. Thanks for that. As South Africans we are critical of ourselves because that is how we improve and bring about political change.

[@AshleyinAfrika]

I get that. Thank you for sharing your perspective

[@manueladevilliers5301]

I use paper towels every day. I cannot go without them. I am a South African

[@gt8509]

Camps aren't a thing because mid year break is winter for us and its cold, we don't want to be sending our kids to log cabins and have them sleep in cold halls. in Summer most people take leave so we have time to spend with the kids but there's also beach camps. A lot of us also lean on the grandparents as well, its cheaper lol. I used to go to my grandmother's every school break, even when I was in University.

[@sips.]

I just stumbled upon this and I love hearing about visitors’ perspectives of the country. Any other South African feeling heartbroken she said local flights are affordable? I was like, girl, where? The Rand needs to get its act together. 😂 Thank you for this positive review. You chose to come at the worst time, Winter season, but trust me the weather will get better around September. 💕 Camps are generally pricey, so only those with money know about them. The majority of kids just stay at home and wait for schools to reopen. June and December are the only time school holidays are long, they’re usually a week-long. Kids and teachers need a break, too. 😅

[@InstigatorDJ]

Its not the Rand that needs to get its act together. Its the thieving corru[pt ANC. But they are out of power next year. gone. 25 years is long enough.

[@angieweisswange5873]

So true. All affordable compared to high earners or with dollars but what about those of us earning less than 10grand a month and have families to support...

[@trayway9067]

im student and yes flights are definitely affordable

[@sips.]

@@trayway9067 only the privileged can say that. love that for you. 👏🏾

[@trayway9067]

im not privilege at all, R500 is not tht bad for flight@@sips.

[@chanelgodd]

Hi Ashley! When it comes to children being on school break, at least as I remember from my own childhood and what I see of parents today, it is very uncommon for parents to hire "babysitters" or send their kids to camp. Usually, the domestic worker that a family may hire to clean the house keeps an eye on the kids (not quite like a nanny in that if they are school age she doesn't play with or entertain them per se but attends to their needs) and prepares snacks and lunch before the parents come home. Domestic workers are very affordable and very beloved here in South Africa because of this very versatility. I still remember one of my family's, Linda, who made the best hot dogs for lunch and always cut them diagonally, which I thought was so cool!🌭💖 Also, it is quite customary that most household workers in SA are multidisciplinary. If you ask, many domestic workers will be happy to look after small babies AND clean the house (and they should be paid accordingly.) Gardeners too tend to be good at yard work, cleaning windows and walking pets (my sweetboi who is in doggy heaven now adored our gardener and our gardener was deeply saddened when he passed). Particularly if you have a gardener from a neighbouring Southern African country where agriculture is foundational (eg Malawi/Zambia/Zimbabwe) they prove to be very savvy at growing crops and can help you grow a vegetable garden if you ask! In conclusion, house workers are very valuable to South Africans and are willing to go above and beyond their "job descriptions" because of how desperately they want to keep their jobs; all the more reason they should be paid well and looked after as well. So if you're not hiring one, you might want to consider it to take a little stress off your own shoulders!😊💖

[@kakonthebed]

Black women in this country are by far the most oppressed group who need the most help. Especially domestic workers, they’re exploited to hell. They’re a large part of white South Africa (and some Indian households), sure, but virtually none of them are compensated for their labour the way they should be. Not being able to see your own children just to have to look after someone else’s is not a life anyone should be living.

[@clairehodgson621]

Spot on. I grew up in Jozi, and that's what happened for us during school holidays. And what still happens for my family who are still there.

[@sthe_zar6341]

We welcome your with arms wide open Ashley and your love for the beloved country came out strong from the very first time you came here.Nothing but ❤ for you and your little ones 🇿🇦.

[@AshleyinAfrika]

Ngiyabonga ❤️

[@chinweokwuasimonye8871]

Appreciate you sharing your experience in South Africa Like to visit South Africa for the experience Thanks sister Ashley

[@CharlotteMahalku]

You can take your girls skiing in Lesotho during the June holidays. Let them experience skiing in Africa 😊

[@AshleyinAfrika]

This sounds incredible! I think I absolutely will

[@nelenesmithSA]

That's been a dream but it is sooooo expensive that I'm not sure I'll ever be able to do it

[@herbshaw715]

Ford

[@lwandoh7662]

Africa as a whole is not as bad as the western media makes it to be. It will always be a shock for you guys, we live here and we love it. Enjoy and continue sharing. Visit the Free State next time

[@FritsKist]

I can see African news en docu's by internet, so I don't depend on Western media. Why than the massive immigration into Europe from Africa? Sometimes it looks like Africa here.

[@phenomenonto328]

As a South African, I enjoyed it. Makes me appreciate my country more and had me realise I have so much more of the country to explore and appreciate.

[@Jakaugagi]

When kids go for long school hols we normally take them to the village to visit our parents (grandparents). Good content.

[@AshleyinAfrika]

Thanks for sharing this, this is helpful to know.

[@MusehanaH]

...Best place to spend school holidays 😂

[@thembi9645]

Lol true, we call those from EC “Ono 10 days” 😅from Eastern Cape to Cape Town Those from Eastern Cape come to Cape Town, and visa Vesa 😅

[@kamogelo1735]

💯 😂

[@lesegomodutwane5915]

Visiting grandparents is a camp on its own.

[@napez4126]

Ashley, as a South African of Indian origin (4th generation)… we are ALL critical of our government. And we need to be so. Apartheid was beyond horrible. We have fought for this freedom and we as a nation, must aspire to hold our government to do better for our next generation. I’m so glad you like it here in SA. We’re a pretty dope place. Visit the Eastern Cape sometime🌺

[@basilisk..]

We just need a government thats not ANC, because clearly they cant be trusted 💁‍♂️

[@yolandecoetzee5283]

😮😢😂🎉😢

[@theonly6359]

Did Indians in South Africa 🇿🇦 first the apartheid government?? I thought only Africans/blacks did

[@napez4126]

@@theonly6359 didn’t get this question. Are you asking, were there Indian South Africans during apartheid? Yes there were! Indians came to South Africa around 1880-1930 and have been integral to South Africa

[@theonly6359]

@@napez4126 My question is very clear and straightforward. Did Indians 🇮🇳 fight against apartheid for ALL or they benefited from it through the apartheid hierarchical structure???

[@marvindube3572]

Ashley I absolutely loved this, every single time you talk about our(mine and yours) country/continent. I feel better about our situation. You're right we're so overcritical. Hopefully more sister like yourself coming back home can make us realise this. More light, blessings and life to you and the kids 🙏🏽♥️

[@KatoKamakazie2404]

why you such a sellout? lol suck up much? our people already do not have employment you are inviting more to come here and take more job opportunities form us? why is it ok to invite black americans but all of you have an issue when Africans come to our country? what double standard is that? I am not looking forward to an influx of Americans on my continent, once again the African and South African is going to be place last .. and you all are happy about that cause this chick is AMERICAN.. LOOK AT THEIR COUNTRY THEY ARE GOING TO BRING THAT MESS OVER HERE DO YOU WANT THAT? WE HAVE OUR OWN DAMN ISSUES THAT NEEDS TO BE SORTED FIRST! AS someone who has her own business I know how hard it is to get to that point , especially as a colored woman.. du know how small businesses gets attacked and eliminated by our govt? SARS in particular? yet these people come here take it over what about those who has been struggling for years just to get off the ground.. to just be told nah you done .. we giving it to the American.. is that fair bruh? but hey let them all come here tell me again when an American gets your job

[@sabrinamadison8769]

Amazing video Ashley, on my second week here in South Africa. All I can say is wow. I realize as long as my mind and heart are open anything is possible. South Africa has been amazing. Thank you for sharing everything

[@sandindamae.iwantmetowin5652]

Thanks my sister that you are enjoying SA….this is your HOME and we are delighted to learn that you are enjoying SA. This makes us happy as we hear these lovely stories about SA. We love you!

[@AshleyinAfrika]

I feel the same way about you 🤗

[@nkatekosiweya]

this is a very interesting perspective and somewhat valid based on the places you've visited and what you've experienced of the country. I almost reacted but then I guess everything is relative to context. In my opinion I could say SA is an underdeveloped, developing and developed country (depending on where you spend most of your time). To give a simple counter to what you mentioned about school holidays being long , I wouldn't say that is entirely true because they (public schools) mostly close for 1 and a half week to about 3 weeks at most (thats the mid year break and December holidays boosted by the number of public holidays) and if you think about it, there is actually 249 days of weekdays (365 - 104 days of the weekends - 12 public holidays = 249) and school takes up 200 -210 days (which is 80-84% of that). Look at it this way: A two-week break in March/April, A three-week holiday in June/July, A one-week break in September/October, A longer holiday of around four to five weeks in December/January. And during those breaks back then that is when kids would be more outside playing, learning and growing (mostly at no cost) but in today's world screens and likes I can understand what you are saying, keeping them entertained is now a task that parents have to be hands on about(and could be costly). ref>>> www.gov.za/about-sa/school-calendar Anyways SA represents a good balance of so many things, including cultures, If it wasn't for the political leadership issues we would easily have been a 100x better than what the country is right now(and I am hopeful we will get there still). Ultimately SA is beautiful country with great possibilities, so much potential (stemming from the beautiful visions and the challenges we have). We are grateful to have people like you who are in it to contribute and help make this country even better for the greater good of humanity. 😎😎

[@AshleyinAfrika]

Thanks for your comment

[@Dumizulu_Rain]

Wow well rounded observation and you delivered the Message in Style

[@nkatekosiweya]

@@AshleyinAfrika you are welcome 😊

[@hardgainer1840]

She mentioned camps lol

[@christinedebeer7897]

There is 4 school holidays in South Africa, the only two holidays that are a month long, is July and December. Camps for school children was a big thing when I was a child. I will definitely not get in an Uber in South Africa. Yes, South Africans are well dressed and we really love the finer things in life.❤

[@comfortosunsami7780]

Thank you Ashley for sharing positive views of South Africa. ❤

[@SonetLandman]

I think paper towels depends who you are, how you run your house. I use a lot of paper towels. I must have at least 2 rolls at all times.

[@LoganCharlesII]

This woman is so beautiful I can't stop watching her content. The beauty lured me in but the content is educating me. As a black American currently living in Atlanta, I'm interested to see how we're treated in Africa and wish success for our people who have the bravery to move abroad.

[@BatsiraiMusuka]

Just come fam. I’m a new house owner in Zimbabwe (next door to South Africa)…if you’re quick enough I’ll host you before l rent out the empty rooms 🤣😂

[@things2know699]

tell me about it i was just thinking the same thing, like "this is one beautiful human being" love the content, beautiful soul.. tshipi ke tshipi

[@omnihein9322]

Hi there, I'm South African, and I have to say, it depends on how you treat us, I'm not generalizing or anything here but please keep the common American superiority complex away, it leaves a bad taste in people's mouths. (I don't know how to explain, but a lot of Americans seem to believe that they are better than us for some *insert reason*, I've seen it from all the different types of Americans no matter which part of the country they're from or what culture they're a part of, they usually have different reasons for it, but they all come off in a similarly bad way) What I recommend is please learn about the general do's and don'ts because a lot of people seem to not do that, and then they get themselves into trouble. Also, please stay away from sensitive matters, like race and politics if it wasn't spoken to you first. And please don't generalize, not all South Africans are the same, and not all people from different cultures are the same, I can't talk for everyone but my culture's bad people fucked our rep in the ass so hard it might never recover and I'm deeply sorry for the shit they've done.

[@noxzienocturnal4544]

I can't speak for other African countries but in South Africa, you get treated like a local honestly. We're always very happy to have you guys come to Africa. What I've also noticed is that because of our histories, you guys don't have to explain much about your experiences in the US, it makes it easier to connect and understand each other.

[@layijohnson2059]

Yes her beauty drew me to her channel.

[@yo-a]

Domestic flights used to be much more affordable. They have risen by a lot over the last year or so. It would be great to see more of outside SA in your videos.

[@AshleyinAfrika]

I’ve heard this also

[@Dumizulu_Rain]

Ashley is Not only our Sister in South Africa but Africa and we value your insightful and mindful delivery of all you assimilate whilst being amongst the Majority and thought provoking in ways that will impact people on how to maneuver tactfully without fear of uncertain, we all know the is so much room to improve and one step at a time the goal will be realized come hell or high waters we as a people are driven and more so alive with so much potential and possibilities 😊

[@neomobango584]

send the kids to their grandmothers 😂😂😂😂😂😂 thats what we do

[@MusehanaH]

...the correct expression is...ship them 😂

[@AshleyinAfrika]

Perfect 😎

[@BAMBAMRSA]

The little cheer she did over the loadshedding situation 🤣 You're becoming South African🙌

[@tedxwill]

For kids camp, I recommend Sugar bay. Kids go around the Durban area to a resort/camp facility with many activities. Most kids go there especially during extended month long holidays.

[@AshleyinAfrika]

Great suggestion! Someone tagged me in a post of theirs on Instagram. My oldest is already super excited.

[@lizzydreamer6940]

Hi! I'm so glad you are enjoying our beautiful country and exploring as much as you can. South Africa really is a wonderful place with amazing people. I think we are all aware of the political issues because we have to be, because it is the only thing holding us back from being one of the best countries in the world. If you look at everything we have to offer, at how strong we are now despite all of our difficulties, we could definitely be a first-world country if our politics was sorted out. And I think all South Africans are proud of our country, and want to see it improve. I think we all see its raw potential and want to see it at its best someday. I hope you get to see as much of it as possible, and continue to be pleasantly surprised 🇿🇦

[@magwinyamangola5473]

I go to a Mega church called Christian Family Church Johannesburg in Boksburg.. Just on the 15th and 16th of June there was lots and lots of activities for teens and under.. And there's also lots of camps now and then for them.. Very safe fun educational and kids love it.. Some children even cry when it's time to go back home, that how fun it is in our church.

[@jaxuys]

Love how you captured our nuance about being self critical. Hope SA is a happy home for you!

[@leoadams2865]

Wow!! Got to take my hat off to this sister!! I’m a South African currently living in London good luck on your journey.

[@AshleyinAfrika]

Thank you so much!!

[@leoadams2865]

You Welcome,… Please take a visit to the Klien Karoo great place .

[@tula_tracey]

The delivery service sounds great in South Africa. I hope here in The Gambia they get that service

[@noxzienocturnal4544]

It is awesome, especially ones like takealot and Makro that deliver nationwide without any hassle. Grocery stores and restaurants still have areas that they don't deliver to, especially in the townships but I hope with the competition going up with the likes of Amazon coming being here, they might change their minds.

[@hendrick32]

I love this video! I visited SA years ago and said that I could live there Cape Town to be exact and yes!!! The fancy lifestyle is a great culture shock! ❤ thanks for sharing!!

[@AshleyinAfrika]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@sasbridgecloserstudent]

❤

[@intelligence5.016]

Love this! Peace, Love, and Light along your journey Ashley.

[@j96569]

Thank you for the positivity!! We have problems, but our country is amazing and our people are amazing. I don't want to live anywhere else. In so far as the holidays, I think most families try to spend the December vacation together and for the rest, the kids should just play outside and keep themselves busy😂

[@fishdawn1804]

Thanks Ashley, you always deliver a great content. Air-Link SA is more like an airbus traversing - back and forth between SA cities and that include Botswana. I’ve used it multiples times. It’s so convenient, and I love it!

[@AshleyinAfrika]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@fishdawn1804]

@@RSinclair-nb3is I travel to Gaborone most often on business-related trips and haven't had any issues regarding missing or delayed luggage. I do 2 to 3 trips a week at most, and the aircrew is always fantastic. Perhaps it's a different experience flying outside of RSA. That's my personal experience. Can you share if the reviews are from those who travel abroad or locally or both? I have noticed over time that each destination and airline may have its own unique set of challenges or strengths.

[@fishdawn1804]

@@RSinclair-nb3is You're welcome.

[@thandisilec835]

You’re right, we are passionate about the development of our beautiful country…regardless of race, all SAns are always pissed off about our government and always ready to protest. We love a good disruptive march and a national shutdown…think only second to the the French for our love of civic protests😅We have high standards for leadership, service delivery and governance and that’s something we believe most of the continent can learn from us…fight for your countries instead of running. Love my country with all its flaws and please do enjoy it whilst you’re here 🇿🇦❤️

[@Cici_mimi]

Ur not South African baby. You live there as guest.

[@thandisilec835]

@@Cici_mimi lol are you ok in your head? I’m South African AF😏

[@TendaSithole]

I grew up in Zim. I don’t know what South African school holidays are like but I went to Christian camp almost every summer. Otherwise we were at home, visited friends and made our own fun activities. Our parents really didn’t feature in the equation unless there was a planned trip. There was always a domestic employee at home if an adult was needed.

[@urban_legend.]

I LOVE MY COUNTRY 🇿🇦💪🏼

[@grumpy_me5521]

We'd go to the grandparents for the entire holiday. It was total bliss. We were kids. Adults really didn't really feature. When we got older we stayed with our grandparents half of the holiday and other half home visiting friends. The only scheduled activity would be family holiday. We were taught from an early age to keep ourselves busy. Really taught us how to be independent. I'm a stay-at-home mom now, I feel truly blessed raising my son but I can tell you that I am very grateful that my mother-in-law moved closer and my son can go spend a week with her over the holidays. Mom and dad needs a breather sometimes. I really enjoyed your perspective. What I love most about South Africa and South Africans are our humour. It can be the worst situation and we can poke fun at it, make the best of the situation and carry on.

[@KiKat373]

Lol in my experience, school holidays you either get shipped off to a family member somewhere for a visit, or you stay at home. US Summer break is much longer but obviously they have summer school and stuff.

[@tsheponcamane2018]

Thank You for giving SOUTH African men a great review ☺️... We contently hear how bad and trash we are, even when most of us are ally to women equality and gender parity in the workspaces and elsewhere. There other aspects of our African ways that we wish to keep without being viewed as being backwards, things such as being a head of the household, provider, protector and so on Sorry for digressing, just wanted to SAY THANKS FOR THAT COMMENT

[@christinedebeer7897]

I still see the men as the head of the household, and the soul provider. It’s just the way I was raised.

[@tsheponcamane2018]

@@christinedebeer7897 There has been such a heavy push back to this way of setup in the household, recently

[@tsheponcamane2018]

@@RSinclair-nb3is I understand all that and I supporting it being exposed, dealt with and brought to an end. I think it is a collusion between the outspoken modern women nature(which I have no issues with whatsoever, myself) and the conservative views gender roles. At it, my issue is the bundling all men into one thing and trash naming us all, it makes it a bit harder to be an ally for these issues

[@missmellowood]

I've noticed that in the last few years a lot of the charismatic and traditional churches have holiday programmes for kids that run during school holidays, and there are a few baking and art classes here and there. But you have a point that there's a need for structure and the information should be easily available.

[@DanielleBryce20]

Answering as a South African who recently moved to the United States I think it differs per household ,we use a lot of paper towels at home I think the Ubers this side are so much more expensive 😭and depending on what State you’re in ,it’s hard to get Public transport so a licence is a must.Most kids here start working on their licence and learners permit at 15,16 When it comes to the weather I wasn’t surprised by the snow and cold because I went to boarding school in Free State and it gets freezing cold that side but I was surprised by how hot it is here and very humid…like you’d open the door only for hot air to blow into the house 😭plus since most of the houses aren’t made from brick ,it gets really hot With Camps ,most schools host camps ,I used to go camping a lot but true they don’t have the summer break camps like here ,my little brother goes to summer camp everyday it’s almost like he’s still at school during summer break Regarding stuff to do ,that’s true . I found that most activities are easier to access in SA for example I enjoy ice skating …in SA the rink opens every day unless they have events but here the rink opens some times and is mostly accessible for Hokey players 😭or the activities are just too far but Boston has some really nice stuff to do especially if you look around plus it’s filled with students so it’s more lively There are things that are I find really convenient here I like how they have a lot of drive throughs ,pharmacies ,food ,ATM and the gas stations are self service…I like these kinds of stuff cause I’m not into the whole interacting with people thing 😂also the working hours here are so flexible and jobs are accessible to everyone and they even train you before any job so it’s easy to get a job Both countries are really great

[@JOBEEHUSTLER]

Thank you.

[@oceejekwam6829]

South Africa has developed societies in select locations, in general their infrastructure is a lot better than the rest of the continent. So it shouldn't be surprising for anyone who travels from a developed country. Africa is advancing, even if it's only in a few locations, things are moving...

[@clmk28]

A great activity in April is sailing camp in Cape Town, I enrolled my son there a few years ago and it was great.

[@Naledi_22]

HUGE HUGE HUGE business opportunity , for people interested in doing something with kids. Plus these days we have an emerging middle class where black people have some money to spend on their kids for entertainment.

[@AshleyinAfrika]

It’s a huge opportunity Naledi!!

[@arresteddevelopment2158]

South Africa has good universities too; Stellenbosch, Cape Town, etc

[@im_lunga]

4:14 we don’t have an array of camp choices, but I do suggest Sugar Bay Camp. It’s quite safe and has a variety of fun activities…

[@arresteddevelopment2158]

What I said about moving to Ghana also holds true here in South Africa. Also Namibia, Botswana etc

[@JustFluffyQuiltingYarnCrafts]

Thank you, Ashley. I appreciate the update. ❤

[@yveletsoalo5343]

I dig everything about you. Single mom as well getting back into things, enjoying my kids and trying to make this paper + working on additional income for lifestyle& dope qualityof life. Girl you inspire me to the core....keep up the excellent work my dear Ashley, the mom and killing it, the boss & global citizens...❤

[@AshleyinAfrika]

Thank you, I am equally inspired by you

[@Mlm332]

It's only the June and December breaks that are long. The black experience is such that we'd get sent to spend those weeks with our grandparents back home (in whichever province we come from).

[@AshleyinAfrika]

Love to hear this ❤️

[@mabosigomolamu9850]

That depends if you go to private or public schools

[@Mbalings]

Our winter is getting colder and colder every year 😭 experiencing 7°C for the first time in my village tonight. School holidays? The kids visit maternal granny, then paternal, then Aunt, then last week at home 😫 I'm sorry you don't have all of those family members here 🫂 The kids rest, they play, they FINISH Groceries etc. Enjoyed vid Beautiful Queen, warmed my heart 🫶🏾🇿🇦

[@pieterlindeque7798]

We had snow in Mpumalanga I've never seen before in 31 years it's crazy

[@wagee8]

Something to consider when spending, the cost of living between the two countries may blur the true cost of spending in SA. Awesome to hear honest opinion on an African country that has such negative perspective in the media especially western media.

[@edwinawedderburn3194]

It's so refreshing to hear the positives coming out of any country in Africa. Most of the time the focus is on negativity so the narrative is skewed. Really appreciate the information. No place on earth is only a single story.

[@oratilebodibe4847]

True SA in general love luxury and high end lifestyle.

[@koketsomogwera8265]

We send the kids to the Grannies in the villages🙈. Some churches also run programmes during the winter (June/July) holidays.

[@jean-ronytoussaint7233]

Hello Ashley, I love your informational blog. I would like to visit Africa one day.

[@RonaldoDaniels-g7l]

Really like your review of your experience of Johannesburg/ South Africa. Again we are a country with diverse cultures. Everyone as beautiful and amazing as the next. I would like to see some of your interesting/ "not quite what you like" experiences too. Again really liked this review. South Africans still experiences disparity but we have commonalities like experiences in local and international economic socio-challenges. Though.... you have to admit, South African Food is just on another level 😏. Im South African and I still love experiencing new dishes from different cultures and the traditions behind each of them. ❤❤❤

[@EricKgetshepe]

When u travel to Johannesburg u must not wear your clothes. Wear overall is like Lagos in nagiria dumping area is all over inside of the town

[@lo6291]

The kids go and visit gogo (grandma) or other relatives when they are on a break. If you still family in the rural village, they go there and spend their holidays. We used to do this when I was a kid and it was awesome. All the cousins together.

[@nelenesmithSA]

We didn't grow up rich so my parents used to take us camping every holiday. That way we got to see South Africa. It also gives you more money to spend on activities around the camping area. Winter holidays we went to places like Pilanesburg, Dikololo..somewhere in the bush where we could see game or go for walks in the bush. In April we would go camping in Mozambique and in Dec we would camp close to beaches or water resorts. The campsites are usually situated around the same areas where you will find chalets..we just didn't spend much on accommodation but still got to experience the same activities and sights.

[@CourageMK]

We send kids to the grandparents during holidays, as a lot of people in the City actually come from rural areas where their parents still live in, so holidays are an opportunity for kids spend time with their relatives back "home". To see the natural beauty , you really need go visit Mpumalanga province, you will see: God's window, Kruger national park, Sudwala caves, Burkluck potholes, macmac pools, macmac falls, etc

[@ndumisomamonga591]

Been watching a hell lot of videos bashing this beautiful country. Nice to hear something positive; kudos. Hope you enjoy your time in this country of warrior's.

[@AshleyinAfrika]

I am!

[@tangiemo]

Hello Ashley! My daughter and family (husband, in-laws and grandchildren) are in the process of moving to Tanzania very soon and I appreciate you and your platform. You bring peace and joy to my spirit with with your videos, because although I’m excited for her I’m already missing them. And if I’m being completely honest I’m a tad nervous 😊. And I’m thrilled to say that I’ll be visiting frequently! You give valuable insight and perspectives, so Thank you, keep us informed and God bless you🙏🏾💕

[@AshleyinAfrika]

Thank you so much. Your family is laying a path for you to also experience the peace in Africa as well. You are very welcome

[@Ntombi_Red]

Your family will be fine, if anything they'll be at peace. Who knows, you might end up loving it too and moving in with them😅

[@jeremydeysel2184]

Just came across your channel Ashley...good insights

[@SDav21]

On the school break thing.... We always went camping. There's plenty camping places on the outskirts of Joburg or just shortly out. It's like mini vacations before the year end big summer break/holidays. Now one thing to note that I've noticed as a South African is that black people don't camp. It's mostly white Afrikaans people and coloured people. So it also depends on who you talk to and mostly hang out with. My family are avid campers lol. I'm also assuming camping means like in tents, caravans etc. There's such wonderful places not far from Joburg with pools and water parks etc.

[@Simplygaiia]

You are a breath of fresh air , so point of correction not all school holidays are a month long only June and December are a month

[@sandrasgotvoice]

I've been getting my groceries delivered for years; my time is more valuable then the cost of the delivery service. Only think I miss is picking out my own vegetables, but my shopper does a great job. Just a part of living a life of ease. 😉 Love hearing the cultural differences. By the way, if someone hits the "Do not make subscriptions visible publicly", they will not show up as a subscriber to you, although they really are. I subscribed when you started in TZ. Thank you Ashley!

[@AshleyinAfrika]

Great point. Thanks Sandra 😉

[@meenanaicker8999]

Hi sis.. How are you 😊

[@SabzKhumalo]

When we were young we would play many township games in the streets. There is also some events happening if you sign up your children for traditional dance. But that was for gautengalings. Most went back home.

[@gadijapetker1774]

Also, I felt your joy as you explained the June 16 visit to Soweto. That was great. South Africans are a people who have risen from the ashes of apartheid. Plus, the public holiday aids in us... bonding with loved ones and our "people". ❤

[@Annik_Tenacious_Felis]

Its always great when someone new learns about our country and talk about it with so much interest and respect , We really love it when people take interest and spread the beauty of the country to others to enjoy . Thankyou so much for making these videos , Baie Dankie 💜

[@tozamilefunani]

We used to have Boy/girl Scouts when we were younger but now I’m not sure if they’re still there…

[@lifestylepretoria9181]

Ashley, for school holidays we get a helper/nanny to look after the children if we can't take them to their grandparents or afford a holiday. Helpers are truly helpful 🥰

[@AshleyinAfrika]

This is a great luxury to have

[@ElizeEspin]

I think there's only two breaks that a month long. Winter break and December. We are very excited when they go back to school because they work on our nerves for all that time 😅

[@michaelmkwedi3502]

I just love Ashley so much, she's so gracious.

[@khomole]

I'm south African so please don't forget to check a Province called limpopo where you will find people of peace and kindness the bapedi tribe. South African is not only cape town, Johannesburg and durban those are just modernized south Africa.

[@AshleyinAfrika]

I can’t wait to visit Limpopo

[@missgugz]

I appreciate how delicate you are in your delivery of your experience, it seems like you are willing to learn more about where you are without trying to impose what you are more accustomed to. You are so open to the experience, it's a very refreshing take. I subscribed just for that.

[@rosebellankwanyana5014]

There are camping retreats that happen around the country but most during spring and it's a group thing instead of individual camping

[@laurachelini1891]

You should try to visit Umghlana Rocks during the summer holidays. Beautiful beaches, lots of coffee shops and restaurants and a huge mall with lots of shopping and entertainment. The village part of Umhlanga is walkable, so you don't need a car, but all other attractions are close by. It does however get very busy in season since half of Gauteng decamps to the seaside during the summer and Christmas holidays. ( southern hemisphere ~ summer Christmas 😉)

[@happymahlanza4696]

Welcome to South Africa my sister Ashley. I love your work, bringing awareness to our brothers & sisters in the diaspora. Tell them we need their skills & exposure. Please ask them to establish more platforms, especially black sponsorship on talent; business; practical skils; & technological skills. Inform them that what they get free in America espcially on the technology & internet side; we get them at a great cost or they are blocked for South Africans. We need a real true eye that also discloses our miseries embedded in our disadvantaged history; & the current geopolitical oppressed state of affairs. Thank you for expose our good & glomerous side, but please kick start the initiative platform of help from our diaspora brothers & sister, for our survival depends on their true understanding of our difficulties. Tell them we love them. I also love you & you work. What you just started is very powerful, you must never stop it. What you do is opening the Iron Curtain to the other side. Thank you so much❤❤❤. We need much more black people like you from the diaspora to invest on this blocked; purposefully stagnated side.With ❤❤❤ Happy.

[@claudialiebenberg9740]

Really enjoyed hearing you share positive aspects. It's an exciting time to live here 🙏🏼❤️😎

[@muanoquinton8692]

School breaks are not always a month long. Just in june and december. March and August are shorter. I think its like a week or so in August and maybe 3 weeks in March. More or less

[@tipsonet]

Thank you! We're South Africans..

[@tshepisomoqobane8759]

What do we do with our children during the holidays 🤔 we take them to their grandparents😅 because it takes a village to.... But on a serious note, im in agreement with you that there is a business opportunity for holiday camps ❤

[@unHingedBaddie]

The summer camps business thing could work but consider the fact that many might not go because South Africans typically have big families so the children would visit their relatives typically in rural areas during school holidays.

[@asadelmalikphd]

Enjoying this video

[@FireflySA]

Please come visit Mpumalanga Province ❤

[@Afrosoil11]

Kids camps happen , mostly in churches. However they have declined. Most holidays are about visiting relatives.

[@carolmgoza]

There’s summer camps here in the coast for kids @sugarbay in KZN.

[@biteyrankles138]

Kids have grannies in South Africa. Most leave their children to be raised by their parents in a cultural environment in rural areas while parents are working in cities, sending money home. Kids living with parents are left in the care of child minders, family, friends... Yes, we do need camps but we are super protective of our children at the same time.

[@gapeach14]

A lot of Black Americans call their grandmothers or great grandmother granny too lol

[@biteyrankles138]

@@gapeach14 All races in South Africa calls them Granny if they are English speaking. We have 11 official languages though 🤣🤣

[@WitsandPoshpackers]

Great content Ashley. Afrika sure does have such huge potential and wonderful people. If we all work together great things can be achieved.

[@jamesstewart4402]

Thanks Ashley, really enjoyed this video. I came to SA 30+ years ago from the UK, and made it my home.

[@melanievanvuuren1442]

Welkom to our Country. Love Melanie from Fouriesnurg Free State. South Africa. ❤